i understand when it pisses you off when people give "advice", especially if they never sent out a missionary themselves. it is frustrating and it is hard. i feel like his family gets tired of me feeling sad and he hasnt written me either, so what do i do? feel? idk, oh well. we'll see what happens... like you sad. you said it all to the bone. thanks.
1) There is no "the one" - that's a romantic fallacy
2) You are young and have your whole life ahead of you, and should be focusing on yourself. What are you doing about your education? Why are you working at Subway?? You should value yourself more than that.
3)This is YOUR time. Never, even if married, build your life and ego around another person.
You're on the right track. Get on with your life. If I was working at some dead-end brainless job like Subway, I'd be depressed too.
With regards to your comments about the church, please keep in mind that some things are far more important than just you. People need missionaries. As a convert, i know this. You need to sometimes endure hard things so lots more people can be happy. I know it's rough, but the Lord will bless you if you focus on him. You have been greatly blessed to have the gospel :)
I hope you're feeling better now. I didn't go on a mission, but all of my friends did. It was hard not seeing any of them for 2 full years, but what Ben is feeling is normal because all of my friends made sure they weren't involved in any relationships before they left for their mission.
don't worry you are a beautiful, attractive, and young woman. i know it may seem very hard, but this will all blow over. i hate seeing you so down. love your videos keep them up
I heard you say something about God, are you a Christian? The problem is that you are putting this guy you are not certain about on a pedestal rather than putting God first in your life. Take it from me, a guy, desperacy is never an attractive quality. You are a beautiful girl and can't tell me that this guy is the only guy for you. You only what, 19, and you are thinking that you have no purpose without him? I would write more but this youtube. Email a brother if you want and so we can talk.
this is a great example how young people are tortured and unnecessarily burdened with things they shouldn't be thinking about not now, not ever. missions? separating couples? waiting for one another? for what?
Another comment after thinking about this. Why do you need to proove anything to this guy? You don't need him to have personal worth. There are millions of guys out there, im sure many that are better than Ben! Confidence in yourself is key!
Yeah long distance relationships don't work. Date someone whos closer, your young you have plenty of time. Plus your beautiful, you will have an easy time! I am 22 and have had trouble with the long distance stuff to, its not worth it.
Also you cant be friends if you break up, that never works either. I think you need to start fresh.
Just try to not feel like its all your fault, relationships are two-way. Getting on with things, including dating other people could be good for you. If when Ben gets back and you are single and the feelings are still there then you could try again.
Just do what's right for you, and not let people tell you how you should be feeling.
You're gorgeous.
drewsky684 1 month ago
i understand when it pisses you off when people give "advice", especially if they never sent out a missionary themselves. it is frustrating and it is hard. i feel like his family gets tired of me feeling sad and he hasnt written me either, so what do i do? feel? idk, oh well. we'll see what happens... like you sad. you said it all to the bone. thanks.
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1) There is no "the one" - that's a romantic fallacy
2) You are young and have your whole life ahead of you, and should be focusing on yourself. What are you doing about your education? Why are you working at Subway?? You should value yourself more than that.
3)This is YOUR time. Never, even if married, build your life and ego around another person.
You're on the right track. Get on with your life. If I was working at some dead-end brainless job like Subway, I'd be depressed too.
Trillidotia 4 months ago
With regards to your comments about the church, please keep in mind that some things are far more important than just you. People need missionaries. As a convert, i know this. You need to sometimes endure hard things so lots more people can be happy. I know it's rough, but the Lord will bless you if you focus on him. You have been greatly blessed to have the gospel :)
thesamspo 6 months ago
I do agree with someone else. You need to be putting the Lord first.
"A woman must be so close to God that a man must go to Him to find her"
Good luck with things :)
thesamspo 6 months ago
I hope you're feeling better now. I didn't go on a mission, but all of my friends did. It was hard not seeing any of them for 2 full years, but what Ben is feeling is normal because all of my friends made sure they weren't involved in any relationships before they left for their mission.
PloobTech 7 months ago
your vids are awsome keep making them and i really do hope that things work out between you and ben
TheSnackPack1234 10 months ago
don't worry you are a beautiful, attractive, and young woman. i know it may seem very hard, but this will all blow over. i hate seeing you so down. love your videos keep them up
Mojoe12321 10 months ago
I love your missionary videos, they help me so much. Please keep doing them
aliglez26 10 months ago
I heard you say something about God, are you a Christian? The problem is that you are putting this guy you are not certain about on a pedestal rather than putting God first in your life. Take it from me, a guy, desperacy is never an attractive quality. You are a beautiful girl and can't tell me that this guy is the only guy for you. You only what, 19, and you are thinking that you have no purpose without him? I would write more but this youtube. Email a brother if you want and so we can talk.
jrmuofhe 10 months ago
very interesting videos
keep makin em, i subscribed
F1RZT2BOMB 11 months ago 6
this is a great example how young people are tortured and unnecessarily burdened with things they shouldn't be thinking about not now, not ever. missions? separating couples? waiting for one another? for what?
chriskindle 11 months ago
Another comment after thinking about this. Why do you need to proove anything to this guy? You don't need him to have personal worth. There are millions of guys out there, im sure many that are better than Ben! Confidence in yourself is key!
dotsona07 11 months ago
Yeah long distance relationships don't work. Date someone whos closer, your young you have plenty of time. Plus your beautiful, you will have an easy time! I am 22 and have had trouble with the long distance stuff to, its not worth it.
Also you cant be friends if you break up, that never works either. I think you need to start fresh.
dotsona07 11 months ago
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dotsona07 11 months ago
Just try to not feel like its all your fault, relationships are two-way. Getting on with things, including dating other people could be good for you. If when Ben gets back and you are single and the feelings are still there then you could try again.
Just do what's right for you, and not let people tell you how you should be feeling.
DaveSimonH 11 months ago