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  • hey ladies dont we hate fake brothas , if u love men just say it and stop laying. Monifah let them suckers know, we women aint need that in our lives.

  • shit i wish i could tell..monifah help a sistah out gurrrrl

  • Ha ha I forgot about her, use to luv this song

  • song is good she telling the truth listen to her sistas

  • I love this song, its kind of funny, because some men don't even realize that we pick up on tell tell signs. Some are so cocky, they don't even realize they are caught until its too late, and what do they do, LIE. Many women are like this as well. its very sad.

  • lol @NakitaBenjamin2c

    i fit all that

    definitely gotta love this song cause it is true about guys

  • WELL DID YOU LOOK AT THE END OF THE VIDEO REAL GOOD??? THAT WAS A MAN IN THE BED YALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO MAYBE IT IS ABOUT HIM BEING ON THE DL!!!!!!! MAKE YOU SAY HHMMMMMMMMM

  • @DAGLAMOROUS01 The song itself has nothing to do with the DL. Listent to the lyrics. However, the video might as part of the story plot.

  • @DAGLAMOROUS01 This song has got to be about him on the DL. The evidence is revealed at the end people.

  • i like dis song it's true

  • i still want to marry monifah. so beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • who remember's when BET whould play this song over an over..

  • Same brother who was in  the movie "For colored girls" portraying a homosexual, good acting

  • Omari Hardwick!

  • gay male ..me.... love music..me.. I love music monifah music was so underrated and that doesnt make u a faggot. Damn those words are harsh. Love u monifah

  • i miss her music..!!! this is such a good album too...

  • I know I have all her albums . There are too many shitty singers getting paid nowadays it's not about vocals anymore.

  • @lizzardlop i agree. its kinda sad.

  • good song!!!!!

    

  • I still have this cd,good solid cd but poor promotion...I never would have thought Monifah was into girls... but to each's own

  • im really feeling the music.i wonder if monifah can tell that i would like 2 kiss those heart shaped lips.great voice and waitng 4 her 2 drop something new soon.

  • that guy who reveals himself in the bed played a gay guy also in the movie FOR COLORED GIRLS........MAYBE HE DOES LIKE TO TASTE THE RAINBOW IN REAL LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

  • @Catbetrayed That's not Omari Hardwick but it does look like him.

  • inthe vid its a twist her man on the DL.. but i think this was in kinda lik the other version 2 dru hill sleeping in my bed.. where his gf is cheating with a woman

  • Right attitude for the song damn she looks hot in this vid right!!!!!!!!!

  • Love her!!

  • hey everybody i hear monifah is coming out with a new album this year called midnite

  • come to my site and see MOnifa

  • I never seen the lip piercing before 2007 she was obviously ahead of her time with the trends and music

  • Where is Monifah now??? I loved her music when I was young!

  • im a double standard bi-sexual. I can have all the pussy but my man cant have any extra pussy unless im there!!!

  • I KNOW SHE WAS GAY!!!! WOW ANYWAY SHE NEEDS TO MAKE A CD!!!!

  • I got news for you all, Monifah just recently came out. She is gay herself. SNAP

  • @kjamai26 Rumor, asshole....SNAP.

  • she is a beauty and this video was before its time. ground breaking ISH ! we need to catch up.we cant find her cause shes probably waaaay ahead of us ...AGAIN! MONIFAH do your thang BOOBOO and hit us with another joint soon ya heard ?

  • she is such a beautiful women with amazing talent..Let me get them digits lmao..No seriously!

  • this video is hot, one of the BEST THROWBACKS of all times

  • Y'all people are confused as fuck about the meaning of this song, no wonder most of you guys are lost when it comes to finding the right guy/girl.

    I can tell what kind a man i'm dealing with all the time. You just have to be aware of the red flags that comes with the wrong man.

    Hint 1: The way he dress, the way he talks... If he's a flirt, if he has swagger, etc etc, you can tell he's a playa playa.

    Hint 2: He leaves after getting sex.

    Hint 3: He's being shady.

    Hint 4: He's fronting.

  • @NakitaBenjamin2c

    Thank you for sharing this information with us :)

  • There are alot of men out there that are living on the DL.

  • i been lookin for this for helllla long props to whoever put it on here :-)

  • Like biggie said TWO *ICKS DONT MIX.. Sexy woman like Monifah- something def wrong with him.. You wont see me on the weekends..lol

  • omgf ifucckin luv this soo thank so much

  • OMG!wtf?I liked dis song for how long (still do)but i never knew it was about this!!!

  • This song isn't about her man being on the down low, it's a just a twist that they put on the video. Listen to the lyrics, it's pretty clear what she's talking about. Picking up on the clues on what kind of man you're dealing with. Duh.

  • @msbrandt06 You are so right... all you have to do is listen to the lyrics, it does not relate to the video.

  • She looks hot in this video.

  • If you look like her and your man is not trying to hit that, he is a booty boy

  • Monifah was heavy d's best artits; I wish she was still doing music!

  • The guy at the end of the movie was in for color girls as janets man

  • Its true You can tell! If you look for the clues. If she is a lesbian its because sum men aint shit. Good men are very hard to find.

  • @velvet711quin4 If she's a lesbian, it's because she likes women. Being a true lesbian has nothing to do with men.

  • Its true You can tell! If you look for the clues

  • and blk people learn to stop labeling ever gay dude that doesn't fit your idiotic, stereotype of homosexuality "DL." Just because a man is not acting like a sissy doesn't mean he's "DL."  I don't know why people want people to walk around with a sign saying their sexuality...FOR WHAT?

  • People kill me.  "...lesbian now'...for all you know she could have BEEN one always.

  • Does anyone have any information about Monifah's new album due out this year?

  • wow so true

  • I believe she got a lil bored with the average man that she could see through and decided to taste the rainbow for herself! still a pimpin jam!!

  • i kind know that she was lesbian cause all the signs is right threre.

  • I agree they didn't show that back in the day. But I have no problem with it. Whatever made her/him happy. Her vocals is so dam good it don't matter. Miss her

  • She has some nerve talking about some guy being gay when it turns out she likes girls. I'm tired of hearing people complain about DL guys. If there wasn't so much RAMPANT HOMOPHOBIA in the BLACK community then there wouldn't be any DL brothas

  • such a cool and orginal song.

  • classic

  • i still love me some monifah!!!!

  • (0_o) @MiamiChicky, is she really??? well somebody shut the front door!!!! i didnt know that... ha

  • Love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • make a come back monifah

  • the video is about her man being on the dl but the song is NOT about her man being on the DL listen to the words in the song the concept of the video and the song are two different things people

  • no dats y she can tell

  • This is my ish...ladies always can tell. ;)

  • I BEEN HEARD SHE WS GAY THO..REAL TALENT.. HEARD SHE FROM WHERE I USED TO HANG OUT SPANISH HARLEM.SB I WS JUS WATCHN THAT DIAMOND VID ABOUT ITS COOL TO B A GOLD DIGGER YO THAT "NEW VID" LOL IT LOOKD LIKE A OLD 2001 VID..BUT YEA THIS JOINT HOT THE CLASSIC IS I MISS U THO W/HER N HEAVY D THAS AROUND THE TIME N 12TH GRADE MY X HUS USED TO COME SIT WITH ME N ART CLASS DURIN HIS LUNCH PERIOD

  • OMG I NEVER NOTICEDDDDD YOOO STUFF B GOIN DOWN..WOW I JUS NOTICED THE FUDGE PACKER N THE BED LOL WHOLE TIME IM THINKIN SHE TALKING ABOUT A STR8 DUDE. WOW YO

  • Oh My...Speechless...Never knew that was what she was singin about!

  • This song is about her being able to tell her man is on the DL. I guess there really is a song about everything in this world...

    yeah whatever

  • Monifah is fine as hell..I saw her live in Vegas and she tore the stage up! this is a real artist!

  • Lawd.....somebody go to where ever she is and bring her to a studio PLEASE!

  • After listening to this song for so many years, I never realized what it was REALLY about until seeing the video, LOL.

  • @Seezy  YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE..LOL!

  • monifah's a lesbian? awwww.

  • yES THAT WAS AN EYE OPENER WHEN IT FIRST CAME OUT.

  • You Go Lady, tell it like it is..

  • i love this fuckin song and her i dont care wht is she lesbian whtevah cuz i am 2

  • I miss her so much.... What happend to all the good singers

  • Was she outing Heavy D in this video? I'm not trying to start ny rumors, I'm just curious.

  • @dadevi HEAVY WAS ACTUALLY IN LOVE WITH HER BACK IN THE DAY, BUT SHE TURNED HIM DOWN... I USED TO PLAY THIS SONG OVER AND OVER AND NEVER SAW THE VIDEO TIL NOW.....WOOOWWW! LOL!

  • @POCAHANTAS23 don't feel bad!...I thought it was a triflin a** nigga too! ;-)

  • @MsGigglez233 i swear they didnt show that part back in the day lol

  • @Missljones11 Yea they did.

  • I dont give a shit. Yall can clown me. I had wet dreams on Monifah back in high school. Damn she's sexy. lol

  • her gift is awesome

  • I was just about to ask the question was this chick a lesbian because I just went to her myspace page and looked at her photos. She has another female sitting on her lap and Monifa has her hands in between the female's leg with her hand on the girl's crotch.

  • The man in dis video fine ass hell!!! ;)

  • wow i remember when they use to play this video on BET on Midnight Love back in the day.

  • yo midnight love used to be that joint for real

  • @harlemborn1978 hell yeah.. i miss it

  • @harlemborn1978 lol don't you miss it

  • i used to listen to this song back in the day. Glad to find it again.

  • I just think it is about a no good man.

  • I always heard about this video and the shock value, but never got the chance to see it back in the day. When I searched a long time ago, I couldnt find it on youtube. Thanks for the post!

  • This shit is bananas!!! Just from a woman's point of view, she's too pretty to have a man that likes getting his peanut butter packed in.

  • Ohhhh shite! i neeever noticed the end of this video!!! Wow!!! That's some bs yo

  • I love me some monifah she is bi-sexually when this video was made i was like wow she really took it there and yes some woman are dealing with DL dudes and don't even know it.

  • WHOO CHILD U MAKIN ME SWEAT..LOVIN THIS..

    MONIFAH AHHH GURL!!!!! I LUV U HOMEGURLLL!!!!!!!

    Yall need to check out my VIDEO called MONIFAH PHONECALL! I secretly recorded my former friend Lakeisha,

    and Yall are not gonna beleve the prejudiceness in this heffers mouth. Yall get yo booties over here and listen to this shid. Peace-Out, LilMiss

  • Hate men like thats UGH!!!!!!!!!

  • Wow, this video is CRAZY! Her man was most definitely on the Down Low. *SMDH*

  • luved it

  • what in the fuck... i swear i was being slow tell the end on this video,... made me spit out my soda... WOW

  • lmfao! me too!

  • @krissy192008 same here

  • Aside from the shocker ending, I love how the production of the video. Its done very classy and tastefully.

  • Bombocloth batty boy

  • i watched this video like a 100 times and until someone else mentioned her man was gay. shows you how much ii pay attention lol

  • @bthomas985 whoa, ok ive seen this vidoe a billion times too since the 90s and i really never noticed... geez i was really slow or either i was just too into the song...

  • o never mind i just never watched the whole video!

  • why are you guys saying that this is bout her man on the dl? im confused.

  • lmao.....wow dude was a homo, I saw this as a kid too...didn't understand it

  • Damn

  • i think she looks like Pam from the martin lawrence show

  • i agree especially if you watch her video for you don't have to love me lol for real though

  • I miss her short self!! this was my joint!

  • Why isn't the remix on youtube at all?

  • this was me and my bff jam. we use to sing this to our boyfriends.

  • @LShoniXXX it is still in my CD Player to. In fact I was listening to that CD in the car and it feel like just 2 years ago it came out. I miss Monifah I wish she would make a comeback.

  • This song is really dope, but she was the first chic I really remember seeing rock that piercing. Now everybody and they mama has one right there.

  • yeah and what's messed up, is men be acting like YOU the one trippin, when you can see RIGHT thru their actions and they know it. A woman just KNOWS.

  • Monifah- Moods Moments is still in my cd rotation!

  • she got thick

  • this song is not about anyone on the DL.  He is trying to use her like he did the last woman.

  • @reygirl1 no idiot... watch till the end

  • Ironically she is a lesbian now. lol

  • This was her hint to the world, lol

  • Lmao

  • @HUMINATURE ,

    The lyrics are blatantly obvious! Dayum! And T.R. co-wrote and produce this shit! Damn yo!

  • @HUMINATURE maybe cuz she could reallt tell that half these n****z aint sh*it

  • no actualy Monifah is bi-sexual it is on her FaceBook page I don't know why though

  • @MiamiChicky right lol and the song isnt about it @HUMINATURE but the video sholl was i was like WTF

  • @MiamiChicky

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! SAY IT AINT SO... LOL...

  • @MiamiChicky ARE U SERIOUS?! I'M JUST REALLY PAYIN ATTENTION TO THIS VIDEO WHOAAA!!!

  • @MiamiChicky CORRECTION: A lesbian is always a lesbian.Being gay is not an overnight experience, it's a part of a child's development.

  • @MiamiChicky so was she really talking about down low brothers at all?

  • @Drpluv187 In the video? Yes. But if you listen to song without looking at the video you would think she is just talking about a cheating and man and his trifilin ways. lol

  • @MiamiChicky she's lesbo?

  • @ilovemusicalot07 She's actually bisexual but more on the lady side lol. She use to date Queen Latifah and now a another girl but all that stuff doesn't really matter to me I still think she's talented but when I found out I just thought it was funny that she had this concept for video.

  • @MiamiChicky

    So Queen Latifah is lesbian!?

    I don't believe no!Not my girl!

  • @ilovemusicalot07 The saying is "Unless it comes out someone's own mouth then we don't know if it's true or not" but come on let's get real here Queen along with a lot of other celebrities have been gay all their lives but won't come out because it might hurt their image or hurt them financially. But Latifah has been married to her personal trainer, a woman, for a while now.

  • @gragidram YES THAT'S' WHAT THE SONG IS ABOUT YOU DUMB FUCK! BUT I WAS REFERRING TO VIDEO YOU STUPID BITCH!!! IN CASE YOU MISSED IT THERE WAS ANOTHER MAN IN HER MAN'S BED AT THE END! DON'T REPLY TO MY COMMENT AFTER A YEAR AND SAY SOME STUPID ASS SHIT YOU HOE ASS BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I agree with you. but calm down they don't know better. u know how us in the 305 get down ,we set shit on fire!

  • wow some of you people need to pay attention to the video, its' obviuosly aobut her man being on the DL but the lyrics can pointed what knid of man is he, but in this specific video it's about him being on the DL

  • exactly... people can be so stupid

  • monifah =hotness!!

  • this is my joint i miss her she need to come back and she hit it right on the money with this song!!!!!

  • where can i download this at ??

  • dis my bump right i wonder wat happened to her

  • So can I

  • this video is similar to dru hill 'in my bed' with the shocker at the end. but the lyrics can be for any type of relationship.

  • peaches and creme was hot too but got no air play

  • she sounds like a stalker lolz

    but tha song sounds koo!

  • no auto tune crap...ladies and gentlemen...just real talent

  • Is that what the song was about?! lol. Don't laugh I was only a kid when this came out. lol

  • hahaha me too i was like 8 but it was just so smooth

  • Keep it real! A lot of women want to blind themselves to the truth! you know if a dude is funny! Example: Ole girl that wrote "How Stella got her groove back"! Look at her ex that she based the book off of! He fruity and you can automatically see that!!!

  • lil wayne copyed her piercing lol

  • lmao

  • Her man is fugly

  • MOnifah.....i can tell it but what happend to you girl...?xxx

  • whoa! she like the first woman from back in the day with a off center labret, go girl!! gonna get mine done

  • wow i always thought this song was about her being able to tell if a man was a dog or not,

  • Love this song so much

  • this my song

  • i love this song

  • Check out my page, I have monifah singing this song live!

  • I have her singing this live, check out my page

  • WHAT HAPPENED TO HER ??