one thing she is right about though, it is a woman partially to blame.. because if a gal is truly interested in someone else's man .. and really wants a relationship .. she would have to have the balls to tell him to clean the doorstep and do the work and then revisit the situation when he has done the work, HE WON'T, which they don't figure out til later .. to this type of chick I say have a good good talk with your vagina.. because she is going to get screwed better than her head would.. hah..
Men cheat because they are firstly being dishonest with the person they have their closest relationship with .. themselves and their dicks.. so when they take the big lie and lay past that point they want to experience a temporary thrill.. and hope they can keep their home life going as well.. rock in the boat one way... if they brought the subject up at the dinner table good chances that it would spoil dinner ,maybe a few.. the idea that a man does this because he is not being catered to is bs
@howbigisyourlove .. if he is going to cheat and thinks he can get away with it he will... it is all based on lack of disclosure firstly to the individual and then to the union....
Her saying that women don't cater to their man is unbelievable abuse.. you see that is why women don't have the back bone to leave.. because they are already threadbare and not taking care of themselves.. a woman whole would not tolerate a cheating man.. or a cheating anyone in their lives ..
@howbigisyourlove the onus of their man's level of immaturity is not their responsibility .. last time I looked I never seen a man that was fucking around on his partner as attractive.. he's a douce.. and maybe our society should look at him as one.. he is a lousy and unplugged in father as well as husband. .. Dr. Laura .. .. Dr Berman the worlds leading sex therapists explains that 76 percent of women fake orgasms..
@howbigisyourlove if you ask me .. marriages would have more sex.. more desire and more closeness and more depth if the work was done to plug in .. at home .. for a man to want to understand his wife's sexual needs so that he pleases her and that the relationship is based on mutual work and mutual play.. and mutual bonding.... if you don't want your wife man up and give her the respect she deserves and fuck off for her to heal and be whole with or without another man...
I find Dr Laura unsexy and whiny.. and her idea that prostitutes and escort services don't have sex and just talk to men... that is such horseshit. I have a good friend that runs three houses of ill repute and believe me .. these men want sex .. pay for sex and get sex.. the idea that they go there .. pay big money to have a babysitter service is bullshit.. Dr. Laura you don't know wtf you are talking about when it comes to escort services.. and believe me these women are not socially tactile
and they do not want to be the guys buddy, as a matter of fact they actually hate it .. they say they'd much rather give a guy anything than a talk,, besides, girlfriend experience to which she is talking about is total bullshit.. escort services charge three times their regular and most guys want to get their rocks off.. end of story.. where in fuck do you think these men who go there come from.. they are after the cookie just like the real world holey shit she has a radio show
dream on Dr. Laura.. acting is acting.. and no amount of acting can work besides it is way too much work.. nurture .. are you kidding sounds more like handing him a bottle and changing his diaper.. there is no way no how... try using the one thing that makes sense. maturity and truth. if a guy told his wife he wanted to cheat .. then she has a choice.. to act to engage in being there still or getting the fuck out.. men cheat because they are cowards ... and good liars..
Me telling you that Dr. Laura is wrong 100 times out of 100 is like me telling you not to mix dangerous, highly-corrosive chemicals with your genitals. Unless you're suffering from brain damage, I'm wasting everyone's time. She wouldn't know the truth if it came up and put a mirror in that horror movie she has the fucking nerve to call her face.
you know what gets me? women will complain about their husbands, they argue, refuse to clean, cook, take care of children,neglect their appearances, gain all this weight and still demand that their husbands pursue them as if they are worthy of addoration.
yet those same women, jump, sing, dance, make coffee, file, clean, make appointments, buy gifts for,listen to, work late for... who else? their bosses at work. without so much as a peep of discontent.. Shame on you. why do we cheat again?
you see, if "wives" actually listened to her, they would realize that she is correct and the same thing goes for men. She is correct and people who are guilty of NEGLECT get upset because she reads their "mail".....
Don't take advice form this woman. However people should wait longer in life to get married and have kids. Also it would probably help if you did spend more time with partner. Also I bet dr. Laura was an absolute freak in her day.
it's like this folks, if the wife was a whore in bed, her man would not be looking for any extra pussy...just sayin'...save your breath, i don't give a shit what you think...
@oldmtnfart .. a woman could spend her life in bed.. have her genitals covered in k-y jelly all day.. have her ass in the air and practise performing fellatio on a bulldog or a 13" dildo all day long and it wouldn't matter... curiousity killed the kittie.. when you don't want to be "in" they you should bet out and if the door hits yah on the way out and you like it , good for you.. to constantly put the blame on the wife or partner not performing well at the circus is fucking bullshit excuses
@howbigisyourlove lots of ugly lazy. unkempt .. clean underweared men screw around.. a liar is a liar.. some guys are men.. and some guys ain't .. only their pubic hairdresser knows for sure.. I never saw a deceitful lying skank of either sex ... attractive . brains trump monkey stupid stumps all the time.. why screw a fucked up person when they can do that all by themselves..
Saying Dr. Laura is wrong on damn near everything is like saying you shouldn't mix hazardous, corrosive chemicals with your genitalia. Both are true, and both are things people should already know.
I listen to Dr. Laura all time and I am 100% positive that she HAS NEVER SAID that women are responsible of why their husbands cheat on them. She has said that IN SOME CASES it could be the reason. Of course, in some cases, if the wife treats her husband as a piece of garbage, he is entitled to look for honey somewhere else...but that's not always the case. If a woman picks the wrong guy it will be her fault.
if "Dr." Laura was my woman (god forbid) i would cheat on her everyday and night so i would never look at her ugly face ever. this woman is only angry cuz she's ugly, and all her words are related to her ugliness. have you ever seen a beautiful woman talk/write like her? beautiful women are the reason men live, but ugly women are the reason men commit suicide. and that is why she hates to be an ugly woman. in fact, she's angry at god, but she blames men for her uglyness. and god is a man.
What a bullshit excuse for a woman. No whore who will spread her thighs at a drop of a dime can care for a man like his wife does. We clean, cook, care for the kids, have sex when he wants, care for him when he is sick, run his errands. If a man cheats it is because he is a loser. If you are not happy then leave the relationship, don't cheat.
@jaslene816 - I agree that jerks cheat and I agree they should leave if they're not happy. But...what about when there's kids involved? They might be hesitant. Also men worry about losing everything in divorce settlements.Also,when you say WE clean,cook,care for kids and have sex ect,you may want to say"I"instead because now days day care takes care of children and many women couldn't cook a pot of water.As for sex, most women have sex when THEY want it.That's just my observation.
she's so stupid it doesnt matter, even if you do all those things for your man they will still cheat fucking stupid whore, and man has two feet he can get up and cook his own food
CON'T-- They then marry the person they had an affair with in the candy store and guess what 4 short years later their mistress that's now the wife leaves them for another after 2 more children, and the cycle goes on. WHO's responsible now Dr. Laura for the cheating, could it be it's my ex-husbands fault this time???
...lol... women responsible for cheating husbands oh really???I guess i was responsible for not changing his diapers, for not birping him, feeding him etc...wake up Dr. laura men are not babies, or at least their not suppose to be, their adults with families, though often times they like to go to the candy store and have an affair thus ending their marriage.
I think she made plenty of sense and she was defending the men on this one, yet the two IDIOTS that were interviewing her shouldn't have a job. Those guys acted like third graders, so rude and stupid.
She makes a lot of sense. Considering she has a Ph. D. it would appear she isn't totally ignorant of the emotional reasons men and women do the things they do...
i agree w/ her. i also think men are responsible for cheating wives. if you cant keep your spouse coming back, its your fault, thats the thing. and if youre cheating, you should leave. thats what it comes down to. dont blame others, be responsible, dont be a victim
@capetorial why are there hypocrites...women say if their man is not fulfilling their need they cheat. every stop to think that maybe men cheat for that reason as well.
Funny that Dr. Laura considers herself a Jew. Yet Jewish tenets say that it is the man who is supposed to pleasure the woman whether or not he is in the mood. But the woman does not have to do the same. In any case, the biggest problem with Dr. Laura is that she spends too much time mixing politics and counseling. Stick to one or stick to the other. When you do both, at some point you say something moronic, like 'Don't marry outside of your race if you don't have a sense of humor.'
Hey Dr. Laura......Women are pigs? Were you one of those when you posed naked in a smut magazine all those years ago? How long did you know the cameraman?
Sorry Dr. Laura. I tried to and offered to "serve," my now ex, husband when he wanted sex (every day) and I didn't. But that wasn't good enough for him. He assumed it was because I didn't love him, want him, was using him, manipulating him, whatever. He just didn't accept that it was okay to just pleasure your mate when you were too exhausted or not feeling sexy or not in the mood.
Being formerly married, there is a negotiating process with a spouse. And frankly there is a division of contribution in a relationship. Until women are self sustaining beings there is going to be disappointments. Women choose to marry in America; clocks start ticking when females don't 'secure' a providing husband. And frankly, if women could obtain all the material needs and social standing... chances are they wouldn't settle down with any individual male.
yep, that's what I always said. Women are responsible for cheating. And what about those bar whores hanging out after work till late on a Friday night and then screwing some bi-polar idiot while her husband sits alone at home wondering what happened to his dinner or his massage huh ?? He works his butt off all day.
Women have allot to learn in this country, ok ? First, women shall take care of the home, treat men like a king, make dinner every evening, give her husband a massage, agree with everything the man says, do the laundry, show respect at all times, make him comfortable, make coffee and pie every evening, speak in a sweet, soothing voice, be fresh looking and clean before he comes home, light a fire in the fireplace, give him a bath, cut his toenails and soap his arm.
That's right. Inflate your mans ego ladies. You fake so much like you cannot fake wanting to get laid every other day. Your man comes in after a bad day at the work you yelling at him not gonna work out for you. He comes in and you CATER TO HIS EGO you would be surprised what he will do for you. Put down the anger ladies and you will have much happier and much more faithful men. otherwise 22 year old hookers on the side is in your husbands future. Your vows tell you how to treat your man. L-H-C
I agree with Dr Laura on her advice in almost every situation. Males deserve and need their women to love them in the perfect way she describes. Today's woman are selfish and all could benefit from her wisdom.
I am a specialist on "men". I know a hell of a lot more men than dr. Anorexic has. Men like VARIETY. THAT IS THE SECRET....VARIETY. They are easily tempted and pressured by thier peers. Men cheat. Thats it. Men are like monkeys ..when thier dick is not in a woman it is in a man or in thier hand. Ick.
People raised in houses filled with pedophiles and programmed with cd`s from navy boyfriends are just victims being revictimized. Luv those naked photos of dr laura. If you google her pics she is in bodage gear and stole her husband from another woman. Even a retard is smart enough not to do that. She is not a psychiatrist or a psychologist and legally cannot diagnose or treat anyone with her "advice". "those that lead a blind and deaf person astray are cursed".
Coming from someone who cheated on her husband--and doesn't actually have a degree in psychology--we can't take this moronic woman seriously. If you cheat, it's your own damn fault...and as far as I'm concerned, you don't deserve warmth and respect (those are privileges and not rights, as far as I'm concerned. They are to be earned--especially within the context of a romantic relationship). Don't excuse neanderthals' bad behaviors.
@dalelovesimba I wouldn't mind so much if there wasn't so much hypocrisy in her rhetoric. I mean, granted, she makes many valid points (concerning other issues, anyway)--but the anti-feminist stuff is really quite discouraging. I wish that she'd use her ability to influence others in a bit of a different way--encouraging mutual respect between the sexes...not damning women for not being stay-at-home mothers/husband-caterers. Women and men should cater to each other (it shouldn't be one-sided).
@BRIANNAistalksick there are stay at home dads too you know what we call them..lazy husbands dead beat dads and so on...damed if you do damed if you dont.
@sapphiretwilight1 I was teasing you LOL, sorry didn't mean to offend you but you know a lot of young women are gold diggers and would marry very old man for his money, not all but many do :)... I am glad you're happy with him, best of luck to both of you :).
@sapphiretwilight1 Wow your husband is waay older than you :D, does he happen to be rich? The only way I would marry someone that old would be if he was very wealthy LOL.. I am 25 yrs old.
@IrishRyan1605 There's nothing to admit. This is low-grade, Neanderthal BS, here. Men need to take responsibility and learn to think with their (sub-par) intellects and not their penises.
I hope these 2 guys are just disagreeing her for argument sake! I mean, the guys here are actually putting down men and blaming them without reason! These 2 men are feminized.
Why are women always TRYING to give advice on men. If you knew so much about men, you would have followed your Father's advise and you wouldn't have such a negative view of men.
I can still pleasure you - exactly. Why is this so controversial? When my wife's back hurts, I get out the massager. I dont' tell her i'm not in the mood, and I'll do it tomorrow. Think about it ladies.
@ChristinePadillaELA just giv the guy a hand job he might do the dishes for you.you know there are men who want kids and the right woman.u being 34 should know that by now . i dont know who you have been dating but some guys want to be needed the same way some women want to be appriciated . shes right if you just fuck him . he will do .women are just as dumb it seems. and we are so suppose to figure you out. well i get that. its 60/40 right is that your cut?
I'm a huge Howard Stern fan, and he despises Dr. Laura, but I've just started listening to her and I like her a LOT. She makes LOTS of great sense. I think she got a bad rap on that "n##gger" comment - from what I heard she was telling the woman that maybe she was being too sensitive. And Dr. Laura was probably right! She's not PC, and that takes guts these days. Cause we've turned into a bunch of WHIMPS.
@microdon2 Correct, she is saying what most men and women are afraid to admit because of the feminazi environment we are living in nowadays. It is encouraged to treat and consistently tell a woman that she is smart, and never forget to tell her she is beautiful, sexy, kind, amazing...,etc, tell her how you worship her like the princess she is. But of course it is too much to ask when it comes to telling a man he is her hero!!!
"Psycho Babble" look it up... but I like how she keeps contradicting herself... "what happends after the sandwhich?" haha i know the director walked out the studio
Is it true that there are NUDE PHOTOS OF DR LAURA online; taken during her affair with Bill Ballance, while she was married to Mike Rudolf? Also wondering if it is true that her next husband(Lew Bishop) was a married father of 3 before she came along? Finally, did the greatest mind in modern psychology actually have such a poor relationship with her MOM THAT HER BODY WAS LEFT TO ROT FOR 2 MONTHS, before she was discovered? Just wondering...don't know what we would do without her advice.
If you listened to her words without knowing the source, I bet you'd LOOOOOVE Dr. Laura and find her sensible. She really is great. I don't agree with EVERYTHING she has to say, but she's right on pretty often.
1. Dr. Laura is prejudice against women. This is evident in many of her "advise giving sessions".
2. She a RAGING hypocrit. She STOLE a married man/father of three from another woman, She LIVED with him for almost a decade. She allegedly got pregnant OUT Of wedlock, then married him. She BLAMED his first wife for NOT pleasing her man and that is why she was able to STEAL him legitimately.
@TheXxPinkPrincess69x Yessssss she dated a married man who later broke off with his wife. Plus she hasn't seen or talk to her mother in over 15yrs some family values.
Marriage contracts nowadays should have a clause stating "By my signature, I understand that there is a high probability (see statistics in section 1.5) of this marriage ending up in divorce due to adultery" or something similar. Marriage has become a lot less sacred ever since tons of women started working outside the home. It's nice that their independent but we women have a very hard time keeping our legs closed. I process divorces on a weekly basis and I'm a women =)
wat the hell she has no clue wat shes talkn bout i mean throw n a couple long words and shes an intellectual gog....ummm bull and this goes 4 her other vids SHE SUX
I'm man enough not to do that to my wife. If I want to be seperate from her (if it is impossible to work it out) I would simply tell her that it's not going to work out for such reasons, and then it's over or somewhat over unless we have children.
I'm not just going to dope to being an asshole and do something like that behind her back because I am a coward to confront her with our problems - all that it's going to do is make me look more worse than her, especially if I had children with her. I don't want my children to think I'm just a whore who screws with other women. I'm not a child, I'm a responsible man.
You people are such idiots! If men treated their wives the way women treat their husbands, it would be called abuse! What's the point in getting married if your going to treat your husband like crap? And as for the moron who posted below me, I believe it you who is lacking common sense.
This discussion is ABOUT MEN cheating on their wives - a huge NO NO
Then turning around and blaming the woman for their affair.
Sorry, that is wrong - men are responsible to WORK on their marriage if there are difficulties, the exact same as women are responsible to WORK on their marriages and many resources exist to aid couples when they are having difficulties
Dr. Laura acts likes men are babies and we the wife are suppose to change their diapers...burp them etc...excuse me....men need to grow up...accept responsibilty for their families and stop wining claiming the wife doesn't give them enough attention....boo boo...i don't think i need a baby...grow up...give your wife that attention you crave and i just bet with a little consistency she'll respond...watch the movie fireproof!
Women responsible for cheating husbands...lol...men are not children... if Dr. Laura had an affair of course she was responsible...Watch some of my uploads on this subject matter as i have lived through the trauma of divorce caused by the cheating husband.
Interesting that "Dr." Laura had an affair with a married man, which resulted in the end of his marriage. Of course the WIFE was responsible for that failed marriage, not "Dr." Laura or the man she had the affair with (to whom she is now married). She's just validating her own actions through this type of statement.
So true. Amazing how when people do something really wrong, they make excuses for it, but it they just took responsiblity and not throw arrows and blame at others to boot it would not be so bad.
But to blame and slam the wife of the cheater? That is the unconsionable (sp) part. She is shameful and we hope she soon learns. I don't mean the hard way, but I hope God zaps her brain to stop her hateful and weird advice for it has ruined lives at times.
So if a spouse refuses to have sex for LONG periods of time what exactly is the other spouse suppose to do? Get divorced and become another part of the 65 percent of failed marriages? All of you who say it's wrong and unforgiveable would you still think that way if your spouse was disabled and couldn't have sex and wasn't in any mental condition to satisfy in other ways and it was you who was going "without". There are certain circumstances where we question right and wrong.
If people truely UNDERSTAND the marriage vows they would realize that with that VOW comes the commitment
"in sickness and in health"
So for anyone to say that they are NOT responsible to be with their spouse if they are disabled and cannot have sex, they are the ones wrong and breaching their vows.
Yes, it is a SACRIFICE.
They turn it to God and they know that their love, care and sharing their lives is more important than the fleshly desires.
WOW, she is something else. She stole another womans husband and she has the audacity to defend MEN.
Men commonly use the excuse that they need more attention. I have seen women bend over backwards for their husbands and be the perfect wife and he cheats.
NO man NOR woman has ANY excuse to cheat. If their spouse is NOT meeting their needs then go to the SOURCE. Face ones spouse and get to counselling!!!!
So true. I wonder what Dr. Laura's take would be if the roles were reversed? What if it was a woman cheating on her husband as opposed to a man cheating on his wife? Would the husband share the blame in his wife's infidelity or would the blame lay solely with her in Dr. Laura's view?
Exactly - she blames the woman for a man cheating.
But the ONLY one to blame is the man and the woman he cheats with.
The wife is never to blame.
For the man has a responsiblity to take up his marital problems with his wife and solve them and not head out the door to see what is better on the horizon.
That man is then a coward, cheat, cad and should be kicked to the curb. (alliteration fit nicely in there, eh?).
Very sorry to hear you went through this. But to be told that you are to blame is just huge slam on the already open wound.
But know this:
It is not you, it is them. And you can heal and learn to let it go and not blame. Allow them to learn their lessons. Live your own life now. It is unfortunate, but try not to waste precious time with vindication.
@anotheronem Yes it is a huge slam on the already open wound....it's so amazing to think Dr. Laura would say women are to blame....men are not children so to me that's a laughing matter.
awwwww poor cunt:( am i your new role model???? you cant even think up your own insults:(:(:(:( you have to use mine hahahahahahahahaa you are truly pathetic. poor poor fat dumb ugly childish little prostitute:( oh and i make 6 digits a year dumb bitch. i own a business. what do u do? troll youtube all day wishing you had a man? sad:( got to the gym fatty:)
@karlsmith00 listen cunt, every comment you leave just reaffirms how fucking stupid you are. its also tells us all that you are simply sexually starved. but of course you would be. i mean how could a guys show affection to an ugly fat bitch? simply impossible. you totally misrepresent females and shame on you for that. like i said, stop overheating your vibrator, and get your fat ugly ass to the gym so you can actually experience what a cock feels like. dumb fucking cunt
@jkadkhod2792 btw, you sound like a bitter divorced male. i'm sure your wife dumped your fat ass, and now you work off steam by leaving comments on websites.
how could any woman reject a worthless piece of trash like you? it's really strange. you sound like a real winner.
and sex changes are way easier for males to females. especially a cunt like you, chopping off your shriveled 2 inch dick would be no problem at all. that way you could make more money when you join your dad on the corner
@karlsmith00 hahahahahaha you really are a dumb bitch! you do realize that you took every insult i said to you and turned it around. okay so now we've established this: 1. your fat 2. youre stupid 3. youre ugly 4. youre a retired prostitute(you applied for early retirement because you couldnt get any clients) and 5. apparently im your role model becase you pretty much copied and pasted my comment to you and threw it back like a 1st grade school girl. very juvenile.
@karlsmith00 awwwww whats wrong stupid cunt?:( no more insults(which you take from me)? did i hurt your feelings?:(:(:(:( well maybe youll learn not to spew shit from your underdeveloped, ignorant, cunt ass little mouth next time. ITSSSSSS GYM TIME FAT ASS :):):):) then you can get rid of the cobwebs between your legs dumb bitch:)
@jkadkhod2792 look at the dumb fat unemployed bitch repeating himself. he can't come up with anything new. what's wrong, bent cock? do you have autism or some other male brain problem? go take your ritalin, cunt.
how many times do i have to tell you that i fucked your dad? that's why your shriveled 2 inch dick is all bent out of shape.
now go find a job. or you're going to have to learn how to bend over and grab your ankles like you daddy does. that'll clean out the dust in your asshole.
@jkadkhod2792 btw, come up with something new. ripping you a new asshole is getting boring since you have no real comeback.
now pull your fist out of your 400 pound ass and try to use that underworked male mind of yours. responding to dumb bitches who repeat themselves isn't worth the effort.
@karlsmith00 you are goddamn right! responding to bitches who repeat themselves AND cant think up their own comebacks isnt worth my effort. you say i have no real comeback but YOU ARE USING ALL OF MY COMEBACKS hahahahahahahahaha you really are pathetic! and fyi(because i know youre too stupid to know this) autism is a mental problem that both males and females can have you dumb fucking cunt hahahaha and ritalin and autism have NO connection to each other dumbfuck haha youre so fucking stupid:):)
@karlsmith00 aww and would ya look at that? somebody flagged your childish insults as spam:(:(:( you poor poor dumb little cunt:(:( its so funny that you actually think youre winning this argument. you are copying everything i say haha dont worry ill be a good role model to you dumb little cunt:):):) and if you work REALLY hard and get that fat ass to the gym(like ive been saying) you might just feel a cock. would you like that cunt?:) get the cock bitch!:) get the cock!:) theres a good cunt:):)
@karlsmith00 awwwww poor bitch:( her feelings are so hurt....:(:( WAHHH WAAAHHH:(:( ru gonna cry little cunt?:(:( you sure do like talking about my asshole hahahaha do u have an asshole fetish? or maybe youre a lesbian? ru even straight at all? anddd you talk about my dads asshole!! you sick pervert hahahaha maybe you are the dog here. you really want to know what a cock is like dont you? well thats just tooooo bad:(:( no guy will ever want your crusty vagina haha poor ugly cunt:(:(:(:(hahahaha
@karlsmith00 your comments are very sexist. you would pass out from shock if a man takes responsibility for his actions? do you realize how fucking ignorant that is? clearly youve had a man cheat on you and you feel the need to take it out on the entire male population. either youre really fat or ugly or simply have no idea how to get a guy. and guess what? thats your issue. just shut your fucking mouth youre dumb as fuck.
This topic has touched a cord with many people. There is absolutely no valid excuse but there are reasons why people cheat. Eliminating those reasons allows the person who's been cheated on to hold the moral high ground. Bad things happen when neglect occurs.
Basically if you don't feed a dog at home it will eat out of someone elses trash.
OMFG......She seriously has some issues.................I can't believe she is basically saying that you need to kiss your husbands ass so he doesn't cheat? I personally think that if someone is going to cheat they are going to cheat regardless of what you do! Noone is ever responsible for someone elses choices!
Ofcourse it is our fault our husband cheated I mean we are not a hoe we dont look like one or act/behave like one perhaps they should have gone and married a HOE instead but they didnt they married us so tough luck you commit adultery you face a severe punishment in hell.
Probably mostly women making negative comments...women whose men are cheating on them as they type...this video holds some valid views as does it hold some arguably invalid ones...save the ad hominem
why cant dr.laura just die....both her parents died and she said that she had no emotional bond with them?????????? what a disgusting human being...scum of humanity..i hope she gets cancer or some horrible disease and dies a long painful death
Women gaining more than 10 lbs over wedding nite weight is gounds to cheat. Growing chest hair facial hair, fungi nail, yeast infections, thinning of the walls, dry cat, bad attitude, not cleaning house, cooking, not giving bj, not swallowing, not keeping cold beer in fridge, not getting beer on first call, not washing the mans truck, washing his dog, cutting the lawn, painting the house inside and out, not bringing hubby her pay check, not cleaning his catch, fish deer etc. not doing 3 way.
Lads,this is all great but has any of you here have the guts to actually know the truth about weather or not your spouse or lover is cheating? I had the guts I actually intercepted my wife's cell phone for over 2 months before I actually found out she was cheating,some people are just too good at hiding it.
I am using the cell phone interception software I suggest you search on google for hacks4.sale (remove dot between word) and you'll find the software.,it's great
Lads,this is all great but has any of you here have the guts to actually know the truth about weather or not your spouse or lover is cheating? I had the guts I actually intercepted my wife's cell phone for over 2 months before I actually found out she was cheating,some people are just too good at hiding it.
I am using the cell phone interception software I suggest you search on google for hacks4.sale (remove dot between word) and you'll find the software.,it's great
oh so I was trying to be a good mother and wife and now it is all my fault that my husband chooses to cheat? Was I suppose to spend less time looking after the kids and home so that I could dress like a hoe and act like a hoe to please him just so that he don't go elsewhere? Maybe he should have been more patient and tolerant for the sake of marraige and family and of fear of god?? perhaps?
This woman is SICK and very DELUDED. Do not read her books and do not take her advice at all.
No, she's not sick or deluded. And you're not sick, just not listening properly. Do you understand the word "susceptable"? The only person on this show without a clue, is Bill O'Reilly. To label every person who cheats a narcissist is moronic at worst, ignorant at best.
She made a disclaimer, remember? *A jerk is a jerk. It's a politically incorrect, unavoidable fact, that some partners DRIVE partners into emotional isolation to seek attention elsewhere. If this isn't you, then??
@Hzqi Many man cheat for many different reasons and there are wives that may have caused it or not who is to know? There is no excuse to cheating. You do not go and cheat if something is not right in your marriage you try to fix it and rebuild it if not then walk away. If you going to cheat then move out and stop letting your wife keep cooking, cleaning for you go do it yourself or let the hoe do it. Stop lying and using her.
Your whole outlook is gender centric. If he's the provider she's reciprocating no affection, then she, is also using him. And they often do. And listen very carefully to the words she uses here: SUS-CEP-TA-BLE. She's not talking about what is acceptable. She's talking about what is causal. Any man, or woman, than emotionally neglects, their man or woman, is inevitably making themselves more susceptable to being cheated on. There are reverse aberrations, though.
@Hzqi Sounds like you condone this kind of behaviour. Hope someone in your famiily or yourself go through it then you know what it feels like, ye ye what ever blame the innocent victim as usual.
No, what it actually sounds like (paradox on a written forum?) is you have a reading and comprehension problem. See, I could easily divulge whether or not I've been directly affected by the subject matter, or not, but it's beside the point. People who speak, as you're speaking only indicate that their emotional investment is clouding their judgement and their listening skills.
one thing she is right about though, it is a woman partially to blame.. because if a gal is truly interested in someone else's man .. and really wants a relationship .. she would have to have the balls to tell him to clean the doorstep and do the work and then revisit the situation when he has done the work, HE WON'T, which they don't figure out til later .. to this type of chick I say have a good good talk with your vagina.. because she is going to get screwed better than her head would.. hah..
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
Men cheat because they are firstly being dishonest with the person they have their closest relationship with .. themselves and their dicks.. so when they take the big lie and lay past that point they want to experience a temporary thrill.. and hope they can keep their home life going as well.. rock in the boat one way... if they brought the subject up at the dinner table good chances that it would spoil dinner ,maybe a few.. the idea that a man does this because he is not being catered to is bs
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
@howbigisyourlove .. if he is going to cheat and thinks he can get away with it he will... it is all based on lack of disclosure firstly to the individual and then to the union....
Her saying that women don't cater to their man is unbelievable abuse.. you see that is why women don't have the back bone to leave.. because they are already threadbare and not taking care of themselves.. a woman whole would not tolerate a cheating man.. or a cheating anyone in their lives ..
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
@howbigisyourlove the onus of their man's level of immaturity is not their responsibility .. last time I looked I never seen a man that was fucking around on his partner as attractive.. he's a douce.. and maybe our society should look at him as one.. he is a lousy and unplugged in father as well as husband. .. Dr. Laura .. .. Dr Berman the worlds leading sex therapists explains that 76 percent of women fake orgasms..
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
@howbigisyourlove if you ask me .. marriages would have more sex.. more desire and more closeness and more depth if the work was done to plug in .. at home .. for a man to want to understand his wife's sexual needs so that he pleases her and that the relationship is based on mutual work and mutual play.. and mutual bonding.... if you don't want your wife man up and give her the respect she deserves and fuck off for her to heal and be whole with or without another man...
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
I find Dr Laura unsexy and whiny.. and her idea that prostitutes and escort services don't have sex and just talk to men... that is such horseshit. I have a good friend that runs three houses of ill repute and believe me .. these men want sex .. pay for sex and get sex.. the idea that they go there .. pay big money to have a babysitter service is bullshit.. Dr. Laura you don't know wtf you are talking about when it comes to escort services.. and believe me these women are not socially tactile
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
and they do not want to be the guys buddy, as a matter of fact they actually hate it .. they say they'd much rather give a guy anything than a talk,, besides, girlfriend experience to which she is talking about is total bullshit.. escort services charge three times their regular and most guys want to get their rocks off.. end of story.. where in fuck do you think these men who go there come from.. they are after the cookie just like the real world holey shit she has a radio show
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
dream on Dr. Laura.. acting is acting.. and no amount of acting can work besides it is way too much work.. nurture .. are you kidding sounds more like handing him a bottle and changing his diaper.. there is no way no how... try using the one thing that makes sense. maturity and truth. if a guy told his wife he wanted to cheat .. then she has a choice.. to act to engage in being there still or getting the fuck out.. men cheat because they are cowards ... and good liars..
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
Me telling you that Dr. Laura is wrong 100 times out of 100 is like me telling you not to mix dangerous, highly-corrosive chemicals with your genitals. Unless you're suffering from brain damage, I'm wasting everyone's time. She wouldn't know the truth if it came up and put a mirror in that horror movie she has the fucking nerve to call her face.
TheRealThreeP 2 weeks ago
Is it cheating when a wife "has a headache" or " is too tired"?
floatpool 3 weeks ago
Elliott cheated on his wife because she was a Spitzer, instead of a Swallowzer.
gspendlove 3 weeks ago
you know what gets me? women will complain about their husbands, they argue, refuse to clean, cook, take care of children,neglect their appearances, gain all this weight and still demand that their husbands pursue them as if they are worthy of addoration.
yet those same women, jump, sing, dance, make coffee, file, clean, make appointments, buy gifts for,listen to, work late for... who else? their bosses at work. without so much as a peep of discontent.. Shame on you. why do we cheat again?
omni101 1 month ago
you see, if "wives" actually listened to her, they would realize that she is correct and the same thing goes for men. She is correct and people who are guilty of NEGLECT get upset because she reads their "mail".....
omni101 1 month ago
Don't take advice form this woman. However people should wait longer in life to get married and have kids. Also it would probably help if you did spend more time with partner. Also I bet dr. Laura was an absolute freak in her day.
TheCaliCapitalist 1 month ago
it's like this folks, if the wife was a whore in bed, her man would not be looking for any extra pussy...just sayin'...save your breath, i don't give a shit what you think...
oldmtnfart 1 month ago
@oldmtnfart .. a woman could spend her life in bed.. have her genitals covered in k-y jelly all day.. have her ass in the air and practise performing fellatio on a bulldog or a 13" dildo all day long and it wouldn't matter... curiousity killed the kittie.. when you don't want to be "in" they you should bet out and if the door hits yah on the way out and you like it , good for you.. to constantly put the blame on the wife or partner not performing well at the circus is fucking bullshit excuses
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
@howbigisyourlove lots of ugly lazy. unkempt .. clean underweared men screw around.. a liar is a liar.. some guys are men.. and some guys ain't .. only their pubic hairdresser knows for sure.. I never saw a deceitful lying skank of either sex ... attractive . brains trump monkey stupid stumps all the time.. why screw a fucked up person when they can do that all by themselves..
howbigisyourlove 1 week ago
dr laura is worse than justin bieber. Stupid bitch even believes in god. What a primitive idiot.
florianfan2008 1 month ago
this woman is insane and oblivious. period
gbalah162 1 month ago
I remember a time when watching the news meant news without opinion.
mattfirebird 1 month ago
Saying Dr. Laura is wrong on damn near everything is like saying you shouldn't mix hazardous, corrosive chemicals with your genitalia. Both are true, and both are things people should already know.
TheRealThreeP 1 month ago
I listen to Dr. Laura all time and I am 100% positive that she HAS NEVER SAID that women are responsible of why their husbands cheat on them. She has said that IN SOME CASES it could be the reason. Of course, in some cases, if the wife treats her husband as a piece of garbage, he is entitled to look for honey somewhere else...but that's not always the case. If a woman picks the wrong guy it will be her fault.
xfg102457 1 month ago
if "Dr." Laura was my woman (god forbid) i would cheat on her everyday and night so i would never look at her ugly face ever. this woman is only angry cuz she's ugly, and all her words are related to her ugliness. have you ever seen a beautiful woman talk/write like her? beautiful women are the reason men live, but ugly women are the reason men commit suicide. and that is why she hates to be an ugly woman. in fact, she's angry at god, but she blames men for her uglyness. and god is a man.
arzadi11 1 month ago
What a bullshit excuse for a woman. No whore who will spread her thighs at a drop of a dime can care for a man like his wife does. We clean, cook, care for the kids, have sex when he wants, care for him when he is sick, run his errands. If a man cheats it is because he is a loser. If you are not happy then leave the relationship, don't cheat.
jaslene816 2 months ago
@jaslene816 - I agree that jerks cheat and I agree they should leave if they're not happy. But...what about when there's kids involved? They might be hesitant. Also men worry about losing everything in divorce settlements.Also,when you say WE clean,cook,care for kids and have sex ect,you may want to say"I"instead because now days day care takes care of children and many women couldn't cook a pot of water.As for sex, most women have sex when THEY want it.That's just my observation.
troydeancarpenter 1 month ago
she's so stupid it doesnt matter, even if you do all those things for your man they will still cheat fucking stupid whore, and man has two feet he can get up and cook his own food
misskadie02 2 months ago
@misskadie02 Your ugly!!
buckweet08 1 month ago
@buckweet08 lol no im not, i wouldnt say im beautiful but im seriously not ugly get it right im cute not beautiful and not ugly
misskadie02 1 month ago
CON'T-- They then marry the person they had an affair with in the candy store and guess what 4 short years later their mistress that's now the wife leaves them for another after 2 more children, and the cycle goes on. WHO's responsible now Dr. Laura for the cheating, could it be it's my ex-husbands fault this time???
bornblonde9gb 2 months ago
...lol... women responsible for cheating husbands oh really???I guess i was responsible for not changing his diapers, for not birping him, feeding him etc...wake up Dr. laura men are not babies, or at least their not suppose to be, their adults with families, though often times they like to go to the candy store and have an affair thus ending their marriage.
bornblonde9gb 2 months ago
Colmes you pussy
dubified89 2 months ago
I think she made plenty of sense and she was defending the men on this one, yet the two IDIOTS that were interviewing her shouldn't have a job. Those guys acted like third graders, so rude and stupid.
Trance1820 2 months ago
She makes a lot of sense. Considering she has a Ph. D. it would appear she isn't totally ignorant of the emotional reasons men and women do the things they do...
closer71 2 months ago
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Women cheat a lot more than men do.
lovetoact 2 months ago
Doctor Laura, wrong on everything except women....
SUpersaiyajinjerkbag 3 months ago
Hannity is a whiny little Fraud, like he never heard the word Horny before. What a weasle!!!!!
cheyboo67 3 months ago
ugly bitch
coldrae 3 months ago
that interviewer is a fucking idiot
mohamadalikazi 3 months ago
i agree w/ her. i also think men are responsible for cheating wives. if you cant keep your spouse coming back, its your fault, thats the thing. and if youre cheating, you should leave. thats what it comes down to. dont blame others, be responsible, dont be a victim
capetorial 4 months ago
@capetorial women already blame men when they cheat.
ssscybro2 2 months ago
@ssscybro2 whats your point?
capetorial 2 months ago
@capetorial why are there hypocrites...women say if their man is not fulfilling their need they cheat. every stop to think that maybe men cheat for that reason as well.
ssscybro2 2 months ago
@ssscybro2 they do dumbshit.
capetorial 2 months ago
She always says both ways, but I never see her attacking men. Never!
page371069 4 months ago
I have no truck with Dr.Laura....
but she NAILED this one RIGHT ON THE HEAD.
toonzguy 4 months ago
Colmes never made it because there's something unnatural about a Man who tries to BUY Women by degrading Men.
NavyOneKC 4 months ago
Funny that Dr. Laura considers herself a Jew. Yet Jewish tenets say that it is the man who is supposed to pleasure the woman whether or not he is in the mood. But the woman does not have to do the same. In any case, the biggest problem with Dr. Laura is that she spends too much time mixing politics and counseling. Stick to one or stick to the other. When you do both, at some point you say something moronic, like 'Don't marry outside of your race if you don't have a sense of humor.'
pq02lamzo 4 months ago
Hey Dr. Laura......Women are pigs? Were you one of those when you posed naked in a smut magazine all those years ago? How long did you know the cameraman?
Vegheadsrock 5 months ago
@Vegheadsrock Maybe she considers the way she was in the past piggish too but just doesn't want to say it.
dubified89 2 months ago
I like what she's saying toward the end. Love is about making their life better. I totally feel that way with my hubby, and he does me. Just sayin.
MrsJustie 5 months ago 2
i agree with this video, shes right. i know lots of wives who treat their husband like crap...what do they expect?
patriciacarrasco 6 months ago
Sorry Dr. Laura. I tried to and offered to "serve," my now ex, husband when he wanted sex (every day) and I didn't. But that wasn't good enough for him. He assumed it was because I didn't love him, want him, was using him, manipulating him, whatever. He just didn't accept that it was okay to just pleasure your mate when you were too exhausted or not feeling sexy or not in the mood.
nurielaron 6 months ago
Being formerly married, there is a negotiating process with a spouse. And frankly there is a division of contribution in a relationship. Until women are self sustaining beings there is going to be disappointments. Women choose to marry in America; clocks start ticking when females don't 'secure' a providing husband. And frankly, if women could obtain all the material needs and social standing... chances are they wouldn't settle down with any individual male.
granddad2002 6 months ago
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Chris6134 6 months ago
@Chris6134 "the world's worst females in the world". You said a mouthful there, brother.
KraftwithaK 5 months ago
@KraftwithaK Not all, but many of them are. I've seen it in bars who they hang out with.
Chris6134 5 months ago
yep, that's what I always said. Women are responsible for cheating. And what about those bar whores hanging out after work till late on a Friday night and then screwing some bi-polar idiot while her husband sits alone at home wondering what happened to his dinner or his massage huh ?? He works his butt off all day.
Chris6134 7 months ago
@Chris3164 true that
Superperson562 7 months ago
@Chris6131 true that
Superperson562 7 months ago
I love how the guy pretended like he got offended when the other host said horny.....please, no ones buying it.
SRNF 7 months ago
Women have allot to learn in this country, ok ? First, women shall take care of the home, treat men like a king, make dinner every evening, give her husband a massage, agree with everything the man says, do the laundry, show respect at all times, make him comfortable, make coffee and pie every evening, speak in a sweet, soothing voice, be fresh looking and clean before he comes home, light a fire in the fireplace, give him a bath, cut his toenails and soap his arm.
Chris6134 7 months ago
@Chris6134 You sound lonely. I hope someone soaps your arm soon.
KraftwithaK 5 months ago
@KraftwithaK I might just try Holland ^_^
Chris6134 5 months ago
Men cheating = 99.99% women's fault.
mba2ceo 7 months ago
That's right. Inflate your mans ego ladies. You fake so much like you cannot fake wanting to get laid every other day. Your man comes in after a bad day at the work you yelling at him not gonna work out for you. He comes in and you CATER TO HIS EGO you would be surprised what he will do for you. Put down the anger ladies and you will have much happier and much more faithful men. otherwise 22 year old hookers on the side is in your husbands future. Your vows tell you how to treat your man. L-H-C
AllKnowingCreator 7 months ago
I agree with Dr Laura on her advice in almost every situation. Males deserve and need their women to love them in the perfect way she describes. Today's woman are selfish and all could benefit from her wisdom.
5442544b 7 months ago
I am a specialist on "men". I know a hell of a lot more men than dr. Anorexic has. Men like VARIETY. THAT IS THE SECRET....VARIETY. They are easily tempted and pressured by thier peers. Men cheat. Thats it. Men are like monkeys ..when thier dick is not in a woman it is in a man or in thier hand. Ick.
westshideasss 8 months ago
@westshideasss then you dont know men at all.
ssscybro2 2 months ago
Dr. Laura is an anorexic...barf baby....barf.
westshideasss 8 months ago
Dr. Laura`s favorite saying "stupid woman". She hates women because she hated her mother.
westshideasss 8 months ago
People raised in houses filled with pedophiles and programmed with cd`s from navy boyfriends are just victims being revictimized. Luv those naked photos of dr laura. If you google her pics she is in bodage gear and stole her husband from another woman. Even a retard is smart enough not to do that. She is not a psychiatrist or a psychologist and legally cannot diagnose or treat anyone with her "advice". "those that lead a blind and deaf person astray are cursed".
westshideasss 8 months ago
Coming from someone who cheated on her husband--and doesn't actually have a degree in psychology--we can't take this moronic woman seriously. If you cheat, it's your own damn fault...and as far as I'm concerned, you don't deserve warmth and respect (those are privileges and not rights, as far as I'm concerned. They are to be earned--especially within the context of a romantic relationship). Don't excuse neanderthals' bad behaviors.
BRIANNAistalksick 8 months ago
@BRIANNAistalksick you are so right don't forget the nude picture taken by somebody ELSE'S husband
dalelovesimba 8 months ago
@dalelovesimba I wouldn't mind so much if there wasn't so much hypocrisy in her rhetoric. I mean, granted, she makes many valid points (concerning other issues, anyway)--but the anti-feminist stuff is really quite discouraging. I wish that she'd use her ability to influence others in a bit of a different way--encouraging mutual respect between the sexes...not damning women for not being stay-at-home mothers/husband-caterers. Women and men should cater to each other (it shouldn't be one-sided).
BRIANNAistalksick 8 months ago
@BRIANNAistalksick there are stay at home dads too you know what we call them..lazy husbands dead beat dads and so on...damed if you do damed if you dont.
ssscybro2 2 months ago
@sapphiretwilight1 I agree with you ;).
amnah10000 9 months ago
@sapphiretwilight1 I was teasing you LOL, sorry didn't mean to offend you but you know a lot of young women are gold diggers and would marry very old man for his money, not all but many do :)... I am glad you're happy with him, best of luck to both of you :).
amnah10000 9 months ago
@sapphiretwilight1 Wow your husband is waay older than you :D, does he happen to be rich? The only way I would marry someone that old would be if he was very wealthy LOL.. I am 25 yrs old.
amnah10000 9 months ago
Why is he arguing with her? You can't always get a girl that admits its there fault, shut up dude just take it!!!! lol
IrishRyan1605 9 months ago
@IrishRyan1605 There's nothing to admit. This is low-grade, Neanderthal BS, here. Men need to take responsibility and learn to think with their (sub-par) intellects and not their penises.
BRIANNAistalksick 8 months ago
I hope these 2 guys are just disagreeing her for argument sake! I mean, the guys here are actually putting down men and blaming them without reason! These 2 men are feminized.
luckybozo1 9 months ago
Why are women always TRYING to give advice on men. If you knew so much about men, you would have followed your Father's advise and you wouldn't have such a negative view of men.
ThankGodImBlack370 10 months ago
Just make me some baked-goods and do my laundry!!!
MyDeathmaskDivine 10 months ago
I can still pleasure you - exactly. Why is this so controversial? When my wife's back hurts, I get out the massager. I dont' tell her i'm not in the mood, and I'll do it tomorrow. Think about it ladies.
damnyankeefl 10 months ago
hahahahahah "make him feel like a men" "make him her hero" what the fucking sexist bullshit!!!!
PimpMyParadigm 10 months ago
@ChristinePadillaELA just giv the guy a hand job he might do the dishes for you.you know there are men who want kids and the right woman.u being 34 should know that by now . i dont know who you have been dating but some guys want to be needed the same way some women want to be appriciated . shes right if you just fuck him . he will do .women are just as dumb it seems. and we are so suppose to figure you out. well i get that. its 60/40 right is that your cut?
MofoNsh 10 months ago
I'm a huge Howard Stern fan, and he despises Dr. Laura, but I've just started listening to her and I like her a LOT. She makes LOTS of great sense. I think she got a bad rap on that "n##gger" comment - from what I heard she was telling the woman that maybe she was being too sensitive. And Dr. Laura was probably right! She's not PC, and that takes guts these days. Cause we've turned into a bunch of WHIMPS.
microdon2 10 months ago
@microdon2 Correct, she is saying what most men and women are afraid to admit because of the feminazi environment we are living in nowadays. It is encouraged to treat and consistently tell a woman that she is smart, and never forget to tell her she is beautiful, sexy, kind, amazing...,etc, tell her how you worship her like the princess she is. But of course it is too much to ask when it comes to telling a man he is her hero!!!
luckybozo1 9 months ago
she reminds me of a broom
NoePalFashion 10 months ago
she's a douche
missyouhoo 11 months ago
"Psycho Babble" look it up... but I like how she keeps contradicting herself... "what happends after the sandwhich?" haha i know the director walked out the studio
rsdragon14 11 months ago
id like to put my thumb in her butt
brusterj881 11 months ago
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Is it true that there are NUDE PHOTOS OF DR LAURA online; taken during her affair with Bill Ballance, while she was married to Mike Rudolf? Also wondering if it is true that her next husband(Lew Bishop) was a married father of 3 before she came along? Finally, did the greatest mind in modern psychology actually have such a poor relationship with her MOM THAT HER BODY WAS LEFT TO ROT FOR 2 MONTHS, before she was discovered? Just wondering...don't know what we would do without her advice.
Blaphtome 11 months ago
If you listened to her words without knowing the source, I bet you'd LOOOOOVE Dr. Laura and find her sensible. She really is great. I don't agree with EVERYTHING she has to say, but she's right on pretty often.
sickandtwistedchicks 11 months ago 8
@sickandtwistedchicks I agree with you I have been listening to her for years ... its so sad that more people don't agree with us/
Kswift99 11 months ago
@sickandtwistedchicks
1. Dr. Laura is prejudice against women. This is evident in many of her "advise giving sessions".
2. She a RAGING hypocrit. She STOLE a married man/father of three from another woman, She LIVED with him for almost a decade. She allegedly got pregnant OUT Of wedlock, then married him. She BLAMED his first wife for NOT pleasing her man and that is why she was able to STEAL him legitimately.
She blasts others (mostly women) for the above.
anotheronem 2 months ago
these guys got owned by dr. Laura.
vuvopd 11 months ago
@TheXxPinkPrincess69x Yessssss she dated a married man who later broke off with his wife. Plus she hasn't seen or talk to her mother in over 15yrs some family values.
HowardSternn 1 year ago
This SLUT was dating a man while he was still married. Biggest hypocrite on the planet
HowardSternn 1 year ago
@HowardSternn so , she's not perfect, which means everything she says is wrong...nice.
damnyankeefl 10 months ago
I remember she would say "I'm my kid's mom" at the start of her hourly segment. We both have a son, that's one thing we have in common.
orangefiona1 1 year ago
laura schlessinger is the coolest woman
sweetgyy 1 year ago
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Marriage contracts nowadays should have a clause stating "By my signature, I understand that there is a high probability (see statistics in section 1.5) of this marriage ending up in divorce due to adultery" or something similar. Marriage has become a lot less sacred ever since tons of women started working outside the home. It's nice that their independent but we women have a very hard time keeping our legs closed. I process divorces on a weekly basis and I'm a women =)
USCUSCTrojan 1 year ago 2
wat the hell she has no clue wat shes talkn bout i mean throw n a couple long words and shes an intellectual gog....ummm bull and this goes 4 her other vids SHE SUX
maclovesmonkeys 1 year ago
Bitch.
charleshdowns 1 year ago
I'm man enough not to do that to my wife. If I want to be seperate from her (if it is impossible to work it out) I would simply tell her that it's not going to work out for such reasons, and then it's over or somewhat over unless we have children.
Tetzukai 1 year ago
I'm not just going to dope to being an asshole and do something like that behind her back because I am a coward to confront her with our problems - all that it's going to do is make me look more worse than her, especially if I had children with her. I don't want my children to think I'm just a whore who screws with other women. I'm not a child, I'm a responsible man.
Tetzukai 1 year ago
You people are such idiots! If men treated their wives the way women treat their husbands, it would be called abuse! What's the point in getting married if your going to treat your husband like crap? And as for the moron who posted below me, I believe it you who is lacking common sense.
crazedbunny471 1 year ago 2
@crazedbunny471
HUH?
What are you even talking about?
This discussion is ABOUT MEN cheating on their wives - a huge NO NO
Then turning around and blaming the woman for their affair.
Sorry, that is wrong - men are responsible to WORK on their marriage if there are difficulties, the exact same as women are responsible to WORK on their marriages and many resources exist to aid couples when they are having difficulties
I don't see the women abusing their husbands.
anotheronem 1 year ago
@anotheronem they do look it up you dont see men committing paternity fraud ether.
ssscybro2 2 months ago
@ssscybro2 Kindly refer to what "they look up" please, because I don't remember the context.
Men committing "paternity fraud" ?
It is fully evident when a women has a baby. DNA testing can prove who the father is.
There have been men who BELIEVE a child is theirs and they go to court to prove this or disprove.
Why would MEN have to WORRY about paternity fraud in the first place, what would they gain? Perhaps that is WHY men do NOT commit paternity fraud.
anotheronem 2 months ago
Mistreating her man...lol...i could go on and on...please watch my video uploads with a little common sense that Dr. laura doesn't seem to have!
bornblond9gb 1 year ago
Dr. Laura acts likes men are babies and we the wife are suppose to change their diapers...burp them etc...excuse me....men need to grow up...accept responsibilty for their families and stop wining claiming the wife doesn't give them enough attention....boo boo...i don't think i need a baby...grow up...give your wife that attention you crave and i just bet with a little consistency she'll respond...watch the movie fireproof!
bornblond9gb 1 year ago
Women responsible for cheating husbands...lol...men are not children... if Dr. Laura had an affair of course she was responsible...Watch some of my uploads on this subject matter as i have lived through the trauma of divorce caused by the cheating husband.
bornblond9gb 1 year ago
Interesting that "Dr." Laura had an affair with a married man, which resulted in the end of his marriage. Of course the WIFE was responsible for that failed marriage, not "Dr." Laura or the man she had the affair with (to whom she is now married). She's just validating her own actions through this type of statement.
HappyColouredMarbles 1 year ago
@HappyColouredMarbles
So true. Amazing how when people do something really wrong, they make excuses for it, but it they just took responsiblity and not throw arrows and blame at others to boot it would not be so bad.
But to blame and slam the wife of the cheater? That is the unconsionable (sp) part. She is shameful and we hope she soon learns. I don't mean the hard way, but I hope God zaps her brain to stop her hateful and weird advice for it has ruined lives at times.
anotheronem 1 year ago
So if a spouse refuses to have sex for LONG periods of time what exactly is the other spouse suppose to do? Get divorced and become another part of the 65 percent of failed marriages? All of you who say it's wrong and unforgiveable would you still think that way if your spouse was disabled and couldn't have sex and wasn't in any mental condition to satisfy in other ways and it was you who was going "without". There are certain circumstances where we question right and wrong.
austin12919 1 year ago
@austin12919
If people truely UNDERSTAND the marriage vows they would realize that with that VOW comes the commitment
"in sickness and in health"
So for anyone to say that they are NOT responsible to be with their spouse if they are disabled and cannot have sex, they are the ones wrong and breaching their vows.
Yes, it is a SACRIFICE.
They turn it to God and they know that their love, care and sharing their lives is more important than the fleshly desires.
anotheronem 1 year ago
Wrong!! if a man feels neglected by his wife, he need sto say so rather than cheating. cheating wont solve anything. there is no excuse for it.
kawaii361 1 year ago
She is right!
timothys2829 1 year ago
i like as she said she can make a sandwich :P
deztructicus 1 year ago
I agree with her 100%
almtonmak 1 year ago
WOW, she is something else. She stole another womans husband and she has the audacity to defend MEN.
Men commonly use the excuse that they need more attention. I have seen women bend over backwards for their husbands and be the perfect wife and he cheats.
NO man NOR woman has ANY excuse to cheat. If their spouse is NOT meeting their needs then go to the SOURCE. Face ones spouse and get to counselling!!!!
anotheronem 1 year ago
@anotheronem
So true. I wonder what Dr. Laura's take would be if the roles were reversed? What if it was a woman cheating on her husband as opposed to a man cheating on his wife? Would the husband share the blame in his wife's infidelity or would the blame lay solely with her in Dr. Laura's view?
yaoifanficlover 1 year ago
@yaoifanficlover
Exactly - she blames the woman for a man cheating.
But the ONLY one to blame is the man and the woman he cheats with.
The wife is never to blame.
For the man has a responsiblity to take up his marital problems with his wife and solve them and not head out the door to see what is better on the horizon.
That man is then a coward, cheat, cad and should be kicked to the curb. (alliteration fit nicely in there, eh?).
anotheronem 1 year ago
@anotheronem Great response....i've lived through the horror of the cheating husband and have done some video uploads on this subject matter as well.
bornblond9gb 1 year ago
@bornblond9gb
Very sorry to hear you went through this. But to be told that you are to blame is just huge slam on the already open wound.
But know this:
It is not you, it is them. And you can heal and learn to let it go and not blame. Allow them to learn their lessons. Live your own life now. It is unfortunate, but try not to waste precious time with vindication.
Just my buck twelve 80.
anotheronem 1 year ago
@anotheronem Yes it is a huge slam on the already open wound....it's so amazing to think Dr. Laura would say women are to blame....men are not children so to me that's a laughing matter.
bornblond9gb 1 year ago
@yaoifanficlover listen to ophra,dr.phil of look up why women cheat they blame the man for not fulfilling so need.
ssscybro2 2 months ago
I wonder if I slept with that woman?
americasfirstking 1 year ago
Dr. Laura has man issues. Either that or she has absolutely no self esteem.
sunshine011794 1 year ago
Both Alan Colmes and Dr. Laura have skull-looking faces, don't they?
randommagnum 1 year ago
:D
If Sean is feeling sexy and Dr. Laura has too much on her mind...she can still please him!
randommagnum 1 year ago
the only thing I do agree on , Is that couples should serve each others.
THEBADASSOROMO 1 year ago
@THEBADASSOROMO i completely agree with that as well
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
awwwww poor cunt:( am i your new role model???? you cant even think up your own insults:(:(:(:( you have to use mine hahahahahahahahaa you are truly pathetic. poor poor fat dumb ugly childish little prostitute:( oh and i make 6 digits a year dumb bitch. i own a business. what do u do? troll youtube all day wishing you had a man? sad:( got to the gym fatty:)
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
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@jkadkhod2792 GO KILL YOURSELF YOU STUPID WHORE
karlsmith00 1 year ago
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@jkadkhod2792 GO KILL YOURSELF YOU STUPID WHORE
karlsmith00 1 year ago
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jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 listen cunt, every comment you leave just reaffirms how fucking stupid you are. its also tells us all that you are simply sexually starved. but of course you would be. i mean how could a guys show affection to an ugly fat bitch? simply impossible. you totally misrepresent females and shame on you for that. like i said, stop overheating your vibrator, and get your fat ugly ass to the gym so you can actually experience what a cock feels like. dumb fucking cunt
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@jkadkhod2792 btw, you sound like a bitter divorced male. i'm sure your wife dumped your fat ass, and now you work off steam by leaving comments on websites.
how could any woman reject a worthless piece of trash like you? it's really strange. you sound like a real winner.
and sex changes are way easier for males to females. especially a cunt like you, chopping off your shriveled 2 inch dick would be no problem at all. that way you could make more money when you join your dad on the corner
karlsmith00 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 hahahahahaha you really are a dumb bitch! you do realize that you took every insult i said to you and turned it around. okay so now we've established this: 1. your fat 2. youre stupid 3. youre ugly 4. youre a retired prostitute(you applied for early retirement because you couldnt get any clients) and 5. apparently im your role model becase you pretty much copied and pasted my comment to you and threw it back like a 1st grade school girl. very juvenile.
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 awwwww whats wrong stupid cunt?:( no more insults(which you take from me)? did i hurt your feelings?:(:(:(:( well maybe youll learn not to spew shit from your underdeveloped, ignorant, cunt ass little mouth next time. ITSSSSSS GYM TIME FAT ASS :):):):) then you can get rid of the cobwebs between your legs dumb bitch:)
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@jkadkhod2792 look at the dumb fat unemployed bitch repeating himself. he can't come up with anything new. what's wrong, bent cock? do you have autism or some other male brain problem? go take your ritalin, cunt.
how many times do i have to tell you that i fucked your dad? that's why your shriveled 2 inch dick is all bent out of shape.
now go find a job. or you're going to have to learn how to bend over and grab your ankles like you daddy does. that'll clean out the dust in your asshole.
karlsmith00 1 year ago
@jkadkhod2792 btw, come up with something new. ripping you a new asshole is getting boring since you have no real comeback.
now pull your fist out of your 400 pound ass and try to use that underworked male mind of yours. responding to dumb bitches who repeat themselves isn't worth the effort.
karlsmith00 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 you are goddamn right! responding to bitches who repeat themselves AND cant think up their own comebacks isnt worth my effort. you say i have no real comeback but YOU ARE USING ALL OF MY COMEBACKS hahahahahahahahaha you really are pathetic! and fyi(because i know youre too stupid to know this) autism is a mental problem that both males and females can have you dumb fucking cunt hahahaha and ritalin and autism have NO connection to each other dumbfuck haha youre so fucking stupid:):)
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 aww and would ya look at that? somebody flagged your childish insults as spam:(:(:( you poor poor dumb little cunt:(:( its so funny that you actually think youre winning this argument. you are copying everything i say haha dont worry ill be a good role model to you dumb little cunt:):):) and if you work REALLY hard and get that fat ass to the gym(like ive been saying) you might just feel a cock. would you like that cunt?:) get the cock bitch!:) get the cock!:) theres a good cunt:):)
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 awwwww poor bitch:( her feelings are so hurt....:(:( WAHHH WAAAHHH:(:( ru gonna cry little cunt?:(:( you sure do like talking about my asshole hahahaha do u have an asshole fetish? or maybe youre a lesbian? ru even straight at all? anddd you talk about my dads asshole!! you sick pervert hahahaha maybe you are the dog here. you really want to know what a cock is like dont you? well thats just tooooo bad:(:( no guy will ever want your crusty vagina haha poor ugly cunt:(:(:(:(hahahaha
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jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 your comments are very sexist. you would pass out from shock if a man takes responsibility for his actions? do you realize how fucking ignorant that is? clearly youve had a man cheat on you and you feel the need to take it out on the entire male population. either youre really fat or ugly or simply have no idea how to get a guy. and guess what? thats your issue. just shut your fucking mouth youre dumb as fuck.
jkadkhod2792 1 year ago
Being Bi-Polar means your a jerk!? T_T
NexCarnifex 1 year ago
This topic has touched a cord with many people. There is absolutely no valid excuse but there are reasons why people cheat. Eliminating those reasons allows the person who's been cheated on to hold the moral high ground. Bad things happen when neglect occurs.
Basically if you don't feed a dog at home it will eat out of someone elses trash.
literoad 1 year ago
OMFG......She seriously has some issues.................I can't believe she is basically saying that you need to kiss your husbands ass so he doesn't cheat? I personally think that if someone is going to cheat they are going to cheat regardless of what you do! Noone is ever responsible for someone elses choices!
lovelylia1 1 year ago
Dr. Laura I wonder if you really are a doctor and if you really have any idea how to nurture a husband!
pennylaneproductions 1 year ago
Oh wow, ok, I didn't realize that being bipolar is on the same level as being narcissistic, sociopathic, or a jerk. Bitch.
whitemongolian 1 year ago
Ofcourse it is our fault our husband cheated I mean we are not a hoe we dont look like one or act/behave like one perhaps they should have gone and married a HOE instead but they didnt they married us so tough luck you commit adultery you face a severe punishment in hell.
786junaki 1 year ago
Dr. Laura is completely right.
chemicalsweet13 1 year ago
@chemicalsweet13=LAURA'S A BITCH!
mr300ism 1 year ago
@mr300ism you're a philistine.
chemicalsweet13 1 year ago
@chemicalsweet13 is Dr.Laura's bitch!
Sweepersucksballs 1 year ago
@Sweepersucksballs you're a simpleton.
chemicalsweet13 1 year ago
THIS IS AWESOME.. she is right on point
OutSpokenGamer 1 year ago
Probably mostly women making negative comments...women whose men are cheating on them as they type...this video holds some valid views as does it hold some arguably invalid ones...save the ad hominem
poster12boy 1 year ago
why cant dr.laura just die....both her parents died and she said that she had no emotional bond with them?????????? what a disgusting human being...scum of humanity..i hope she gets cancer or some horrible disease and dies a long painful death
brickman73 1 year ago
Women gaining more than 10 lbs over wedding nite weight is gounds to cheat. Growing chest hair facial hair, fungi nail, yeast infections, thinning of the walls, dry cat, bad attitude, not cleaning house, cooking, not giving bj, not swallowing, not keeping cold beer in fridge, not getting beer on first call, not washing the mans truck, washing his dog, cutting the lawn, painting the house inside and out, not bringing hubby her pay check, not cleaning his catch, fish deer etc. not doing 3 way.
barndler 1 year ago
Lads,this is all great but has any of you here have the guts to actually know the truth about weather or not your spouse or lover is cheating? I had the guts I actually intercepted my wife's cell phone for over 2 months before I actually found out she was cheating,some people are just too good at hiding it.
I am using the cell phone interception software I suggest you search on google for hacks4.sale (remove dot between word) and you'll find the software.,it's great
Francis5790 1 year ago
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Lads,this is all great but has any of you here have the guts to actually know the truth about weather or not your spouse or lover is cheating? I had the guts I actually intercepted my wife's cell phone for over 2 months before I actually found out she was cheating,some people are just too good at hiding it.
I am using the cell phone interception software I suggest you search on google for hacks4.sale (remove dot between word) and you'll find the software.,it's great
Francis5790 1 year ago
oh so I was trying to be a good mother and wife and now it is all my fault that my husband chooses to cheat? Was I suppose to spend less time looking after the kids and home so that I could dress like a hoe and act like a hoe to please him just so that he don't go elsewhere? Maybe he should have been more patient and tolerant for the sake of marraige and family and of fear of god?? perhaps?
This woman is SICK and very DELUDED. Do not read her books and do not take her advice at all.
786junaki 1 year ago
@786junaki
No, she's not sick or deluded. And you're not sick, just not listening properly. Do you understand the word "susceptable"? The only person on this show without a clue, is Bill O'Reilly. To label every person who cheats a narcissist is moronic at worst, ignorant at best.
She made a disclaimer, remember? *A jerk is a jerk. It's a politically incorrect, unavoidable fact, that some partners DRIVE partners into emotional isolation to seek attention elsewhere. If this isn't you, then??
Hzqi 1 year ago
@Hzqi Many man cheat for many different reasons and there are wives that may have caused it or not who is to know? There is no excuse to cheating. You do not go and cheat if something is not right in your marriage you try to fix it and rebuild it if not then walk away. If you going to cheat then move out and stop letting your wife keep cooking, cleaning for you go do it yourself or let the hoe do it. Stop lying and using her.
786junaki 1 year ago
@786junaki
Your whole outlook is gender centric. If he's the provider she's reciprocating no affection, then she, is also using him. And they often do. And listen very carefully to the words she uses here: SUS-CEP-TA-BLE. She's not talking about what is acceptable. She's talking about what is causal. Any man, or woman, than emotionally neglects, their man or woman, is inevitably making themselves more susceptable to being cheated on. There are reverse aberrations, though.
Hzqi 1 year ago
@Hzqi Sounds like you condone this kind of behaviour. Hope someone in your famiily or yourself go through it then you know what it feels like, ye ye what ever blame the innocent victim as usual.
786junaki 1 year ago
@786junaki
No, what it actually sounds like (paradox on a written forum?) is you have a reading and comprehension problem. See, I could easily divulge whether or not I've been directly affected by the subject matter, or not, but it's beside the point. People who speak, as you're speaking only indicate that their emotional investment is clouding their judgement and their listening skills.
Nobody is blaming a victim.
Hzqi 1 year ago