After You've Been Dumped

[AbodeProductions]

What happens if you don't want to let that person go?

[bryanfuel]

my gf dumped me cause she was worried about our friendship

and now we barely talk

i honestly think neither of us did anything wrong...

wtf do i do

[Blankname101]

Things happen.Learn from your mistakes and move on.Peace!!!

[TheNewRiflemanBob]

We were both just not compatible with each other. I have a great future ahead of me. She does not attend college and never even took the SAT's. We were two very opposite people. There were only small things which we had in common. But in the long run we were not meant for each other.

[robicarm]

sometimes it has nothing to do with you, it was just bad from the begining to the end. Somepeople are to messed up to have a decent relationship.

[5959512]

all girls want the same thing 1.confident 2.funny 3ambitious and you can get any girl. Going to the gym increases testosterone/makes you feel more masculine and confident. Go to college bust your ass and make something of yourself .For humor,I watch youtube comics/standup comics(laughfactory)they have jokes that nobody has heard before, most of the jokes are about reall life situations soo it seems natural when you tell them.most guys look at a 10 an think im not good enoughbecome good enuf!

[therealsoulproduct]

But check it, what if the person who was dumped wasn't given a direct reason as to why they were dumped? What if the other person just decided to end it straight out of the blue? I know that's happened to me before and that's just happened to my boy recently. She didn't even give him a specific answer as to why he was dumped. It was just like, all of a sudden he's deleted from her social networking profiles and shit. Some girls are real funny like that. Best thing is to just move on.

[MissMalibali]

you are speaking my actions! thats kinda creepy :)

You are amazing man.

:D

what do you do if your whole surrounding, everyone around you, are reminding you of your x?

Should u get rid of all your pictures and all your memories? even the good ones?

[helleigna]

i think u said it all in the beginning. :(

[JesusManson323]

If you got dumped: Go ahead and cry in private.

BUT IN PUBLIC: treat yourself like a fucking king, fuck as many girls as you can handle, clean your car up, wear great clothes. Sparkle and have fun. Live the life of a Man. Men go through shit, and Men emerge out of the flames.

[CityofgunzNrosez]

@JesusManson323 Amen! That's the blue print every young man should follow lol

[Blankname101]

@JesusManson323 Great advice man.

[alangentrinapestegui]

best thing to do in my opinion is move on. it's not worth it especially if you gave your everything.

[imelt1]

I agree thanks for the advice.

[tdp1909]

I wish I could have the following indelibly printed on my brain:

"Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow."

So true & yet so easily forgotten...

[ToyPineapple]

Everything you have said is exactly what is happening in my relationship right now. =(. Hard to fix it while in a relationship got any advice of how I could pull myself out of this mess?

[Tytanium]

The mistake was even dating her in the first place. lol

[TeresaPiers]

Agreed. Not a good idea to get back together.

[ammodomini]

perhaps you did the opposite. you where too lenient.some chickas like resistance to a certain degree.

[Petezzaboy1]

Arkady your smart. Good vedios! I love you man!

[cockyandfunny]

excelent, excelent video my friend... so insightful and precise for my currect situation. I've just seen it and made me think of my mistakes in a specific relationship I had and the way i was dumped. I gotta learn from my mistakes and grow for my next successful relationships. Thanks again

[everydayidiealilmore]

what if the girl was a ho and every friend she had of the opposite sex she either had sex or wanted to have sex with em... i dont trust girls with friendships with dudes cause theres attraction there and its weird being around that. feels like a 3 some fuckn sick

[ToyPineapple]

@everydayidiealilmore I agree I don't like girls having guy friends. We all know how we are, we like women and how is some guy friends with your GF and not have had the thought of being with them or less banging them behind ur back and keeping secret..

[mrgujjar420]

he is a smart guy...he knows what he is sayin man.

[shoorad]

You assume it's the guy who's made the mistake. This vid might just really demotivate someone.. especially if it wasn't their fault. But I guess It's always good to try and improve yourself so u could look at it that way...

[Sekreto619]

I think you should make videos on your approaches...

I think it would help us alot more

[swimmerinstinct]

ah you again, the 15 yr old, well let me give you a simple idea of what it is: its guys who are reluctant to put their foot down first (i.e. claim their own). Simple example, the guy always does things the way the girl wants, even if he might be against something. It don't mean that it takes rude guys to get girls, no way, rudeness is a total turn off. Yet guys who can't claim their own ground haven't exactly become man enough, especially not to take care of a woman.

[7blOOds7]

dude :|...bein' 15 yrs old doesn't mean u can't be mature...or u can't have a nice relationship :)...trust me xD :)

[swimmerinstinct]

who ever said anything about that? I never said anything like that.

[Daviniel]

True, It is possible and this is coming from someone whos 20.

[danlfc1983]

Best thing to do is move on, plenty more fish in the sea.

[nothingspecialatall]

Depends on the location pal. There are places that almost have no freaking fish.

[rclawitw]

You said it girl, many guys here will totally say that doing that is what got them in trouble or in the friend zone. You end trying to not doing it again.

[rclawitw]

Hi,

As said I might be wrong.

Very interesting, could you define a "Nice Guy"?

We men Believe that "Eagerly Too Nice" = Wussie. Women do not like wussies.

Looking foward to your post.

[rclawitw]

Hi,

There's nothing bad on being nice, just being eagerly too nice. That sends you directly to the "Friend Zone". Well women can't be switch to feel attraction. And attraction is everything to females. I might be wrong.

[3ch056]

Hey Arkady, have you read The Game by Neil Strauss? :D

[jones618]

whats weird is when a girl likes me, but i dont like them. I act like i dont care, dont text back much, real short in texting. But they love me lol but when i meeet someone that I like...i ruin it somehow. but im afraid to act like i dont care LOL

[xbox360zocker]

women like almost everything that they can not have. i had the same problem =)

just ugly, young or taken women liked me now everygirl likes me. try to find everything about pick up/ seducing women (it is the same) and with motivation you will get any girl you want

[senhordasempadas]

Try reading/checking out Mystery Method, it'll change your life - changed mine a lot

[rclawitw]

Maybe she dumped you beacuse you were too nice.

[venomchris]

Ya so true man, if you're too nice they get sick of that shit.

[hassibk]

i hate that stupid cunt!!!!!!!!!!

[scancool]

no, if you got dumped, get a sport car, work out get big, and fukc a lot of girls.

[detriplea]

And you should see me fuck. I'm the best piece of cock in 200 States

[Darkez982]

nice lev tales of mere existance quote... you fag

[SkateboarderXL]

........tales of mere existance rulez :)

what's wrong with quoting something awesome.

[Darkez982]

yes it rulez... but i dont wanna see that on here, i save it for rainy days :D

[SkateboarderXL]

I gotta agree with that dude :)

btw this guy is right a lot but I think this vid was one of his less good ones.

[jair333]

@scancool That sounds like getting over a mid life crisis!!!! hahahahah!! doesnt it?

[Islapahoe1]

@scancool fuck yeah

[pinoytypr]

After 6 months I got dumped by a girl because she was too tired of waiting for me to say the L word. Is that my mistake? I was really into her. =|

[JDzUniverse]

if you felt it, you should have said it. If you didnt feel it dont worry about it, she may have been to eager or maybe you were not that into her

[deepakjindal070]

then she might be still waiting for you. i am sure you say her that you live to L her.. she will be back if you try,, good luck

[Darkez982]

ah that sucks! is that what she actually said?

[the2dipip]

hey, i don´t know if that was you, but i might have anoyed you with a green laserpointer pen...if it was you, sorry! it was not my idea! if it wasn´t...sorry for wasting your time! :P

[bim2x4]

Perhaps you got dumped because every other word that comes out of your mouth is "PERHAPS."

[Bimm3rcc]

yeah, thats mature said

[asomarriba18]

after you have been dumped go party and meet new girls :) and learn from your mistakes

[kotk05]

But don't spend too much time dwelling on what went wrong and lessons learned because months and years will go by.

[XvxBERSERKxvX]

What he said is common sense, but the way he broke it down lets you actally remember it when you need to, letting logic enter while emotions are drowning you.

[uutooyu]

shit happens. no matter how much you tippy toe.

[tijitsu]

How do you not get bored in a relationship?

[yellowhat4]

Response to [tijitsu]: f*ck often

[ibanezsam4]

i dont like drama. or when girls party too hard. thats kinda why the last one ended. not bad reasons i dont think

[ResistTU]

you?

[rclawitw]

Maybe seeing them on a daily basis, simple because you burn your "material" very quickly. And ending too fast with nothing to say or to do.

Travel more, I think this could help.

[kimthun]

@avenger1000 lol only 2 you are lucky i have fail 5-6 times for just that reason.

[fdaslkdf]

So interesting. Thanks for these informative videos.

I can talk to women fine. But when I meet one I REALLY like, sometimes I just have a hard time coming up with stuff to say.

So troublesome...

[TommyBasketball23]

lolz samething happen to me hahaha