Giveaway:What Did I learned in 2011 & Blog Feature (closed)

[MsRosieVelt]

Wow! Great video. I'm so glad you did the video too. I'm just catching up on all that I've missed. I've also learned that if you want to something different to happen then you have to do something different to make it happen.

[CatchingPiecesOfMe]

I ve learned to let go and leave the past in the past..much love 2 ya xx

[daddialthy]

In 2011 Ihave learned that ican only be loved truly if ilove myself. Iwent through ALOT this year to make me come to this conclusion and ithank God for that. Because iknow that people always say this, ithink that because ive been through it, it helps me understand more.

[SJANELJ]

Taking a good hard look at what so many don't have makes U REALLY appreciate what U do have and like U said the fact that U are here, Cause it could so easily be another way! Learning 2 love me and be me and embrace me has made my life SOOO much better, healthier, made my marriage stronger, strengthened my Christian walk, and just made me a better person.

[ebonyrose316266]

I learned that you have to be thankful regardless of the circumstances.

[sofnblk2]

I've learned that it really is true that everything you need to know about living a happy life......you learned it in kindergarten. We should always be courteous to others, we should always share, treat people the way you want to be treated, get proper rest, eat well, and always believe in yourself. Simple principles...and so true....whether you're 5 or 50.

[irene5050]

I learned that no matter how bad things get God can turn everything around in an instant!

[prettyshamarlee]

I realized how to do better to be the person I want to be and how to forgive myself for all the foolishness of my past.

[tendevone]

What I learned n 2011 was how to b more frugal and save money.

[azaad23o]

What I learned in 2011 is that I shouldn't ever settle. That I can have what I want, what I need. All I need to do is simply put God first, and work for it. I also realized that faith without works us dead. And of course, that life is too short to be unhappy. Discover for yourself what brings u joy, and go for it.

[LadyKayHere]

WHAT I LEARNED IN 2011 AND REALIZED THAT NO MATTER WHAT U HAVE...HAPPINESS IS MORE IMPORTANT THEN IT ALL.

[redraf04]

Dang, 2011 was a year of ups and downs for me! Not necessarily a bad year no but a year that I look back on and say, I'm at an age where I hoped to be married with children by now! But I'm not and I wish I were BUT I know that I am so very blessed to have made it this far in life and to be exactly where I am. So I do have a long way to go but I have come a long way :-)

[jwmerine]

Hey Vanie, 2011 was a gradual decline for me in my finances and career goals. However I'm grateful that I had the peace of God & a god-fearing Husband in my life. Without them I would have had a melt down but the devil is liar. I started reading Joel Osteen's book "Everyday is a Friday" & it really revealed to me how blessed I was in spite of the storm. I too have learned to be content with where I am in life, not to take the blessings I have for granted & to use the talents God has given me.

[NaturalhairofSpain]

I've learned that we should always live each day as if it's your last because the world is going thur so many strange changes. We need to live for the moment and love our lives, famlies and of cause ourselves!

[naturallysweetkandi]

Ive to never open doors that God has shut unless I want even more doors opening that I have no control over. Also that if I want to truly be happy and content with my life that the center of my joy must be Jesus. If you compare your life to hollywood or just this world you will never be happy. You will always long for a false reality making you despise the reality of life that you are living. I've learned that having relationship with Christ is more than asking him in my heart. its a lifestyle!

[SweetGaBrownin]

what i learned in 2011, is that you can't put expectations on ppl, you will set yourself up for a mess, most of the time...Iol

[c0c0puffz]

I learned to take risks.

[jamrockpoeticsoul]

I have learned to stop complaining &that everything is in God's timing ,everything has fallen into place for me since I waited on Him and stopped complaining.

[TheNaprika]

valuable lesson

[kylahsmom1]

I never want my children to regret having me as their mom..I see so many of my co workers who have distainn for their paarents and the root of it is a lack of trust, a lack of feeling worthy..my kids love me and they are my number one priority..lead by example..that has been my biggest ahh haa moment..and that includes getting this weight off and living healthy!

[kylahsmom1]

what I have learned that my children are watching..they watch me..they watch what I say, what i do and they learn..far more so than what i tell them..they bring to my remembrance when I start to get annoyed with people.."remember mommie, they cant make you angry ..you can choose to ignore it"..my words to them! they lovingly give it back..no judgement..just love..I have made a conscious choice to parent by example..I am not perfect and they undersatnd that,

[Nessadoo]

I've learned to be thankful,smile,and praise the Lord during the stuff and life changing traumatic situations I had last year.

[kristilyzed]

I've learned to take more risks and stop playing everything so safe.

[louloumatou]

i learned that you cannot control how people interpret the things you do or say, so it's best to remain true to yourself instead of trying to be "careful" all the time!

[msdelle22]

I've learn to stop giving my opinion to ppl who is not going to listen anyway even when they "ask" for ur opinion

[creativer1]

I've learned that life can be better if you make an effort and that there is always hope for the future, god is a big part of my life and i need to show him that i understand his wishes for me.

[graduation25]

I've learned in 2011 to be comfortable in my own skin...it only took me 30 years to get to this point. Flaws and all I am at peace. Despite how others may see me...when I lay my head down at night I am comfortable with how and who I am...and I no longer allow others to define me. Yes I am fat, yes I have dark skin, yes I have a big birth mark on my face to include others scars, and yes I accept all of that as being me.

[maximuslyricus]

I've had so much going on in 2012 that 2011 seems so long ago. Lets see... I learned thru experience what I'd already known in my head - which is that God loves me and provides for me - even when I don't deserve it. Quite a humbling, yet awesome lesson...

[RnMechell]

I learned that I am a strong, intelligent woman. You guys don't understand my entire childhood I was told I was weak( cared to much about my/others feelings) and that I was stupid. I still love and care about others, and that is how God made me and that's great. I'm meek not weak. I'm an adult college student on the honor roll. So snap lol

[pookinapp16]

P.S. Ya hair is lookin fantastic in this vid!

[pookinapp16]

I learned and am still learning firsthand that God is my refuge and strength especially in times of TROUBLE, not likkle fenkeh fenkeh bad days, but true hard times! And how much we should appreciate the love of others he sends to help us through hard times and difficult situations.

[borican880]

I learned that you can't get yourself in a bunch over little stuff. Things tend to handle itself and all you have to do is go with the flow and let God take care of it. In a few years, it is so funny how what you cried over or got mad about, was really nothing.

[aaleeshe]

I have learned to truly embrace my natural hair. I have been natural for 2 and 1/2 years but only in the last year did I stop applying heat. I also learned the banding method thanks to you Vanie :)

[ChanFacets]

I have learned that just because you LOVE someone, it doesnt mean that you are meant to be with them. Alot of people tolerate things from someone else because they feel like since they have been through so much with someone, then they must be soulmates. No its called being comfortable! Learn to move on! Everyone deserves REAL love and a HEALTHY relationship. Dont put someone else before your own happiness

[ObedienceOrSacrifice]

You can only change/ control yourself so instead of always praying for others to change pray that God changes u in order that u r able to deal with other ppl:-)

[Picturesque2u]

Your skin & hair have been looking really pretty lately. You're glowing. Hmm? :) Just kidding. It must be FL.

[Myeka324]

In 2011 I learned sooo much! I was going thru a transition period and was dealing with a decision that need to be made but God was with me thru it all! I learned to have faith not fear, trust in God and developed a true relationship with Him which is growing, and that I am destined for greatness! I learned that I was stronger than I thought I was. I think I might do a vid...

[n2meuc2]

nice video! : ) muah!

[n2meuc2]

@n2meuc2 I actually just checked out the blog... very nice! You go girl! congrats on the feature!

[shazzababe73]

I learned that i have to stay true to who i am regardless of what others may say and think about me.

[carlyg6]

What you said that's what I learned too. Gratitude for the things in my life. Realizing that there are people that are toxic and not to let them steal my joy because they are going to always be that way. I learned that from Joel Olsteen. I am deserving for great things in my life. I'm worthy.

[risa2407]

I have learnt that i dont have to conform to dominant cultures and do things that cause harm to me in order to fit in its the year i decided to go natural,no more cracker cream . I have learnt that i am resourceful, strong and independent and if i set my mind to a task i can achieve it. I have learnt that some people pretend to do good by you but secretly work against you- but as long as my heart is pure and my actions reflect that, they will never triumph over me.

[whitneysolier1]

I've learned that problems don't just go away if you don't address them. You have to address your problems\fears head on to tryly resolve them the way that you would like them to be resovled. Also that , you have to be happy for what you have, not that you don't want more. but always be happy for what you do currently have.

[SumKindaWndrful]

In 2011 learned that having things not go as planned isn't failure, but experience to build off of. Thanks for sharing! I understand the marriage thing too. There was a point when I was ready to run for the hills from my husband but then I realized I too only was focused on the small things. I'd say I got my expectations meet. I have a loving partner, who I get to travel on this journey of life. He's patient and kind and cooks!!! Lol plus he's an awesome father.

[China4sho]

IN 2011 I HAVE LEARNED TO EXCEPT MY HAIR FOR WHAT IS IS AND LOVE IT ! AND THE MOST OF ALL I LEARNED TO DEAL WITH MY 6 YEAR OLD SON AUTISM AND TO NURTURE HIM WITH ALL THE LOVE SO HE CAN GET BETTER ! AND BY THE WAY I'M SOO HAPPY THAT UR SON IS MAKING PROGRESS WITH HIS SPEECH AND NUMBERS ! I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS ! BELIEVE ME !

[knwhitty]

I learned that I might not always have what I want, but I always have what I need. Anything else is just extra.

[shedontdoit69]

i learned people get over stuff on their own time, not mine

[vanie0295]

@shedontdoit69 This is very true! thanks for entering.

[HappyNappyKinks]

I love this video!! I am with you on the happiness and feeling blessed. Vanie, this is a great video. Besides what I said in my video on what I learned in 2011, I've learned not to give my power away when it comes to happiness. Happiness is a choice and I've learned to make that choice more.

[vanie0295]

@HappyNappyKinks Thanks hun! I enjoyed your vid too. Thanks for entering!

[TheSupasweet]

In 2011 I learned that Vanie is da bomb braider (who'd have guessed!) and that it is the small things in life that count (simply spending time together with others, having a kind word or gesture for someone, being grateful for the beauty in the world, things like that).

[sugawallz910]

What did I learn in 2011 is simple,,Let go and Let God! Leting go of everything that was causing negative factors in my life have really opened the door for many blessings in my life. I allowed myself to take off those rose colored glasses and see the world in a different light.

[vanie0295]

@sugawallz910 Yes!!! so true. Thanks for entering!

[tiffany7972]

I have learned that just because you didnt get it right the first time it doesnt determine your destiny to eventually get it right, because GOD is always with you. Sometimes the pit falls that really aren't deep but may seem so are the stepping blocks into creating the right setting for a wonderful blessed life.

[vanie0295]

@tiffany7972 Amen to that! thanks for entering.

[cheryledinbyrd]

In 2011 I learned and accepted that I am exactly where God wants me to be.

[vanie0295]

@cheryledinbyrd True that!!! thanks for entering.

[gigicurlswaves]

i learned to give up baggage. Not giving up on looking for a career, and finding love. for myself I spend most of the year in bed depressed im tired of feeling that way. Just woke up one day said i can do better, let go.

[vanie0295]

@gigicurlswaves So glad you did!!!! Thanks for entering.

[cheeksn1]

Wow 2011 was a interesting year for me!! The greatest thing I learned was to stand strong in God even whn I don't understand or feel I have anymore strength to stand on!! To not give up on the promises God has made to me and to pray, and read the bible more!!

[vanie0295]

@cheeksn1 Ditto. Thanks for entering!

[comeandmingle]

In a nutshell, I've learnt that

1. I will always need God.

2. God really does love me.

In 2011, I learned that I am not in control. Even when I should be able to something on my own, sometimes my own strength is not enough. I've learnt that no matter what my status is with God (or how bad I've been), He is always there for me and will always be my strength no matter what I am going through and what I do.

(Thanks for mentioning the feature!)

[vanie0295]

@comeandmingle Yes!!!! Thanks for entering.

[MessiahChild88]

I have learned that I should stay wise, dont let things stress me out cause it only brings sadness, and to rely totally on God, and to appreciate what I have, and not worried over material things. And also that life is too short, love others and do what God has called me for. I also learned that being comfortable in my shoes, make me feel so good, and I love that I learned so much over years, and it built me up, made me stronger and wiser. Give praise to Jesus

[vanie0295]

@MessiahChild88 Girl you are sooo right!!! thanks for entering.

[Theyknot11]

In 2011, I learned that I needed to change my perception of my circumstances to achieve a better outcome.

[vanie0295]

@Theyknot11 Aww short and sweet!!! thanks for entering.

[jamaicancoco]

I have learned not to worry about things that you dont have control over and being grateful for what I do have because it could be worse.

[vanie0295]

@jamaicancoco So true! Thanks for entering.

[cdrayt0n]

I have learned that happiness can not be dependant on who you have in your life. That a significant person does not make happiness. That it has to come within, or it is truly superficial. I am working on that......building my sould up so i can be happy, so it can shine outward from within me!

[vanie0295]

@cdrayt0n Very true!!! Thanks for entering.

[elegitts]

I have learned that kinky hair in its natural state can be very beautiful. It has been liberating as I have always felt that going natural for me meant having locks. However, I am pursuing a natural hair journey not inclusive of locks where I can learn to appreciate my natural curl pattern in all its glory.

[vanie0295]

@elegitts I know that's right!!!! Thanks for entering.