Tom Leykis: Never compromise 1/3

[dkw12002]

I was once told by a woman she was having second thoughts about dating me. I said, I understood, smiled broadly, turned around walked out and never talked to her again.

[bistnenutte]

i love this guy in the most hetero way i could poss say that.. hes fucking great!

[TempleOfInanna2]

I have a friend who is a talking about marrying a girl after knowing her for all of 3 MONTHS. Seriously. I don't recommend the act in the first place, but after only 3 months you do not truely know someone. I was with an ex-gf for 5 years, and there were things all along the way that we found out about each other which were unknown in the beginning.

[cockshield]

7:24

OUT!

aaaHHHHOUUUUT!

please.

[mikelorenz121]

It's good advice for anyone here. Stand ur ground, if someone doesn't respect u, then don't respect them. There's the door.

[Eabranth]

LA Kings?

Sacramento Kings... LA Kings is NHL?

[bigal21110]

f*** yah! I just came out of a relationship and just learned zero tolerance policy toward women!

[RunfromtheHeathen]

Well i know what im doing the rest of the night 

[mojado1996]

@MadeByEduNotLaziness Sure. Thanks.

[Andybaby]

Wow, I always imagined that if a house was expensive enough, NO woman could complain.

[HoodGeekEnt]

Women love lies its true...

[MishuTaste]

Imagine this, guys: you walk into an independent woman's house and start complaining about it. You tell her you want her to change the appearance of the house to your liking. What the hell do you think her reaction is going to be?!!

[kredit787]

Agreed 100%! If you don't live up to her expectations and never will, leave her or otherwise be miserable and listen to how bad you are non-stop. If she cant appreciate your positives over your negatives( and we all have them) then goodbye! These women want the world to accommodate their needs, instead of accepting reality. Nobody likes to listen to constant badmouthing, bitching, whining, complaining and put downs. If you are one of those guys who put up with that, you are an idiot!

[MishuTaste]

This is how a woman can drive you crazy: you change your life & habits to please her, then she GETS MAD AT YOU because you gave in to her wishes instead of standing your ground. That kind of shit will make you end up in a mental hospital!

[MrBrownstone8881]

there are things that i disagree with from this guy, this topic kinda makes me think hes compensating for something, but man he is funny.

[ejtimm79]

Men are smarter than women,and yes tom is smart.He brings up some vacant points.

At chensenhan Stop be a PHD (playin hatin dickhead)

[MadeByEduNotLaziness]

Marriage is a one way ticket to anger, poverty and giving up the best years of your life. I thank God that he showed me the one woman I nearly married was no different than what Tom describes them. Whorish, money hungry, uneducated in how the real world works, poor and acting on emotion even if it's going to damn them for life.

Guys, marriage isn't worth it. It's a contract that you have to follow and an emotional whim she'll usually choose not to follow when emotionally drawn elsewhere.

[grumpone]

@MadeByEduNotLaziness Great comment. It is sad that people have not rated it up. But that shows the shallowness of the human ape :)

[MadeByEduNotLaziness]

@grumpone Thank you, the reasons my comment hasn't been voted up I believe is because it's only 3 months old compared to 1 year old comments, less people watch this taping over time as it gets older and because I thanked God. Many people don't believe in God on youtube and many people who do believe don't think I should bring up God's name because it may offend others.

One thing I didn't say is that I really would enjoy being married however the law makes it impossible for a smart man.

[mojado1996]

@MadeByEduNotLaziness @MadeByEduNotLaziness Not true. Even though is most probably as described in your case. There might be a woman who might be different. I look at my mom and my dad (married). They have been together since 1995 and are as closes as ever. My dad is a businessman who works in other country. And my mom is a housewife that lives with us. They call each other everyday and talk for hours. I am really thankful i have parents like that.

[MadeByEduNotLaziness]

@mojado1996 I'm happy that you have that situation, I really am. That's what I'm looking for, but remember that's before social networking and text messaging. Those are the two things that kept getting in the way of a woman marrying me. That's why I'm patient, BUT at anytime your mom could say I quit on a short sighted whim and move on with a lot of money to manage. I doubt your mom would, but she's the exception nowdays. Just be careful of the pretty faces when you look. Good luck!

[MishuTaste]

Isn't it funny how women aren't shy about pointing out our shortcomings, but, when us men point out THEIRS, they have a freakin' spaz attack! They can't take the same medicine they dish out.

[grumpone]

@MishuTaste Most people can't, women are just more dramatic about it :)

[grumpone]

@MishuTaste They were spoiled as children, same goes for some guys...

[srzman1]

WOMEN DON'T LIKE WHEN YOU TELL THEM THE TRUTH ABOUT THEMSELVES

[chensenhan]

Woman is smarterer than a man. Don't lissen to Tom because he not smart.

[MrBrownstone8881]

@chensenhan well, im a man, and i can at least spell, smarter, listen, and you missed the word, IS before the word not. try again missy.

[chensenhan]

@MrBrownstone8881 Lol....totally trolling.

[MrBrownstone8881]

@chensenhan im the best at what i do, lol

[bykashka75]

@chensenhan why not you come ower and swallow my load

[janityy]

If ure busy bitching over pussy ull stay out of the one place the govt doesn't want u

The bookstore

Our shadow govt want u in jail

On drugs

In bars

Thinking ur cool

Getting pussy

Everything is geered toward u staying out of Books

[grumpone]

@janityy You have the internet, you can get the most awsome information ever. Some strange info too, but most of it eye opening and life transforming. I suggest the following for changing your financial life for the better:

MJ DeMarco, Marc Faber, Peter Schiff (all on youtube). Full stop.

[janityy]

@LibertyCityMayhem95

Did u know that its actually purposeful propaganda to keep people dumb and stupid looking for something outside themselves when all the answers are inside ure own mind if ud open a god damm book

I dare u to go to bookstore this week and read 3 books by Frederich Nietzsche 1 book by Aleister Crowley and a general philosophy book

Forget it go to the bar and look for pussy and make fun of a persons "form" dumb ass lower level white trash non intellectual sheeple

[SciFiFanatic101]

The biggest mistake that a man can make is seeking happiness and love in a woman.It never works out(with very few exceptions).

[janityy]

Also men ate in cults called Christianity and Islam their in the school lie

Lol do u really want me to go on with how many stupid men there are

Stupidity isn't just one gender its both

Wake the fuck up and go to the bookstore and stop wining about women

Of course the masses are idiots let it go

Damm ure wasting time u could be reading duh

[LibertyCityMayhem95]

@janityy life* you* whining* damn* you're* you* care to read a book yourself there, crumb cruncher?

[janityy]

Nook I mean book. My bad

[janityy]

Their called sheeple cause they belong too cults like Christianity and Islam

They go to sheeple programming centers the big k-12 lie when any heavy nook reader knows every top genius has ripped apart the school "system " as being an indoctrination program for the masses the herd. Read Nietzsche

Forced memorization is path of imbecile

Only sheeple answer to a Bell

Path of genius is homeschool and read 3 to 5 books a week

Homework is against the 13 amendment duh

[janityy]

@ogrish84

Its a relationship its not rocket science

[janityy]

A Sage is anyone who can elevate above lower level animal passions and use reason and logic and become enlightened by reading 3 to 5 books a week and other means

Translation ..if u want pussy u treat the 85% not good and will love it cause sheeple women have no identity and like bad boys

If u want a relationship u date a 5% a woman who reads and uses reason and logic

10% are psycho stalkers avoid them

[DpLogan]

@janityy are u 5% (NGE)

[janityy]

@ogrish84

I'm saying reason and logic must be used with both men and women to reach a compromise a relationship is not a Dictatorship

All seeing eye on pyramid on one dollar bill

85% of people are sheeple. They think its cool to be dumb not read 3 to 5 books a week hang in bars , watch TV and just be a follower idiot

10% of people are abusers

5% of population are sociopaths billionaire geniuses who run states is meaning of all seeing eye also means the Sage

[janityy]

Every guy I've know who will not communicate and talk out problems and issues and just use reason and logic is single , trouble in job market while all his friends are coupled. Its ok to be single but if u want a relationship u have to communicate and come to workable arrangements or ull be alone forever

[ogrish84]

@janityy So you're saying that if a Man wants a relationship, he must throw away reason & logic. Hmmm... That sounds about right with moronic bitches. You can't train a dumb bitch to run on logic & reason. Smart Men don't compromise on reason & logic, not for any retarded woman. A Man should never throw away common sense, just because the crazy bitch in his life tell him to do so.

[ogrish84]

@janityy You talk about how Men have to communicate. You know, I find that comment to be funny. Women lack the capacity to communicate is a reasonable rational fashion inside relationships. You always hear people spreading this lie that females are better than Males at communicating. That's complete utter bullshit. You realize this as you get older & wiser.

You state that Men must come to a "workable arrangements". That's a nice way of stating that Men must compromise for women. FUCK THAT SHIT!

[TheWarbirdPhoenix]

What? You don't like being a part of my sucessful life? OOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUTTTTTTTT!­!!!!!!!

[euphoria30ful]

the only concession i have made in my life, is dating a guy. men , please, u either u are not that special. be happy i dated one of u

[richkid89]

OOOOOOUTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!

[CaptainNemoful]

I agree Tom, I'm the same way, I'm not changing 4 anybody, I'm done with people who dislike me, Or can't Respect Me 4 the way I am.

I'm in the same boat as Tom.

[yumyumluckycharms]

"One chick said she didn't like the energy in the house" XD Oh goodnes Tom you crack me up.

[amazinero]

AAAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOUUUUT!!!!!  Please.

[ThomasJS1]

Damn good advice



[Ironandtheshizzelz]

im 17, and im learning from this man who is 58. always learn from those who have experienced life and women young folks!

[lafucil]

I dated a woman who said horror movies gave her nightmares...we spent the next 2 years watching Lifetime and Hallmark before I got my balls back, I had a "Saw" marathon after that bitch.

[remix91742]

LOL, this reminds me of high school when some girl I was dating began to hint "small" changes she'd like for me, I dumped her ass like a bad habit. Why do women think they are always in a position of power and control, and when you make the slightest remark that they don't approve of themselves, they get all pissy about it and exaggerate it like the second coming of christ. Its as if HYPOCRACY has its own DNA signature in women.

[Aarevalo1974]

have kids but do not compromise with the chick

[tttkil]

Never Never compromise with these WHORES. GET LOST BITCH.

[eidius1989]

i agree with a lot of things he says but compromise is reasonable. not impossible compromises like changing a good house but small things and stuff

[mordanai]

Fuck white American women... exactly.

[Rahhhsajp19]

@mordanai dude it is not only the white ones

[bigal21110]

@mordanai its other nationalities too man trust me!

[ApollosInsight]

Women tend to live in their ideal world where if anything isn't to their liking or understanding, they automatically have conflict w/ it.

Men, we only get one shot at life. We can either live as slaves to these senseless women and be miserable,

Or we can live as free men and think for ourselves and don't give a fuck about what others think about us.

[AnarchistActivist]

@ApollosInsight Im gonna live as a free man whos with me

[yumyumluckycharms]

@ApollosInsight hellz yeah.... i agree with the 2nd part of your comment, and MY own parents have a problem with that!!!!!! Geeeez.

[grumpone]

@ApollosInsight Probably the most insightful comment on here. Serve yourselves men - make your happiness no.1 priority. If someone gives you shit, don't deal with them.

[agentsirus]

@ApollosInsight

I wish some of use got that memo before we decided to get hitched. :(

[beefdog]

@ApollosInsight women never want to compromise it is their fucking way or the highway

[ejtimm79]

@ApollosInsight I'm living with option 2 bro!

[grumpone]

@ApollosInsight "Or we can live as free men and think for ourselves and don't give a fuck about what others think about us." That means men or women, anywhere. It took me 30 years to stop being accommodating and started SELECTING vigorously. You cannot believe how much imbecility you can spot in others by being your own man.

[ApollosInsight]

@grumpone Exactly. You have to isolate yourself from the crowd in order to gain a perspective of the direction of things. I believe that this is the first step of self-realization.

[clay2000]

haha once he said hockey... fuckin rights buddie

[Joshua4599]

LMAOOOOOO mowriter your a fucking retard. I take this position I live on my own and am about to be making over a 6 figure income but go on lie to yourself. I am one of millions of people like this

[KleWdSide]

I laughed at the end. "OUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT!"

[needles1987]

Tom Leykis never compromises. As a result, every marriage of his ends in divorce.

[Rahhhsajp19]

@needles1987 but he keeps his money and bangs random chicks and he is rich lol thats happyness

[mowriter]

Every...single...guy I have known who took this same position has ended up poor, living with their mom, unable to hold down a job, PERIOD.

Tom is a real amazing coincidence...and is VERY fortunate, whether he knows it or not.

[ScentlessApprentice7]

@mowriter

Every single guy you have ever known must have been some gullable moron who had no concrete ambitions or goals for their future careers.

Also like Tom says, women are dream killers. Men who are stupid enough to move in with their girlfriends or get married usually give up their sinking funds for college tuition and instead spend it all on their women and kids.

Then when the relationship goes south, they are left with practically nothing. So bottom line: Hit It and Quit It!

[mowriter]

Scentless: Maybe not gullible, but no plan of action combined with laser beam certainty that no one else would change their mind.

Their flaw was their lack of a plan. Tom had a plan and no compromise. I just think most guys who are a-holes about not compromising usually don't have a real game plan.

[Rahhhsajp19]

@ScentlessApprentice7 never marry never have kids vasectomy happy you know the truth

[heavybruza]

Out OUUUUUUT!!! hahaha so funny!

[AmmoShockTroop]

It's not their's!! That's why!!!