If you genuinly love someone you will want to be there to encourage them. If you are a woman you should pleasure in making your man feel needed and if your a man you should find pleasure in making your wife feel beautiful. Yes there has to be a professional aspect to it but you have to really love one another for it to go anywhere simple as that..
Why the hell is there not a professional on the panel? What the hell is Steve Harvey doing giving out relationship advice?? Thats why black people are so screwed up! They need real licensed professional counselors and not idiots who think black and not people!
I believe in an "every man for himself" philosophy when it comes to dating relationships. I can say with a straight face that it is not black men's responsibility to make sure black women have a man. At the end of the day SOMEONE is going to be single, whether it be because of race, beauty, low finances or otherwise. Its a cruel world.
Men become successful so they can finally get that pretty girl they couldn't get in high school. Often, women that become successfull are NOT that pretty girl even though some think they are.
I can answer this question very easily. Most successful black women are single because
1. They have consumed themselves in their professionalism and dont know how to attract and/or date and/or keep a man because their career comes before their relationship.
2. Their success has created an "Im the dominant one" illusion so they are least willingly to submit to the will of a man (black men dont put up with this.)
3. They want a successful black male equivalent (very hard to find)
These black people need to stop eating up all this racist propaganda.....think about it. Why are "black" problems all over the media. "Black women are unattractive", "Why are black women still single", "Why are black women overweight", "Black men in prison", and the list goes on. There's never anything positive, and here are our black celebrities feeding into this divide and conquer bs.
@KatarraParson Why is this problem in the media you ask? Because black women like these two feel that crying on the shoulders on whites via the white controlled media will somehow endear white men to them as long as they consistently throw black men(successful or not) under the bus.
There are too many options for black men with their stuff together...hell you don't have to be a baller. Black women can't say that...I blame Karma!!
The thing is You CANT FIX ANYONE but yourself... Do we Really have to WASTE time on something that Simple? Find Someone who shares YOUR TRUE VALUES...NOT the Ones that SOUND Good. IF you are not finding the Caliber of individual you desire, then THE ONLY thing to do is REVIEW YOUR actions and BEHAVIORS.
its crazy how this stuff comes up, this is not a color problem. just a people problem. every race goes through this, get off the race hang up. intimidation, steve is right, its shame for not playing the role that our dna has set for us. most of these problems are set by the times we live in. the daily rush of crap in every day life. we as people are not set up to handle this and the only release we all have is to take it out on each other. make your life simple, find like minded mate, live..
I dont want to sound bias, because not EVERY black woman is like this, but black women confuse the hell out of me and im black. Sometimes, it seems as if they don't honestly know what they want when it comes to a man. They say they want a good man, but then say hes too boring. So they get a more exciting bad boy, an hes a dog that dont know how to treat women right. I gave up tryin to figure them out a long time ago.
Tit for tat, tit for tat... fuck, I give up. Date latin and eatern european chicks, they knw what men like and they know how to be feminine, sexy women.
@blackandmild77 The reason is most whites can reason and therefore have less issues. did anything get solved with all those negro sheboon women doing most of the talking and little listening. NOPE.
Why have these type of type of discussions anyway? Black Men and black women obviously dont get along. So just leave each other the hell alone and date other races of people. Because all this bickering is not solving anything. You are just gonna get pissed off in the end and stay dat way.
Steve hits it on the head @ 2:00. A real MAN is not intimidated by any woman. I dont care how powerful and/or beautiful you are! A man just wants to insure that he sufficient in what he brings to the table and when he isn't where he feel he should be, he does not want to pursue that caliber of a woman, because he has already pre-determined that it will be a waste of time based on her "criteria".It is no insecurety o intimidation either! It the delima within himself and has nothing to do with her
We men are not whatsoever intemidated by a black woman's sucess or any other race of women and no bald head harvey we are not ashame either.It's just when women bring it up 30,000 times is when we get fed up,of course we are very happy in your accomplishments or what have yu,but don't keep bringing up as if yu were interviewing for a position at a company.This is is not a buisness propasition,this is a relationship.Why are we talking stocks and bonds when we are making love in the bedroom?lol
The Bible says to whom much is given much is required. I get confused at time because, women are told that men are like kids per say, it's in them to play around in they're teens, 20's and 30's and maybe in they're 40's they might decide to get serious and settle down, but oh wait, once they hit 50, they will go through a midlife crisis....I mean what the hell am I suppose to believe? If God made the made HEAD of women, then there should never be a time after teens years to be "childlike."
its an African thing, cuz African men lyk to feel in control and they ain't goin' wit no woman who gon be actin all snotty, African women like men to be superior to them.
look at how the black women are talking cuz they gotta a little money,
You would think that this is rocket science. The problem is simple. Rap culture, hood rats and thugs have reduced the number of "good black men." Why be a nice, smart guy when you can be a jerk and get all the ladies-sorry bimbos? Black women have let themselves go. Look at the women in that audience. Most of them are fat. Sherri Shepherd is complaining about her success and being intimidating. Men want a beautiful, fit, feminine woman. You can be successful but don't be masculine.
@angelchild829 Black guys as an aggregate group are the lowest earning/least successful males on the globe. The successful black guys can date white women, but they will never be able to achieve the status of white men.
@cgiwattgrrl99 I understand you. Filtering out all of the thugs to find an educated respectful black man can be hard. Then when you meet them, some of them have had bad experiences with hood rats and have turned to other races and have declared all black women as hood rats. Its annoying. We have to put up with so much more than other groups. You would think that black men would be more empathetic, but many of them don't understand at all.
Some of these people should take their own advice. Hill isn't married, Steve Harvey is a serial cheater, Jimi is sitting up there with that tight t-shirt on, didn't even try to dress for the occassion and still claiming that woman have crazy standards. Sherri, however did just get married. Im hoping that she didn'y settle, but the man looks like he could be her father.
I remember the first "misunderstanding" I had with a Back woman I was dating. I had a really bad day at work and needed some "me" time to sort my head out, so I went into the garage to do some tinkering. She called and could tell I wasn't up to par and wanted to come over and talk. I insisted I needed to be by myself and she went on about how I should not close her out when I have a bad day. I realized then that is what Women do...talk...Men go in a cave. To this day we still have odds
Propaganda this is being done because of the rise of michelle obama can't get to her get to the rest of them they step up their media assault on black women on purpose to drive black women to white men or other race's because once the black woman cut's out from the self preservation game we are done in this country anywhere white's are they always remain a ruling class over the darker mix up race's the so called pure white's control the MEDIA I REPEAT MEDIA what's there purpose?
Who is intimidated by by Sheri Sheherd and that trifling crew of hers. (Myth) Black men on the most part are not intimidated by what some trifling sister has in her bank account. Since black men deal with white women who have even larger accounts, To what end ! Another Urban myth created by self over-rating sisters because they get a House N job from a white person! Unlike thier Mothers and Grandmothers that had far less, These ~ for brains dont have the intergrity to go with the status.
"foreign black men"? What makes you think US black women are opened to dating foriegn black men? I know US black women are quick to date any kind of white guy with some money, but foreign black men; I am not so sure.
Rich Black women are ashame and afraid to bring their poor Black husbands in the public. Pride and fear of the status Quoe. But White women are not ashamed nor afraid to bring their Black husband in public. They feel very proud to invite their Black husbands to Office Parties, Busines meetings, or Celebrity Red Carpet Nights out. Until Black women stop being afraid of the white boss. They will remain single. Iam a black man that hate white women.I love my Black women.
Has anybody seen Condoleza Rice Husband, Or Susan Rice Husband with them in Public?NEVER. There is an inferriority complex forced on so called succesful Black women by their pay masters, not to ever let their Black husbands appear in public with them. The system make the Rich Black women ashame of their Black husbands in public. Also Blackmen do not trust black women who work for whiteman, ( The enemy) They always feel she is spying and reporting on them. Thats 90% truth. Black Ladies wake up.
@andylumeh Condoleeza Rice does not have a husband because she chooses not to. The same way Oprah Winfrey and many other successful black women are husband less and childless. They have acquired so much money and success their are unwilling to share it with anyone of less status. The only thing is Oprah and Condeleeza are the least attractive of the successful women and sucessful men would not target them anyways. The same goes for the unattractive women in this video. Men do not want them!!!
Successful at not being conceited and self serving. Successful at being kind and generous! Successful at having respect for a mate. Misinformation of your purpose in life , not your **** job. Anyone of you so called successful women can be laid off or replaced . Go figure ! Your first duty to God and man is being a decent woman and human being. Success is measured Quality not Quantity !
Successful at keeping themselves fit and attractive to a mate. Successful at Keeping themselves holy and not being busy bodies and 411 artist. Successful at praying with a mate and working beside one! Successful at reaching back and helping other sisters. Successful at bringing a virtuous woman to the table. Successful at keeping their legs closed long enough for a man to learn to like them. Successful at mastering a jealous ,suspicious, imaginative mind!Successful a making love.
First sucess is more than financial. Mark 8:36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Financial gain still brings divorce, cheating ,fights, Just because you can now pay the rent that dont make you a sucessful woman. A sucessful woman prospers even as her soul prospers. She is sucessful in relationship skills, Sucessful in character, sucessful as a homemaker, Raises her kids. Many single women have out of control kids.
SOOO WHY did you get with him? "I saw potential"... maybe they should get with people who are already the way they want them to be.. not with people who have the potential to be who they want them to be.. this way you wont have to change them later on or dump them because they have not reached YOUR desired potential.
Try to adjust to every situation, and also learn to get over it. Why cant u date outside our race. Believe me I love BLACK LOVE. But I also believe any man or any woman, no matter the race can give just anything u need. The World is Big y'all.
Because u struggled or strived on ur own, meaning u'll have this complex of I know alot of things that u dont, I can do it by myself dont tell me 'cause I know it already, look where it got me... And when things starts to fall apart , we have the speech of this sort: "Im a Black Queen", I thought u'd be the king, I can handle myself, U Can't Handle A Strong Black Woman. Black Ladies just need to be over it, not be so stuck on past pain, on what they were taught by their mamas, all the time.
Margareth Thatcher ... a woman who was former Prime Minister of England, and known as the Iron Lady, was married and made tea for her husband every morning before stepping outside her home to go to work. The problem with many black women, not to say all of 'em is this tendancy to believe all the time if I dont do it for myself nobody will, and repeating that to onself makes u believe in the long run that u dont need to encourage no one.
@andre12593 Most black women today are as dumb as bear shyt. Sheri just opens that big fucking trap and spews out her ignorance. Funniest thing about black women is how they think they are so intelligent.
the problem imo is that we worked so hard to become successful and if you notice alot of successful are kind of dominate that we forget to switch back and let the man be a man and we tend to cut them down. Im the breadwinner in my relationship but still cook and clean and all that but i have to remember to not dominate him..like Monique the black female comedian she talks about how she makes the money but makes sure to make her man feel like a man
let me break it down for ya'll. there is a difference between being alone and lonely. you can be alone and totally fine. Lonely is a new breed. Both types might want a man. But Lonely woman will go out of their way to get one, and reek of desperation. If you just are alone but keep it moving with life, you're more likely to find a man. Sherri says she wants a man to take out her braids but is she willing to sick his dick if her husband asks??? probably not
@hotplaye999 Hmmm let me guess you are unemployed, why? 1) You are a Black Male and 2) You can't stay away from YouTube, especially this channel. Honey give it up, just b/c you call Black Women these nasty names, will not stop them from dating and marrying who they please. Why don't you go raise hell with black Men who date & marry nonblack women:)
@hotplaye999 I would rather be a White Man's Whore than to be with a: Broke ASS/Broke Down/HIV/AIDS/STD, poor leadership, dead beat fathers, wearing your pants off your ass, prison lover, DL, gang banging, drug dealing, hanging on the corner, making millions from degradation of your OWN people (rap), killing & robbing your own people, bad credit, uneducated, unemployed BLACK MAN:)
these dumb self-hating fat bitches don't want "good black man" they want sexy black nigga with big dick smh! that's why they single but all these dumb self-hating black/mixed bitches still blame us in this shit. how we self-hating sellout coons, how we don't want black women or how black men are ugly smh! my black women need wake up and start helping your black men because right now you only helping white man to destroy us!
Could black american please stop using the word "black" as generalisation to describe all black people, as an East African we do not have this problem in our society, our women get marry young and stay married. This is a Phenomenon for the black Americans but by using the word black you drag all black people from all corners of the world, this is unique issues that is only affecting the black american community, not the Ethiopians, Somalis, Kenyans, or any other African heritage women.
as black man i think that black women need to stop trying to be us and be just woman. as black woman or mother of you own black race you need to understand how to please to your black man and do everything for us just like white women do for her white bitch azz lil dick azz white men only then you got black man as a husband, a boyfriend and real black family and real dark/brown skin black looking kids and not all these fake azz mixed looking for white race who will be hate your black azzez! smh!
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 why just because i say the truth?! i try help to us, most problems in black community and black race come from black women and white men.
@hotplaye999 that doesn't sound like the truth to me. it sounds more like an opinion.
besides there are plenty of people who not even half black n white and they could be any other racial mixtures with black in them. what if they're not married to a white person but they're married to an asian or hispanic then what?
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 lol you is real dumb b'tch smh! that's why black women like you are single or can't marry black man smh! what about real dark skin black kids or black family huh hoe?! or only black men should marry a black woman, no matter how she looks? you want non dark skin black men for marriage and "happiness" or ugly mixed/white looking kids for white race smh! but black men should be is in the sh't just because he's not rich, don't have good job or don't look like chris brown i'm right?
that's why black men don't want you fake azz white man's black or mixed whores/hoes when he becomes rich and famous and this is one of reasons why a lot of you are single, can't marry or white man's porno whores!! BLACK WOMEN ARE SHAME!
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 lol so she is sellout self-hating dumb whore with anti-black mixed looking kids for white race. omfg bitch you are soo fuckin dumb as shit smh! just go marry black man and don't be such waste of sperm like most of black women today! ugh!! that's why I don't want daughters, only chocolate black sons!
@hotplaye999 when you can put together a decent center in proper english then maybe we can have an intelligent conversation but as of now your comments are ludicrous & spiteful. at least shes a "dumb bitch" with a bachelors degree in biology and has a stable job and has her own house. and what do you have? a typical troll account with a brain about as small as your dick. im black and thank god i never took men like you in. i will stick with my latins,asians, & native americns. you're dissmised
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 "small dick" "my asians & native americans" wtf you are talking about?! smh! you are black? lol i hope you know if you have sex with non black man then most of the brothas don't marry you!
i have job and my woman is black (not sellout hoe like you) i just care about my ppl and race....today whites trying to destroy us and real dark skin black sons/kids that's why we have mixed boy in white house and that's why i am here but i dont understand if you don't want marry black man then wtf your dumb sellout self-hating azz doing on here huh? this video about why "successful" and "smart" black women can't get or marry black men!
i know why these bitches can't find or marry black man because they probably are dumb self-hating white dick loving white man's whores just like you! your dark skin cousin marry asian boy only because she has money because If it were not for her money then she probably would have been single just like all these hoes in this video and you know why? because your cousin is ugly as shit! smh!
@crpdm1965 Fol?! No! You are the fool BITCH! And somebody need to, slap the livin' shit out your momma! For having your stankin' rotten ass ignorant LOOSE HOE!
@ethoseeka017 Let's just say the typical black woman would pick a thug, or a gangster to have a family with over an intelligent, college graduate. Then when they have had enough of the nagging from the woman, they leave her with
kids. That's where the black woman gets mad and say where are the "good" black men. Their fault, they chose somebody else.
and why are we so stupid, why take our dirty laundry and blare it on nighline. We need to talk-to each other about our dysfunctions not the rest of the world. White people don't telecast their baggage they have counseling why are we the one's to exploit our problems.
I'm new to you tube I can't believe so much dysfunction. First blk woman stop going crazy over some of these self hating bloggers. the majority of blk men who are not on this including myself love you. 2nd many are single through divorce or the fact the relationship didnt work out they have children its not like they never met a man. white divorce is high you dont hear the media throwing out numbers. We have to ask who putting these #s out there and for what purpose.
So she wants to be independent but wants the man to support her, that's some fucked up logic and I wouldn't date a woman that has kids I ain't taking care of another man children
The women on stage are already single mothers and they see nothing wrong with that. Many successful black men who are responsible and have their priorities straight do not want to a single mother. They want to start their own families and not join someone else family. I know this because I am one of them. True talk. I know of some successful black women with children by multiple fathers and are still hoping to get married to have more children. SMH in disbelief. Black women you can do better.
@forevah I truly agree with you! (But to be honest) For some reason I agree with men more then my own sex. So I truly understand where they are coming from because I put my foot into their shoes and visualize how they feel.
A lot of black women in America may not agree with you even if you present facts and evidence. I noticed you are Canadian, it might have something to do with our agreement on the disadvantages of single mothers seeking life partners or marriage.
@forevah not that I agree with them being single mothers necessarily. But sometimes it happens like that. And in the biggest hypocrisy, sometimes men have children and expect a woman coming into their lives to be okay with that, so why can't it be the other way around? I mean who's to say the men on stage don't have children and are single?
@crystalspayne Most good successful black women also don't want a man with kids. One reason some women overlook that problem is because the man may not have full custody of the kids. Another reason could be financial benefits. I don't understand why some good successful black women are still having children by some irresponsible men (thugs) who won't father their children. May be as a woman you can explain that. Black women please make better choices with men. You can't stay young forever.
@forevah Well I can't answer because I don't have children. But you're right. It's not nice to see these beautiful and successful women being knocked up by guys who have nothing to offer but sex.
Remember that these women chose those men. Why do these women choose these kind of men? Just why? These women are intelligent, they are not dumb. They too need to hold themselves accounting for sleeping with Mr. no good.
@forevah well that should be the better question. It's kinda confusing to hear some women speak about standards and then 2 months later, they fall for a guy opposite all their standards. Why do the girls fall for guys who they know to be "bad boys" then when their heart is broken, they say all men are dogs? Idk the answer, I know that some women do these things. Well look at yourself, you chose a guy who had nothing to offer and now you're angry at guys? not cool
It's like every time the men on the panel try to answer a question or try to explain certain things to them honest and direct Sherri gets all defensive or tries to change the situation.
I think this is a great discussion but can someone please tell me who invited that gay man??? How in the Hell can a Gay man tell women what men want???
well all of my previous girlfriends have been black,apart from one (she was half black half white) so you might aswell call her black...but yeah i think its a generation thing...i'm 19 from england and in my opinion you don't get better than a black woman but that's my opinion...the black girls do alot for us over here when we get into sticky situations and believe me alot of us do get into stick situations
Sherri is on point for about 85% of this program... Most black men need to be validated EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY HOUR OF EVERY DAY! Most tend to have low self esteem and BIG egos! Black men think they are the only ones who face trials... Not only do black women have a strike in Amerikkka for being BLACK but then we have a strike for being a WOMAN... But unlike black men, black women persevere and don't sit around acting like somebody owes them something!
@mslady30117 Sure, that's probably true...for Most black men THAT NEED TO BE VALIDATED every minute of every hour of everyday. Emotional dependency and insecurity doesn't know skin color or gender. That's the inherent problem with this vague and baseless claim. In truth, Women need to take more responsibility in the type of men they choose. Not pick a few weak dudes ( probably single-mom-raised, lol) and write off "85%" of them all. It's more deeper than that.
Black Women Need To Stop Using Their "Success" To Validate If a Black Man Is Worthy, We Men Like Dating Women That are Not Putting Their "Success" In Front all the Time ...Men are Intimidated by "Successful" Black Women Is Pure Bullshit.
Steve Harvey Seems To Hit That Point Beautifully.
omg this bullshit again about black on blacks...and we wonder why this world is so fucked up..we still talking about black women and black men dating....if yall would stop being so fuckin racist maybe you could find a good man period...why does he have to be black?? Some dumb shit...this is the reason malcom x got smoked...tryna create a stronger black race of only blacks...fuck that shit martin luther king said all are equal...no seperation...this kinda shit makes me sick...thumbs fuckin down
Jacque reid is so damn fine. The only reason i watch this nonsense. BTW there are pleanty of black women who understand their role in a relationship, and the are married. This is a non issue.
Black women in America are their own worst enemies. Just because you attended college and pay or bills and purchased a two bedroom townhouse, does not make you independent and strong. I own multiple properties, have an education, own a Ferrari and traveled the planet BUT that does no make me a strong independent person. It also does not mean I have the right to speak down to anyone who has not obtained the same.
@Accune You're right, there is someone for everyone but if you don't expand your options, you will never know. One thing I can say about BM, they are not afraid to love who loves them, no matter what color, BW should do the same. Its not that White Women are taking BM from BW, they just don't limit themselves to one group of men.
Sherri is just another BW whore who is getting burned later on in life, you can't enter the dating pool after 40. This is simple and basic every other race of people knows this.
MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS JUST GET TOGETHER . IF YOU CANT SEE YOUR BEING BRAIN WASHED BY TV . THEN I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU . IF THEY CAN GET IN YOUR MIND ! THEN YOU ALREADY LOST . TO BE FREE IS TO BE FREE IN YOUR MIND . I AM TRULY FREE BECAUSE I DONT GIVE ADAM ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT ME ARE MY PEOPLE . WERE GOOD ! NO RACE IS PERFECT . BUT EVERY ONE IS FOCUSED ON US . NOW WERE LOOKING AT ARE SELFS . THINKING ARE WE REALY MESSED UP LIKE THEY SAY WE ARE . NO ! WE ARE JUST FINE FREE YOUR MIND ! 1# LOV
I'm sick of hearing why black women can't find a good black man. Society has brained washed so many black people by putting on shows like this. You never hear about white women saying it's hard to find a good white man, or any other race at that. And I bet you will never see the media put on a show that displays black strong Families. There are plenty of good single black men out their as well as good single black women. You say there is no good black man out their, well, that because of what
Whoah I do not think, no hell, I KNOW That a Man should NOT be standing behind a woman. That is plan for disaster. These women need to know we are men and not some puppy. We can stand next to each other no problem but behind you well we aint no animals on leashes
shutttttttttttttttttttttt the front door sherri ur not da example or representing black women ugghhh do u want a man or a gay man seriously take ur corn rolls down stop eww... ugh plz stop sherri bequiet already u want a girl friend in a mans body
ATTENTION NIGGERS, SPADES, COONS, PORCH-MONKEYS, SPOOKS: Niggers are the scum of the earth, useless to society and themselves and cursed by God (curse of Ham). The world would be a better place without this sub-human slave-race (less disease, criminals, laziness and stupidity)
P.S. YOU ALL LOOK LIKE THE SHIT THAT COMES OUT OF MY ASS AND I WANT TO USE YOU ALL AS TOILET PAPER….LOL!
why all the bickering??????just keep the ball rolling, eventually you'll meet someone who shares your views and then you will realise why it never worked out with anyone else. The most important thing is open communication and respecting each other's likes/dislikes.......don't try to fit anyone into a mold, give people time and space to be who there want to be!
im a black woman and i do interracial dating because honestly its better.the bottom line is there is a shortage of GOOD black men for black women most black men are either in jail,dont have a education,gay,dl,too many kids,didnt have a traditional family ,more attracted to white women etc the list goes on lol and i think its time for black women to be happy and just let it go.
Yes. men do have a problem being plus one. They like to label women that make more money than them ball breakers , man women etc. BLack men need to get over this being "ashamed" BS. ITs crazy to me that some BM feel they have to be the top dog all the damn time in a world that strips everything away from him. You heard hill state the fact that its harder for men to get these big time jobs. So why cant you support your black women when they get one of these jobs?
@kryptoniteCTD Sometimes it does seem like SOME BM are intimidated by BW making more money than them. Because why else would some of them cheat or leave for a woman that does nothing for herself? One would think in a married black couple. BM would take notice of the fact that hey my wife maybe makin more money, but i can still support her. I can push her to excel and when my time come she''ll do the same.
BW just need to expand their dating and marrying options....PERIOD! PLEASE TRAVEL AND STOP LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS FOR MEN WHO ARE UN-DESERVING. P.S. STAY AWAY FROM THESE TYPES OF SHOWS.
@hotplaye999 I would rather be a White Man's Whore than to be with a: Broke ASS/Broke Down/HIV/AIDS/STD, poor leadership, dead beat fathers, wearing your pants off your ass, prison lover, DL, gang banging, drug dealing, hanging on the corner, making millions from degradation of your OWN people (rap), killing & robbing your own people, bad credit, uneducated, unemployed BLACK MAN:)
@BWNonBM47 lol act like all black men like this. that's why you single dumb black whore with ugly white looking kids for white race. I did not understand why you are bitching about black men if you think we aint shit and love white man's dick and money so much!! smh! that's why i don't want daughters man. BLACK WOMEN ARE SHAME AND WASTE OF SPERM THAT'S WHY YOU CAN'T BE HAPPY EVEN IF YOU HAS WHITE DICK AND MONEY. KARMA IS A BITCH!
@hotplaye999 LMAO Now I'm a White Boy? Ummm no sweetie I AM A PROUD DARK SKIN SISTA:) You are so confused and hurt that A LOT of Black Women are finally reading between the lines when it comes to Black Men. SISTA'S LOVE WHO LOVE YOU: WHITE, SPANISH, ITALIAN, GREEK, FRENCH, ARABIC, JEW, JEWISH, BLACK, SWEDISH. STOP WASTING YOUR LOOKS, ENERGY, AND FINANCIAL RESOURCES ON A GROUP OF MEN THAT'S NOT SPIRITUALLY EQUIPPED TO CARE FOR YOU, IN OTHER WORDS, BLACK MEN AIN'T SHIT SO KEEP IT MOVING!
@BWNonBM47 i am black man you dumb self-hating black whore. i bet you is ugly as shit with super old ugly white as bird's shit looking cracker and white looking kids for white race smh! black women are shame! so you can stay with your slave masters and die! fuckin dirty black whore!
@hotplaye999 Why don't you get off of YouTube and stop calling Black Women out their name, you black angry nigger, and try keeping your ass out of jail. Go jump back into the cesspool you crawled out of.
@ BWNonBM47 hahh she probably cheating on you ugly azz lil dick azz white cracker with light skinned mixed boy and your money will not change this! karma is bitch!
@hotplaye999 No sweetie I am not a White Boy but a Black Woman...LMAO You are so busy putting your feelings in the air, you don't know who you're talking about or what's the focus. To be very honest, you sound like you been in the prison system, the mental hospital, or have done to many drugs. SISTA'S YOU BETTER DO SOMETHING, B/C THE WAY THINGS ARE GOING FOR BM THEY WON'T BE AROUND MUCH LONGER ANYWAY (BM KILLING BM & BLACK FOLKS, DRUGS, PRISON, DL, UNEMPLOYMENT, & NOW MENTAL ILLNESS).
@BWNonBM47 LOLOLzz you sound like crazy self-hating fat ugly white man's ex black porno whore with low self esteem smh! i bet you does ghetto gaggers . com huh?! go die pls i hope your ugly slave master kill your self-hating black azz!
STFU and listen to what these men are trying to tell you
Eezyville 1 week ago
If you genuinly love someone you will want to be there to encourage them. If you are a woman you should pleasure in making your man feel needed and if your a man you should find pleasure in making your wife feel beautiful. Yes there has to be a professional aspect to it but you have to really love one another for it to go anywhere simple as that..
jLvaughan1 1 week ago
Why the hell is there not a professional on the panel? What the hell is Steve Harvey doing giving out relationship advice?? Thats why black people are so screwed up! They need real licensed professional counselors and not idiots who think black and not people!
SanEverett 1 week ago
Black people need therapy..Its like Dave Chappelle said "black people got liquor and weed and white people got therapy!"
SanEverett 1 week ago
Why are we listening to Steve Harvey ? he's a comdian.
darkblu8 2 weeks ago
I believe in an "every man for himself" philosophy when it comes to dating relationships. I can say with a straight face that it is not black men's responsibility to make sure black women have a man. At the end of the day SOMEONE is going to be single, whether it be because of race, beauty, low finances or otherwise. Its a cruel world.
daddyrichten 3 weeks ago
Men become successful so they can finally get that pretty girl they couldn't get in high school. Often, women that become successfull are NOT that pretty girl even though some think they are.
daddyrichten 3 weeks ago
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I can answer this question very easily. Most successful black women are single because
1. They have consumed themselves in their professionalism and dont know how to attract and/or date and/or keep a man because their career comes before their relationship.
2. Their success has created an "Im the dominant one" illusion so they are least willingly to submit to the will of a man (black men dont put up with this.)
3. They want a successful black male equivalent (very hard to find)
wattsr81 3 weeks ago
you can't find a man because you watch The View...
MPSecare 3 weeks ago 2
These black people need to stop eating up all this racist propaganda.....think about it. Why are "black" problems all over the media. "Black women are unattractive", "Why are black women still single", "Why are black women overweight", "Black men in prison", and the list goes on. There's never anything positive, and here are our black celebrities feeding into this divide and conquer bs.
KatarraParson 1 month ago
@KatarraParson Why is this problem in the media you ask? Because black women like these two feel that crying on the shoulders on whites via the white controlled media will somehow endear white men to them as long as they consistently throw black men(successful or not) under the bus.
There are too many options for black men with their stuff together...hell you don't have to be a baller. Black women can't say that...I blame Karma!!
RKBGoingGlobal 4 weeks ago
The thing is You CANT FIX ANYONE but yourself... Do we Really have to WASTE time on something that Simple? Find Someone who shares YOUR TRUE VALUES...NOT the Ones that SOUND Good. IF you are not finding the Caliber of individual you desire, then THE ONLY thing to do is REVIEW YOUR actions and BEHAVIORS.
1972Tmac 1 month ago
its crazy how this stuff comes up, this is not a color problem. just a people problem. every race goes through this, get off the race hang up. intimidation, steve is right, its shame for not playing the role that our dna has set for us. most of these problems are set by the times we live in. the daily rush of crap in every day life. we as people are not set up to handle this and the only release we all have is to take it out on each other. make your life simple, find like minded mate, live..
gonzosc1 1 month ago
I dont want to sound bias, because not EVERY black woman is like this, but black women confuse the hell out of me and im black. Sometimes, it seems as if they don't honestly know what they want when it comes to a man. They say they want a good man, but then say hes too boring. So they get a more exciting bad boy, an hes a dog that dont know how to treat women right. I gave up tryin to figure them out a long time ago.
Lastdon56 1 month ago
Tit for tat, tit for tat... fuck, I give up. Date latin and eatern european chicks, they knw what men like and they know how to be feminine, sexy women.
mikelorenz121 1 month ago
And may I add that you dont ever see white people coming up on shows like dis and down each other, so why do we do it?
blackandmild77 1 month ago 3
@blackandmild77 U right it is getting tiresome. We the only race to out everything.
mistanderson 1 month ago 4
@blackandmild77 The reason is most whites can reason and therefore have less issues. did anything get solved with all those negro sheboon women doing most of the talking and little listening. NOPE.
mrblackalchemist 1 month ago
@mrblackalchemist Sadly but true you are right. Nothing ever does get solved.
blackandmild77 1 month ago
Why have these type of type of discussions anyway? Black Men and black women obviously dont get along. So just leave each other the hell alone and date other races of people. Because all this bickering is not solving anything. You are just gonna get pissed off in the end and stay dat way.
blackandmild77 1 month ago
@blackandmild77 you lame
darkblu8 2 weeks ago
@darkblu8 so are you bitch
blackandmild77 2 weeks ago
Steve hits it on the head @ 2:00. A real MAN is not intimidated by any woman. I dont care how powerful and/or beautiful you are! A man just wants to insure that he sufficient in what he brings to the table and when he isn't where he feel he should be, he does not want to pursue that caliber of a woman, because he has already pre-determined that it will be a waste of time based on her "criteria".It is no insecurety o intimidation either! It the delima within himself and has nothing to do with her
NewCeo2306 1 month ago 2
We men are not whatsoever intemidated by a black woman's sucess or any other race of women and no bald head harvey we are not ashame either.It's just when women bring it up 30,000 times is when we get fed up,of course we are very happy in your accomplishments or what have yu,but don't keep bringing up as if yu were interviewing for a position at a company.This is is not a buisness propasition,this is a relationship.Why are we talking stocks and bonds when we are making love in the bedroom?lol
MegaPsycho84 1 month ago
The Bible says to whom much is given much is required. I get confused at time because, women are told that men are like kids per say, it's in them to play around in they're teens, 20's and 30's and maybe in they're 40's they might decide to get serious and settle down, but oh wait, once they hit 50, they will go through a midlife crisis....I mean what the hell am I suppose to believe? If God made the made HEAD of women, then there should never be a time after teens years to be "childlike."
Famfriass 2 months ago
its an African thing, cuz African men lyk to feel in control and they ain't goin' wit no woman who gon be actin all snotty, African women like men to be superior to them.
look at how the black women are talking cuz they gotta a little money,
childofconvenant 2 months ago
This is the dumbest crap ever.
edf81 2 months ago
You would think that this is rocket science. The problem is simple. Rap culture, hood rats and thugs have reduced the number of "good black men." Why be a nice, smart guy when you can be a jerk and get all the ladies-sorry bimbos? Black women have let themselves go. Look at the women in that audience. Most of them are fat. Sherri Shepherd is complaining about her success and being intimidating. Men want a beautiful, fit, feminine woman. You can be successful but don't be masculine.
angelchild829 2 months ago
@angelchild829 Black guys as an aggregate group are the lowest earning/least successful males on the globe. The successful black guys can date white women, but they will never be able to achieve the status of white men.
Missy2012NY 2 months ago
@Missy2012NY So true!!!
WinnieAmos05 2 months ago
@Missy2012NY Who says we want to be white men? Or have their status?
mrblackalchemist 2 weeks ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 I understand you. Filtering out all of the thugs to find an educated respectful black man can be hard. Then when you meet them, some of them have had bad experiences with hood rats and have turned to other races and have declared all black women as hood rats. Its annoying. We have to put up with so much more than other groups. You would think that black men would be more empathetic, but many of them don't understand at all.
angelchild829 2 months ago
Some of these people should take their own advice. Hill isn't married, Steve Harvey is a serial cheater, Jimi is sitting up there with that tight t-shirt on, didn't even try to dress for the occassion and still claiming that woman have crazy standards. Sherri, however did just get married. Im hoping that she didn'y settle, but the man looks like he could be her father.
DeSpecial 2 months ago
@DeSpecial hahahahahaha what an observation. cheers!
Newtttton 2 months ago
@Newtttton lol, thanks.
DeSpecial 2 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 Amen and the HIV can soar in the white community when these sorry ass black men hook up with white women. Viva La White Men.
tonguemistic09 2 months ago
I remember the first "misunderstanding" I had with a Back woman I was dating. I had a really bad day at work and needed some "me" time to sort my head out, so I went into the garage to do some tinkering. She called and could tell I wasn't up to par and wanted to come over and talk. I insisted I needed to be by myself and she went on about how I should not close her out when I have a bad day. I realized then that is what Women do...talk...Men go in a cave. To this day we still have odds
ajason91356 3 months ago
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Propaganda this is being done because of the rise of michelle obama can't get to her get to the rest of them they step up their media assault on black women on purpose to drive black women to white men or other race's because once the black woman cut's out from the self preservation game we are done in this country anywhere white's are they always remain a ruling class over the darker mix up race's the so called pure white's control the MEDIA I REPEAT MEDIA what's there purpose?
RealityIsAIllusion 3 months ago
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I have no idea why your post was marked as "spam" when it's pretty on point. Glad to read you're not fooled.
MrRossT1 2 months ago
Who is intimidated by by Sheri Sheherd and that trifling crew of hers. (Myth) Black men on the most part are not intimidated by what some trifling sister has in her bank account. Since black men deal with white women who have even larger accounts, To what end ! Another Urban myth created by self over-rating sisters because they get a House N job from a white person! Unlike thier Mothers and Grandmothers that had far less, These ~ for brains dont have the intergrity to go with the status.
andre12593 3 months ago 12
@andre12593 20 thumbs up for that comment
RadReese73 2 months ago
true talk
NohaTheRebel 4 months ago
sherri shepard is repulsive. steve had to set her straight on any number of occassions.
fact is...i don't see FIT,FINE, EDUCATED and 'SUCCESSFUL' sisters hide behind success as an excuse for not having a man.
sorry,only fat, ugly, multiple kids out of wedlock and buster sisters complain about 'no good black men'.
they're right in one sense...the 'good' men of any race stay as far away from her as humanly possible.
just like broke men can't get the better women.
that's life for losers.
neoconsnightmare3 4 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99
"foreign black men"? What makes you think US black women are opened to dating foriegn black men? I know US black women are quick to date any kind of white guy with some money, but foreign black men; I am not so sure.
forevah 4 months ago
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Rich Black women are ashame and afraid to bring their poor Black husbands in the public. Pride and fear of the status Quoe. But White women are not ashamed nor afraid to bring their Black husband in public. They feel very proud to invite their Black husbands to Office Parties, Busines meetings, or Celebrity Red Carpet Nights out. Until Black women stop being afraid of the white boss. They will remain single. Iam a black man that hate white women.I love my Black women.
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andylumeh 4 months ago
Has anybody seen Condoleza Rice Husband, Or Susan Rice Husband with them in Public?NEVER. There is an inferriority complex forced on so called succesful Black women by their pay masters, not to ever let their Black husbands appear in public with them. The system make the Rich Black women ashame of their Black husbands in public. Also Blackmen do not trust black women who work for whiteman, ( The enemy) They always feel she is spying and reporting on them. Thats 90% truth. Black Ladies wake up.
andylumeh 4 months ago
@andylumeh Condoleeza Rice does not have a husband because she chooses not to. The same way Oprah Winfrey and many other successful black women are husband less and childless. They have acquired so much money and success their are unwilling to share it with anyone of less status. The only thing is Oprah and Condeleeza are the least attractive of the successful women and sucessful men would not target them anyways. The same goes for the unattractive women in this video. Men do not want them!!!
kilahchris 3 months ago
@andylumeh Susan Rice is married to a successful white man.
Missy2012NY 2 months ago
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andylumeh 4 months ago
@MsKateRoberts
Successful at not being conceited and self serving. Successful at being kind and generous! Successful at having respect for a mate. Misinformation of your purpose in life , not your **** job. Anyone of you so called successful women can be laid off or replaced . Go figure ! Your first duty to God and man is being a decent woman and human being. Success is measured Quality not Quantity !
andre12593 4 months ago 2
Successful at keeping themselves fit and attractive to a mate. Successful at Keeping themselves holy and not being busy bodies and 411 artist. Successful at praying with a mate and working beside one! Successful at reaching back and helping other sisters. Successful at bringing a virtuous woman to the table. Successful at keeping their legs closed long enough for a man to learn to like them. Successful at mastering a jealous ,suspicious, imaginative mind!Successful a making love.
andre12593 4 months ago
@MsKateRoberts
First sucess is more than financial. Mark 8:36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Financial gain still brings divorce, cheating ,fights, Just because you can now pay the rent that dont make you a sucessful woman. A sucessful woman prospers even as her soul prospers. She is sucessful in relationship skills, Sucessful in character, sucessful as a homemaker, Raises her kids. Many single women have out of control kids.
andre12593 4 months ago
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SOOO WHY did you get with him? "I saw potential"... maybe they should get with people who are already the way they want them to be.. not with people who have the potential to be who they want them to be.. this way you wont have to change them later on or dump them because they have not reached YOUR desired potential.
themaniusedtob 4 months ago
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themaniusedtob 4 months ago
Try to adjust to every situation, and also learn to get over it. Why cant u date outside our race. Believe me I love BLACK LOVE. But I also believe any man or any woman, no matter the race can give just anything u need. The World is Big y'all.
OblivionOnTruth77 4 months ago
Because u struggled or strived on ur own, meaning u'll have this complex of I know alot of things that u dont, I can do it by myself dont tell me 'cause I know it already, look where it got me... And when things starts to fall apart , we have the speech of this sort: "Im a Black Queen", I thought u'd be the king, I can handle myself, U Can't Handle A Strong Black Woman. Black Ladies just need to be over it, not be so stuck on past pain, on what they were taught by their mamas, all the time.
OblivionOnTruth77 4 months ago
Margareth Thatcher ... a woman who was former Prime Minister of England, and known as the Iron Lady, was married and made tea for her husband every morning before stepping outside her home to go to work. The problem with many black women, not to say all of 'em is this tendancy to believe all the time if I dont do it for myself nobody will, and repeating that to onself makes u believe in the long run that u dont need to encourage no one.
OblivionOnTruth77 4 months ago
I don't want my man standing behind me, I will always stand behind my man. I support and stand behind my man to the fullest.
Mscookie3131 4 months ago
Black women are full of mis-information
andre12593 4 months ago 13
@andre12593 And what is this misinformation that we are full of?
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@andre12593 amen brother..lol..very true
TheBsheep 3 months ago
@andre12593 And full of shit too!
blackandmild77 1 month ago
@andre12593 Most black women today are as dumb as bear shyt. Sheri just opens that big fucking trap and spews out her ignorance. Funniest thing about black women is how they think they are so intelligent.
mrblackalchemist 1 month ago
@andre12593 Humans are full of mis-information
bbarrett411 13 hours ago
Problem: that mouth. case closed.
unique74muzik 4 months ago 4
STEVE is a REAL DUDE...somebody with some sense spoke up...Generals STAND UP!
unique74muzik 4 months ago
the problem imo is that we worked so hard to become successful and if you notice alot of successful are kind of dominate that we forget to switch back and let the man be a man and we tend to cut them down. Im the breadwinner in my relationship but still cook and clean and all that but i have to remember to not dominate him..like Monique the black female comedian she talks about how she makes the money but makes sure to make her man feel like a man
hottxlatina 4 months ago
let me break it down for ya'll. there is a difference between being alone and lonely. you can be alone and totally fine. Lonely is a new breed. Both types might want a man. But Lonely woman will go out of their way to get one, and reek of desperation. If you just are alone but keep it moving with life, you're more likely to find a man. Sherri says she wants a man to take out her braids but is she willing to sick his dick if her husband asks??? probably not
201stars 4 months ago
SHERRI SHEPARD IS A DUMB BITCH
MrGIMMEMOOR 5 months ago
@MrGIMMEMOOR you readin' my posts? lol..this is the most ignorant black woman on tv...
Bexly 5 months ago
lets see.....stfu and spread your legs. no one cares what you have to say!
alteredbeasts 5 months ago
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@hotplaye999 Hmmm let me guess you are unemployed, why? 1) You are a Black Male and 2) You can't stay away from YouTube, especially this channel. Honey give it up, just b/c you call Black Women these nasty names, will not stop them from dating and marrying who they please. Why don't you go raise hell with black Men who date & marry nonblack women:)
BWNonBM47 5 months ago
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@hotplaye999 I would rather be a White Man's Whore than to be with a: Broke ASS/Broke Down/HIV/AIDS/STD, poor leadership, dead beat fathers, wearing your pants off your ass, prison lover, DL, gang banging, drug dealing, hanging on the corner, making millions from degradation of your OWN people (rap), killing & robbing your own people, bad credit, uneducated, unemployed BLACK MAN:)
BWNonBM47 5 months ago
She makes undergirding sound so gross................
Natsukashii3 5 months ago
these dumb self-hating fat bitches don't want "good black man" they want sexy black nigga with big dick smh! that's why they single but all these dumb self-hating black/mixed bitches still blame us in this shit. how we self-hating sellout coons, how we don't want black women or how black men are ugly smh! my black women need wake up and start helping your black men because right now you only helping white man to destroy us!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
Could black american please stop using the word "black" as generalisation to describe all black people, as an East African we do not have this problem in our society, our women get marry young and stay married. This is a Phenomenon for the black Americans but by using the word black you drag all black people from all corners of the world, this is unique issues that is only affecting the black american community, not the Ethiopians, Somalis, Kenyans, or any other African heritage women.
YEELKEED 5 months ago
@YEELKEED
You are African. That would distinuish us from you. African is pretty clear that you are a foreign Black.
PatsBooks 5 months ago
We're here. You call us names. You call us nerds.
Bill1275w 5 months ago
as black man i think that black women need to stop trying to be us and be just woman. as black woman or mother of you own black race you need to understand how to please to your black man and do everything for us just like white women do for her white bitch azz lil dick azz white men only then you got black man as a husband, a boyfriend and real black family and real dark/brown skin black looking kids and not all these fake azz mixed looking for white race who will be hate your black azzez! smh!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 you make no sense and you sound straight up ignorant & stupid
xXLikeAbosSXx09 5 months ago
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 why just because i say the truth?! i try help to us, most problems in black community and black race come from black women and white men.
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 that doesn't sound like the truth to me. it sounds more like an opinion.
besides there are plenty of people who not even half black n white and they could be any other racial mixtures with black in them. what if they're not married to a white person but they're married to an asian or hispanic then what?
xXLikeAbosSXx09 5 months ago
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 lol you is real dumb b'tch smh! that's why black women like you are single or can't marry black man smh! what about real dark skin black kids or black family huh hoe?! or only black men should marry a black woman, no matter how she looks? you want non dark skin black men for marriage and "happiness" or ugly mixed/white looking kids for white race smh! but black men should be is in the sh't just because he's not rich, don't have good job or don't look like chris brown i'm right?
hotplaye999 5 months ago
that's why black men don't want you fake azz white man's black or mixed whores/hoes when he becomes rich and famous and this is one of reasons why a lot of you are single, can't marry or white man's porno whores!! BLACK WOMEN ARE SHAME!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 then she is sellout self-hating dumb whore who hate dark skin and all black race!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 that is such bullshit. -_-. my cousin is dark and she's married to a native american/filipino man. why are you so mad?
xXLikeAbosSXx09 5 months ago
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 lol so she is sellout self-hating dumb whore with anti-black mixed looking kids for white race. omfg bitch you are soo fuckin dumb as shit smh! just go marry black man and don't be such waste of sperm like most of black women today! ugh!! that's why I don't want daughters, only chocolate black sons!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 when you can put together a decent center in proper english then maybe we can have an intelligent conversation but as of now your comments are ludicrous & spiteful. at least shes a "dumb bitch" with a bachelors degree in biology and has a stable job and has her own house. and what do you have? a typical troll account with a brain about as small as your dick. im black and thank god i never took men like you in. i will stick with my latins,asians, & native americns. you're dissmised
xXLikeAbosSXx09 5 months ago
@xXLikeAbosSXx09 "small dick" "my asians & native americans" wtf you are talking about?! smh! you are black? lol i hope you know if you have sex with non black man then most of the brothas don't marry you!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
i have job and my woman is black (not sellout hoe like you) i just care about my ppl and race....today whites trying to destroy us and real dark skin black sons/kids that's why we have mixed boy in white house and that's why i am here but i dont understand if you don't want marry black man then wtf your dumb sellout self-hating azz doing on here huh? this video about why "successful" and "smart" black women can't get or marry black men!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
i know why these bitches can't find or marry black man because they probably are dumb self-hating white dick loving white man's whores just like you! your dark skin cousin marry asian boy only because she has money because If it were not for her money then she probably would have been single just like all these hoes in this video and you know why? because your cousin is ugly as shit! smh!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
THANK YOU STEVE!!!
aivrsn75phila 5 months ago
UHHHHH.....Maybe because black women are FAT, UGLY AND MEAN!
AztlanPrincess 5 months ago
Both of these stupid ass bitches! DON'T EVEN GET WHAT THESE BROTHERS ARE TALKING ABOUT!
TheNewJeru777 6 months ago
@TheNewJeru777 FOOL
crpdm1965 6 months ago
@crpdm1965 Fol?! No! You are the fool BITCH! And somebody need to, slap the livin' shit out your momma! For having your stankin' rotten ass ignorant LOOSE HOE!
TheNewJeru777 5 months ago
@crpdm1965 Bitch ass nigga!
TheNewJeru777 5 months ago
@ethoseeka017 Let's just say the typical black woman would pick a thug, or a gangster to have a family with over an intelligent, college graduate. Then when they have had enough of the nagging from the woman, they leave her with
kids. That's where the black woman gets mad and say where are the "good" black men. Their fault, they chose somebody else.
MegaSlaze 6 months ago
@MegaSlaze amen!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
and why are we so stupid, why take our dirty laundry and blare it on nighline. We need to talk-to each other about our dysfunctions not the rest of the world. White people don't telecast their baggage they have counseling why are we the one's to exploit our problems.
ethoseeka017 6 months ago
I'm new to you tube I can't believe so much dysfunction. First blk woman stop going crazy over some of these self hating bloggers. the majority of blk men who are not on this including myself love you. 2nd many are single through divorce or the fact the relationship didnt work out they have children its not like they never met a man. white divorce is high you dont hear the media throwing out numbers. We have to ask who putting these #s out there and for what purpose.
ethoseeka017 6 months ago
So she wants to be independent but wants the man to support her, that's some fucked up logic and I wouldn't date a woman that has kids I ain't taking care of another man children
crzune 6 months ago
@crzune WORD UP! YOU AIN'T LIED! I FEEL YA!
TheNewJeru777 6 months ago
The women on stage are already single mothers and they see nothing wrong with that. Many successful black men who are responsible and have their priorities straight do not want to a single mother. They want to start their own families and not join someone else family. I know this because I am one of them. True talk. I know of some successful black women with children by multiple fathers and are still hoping to get married to have more children. SMH in disbelief. Black women you can do better.
forevah 6 months ago 13
@forevah I truly agree with you! (But to be honest) For some reason I agree with men more then my own sex. So I truly understand where they are coming from because I put my foot into their shoes and visualize how they feel.
TheAmor5612 4 months ago
@TheAmor5612
A lot of black women in America may not agree with you even if you present facts and evidence. I noticed you are Canadian, it might have something to do with our agreement on the disadvantages of single mothers seeking life partners or marriage.
forevah 4 months ago
@forevah not that I agree with them being single mothers necessarily. But sometimes it happens like that. And in the biggest hypocrisy, sometimes men have children and expect a woman coming into their lives to be okay with that, so why can't it be the other way around? I mean who's to say the men on stage don't have children and are single?
crystalspayne 4 months ago
@crystalspayne Most good successful black women also don't want a man with kids. One reason some women overlook that problem is because the man may not have full custody of the kids. Another reason could be financial benefits. I don't understand why some good successful black women are still having children by some irresponsible men (thugs) who won't father their children. May be as a woman you can explain that. Black women please make better choices with men. You can't stay young forever.
forevah 4 months ago
@forevah Well I can't answer because I don't have children. But you're right. It's not nice to see these beautiful and successful women being knocked up by guys who have nothing to offer but sex.
crystalspayne 4 months ago
@crystalspayne
Remember that these women chose those men. Why do these women choose these kind of men? Just why? These women are intelligent, they are not dumb. They too need to hold themselves accounting for sleeping with Mr. no good.
forevah 4 months ago
@forevah well that should be the better question. It's kinda confusing to hear some women speak about standards and then 2 months later, they fall for a guy opposite all their standards. Why do the girls fall for guys who they know to be "bad boys" then when their heart is broken, they say all men are dogs? Idk the answer, I know that some women do these things. Well look at yourself, you chose a guy who had nothing to offer and now you're angry at guys? not cool
crystalspayne 4 months ago
@forevah I mean not that guys do it differently. Sometimes guys do the same thing.
crystalspayne 4 months ago
@crystalspayne
My point exactly. People choose the wrong partners and blame everybody for it and their personal situations. I guess its the power of lust.
forevah 4 months ago
@forevah and alcohol. lol.
You're totally right though. Some people have to own up to their bad decisions and stop blaming everyone else. Check yourself first I say.
crystalspayne 4 months ago
Look at her fat ass she's a whale.... Loose some weight and you might get noticed by the gas pump attendant ..
MrCube53 6 months ago
@MrCube53 You got me rollin'! lol lol lol That's very funny what you said! lol lol lol
TheNewJeru777 6 months ago
No one wants that black demon, to much problems and to much fucking mouth!
I have a so called black woman, so I know through experience!
IndianaTruth12 7 months ago
Good discussion. I read the book, Handfuls of Purpose that adds alot of good insights pertinent to this.
1wannakn0wm0re 7 months ago
It's like every time the men on the panel try to answer a question or try to explain certain things to them honest and direct Sherri gets all defensive or tries to change the situation.
e84fresh 7 months ago
Morning: Please read this writer's posts...!
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Pariah2001 7 months ago
What a Real man wants for you…
I want for you a man who is
Strong enough to support your dreams.
Wise enough to seek your advice.
Gentle and warm, with the heart to Love you for who you are.
He looks first to know you before wanting "knowledge" of you.
Someone who, in his quest for your heart, seeks first the Father.
Seeks to be a part of His plan for you.
All this, I wish for you. This is the man I strive to be.
blutsturmer 7 months ago
I think this is a great discussion but can someone please tell me who invited that gay man??? How in the Hell can a Gay man tell women what men want???
Twoodssax1234567 7 months ago
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well all of my previous girlfriends have been black,apart from one (she was half black half white) so you might aswell call her black...but yeah i think its a generation thing...i'm 19 from england and in my opinion you don't get better than a black woman but that's my opinion...the black girls do alot for us over here when we get into sticky situations and believe me alot of us do get into stick situations
positiveblackman1 7 months ago
Sherri is on point for about 85% of this program... Most black men need to be validated EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY HOUR OF EVERY DAY! Most tend to have low self esteem and BIG egos! Black men think they are the only ones who face trials... Not only do black women have a strike in Amerikkka for being BLACK but then we have a strike for being a WOMAN... But unlike black men, black women persevere and don't sit around acting like somebody owes them something!
mslady30117 7 months ago
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leseant 7 months ago
@mslady30117 Sure, that's probably true...for Most black men THAT NEED TO BE VALIDATED every minute of every hour of everyday. Emotional dependency and insecurity doesn't know skin color or gender. That's the inherent problem with this vague and baseless claim. In truth, Women need to take more responsibility in the type of men they choose. Not pick a few weak dudes ( probably single-mom-raised, lol) and write off "85%" of them all. It's more deeper than that.
leseant 7 months ago
Black Women Need To Stop Using Their "Success" To Validate If a Black Man Is Worthy, We Men Like Dating Women That are Not Putting Their "Success" In Front all the Time ...Men are Intimidated by "Successful" Black Women Is Pure Bullshit.
Steve Harvey Seems To Hit That Point Beautifully.
urdynamix1 7 months ago
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Why do so many black women have babies by these no good sorry ass low life unemployed won't get a job bombs??? Please comment.
Twoodssax1234567 7 months ago
omg this bullshit again about black on blacks...and we wonder why this world is so fucked up..we still talking about black women and black men dating....if yall would stop being so fuckin racist maybe you could find a good man period...why does he have to be black?? Some dumb shit...this is the reason malcom x got smoked...tryna create a stronger black race of only blacks...fuck that shit martin luther king said all are equal...no seperation...this kinda shit makes me sick...thumbs fuckin down
BiggieSmalls11111 8 months ago
@BiggieSmalls11111 When's your next cd comin out?
dkthg 7 months ago
@dkthg It's not. Im dead.
BiggieSmalls11111 7 months ago
do any of these panelist have a solid relationship?
b3autiphulmokha 9 months ago
Jacque reid is so damn fine. The only reason i watch this nonsense. BTW there are pleanty of black women who understand their role in a relationship, and the are married. This is a non issue.
THEBLACKPATRIOT1 9 months ago
Black women in America are their own worst enemies. Just because you attended college and pay or bills and purchased a two bedroom townhouse, does not make you independent and strong. I own multiple properties, have an education, own a Ferrari and traveled the planet BUT that does no make me a strong independent person. It also does not mean I have the right to speak down to anyone who has not obtained the same.
MrVeesworld 9 months ago
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@Accune You're right, there is someone for everyone but if you don't expand your options, you will never know. One thing I can say about BM, they are not afraid to love who loves them, no matter what color, BW should do the same. Its not that White Women are taking BM from BW, they just don't limit themselves to one group of men.
BWNonBM47 10 months ago
easy cause they ugly
J2Scorpion 10 months ago
Sherri is just another BW whore who is getting burned later on in life, you can't enter the dating pool after 40. This is simple and basic every other race of people knows this.
DIJV79 10 months ago
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thinkalott33 10 months ago
I'm sick of hearing why black women can't find a good black man. Society has brained washed so many black people by putting on shows like this. You never hear about white women saying it's hard to find a good white man, or any other race at that. And I bet you will never see the media put on a show that displays black strong Families. There are plenty of good single black men out their as well as good single black women. You say there is no good black man out their, well, that because of what
dynamite2T 10 months ago 2
Whoah I do not think, no hell, I KNOW That a Man should NOT be standing behind a woman. That is plan for disaster. These women need to know we are men and not some puppy. We can stand next to each other no problem but behind you well we aint no animals on leashes
oneindachamber 10 months ago
shutttttttttttttttttttttt the front door sherri ur not da example or representing black women ugghhh do u want a man or a gay man seriously take ur corn rolls down stop eww... ugh plz stop sherri bequiet already u want a girl friend in a mans body
f8dagrate 10 months ago
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entertainmentvalues2 10 months ago
It sounds like they were all with he wrong guys. Not all men are like that...smh that I know.
XXVivaLaVidaBellaXX 10 months ago
why all the bickering??????just keep the ball rolling, eventually you'll meet someone who shares your views and then you will realise why it never worked out with anyone else. The most important thing is open communication and respecting each other's likes/dislikes.......don't try to fit anyone into a mold, give people time and space to be who there want to be!
omarmelon 10 months ago
im a black woman and i do interracial dating because honestly its better.the bottom line is there is a shortage of GOOD black men for black women most black men are either in jail,dont have a education,gay,dl,too many kids,didnt have a traditional family ,more attracted to white women etc the list goes on lol and i think its time for black women to be happy and just let it go.
lewisg24 10 months ago
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kryptoniteCTD 10 months ago
Yes. men do have a problem being plus one. They like to label women that make more money than them ball breakers , man women etc. BLack men need to get over this being "ashamed" BS. ITs crazy to me that some BM feel they have to be the top dog all the damn time in a world that strips everything away from him. You heard hill state the fact that its harder for men to get these big time jobs. So why cant you support your black women when they get one of these jobs?
kryptoniteCTD 10 months ago
@kryptoniteCTD Sometimes it does seem like SOME BM are intimidated by BW making more money than them. Because why else would some of them cheat or leave for a woman that does nothing for herself? One would think in a married black couple. BM would take notice of the fact that hey my wife maybe makin more money, but i can still support her. I can push her to excel and when my time come she''ll do the same.
kryptoniteCTD 10 months ago
BW just need to expand their dating and marrying options....PERIOD! PLEASE TRAVEL AND STOP LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS FOR MEN WHO ARE UN-DESERVING. P.S. STAY AWAY FROM THESE TYPES OF SHOWS.
BWNonBM47 11 months ago 7
@BWNonBM47 I as a BM agree,these shows will only make BW more depressed.Look at the glass half full.
Accune 10 months ago
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BWNonBM47 10 months ago
@BWNonBM47 amen.
NappturalDancer2K10 6 months ago
@BWNonBM47 pls stfu you self-hating dumb white man's black whore!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 I would rather be a White Man's Whore than to be with a: Broke ASS/Broke Down/HIV/AIDS/STD, poor leadership, dead beat fathers, wearing your pants off your ass, prison lover, DL, gang banging, drug dealing, hanging on the corner, making millions from degradation of your OWN people (rap), killing & robbing your own people, bad credit, uneducated, unemployed BLACK MAN:)
BWNonBM47 5 months ago
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@BWNonBM47 lol act like all black men like this. that's why you single dumb black whore with ugly white looking kids for white race. I did not understand why you are bitching about black men if you think we aint shit and love white man's dick and money so much!! smh! that's why i don't want daughters man. BLACK WOMEN ARE SHAME AND WASTE OF SPERM THAT'S WHY YOU CAN'T BE HAPPY EVEN IF YOU HAS WHITE DICK AND MONEY. KARMA IS A BITCH!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@BWNonBM47 YOU UGLY AZZ WHITE BOY WITH LIL DICK WHO CAN'T DATE WHITE WOMEN THAT'S WHY YOU IN HERE! I BET YOUR BLACK BITCH IS REAL PORNO WHORE! SMH!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 LMAO Now I'm a White Boy? Ummm no sweetie I AM A PROUD DARK SKIN SISTA:) You are so confused and hurt that A LOT of Black Women are finally reading between the lines when it comes to Black Men. SISTA'S LOVE WHO LOVE YOU: WHITE, SPANISH, ITALIAN, GREEK, FRENCH, ARABIC, JEW, JEWISH, BLACK, SWEDISH. STOP WASTING YOUR LOOKS, ENERGY, AND FINANCIAL RESOURCES ON A GROUP OF MEN THAT'S NOT SPIRITUALLY EQUIPPED TO CARE FOR YOU, IN OTHER WORDS, BLACK MEN AIN'T SHIT SO KEEP IT MOVING!
BWNonBM47 5 months ago
@BWNonBM47 i am black man you dumb self-hating black whore. i bet you is ugly as shit with super old ugly white as bird's shit looking cracker and white looking kids for white race smh! black women are shame! so you can stay with your slave masters and die! fuckin dirty black whore!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 Why don't you get off of YouTube and stop calling Black Women out their name, you black angry nigger, and try keeping your ass out of jail. Go jump back into the cesspool you crawled out of.
BWNonBM47 5 months ago
@ BWNonBM47 hahh she probably cheating on you ugly azz lil dick azz white cracker with light skinned mixed boy and your money will not change this! karma is bitch!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
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BWNonBM47 5 months ago
@hotplaye999 No sweetie I am not a White Boy but a Black Woman...LMAO You are so busy putting your feelings in the air, you don't know who you're talking about or what's the focus. To be very honest, you sound like you been in the prison system, the mental hospital, or have done to many drugs. SISTA'S YOU BETTER DO SOMETHING, B/C THE WAY THINGS ARE GOING FOR BM THEY WON'T BE AROUND MUCH LONGER ANYWAY (BM KILLING BM & BLACK FOLKS, DRUGS, PRISON, DL, UNEMPLOYMENT, & NOW MENTAL ILLNESS).
BWNonBM47 5 months ago
@BWNonBM47 LOLOLzz you sound like crazy self-hating fat ugly white man's ex black porno whore with low self esteem smh! i bet you does ghetto gaggers . com huh?! go die pls i hope your ugly slave master kill your self-hating black azz!