Online Dating Shocker - Are All the Men Really Fat and Ugly?

[Edbrad]

i bet this women is ugly. Also she says that if men are attractive they wouldnt be on the dating site, wtf does that say about women?

[georgelopezblows]

Wait a minute, I was told by women that it was only men who were concerned with looks.

In all honesty, women care about looks just as much as men. They may tell you otherwise, but they are lying.

[mba2ceo]

She is delusional ... Handsome or RICH MEN do NOT need online dating.

[cyberdating]

The best advice is to just keep looking and be open minded - online or offline - practice makes perfect :)

[deusexde]

He's BETA

[kevinc1001]

I'm living proof. I'm considered fat and ugly, So this must be true.

[RLove99]

This bitch sounds like a typical feminazi - "I'm entitled to get as fat and lazy as I want, but any guy who wants to be with me still has to look like Brad Pitt...or have a net worth of at least $100 million."

[4711Heart]

It is actually possible to change what you find attractive physically and or mentally about, but up to a point. So she needs to stop complaining. And that previous statement is a proven fact not speculation. There are millions of people living in this country. 90 photos aren't enough. Our population world-wide is projected to be past 7billion by 2012. That is a "lot of fish" out there .

[HerrSpieldose]

no sometimes they are assholes...

[graverobber35]

here's a tip to the woman writing the letter:

NOTHIng is more ugly than a bitchy, shallow woman. (no wonder she is alone)

[rikusda]

Ask Dan and Jennifer? do you think all fat and ugly people should commit suicide? Let's face it there ugly and they will not find love so they will go to hell.

[broadcastmyass4u]

@rikusda survival of the fittiest.

[rikusda]

@broadcastmyass4u i think im ugly im 16 and im still looking for a girlfriend i know this one girl that i knew since elementry school she is the most beautiful girl ive seen in my life

[broadcastmyass4u]

@rikusda but you'll never get her huh? I'm 22 and i don't have a girlfriend, but i'm just charishing that fact right now, you should too at 16.

[rikusda]

@broadcastmyass4u why should i? i dont want to live my life alone and die early

[broadcastmyass4u]

@rikusda shit, i'm stompt

[rikusda]

@broadcastmyass4u its not funny im serious

[broadcastmyass4u]

@rikusda idk man what do you want me to say? I guess just eat healthy, exercise, and respect yourself and others and you'll eventually find what you want. Good luck bro

[rikusda]

@broadcastmyass4u listen i just had a horrible break up with my x gf one of the things that she said was im the most ugliest guy she had ever met in her life and im ugly as the devil in hell so ever since that happen im convince no one wants a ugly guy like me people say i look hot but i think its all lies and there just trying to make me feel good she said LOTS more things then that 5 months ago this happen im still in server depression

[broadcastmyass4u]

@rikusda thats one of the main reasons people get depressed, is being dependent on other people. You sound like me a few years back. You let what people really think of you get to you and you should just not give a fuck what they really think and be glad you are the way you are. Give yourself more credit! if you are able to at least have a computer then that goes to show that life can't be that bad lol. You have to be able find happiness from within, also from othr things, what are your hobbies?

[rikusda]

@broadcastmyass4u i tried everything nothing work

[marleonetti5]

People that say the bar scene sucks , are usually people who are not attractive enough to do well , so what makes them think online will be different , it will be worse. Best way to meet someone is niether a bar or online.

[ExtraEZ]

Ask Dan and Jennifer? I have yet to hear what their credentials are that makes them experts in these areas. Do they have marriage counceling experience, psychological expertise, performed studies on people and relationships?

[blueiris23]

@ExtraEZ On their profile they're fairly explicit that their advice has no professional credentials attached, it's all just their personal opinion on the matter. 

[ryank1esko]

@ExtraEZ No Shit!!! That's what I was thinking, they look like my neighbors sitting in their backyard on a saturday afternoon killing time

[nzmetalman]

alls women want on online websites is there looking for MR hollywood lots of money, and looks like a million dollars. go to hollywood lisa and live alone you sure will be.

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[VASINGER]

Question: Why do people put "fat n' ugly" together as synonomous. Is there no such thing as skinny and ugly? Because I would rather date a hefty woman with a pretty face, than a thin woman who did not have a pretty face. Sorry to sound shallow, but no more than the title of this video. Really.

[sleazypig]

That is a load of shit. I am 34 I work out and I am online. I can tell you most of the women there are overweight pigs.

[StinkyCheese9999]

The funny thing is most women on dating 'sites who think they are attractive, or especially a proper weight and fitness level, look hideous even wearing an otherwise sexy outfit and hidden behind makeup. They think that by being online they can pick higher up on the foodchain than they are and that includes intelligence as well. They'll list some intellectual book that someone else wrote - any idiot with 6th grade reading skills can read a book but reading it does not make them the author!

[kambridge967]

I doubt that women are picky and shallow as hell.

[guyd37]

The the shallow bitch will remain alone and on dating sites for 10 years. WTF does she think? It's NOT Hollywood.

[jakixs]

Its like this all the good looking women either have kids or are fake, trying to get you to sign up to some site. The rest are "bbws" aka fat and ugly. Best to do it the old fashion way. Looks AND personality matter. No one should have to sacrifice one for the other. Except ugly and Fat people, IMO the should stick to their own ugly kind.

[TrillCoop]

SMH so asinine.

[78th78th]

No Good Looking Man needs to date online, Period!

[DredZach]

I'm a good looking guy and I prefer online because the bar/club scene sucks and I can see what kind of person she is before I bother with her.

[TheRealCritique]

Sounds like a really, really bitter woman. Men may expect all women to be playboy models, but women in the USA are out of their minds with what they expect. Beyond looks, they expect men to be hott and yet act like doormats. No wonder men go overseas for women. American women are 100% out of their minds, except mine, who is 5'9", perfect bod, great personality and NOT a golddigger. Rare as hell. I bet this woman is revolting looking.

[MattLongTube]

I got rejected by the girl I liked!!!! I made a video about it hahaha check it out ...

[DjKDM7000]

As far as that girl who wrote in saying she's having a hard time finding an ATTRACTIVE guy online, I believe it, because most guys do not know the laws of attraction and how men & women were designed to think, operate, and mate. However, I find where she believes if certain guys were attractive, then they wouldn't be online. That is just dumb. Your level of attractiveness is irrelevant to the decision between whether or not a person desires to utilize modern technology.

[DjKDM7000]

I find it amazing how people IN 2010 can STILL think people online are any different than people in real life! People (including yourselves) and all the computers that exist in this world ARE existing in real life! I don't get people who assume that if you're online, then you must be ugly, when not only do we know that these are the same people that we meet in everyday life, see on tv...etc, but they themselves are also online. Technology is the future. GET WITH THE TIMES PEOPLE.

[TheVidzor]

wtf? if she is so pretty, why does she use online dating? i am sure she is ugly too

[Madman17745]

i have no look standers i am all about personailty

[WOHLF1]

UGLY!

[IIovefootball1982]

Online dating shocker: Are all the WOmen really fat, ugly, single mums for 4 kids from different unknown fathers?

[malscyllis]

ugly ppl disgust me, sorry.

[KurtMyers1978]

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[jody4403363881]

"shocker" - lol

[Whussy]

I met my husband online and he's beyond hot and has an amazing body.

[kingkarlyo]

check out "my online dating shop" it,s new and has great potential plus 90 days free

[jeffw1267]

What BS. I'm a single guy and I look great after eighteen years of cardio and weightlifting. But then I'm not into online dating. Regardless, you've got to learn to focus more on a guy or girl's personality, because that's what will carry you through in the end. If you get married and both live to be ninety, do you think that either of you will still be "hot"? And will it even matter? Of course not.

It is true though, that most men do neglect themselves. Same for women.

[hisham175]

Very true sir i agree with you man!!!

[shred3303]

Some ladies push far beyond the boundries of superficiality. Insanely picky , unreasonably picky.

[mockingbirdforever]

Dating sites are just pick up places anyhow not for the real relationship

[LukeTheFlook]

thats bullshit, its whatever you want it to be.

[mockingbirdforever]

No. It isn't the men are just on there for hard core sex. Half of them are just out to score. They don't want to go out to eat or for a coffee. THey just want a lot of Butt shots of you or ask you nasty questions all mostly pertaining to sex. Now, a few are ok, but most have alterior or nasty motives. They don't want a girlfriend or wife just a good time and you know it.

[LukeTheFlook]

well speaking from personal experience, i went on plentyoffish just looking to see who would be interested in a guy like me and i found my girlfirend who i am now madly in love with. though you are right, i have got plenty of messages from sluts who just want more pics of my abs or some shit. the good thing is though you can just ignore them.

[mockingbirdforever]

Well Luke, I guess love can be found, but for the most part, it is just sex. With men trying to find something quick and easy like fast food. They rarely want a full course meal if you understand my meaning. I am happy for you and your lady. Maybe I will find a real man not a pimp trying to play me.

[636lover]

Hey Ive been checking that site out. I like it, they seem to ask all the important questions! Hopefully you and your gf are still happily together but how long did you two wait to meet in person?

[LukeTheFlook]

we waited like 3 weeks maybe before we met. it was awkward at first but were sooooo happy together, i feel like ive known her all my life.

[menareangrynow]

Women are much more vain than men are, so it's not surprising why she would call that "neglecting themselves". I, personally, don't care about how people look~~

[motorola99]

Girls you are not going to find Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise online. Look for someone real hard and then settle for someone that you feel is right. If you keep your hopes up too high you will probably get divorced or cheat on your husband.

There is no price charming out there. And that goes for men too.

[lukumi007]

Your comment is exactly on point. I loved it.

[missaquaboogie]

Most women have TOO TOO high standards...I date online (cause I can). I find it the best way for relationships...It is like shopping for a guy...u pick WHAT u want out of a man.

[gegallo]

Online dating is inherently flawed. The objectification viewpoint.. of looking for only 'good looking' people - is the first flaw. You can't 'sense' an attraction without the person in front for you. Body language, mannerisms, sound,.. speak to our best innate ability to process who is 'attractive' - NONE of that information is available in anyone's profile. Further, the all-about-hookups mentality on online dating prohibits what dating should be, to discover the person. Online dating=FARCE.

[missaquaboogie]

em but ur supposed to MEET the people tho lol I mean if ur gonna be with them IT IS INEVITABLE your GONNA meet em.

[ncfwhitetigress]

I think this woman is too much into romance novels. Who wants a real person with all their flaws when you have your perfect fantasies?

[ZombieCaper]

lol i bet she isn't a prize winner herself, the problem with people is that they watch to much god damn television where everybody is beautiful but in the real world everybody isn't and that just seems to really mind fuck alot of people

[joey218cc]

they say looks are not everhting but n my opinion why date an ugly girl lol no offenceee im just saying

[aNaturalist]

It has been my experience that most of the women on dating sites are overweight or unattractive, unless they are bisexual and seeking a secondary lover. The bi chicks are usually attractive, cool, and very open-minded. I have a couple of personal ads, and I have received only a handfull of responses.  I'm not fat and not ugly, but I'm slightly shorter than average.

[yunikage]

All the women on online dating sites are not only fat and ugly, they have kids.

And when I say all, I mean ALL. Attractive women don't need to go online to meet guys. Even if they're incredibly shy, all they have to do is go out, and somebody will approach them.

Whereas shy guys, even if they're hot, even if they're successful, frequently have trouble meeting women.

[neverwasapunk16]

LoL people online have NO GAME

[bengalbengalbengal]

what a fucking bitch

[yourIQis0]

I collected pics from pogo members for 3yrs now and I'v got over 200 photos of men. Not one single one is even remotely good looking to me. The majority of them have big guts too. So much for online dating. LOL!!

I think I'll stick to what I can see in the grocery aisles. hahaha!!

[calladuz]

you collect pics of random men?  That's pretty creepy IMO

[RodrigoMorenoTV]

I agree with the lady who sent in the question. It's hard to find attractive people on dating websites. It's usually the outcasts that join those types of websites. I guess I'm an outcast :)

[mojododos]

yes but think if she had the personality and the good looks why would she be using the website. I mean i bet there are also fat and ugly ladies

[yourIQis0]

mojo, that's true too about ladies, but I think the percentage of ugly men is waaaaay higher online because they're more desperate to meet someone.

[mojododos]

i agree i was just saying

[Masonictoaster9]

A lot of phony profiles in online dating - fake attractive photos of men and women are put up or after a person cancels is left up for a looong time. I've been doing some research on it - better off finding someone local. Those people are real.

[strappinggermanlad]

lolol women are just as shallow as men... Once they can admit that men will start looking good since they are no longer illusioned into thinking personality is all/most of what it takes.

[SmexySadie]

it is kinda true most guys I know don't really seem like they even try, unless their gay, to look even decent. And shes not shallow, not that much I mean if she called a specific person fat or ugly that would be mean but she is just explain she can't find what she is looking for. Besides thinking the other partner is attractive is pretty important in a relationship. Nobody really wants to spend the rest of their life with someone they think is butt ugly.

[Monton89]

Wow? This bitch is shallow, all the guys are ugly? Bitch, get the fuck off the website; piece of shit.

[yuri60014]

@Monton89

so, you would date an ugly bitch? i sure as hell don't want to, so why should there be a double standard for women, but men can reject ugly women?

[lolellison]

It works both ways lol... this girl is asking if the men are only on there cos they dint have the looks and personality to meet someone in real life... well.. it works both ways.. if thats how she sees it then whats it say about her? bit dim maybe??

[morlenheim]

Again, amateur advice.

The woman is obviously shallow and is seeking the Golden Chalice of Eternal Life.

This "Lisa" bitch did a nice service though, she saved 90 men the misery of living with a selfish female who could never be satisfied and would end up just being a stinking cheat anyway.

ROFLMAO> knowing she will have a string of broken relationships rest of her life.

The Professor.

[Sin355]

I dissagree, people have standards and they also have the right to them. Alot of men refuse to date overweight women or women with acne or some obvious fault, if you ment her being unable to compromise and see what kind of people they are before looks, then I agree. but personally I could never date someone 300 pounds heavy and with bad higiene. You can't fall in love with someone you find extremely unattractive. Even in the animal kingdom, it's about colors or mating songs...etc.

[morlenheim]

Ok, so lets just let all ugly people die, like a weak animal.

That way there won't be anyone like that left to fuck up our precious species.

The Professor.

[mordor6666]

@morlenheim Amen!

[Justinfh21]

That bitch who wrote that letter is full of shit. I do whatever it takes to take care of myself. Men and women are just naturally ugly.

[shecries8989]

he dose it b-c he has a job and dosn't have time to go out

[RideTheLightning1989]

maybe she should stop being so damn shallow

[landedmagrunt]

i totally agree with you.

[mightycowhero]

fat guys have found a loophole though...

[chrumrgw]

i want some sexy subscribers!

[abortbort]

Men probably get fat cuz woman's virgin hang low like sleeve of wizard.

[tigerman86au]

LOL! nice call

[DiscoStu20886]

its NOT a clown car!!!!!

[EREWHON3]

Yes and my apples weren't even there! In three times you sloped meekly.

[juneride]

This is ridiculous! Ther are trying to convince women that they can meet exactly the guy they they want! As a result ther go after playboys who use them for sex. Meeting a guy is always a compromise!

[soccom8341576]

well, you just have to dig deeper. I think some women are very shallow in criteria.

Chemistry doesn't last. The way people think is universal. Love them for that. If they think the same way, even if they have different beliefs, they will go together.

[jaymax9560]

hmm... so you stoped doing that??? lesbian??? nah... its like if a guy is ultra attractive he doesnt put in any wor its done for them... everyone wants and attractive other but compromise is necessary both ways...

[eleanorroosevelt1]

"It's so disheartening that all men are ugly." Hahaha I can't stop laughing!!!!!!!

[ferritay]

The only other reason I can see for dating online is if you're really really really really really really really shy.

[merco80]

The rep at e-harmony has more sense than the 3 of them combined

[monnie110]

I agree. These people are supposed to be giving advice. The girl wrote in saying she looked thru over 90 pictures and not one guy is handsome?? Plus her writing sounded superfitial and shallow.

This is some bad avice DanandJen. She is obviously hung up on looks just imagine this. She thinks almost all guys are ugly and she hasn't even checked on their personalities. Chances of her finding anyone at all is slim to none. Some model muscular roid-head who will treat her like crap is likely.

[merco80]

Hate to say it but this ain't to far from the truth. Non western women ain't perfect either a lot of them want an American or western man with money but the others, they value character the most, not looks.

[crypter27]

It just goes to show you how superficial our society is,guys take your profiles down & stop supporting. These sites & they will wither & die,their just playing you for a fool,now you know the truth,take action.

[Kmarxist]

I agree man, they USE men for money, the women don't even have to pay so it's all a big GAME to them. They are not there to meet men, the ones that ARE there to meet someone are usually looking for other WOMEN to have a homosexual relationship with. This is where we stand as men today, thank the Women's liberation movement for it all. They have done SOME great things for WOMEN, but they have ALSO begun to KILL what we all know as a healthy, STABLE, relationship/interaction between the sexes.

[crypter27]

So true

[FizzyCO2]

I don't think it's right to just judge on looks. Really.

[satyr72]

Ya know they dont stay handsome forever, ya dope!

[DanAndJenn]

Looks are only one part in what make one person attractive to another.

By the time we are older, we learn to see the other qualities in a person that make them attractive like body chemistry, smell, attitude, integrity, sense of adventure.

If anyone dates another person, solely for their looks, they will be disappointed in the end because the other person should compliment us in body, mind, and spirit.

[monnie110]

You guys gave some bad advice. You had a chance to tell people to open up and not be so shallow but instead you told her it's ok to be so picky!

How the hell can she look at over 90 pictures and not find one even remotely handsome guy to click on and possibly pursue??? That's a bunch of bull.

[hogsonquads]

They need to make a website that combines all the love sites into one for an extra charge or what ever!

[jeffw1267]

I'm a man, I'm 40, and in great shape (I've exercised daily for 20 years). But I understand the point here. I see plenty of out-of-shape men every day, and that's the 20-year-olds. And the 40-year-old men? God help them. But just be aware that there ARE a few single men out there, like me, who take good care of themselves.

[crypter27]

Like you.I stay in good shape & I'm in my 20s,I have looks & women notice me,but I don't want any body to be scammed. Men,take your profiles down & remember god always loves you,don't degrade your self for no body.

[vegunited06]

in recent times, i just want to sing this, (in the tune of video killed the radio star) vanity killed loveable-heart, vanity killed loveable-heart. It's a shame everything is about looks these days and woman are so picky. and no, I'm not fat.

[bigblackwilly99]

I have a small penis

[hogsonquads]

Women put there standerds at hollywood! there brain washed by what they watch! brittney queers dresses with fat dumbo glasses so does every one else!

[DesiArnazJr]

I bet you that girl in the first question isn't even that great looking herself. I love how men have to be perfect but the woman can bring absolutely nothing to the table and yet she has such high standards. Women don't deserve a man's respect!

[satyr72]

Amen Bro!

[LukeTheFlook]

yeah they think oh well i got a pussy and thats all the power i need bwahahahaah!

[gonewiththewhiskey]

Most of the women Ive seen have a fucking Witch face or Pig Face.

[swINGpIn001]

haha woman looking for love online is looking for looks? must be a fucking cow herself, what a fucking tool

[TheSaffronBlonde9]

Going to a bar to look for a date is not a good idea unless your interested in spending every Wednesday of your life dropping them off at AA.

[bill122460]

BS!!!! that is complete BS!!!! it's about looks.

PHYSICAL ATTRACTION is defined as....

"a desire for sexual intimacy"

so you would have to LOOKS at the person in order to conversate and get to know that person from a stereotyping piece of trash. if you are going by LOOKS of a person before you get to know that person. that person is a low life piece of trash and not human. NOBODY is going to keep their looks..NOBODY. everyone gets old and looses their looks. all double-speak in this vid

[merco80]

THIS is the unassailabe TRUTH. You have just summed up/described the majority of women in the US for this is exactly what they do when they call themselves dating.

[machintruc313]

Now "Lisa" is complaining that she can't find a man online whom she finds attractive. Now I'd like to see Lisa's face. I bet you she's an overweight, nagging, superficial, gold digging, typical American woman. Get a dog Lisa, it's your best bet... Oh! and make sure it gets "de-clawed" wink! wink! :)

[DoranP900]

lol i know right. She wants the guy to be good looking but what bout her?

[Bobzeaux]

Are all the men really fat and ugly?

Of course not. Not like it matters. You wouldn't pay attention to the svelt, attractive ones anyway. All YOU want are the mindless douches who have nothing to offer you but sunglasses and a set of abs. Have fun getting used and abused.

[bill122460]

your a low life piece of trash...

[DoranP900]

yeah excatly. Maybe the woman is ugly ? probably a fattie

[karry299]

I think what you WANTED to say, was : "Most women want you to spend amazing amount of cash, time, and care on them, but are not ready to give anything in return."

[vutEwa]

"It's like if they already had a relatioships with you or some thing!"

VERY WELL PUT! It IS like they did. Your types are so easy to spot. Like from a few thousand miles away even... Admit it.. you want a big fat blood diamond on your ring before you'll consider the man's feelings. That is what really GRABS your attention away from doing your nails or chit chatting with your fellow chicks on your cell phone while driving down the freeway ignoring other people the whole way.......

[mockingbirdforever]

So true