I'm gonna say what's not been said... They know us girls have what we have they don't need proof, all that bad attention brings heartache and nothing that you want.
Thank you for this. As a young girl that has been struggling with drawing the line, it was encouraging to here a guy say, "If you're not getting noticed as much as other girls, keep it up."
These girls need their fathers to check their wardrobes. If he is a godly father he can be the best judge! TIGHT tops and SHORT shorts are what they are complaining about. I had a teacher tell us once (which I think is the best statement EVER)... WOULD YOU WEAR THAT IS JESUS WAS YOUR ESCORT? Look in the mirror..if you are checking out how your bust and butt look (how tight it fits) and you like it.... Maybe you need to change outfits! THEN go to the LORD about it!
The Bible says that women were created to be the "helpmeet" for a man. We are to adorn ourselves in a modest way as to not tempt the lustful behaviors of a man. God created us to be attracted to one another with the purpose of intamacy in a marriage. Ladies - you can still be beautiful without showing off your body. If you are looking for real love, not lust, show him your beauty from the inside out, not by luring him in by your body.
"classy's not about what she dresses like or what she wears, but who she is." then it shouldn't matter if she's dresses 'modestly' or 'immodestly' .. these guys constantly contradict themselves by making blanket statements about the characters of women who dress immodestly .. but then if they dress modestly it's 'not about the way they look'.............
Cleavage of any kind becomes a focal point. If a skirt is real short I am only thinking of one thing. Even if a woman is incredibly attractive I won't focus much on their face or hear a word.
Its either Dinner, date, movie, walk on the beach, dessert, a play, maybe a nightcap followed by returned calls, another date, ect... or Dinner to Dirty Dirty and maybe a return call occassionally when a certain need arises. Immodest got 1or2 nights, 1dinner,married or not. Pigs play in sty's together
Wow, this is so great to hear guys who obviously aren't personally conservative share their thoughts on this. Just normal guys with above average standards. So encouraging!
At 1:33 this guy is talking about how girls should dress modestly and he's wearing a cuff off shirt, and ladies like biceps... Maybe he should follow his own rules...
a few of these guys sound like they have no control, like seeing a girl's collar bone will give them an erection. I am a Christian and I dress in well fitted, flattering clothing that make ME feel good. I don't dress for men, which I think too many girls do and makes a world of difference. The outside is only one part of the tale; get to know the whole person before judging them on something as trivial as the length of their shorts.And if you don't want to see it, close your eyes
@Bebs1675 ROFL women dont' wear tight clothes to feel good, the reason why it's "flattering" it's because it improves the already curvy-looking body of a woman-----DUH you are flattering your curves by making them more obvious, hence more eye-catching, hence drawing more attention to your tits. christian my ass. xD
they all give me the impression that they are all religious christians. I dress pretty modestly but seriously, sometimes girls do it for confidence. And guys always says that confident is sexy
All these guys are shallow, how about none of yall are worth my damn time. Look at adrian lima she's a victoria secret angel, who's catholic she waited until marriage. Ladies you can be sexy with brains. You can wear a bikini and be respected. Just like men do.
@GeneVarsity at least there being honest if any man you've been with or around would be completely honest youd probably hear worse things especially if it were coming out of the mouths of men who have no ties to Christ.
I'm surprised that guys' idea of modesty is more strict than my idea of modesty. Definitely things to keep in mind. Thank you very much for this candid talk!
This was a very helpful video - the big portion I saw before my ipod froze :D I'm trying to saturate my brain with messages like this to show myself how important it is. I'm stubborn is the problem haha
GREAT video!! Thanks for this.... will be using this for our girls in our youth group!! (oh, and my 19 year old single modest niece thinks these guys are cute!! haha)
Dressing immodest, doesn't have to mean, you do it to show of, for guys/girls, eaven though, it might come of that way. It could just mean, you dress for comfort, in the boiling heat.
@iDreamOfJulia haha thank you for agreeing! lol i think that this guy prob just got all self-important on himself and tried to act like he had something good to say LOL!
thank you ....i needed to hear this..because at church....the girls wearing tube tops and short short skirts seem to be getting more looks than the girls who are more covered up.
@gipperwood Their pastor nmeeds to tell them they need to put on more clothes before they come back. This is sin and distracts people from the worship service. By their dress, they're really saying, "Let's not worship God! Instead worship me, guys!"
i feel like many people are misinterpreting this video. The boys are not saying it is the girls fault they sleep around and what not. They are trying to avoid having lustful and inappropriate thoughts toward them (which the Bible says is a sin), but it is hard when girls show off as much as they do. This video is...
...addressed to Christian women who are trying to help them not sin. Now if one of them went off with some hooker then it is totally their fault. Their actions they can control, but they are trying to explain that it is harder to control their mind.
I have NEVER heard guys talk like this! I think it is wonderful! You are very encouraging to young women. I myself dress modest and wear extremely little to NO makeup. I wear alot of skirts and dresses too. I think it is very important and makes all the difference. But you are right....it takes far far longer for a modest girl to find a boyfriend. I encourage all young women to dress they way they know they should. Thank you for saying this to the world ! Young women NEED to hear this
lol soz but i totally disagree with the guy in the green top. girls who dress modestly aren't needy - what the hell? seriously! just because she respects that her body is the Lord's and not for the whole world to see does not mean that she is needy! far out
@uksha He said, "Girls who dress immodestly seem really needy." The camera quality isn't the best, but if you go back, it's obvious that it's "immodestly". Also, I don't think that they would have allowed such a huge contradiction in there.lol His friends probably would have called him out. Come on, people.
Oh my gosh guys! I wear tight clothes & I have lots of tattoos - I have a wonderful boyfriend who loves and respects me for my personality and my intelligence.
I find it way more offensive when guys walk around with no shirt on.
I'm a nice, honest, respectable girl with a big personality and I would feel like a phony in a turtleneck and khakis.
So instead of judging just like what you like and don't hate on the rest. You all seem sweet, but it's not our fault if you get a boner too easily.
just to put it out there I know different people consider different things modest. my limits are shorts to the knee and a t-shirt. anything more revealing than that is grey area to me and personal to anyone else. girls who don't care what guys think aren't helping anyone, including themselves. guys are looking for girls who care about what they think and 99.9% of girls want to know that a man thinks about more than anatomy most of the time. so just try to help us out by not leading us there.
Guess what? It's not my fault if you're "distracted", and I'm not going to inconvenience myself in order not to "tempt" you.
Going by this logic, a woman is responsible for harassment or even molestation because of what they wear, because it "tempts" the men. I WILL WEAR WHAT I FUCKING WANT, thank you. If you want to judge me for what I wear, cool, remind me to avoid you.
If in order to be modest you must find a way to not stimulate us at all, you will either A) fail, or B) succeed. And if you succeed completely, it will be worse for you. I have not pursued girls who in the name of modesty looked so unattractive as to remove them from my consideration, and that is the extreme you have to go to if you do not want to stimulate us. God designed us to pursue women we found attractive, and that means the whole deal. I would recommend being less concerned with how
@danielnoa1 much leg is showing, and more with the general image you are conveying. You do not want to be perceived as a slut, but there is alot more to that than simply wearing certain clothes. And I promise you, if you want to marry a man of passion and interest, you do not want to look unattractive. Don't overcompensate. And don't be afraid to tell immature men "no."
so the fat guy wants girls to dress a certain way but him taking care of his appearance is probably out of the question? The thing with this video is these guys are telling you girls its not their fault if they go sleeping around with other girls. They're blaming you and you girls are agreeing. To each his (or her in this case) own.
what's wrong with the the way that boy looked? who said the guys wouldn't change their appearance if they were asked? WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT SLEEPING AROUND? These guys didn't deny that they also had a responsibility to control their thoughts, but none of that was the main focus of this video. When did these guys blame the girls. It's not their fault unless they are doing it on purpose to try to tempt the guys. It's obvious that the guys are trying to help the girls not blame them.
thank you guys, I personally never wear shorts, or strapless, or nothing that shows my neck too low, and I live in a hot place.
But I wear kind of tight jeans, not like too tight, but not loose either, honestly you cant find loose jeans, and if you wear one, it looks manly, so, what can I do??
How do you find collar bones and shoulders sexy? I'm all for dressing like someone who wants to respect themselves, but I just don't see how someone could look easy for showing their shoulders.
@0china0cat0sunflower you'd be surprised what guys can find "sexy." I mean, you would really be surprised.
You do what your conscience allows you to, Rom 14:22, but, a mature person also "bears the infirmities of the weak," (Rom 15:1) and tries not to "put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way." (Rom 14:13)
If there is something u know is a problem, then it's easy to avoid. Otherwise, maybe u should ask ur relatives or close male friends how it affects them.
thank you guys so much...this message needs to be spread out to ALL girls...they need to hear it...we don't understand or really believe it until we hear it straight from the guys themselves. encourage ur friends to think the same, and we'll encourage our friends to dress modestly as well.
Thank you so much! I was feeling a little sad because my friend is slowly dressing less and less modest, and this really made me know that I'm making the right decision about dressing modest!
what about the way guys dress?No one wants a slob!!Loook at the guy with hair on his face and on his neck gross!!This makes me ill these are the same guys that point out these things and are the same dudes that probably have porn mags under their beds!
This day we've lost the value of what a woman is supposed to be, a queen, respected & defined by her creator. The world acts like all we are is just sexy things. God made us as more than that beautiful because of our hearts. Dress modest & command others to treat you with true respect. If you agree please join our facebook group: Gods True Beauty: Grace, Truth & Purity Revolution and help us change the world with Gods definition of true beauty. God bless love Rasmi.
Hey....I thought this was great. Really encouraging and made me remember why it is so important that I watch what i wear. I think a lot of girls just don't think about how what they wear will affect guys.
From my experience, most guys I've known DON"T mind looking at girls dressed like sluts, but they are not going to date her. Also, most guys don't think that gilrs have to wear turtle necks. I think this video has some kind of bias. However, most guys are open to the slut for a one night stand, OR the smart, interesting gilr for a relationship. Also girls, make sure the guy knows to let you call the shots on how fast you move, because there is no such thing as 'too slow' for them.There you go.
This was an amazing video. You offered some really godly insight on how we look when we dress like that, and what exactly turns you guys on so we need to avoid. You are also very encouraging as to the fact that there are still guys like you out there who really do care about this sort of thing. God Bless You.
Islam is the belief that there is only One God, whose proper name is Allah, which means the God. Islam is the same message given to all the prophets, from Adam, Noah, Moses, Abraham, Jesus, and finally to the Prophet Muhammad, the last messenger (peace and blessings be upon them). They all brought the same message: worship only God, and stop worshipping human beings and their ideas.Read the Quran please!
I loved your guys' honesty in this! A lot of the time us girls don't realize HOW different guys' minds are and how we're wired differently. Thanks for the insight & advice!
Thank you for your encouragements. I will endeavor to fight the good fight and dress modestly because it is loving to do so. Thanks again for this wonderful and uplifting video.
So women have to cover up because men are weak? Maybe they should focus more on self control than telling us what to wear... free will and all that. I dress modestly by personal choice, but I defy anyone to TELL me what to wear because it's never worked yet!
I have watched a TONNE of 'modest dress' videos on YouTube but this is best on I've seen. Thank you so much for this video, FUNNY and educational all at the same time! The guys just say it how it is, thats what us girls want (or in some cases don''t want) to hear. Keep up the fantastic work :D :D :D
girls think heart, but guys think sex. so if you want the guys to think heart, then cover your beauty from their sight then they start talking to you thinking heart not bed. that is what these guys are saying in a nut shell. its not their fault and girls have to be aware of this. Dont say its his fault he broke ur heart, coz he wasnt thinking about your heart. modesty rocks
you guys have spoke the truth many ppl are afraid to speak the truth espacial western ppl ....i love you guys for the sake of god and for speaking the truth keep on hanging on the good work
i can tell you're religeous, are you saying the only way you ccan controll yourselfl is if women cover their HOT bodies, - THATS NOT CONTROLLING YOURSELF, THATS CONTROLLING WOMEN !
The guy at 5:15 throws almost 150 years of Women's rights movements out the window. Let me guess, you don't want to hear your girl speak unless she's spoken to? I get modesty. I dress modestly. But that's because I choose to, not because some guy wants me to. If he doesn't want to see my legs when I'm in gym class he can just look away.
i'm non-religious but would like to say women should dress as they please and if you can't control your instincts go to an underdeveloped country where women are humiliated for showing an elbow.. there's more to women then appearance, they conform just like everyone trying to look "ghetto"- no hate, just frustration Peace
Wow Meagan!! Awesome video...such awesome guys...for once i see a couple of mature guys...love the "Ben" guy..lol...he's so straight forward n humorous...the guy in pink with the blue shirt is sweet too...i totally agree with wat they all say!!!
This was very interesting. Thank you for posting this - it's good to hear things stright from the guys' perspective. I agree, and encourage girls to listen to this.
The hugs thing gets me, though..because I love hugs, and frontal hugs. : / oh well.
I found to be modest but still have fun with style is I layer like everything, but I just wanna say that this is great and all, but it seems that all this is thrown out the window when you go to the local pool.
i wish all gurlz strat thinking if anyone worth to let them wear unrespectful clothes just to be attractive !! to me , no one worth that !! NO ONE , i never let anyone feel im attractive coz of my body but my personalty and who i am !! thats how i used to look to myslefe !!
Awesome-i will admit i am just started to tone down, but im getting there-i threw out some clothing but this video is great, And 2b so young you guys are very mature and honest-you could teach the older ones a thing or two lol God Bless!
wow!!! THIS IS THE MOST AMAZING VIDEO ON EARTH!!! good job guys, seriously WAY TO GOOOOO! THANKS for encouraging girls and i hope we dont dissapoint you :)
yall are officially my favorite guys in the whole world :D that was such an encouragement! It helps to know what yall really consider modest. Thank you for making a video about it!!!! I love yall 2!!!! :D
i really want to say thanks so much for making this video for girls they feel to be beautiful we hav to dress to impress but u guys really opened my eyes and at my skool we r doing a purity unit and im sending this to my Bible teacher to use again thanks and GOD BLESS YOU!!
oh come on why would i get a thumbs down for that? It just my own personel taste. And no it dosntr make me homo sexual. I am only attracted to girls but not like that. I have no sexual atrations of any kind But thats just me thats all. What is good for you is good and what is good formeme is fine as well.:)
see thats the difference between muslim girls and non-muslim girls
muslims girls cover them selfs properly and non-muslims girls like to show off show off everything what happened to them who are they trying to impress
Oh my gosh. thank you so so so much for saying that. usually you hear it from like mothers or other people that you really don't believe it from. so thank you for letting us know all that. it's reallly appreciated!!!! :)
Thank you so much for your video. It is nice to see there are guys out there who are willing to speak out on it. As a young mother of 5 kids. (im 28) I am trying to teach my 4 oldest munchkins how to dress modestly. Again thank you!!!
I'm gonna say what's not been said... They know us girls have what we have they don't need proof, all that bad attention brings heartache and nothing that you want.
I wish more guys like you lived in my town
seattlelights206 2 weeks ago
Thank you for this. As a young girl that has been struggling with drawing the line, it was encouraging to here a guy say, "If you're not getting noticed as much as other girls, keep it up."
LachelleBall94 3 weeks ago
These girls need their fathers to check their wardrobes. If he is a godly father he can be the best judge! TIGHT tops and SHORT shorts are what they are complaining about. I had a teacher tell us once (which I think is the best statement EVER)... WOULD YOU WEAR THAT IS JESUS WAS YOUR ESCORT? Look in the mirror..if you are checking out how your bust and butt look (how tight it fits) and you like it.... Maybe you need to change outfits! THEN go to the LORD about it!
1of650 1 month ago
The Bible says that women were created to be the "helpmeet" for a man. We are to adorn ourselves in a modest way as to not tempt the lustful behaviors of a man. God created us to be attracted to one another with the purpose of intamacy in a marriage. Ladies - you can still be beautiful without showing off your body. If you are looking for real love, not lust, show him your beauty from the inside out, not by luring him in by your body.
andreaanddavidray 1 month ago
"classy's not about what she dresses like or what she wears, but who she is." then it shouldn't matter if she's dresses 'modestly' or 'immodestly' .. these guys constantly contradict themselves by making blanket statements about the characters of women who dress immodestly .. but then if they dress modestly it's 'not about the way they look'.............
BootyBallerina 1 month ago
You guys are crazy!!! I can't wear shorts and a tank top? Even my school let's me wear that. I think that's modest as long as you don't go overboard
Mariahchannel5432109 1 month ago
Why don't you guys take responsibility for your actions and thoughts and not blame someone else for your depravity.
PunkJohnnyCash 2 months ago
Love this video! Gotta live the guy in the white and blue polo.. He seems soo wise! :)
mjs0427 2 months ago
Cleavage of any kind becomes a focal point. If a skirt is real short I am only thinking of one thing. Even if a woman is incredibly attractive I won't focus much on their face or hear a word.
Its either Dinner, date, movie, walk on the beach, dessert, a play, maybe a nightcap followed by returned calls, another date, ect... or Dinner to Dirty Dirty and maybe a return call occassionally when a certain need arises. Immodest got 1or2 nights, 1dinner,married or not. Pigs play in sty's together
rreed87139 3 months ago
You guys are awesome!!!!!!!!!!
arcadegamer117 3 months ago
Love this video!!!!!!!!!!!!!
arcadegamer117 3 months ago
Awesome you guys are amazing!!! I want to cry right now!!!!! There is still hope!!!!!!
arcadegamer117 3 months ago
Wow, this is so great to hear guys who obviously aren't personally conservative share their thoughts on this. Just normal guys with above average standards. So encouraging!
homiesatheart22 3 months ago
i wish i knew guys like this that WANTED girls to dress modestly.
summergirl180 3 months ago
mean respect modest women.. and women respect modest men
DarkprinX2500 4 months ago
At 1:33 this guy is talking about how girls should dress modestly and he's wearing a cuff off shirt, and ladies like biceps... Maybe he should follow his own rules...
MrJoshuaSi 5 months ago
What is modest clothing anyway?
starfaery 5 months ago
a few of these guys sound like they have no control, like seeing a girl's collar bone will give them an erection. I am a Christian and I dress in well fitted, flattering clothing that make ME feel good. I don't dress for men, which I think too many girls do and makes a world of difference. The outside is only one part of the tale; get to know the whole person before judging them on something as trivial as the length of their shorts.And if you don't want to see it, close your eyes
Bebs1675 7 months ago 2
@Bebs1675 ROFL women dont' wear tight clothes to feel good, the reason why it's "flattering" it's because it improves the already curvy-looking body of a woman-----DUH you are flattering your curves by making them more obvious, hence more eye-catching, hence drawing more attention to your tits. christian my ass. xD
AnitaCheesecake 3 months ago
they all give me the impression that they are all religious christians. I dress pretty modestly but seriously, sometimes girls do it for confidence. And guys always says that confident is sexy
PsychoOnMars 7 months ago
"i prefer classy" sayss the guy in thee muscle tank ...
BootyBallerina 7 months ago 2
All these guys are shallow, how about none of yall are worth my damn time. Look at adrian lima she's a victoria secret angel, who's catholic she waited until marriage. Ladies you can be sexy with brains. You can wear a bikini and be respected. Just like men do.
GeneVarsity 8 months ago
@GeneVarsity at least there being honest if any man you've been with or around would be completely honest youd probably hear worse things especially if it were coming out of the mouths of men who have no ties to Christ.
JesusisLord738 6 months ago
I'm surprised that guys' idea of modesty is more strict than my idea of modesty. Definitely things to keep in mind. Thank you very much for this candid talk!
MaryEllen505 9 months ago
This was a very helpful video - the big portion I saw before my ipod froze :D I'm trying to saturate my brain with messages like this to show myself how important it is. I'm stubborn is the problem haha
KarisFaith316 9 months ago
it's so nice to hear cute guys say these things instead of nerdy guys lol thanks
angie4779 10 months ago
these guys are awesome! ^.^
EmilyLightning 11 months ago
GREAT video!! Thanks for this.... will be using this for our girls in our youth group!! (oh, and my 19 year old single modest niece thinks these guys are cute!! haha)
StampMasterMist 1 year ago
Thanks, guys!!! This was a huge encouragement to me!!!
living4Him1000 1 year ago
a couple of these guys seem gay so i don't think they need to worry about this issue.
xcapote 1 year ago
Dressing immodest, doesn't have to mean, you do it to show of, for guys/girls, eaven though, it might come of that way. It could just mean, you dress for comfort, in the boiling heat.
starfaery 1 year ago
You should ask random guys, not just christians. It's kind of pointless otherwise.
starfaery 1 year ago
@starfaery This vid looks like it is for Christian girls who want Christian guys so asking guys who aren't Christian would be pointless:)
bellasong75 10 months ago
Wonderful. :)
SailorAmi94 1 year ago
I love you!
spopis 1 year ago
@iDreamOfJulia haha thank you for agreeing! lol i think that this guy prob just got all self-important on himself and tried to act like he had something good to say LOL!
uksha 1 year ago
thank you ....i needed to hear this..because at church....the girls wearing tube tops and short short skirts seem to be getting more looks than the girls who are more covered up.
gipperwood 1 year ago
@gipperwood Their pastor nmeeds to tell them they need to put on more clothes before they come back. This is sin and distracts people from the worship service. By their dress, they're really saying, "Let's not worship God! Instead worship me, guys!"
Flowerpowernluv 1 year ago
i feel like many people are misinterpreting this video. The boys are not saying it is the girls fault they sleep around and what not. They are trying to avoid having lustful and inappropriate thoughts toward them (which the Bible says is a sin), but it is hard when girls show off as much as they do. This video is...
12ldub 1 year ago 2
...addressed to Christian women who are trying to help them not sin. Now if one of them went off with some hooker then it is totally their fault. Their actions they can control, but they are trying to explain that it is harder to control their mind.
12ldub 1 year ago 2
I have NEVER heard guys talk like this! I think it is wonderful! You are very encouraging to young women. I myself dress modest and wear extremely little to NO makeup. I wear alot of skirts and dresses too. I think it is very important and makes all the difference. But you are right....it takes far far longer for a modest girl to find a boyfriend. I encourage all young women to dress they way they know they should. Thank you for saying this to the world ! Young women NEED to hear this
InTheHeartOfChrist 1 year ago 19
"Maybe, give him a little side hug, make it awkward!" <3 Hahah, I love all these guys
alliegalforeva18 1 year ago 7
Its good to hear this from a mans honest perspective!
nettieheart 1 year ago
I thank you for being guys and notice'ing the girls who dress modestly.tHANK YOU SO MUCH
ApostolicLove 1 year ago
lol soz but i totally disagree with the guy in the green top. girls who dress modestly aren't needy - what the hell? seriously! just because she respects that her body is the Lord's and not for the whole world to see does not mean that she is needy! far out
uksha 1 year ago
@uksha He said, "Girls who dress immodestly seem really needy." The camera quality isn't the best, but if you go back, it's obvious that it's "immodestly". Also, I don't think that they would have allowed such a huge contradiction in there.lol His friends probably would have called him out. Come on, people.
notbeth 9 months ago
the guy at 1.45 completely contradicts himself
uksha 1 year ago
Oh my gosh guys! I wear tight clothes & I have lots of tattoos - I have a wonderful boyfriend who loves and respects me for my personality and my intelligence.
I find it way more offensive when guys walk around with no shirt on.
I'm a nice, honest, respectable girl with a big personality and I would feel like a phony in a turtleneck and khakis.
So instead of judging just like what you like and don't hate on the rest. You all seem sweet, but it's not our fault if you get a boner too easily.
darbinx 1 year ago 2
just to put it out there I know different people consider different things modest. my limits are shorts to the knee and a t-shirt. anything more revealing than that is grey area to me and personal to anyone else. girls who don't care what guys think aren't helping anyone, including themselves. guys are looking for girls who care about what they think and 99.9% of girls want to know that a man thinks about more than anatomy most of the time. so just try to help us out by not leading us there.
cyberspace17 1 year ago 2
Guess what? It's not my fault if you're "distracted", and I'm not going to inconvenience myself in order not to "tempt" you.
Going by this logic, a woman is responsible for harassment or even molestation because of what they wear, because it "tempts" the men. I WILL WEAR WHAT I FUCKING WANT, thank you. If you want to judge me for what I wear, cool, remind me to avoid you.
lalarandomness1311 1 year ago
just saying
its not our problem if you are tempted
and us as girls already have it hard enough dealing with how we look
so just saying, if you want us to change the length of our shorts even if it is 90 degrees out then you better have something to change too
;)
kimberphia 1 year ago
Thanks so much guys!! Hahh the guy in the polo cracks me up..
haizlnutt 1 year ago
Thank you guys for being real to girls. I hope you can keep that integrity as "slutty girls" are unavoidable, lol.
matrje 1 year ago
If in order to be modest you must find a way to not stimulate us at all, you will either A) fail, or B) succeed. And if you succeed completely, it will be worse for you. I have not pursued girls who in the name of modesty looked so unattractive as to remove them from my consideration, and that is the extreme you have to go to if you do not want to stimulate us. God designed us to pursue women we found attractive, and that means the whole deal. I would recommend being less concerned with how
danielnoa1 1 year ago
@danielnoa1 much leg is showing, and more with the general image you are conveying. You do not want to be perceived as a slut, but there is alot more to that than simply wearing certain clothes. And I promise you, if you want to marry a man of passion and interest, you do not want to look unattractive. Don't overcompensate. And don't be afraid to tell immature men "no."
danielnoa1 1 year ago
so the fat guy wants girls to dress a certain way but him taking care of his appearance is probably out of the question? The thing with this video is these guys are telling you girls its not their fault if they go sleeping around with other girls. They're blaming you and you girls are agreeing. To each his (or her in this case) own.
jevilboy 1 year ago
@jevilboy
what's wrong with the the way that boy looked? who said the guys wouldn't change their appearance if they were asked? WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT SLEEPING AROUND? These guys didn't deny that they also had a responsibility to control their thoughts, but none of that was the main focus of this video. When did these guys blame the girls. It's not their fault unless they are doing it on purpose to try to tempt the guys. It's obvious that the guys are trying to help the girls not blame them.
cyberspace17 1 year ago
thank you guys, I personally never wear shorts, or strapless, or nothing that shows my neck too low, and I live in a hot place.
But I wear kind of tight jeans, not like too tight, but not loose either, honestly you cant find loose jeans, and if you wear one, it looks manly, so, what can I do??
ariboreal 1 year ago
How do you find collar bones and shoulders sexy? I'm all for dressing like someone who wants to respect themselves, but I just don't see how someone could look easy for showing their shoulders.
0china0cat0sunflower 1 year ago
@0china0cat0sunflower you'd be surprised what guys can find "sexy." I mean, you would really be surprised.
You do what your conscience allows you to, Rom 14:22, but, a mature person also "bears the infirmities of the weak," (Rom 15:1) and tries not to "put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way." (Rom 14:13)
If there is something u know is a problem, then it's easy to avoid. Otherwise, maybe u should ask ur relatives or close male friends how it affects them.
DiJohnny18 1 year ago
@0china0cat0sunflower omggg thanks you so much i totally agree! youre sooooo right!
ghettobanana23 1 year ago
thank you guys so much...this message needs to be spread out to ALL girls...they need to hear it...we don't understand or really believe it until we hear it straight from the guys themselves. encourage ur friends to think the same, and we'll encourage our friends to dress modestly as well.
chantillylace019 1 year ago
A lot of girls needed to hear you say that, thanks guys. I liked the video. Girls don't really get it--until they hear it from you.
MissEmilyStephenson 1 year ago
GUYS IN THIS VIDEO ARE SO CUTE.
35linettem 1 year ago 2
Thank you so much! I was feeling a little sad because my friend is slowly dressing less and less modest, and this really made me know that I'm making the right decision about dressing modest!
HeartJesus4evr 1 year ago
I am VERY impressed with such honest answers by guys especially in this age range...Kudos to them for being honest and giving their thoughts!!!!!
Momtooazoo 1 year ago
this is like really true. thanks 4 postin the video!!
MegaLilygirl 2 years ago
A losing battle...however I will say that it is good to hear from the minority every so often; gives me a good laugh.
Iluvmissbeautiful89 2 years ago
modesty rockss!alhamdullilah :D
hatemeorhatehim 2 years ago
what about the way guys dress?No one wants a slob!!Loook at the guy with hair on his face and on his neck gross!!This makes me ill these are the same guys that point out these things and are the same dudes that probably have porn mags under their beds!
trendy76 2 years ago
Wow! Exactly what I was looking for. Thanks so much!
JillMary5 2 years ago
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This day we've lost the value of what a woman is supposed to be, a queen, respected & defined by her creator. The world acts like all we are is just sexy things. God made us as more than that beautiful because of our hearts. Dress modest & command others to treat you with true respect. If you agree please join our facebook group: Gods True Beauty: Grace, Truth & Purity Revolution and help us change the world with Gods definition of true beauty. God bless love Rasmi.
rasmiwdjt 2 years ago
Thanks for speaking the truth in love to help our generation.
rasmiwdjt 2 years ago
Hey....I thought this was great. Really encouraging and made me remember why it is so important that I watch what i wear. I think a lot of girls just don't think about how what they wear will affect guys.
fiddlinmaniac 2 years ago 4
well i think you young men gave some good advice..make me think twice now..
-homegirl
HOMEGIRLJOJO 2 years ago 4
From my experience, most guys I've known DON"T mind looking at girls dressed like sluts, but they are not going to date her. Also, most guys don't think that gilrs have to wear turtle necks. I think this video has some kind of bias. However, most guys are open to the slut for a one night stand, OR the smart, interesting gilr for a relationship. Also girls, make sure the guy knows to let you call the shots on how fast you move, because there is no such thing as 'too slow' for them.There you go.
0china0cat0sunflower 2 years ago
haha the first guy is my favorite one out of them lol
starsoverthere 2 years ago
most of these guys look like jocks or something
starsoverthere 2 years ago
This was an amazing video. You offered some really godly insight on how we look when we dress like that, and what exactly turns you guys on so we need to avoid. You are also very encouraging as to the fact that there are still guys like you out there who really do care about this sort of thing. God Bless You.
Flutemistre 2 years ago 22
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HijabiGirl09 2 years ago
Thank you so much for this video. Encourages very much!:)
lightoftheworld77 2 years ago 3
I loved your guys' honesty in this! A lot of the time us girls don't realize HOW different guys' minds are and how we're wired differently. Thanks for the insight & advice!
SviderskasA 2 years ago 2
Thank you for your encouragements. I will endeavor to fight the good fight and dress modestly because it is loving to do so. Thanks again for this wonderful and uplifting video.
cyoun009 2 years ago 2
Act more modest. I like that, it's mostly about the condition of the heart. The rest will follow if your heart is following after Christ.
beth4017 2 years ago
So women have to cover up because men are weak? Maybe they should focus more on self control than telling us what to wear... free will and all that. I dress modestly by personal choice, but I defy anyone to TELL me what to wear because it's never worked yet!
Akkra0 2 years ago
Interesting!
4fmlylove 2 years ago
I have watched a TONNE of 'modest dress' videos on YouTube but this is best on I've seen. Thank you so much for this video, FUNNY and educational all at the same time! The guys just say it how it is, thats what us girls want (or in some cases don''t want) to hear. Keep up the fantastic work :D :D :D
JazzSongs1234 2 years ago 4
girls think heart, but guys think sex. so if you want the guys to think heart, then cover your beauty from their sight then they start talking to you thinking heart not bed. that is what these guys are saying in a nut shell. its not their fault and girls have to be aware of this. Dont say its his fault he broke ur heart, coz he wasnt thinking about your heart. modesty rocks
Rahma8 2 years ago
And that's why more women revert to Islam then men, cause they see da truth! But Islam, exaults women, and honors her beauty! PEACE BE UPON U!
FoAllah 2 years ago
you guys have spoke the truth many ppl are afraid to speak the truth espacial western ppl ....i love you guys for the sake of god and for speaking the truth keep on hanging on the good work
paintyourwoldislam 2 years ago
i can tell you're religeous, are you saying the only way you ccan controll yourselfl is if women cover their HOT bodies, - THATS NOT CONTROLLING YOURSELF, THATS CONTROLLING WOMEN !
iianthex246 2 years ago
The guy at 5:15 throws almost 150 years of Women's rights movements out the window. Let me guess, you don't want to hear your girl speak unless she's spoken to? I get modesty. I dress modestly. But that's because I choose to, not because some guy wants me to. If he doesn't want to see my legs when I'm in gym class he can just look away.
TheUnwrittenWriter 2 years ago
The first guy is kind of a perv and Ben seems like he would be very controling. Run!!!!
Dotkay 2 years ago
i'm non-religious but would like to say women should dress as they please and if you can't control your instincts go to an underdeveloped country where women are humiliated for showing an elbow.. there's more to women then appearance, they conform just like everyone trying to look "ghetto"- no hate, just frustration Peace
fetalbetal 2 years ago 2
DUH...us male creatures are SHALLOW...all you chicks must of had your head in the sand for a really long time...
Ihateclinton2 2 years ago
Wow Meagan!! Awesome video...such awesome guys...for once i see a couple of mature guys...love the "Ben" guy..lol...he's so straight forward n humorous...the guy in pink with the blue shirt is sweet too...i totally agree with wat they all say!!!
ashes187 2 years ago
This was very interesting. Thank you for posting this - it's good to hear things stright from the guys' perspective. I agree, and encourage girls to listen to this.
The hugs thing gets me, though..because I love hugs, and frontal hugs. : / oh well.
AdmiringObserverR 2 years ago
loved this!!
especially the guy at 3:28ish, talking about the side hugs.
SviderskasA 2 years ago 3
christians SHOULD dress the was Mary dressed the( mother of Jesus )
im suprised Muslims dress like Mary
hebrewgit 2 years ago
I found to be modest but still have fun with style is I layer like everything, but I just wanna say that this is great and all, but it seems that all this is thrown out the window when you go to the local pool.
princessofGod93 2 years ago 2
good and gr8 work !! i luuuuuuuuuuuuuuv it
i wish all gurlz strat thinking if anyone worth to let them wear unrespectful clothes just to be attractive !! to me , no one worth that !! NO ONE , i never let anyone feel im attractive coz of my body but my personalty and who i am !! thats how i used to look to myslefe !!
i luv this vid !!
greeting from saudi arabia ,,
:)
gehad1988 2 years ago
that is very true and the shorts are called booty shorts and they are way shorter than the example he should
rubyredrawi 2 years ago
HAHAHAHA this video is ausome looool
iraqishealing 2 years ago
great vid lol :D
channabiryan 2 years ago
Awesome-i will admit i am just started to tone down, but im getting there-i threw out some clothing but this video is great, And 2b so young you guys are very mature and honest-you could teach the older ones a thing or two lol God Bless!
STORMWYNTA 2 years ago 2
Thank you gentlemen!
twilkins18 2 years ago 4
Very nice job, guys.
Exceptional46 2 years ago 2
This is very encouraging, thank you. I appreciate your opinion. May God bless you all and find a good wife that honors you.
cbanecks 2 years ago 3
this is very inspirational. it makes me feel better about myself (:
iloveu1818 2 years ago
great vid
i am really surprised
RanaSpot 2 years ago
wow!!! THIS IS THE MOST AMAZING VIDEO ON EARTH!!! good job guys, seriously WAY TO GOOOOO! THANKS for encouraging girls and i hope we dont dissapoint you :)
CindyClint 2 years ago
yall are officially my favorite guys in the whole world :D that was such an encouragement! It helps to know what yall really consider modest. Thank you for making a video about it!!!! I love yall 2!!!! :D
cledi4ever 2 years ago
well said guys :-)
sumaya94 3 years ago
Nice video.
SFAproductions 3 years ago
init zara sik vid!!! :-)
Tasgirl94 3 years ago
- REPPIN HIJAB -
bRAAaaApP!
zmezara 3 years ago
lol very funny.
TrustInIslam 3 years ago
the guy with the white shirt is ridiculously funny lol
AHAHemo 3 years ago
Haha, video is funny but very true. Modesty is always best, thank you for posting this.
zahrahbatool 3 years ago
grt vid XD
AHAHemo 3 years ago
lmbo. the guy in the white is silly..."in fact, next time, wear a TURTLENECK when i see you"
fatimachan 3 years ago 2
i really want to say thanks so much for making this video for girls they feel to be beautiful we hav to dress to impress but u guys really opened my eyes and at my skool we r doing a purity unit and im sending this to my Bible teacher to use again thanks and GOD BLESS YOU!!
hylndancr247 3 years ago
mashAllah nice video (^_^ )
melonpun 3 years ago 4
gotta love the vid! good job!
onemuslimvoice 3 years ago 4
nom im not gay its just the way i am thats all.
cuchulain55 3 years ago
when i see a girls boobs or any other part it dosnt make want to touch them or even stare.
cuchulain55 3 years ago
then you must be a homosexual
inov8or 3 years ago
No I am not a homo sexual
cuchulain55 3 years ago
oh come on why would i get a thumbs down for that? It just my own personel taste. And no it dosntr make me homo sexual. I am only attracted to girls but not like that. I have no sexual atrations of any kind But thats just me thats all. What is good for you is good and what is good formeme is fine as well.:)
cuchulain55 3 years ago 2
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hardyk1 3 years ago
hahahahaaaaaaa!
Excellent!
Hijab all the way;)
HammassaLOVESHamas 3 years ago 11
salam
wouldn't it be nice if all women wore hijab. it would be much easier for the men to lower our gaze and respect them
qwertyfshag 3 years ago 5
Great video!!! 5 stars!
Really, thank you for this video! :)
5 stars xD
turtlemuck 3 years ago 3
way speaking the truth
nice video
see thats the difference between muslim girls and non-muslim girls
muslims girls cover them selfs properly and non-muslims girls like to show off show off everything what happened to them who are they trying to impress
DhulFiqaar1924 3 years ago 6
Nice vid, thanx :)
robia21 3 years ago 3
No tank tops???????? sure, like no low-cut tank tops, but none whatso ever? woa.
thanks, guys. thats just incredible how much you care about modest girls.
schnemm0219 3 years ago
awesome :)
greennoor 3 years ago
This is so awesome. This is what YouTube SHOULD feature. Thanks guys, you've just made it into my little black book... haha.
StaticTricity 3 years ago 3
Oh my gosh. thank you so so so much for saying that. usually you hear it from like mothers or other people that you really don't believe it from. so thank you for letting us know all that. it's reallly appreciated!!!! :)
mehhh33 3 years ago 3
I am so happy that men are finally speaking out to us girls! WE NEED TO HEAR THIS FROM YOU! THANKS!
Sohaila95 3 years ago 3
Thank you so much for your video. It is nice to see there are guys out there who are willing to speak out on it. As a young mother of 5 kids. (im 28) I am trying to teach my 4 oldest munchkins how to dress modestly. Again thank you!!!
northerntushies 3 years ago 4