CHILD ABUSE: Discipline Verses Physical Abuse

[smoozerish]

I suffered from child abuse both physical and mental. I'm grown up now but the consequences on my life have been devastating. This woman speaks the truth, your child is precious. Guide them, teach them don't scar them.

[guidav123]

In hebrews 12:09-10 we see a comparison being done between the chastising of our flesh by our earthly fathers and the non-violent chastising of God unto his children. in verse 10 it shows that the only form of chastisment that is profitable to the one receiving it is that which comes from God while that done unto our flesh by our fathers is not profitable to us but only feeds the pleasures of those that inflict it !

[CrashArtSkillz]

They are more emotional they gossip and they talk back to their mother

[CrashArtSkillz]

I have 6 boyz 2 I have custody of and they are totaly more respectful then the ones who are raised by their mothers.

[CrashArtSkillz]

Proverbs 13;29He who spares the rod hates his son;but he who loves him is careful to discipline him

Pro 19;18 Discipline your son,for in their is hope

Pro 17;21 To have a fool for a son brings grief.

[lovelybaby1522]

i could never put a hand on my kid (dnt have one) or any other. its aweful.

[CrashArtSkillz]

Thats why white ppl get no respect from their parents.Discipline is necessary if drug dealers were killed if they sold drugs guess what?Their would be no dealers viseversa with homosexuality

[foxwithwings13]

according to this my Dad's abused me :(

[MsRachelMilano]

@XxMsCrisy91xX, you are absolutely right! Celebrating the child's lessons learned encourages the child to do better the next time. Reducing the fear factor. Thank you for your comment~

[HomoTriSapien]

Indeed, disciplining kids should happen without emotions from the parents side.

Emotions come up when our brain has the need for a chemical, an instinct. It will steer our thoughts and actions, and we can regret afterwards.

So, good tip is:

If your kid triggers a bad emotion, take a deep breath before you react. And take enough time to concider the "crime" and talk first (like: you know that wasn't right, not?)

The punnishment doesn't have to be big, the signal is given quickly.

[XxMsCrisy91xX]

yes, i agree, bt b aware dat u can balance the situation wid praisin the child for good behaviour, so discipline isn't as seen as a negative issue

[temsa026]

excellent speaker

[SabretoothSnowMan]

Any physical punishment causes fear, even the threat of it being a possible at any time.

Your afried of it all the time, when there is no issues being raised against you, because you know it is going to happen eventually.

Your comments so do not work.

[MsRachelMilano]

Fear is not bad, fear is a natural emergency break, not a kill switch. Fear lets us know something is not right but no one should live in fear for their lives or personal safety. It is not that physical punishment is used, it is that it is abused... excessive use of force... torture... that is ABUSE. A child who has never been abused is not expecting to be abused eventually. Remember, physical punishment isn't the only form of discipline that invokes fear. I'd not comment if it didn't work.

[BeNePh89]

when you fear your "parent"

[MsRachelMilano]

yes, "parent" and please remember child abuse and neglect are not "in the home" issues, they take place anywhere, by anyone but primarily by those left in authority over the safety of the child/ren. Thank you for your comment... love and light go with you.

[missprincess909]

thank you for clarifying that, and you have made very wonderful and insightful voices about child abuse, and i admire u for that. for my best friend and baby brother did not make it through abuse, and i was on the edge of death due to it. thank you so much for helping to get out the message.

[LaDon08]

Awsome...this is something that needed to be clarified...thank you

[LaDon08]

something that i think is shrouded in a great deal of confusion. Thank you for the clarification...you are very insightful