The reasons "they" say that the black women is destroying the family or the black race is because the black women is the key.once u got the black woman u got the black race also. study,read and do some research on willie lynch.and the government know that and has been preying on u women for hundreds of years they r using the divide and conqour tactic on
I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT THE BLACK FAMILY AND IT'S DESTRUCTION IS MORE THAN AN ABSENT FATHER. IN MY FAMILY IT'S NOT MY ABSENT FATHER THAT DESTRYED ME BUT MY MOTHER!!! MY SISTERS AND ALL OF THE IGNORANCE. VERBAL ABUSE, PHYSICAL ABUSE AND PLAIN STUPIDITY. WHEN THE FATHERS ARE ABSENT THE MOTHER HAS TO GROW A BACKBONE AND IN THAT CASE RACE IS OUT OF THE QUESTION. GROW A BACK BONE ADMIT WHEN YOUR WRONG. HUG YOUR BABIES. TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM. STOP CUSSING @ THEM
Hate to be gloomy, unless Christianity is true, we Black folk are doomed. I would mention Islam, but it's obvious the West is on a 4th Crusade to destroy the traditional islamic religion.
Black people, on our current path, are dead within 6 generations. White people who love the useless shepherd (not all caucasions) have taught us to hate ourselves so thoroughly, we will never come out of the situation politically. This statement
how can u say that the goverment is not the blame for the way that black family are today, where r u and where have u been. the goverment is responsible for everything that is wrong with us today
Black people (men and women) have a major problem, and I think they have a "hate" problem. Moreover, God gae men the authority and made him a priest of his family... Why is there an inability for men to follow this role? Moreover, why is it that many black women have an aggressive demeanor (an exhaulted feminism)? Doesn't anyone understand how that challenges the authority of men.
UNTIL YOU UNDERSTAND THIS BASIC ORDER OF FAMILY DYNAMICS, YOU CAN'T ADVANCE FURTHER.... You are right, its not about government, olr society or even racism... it has todo with you.... its nobody else's fault, but yours..... Look at how rappers have destroyed society and family.... What terrible generation.
@jesus7es7dios7 you just want to talk, you want to blame rappers for destroying our society and family and not the goverment who makes all the rules that we live by come on are u that stupid
AS REAL CHOCOLATE SKIN BLACK MAN I LOVE MY BLACK/MIXED WOMEN IN ALL THE WORLD!
latino is not race so pls my black/mixed ppl wake up and make kids look like you and not look like whites! we need more black family and real chocolate/dark/brown skin black sons/kids in america in all the world! dark skin and black love are the best!
all problem's is not come from black men all problem's come from black/mixed women. black/mixed women are sellout self-hating white men's whores/hoes who don't wants real dark skin black looking sons/kids and wants white dick and mixed/white looking kids that is why your black men are gays, dead or f'cking up just like all black race and community that is why! so blame only yourself as black mother aka black race!
This woman is turning her personal sturggle to find a black man into a cultural issue. WHy isn' she pleading that she needs white men? Her son obviously needs his white daddy
Well.the truth of the fact is that Black women have been bamboozled into actually destroying black men with their independence.Thanks to Black women in America, the Black Family is endangered. Also, thanks to the black women in America, the entire black race is an Endangered Species.These types of women have poisoned the very gift of the black family by ignorantly choosing to be single mothers. The "Woman" is the "chooser", and all black women choose to pro-create with dead-end thugs!!.Holla!
Well....the truth of the fact is that Black women have been bamboozled into actually destroying black men with their independence. Thanks to Black women in America, the Black Family is endangered. Also, thanks to the black women in America, the entire black race is an Endangered Species. These types of women have poisoned the very gift of the black family by ignorantly choosing to be single mothers.
The black community/family is made up of mostly ghetto, self-hating morons who wallow in ignorance and self-pity, waiting for someone else to help them. They are a lost cause and they are not destroying me with them.:)
@201Sunflower You are correct. Just the other day a woman came to my store and asked me to do her pictures for her. Our policy is that it's a self serve. The kiosk is for customers to use. I can help a little, but not do the order. I told her I can teach her, but she Fuckin refused to learn. How FUCKIN ghetto is that? It's like, not wanting to learn to read. They rather have someone else do it. 90% of them don't care about what their ancestors went through. They rather "keep it real." Ghetto..
My black family chewed me up, spit me out and made me feel like less than nothing because I'm different and don't fit in wih average black America. The black family is a sinking ship. Somebody get me a lifeboat.
Peace and HTP, Thanks for the post. Very powerful and spoken from the Heart. Much props to you sister. There are some black men that hear and feel what your saying. We have answered to your call. Much love Goddess. Peace
Sorry lady but most black men will never go out with a black woman who are vicious, hating, and stuck. Black men you are better of dating a outside your race because black women are diabolical liars and mad
The New World Order is to blame. They have destroyed the black family. Look how much the black community has changed in just 50-60yrs. Now they are doing the same shit to the white community. They test it on the blacks and then implement it on the whole population.
Research the illuminati and hip hop and thats just one aspect of the destruction of ANY human relationships.
@baser11 Sorry... It's not really effecting us Asians as much. When we get to a certain age, we give up the hip hop ghetto shit. Some don't... most do. It's like this... "I'm Asian. Jedi mind trick doesn't work on me." Most of us are immune to it. There's a rumor saying that it was the Masons/Illuminatis that killed Bruce Lee. You see Bruce was on to something that the Masons/Illuminatis feared. If Bruce created an Army of JEET KOON DO warriors, the Masons/Illuminatis wouldn't stand a chance.
Face it America. The Black Female is an evil, nappy-headed, twisted, monstrosity booty-shakin, bitter, trash-talkin, masculine-packin BITCH!!!!!. Their attitudes are ferocious like upset African jigaboo Babboons. For years, they have diabolically worked against the Black Male. Black Feamale porch Monkeys are the bottom of the barrel. They are Scum. In America, They are used to further the oppression of the Black Male by sidelining with the European Standards. Fuck the Evil Black woman!!!!
You are preaching about destruction of Black Family, but you chose to have a child NOT with a Black man... Black Men are negative because their experiences are negative: I grew up in Africa & Europe: between ages of 17 & 37. In my school in Nigeria, black girls told me they wouldnt date me, because I`m too dark. In London Black Women wouldnt date me; saying I`m too lame, not an athlete, I read too many books. Only an Asian girl chose to date me. Now Black Women complain I`m with an Asian girl.
Here is a quote from the Lord Jesus: “Except a person is born again of the water & the spirit he CANNOT see the Kingdom of God; U MUST BE born again..... Repent for the Kingdom of God is at hand" Gospel Jn 3. ANY person who believes that Jesus is the Son of God (the revelation of God) has EVERLASTING LIFE (now); whoever rejects this truth of Almighty God has the wrath of God abiding and is already under condemnation.
@Onyemeachi HA! The shame, oh, the shame and hypocrisy! I would have to agree with you as far as the experiences of a black man growing up in this society. IT is just sad and pathetic! Then, you have black women blaming you for accepting love from a woman of another ethnicity.
Love the vid sis...just would like to add,that if we focus on the FACT that our children are looking at us, more so than worrying about the WORLD,we would and will be in a much better position
Yeah this is true, black men and black women both have a part in our destruction... But look who is raising all these stupid, dumb black men and women... THE BLACK WOMEN.... Stop watching so much television and stop letting televison raise your kids... I don't need no woman... I need other black men that are going have my back in case of a race war... And if that race war ever transpires you are on your own black woman... Hell, I might take some you sellout bitches out myself.
Integration destroyed the black family "the illusion of inclusion" and the welfare state implemented by LBJ's war on poverty. Because of integration alot of black institutions where destroyed along with businesses.
Root cause for failing black family is poverty. Also black women are not much desirable esp when black man is watching so many white women around. Black women, 80% of them, are fat.
Btw its nature. Survival of the fittest. The weak races are bound to die out. Its happening everywhere with blacks. Be it in 1st world country, or 3rd world.
@beeholy. we still deal w/ racism. integration has hurt us more than helped. we have a white Pov. that good if u r white but when u r black it breeds self-hate & division.
we must learn what has happen 2 understand what is happing. u will find caucasians back then & caucasians now that is tha root cause.... they laugh at us cuz we are fussing at one another while our attention is not focus on tha perpetrators.
we must learn what has happen 2 understand what is happing. u will find caucasians back then & caucasians now that is tha root cause.... they laugh at us cuz we are fussing at one another while our attention is not focus on tha perpetrators.
we must learn what has happen 2 understand what is happing. u will find caucasians back then & caucasians now that is tha root cause.... they laugh at us cuz we are fussing at one another while our attention is not focus on tha perpetrators.
It is true; look at the reality! And you do have to take into account economics and history. Black women in today's society are the ones working, that is just statistics...the black men are in jail, have aids, are drop-outs etc... There is a total disconnect b/n black women and men.
When there is financial problems, Black women tend not to stand by their man, and they should. They are the first to leave relationships in all races.
It is true; look at the reality! And you do have to take into account economics and history. Black women in today's society are the ones working, that is just statistics...the black men are in jail, have aids, are drop-outs etc... There is a total disconnect b/n black women and men.
When there is financial problems, Black women tend not to stand by their man, and they should. They are the first to leave relationships in all races.
The family is a unit, & if we can't unite as black people, how are we going to unite as a family unit??
This interaction between BM & BW is like playing a basketball game. Many BM complain that the game sucks b/c of BW. Instead of BM accepting BW as their team mates, they are playing against us as if they are winning & we are losing & its our lack of performance that is making the game look bad. In reality if BW fail BM fail. We are on the same team regardless of who the star players are.
So whats the solution? What is the antidote? How can we change the behaviour the produces the destructive bahaviour? Lets start dealing with the problems and NOT the byproducts and effects.
It isn't Black Woman's fault its the Black man ! Look how they present themselves . Look at how they dress ,what they listen to then you will start to see what they are truly interested in Pussy , Money, Drugs. Whatever happened to good Black music it isn't as good as it was.
HATE TO SAY IT, BUT....I think the truth of the matter is that far too many young black women in their prime child bearing years are picking guys that they KNOW won't make good HUSBANDS much less RESPONSIBLE FATHERS. Women are the crucial key to starting the family. It's up to the woman to pick the right guy. If too many black women are picking the wrong guys, then it's their fault for the faliure of the black family. YOU CAN'T TURN A THUG INTO A RESPONSIBLE DAD!
I agree. The Black community seems to be self destructing. IR dating is fine, I mean, I've never dated a Black guy, but I hate seeing the Black people who use it as a way to ESCAPE their blackness. They come from families where they know NOTHING about Black culture or history, and then they'll have mixed kids who know nothing about their blackness other than seeing their angry Black parent! We're are destroying so much on our OWN that its pathetic.
There's more black kids raised in black housholds in black communities who don't know a damn thing about Jim Crow, the Civil Rights Movement, Medgar Evers, Brown Vs The Board of Education, or inventions by at least 5 black people that contributed greatly towards the advancement of America. This lack of knowledge leads to NO RESPECT and adds to the black on black crime rate.
@beeholy: maybe the segregation and open racism gave us a common enemy which binded us and reinforced that we were on the "same team". so, it might not be so simple as a case of "excuses".
Now you've come to your senses... I see the Isis in you now!
We both play a part Sister but its the woman that has the last word. If shes spiteful & bitter she'll come out as you did in your previous vid. No one wants to deal with "niggertivity" The white man uses you to destroy the black family.
The pit us against each other and get more rich. We know our obligations they want to dictate what they creating the lack of respect amongst us. But you are on the right path... Best wishes!
This is why Malcolm X did not support Integration. He wanted us to stay tight nit with our community and then allow people of other races to enter. Sad Sad Sad
@beeholy I kinda wonder if perhaps Jim Crowe and the whole struggle helped unite black people and gave them strength. I'm not sayin they were a good thing, they werent. But when black ppl had the KKK and hard core racism to fight they had a purpose?? When someone says you cant do something, it makes you want to try harder. I dunno, I could be wrong.
It is our culture to have more than 1 wife, 10 Black women vs 1 Black man. It doesnt work. We need to learn to respect one another. Forget the rap music that treat B-women like whores. B-women should learn to respect themselves and their man, they dont. Im a strong B-woman which means being disrepectful.
I'm s tired of all this sellout stuff. Everyone has to find happiness in whatever form they can find it. The problems within the Black community come not by the white man but by black parents who are refusing to be parents. Girl I agree with you, Good Post!!
@palmbeachmadame85;First law of nature is self-preservation....so yes,YOU FOOL,if you go outside of your race you are breaking a universal law.I know,I know...you black people hate yourselves and you want to create a milk-honey race of black people...you want to bleach and breed your own kind out of existence,by mixing and mingling with non-black races of people.And white people have social engeneered....CONTD
@tHE1iAm38 If you want black women to stick with black men... then black men have to step up to the plate an be fathers. Anyway, genetically a person is often related more to someone in another race then someone from the same race, race is a pretty artificial construct. Its a long time since we were genetically similar tribal units
@palmbeachmadame85;and designed a system set-up,for black people to fail so it goes deeper then,black people being good parents.Being a good black parent isn't,going to stop some racist white(or self-hating colored)cop,from putting a bullet in your black childs head,without cause .
@tHE1iAm38 So, you think the system has gotten more descriminatory since 1950? The black family was together in 1950 despite under Jim Crowe, the KKK and all black army units. Also most black people murdered are killed by other black people, over 90%! But when a gang banger shoots up a smart black kid goin to school, that's OK right? If not, then focus on the real threats to black kids, not .1%...
CONTD....and towards the end of the video she tells us(I assume she's talking about black people,being that,the video was directed towards us)not to get angry about her future,multi-racial relationship which tells me that she has no real plans,of ever being with and settling down,with a blackman.DUMB SELL-OUT NIGGER BITCH!!!!!
This video is hypocrisy at its best and the fat,nasty,sell-out,black bitch,who laid on her jelly rolled filled back and had a baby with a enemy of the black race(any non-black person is a enemy of the black race)is the quintessential hyprocrite.She's telling black people to love each other but she had a mutt by a non-blackman,and she says that she support inter-racial relationships between blacks and non-blacks which over time,will cause our race to cease to exist.CONTD
Its now the me generation. Selfishness and a fake Diva, Gangsta Concepts being forced down our throats is one of the main reasons for our discord. We do have more serious issues that need be addressed. Our future is dying...
This is so true. Especially when it comes to the evil and treachery of black women. Blac k women are not onlly ignorant nappy headed jiggaboos, but they are also manipulative demons. A black woman is like a virus in this country. Just look at the facts....They are ignorant.....their own men hate them with conviction......they have a standard belief to reproduce with low-life low-quality thugs......they embrace negative energy......they are the lowest form of life on Earth. Black women should..
You are absoloutely right!!!!!!!! sista black men and women live up to the streotypes because they come from homes where is confusion and disrespect. So black people who have a understanding of who they are they should try to teach there children to be proud to be black. God Bless !!!!!!
I am sorry but black women are the remodel of the black race SHE, SHE, SHE CAN MODEL BLACK MEN AND WOMEN INTO WHATEVER SHE WANTS THEM TO BE. SO WHEN IT COMES TO BLACK WOMEN NOT TAKING THE LEADERSHIP ROLE IN NOT MAKING SURE THAT BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE COMPATABLE WHAT HAPPENS IS THAT BLACKS START HAVING PROBLEMS AND ISSUES IN THE BLACK RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THINKING IT IS IMPORTANT FOR BLACK CHILDREN TO BE TRAIN TO BE COMPATABLE.
@manweller1 True that. I'm one quarter black... my mother grew up in a single parent household, my grandfather (white) was no where to be found. My mother married my dad b/c she was tired of dating black guys an thought they were all bums. I know thats they're not all, but seriously, black ppl need to step up - especially the men. In rap videos it's about being a bad ass, tough guy, but its like Obama said, a real man is a father to his kids, sad thing is, Obama got attacked 4 sayin that!!
blax men, we gotta give it up.... the lack of accountibility is proof of blax broads faultyness n their character n their contempt 4 the truth & n the disrespectful manner n which they address the blax man as well the issues that persist n the blax community. she won't speak ill of us, but yet she won't inform her son the whole truth as 2 y he's half blax.
Love this vid she has spoke the truth. BM/BW have no respect for each other at all. Maybe deep deep down we don't really love ourselves anymore. Strange that my mom/dad's generation got married and stayed together. Our generation are all over the place. Sorry I call it the way I see it.
There is no destruction of the black family. African Americans are killing themselves and breeding themselves out but who cares? There are millions of black people world wide who know how to act and love each other. Running to white people isnt going to solve your problems, your just going to have more biracial people in the ghetto thats all - same shit , lighter skin
One of the problems i have with black women is this. If you like non black men then fine, go get a white man or others,but stop degrading the black man because you are attracted to white men.
I think love is everywhere, I feel God don't want people to look at race just look at the heart and if you do that you'll find you true mate because with blinders on you can't see them. People for get about this BLACK and WHITE thing just fall in love and forget what others say because they don't know your heart nor your mates. For once people feel with your heart not what someone told you how it's suppose to be done, think outside of the box. PEACE!
MsCuriousCat you just posted this entence ""I feel God don't want people to look at race just look at the heart and if you do that you"ll find your true mate because with blinders on you cant see them".........OKAY MsCuriousCat one month ago 5 posts up from this one you stated..." So in return i look for a mostly non black mate,mostly ARAB race".....Can you explain those two opposing quotes?
You are right and I would never ever date or get married to a black man that have his paints hanging off his butt, shirt 3 sizes too big, no job and homeless. I've met very nice looking balck men but most of them that I meet look for me to take care of them. So in return I look for a mate that a non-black mostly ARAB race and they make me feel like a ARABIAN QUEEN. Girlfriend those guys know how to treat a lady and spoil her at the same time. I wouldn't gave that up NEVER! peace Im out...
Im getting married this fall to an Arab man and he's from Jordan. He been here in this counrtry for 10 yrs he don't need anything from me to live here and on our honey moon we are palnning to go to Dubai for a week and then to Egypt. I have family stil there and I have not seen them in 2 yrs. now. Oh Im part Arab myself that's why I have a strong connection with the Arab world.
I have been to the middle east and women are second class citizens they can even drive cars in many of those countries and those guys treat women like shyt.
Well Im treated fine there as well, Ive been to Saudi, Marocco and Qatar. I don't hate anyone it's just in a relationship I just don't gel will because of my Multi race background and up bringing, so I stick with what I know.
yea they managed to be married longer but they didnt have a child support system giving women a financial incentive to leave their husbands.
today the govt tells a woman "u can leave ur husband and not have to work at cooperating with a man BUT if u have his babies u can still get his money"
that's why 85% of divorces are initiated by women and the most common reason is "irreconciliable differences." not cheating or abuse... just "we argue and i dont want to try to communicate"
Feminism is to Blame the problem is single mothers are now accepted as the norm and i don't care what any Single mother or single father say Kids need an nuclear family if not then why are most of the people in prison are from single mothers
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Eph 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing. Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
No matter how many White Men you date you still need us..? That doesn't make any damn sense!! How is that suppose to make us feel? We aint trying to hear that bullshit! That's part of the problem right there...
A Tru Vid!Honestly We Love Each Other But At The Same Time There Is So Much Hatred In Our Community..But Yes I Feel Yu On Dis..And Kids Pick Up On The Things Parents Are Saying And Doing In Front Of Them....Im Bi-Racial ToO. And.. If We All Are Willing To Let Go Of Gudges And Low Self Esteem The Reason Why I Say 'Us' Is Bekuz We Are As One If A Racist Person See A Black Human Being Act In Way Thats Ignorant They Assume We Are..But Yes Yu Right We Are More Than Just Sex,Money,Drugs etc..Nic Vid
I've never cared for what I call nigger overseers. They've exploited the Blak Woman worse than the white man. There's an arrogance in black men. I've met several who feel they are entitled to your body, your money, and your life. If you do not give these up you are in danger of being violated. Black men are weak, self absorbed children. Blak Women have gone through hell to save their sons or husbands at the expense and neglect of their daughters. The crutch black men are being killed is bs.
Yeah dont blame da white man, da black man sol uz into slavery, da white man saved uz fum slavery. lock dem niggaz up an hav da white manz lightskin babie. We ain gotta b single no mo white menz iz now datin us even
The person you judge could be the person that saves your life one day. Remember as you point fingers at others, there are three fingers pointing back at you.
Go beyond your small world and educate yourself about truth. There are plenty of African Americans that do not fit within your stereotypical generalizations. The same things can be said about any race of people. Not just blacks. I still call your comments ignorance because if you really knew true history and the true spirit of African American people, you would not be so quick to talk!
Why is it that sell-out sistas ALWAYS say you can't blame the government? Why can't we blame the white man honey? Did we create the ghetto? Stop kissing up to white men and looking down on your own men.
We will never progress as a people if we are always pointing the finger at the white man. The purpose of this blog was not to target black men and put them down and single them out. I think you missed the point of the issue.
Are you stupid? Obviously you are. I have been through ghettos, the people can't even be bothered to clean their steps. Irish and Jewish who suffered greatly were displaced by blacks in NYC, look at philly too. The people moving in let it go to shit. Look at the DOME in Katrina. Please, your view holds no water.
I really like your blogs. Thank you for posting them and just speaking so openly and so passionatley about subjects that need to be addressed. I think you're awesome.
I agree that black women and men must accept 50% of reponsibility for what has happened. When you you say gov or economics isn't a factor, I will have to disagree with you. The same racism of yester year exists but just in a diff form. Whites didn't change thier mind about us just their strategy. They changed it from overt to a more covert, mental and internalized apparatus.
Marriage is going down across all races, however, I agree with you, Blacks do not like each other pass the bedroom which is why they are not getting married. this is sad. Black men also have a love for other races of women. They are taught that lighter women are prettier. I know many black guys who will date a lighter skinned woman just because she's light and pass up a darker skinned educated woman with much more to offer.
You are so goddamn stupid. I am happy you are with Asians and I hope you breed your ignorant self out of existence. Its so dumb to say "I only date another race". Anyone can find love in "any" race. The color of the person should NOT matter.
Very well spoken dear sister, thank you. If I understand you correctly; approaching each other from stereotyping point of view is like only be in contact with one another's shells? Being too afraid to really touch each others 'soul', afraid of Love? Then indeed this pseudo interaction, is basically destructive to female/male relationships and ultimately to family life. Thanks. Be blessed.
My sista you couldn't be more truthful! I apreciate this great video that you have done. But just one thing, stick with us brothas please. A good black man is nothing without a good black woman like you by his side, lol. But I totally agree with you you 100% except for when you say that the gov't don't play a role but thats another story. Other than that you're completely on the money, our ppl have to change the way we look at one another and treat one another.
I was with you until....you show how much [YOU]love and need black men...damn an I liked you..shame,shame,shame.....Oh, I need you but i'm going to have someone else....
Black men plant the seeds that Black women flower. End of! The simple fact is that if we hate each other we hate ourselves. I'm sick of this blame game nonsense and thank you Erica for once again for highlighting this. You are truly beautiful, wise and positive.
Nigger familys use to be slaves, and they were good slaves, good nappy headed slaves. I dont see why nigger familys are so upset if nigger on nigger crime exists then its less niggers to be put back into slavery, no offense.
I am black
When I see a black man I think he is going to ask me for a quarter or a free cigarette
When I see a black woman I think she is going to give me the stink eye and tighten the grip on her purse.
level242 2 weeks ago
Very smart woman indeed.
MichaelPAUSA 1 month ago
We are not solely to blame but we both played a massive part!
We can't get it together because we are not teaching our children to love our culture!
The MEDIA created the stereotypes and we fed them more amo.
BlackSapphire8804 3 months ago
The reasons "they" say that the black women is destroying the family or the black race is because the black women is the key.once u got the black woman u got the black race also. study,read and do some research on willie lynch.and the government know that and has been preying on u women for hundreds of years they r using the divide and conqour tactic on
1bryanbj 3 months ago
AND THEN SENDING THEM INTO OTHER BLACK FAMILIES WITH THEIR POISON.
SuperTeamwork1 3 months ago
I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT THE BLACK FAMILY AND IT'S DESTRUCTION IS MORE THAN AN ABSENT FATHER. IN MY FAMILY IT'S NOT MY ABSENT FATHER THAT DESTRYED ME BUT MY MOTHER!!! MY SISTERS AND ALL OF THE IGNORANCE. VERBAL ABUSE, PHYSICAL ABUSE AND PLAIN STUPIDITY. WHEN THE FATHERS ARE ABSENT THE MOTHER HAS TO GROW A BACKBONE AND IN THAT CASE RACE IS OUT OF THE QUESTION. GROW A BACK BONE ADMIT WHEN YOUR WRONG. HUG YOUR BABIES. TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM. STOP CUSSING @ THEM
SuperTeamwork1 3 months ago
coming from a BW who cant get her white baby daddy to pay his chile supoot ¡
TheBlackGlenBeck 4 months ago
Hate to be gloomy, unless Christianity is true, we Black folk are doomed. I would mention Islam, but it's obvious the West is on a 4th Crusade to destroy the traditional islamic religion.
piperadio 5 months ago
Black people, on our current path, are dead within 6 generations. White people who love the useless shepherd (not all caucasions) have taught us to hate ourselves so thoroughly, we will never come out of the situation politically. This statement
piperadio 5 months ago
We Africans hate black Americans
Africanstar6 6 months ago
@Africanstar6 and they hate us too
Goin2Back 3 months ago
@Africanstar6 SO SAD WHAT SLAVERY HAS DONE...WHEN AN AFRICAN PROCLAIMS TO HATE THEIR OWN BLACK PEOPLE
NunuLoveGoodies 1 month ago
how can u say that the goverment is not the blame for the way that black family are today, where r u and where have u been. the goverment is responsible for everything that is wrong with us today
mrwtbryant 6 months ago
baby girl you are a bright woman i love to hear a smart intelegent female like yourself
patrickhill82 6 months ago
Part 1:
Black people (men and women) have a major problem, and I think they have a "hate" problem. Moreover, God gae men the authority and made him a priest of his family... Why is there an inability for men to follow this role? Moreover, why is it that many black women have an aggressive demeanor (an exhaulted feminism)? Doesn't anyone understand how that challenges the authority of men.
jesus7es7dios7 6 months ago
Part 2
UNTIL YOU UNDERSTAND THIS BASIC ORDER OF FAMILY DYNAMICS, YOU CAN'T ADVANCE FURTHER.... You are right, its not about government, olr society or even racism... it has todo with you.... its nobody else's fault, but yours..... Look at how rappers have destroyed society and family.... What terrible generation.
jesus7es7dios7 6 months ago
@jesus7es7dios7 you just want to talk, you want to blame rappers for destroying our society and family and not the goverment who makes all the rules that we live by come on are u that stupid
mrwtbryant 6 months ago
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AS REAL CHOCOLATE SKIN BLACK MAN I LOVE MY BLACK/MIXED WOMEN IN ALL THE WORLD!
latino is not race so pls my black/mixed ppl wake up and make kids look like you and not look like whites! we need more black family and real chocolate/dark/brown skin black sons/kids in america in all the world! dark skin and black love are the best!
BLACK POWER!
blackboysports 7 months ago
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all problem's is not come from black men all problem's come from black/mixed women. black/mixed women are sellout self-hating white men's whores/hoes who don't wants real dark skin black looking sons/kids and wants white dick and mixed/white looking kids that is why your black men are gays, dead or f'cking up just like all black race and community that is why! so blame only yourself as black mother aka black race!
blackboysports 7 months ago
back in the day black families had fathers I DIDNT HAVE ONE IM ONLY 30
jayblac 7 months ago
The blame is on the black nigger bitches
Africanstar6 7 months ago
The world is looking at black people and saying, "don't ever ever EVER be like them!"
theherdmentality 8 months ago
This woman is turning her personal sturggle to find a black man into a cultural issue. WHy isn' she pleading that she needs white men? Her son obviously needs his white daddy
theherdmentality 8 months ago
most people are very selfish these days... they think in terms of there rights, and not there duties and responsibilities...
PunjabiSikhRajput1 8 months ago
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Well.the truth of the fact is that Black women have been bamboozled into actually destroying black men with their independence.Thanks to Black women in America, the Black Family is endangered. Also, thanks to the black women in America, the entire black race is an Endangered Species.These types of women have poisoned the very gift of the black family by ignorantly choosing to be single mothers. The "Woman" is the "chooser", and all black women choose to pro-create with dead-end thugs!!.Holla!
dolemite3000z 8 months ago
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Well....the truth of the fact is that Black women have been bamboozled into actually destroying black men with their independence. Thanks to Black women in America, the Black Family is endangered. Also, thanks to the black women in America, the entire black race is an Endangered Species. These types of women have poisoned the very gift of the black family by ignorantly choosing to be single mothers.
dolemite3000z 9 months ago
The black community/family is made up of mostly ghetto, self-hating morons who wallow in ignorance and self-pity, waiting for someone else to help them. They are a lost cause and they are not destroying me with them.:)
201Sunflower 9 months ago
@201Sunflower You are correct. Just the other day a woman came to my store and asked me to do her pictures for her. Our policy is that it's a self serve. The kiosk is for customers to use. I can help a little, but not do the order. I told her I can teach her, but she Fuckin refused to learn. How FUCKIN ghetto is that? It's like, not wanting to learn to read. They rather have someone else do it. 90% of them don't care about what their ancestors went through. They rather "keep it real." Ghetto..
dchyang 9 months ago
My black family chewed me up, spit me out and made me feel like less than nothing because I'm different and don't fit in wih average black America. The black family is a sinking ship. Somebody get me a lifeboat.
drifter2597 10 months ago 5
Peace and HTP, Thanks for the post. Very powerful and spoken from the Heart. Much props to you sister. There are some black men that hear and feel what your saying. We have answered to your call. Much love Goddess. Peace
dukejah88 11 months ago
Sorry lady but most black men will never go out with a black woman who are vicious, hating, and stuck. Black men you are better of dating a outside your race because black women are diabolical liars and mad
tiderson1 11 months ago
@tiderson1 oufff youv been hurt better work on that anger you have issues
misteeq64 10 months ago
we need segregation back. We want our own country and laws!
We have to have this as a part of REPARATIONS!!
BLACK PEOPLE STOP FIGHTING THE REPARATIONS MOVEMENT!!
supermike2164 1 year ago
The New World Order is to blame. They have destroyed the black family. Look how much the black community has changed in just 50-60yrs. Now they are doing the same shit to the white community. They test it on the blacks and then implement it on the whole population.
Research the illuminati and hip hop and thats just one aspect of the destruction of ANY human relationships.
baser11 1 year ago
@baser11 Sorry... It's not really effecting us Asians as much. When we get to a certain age, we give up the hip hop ghetto shit. Some don't... most do. It's like this... "I'm Asian. Jedi mind trick doesn't work on me." Most of us are immune to it. There's a rumor saying that it was the Masons/Illuminatis that killed Bruce Lee. You see Bruce was on to something that the Masons/Illuminatis feared. If Bruce created an Army of JEET KOON DO warriors, the Masons/Illuminatis wouldn't stand a chance.
dchyang 9 months ago
you hit it on the bull eye.....i totally agree with every statement you made....it's so true
okonkwoobiageli 1 year ago
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Face it America. The Black Female is an evil, nappy-headed, twisted, monstrosity booty-shakin, bitter, trash-talkin, masculine-packin BITCH!!!!!. Their attitudes are ferocious like upset African jigaboo Babboons. For years, they have diabolically worked against the Black Male. Black Feamale porch Monkeys are the bottom of the barrel. They are Scum. In America, They are used to further the oppression of the Black Male by sidelining with the European Standards. Fuck the Evil Black woman!!!!
single4themoment 1 year ago
The black family has been hip-hopped by the media jew. Negroes watch too much tv.
knolram1 1 year ago
Fuck blaks. Send em all to Africa.
fballboi37 1 year ago
You are preaching about destruction of Black Family, but you chose to have a child NOT with a Black man... Black Men are negative because their experiences are negative: I grew up in Africa & Europe: between ages of 17 & 37. In my school in Nigeria, black girls told me they wouldnt date me, because I`m too dark. In London Black Women wouldnt date me; saying I`m too lame, not an athlete, I read too many books. Only an Asian girl chose to date me. Now Black Women complain I`m with an Asian girl.
Onyemeachi 1 year ago
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Here is a quote from the Lord Jesus: “Except a person is born again of the water & the spirit he CANNOT see the Kingdom of God; U MUST BE born again..... Repent for the Kingdom of God is at hand" Gospel Jn 3. ANY person who believes that Jesus is the Son of God (the revelation of God) has EVERLASTING LIFE (now); whoever rejects this truth of Almighty God has the wrath of God abiding and is already under condemnation.
shieldsff 1 year ago
@Onyemeachi Exactly, she is giving advice and look what she did. Fair enough she gave some good reason but It does not excuse the hippocracy.
shinjide213 1 year ago
@Onyemeachi HA! The shame, oh, the shame and hypocrisy! I would have to agree with you as far as the experiences of a black man growing up in this society. IT is just sad and pathetic! Then, you have black women blaming you for accepting love from a woman of another ethnicity.
jnqidowu1 9 months ago
2 Words. Willie Lynch. YOUR CUTE THOUGH.
shaft30000 1 year ago
Love the vid sis...just would like to add,that if we focus on the FACT that our children are looking at us, more so than worrying about the WORLD,we would and will be in a much better position
sunofman2008 1 year ago
Yeah this is true, black men and black women both have a part in our destruction... But look who is raising all these stupid, dumb black men and women... THE BLACK WOMEN.... Stop watching so much television and stop letting televison raise your kids... I don't need no woman... I need other black men that are going have my back in case of a race war... And if that race war ever transpires you are on your own black woman... Hell, I might take some you sellout bitches out myself.
rod11672000 1 year ago
Integration destroyed the black family "the illusion of inclusion" and the welfare state implemented by LBJ's war on poverty. Because of integration alot of black institutions where destroyed along with businesses.
DIJV79 1 year ago
why is you so damn bald headed?
IHEARTNERDS34 1 year ago
@IHEARTNERDS34 why are you a hater? gtfoh.
Liltrea1 1 year ago
@Liltrea1 I wasn't talkin' to yo ass. Mind ya damn business.
IHEARTNERDS34 1 year ago
@IHEARTNERDS34 Yea you're right. A hating ass nigga is no business of mines.
Liltrea1 1 year ago
@Liltrea1 bitch, go sit ya ass down somewhere and quit talkin shit to me. damn.
IHEARTNERDS34 1 year ago
@IHEARTNERDS34 alright man. this is my last response to your sickly looking ass. Be easy. You won the internet battle, i concede.
Liltrea1 1 year ago
@Liltrea1 um, sickly? u short, ugly, black bastard. carry ya ass on some damn where.
IHEARTNERDS34 1 year ago 2
@IHEARTNERDS34 thumbs up for effort. I'm actually a 6 ft. tall, handsome black bastard. Be easy Nerd.
Liltrea1 1 year ago
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madscientistify 1 year ago
Root cause for failing black family is poverty. Also black women are not much desirable esp when black man is watching so many white women around. Black women, 80% of them, are fat.
Btw its nature. Survival of the fittest. The weak races are bound to die out. Its happening everywhere with blacks. Be it in 1st world country, or 3rd world.
budfebreze 1 year ago
Black abandoned the black family.via INDEPENDENT WOMAN!...or I dont need a man wtf you think that was about?
whitebitchnigga 1 year ago
@beeholy. we still deal w/ racism. integration has hurt us more than helped. we have a white Pov. that good if u r white but when u r black it breeds self-hate & division.
mykole84 1 year ago
you are right the potential is mos def. there but also ppl have to get rid of the willie lynch chip... Your right right right!!!!!
1oftxfinest09 1 year ago
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we must learn what has happen 2 understand what is happing. u will find caucasians back then & caucasians now that is tha root cause.... they laugh at us cuz we are fussing at one another while our attention is not focus on tha perpetrators.
mikkoisbad 1 year ago
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we must learn what has happen 2 understand what is happing. u will find caucasians back then & caucasians now that is tha root cause.... they laugh at us cuz we are fussing at one another while our attention is not focus on tha perpetrators.
mikkoisbad 1 year ago
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we must learn what has happen 2 understand what is happing. u will find caucasians back then & caucasians now that is tha root cause.... they laugh at us cuz we are fussing at one another while our attention is not focus on tha perpetrators.
mikkoisbad 1 year ago
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It is true; look at the reality! And you do have to take into account economics and history. Black women in today's society are the ones working, that is just statistics...the black men are in jail, have aids, are drop-outs etc... There is a total disconnect b/n black women and men.
When there is financial problems, Black women tend not to stand by their man, and they should. They are the first to leave relationships in all races.
areaux1 1 year ago
It is true; look at the reality! And you do have to take into account economics and history. Black women in today's society are the ones working, that is just statistics...the black men are in jail, have aids, are drop-outs etc... There is a total disconnect b/n black women and men.
When there is financial problems, Black women tend not to stand by their man, and they should. They are the first to leave relationships in all races.
areaux1 1 year ago
@areaux1 Black men have always out earn black women
whitebitchnigga 1 year ago
And it's probably all white peoples fault, right...I mean it always is right...or somehow it always ends up being, right...rrrrriiiight...
Helcomlatly 1 year ago
The family is a unit, & if we can't unite as black people, how are we going to unite as a family unit??
This interaction between BM & BW is like playing a basketball game. Many BM complain that the game sucks b/c of BW. Instead of BM accepting BW as their team mates, they are playing against us as if they are winning & we are losing & its our lack of performance that is making the game look bad. In reality if BW fail BM fail. We are on the same team regardless of who the star players are.
ladyEulaelie 1 year ago
So whats the solution? What is the antidote? How can we change the behaviour the produces the destructive bahaviour? Lets start dealing with the problems and NOT the byproducts and effects.
antifakechristians 1 year ago
Thank you my black beautiful queen for your wonderful and beautiful words love you a real black man.
bishoppgm 1 year ago
100% Right on...
TroubleMan21C 1 year ago
I'm starting work on a documentary and book dealing with this very subject!!
marla79 1 year ago
It isn't Black Woman's fault its the Black man ! Look how they present themselves . Look at how they dress ,what they listen to then you will start to see what they are truly interested in Pussy , Money, Drugs. Whatever happened to good Black music it isn't as good as it was.
B0rnAl0neDieAl0ne 1 year ago
@B0rnAl0neDieAl0ne Naw it's both the men and women faults.
Digadog81 1 year ago
HATE TO SAY IT, BUT....I think the truth of the matter is that far too many young black women in their prime child bearing years are picking guys that they KNOW won't make good HUSBANDS much less RESPONSIBLE FATHERS. Women are the crucial key to starting the family. It's up to the woman to pick the right guy. If too many black women are picking the wrong guys, then it's their fault for the faliure of the black family. YOU CAN'T TURN A THUG INTO A RESPONSIBLE DAD!
Solowizard 1 year ago
I agree. The Black community seems to be self destructing. IR dating is fine, I mean, I've never dated a Black guy, but I hate seeing the Black people who use it as a way to ESCAPE their blackness. They come from families where they know NOTHING about Black culture or history, and then they'll have mixed kids who know nothing about their blackness other than seeing their angry Black parent! We're are destroying so much on our OWN that its pathetic.
chocolatbuny 1 year ago
@chocolatbuny, I somewhat agree with you.
There's more black kids raised in black housholds in black communities who don't know a damn thing about Jim Crow, the Civil Rights Movement, Medgar Evers, Brown Vs The Board of Education, or inventions by at least 5 black people that contributed greatly towards the advancement of America. This lack of knowledge leads to NO RESPECT and adds to the black on black crime rate.
Solowizard 1 year ago
@beeholy: maybe the segregation and open racism gave us a common enemy which binded us and reinforced that we were on the "same team". so, it might not be so simple as a case of "excuses".
creeball 1 year ago
luv the earrings and pendant!
MachinateTDK 1 year ago
Now you've come to your senses... I see the Isis in you now!
We both play a part Sister but its the woman that has the last word. If shes spiteful & bitter she'll come out as you did in your previous vid. No one wants to deal with "niggertivity" The white man uses you to destroy the black family.
The pit us against each other and get more rich. We know our obligations they want to dictate what they creating the lack of respect amongst us. But you are on the right path... Best wishes!
011238 1 year ago
Intergration was detrimental.
NSLBC 1 year ago
This is why Malcolm X did not support Integration. He wanted us to stay tight nit with our community and then allow people of other races to enter. Sad Sad Sad
2008rebirthx 1 year ago
@beeholy I kinda wonder if perhaps Jim Crowe and the whole struggle helped unite black people and gave them strength. I'm not sayin they were a good thing, they werent. But when black ppl had the KKK and hard core racism to fight they had a purpose?? When someone says you cant do something, it makes you want to try harder. I dunno, I could be wrong.
ObamaBiden20082012 1 year ago
we must celanse ourselves from these stupid designations..
yes, stupid topic.
Designation has no value. Don't you know that by now????????????????
To be clear: the person is important NOT THE DESIGNATION.
MyWordizBond 1 year ago
It is our culture to have more than 1 wife, 10 Black women vs 1 Black man. It doesnt work. We need to learn to respect one another. Forget the rap music that treat B-women like whores. B-women should learn to respect themselves and their man, they dont. Im a strong B-woman which means being disrepectful.
Fujisuka 1 year ago
I'm s tired of all this sellout stuff. Everyone has to find happiness in whatever form they can find it. The problems within the Black community come not by the white man but by black parents who are refusing to be parents. Girl I agree with you, Good Post!!
palmbeachmadame85 1 year ago
@palmbeachmadame85;First law of nature is self-preservation....so yes,YOU FOOL,if you go outside of your race you are breaking a universal law.I know,I know...you black people hate yourselves and you want to create a milk-honey race of black people...you want to bleach and breed your own kind out of existence,by mixing and mingling with non-black races of people.And white people have social engeneered....CONTD
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
@tHE1iAm38 If you want black women to stick with black men... then black men have to step up to the plate an be fathers. Anyway, genetically a person is often related more to someone in another race then someone from the same race, race is a pretty artificial construct. Its a long time since we were genetically similar tribal units
ObamaBiden20082012 1 year ago
@palmbeachmadame85;and designed a system set-up,for black people to fail so it goes deeper then,black people being good parents.Being a good black parent isn't,going to stop some racist white(or self-hating colored)cop,from putting a bullet in your black childs head,without cause .
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
@tHE1iAm38 So, you think the system has gotten more descriminatory since 1950? The black family was together in 1950 despite under Jim Crowe, the KKK and all black army units. Also most black people murdered are killed by other black people, over 90%! But when a gang banger shoots up a smart black kid goin to school, that's OK right? If not, then focus on the real threats to black kids, not .1%...
ObamaBiden20082012 1 year ago
CONTD....and towards the end of the video she tells us(I assume she's talking about black people,being that,the video was directed towards us)not to get angry about her future,multi-racial relationship which tells me that she has no real plans,of ever being with and settling down,with a blackman.DUMB SELL-OUT NIGGER BITCH!!!!!
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
This video is hypocrisy at its best and the fat,nasty,sell-out,black bitch,who laid on her jelly rolled filled back and had a baby with a enemy of the black race(any non-black person is a enemy of the black race)is the quintessential hyprocrite.She's telling black people to love each other but she had a mutt by a non-blackman,and she says that she support inter-racial relationships between blacks and non-blacks which over time,will cause our race to cease to exist.CONTD
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
Its now the me generation. Selfishness and a fake Diva, Gangsta Concepts being forced down our throats is one of the main reasons for our discord. We do have more serious issues that need be addressed. Our future is dying...
011238 1 year ago
When I talked about how much my students' mothers pissed me off, MY mother used to say "you're always blaming the mothers!"
Well it's true, because when the kid's parent comes to school, it's always the mother, not the father.
It takes a woman AND a man to make babies. So obviously, the mother AND father make a beautiful baby together, then Daddy disappears.
The way I see it, I never told "the mother" to have sex.
MondoBeno 1 year ago
How's the black man going to blame the women?
"Men are the maintainers and protectors of women" - Qur'an.
1.Fornication has destroyed the black family. 2.the the black man abandoned his family and left the women alone to fend for herself.
lyricaladaud 1 year ago
Black woman are definately responsible for the Mayhem criminalisation of black kids today
tiderson1 1 year ago
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This is so true. Especially when it comes to the evil and treachery of black women. Blac k women are not onlly ignorant nappy headed jiggaboos, but they are also manipulative demons. A black woman is like a virus in this country. Just look at the facts....They are ignorant.....their own men hate them with conviction......they have a standard belief to reproduce with low-life low-quality thugs......they embrace negative energy......they are the lowest form of life on Earth. Black women should..
single4themoment 1 year ago
we need to seperate for the good of america
vanexel2 1 year ago
You are absoloutely right!!!!!!!! sista black men and women live up to the streotypes because they come from homes where is confusion and disrespect. So black people who have a understanding of who they are they should try to teach there children to be proud to be black. God Bless !!!!!!
netfail71 2 years ago
nuthing should rub her anyway! am i right?!
xNavySEAL1337x 1 year ago
the black male is the most hated on the planet!
that tv tell to do so. stop watching bullshit!
lorddarthstar 2 years ago
I am sorry but black women are the remodel of the black race SHE, SHE, SHE CAN MODEL BLACK MEN AND WOMEN INTO WHATEVER SHE WANTS THEM TO BE. SO WHEN IT COMES TO BLACK WOMEN NOT TAKING THE LEADERSHIP ROLE IN NOT MAKING SURE THAT BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE COMPATABLE WHAT HAPPENS IS THAT BLACKS START HAVING PROBLEMS AND ISSUES IN THE BLACK RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THINKING IT IS IMPORTANT FOR BLACK CHILDREN TO BE TRAIN TO BE COMPATABLE.
Cancerian1976 2 years ago
You are 100% right back in the day 50s 60s my parents generation were so tight. now it's a mess.
manweller1 2 years ago 9
@manweller1 True that. I'm one quarter black... my mother grew up in a single parent household, my grandfather (white) was no where to be found. My mother married my dad b/c she was tired of dating black guys an thought they were all bums. I know thats they're not all, but seriously, black ppl need to step up - especially the men. In rap videos it's about being a bad ass, tough guy, but its like Obama said, a real man is a father to his kids, sad thing is, Obama got attacked 4 sayin that!!
ObamaBiden20082012 1 year ago
@manweller1 we want segregation back. We want our own country and laws!
supermike2164 1 year ago
bull shit the government don't what us together.
that bull shit as tv ruler our asses.
that one eye god has our mind!
lorddarthstar 2 years ago
@lorddarthstar thank you it is based on racism and whites who are hateful must maintain that power to get whatever they want.
Cancerian1976 2 years ago
blax men, we gotta give it up.... the lack of accountibility is proof of blax broads faultyness n their character n their contempt 4 the truth & n the disrespectful manner n which they address the blax man as well the issues that persist n the blax community. she won't speak ill of us, but yet she won't inform her son the whole truth as 2 y he's half blax.
muveenon 2 years ago
this is the definition of the ignorant woman!!!!
judahlove6009 2 years ago
Love this vid she has spoke the truth. BM/BW have no respect for each other at all. Maybe deep deep down we don't really love ourselves anymore. Strange that my mom/dad's generation got married and stayed together. Our generation are all over the place. Sorry I call it the way I see it.
manweller1 2 years ago
beeholy, I agree with you 100%
I can't stand the excuses people make today. Even when black folks had less, we worked much better together as a family unit.
kimmaytube 2 years ago 2
fuckin big nose arabz ill kill em all
KellyParkCrip95 2 years ago
and WHY the HELL should i respect BLACK WOMEN ?
kunzy3000 2 years ago
There is no destruction of the black family. African Americans are killing themselves and breeding themselves out but who cares? There are millions of black people world wide who know how to act and love each other. Running to white people isnt going to solve your problems, your just going to have more biracial people in the ghetto thats all - same shit , lighter skin
Atemaatra 2 years ago 3
People in general need to learn to co-exist with each other in peace. Enough is enough.
FireXXXHeart 2 years ago
this bitch got some nerves
talking shit but the bitch is a sellout
if you care about lost africans go into the community and do something
nilratscity 2 years ago
I think its beautiful that us black hate each other. I have alot of black enemies and me being a young black male. I'm fucking proud of it.
MagnusShank 2 years ago
you just a cracka with a little dick who cant get any pussy
you love dick dont chu
nilratscity 2 years ago
One of the problems i have with black women is this. If you like non black men then fine, go get a white man or others,but stop degrading the black man because you are attracted to white men.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
I think love is everywhere, I feel God don't want people to look at race just look at the heart and if you do that you'll find you true mate because with blinders on you can't see them. People for get about this BLACK and WHITE thing just fall in love and forget what others say because they don't know your heart nor your mates. For once people feel with your heart not what someone told you how it's suppose to be done, think outside of the box. PEACE!
MsCuriousCat 2 years ago
MsCuriousCat you just posted this entence ""I feel God don't want people to look at race just look at the heart and if you do that you"ll find your true mate because with blinders on you cant see them".........OKAY MsCuriousCat one month ago 5 posts up from this one you stated..." So in return i look for a mostly non black mate,mostly ARAB race".....Can you explain those two opposing quotes?
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
You are right and I would never ever date or get married to a black man that have his paints hanging off his butt, shirt 3 sizes too big, no job and homeless. I've met very nice looking balck men but most of them that I meet look for me to take care of them. So in return I look for a mate that a non-black mostly ARAB race and they make me feel like a ARABIAN QUEEN. Girlfriend those guys know how to treat a lady and spoil her at the same time. I wouldn't gave that up NEVER! peace Im out...
MsCuriousCat 2 years ago
Why can't you get one of those Arab guys to marry you? better maybe he will take you back to his country
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
Im getting married this fall to an Arab man and he's from Jordan. He been here in this counrtry for 10 yrs he don't need anything from me to live here and on our honey moon we are palnning to go to Dubai for a week and then to Egypt. I have family stil there and I have not seen them in 2 yrs. now. Oh Im part Arab myself that's why I have a strong connection with the Arab world.
MsCuriousCat 2 years ago
I have been to the middle east and women are second class citizens they can even drive cars in many of those countries and those guys treat women like shyt.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
Good maybe he will take you to Saudia Arabia,or Kuwaait beter yet Iran they defenitely know how to treat females in those countries.
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
Well Im treated fine there as well, Ive been to Saudi, Marocco and Qatar. I don't hate anyone it's just in a relationship I just don't gel will because of my Multi race background and up bringing, so I stick with what I know.
MsCuriousCat 2 years ago
ARAB men
r u 4 real ?
dey treat their women iike shit ( LO )
their women are not even allowed to drive a car
kunzy3000 2 years ago
The destruction of the Black Family did not start in America ...
magnifysumthn 2 years ago
yea they managed to be married longer but they didnt have a child support system giving women a financial incentive to leave their husbands.
today the govt tells a woman "u can leave ur husband and not have to work at cooperating with a man BUT if u have his babies u can still get his money"
that's why 85% of divorces are initiated by women and the most common reason is "irreconciliable differences." not cheating or abuse... just "we argue and i dont want to try to communicate"
queenbastet 2 years ago 4
Feminism is to Blame the problem is single mothers are now accepted as the norm and i don't care what any Single mother or single father say Kids need an nuclear family if not then why are most of the people in prison are from single mothers
theabomation 3 years ago
Abortion is to blame also for the destruction of the black community. the black population is on the decline at our own hands.
kcballintyp 2 years ago 2
You are so on point! Thank you for making this video.
kimmayluv 3 years ago
Very nice video sister!
Thank you.
Attunahbrix 3 years ago
Most Stereotypes are actually based on some truth.
xxShannonGreenxx 3 years ago
What you say is not a new idea.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Eph 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing. Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
realsamwise 3 years ago
No matter how many White Men you date you still need us..? That doesn't make any damn sense!! How is that suppose to make us feel? We aint trying to hear that bullshit! That's part of the problem right there...
stymie662 3 years ago
U dont need no black man u needz a white man,
I got 9 babie daddies by donlow black men
wh gav me aids an now I only date white menz.
U only need black menz for child supot.
Uz black Queens respect white mens an alwayz hav. Black womenz even giv white dolls to kidz
an white santa claz cuz white menz iz da bes.
79PercentSingleHiv 3 years ago
u r a very ignoront and sad person
Ibonyblack 2 years ago
You are white and you are an idiot. Transparent asshole.
babolatbash 2 years ago
LMFBAOOOOOO!!!!!!
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
A Tru Vid!Honestly We Love Each Other But At The Same Time There Is So Much Hatred In Our Community..But Yes I Feel Yu On Dis..And Kids Pick Up On The Things Parents Are Saying And Doing In Front Of Them....Im Bi-Racial ToO. And.. If We All Are Willing To Let Go Of Gudges And Low Self Esteem The Reason Why I Say 'Us' Is Bekuz We Are As One If A Racist Person See A Black Human Being Act In Way Thats Ignorant They Assume We Are..But Yes Yu Right We Are More Than Just Sex,Money,Drugs etc..Nic Vid
MszCanDiiKisseZ 3 years ago
I've never cared for what I call nigger overseers. They've exploited the Blak Woman worse than the white man. There's an arrogance in black men. I've met several who feel they are entitled to your body, your money, and your life. If you do not give these up you are in danger of being violated. Black men are weak, self absorbed children. Blak Women have gone through hell to save their sons or husbands at the expense and neglect of their daughters. The crutch black men are being killed is bs.
chocobutch 3 years ago
O really, its a 2 way street...
mikecockrell 3 years ago
Wow, you have some powerful words to say. I'm Puerto Rican, but I feel what you are saying.
navyboydjray 3 years ago
Yeah dont blame da white man, da black man sol uz into slavery, da white man saved uz fum slavery. lock dem niggaz up an hav da white manz lightskin babie. We ain gotta b single no mo white menz iz now datin us even
if we fat.
79PercentSingleHiv 3 years ago
The person you judge could be the person that saves your life one day. Remember as you point fingers at others, there are three fingers pointing back at you.
Matthew 7:1-5
imaniexpressions 3 years ago
Go beyond your small world and educate yourself about truth. There are plenty of African Americans that do not fit within your stereotypical generalizations. The same things can be said about any race of people. Not just blacks. I still call your comments ignorance because if you really knew true history and the true spirit of African American people, you would not be so quick to talk!
imaniexpressions 3 years ago
Stop the ignorance!You watch too much television and believe in stereotypes. Get educated before commenting and things you know nothing about.
imaniexpressions 3 years ago
Damn, you survived the abortion!!
SintualEvents 3 years ago
HUH!
MsCuriousCat 2 years ago
Why is it that sell-out sistas ALWAYS say you can't blame the government? Why can't we blame the white man honey? Did we create the ghetto? Stop kissing up to white men and looking down on your own men.
xXNubianQueenXx 3 years ago
We will never progress as a people if we are always pointing the finger at the white man. The purpose of this blog was not to target black men and put them down and single them out. I think you missed the point of the issue.
DarkPrincess702 3 years ago
Are you stupid? Obviously you are. I have been through ghettos, the people can't even be bothered to clean their steps. Irish and Jewish who suffered greatly were displaced by blacks in NYC, look at philly too. The people moving in let it go to shit. Look at the DOME in Katrina. Please, your view holds no water.
babolatbash 2 years ago
I really like your blogs. Thank you for posting them and just speaking so openly and so passionatley about subjects that need to be addressed. I think you're awesome.
DarkPrincess702 3 years ago
She mentions 'Queens' but omits "Kings".
My next video deals with BW raising their children telling them 'A Nucca Ain't Shyt'!
The white man taught self hate to BW in slavery to make her keep BM down. BW feel they
are right to TALK DOWN to their men which is what drives BM away!
NQ 2008
xXNubianQueenXx 3 years ago
God bless you. As a black man, I am thankful that you as a black woman states the truth.
joecwilk 3 years ago
God bless you. As a black man, I am thankful that you as a black woman states the truth.
joecwilk 3 years ago
Sorry about any typos I didn't correct....
Luke1127 4 years ago
I agree that black women and men must accept 50% of reponsibility for what has happened. When you you say gov or economics isn't a factor, I will have to disagree with you. The same racism of yester year exists but just in a diff form. Whites didn't change thier mind about us just their strategy. They changed it from overt to a more covert, mental and internalized apparatus.
Luke
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ImJangooo 4 years ago
Marriage is going down across all races, however, I agree with you, Blacks do not like each other pass the bedroom which is why they are not getting married. this is sad. Black men also have a love for other races of women. They are taught that lighter women are prettier. I know many black guys who will date a lighter skinned woman just because she's light and pass up a darker skinned educated woman with much more to offer.
Protool11 4 years ago 2
They are not taught other women are prettier.
bitterpill2swallow 3 years ago
You are so goddamn stupid. I am happy you are with Asians and I hope you breed your ignorant self out of existence. Its so dumb to say "I only date another race". Anyone can find love in "any" race. The color of the person should NOT matter.
Protool11 4 years ago
beautiful vid!
StickMovement 4 years ago
Very well spoken dear sister, thank you. If I understand you correctly; approaching each other from stereotyping point of view is like only be in contact with one another's shells? Being too afraid to really touch each others 'soul', afraid of Love? Then indeed this pseudo interaction, is basically destructive to female/male relationships and ultimately to family life. Thanks. Be blessed.
deborahbetty58 4 years ago
My sista you couldn't be more truthful! I apreciate this great video that you have done. But just one thing, stick with us brothas please. A good black man is nothing without a good black woman like you by his side, lol. But I totally agree with you you 100% except for when you say that the gov't don't play a role but thats another story. Other than that you're completely on the money, our ppl have to change the way we look at one another and treat one another.
oandjshow 4 years ago
Do you work for the KKK..I mean really...
jamminc07g 4 years ago
I was with you until....you show how much [YOU]love and need black men...damn an I liked you..shame,shame,shame.....Oh, I need you but i'm going to have someone else....
jamminc07g 4 years ago
Well said1
TheBobcatChannel 4 years ago
Black men plant the seeds that Black women flower. End of! The simple fact is that if we hate each other we hate ourselves. I'm sick of this blame game nonsense and thank you Erica for once again for highlighting this. You are truly beautiful, wise and positive.
funkymama21 4 years ago 2
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Nigger familys use to be slaves, and they were good slaves, good nappy headed slaves. I dont see why nigger familys are so upset if nigger on nigger crime exists then its less niggers to be put back into slavery, no offense.
fanofgaypeople 4 years ago
Don't be so desperate for my attention! I see you!
SintualEvents 4 years ago