i had one person care for me i have been clean off meth five good years now got my hvac card driving card my kids come here to learn about god and all it took was fifteen years down the tube and one person the first and only person got me up with help from jesus i can pray to god and live again tks
@RB20DEVIL Been there, Black Spidey. Just keep being there for the person, but you know that. Good luck and godspeed to you and your friend. It takes a lot of energy and consistency, bro. And, to put this out there took a ton of courage. Awesome!
Really good vid, man. I hope things get better for your friend. A friend of mine lost his father and the depression spiraled him into heroin usage. He said he can't live without it. He's been using those opiet patches, which I guess is the strongest form.
i'm sorry to here that, man. i almost lost a friend to heroin. we use to just smoke weed all the time then it escalated to doing coke and oxys, and when my friend couldn't afford oxys, he started doing heroin. he was only 18, i was 17. he did hit rock bottom, and that knocked some sense into him, he's been clean for 1 year, 2 monthes now, still smokes a little bit of pot, but not nearly as much as we did back in the day. but, anyway, i hope your friend gets the help they need.
Yeah man but you gotta be there for your homie addictions are the baddest struggles you can imagine, I been smoking weed for 6 years now too late for me to quit man shit. Seen alot of cocaine addicts aswell, ya know.
They wasting they lifes away, so sad to see; but it's cold, hard reality.
Maybe you should show your homie what it does with him, straight up confront him usually that's the only thing that helps, but on the other hand man he may get offended
Do what you can. One can try everything they want to help a friend but the friend has to want the help. My uncle dropped dead in front of my mom as he came out of his house to greet her from drug abuse as she was bringing him a Christmas gift one year. I just found this out a few months back. My addiction was Copenhagen snuff tobacco (over 30 years). Until I REALLY saw it as an addiction I couldnt quit. One day I did, I quit cold turkey, no gum,patch etc and beat it. That was 3 1/2 years ago.
wow! sorry to hear that of your friend, but all that you have said was perfectly said... hopefully she will hear in your voice how much you care and feel completely sincere serious about this issue. and this vid will be her wake up call! on the real... oh my god I need tissue right now! continued blessing to you and your dear friend always!!! can't say I know of anyone that has this problem, but if it ever occurs I will remember your words and this video...
just try to be there for them. Dont give up on them. Meth is a dangerous destructive very psychoaddictive drug. If he or she needs any type of help emotionally or friends to talk to. i would be happy to be there if they ever need someone to talk to. I know how horrible it is. its nasty and it feels like noone cares or understands. I'm glad i met you and thank you for the friends request
Prison in 04, got out in 06 on a technicality. and havent touched it since. I've smoked a little weed. but now I am 8 months clean on it too. I am happy to finally be clean 100 percent. It's harder to get up and arround now. I was used to running 500 miles an hour day in and day out. My body fought dilligently to lower my metabolism that when i did finally quit It continued lowering my metabolism...hopefully soon my metabolic rate will go back to where it needs to be.If your friend needs help
I battled a crystal meth addiction for 13 years. The lifestyle of excuse my wording..a baller. thousands of dollars in my pocket at times. Many people looking up to me. alot of girls coming to my house all hours of the day and night. But the fear of always knowing someone was going to either snuff me or turn me in literally destroyed me as who i am. I remember i was mean as all hell. I had to be mean. I knew that at any moment someone was either going to take me out or turn me in. I went to
There is a CURE for ALL addiction! See the proof for yourself by clicking on my name and watch Powerful stories of Freedom! I personally know friends who have been addicted to all types of hardcore drugs. Now, as unbelievably as it seems, they are completely Freed from it. They have so much Hope in their life, so much Joy now, and so much Peace that they have never experienced. I too was hooked on my addiction for years. Now I am experiencing complete freedom and hope myself.
yo man thanks for the add m8.... i love this video im the same as you iv lost good friends to drugs... i myself do not drink, smoke or do drugs i have in the past when i was younger from 10 - 17.. i allso care 2... some ppl say 2 much sometimes... e-mail me if you want a chat thanks.. hope you sort things out.. maby you might have to let go. or jst be thair when she need you... its upto you :D thanks
There are all kinds of addictions. I have a friend who is a shopaholic and hoarder. That may not sound serious, but she spends two grand a month, on a small income, just to Store the junk she's bought. Now she has to beg friends and family for money to buy and store junk, just like a junkie. Her house is so stuffed with junk, ten feet high, you can't walk through it. There is one tiny path to the kitchen, and you have to walk sideways. You can't sit down Anywhere. Same denial as addicts, too.
lol I hope you didnt add me as a Friend on here cause you think I have a Drug Problem. This is a really good vid man. It's not easy to talk about stuff like that and let the whole world see it. You could see how much it was affecting you just by talking about it. That vid hit me hard man. Wish there was more stuff like this around.
Well spoken. I can't ride someone else's dead horse, but I can point that it is not the way to champion, or sponsor either. Alcoholism was in my family. I can't save the day, but can sing my own song better at certain nexuses. The skill is recognising when.
Stepping away doesn't mean you no longer care...Its just a bit of tough love and is needed to wake someone up to the things/people they can lose if they continue in there downward spiral whether it be drugs, alcohol, etc. Be a Friend not an Enabler.
i hear ya - been there, done that, lost many. Thank God we learned from our mistakes and if we reach out and can help one person then we have suceeded...
my sister is a huge heroin addict and she was in rehab, jail, and counseling etc. but nothing got through her head. she steals our lil brother(9yrold) xbox and ps3 games and his chour money and she uses it for her lousy fix. but fuck her shes a stupid SKANK. haha but i feel for you black spiderman. hope your friend gets better. 10/10 video!
see i dont know why people are righting such incondierate things here ur right ur 100% RIGHT yea iv smoked cigarettes and i smoke weed i do both weeds illegal and so is smoking for my age i smoke underage weeds fucked my up alot made my see things when im not even high this video should be spread around the world like shown on T.V BECAUSE YOUR RIGHT
I hope you found a way to help your friend. Trying to learn about this and ran into your video. Keep loving your friend....and I hope eventually she finds a way out, or has. All the best.
Speaking out like you are doing may be the best that we can do sometimes. Love her but be careful not to be drawn into the cycle of despair yourself my friend. There is help. Sounds like she knows where to get it. As you point out, the choice is hers.
Even if you get through to only one person battling addiction, you've accomplished a lot. Blessed are those who care and who don't turn their backs on those who hurt.
For whatever this is worth I know what it's like to be in that zone. I learned that mind-body system has almost unlimited self repair capabilities but most of people deny themselves access to them. Never accept advice that 1s condition is incurable. If you accept such an advice then fear effectively sabotages the self-healing process, which is under complete control of our consciousness on all levels, including the subconscious functioning of our body & mind. Good luck in u're endeavors. ☮ ♥
U nailed it on the head - don't turn ur back - but at the same time u have to have some walls to protect yourself - and your words could not be more true! - clevo - out
First you need them to realize they are using it to not deal with something. Or feel is a big one. Have some before pictures?If so; have her look in a mirror with the picture along side. But most important of all is to not seem like you are judging her. Love her in spite of herself. She is in a place where she can't care for herself; so if it opens up, ask her why she hates herself or does she deserve this and if yes why?!
This is a great video, with a great message. I pray your friend gets out of it and soon....I can totally relate with you here...I've had loved ones go down the wrong path with alcohol and drugs, and I myself did for a while with alcohol...but thankfully got out of it. Take care, and bless you....if everyone cared just even a little bit, the world might be a better place. Don't ever stop caring...
Words from the heart bro ppl not always care and ppl do move away from meth or heavy usage drug ppl had that experience with rl friends too and its not pleasant to see someone go away. hope all goes k with ya friend as for mine i lost lont time track of them ... peace
this vlog was good still, feel a lot of ppl can relate to this subject. it's nice to see you trying to help spread public awareness, while @ the same time helping a friend. stay up blackspiderman.
I have never been addicted to drugs, but I have been pulled toward other habits. For myself some of my habits were a coping so I didn't have to face reality.
Hopefully she is doing better now. Just pray for her and she has an addiction. Thats why she doesn't stop no matter what you say meth is really addictive I think at this point if its not to late she needs to go into a rehabilitation center. Best wishes for you and your friend
well i have someone i know that is a user and they wont stop. i want them to but there nothing i can do some people are weak minded they think is a way out but is not. i feel u and you pain.
one of the biggest problems with drug addiction is that it makes a person less rational. addiction impairs frontal lobe function which means that affected people are less capable of appraising their situation. good luck.
i'm not trying to sound like a pessimist. but there is no helping her.. she will have to want to change on her own. just be careful and don't let her bring you down. she will lie, cheat, and steal to get her fix. right now she is messed up mentally and not thinking right , cut your ties.you can love somebody so much and be willing to do anything for them. but nothing will change them. its up to them.. i know i went through it. you can't save somebody who doesn't want to be saved
Crystal Meth is bad one homie of mine is in Prison and before Prison he was taking that shit very often too... this was real bad he was really fucked up!
My brother went through that. His was coke and he slipped up over the years and backslide, but the only thing that helped him was breaking apart and moving away from the people who he was using with. So, maybe your friend can be taken away from her using friends. I think that's the only thing to help her. I wish you the best as you help her to deal with it. God bless.
perhaps you should just physically take her and take her away to somewhere where she wont be able to find the drug. it helpss to keep away from those friends that did have the same bad habit as you. as soon as u start hanging around with users, u get back into it.
It might take more than 1 time saying something to your friend to talk sense to her. Before users see what hardship addiction is they're generally in denial of their problem. At some point she'll be ready to listen for sure.
Ugo, this video touched me in a big way. I admire your attitude and love for your friend. Thanks for sharing this with us, and I'm going to feature this video on my channel. Peace, Sean D
I was addicted to cocaine for 5 years and Meth for 2 years... I lost everything.I ended up on the Street and was homeless,sleeping at the airport for nearly 4 months. It took my family to move me outta the state for a year to recover from that. You are right,it is a disease, one that I myself was powerless over.
Yes my Godmother is on Meth. She went from 300 pounds down too 145 in two years. She has changed. Even though she lost the weight she looking like she is dead and pale. She says mean things all the time. She pisses people off. I don't know what too do. She is in denial. She told me I needed meth too because I am a larger woman. That's very painful people on drugs say things they don't even think about it comes out and destroys....trust love and everything.
I will pray for your friend and your that you have the strength to stand where she can not. Drugs are a horrible thing to lose your life to. You can only do so much at some point she has to step up for herself. Just be available!
I commend you for speaking out. People aren't focused on the real issues. A huge change in society is needed. I'm glad there are people who think like you. There may be hope.
Show her this video, watch it with her. Let her know you care, over and over. She'll either feel too much pressure to change and leave you alone or accept your help and try to get clean. It's her decision.
TO ALL SEEKING HELP WITH DRUG ADDICTION: You need to look into treatment with a drug called Ibogaine. Ibogaine is an addiction interruptor, not a maintenance drug like methadone or suboxone. Ibogaine will stop your withdrawal,elevate your mood, and stop cravings. I have Ibogaine videos faved on my chanel. It is not legal in the U.S., but there are clinics in Mexico. Two I know of are 1. Dream House 2. Villa Serena. Good luck to all!!
Held in the misty cold grip of veiled death, the beauty of he'r soul struggles with the callous demons of addiction, caught between life and living, nerves growing shorter and shorter as the cravings relentlessly itch and dig their deep hollows through he'r personal life, controlled by the seductive force of fear, imprisoned by its will, as the dark shadow of slow insidious death, smiles from within the smoke s'he exhales . . .
Hey dude, I really feel with you. I too have loosing a lot of friends, especially to heroin. Just keep on being their friend, that is the best you can do for them. It`s not possible to help them, before they want to be helped self. But I know from experience, that it is a lot of help in just not turning your back to them
Your a good friend trying to help her, but drugs are powerful and its hard to stop. I hope she gets clean and she is lucky to have someone who cares :)
fuck my weed has no crystals on it :[
sk8ertoty28 1 week ago
waaaaaaaasaaaaaa
jumpinthefire28 3 weeks ago
you cant help somebody that does not want help period.
papa10211961 3 months ago
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ControlUreFeelings 5 months ago
i had one person care for me i have been clean off meth five good years now got my hvac card driving card my kids come here to learn about god and all it took was fifteen years down the tube and one person the first and only person got me up with help from jesus i can pray to god and live again tks
davidmarler7 5 months ago
Ritchie in salisbury got off crack and got a good job at the same time, he was never a good friend but im still proud of him.
0lyella 5 months ago
i haelped my friend get off of crack every time he smoked i would kick his ass to a pulp (not kidding) hes ben clean fo 7 years now
MrPainkiller4rent 5 months ago
cant is the cancer of happen...
charlie sheen
that guy did way more drugs than everyone on this page combined.
he quit just like that. cold turkey.
tysonfuckinmeyer 5 months ago
@tysonfuckinmeyer so he says.... you don't know him.
if i was a star i'd say i quit, whether i did or didn't.
warrcrew 5 months ago
FUCK METH!!!
RB20DEVIL 6 months ago 5
@RB20DEVIL Been there, Black Spidey. Just keep being there for the person, but you know that. Good luck and godspeed to you and your friend. It takes a lot of energy and consistency, bro. And, to put this out there took a ton of courage. Awesome!
bstinson324 4 months ago
Stop being racist guys, every body has got their problems!
produde2000 8 months ago
My sisters on drugs too.. It's shocking.
God bless and I hope your friends get it together, all you can do is be strong for them. Good luck
ToxsickEntertainment 10 months ago
god bless you
brendainny 11 months ago
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black spider? more like BLACK NIGGGGGGGGGGGGGER
shitstomp2 1 year ago
bumping thumbs down for pimpinmatt76.
Hein122 1 year ago
I would like to know how your friend is now. Were you ever able to get through to her?
carrieanastas 1 year ago
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pimpinmatt76 1 year ago
@pimpinmatt76 this man would break you in half STFU idiot !!!
IJustTouchedMyself 1 year ago
Really good vid, man. I hope things get better for your friend. A friend of mine lost his father and the depression spiraled him into heroin usage. He said he can't live without it. He's been using those opiet patches, which I guess is the strongest form.
VoodooRhythmSound 1 year ago
i'm sorry to here that, man. i almost lost a friend to heroin. we use to just smoke weed all the time then it escalated to doing coke and oxys, and when my friend couldn't afford oxys, he started doing heroin. he was only 18, i was 17. he did hit rock bottom, and that knocked some sense into him, he's been clean for 1 year, 2 monthes now, still smokes a little bit of pot, but not nearly as much as we did back in the day. but, anyway, i hope your friend gets the help they need.
robbymadore 1 year ago
Yeah man but you gotta be there for your homie addictions are the baddest struggles you can imagine, I been smoking weed for 6 years now too late for me to quit man shit. Seen alot of cocaine addicts aswell, ya know.
They wasting they lifes away, so sad to see; but it's cold, hard reality.
Maybe you should show your homie what it does with him, straight up confront him usually that's the only thing that helps, but on the other hand man he may get offended
darkway1991 1 year ago
I know a group called Al-Anon you might what to go to.
13SuperKings 1 year ago
i love you man!
mkmontana1 1 year ago
Do what you can. One can try everything they want to help a friend but the friend has to want the help. My uncle dropped dead in front of my mom as he came out of his house to greet her from drug abuse as she was bringing him a Christmas gift one year. I just found this out a few months back. My addiction was Copenhagen snuff tobacco (over 30 years). Until I REALLY saw it as an addiction I couldnt quit. One day I did, I quit cold turkey, no gum,patch etc and beat it. That was 3 1/2 years ago.
Traveler2112 1 year ago
that shit ruins motherfuckers for sure \\m//
metalvocalistwanted 1 year ago
Hey man sorry to hear about your friend I have lost a few to drugs myself and it sucks to watch people with homes and families go down the drain.
LIBERTYDOGG77 1 year ago
wow! sorry to hear that of your friend, but all that you have said was perfectly said... hopefully she will hear in your voice how much you care and feel completely sincere serious about this issue. and this vid will be her wake up call! on the real... oh my god I need tissue right now! continued blessing to you and your dear friend always!!! can't say I know of anyone that has this problem, but if it ever occurs I will remember your words and this video...
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missumusicz 1 year ago
just try to be there for them. Dont give up on them. Meth is a dangerous destructive very psychoaddictive drug. If he or she needs any type of help emotionally or friends to talk to. i would be happy to be there if they ever need someone to talk to. I know how horrible it is. its nasty and it feels like noone cares or understands. I'm glad i met you and thank you for the friends request
HomicidaIPayback 1 year ago
Prison in 04, got out in 06 on a technicality. and havent touched it since. I've smoked a little weed. but now I am 8 months clean on it too. I am happy to finally be clean 100 percent. It's harder to get up and arround now. I was used to running 500 miles an hour day in and day out. My body fought dilligently to lower my metabolism that when i did finally quit It continued lowering my metabolism...hopefully soon my metabolic rate will go back to where it needs to be.If your friend needs help
HomicidaIPayback 1 year ago
I battled a crystal meth addiction for 13 years. The lifestyle of excuse my wording..a baller. thousands of dollars in my pocket at times. Many people looking up to me. alot of girls coming to my house all hours of the day and night. But the fear of always knowing someone was going to either snuff me or turn me in literally destroyed me as who i am. I remember i was mean as all hell. I had to be mean. I knew that at any moment someone was either going to take me out or turn me in. I went to
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There is a CURE for ALL addiction! See the proof for yourself by clicking on my name and watch Powerful stories of Freedom! I personally know friends who have been addicted to all types of hardcore drugs. Now, as unbelievably as it seems, they are completely Freed from it. They have so much Hope in their life, so much Joy now, and so much Peace that they have never experienced. I too was hooked on my addiction for years. Now I am experiencing complete freedom and hope myself.
mdcombs79 1 year ago
Your a good guy bro, I hope everything works out.
God bless man, Keep your chin up...its good she has a friend like you
M3POWER8251 1 year ago
What's the name of the song at the begining?thx
DonMelodie 1 year ago
yo man thanks for the add m8.... i love this video im the same as you iv lost good friends to drugs... i myself do not drink, smoke or do drugs i have in the past when i was younger from 10 - 17.. i allso care 2... some ppl say 2 much sometimes... e-mail me if you want a chat thanks.. hope you sort things out.. maby you might have to let go. or jst be thair when she need you... its upto you :D thanks
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djmatrix2000007 1 year ago
I understand you... my father was in that... now he is fine again ^^ anywhere, nice video man, you have courageous! im happy for you!
AshuraBlood 1 year ago
Great job!
williamdouglasb 1 year ago
There are all kinds of addictions. I have a friend who is a shopaholic and hoarder. That may not sound serious, but she spends two grand a month, on a small income, just to Store the junk she's bought. Now she has to beg friends and family for money to buy and store junk, just like a junkie. Her house is so stuffed with junk, ten feet high, you can't walk through it. There is one tiny path to the kitchen, and you have to walk sideways. You can't sit down Anywhere. Same denial as addicts, too.
cybervigilante 1 year ago
VERY GOOD video
rockybudgeboa 1 year ago
i love the video i think your right
keep going dude
i thinkg ur a great person !
maayanSK 1 year ago
you are a great person ! awesome !
keep going !
your truly
Nessa
NESSAMUSIKCANADA 1 year ago
Great video...thanks for talking about it.
DebsFavouriteThings 1 year ago
This is an awesome video! You're big, warm & caring heart is felt and understood. Thank you so very kindly for sharing! Thumbs up!
utoobasaurus 1 year ago
you suck, go hang youself
RonyMexico 1 year ago
good men. kind the world need!
2ProductAndCreate 1 year ago
im learning from this
CopyKat22 1 year ago
*****
LADYBSV 1 year ago
dude im sure you know this but fuck meth...
TotallyNocturnal 1 year ago
lol I hope you didnt add me as a Friend on here cause you think I have a Drug Problem. This is a really good vid man. It's not easy to talk about stuff like that and let the whole world see it. You could see how much it was affecting you just by talking about it. That vid hit me hard man. Wish there was more stuff like this around.
pope000 1 year ago
Well spoken. I can't ride someone else's dead horse, but I can point that it is not the way to champion, or sponsor either. Alcoholism was in my family. I can't save the day, but can sing my own song better at certain nexuses. The skill is recognising when.
Alexknobsob 1 year ago
I pray that it all works out...And Thanx for subbing & the friend invite.
MzBHavin66 1 year ago
Stepping away doesn't mean you no longer care...Its just a bit of tough love and is needed to wake someone up to the things/people they can lose if they continue in there downward spiral whether it be drugs, alcohol, etc. Be a Friend not an Enabler.
MzBHavin66 1 year ago
hey man that was a great video!!!!! keep that good work up man! feel free to check my vid out fi got some time and if ya like it ,subscribe!!!!
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rmforever1991 1 year ago
thanks and greets from vienna austria
RokkerMur 1 year ago
We are the revolution, the change we seek! Great video, new friend!
protester 1 year ago
Your an insperation to many keep doin what your doin its realy great!
BigBuddaBoom 1 year ago 2
you're a good friend!
haykym 1 year ago
i hear ya - been there, done that, lost many. Thank God we learned from our mistakes and if we reach out and can help one person then we have suceeded...
----Praying 4ur friend---
Peace, PS3
PowderSpirit3 1 year ago
stick to dro
tupac809 2 years ago
@tupac809 fuk ur username and this guys sssoo borin
TheStonerFace 1 year ago
5*****
Just i appreciate your uploading.
Keep the fight.
IWILLBETHEDREAMOFALL 2 years ago
i have a story in a way the same but for heroin.
my sister is a huge heroin addict and she was in rehab, jail, and counseling etc. but nothing got through her head. she steals our lil brother(9yrold) xbox and ps3 games and his chour money and she uses it for her lousy fix. but fuck her shes a stupid SKANK. haha but i feel for you black spiderman. hope your friend gets better. 10/10 video!
cror 2 years ago
LOVE what u doing homie much respect.Hardly see this days someone careing for a other real talk.
outsider628 2 years ago
see i dont know why people are righting such incondierate things here ur right ur 100% RIGHT yea iv smoked cigarettes and i smoke weed i do both weeds illegal and so is smoking for my age i smoke underage weeds fucked my up alot made my see things when im not even high this video should be spread around the world like shown on T.V BECAUSE YOUR RIGHT
cris12821 2 years ago
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Good man.. your speech is from the heart!
bhaktajose 2 years ago
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bhaktajose 2 years ago
from the heart. good video man.
vivalaking 2 years ago
He's just mad because he can only afford crack. THE BLACK MAN DRUG.
KingBDD 2 years ago
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KingBDD 2 years ago
I hope you found a way to help your friend. Trying to learn about this and ran into your video. Keep loving your friend....and I hope eventually she finds a way out, or has. All the best.
womanwheart 2 years ago
Wow your such a slut.
KingBDD 2 years ago
Vey informative video1 its shame that drugs are destroying the lives of millions all over the world
NIKIMBO 2 years ago
Hi my friends! I welcome you!!! You live in the country of beautiful and happy people!!!
To me pleasantly shares with you the both new and old works! I have subscribed for your channel sorry for my imperfect English:))
Beautiful video! Very beautiful song
ZotMalakhov 2 years ago
Speaking out like you are doing may be the best that we can do sometimes. Love her but be careful not to be drawn into the cycle of despair yourself my friend. There is help. Sounds like she knows where to get it. As you point out, the choice is hers.
daleshankins 2 years ago
Even if you get through to only one person battling addiction, you've accomplished a lot. Blessed are those who care and who don't turn their backs on those who hurt.
SFLRailFan 2 years ago
For whatever this is worth I know what it's like to be in that zone. I learned that mind-body system has almost unlimited self repair capabilities but most of people deny themselves access to them. Never accept advice that 1s condition is incurable. If you accept such an advice then fear effectively sabotages the self-healing process, which is under complete control of our consciousness on all levels, including the subconscious functioning of our body & mind. Good luck in u're endeavors. ☮ ♥
Aetopus 2 years ago
Namaste
ReyesRobby 2 years ago
U nailed it on the head - don't turn ur back - but at the same time u have to have some walls to protect yourself - and your words could not be more true! - clevo - out
clevo11 2 years ago
Be lots harder in your country because the government only supports rich people.
Zoink109 2 years ago
If you want to go nuts and stay that way forever. That Ice/Meth shit is best for you LOL
I knew 50+ young people that died from heroin.
You cant really tell them to do anything they have to want to give up the crap they are on themselves first before you can fix them.
Zoink109 2 years ago
True, they must want to help themselves that is the 1st rule.
Aetopus 2 years ago
First you need them to realize they are using it to not deal with something. Or feel is a big one. Have some before pictures?If so; have her look in a mirror with the picture along side. But most important of all is to not seem like you are judging her. Love her in spite of herself. She is in a place where she can't care for herself; so if it opens up, ask her why she hates herself or does she deserve this and if yes why?!
SKeene1956 2 years ago
This is a great video, with a great message. I pray your friend gets out of it and soon....I can totally relate with you here...I've had loved ones go down the wrong path with alcohol and drugs, and I myself did for a while with alcohol...but thankfully got out of it. Take care, and bless you....if everyone cared just even a little bit, the world might be a better place. Don't ever stop caring...
jennyjoe798 2 years ago
Words from the heart bro ppl not always care and ppl do move away from meth or heavy usage drug ppl had that experience with rl friends too and its not pleasant to see someone go away. hope all goes k with ya friend as for mine i lost lont time track of them ... peace
worki22 2 years ago
Good words, good man. My respect, verylemon
verylemon 2 years ago
this vlog was good still, feel a lot of ppl can relate to this subject. it's nice to see you trying to help spread public awareness, while @ the same time helping a friend. stay up blackspiderman.
GotPang 2 years ago
wow this is amazing i used to be on that road you really hit home there..thank you soo much!
shyloveeyes451 2 years ago
thank you for uploading this video...
God bless you...
-Eleven
SoaringEleven 2 years ago
great video...thanks for the upload..
C00ZZY 2 years ago
very interesting video,
paolitas7 2 years ago
interesting vid thanks for the upload ..
Babieisis2 2 years ago
Thanks for thinking out loud and speaking your mind.
There are many reasons for taking drugs but even more reasons for trying to stop.
I wish you success in getting your friend to accept those reasons.
geoff1945 2 years ago
I have never been addicted to drugs, but I have been pulled toward other habits. For myself some of my habits were a coping so I didn't have to face reality.
Addiction is a disease. I agree.
ASAngelo 2 years ago
Thank you for sharing your story.I wish the best for you & your family & friends,God Bless,Marc Jones..U.S.A. (Vocalist)
glennmach 2 years ago
Whats Playa!!! Powder getchu Hyper!!!!!
OnThatPowder 2 years ago
Hopefully she is doing better now. Just pray for her and she has an addiction. Thats why she doesn't stop no matter what you say meth is really addictive I think at this point if its not to late she needs to go into a rehabilitation center. Best wishes for you and your friend
recklesschild 2 years ago
well i have someone i know that is a user and they wont stop. i want them to but there nothing i can do some people are weak minded they think is a way out but is not. i feel u and you pain.
TheSugarbaby888 2 years ago
Great video!!! i'm subbing! i'm very happy to be your friend!
Take care!
mhpassion10 2 years ago
one of the biggest problems with drug addiction is that it makes a person less rational. addiction impairs frontal lobe function which means that affected people are less capable of appraising their situation. good luck.
happyfetusday 2 years ago
I think you're helping so much people
with this! Well done!
dearmalika 2 years ago
i'm not trying to sound like a pessimist. but there is no helping her.. she will have to want to change on her own. just be careful and don't let her bring you down. she will lie, cheat, and steal to get her fix. right now she is messed up mentally and not thinking right , cut your ties.you can love somebody so much and be willing to do anything for them. but nothing will change them. its up to them.. i know i went through it. you can't save somebody who doesn't want to be saved
travis650d 2 years ago
OMG this is a great video man.....serious stuff I hope that she gets the help she needs
tennislover08 2 years ago
Crystal Meth is bad one homie of mine is in Prison and before Prison he was taking that shit very often too... this was real bad he was really fucked up!
Nice Video homie!
5 Stars
bazzdoggy 2 years ago
I really feel you. And I know that THEY have to see its a problem. Nothin anyone says will get through till they realize that
My situation was totally ironic. In that I was trying to help this friend but myself am hooked on shit
I hit rock bottom many years later. Noone but me knew
Love your heart and that will count :)
zezt 2 years ago
RESPECT BROTHER
RASTATVREALTV 2 years ago
nice vid man.
XsharpeX23 2 years ago
My brother went through that. His was coke and he slipped up over the years and backslide, but the only thing that helped him was breaking apart and moving away from the people who he was using with. So, maybe your friend can be taken away from her using friends. I think that's the only thing to help her. I wish you the best as you help her to deal with it. God bless.
willboywonder 2 years ago
perhaps you should just physically take her and take her away to somewhere where she wont be able to find the drug. it helpss to keep away from those friends that did have the same bad habit as you. as soon as u start hanging around with users, u get back into it.
hibbittino 2 years ago
Nice video...very deep and heart-felt...God Bless and good luck with your event!
babyshuf2 2 years ago
It might take more than 1 time saying something to your friend to talk sense to her. Before users see what hardship addiction is they're generally in denial of their problem. At some point she'll be ready to listen for sure.
danielvincentkelley 2 years ago
Ugo, this video touched me in a big way. I admire your attitude and love for your friend. Thanks for sharing this with us, and I'm going to feature this video on my channel. Peace, Sean D
seand67 2 years ago 2
I was addicted to cocaine for 5 years and Meth for 2 years... I lost everything.I ended up on the Street and was homeless,sleeping at the airport for nearly 4 months. It took my family to move me outta the state for a year to recover from that. You are right,it is a disease, one that I myself was powerless over.
satanicinternational 2 years ago
tht was deep man....i have to say ur a truly good person for trying to help her....idk this left me speechless it really moved me
jesuscookies123 2 years ago
if u put urself out there dont enable but assist there is a diff...respek
shortyrock67 2 years ago
respekt
CallMeLilWayne 2 years ago
Real talk man
keep ya head up
karlozk16 2 years ago
deep
silvaspoon9478 2 years ago
Yes my Godmother is on Meth. She went from 300 pounds down too 145 in two years. She has changed. Even though she lost the weight she looking like she is dead and pale. She says mean things all the time. She pisses people off. I don't know what too do. She is in denial. She told me I needed meth too because I am a larger woman. That's very painful people on drugs say things they don't even think about it comes out and destroys....trust love and everything.
greenly100 2 years ago
Good luck brother -
greenmokey 2 years ago
I will pray for your friend and your that you have the strength to stand where she can not. Drugs are a horrible thing to lose your life to. You can only do so much at some point she has to step up for herself. Just be available!
NappyBeauty 2 years ago
I commend you for speaking out. People aren't focused on the real issues. A huge change in society is needed. I'm glad there are people who think like you. There may be hope.
anotharemix 2 years ago
Show her this video, watch it with her. Let her know you care, over and over. She'll either feel too much pressure to change and leave you alone or accept your help and try to get clean. It's her decision.
loveyoutodeathbut 2 years ago
TO ALL SEEKING HELP WITH DRUG ADDICTION: You need to look into treatment with a drug called Ibogaine. Ibogaine is an addiction interruptor, not a maintenance drug like methadone or suboxone. Ibogaine will stop your withdrawal,elevate your mood, and stop cravings. I have Ibogaine videos faved on my chanel. It is not legal in the U.S., but there are clinics in Mexico. Two I know of are 1. Dream House 2. Villa Serena. Good luck to all!!
helpforaddiction 2 years ago
Spiderman made a response video on here for you take a look when you have time and how the meet go?
howardtts 2 years ago
I came in 3rd man!! Lost with 30 seconds left to a choke..and I was winning by 6 points!
ugoarimo 2 years ago
Smoked
Held in the misty cold grip of veiled death, the beauty of he'r soul struggles with the callous demons of addiction, caught between life and living, nerves growing shorter and shorter as the cravings relentlessly itch and dig their deep hollows through he'r personal life, controlled by the seductive force of fear, imprisoned by its will, as the dark shadow of slow insidious death, smiles from within the smoke s'he exhales . . .
PeaceProfit 2 years ago
Hey dude, I really feel with you. I too have loosing a lot of friends, especially to heroin. Just keep on being their friend, that is the best you can do for them. It`s not possible to help them, before they want to be helped self. But I know from experience, that it is a lot of help in just not turning your back to them
Blackbent 2 years ago
I just wanted you to know that I sympathize for you and your friend. Addicts are in my prayers tonight! Not only them but the people they affect!
sunnyloopa 2 years ago
I wish I had some advice for you to help her. Unfortunately what Headshot1971 is true. Take care of yourself and keep reaching out to her. Peace.
msfullroller 2 years ago
it's sad to see you all upset :( help your friend as much as you can and remember IT'S OUR WORLD!!! :)
thebaldsquid 2 years ago
Thanks Man!
I have a friend thats addicted to meth,
She doesn't see she has a problem and her 1yr old is paying for it. It breaks my heart.
She started to get help, but she fell back into it.
custardguy897 2 years ago
...you asshole you just made that up
jogabonito67 2 years ago
meth is nasty stuff -- gluck
bubonicnate 2 years ago
Ugo, thanks for sharing this important video. I pray that your friend recovers from her addiction ASAP....Peace, Sean D
seand67 2 years ago
I hate to say this but you can't help her, she has to help herself.
Like you said, support her. That's all you really can do. Good luck with your friend, it's going to be a long ugly road to recovery.
headshot1971 2 years ago 5
Your a good friend trying to help her, but drugs are powerful and its hard to stop. I hope she gets clean and she is lucky to have someone who cares :)
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