The L Word - Carmen comes out to her family

[brndaqua01]

Mother of God! Carmen is so hot *.* my number one crush of the L Word for sure :)

[bebidadelitchi]

coming out is a bitch. i just came out this year, and my family is still coping. my mother keeps trying to set me up with guys after i told her i am in a serious and committed relationship. i'm hoping it get easier from here, but i doubt it.

[DungeonDragonNM]

"mejor puta que lesbiana", omg thats so sad.

[pinkie974]

My coming out were very difficult because my mom said me : "i didn't accept this and I shame on you!"

[Insaneymaney2]

Ohmygawd, Carmen is unbelievably extremely attractive! *o*

[WhiteYndBlacK]

lol at the grandma 1:53 :D

[heavenlyhot]

My coming out was way less dramatic than Carmen's. Though I didn't really come out, I mean I was VERY bad at pretending... my Dad even made a speech about it to my best friend the first time he met her. 'I'm proud my Daughter is gay.' And that was last year. I officially came out in the Macca's drive thru while we were ordering. Certainly made it awkward when the lady repeated our order back to us lol! But what can I say? I was craving a sundae and it just came out :P

[khrist89]

wish i had a beautiful girl like that who will fight for me..

[4nowconfused]

Wish I`d had the guts to come out... just living a lie :o(

[Justcallmekills]

mom says the same shit to me -__- lol mejor puta que pata......

[vicmockingjac]

at 1.33 mother says "go out. You just want to hurt me because you ashamed of me. Because i didn't went to University, neither I'm a elegant woman nor I can't speak English. And I can say in English. Get out of my house, both of you" and a aunt or something says "mercedes, what are you saying? We don't eject our family members" and mother says "it's better a bitch than a lesbian. Get out (in English) get out (in Spanish), you just heard me"

and that is.

[GoregeousLey]

@vicmockingjac Actually she said "better a whore than a lesbian." And the aunt said "Mercedes, what are you saying? We don't throw our family in the street."

[vicmockingjac]

for people who doesn't speak Spanish :)

at 0.54 Carmen says "it's an insult and I can't stand it. Shane isn't interested in Pablo, okay? and mother answers "How do you know that? What are you, her interpret?"

at 1.10 mother says "You don't know what you are saying." and Carmen answers "Yes, yes, I know. Shane is my girlfriend, and I'm hers. We live in the same house and we sleep in the same bed, mother"

[18ai32]

idk but i think she said "mejor puta k lesbiana" bcz the daughter was really being rude.

it looked like the daughter really was ashamed i mean that "hemp" line really?

i felt she said that bcz she thought if this is wat being a lesbian made her like better she just be a puta.

but then again i just got sent this so iwudnt know ;]

[patipie20]

It would be great if this had Enlgish subtitles because I seriously have no idea what they are saying when they talk in Spanish.

[ariharveykinkle]

I cringe when I hear Sarah Shahi speak Spanish, so I just focus on what she looks like rather than what's coming out of her mouth. Someone really should have helped her develop her accent but I guess she does pretty well for someone who's not Hispanic.

[TylynnBoi105]

One word dudes, "AWK-WARD!' -Branden

[sexyflores619]

The grandma said that they don't throw family out on the streets and the mother said she'd rather have her be a prostitute than a lesbian

[onetreehill6012]

what did the mom say when the other lady told her something about familie ?

[JonathanVonErich]

Carmen was such a great character; she was so cool in season 2. Too bad the writers turned her into a crazy bitch in Season 3. Also in season 2 she really "looked like a lesbian", in the sense that she was more tomboy, a little bit more masculine, her clothes were more "gay", know what I mean ?? In Season 3 she dress way too sexy, way too feminine. Bad decisions by the writers, Carmen was so great in season 2.

[Emohellraiser]

What season and episode is this??

[12SONI12]

@Emohellraiser season 3 episode 9

[lampa400]

@Emohellraiser Season 3, episode 9. =)

[jrm33lover]

Is Sarah Shahi fluent in Spanish? Cos she kinda has an American accent when she speaks it. It's like the learned the lines off :P

[RascalFlattsgirl2]

can anybody translate everything everyone says here? From Spanish to English i mean lol. thanks and it would be greatly apperciated!!!!!

[juliles]

@RascalFlattsgirl2

From: “Ok mom stop. Stop this right now”

Carmen: “Mom this is an insult and I can’t take it anymore.” “Shane, is not interested in Pablo. OK?”

Mom: “And how do you know? Are you her interpreter?”

Carmen: “No mom, I’m her girlfriend.

Mom: “You don’t know what you are saying”

Carmen: “Yes, yes I know” “Shane is my girlfriend and I am hers.”

[RascalFlattsgirl2]

@juliles thank you for the whole thing! I apperciate it alot. it's so much easier to understand now lol thanks :)

[juliles]

@RascalFlattsgirl2 np :D

[juliles]

@RascalFlattsgirl2

Mom: “Leave.” (standing up) “You just want to hurt me because you are ashamed of me. Because I didn’t go to college and I’m not an elegant woman and I can’t talk well English.” “But I’ll tell what I know how to say in English: Get Out. Get out of my house.”

Grandmother: “But what are you saying? You don’t throw family out of the house.”

Mom: “Better a whore that lesbian.” “Leave, you hear me.”

[RascalFlattsgirl2]

@juliles wow thank you so much!!!!! thats really messed up that she threw out her but still thank you so very very much :) i apperciate it

[juliles]

@RascalFlattsgirl2 yeah so messep up...

[RascalFlattsgirl2]

@juliles :D yes yes it is. if my daughter or son ever told me they were gay, i would welcome it because i want my kids to be whoever they want to be. (no i don't have kids lol)

[flakara]

love the grandma !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[1c3izzle]

fuck yo couch

[Bebe500100]

idk y but Carmen's mom's voice annoys the hell out of me.

[stoner0824]

i cant get over how hot carmen is

[MouthsLikSdwndrMisls]

@stoner0824 Neither can I, but I can get under it.



[IloveCupcakesandTea]

hahaa lol we dont actuly have carpets at the salon

[zodias777]

jajaj carmen weird if you speak is like being born in a place where they speak English and Spanish speaking family have obviously jajajja was raised in English-speaking, and made me laugh 'best hooker lesbian ""mejor puta que lesbiana"jajaj truth jajajjaj prefer a lesbian daughter and if RARE TALK CARMEN JAJAJAJA

just memorize lines

but speaks better Spanish than I speak English

jajaj good bay

[astriekarolina]

witch episode is this??

[lerekablack]

jajaja i'm spanish and carmen speaks so strange! sorry but for people who know that language is obvious that carmen memorise the lines for the chapter..nothing important =)

sorry again cause my english sucks jaja

[Maryhakobyan1989]

carmen is the best

[ElenaMurzello]

Yeah! I play Carmen's sister in this episode.

[loweiniana]

i could only understand "Shane" and "Puta".. lol my spanish totally sucks

[RascalFlattsgirl2]

lol Carmen's mom, instead of saying Shane it sounds like shes sayin Chane hahaha.

[WeeWeeh5]

damn if i had parents like that!

[Suzi03xx]

my parents were totally understanding when I came out, I guess I was lucky. I love them so much and they are so supportive

[ChemicalKatastophe]

can someone put in a full translation please?

[Delmyn11]

@ChemicalKatastophe

Carmen:Its an insult and Shane is not intrested in Pablo OK...

Mom:How do you know? are you her interpreter

Carmen:Yes I do, Shane is my girlfriend and only mine.

Mom:you only want to hurt me because your ashamed of me, cuz i didnt go to a university and im not fancy and i dont know how to speak english. Well ill tell you what i know how to say in english; Get out

[Delmyn11]

@ChemicalKatastophe Mom also adds; Better a slut than a lesbian

[ChemicalKatastophe]

ty very much :) i apprechate it :D

[lolmof0]

this is wut I got:

you go and she's a lesbian

[katsoluvscheese94]

ive tried to tell my mum and she had a fit my gf n i are no longer allowed to see each other becoz of it

[936825]

the scene makes me sad, but shane acted so hot in this scene! makes me smile =)

[danimendes1213]

ajaja . esa me mato "Mejor puta que lesbiana"

uyyy que mal la madre de carmen

[marvinsolonas]

Carmen speaking spanish? So totally sexxy!!!!!

[helotutahaua11]

thats pretty sad when the carmen's mum tell her to get out : (

[kamikazewm]

oh S**t! wish me luck. I'm coming out to me family :|

[aonewomancrowd]

@kamikazewm

how did it go ? :)

[RascalFlattsgirl2]

@kamikazewm how did that work out for you? (you coming out to your family?) I came out to my mom and older brother (i'm bi-curious) they were very supportive. my dad i can't really talk to him about stuff like that.....

[EmteeThotsRinny]

@kamikazewm

[tanja9945]

@kamikazewm so..how was it? :P

[Mrspawnshoppe]

@kamikazewm Two years ago.

How is it now? :D

[Visonu]

Carmen's mother reminds me of Momma from "Throw Momma From the Train" xDD

"OWEEEEEEN!!!"

[JackDammitRun]

wut does she say hamp???

[angelinred333]

WOW! I had a dream that we were at my gramas like every weekend and my dad just got up and told me that! I was like wtf...???

[laminage]

I'm sure that folks are going to disagree with me, but Carmen and Shane should have discussed telling Carmen's mother and they should have done it in private.

[angelinred333]

yea thats true but in a mexican family theres not much priacy =/ even ur extended family will know by the time ur out the door!

till this day i havent had the guts to do it...im paranoid after watchin this

[TheStevenJames]

What does Carmen's mom say before she goes in the house? She says better a whore than a lesbian. then says get out. then said something before going into the house. whatd she say?

[angelinred333]

"Ya me oyeron"

it means u heard me!

[TheStevenJames]

Thanks i always thought she said another bad remark before leaving the scene.

[angelinred333]

lol no

[selenaloserface]

"Mejor puta que lesbiana,"

Is what my mom would prolly say to me. :/

[LauraVic06]

that's what she told me! :\ ! it felt like a gun shot! it's not easy!

[223kari]

shane starts to drink more when carmen said that shane is her girlfriend Lol

[LizzyLezzy32]

When I came out my mom wasn't bad about it. It was mostly my grandparents...:(

And when I saw this, I started crying, poor Carmen and Shane...I love them both!

[Saluinha]

Poor Carmen...

[stoppickelingme08]

That was very brave, it took me hours to tell my parents, never mind my whole family over dinner. Go Carmen!

[Perfunk]

My mom told me the "mejor ser puta que lesbiana" line when I first came out to her =/

This didn't go half as bad, though.

[shanemccutcheon123]

what does that mean?

[yurisoccerp18]

if you are referring to the "mejor ser puta que lesbiana" it means better a whore than a lesbian.

[mC22oK87]

My father said the same to me! "Mejor una hija puta que lesbiana!" its hurts a lot. And my Mom start Crying.

[xereflame]

hi,

can anyone translate what they have been said to english.please?

what carmen,her mother,and grandmother said

[cantiflas12]

hi, i send a message for you and translate this conversation.

[lindalincita]

055 carmen: this is an insult and i can't take it anymore

shane isn't interested in plablo ok?

mon: how do you know?

who are you? his translater?

carmen: no mom! i'm her girlfriend

mom: you don't know what are you talking about

carmen: yes, yes i do

shane is my girlfriend and i'm hers...

[ZOMGitsRi]

i'm keeping quiet about myself to my family lol

[guitarristapaisa]

"mejor Puta que LEsbiana" do u know something? Fuck You Mom!!

[paramoresH]

@guitarristapaisa

what the fuck!!!

como puede decir eso!!!

[harukaX6]

what episode is this????

[NJS06]

Thanks to the translators I was wondering what they said..

[Punkrockchicky]

It's so sick... I mean, it's better to love a person and feel love back, than thousand people hurt one and the same person. I'm bisexual and I don't say anything to my family or my friends, only my best friend and my mama know everything. I have fear that anybody turns the back on me, people they call themselves my friends. But anytime I will say that I'm a girl which loves girls too and I won't give a fuck what they say or what they do.

[boomboomrama]

you go girl

[desperadodaze]

God.. thats so heartbreaking.. ;(

[Arajntos]

man, it's heart breaking that your own family wont accept your sexuality. It's heart breaking that people cant be themselves because they are afraid that their family will reject them. :( and it's even more hearbreaking to read the comments of you guys that have experienced exactly that.

[ClaiomSolis]

O.O mejor puta q lesbiana?

[spyglss4117]

yeah...this is painful to watch...my family does'nt approve of it either...a few of my cousins know and their cool tho. They'll get over it one day.

[ivadwbh]

yeahh my mom got over it too (:

[kornberoende]

I started to cry when I saw this, My family doesn't accept me because Im a lesbian. It really hurts

[ScHs2403]

that's why I said nothing about myself.

[Rockon1]

what is the spanish bits? i dont understand what they are saying

[kornberoende]

After Carmens mom say money carmen says: "Ok mom stop! Just stop this right now. Its an insult and I cant hear it anymore. Shane its not intresting in Pablo ok?" Carmens mom: "And how do you know that? Are you her translator?" Carmen: "No, Im her girlfriend" Carmens mom: "You dont know what you're saying" Carmen: "Yes I do. Shane is my girlfriend and I'm hers"

[kornberoende]

Carmens mom: "Get out! You just wanna hurt me cause you feel emberessed of me, cause I didn't went to the university, cause Im not elegant woman, cause I cant speak English that good, but I know what to say in English: get out, both of you, get out of my house." Then the woman in the glasses says:"Mercedez what are you saying? You cant throw your family out on the street." Carmens mom:"Mejor puta que lesbiana (=Rather a whore than a lesbian)"

[akitjmccaine]

thx for translating

[Silvita83]

omg my mom always say "mejor puta que lesbiana"......

[aHAwolf]

That's jacked, I agree with

dannycastillo

[mividanati]

I agree

[xxjenbabxx]

my mam was like that at the start bt she got over it :)

[dannycastillo]

I really hate it when the mom says "Mejor puta que lesbiana". That's so typical and my friend's mom said the exact same words to her.