It sounds like you may be better off, and free to find someone who will care and love you as much as you care and love him. Being someone much like you, I can relate. I had someone accept an engagement ring under the Eiffel Tower who messed around on me literally hours later.
You broke up with him on my birthday...Wow. Sorry to hear that. You deserve better man. So mature for your age. Its admirable. Good luck finding true love!
Frankly, i envy you a bit... i think i am not able to be this emotional about relationships any longer... :(... i hope it is not the part of "growing up" just smth that happened to me and bunch of other cinical bitches... well if it really happens to everyone, wait another 3 to 5 years.
I'm literally crying as im watching this. i hate that your so broken up :( if i were there to give you a big hug. it'll be okay, eveerything feels better with time I swear we've all been there :*
I find it amzing that you are such an intorverted, (or maybe introspective), person, and yet you can make such a deep emotional confession, and cry so unselfconsciously on video. I think you're quite courageous.
@Blaze2295 what's wrong with you? Why you gotta mess with other people. Get your shit straight. You don't like people like him the get the fuck out. Other people don't want your crap. Thanks ^-^
I like how sanguine you are about the whole experience. In truth, relationships don't necessarily end, but rather they change and morph into different relationships. When the relationship becomes less intense or "broken" despite the feelings of loss and despair, try not to think of it as a mistake or failure, rather consider it its own perfect entity which lasted as long as it should have lasted.
wow. Dont worry things always get better. And sooner or later u will stop crying I know the pain, of what u are going through right now and trust me I know it sucks. But things always get better and I know things will get better for u.
Im 36 and ive just learned the same thing. But after I met someone who I recongized as being on the same.page and we r engaged. This will help u recongize the right one=)
Sounds like you were able, willing and ready to commit to your boyfriend. That's a good, beautiful and, as you know well, an emotionally risky place to be. Personally and sadly, I've never had that in a relationship yet. I was the one for a long time unwilling to commit to the people I loved. I think for many gay people we've so long denied ourselves the vision of our own families that when it's time to step on the path of commitment, it feels strange to us. I only recognize now my error.
I hope you have a brilliant Christmas/holiday. I've only just found your channel but can tell already that we have alot in common as far as our views go etc. And I hope you find somebody special who is more compatible with you soon :]
It took over a dozen short-term relationships before I found my Marques (who surprisingly looks like he could be your brother). Don't sell the short-term relationships short. You probably learned a ton of great life lessons, from both the good and the bad times, and it will make you a stronger person and will help you gain even more capacity to love whomever the next lucky man is who will some into your life!
heartfelt disclousure....then GIVEAWAY LOL i told you you are random. i think a lot of people covered most of the things i could say but always remember "keep it cute and keep it moving" your obviously very adorable so now you just need to keep moving forward. If this video helped you get support and affirmation that you'll be okay from your viewers then it was worth making. I've always appreciated that you show just enough vunerability but hold onto dignity and respect for yourself.
Sup D! Big Hug to you. Life can suck sometimes, but it can turn on a dime. Keep your focus on you. In time things will fall into place. Regardless of way you are feeling now, remember you are loved.
I want to discuss more details with you but time is precious. So I'll just add that POLYGAMY is not condemned in the Bible. It isn't. I believe you can be intensely attracted to more than one person for different reasons. I'm just throwing that out there. That one "love" doesn't always replace someone else. I have a concept of whom I'm "romantically" involved with, and I am faithful to that person though. I'm a "physical monogamist" but an "emotional polygamist," I guess. HUGS
Thanks for sharing this. The BUMPS are out there. But this happens to the best of us, including me (oops, am I an elitest too?) II've broken up with someone whom I still truly love and enjoy socially. He doesn't realize I don't feel "married" to him and have moved on (meaning I have guiltless romances and sex with others--I feel free from him). So great UR still friends. That's possible.U don't have to be "married" to everyone you love. That's all I have for you other than lots of HUGS!
I came out at 22, and did not meet Ted till I was 30.
Early relationships are foundational in nature, usually, not long-term.
You're doing fine, and will be through this several times before 'the one' arrives. It's not a bad thing, it's a growing thing. Each time you shed a relationship, you get closer to your core. It may seem hokey, but it seems true to me.
after all the crying after all the heartache , after relationships end on good terms and some on bad terms and all the drama that comes after a break up its going to feel HORRIBLE! its gonna suck and it might take a while to get back on your feet but when you do and you find that one person where you know you are going to spend the rest of your life with all the bad things that happend before will all be worth it.
You're too young to be tying yourself up in a serious relationship anyway, be young have fun, theres plenty of time in the future for serious relationships.
I just want to give you a big hug! Had to stop the vid half way through as I hate seeing you upset. You're a great guy and you will find the one for you eventually!
Whoa. We're going through the same thing, and you vocalized everything I've been thinking and saying for the past few days. I just want you to know that I understand 100% where you're coming from. And you're so brave for this vlog, I commend you on that. You have beautiful speech, obviously a strong mind and strong will (so important), plus you're so handsome. Boys like our firsts will regret losing us and not trying as hard in due time, I swear. You'll make it through just fine. 3
Hay bb, I know how it is, and don't worry, this too shall pass. Try not to dwell on it and move on with your life. But give yourself enough time to listen to evil breakup songs in your downtime.
Darien, I am so sorry to hear of your misfortune. I understand how you feel and I want you to know that I respect and admire you for being so open and honest about your relationship. I admire the fact that you were never in denial over the realization that something just wasn't right. I hope you do find the right person someday, but for now, I would recommend taking this time to think about what you really want in a boyfriend and just enjoy being yourself!
You are still young. You will find your soul mate. Give it a bit of time. You need to be sure that you and a future partner are on the same wavelength. Having a relationship is some work on both partners, but it should not be that difficult because you both should want the same result. My partner and I have been together 28 years and it can be done. Take your time and be careful.
Hi, I completely know where you're coming from. My ex and I broke up and got back together a few times. In my opinion, now, I don't think you should get back together with an ex. But that may just be me. I hope you feel better. There is someone out there for you, I know that. As much as it may hurt now, this too shall pass. Hope you're feeling better. Chin up, handsome :)
hey Darien---I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. It's always hard to end a relationship for someone you loved so much. You are fortunate to experience such love at such an early age. I didn't get that chance until I was several years older than you. This won't be the last time you go through this -but you'll learn a little more about yourself and what you really want. Take heart at least you are still friends--most don't get that chance--MJ
Thank you. Thank you for being so open, transparent and expressive. Thank you for sharing such a personal and painful part of your life. I'm so glad that you did. You don't realize how many people you helped in 6:31 time, including me. You are a beautiful and amazing man inside and out. There is some hurt now, but it will only hurt for a little while. You will connect with that special one, one day. You are awesome bro and a hero to me!
I spent a good two mins thinking of advice to give, but i have none, plus you seem to have it all together. I can empathize and wish u the best. Soooo ... all the best. :-)
I love the eloquent way you described your feelings. It's hard to deal with the end of a relationship, but there is always the future to look forward too.
Ugh, these things are never easy. Once a wise person told me, "A relationship is between two people, a marriage/partnership is between two friends, that have sex and that want to work toward a common goal: to build something, to journey in life together." I didn't really understand how to find the person who would want to journey with me, at all costs, with faith, through the fire. BUT it does happen as long as you set your intention to find it. <3 universebilly
Yo dude, hang in there! It sucks, but it's one of life's many experiences. Now you join the ranks who understand Tennyson's famous quote, " 'Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." It'll take some time to recover. There will be places, songs and stuff that bring flashbacks, but those will eventually only be connected to good memories of fun times.(cont)...
...Consider using this as an opportunity to broaden your social circle, putting some distance between you and him for a while. Anyway, you'll make it through this, toughened up a bit for the future to boot. Go back and look at your pre-boyfriend videos and see how that man has matured in the span of just the last year. I'd say he's growing up just fine. :) Good luck, Darien, and have a great winter break.
Clean breaks are best. The fact that you're in the same circle, and you plan on meeting and talking frequently, is worrying. Separation once you've been close is hard, it doesn't feel right, but drawing it out makes the process worse and wastes time.
It is normal in relationships for one person to care and invest more than the other. Not only is it normal, it always happens. Two people never feel exactly the same. Eventually you reach an equilibrium where both accept the situation as it is.
I know how you feel. I have an awkward relationship with a friend over two years and it goes back and forth. I think I'm about to give up because I want someone who wants to make compromises and not just a one sided deal. We are great friends too and sometimes I don't know if I want to continue with him or not cuz he is a great guy. You're not alone dude! Its tough being with someone...
As hard as it mayright now for u...now u have an opportunity to find another guy...one who's much more attractive and who hopefully is more in sync with what ur looking for n a man...and once u find ur new hottie...you'll forget all about ur ex!!! I know i did....LMFAO :)
some advice: Try to focus on the good times in the relationship, be grateful for any love in your life for any amount of time. smile in the knowledge that you have learned something from the experience, better prepared for the next time.
With my current relationship, we broke up twice in the first year, got back together, and have been together since. Yet I'm one of those people who seem to always still have doubts. I wish I could feel certainty about things, but I don't.
When breaking up, it may make perfect sense logically, but emotions don't always pay heed to logic. Hang in there. It's tough but you can get through it, and be able to meet more wonderful people to share your life with.
Sorry about that ,u look like just got stabbed in the heart for a second time. Maybe you should give yourself some time from being around that person . u need time to heal. u seem like a mature , sensitve and passionate person. Do'nt change who u are because of someone else, hold your head up. and keep reaching for love, Peace and Happiness to u always.
I appreciate that you actually share stuff with us. Makes me feel like my opinion matters, and hopefully it helps? There isn't anything any one of us can say to fix how you feel. It really is a self-healing process. Some people, and I'll be honest, never get over it. The key to avoiding that peril is to not become self-destructive, and keep moving. Keep busy, keep dating (in a classy way, not slutty, which could demean yourself) and allow yourself time to grieve about it. Also stay social.
It sucks things did not work out for you man, break-ups are the worst but I'm going to tell you like I tell my best-friend in times of need just stay strong man. You have a bright future ahead of you. And As cliche' as it sounds there are plenty more fish in the sea. So just stay strong.
Hang in there, youngster. Believe me when I tell you, there will be more. I would not doubt that if there is a line (that you haven't noticed) of guys waiting for a chance with you. Your an attractive, sexy, cute and intelligent young man/soul. If I notice I know others have.
I am sorry for your loss, which it is, mourn it in the way you feel is appropriate and do what is right for you. :) Thanks for sharing your feelings with us.
I'm really sorry that things didn't work out man - but at least it was on more mutual terms this time [always the best]. Some people are just better as friends I think [which may, or may not be where you two are meant to be]. And I think that time alone for awhile [is] a great healer.
Just focus on College, your friends and family [as rigid and plain as that might sound] for now. And just don't seek another relationship, let it come to you.
your whining and depression and constant sad stories would cause anyone to break with you….your doom and gloom gets boring….everyday..every vlog the same ole crap….man up and get it together….the pity party is over …darn !!!
@NIstrumone These are human feelings, and are inescapable given certain circumstances. Some people are incapable of having these emotions. The first group we call the psychopathic, the second the sociopathic. Both can get treatment, I suggest you do that.
Darien, always know, dear, that there will be times when you're gonna feel like you don't know what to do (in my opinion, that feeling is written on your face). Always know that we've (or at least I) got your back, and that we will be your shoulder to cry on, figuratively or literally.
For now, just take your time. Spend a little time alone (where relationships are concerned) to help heal yourself. Go somewhere natural and scenic and take it all in. It should help you gain an inner happy place.
Aww this is terrible news, I remember when you first said you had met him and I was sooo happy for you because it was at a time when everything was starting to go great for you, and I was getting hope that things would get good for me too. Sometimes relationships don't work out and you seperate and some times you spend time apart and that helps you get back together! I really hope you feel better soon it was horrible to see you like this. If you need to talk, you can msg me any time :)
Xy, I can't say that I know how you feel because these things all effect us differently but I can say that I know the pain of breaking up with someone you care about. I don't have any inspiring words for you because I know that you already know that it'll get easier with time. That being said, I hope that the hurt ends soon and I can wait to see you smile again.
I commend you on bouncing back so quickly and not allowing yourself to be so consumed by a failed relationship. I am glad you just didnt settle with someone just because you didnt want to be alone (most people do that, sadly ). I am happy that realized that you deserve more and deserve a person who recognizes all of the effort you put in to make a relationship work. You will find somebody who will meet you half way, trust me. Hang in there.
It sounds like you may be better off, and free to find someone who will care and love you as much as you care and love him. Being someone much like you, I can relate. I had someone accept an engagement ring under the Eiffel Tower who messed around on me literally hours later.
shadibeidas1 16 hours ago in playlist Uploaded videos
God I relate so much to the whole second time thing, with me and my ex girlfriend. good luck
AidanMusik 21 hours ago
Whoever ends up with you is going to be lucky as hell
filmstu2005 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos 5
You broke up with him on my birthday...Wow. Sorry to hear that. You deserve better man. So mature for your age. Its admirable. Good luck finding true love!
filmstu2005 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Frankly, i envy you a bit... i think i am not able to be this emotional about relationships any longer... :(... i hope it is not the part of "growing up" just smth that happened to me and bunch of other cinical bitches... well if it really happens to everyone, wait another 3 to 5 years.
nanotopus 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Big Hugz!!! <3
Spydrcatz 1 month ago
I'm literally crying as im watching this. i hate that your so broken up :( if i were there to give you a big hug. it'll be okay, eveerything feels better with time I swear we've all been there :*
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I find it amzing that you are such an intorverted, (or maybe introspective), person, and yet you can make such a deep emotional confession, and cry so unselfconsciously on video. I think you're quite courageous.
AsheeshAnand 2 months ago
@Blaze2295 what's wrong with you? Why you gotta mess with other people. Get your shit straight. You don't like people like him the get the fuck out. Other people don't want your crap. Thanks ^-^
LordSheshomaru 2 months ago
I like how sanguine you are about the whole experience. In truth, relationships don't necessarily end, but rather they change and morph into different relationships. When the relationship becomes less intense or "broken" despite the feelings of loss and despair, try not to think of it as a mistake or failure, rather consider it its own perfect entity which lasted as long as it should have lasted.
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wow. Dont worry things always get better. And sooner or later u will stop crying I know the pain, of what u are going through right now and trust me I know it sucks. But things always get better and I know things will get better for u.
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Hugs from terren75 with new handle
LONGHANGINGCAPIZ 2 months ago
Im 36 and ive just learned the same thing. But after I met someone who I recongized as being on the same.page and we r engaged. This will help u recongize the right one=)
LONGHANGINGCAPIZ 2 months ago
@jaastin does ur butt hurt when I offend a fag, go fuck urself
Blaze2295 2 months ago
Sounds like you were able, willing and ready to commit to your boyfriend. That's a good, beautiful and, as you know well, an emotionally risky place to be. Personally and sadly, I've never had that in a relationship yet. I was the one for a long time unwilling to commit to the people I loved. I think for many gay people we've so long denied ourselves the vision of our own families that when it's time to step on the path of commitment, it feels strange to us. I only recognize now my error.
patrickometry 2 months ago
Fuck you fag!
Blaze2295 2 months ago
@Blaze2295 Yeah, he's the fag when you have "blaze" as your username. How gayer can you get? And this is coming from a gay guy.
jaaastin 2 months ago
I hope you have a brilliant Christmas/holiday. I've only just found your channel but can tell already that we have alot in common as far as our views go etc. And I hope you find somebody special who is more compatible with you soon :]
HurtMeSoul108 2 months ago
It took over a dozen short-term relationships before I found my Marques (who surprisingly looks like he could be your brother). Don't sell the short-term relationships short. You probably learned a ton of great life lessons, from both the good and the bad times, and it will make you a stronger person and will help you gain even more capacity to love whomever the next lucky man is who will some into your life!
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@strongbad635 Well said :]
HurtMeSoul108 2 months ago
I love you. <3
CindySprinkles 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
aww... I would say it gets better, but that's being used. It does get better though. take care man.
fjenkins1 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Nicely put. I agree with your thought on letting lesser people determine what you post. Im still working on that though.
MicroCrazyMickeyBuni 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
heartfelt disclousure....then GIVEAWAY LOL i told you you are random. i think a lot of people covered most of the things i could say but always remember "keep it cute and keep it moving" your obviously very adorable so now you just need to keep moving forward. If this video helped you get support and affirmation that you'll be okay from your viewers then it was worth making. I've always appreciated that you show just enough vunerability but hold onto dignity and respect for yourself.
MrGuylaugher 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Sup D! Big Hug to you. Life can suck sometimes, but it can turn on a dime. Keep your focus on you. In time things will fall into place. Regardless of way you are feeling now, remember you are loved.
aajunior 2 months ago
I want to discuss more details with you but time is precious. So I'll just add that POLYGAMY is not condemned in the Bible. It isn't. I believe you can be intensely attracted to more than one person for different reasons. I'm just throwing that out there. That one "love" doesn't always replace someone else. I have a concept of whom I'm "romantically" involved with, and I am faithful to that person though. I'm a "physical monogamist" but an "emotional polygamist," I guess. HUGS
TheExtremeBiblicist 2 months ago
Thanks for sharing this. The BUMPS are out there. But this happens to the best of us, including me (oops, am I an elitest too?) II've broken up with someone whom I still truly love and enjoy socially. He doesn't realize I don't feel "married" to him and have moved on (meaning I have guiltless romances and sex with others--I feel free from him). So great UR still friends. That's possible.U don't have to be "married" to everyone you love. That's all I have for you other than lots of HUGS!
TheExtremeBiblicist 2 months ago
I came out at 22, and did not meet Ted till I was 30.
Early relationships are foundational in nature, usually, not long-term.
You're doing fine, and will be through this several times before 'the one' arrives. It's not a bad thing, it's a growing thing. Each time you shed a relationship, you get closer to your core. It may seem hokey, but it seems true to me.
Anyway, that's my take on it.
With thanks
Michael, from...
REDchairDIARIES 2 months ago
I'm so sorry, Man. Ready for another platitude: Keep your head up 8‹D
Peace, E-
Elaina43 2 months ago
By the bye, you sound pretty darn healthy to me... you can see the big picture and I'm glad you two are still friends.
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Hmm a mix CD, that would be really cool.
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Hmm a mix CD, that would be really cool.
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Hmm a mix CD, that would be really cool.
ShawnNotFiction 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Darien i love u hooker!
tabby1292 2 months ago
You WILL be OK....and in 6 months time...you will have a way different opinion of this tough experience. Inevitable!
fenackerpan 3 months ago
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You just got DUMPED by your boyfriend neh neh neeh neh NEEH neh!!!!!
... I don't know about the rest of you guys but I, for one, am going to go watch something more decent and straight.
AcAwSk8Vids 3 months ago
after all the crying after all the heartache , after relationships end on good terms and some on bad terms and all the drama that comes after a break up its going to feel HORRIBLE! its gonna suck and it might take a while to get back on your feet but when you do and you find that one person where you know you are going to spend the rest of your life with all the bad things that happend before will all be worth it.
OMGlarry88 3 months ago
no lie you have a very beautiful smile and extremely kind eyes :) just thought id let you know the obvious
Demoniaque127 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I'LL be your boyfriend. :) Cheer up, okay?
CheDevonSealy 3 months ago
You're too young to be tying yourself up in a serious relationship anyway, be young have fun, theres plenty of time in the future for serious relationships.
SupraWes 3 months ago
I just want to give you a big hug! Had to stop the vid half way through as I hate seeing you upset. You're a great guy and you will find the one for you eventually!
1988cl 3 months ago
Who'd in his sane mind break up with those eyes/voice/brain??? This ain't bigger than Darien though, smile boy!
AngelTeranMusic 3 months ago
Whoa. We're going through the same thing, and you vocalized everything I've been thinking and saying for the past few days. I just want you to know that I understand 100% where you're coming from. And you're so brave for this vlog, I commend you on that. You have beautiful speech, obviously a strong mind and strong will (so important), plus you're so handsome. Boys like our firsts will regret losing us and not trying as hard in due time, I swear. You'll make it through just fine. 3
WonderVigilante 3 months ago
Hay bb, I know how it is, and don't worry, this too shall pass. Try not to dwell on it and move on with your life. But give yourself enough time to listen to evil breakup songs in your downtime.
octopustheater 3 months ago
Humpf! The dern fool doesn't know how special you are! He'll be sorry one day, you mark my words!
CatotheCensor1 3 months ago
Darien, I am so sorry to hear of your misfortune. I understand how you feel and I want you to know that I respect and admire you for being so open and honest about your relationship. I admire the fact that you were never in denial over the realization that something just wasn't right. I hope you do find the right person someday, but for now, I would recommend taking this time to think about what you really want in a boyfriend and just enjoy being yourself!
Best wishes,
EARL
EARL131141 3 months ago
You are still young. You will find your soul mate. Give it a bit of time. You need to be sure that you and a future partner are on the same wavelength. Having a relationship is some work on both partners, but it should not be that difficult because you both should want the same result. My partner and I have been together 28 years and it can be done. Take your time and be careful.
Best, Scott
trvlcat 3 months ago
Hi, I completely know where you're coming from. My ex and I broke up and got back together a few times. In my opinion, now, I don't think you should get back together with an ex. But that may just be me. I hope you feel better. There is someone out there for you, I know that. As much as it may hurt now, this too shall pass. Hope you're feeling better. Chin up, handsome :)
4peaceluver4 3 months ago
hey Darien---I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. It's always hard to end a relationship for someone you loved so much. You are fortunate to experience such love at such an early age. I didn't get that chance until I was several years older than you. This won't be the last time you go through this -but you'll learn a little more about yourself and what you really want. Take heart at least you are still friends--most don't get that chance--MJ
VAMJJ 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Thanks for sharing a bit of you with the world. Remember that you live it, you learn it, you earn it (it's all about getting credentialed in life).
Best wishes,
Bobby
thatsgay83 3 months ago
Thank you. Thank you for being so open, transparent and expressive. Thank you for sharing such a personal and painful part of your life. I'm so glad that you did. You don't realize how many people you helped in 6:31 time, including me. You are a beautiful and amazing man inside and out. There is some hurt now, but it will only hurt for a little while. You will connect with that special one, one day. You are awesome bro and a hero to me!
carlp718 3 months ago
I spent a good two mins thinking of advice to give, but i have none, plus you seem to have it all together. I can empathize and wish u the best. Soooo ... all the best. :-)
geboren1990 3 months ago
I love the eloquent way you described your feelings. It's hard to deal with the end of a relationship, but there is always the future to look forward too.
MacEsai 3 months ago
Aw... Hope you feel better.
koolj1994 3 months ago
Ugh, these things are never easy. Once a wise person told me, "A relationship is between two people, a marriage/partnership is between two friends, that have sex and that want to work toward a common goal: to build something, to journey in life together." I didn't really understand how to find the person who would want to journey with me, at all costs, with faith, through the fire. BUT it does happen as long as you set your intention to find it. <3 universebilly
BIGBALLSSEESALL 3 months ago
And on that note, don`t know bout the rest of you all but I for one, am going to go watch someone more straight.
AcAwSk8Vids 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@AcAwSk8Vids hey bitch your mom called she said to stop trollen
usernmes 3 months ago
YOU BROKE UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND NEH NEH NEH NEH **NEEHH** NEH :D
AcAwSk8Vids 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Yo dude, hang in there! It sucks, but it's one of life's many experiences. Now you join the ranks who understand Tennyson's famous quote, " 'Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." It'll take some time to recover. There will be places, songs and stuff that bring flashbacks, but those will eventually only be connected to good memories of fun times.(cont)...
reydelaisla 3 months ago
...Consider using this as an opportunity to broaden your social circle, putting some distance between you and him for a while. Anyway, you'll make it through this, toughened up a bit for the future to boot. Go back and look at your pre-boyfriend videos and see how that man has matured in the span of just the last year. I'd say he's growing up just fine. :) Good luck, Darien, and have a great winter break.
reydelaisla 3 months ago
I wish you the best with your love life ~ Thanks, for sharing your
Story with us! -gary <3 Thumbs Up!
gwall121 3 months ago
Clean breaks are best. The fact that you're in the same circle, and you plan on meeting and talking frequently, is worrying. Separation once you've been close is hard, it doesn't feel right, but drawing it out makes the process worse and wastes time.
It is normal in relationships for one person to care and invest more than the other. Not only is it normal, it always happens. Two people never feel exactly the same. Eventually you reach an equilibrium where both accept the situation as it is.
livinginlux 3 months ago
Wow, that took a lot of courage to post it online. You're awesome for sharing it! Kinda inspires me to open up, if only just a little. :)
sausillio 3 months ago
I am not sure that keeping the friend option open is the best thing for you.
Of course when you see him say hi, but to say much more, I don't know.
I think of this old song... I gonna wash that man right outta my hair.
freitasex 3 months ago
You're a very eligible bachelor, don't let this breakup change your path.
regemo 3 months ago
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I know how you feel. I have an awkward relationship with a friend over two years and it goes back and forth. I think I'm about to give up because I want someone who wants to make compromises and not just a one sided deal. We are great friends too and sometimes I don't know if I want to continue with him or not cuz he is a great guy. You're not alone dude! Its tough being with someone...
hiddenshadowa1 3 months ago
Im sorry your having such a rough time i hope it all gets alot better for you also for the record I think you have been taking this all very well.
amiapunk88 3 months ago
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hiddenshadowa1 3 months ago
As hard as it mayright now for u...now u have an opportunity to find another guy...one who's much more attractive and who hopefully is more in sync with what ur looking for n a man...and once u find ur new hottie...you'll forget all about ur ex!!! I know i did....LMFAO :)
MotionMediaVideos 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Hope you feel better!
ribchwi 3 months ago
<3 sorry I know how hard this is
ororo8585 3 months ago
I'll be waiting for my gift basket of that mixed cd, assorted treats (cookies) and a left-handed leather glove.
:p
Leadman1989 3 months ago
I'm sorry you're so down. Things will get better with time. I know that's cliche, but most of the time it's true.
And of course when you offer to send free shit to people, everyone leaves a GD comment...
Pick me, by the way.
DaddyWombat 3 months ago
It is really hard for young guys to maintain a relationship. Wait 20 years and it will be just fine.
capcentre 3 months ago
Aww. I'm Sorry.
ribchwi 3 months ago
:*--(
JCJasion 3 months ago
What?!
At least a controlled breakup is better than a chaotic break down.
colmonhs 3 months ago
Much Love and I just sent you a pm on here as well ...Travis
XlaviathanX 3 months ago
some advice: Try to focus on the good times in the relationship, be grateful for any love in your life for any amount of time. smile in the knowledge that you have learned something from the experience, better prepared for the next time.
1 LIFE
sleekcartim 3 months ago
: ( Im sorry to hear this, i think time can be the best medicine!
CuddleBunE 3 months ago
oooooh... You have great taste in music. I WANT A MIX CD! lol
gogoyoru 3 months ago
*hugs your face*
gogoyoru 3 months ago
With my current relationship, we broke up twice in the first year, got back together, and have been together since. Yet I'm one of those people who seem to always still have doubts. I wish I could feel certainty about things, but I don't.
When breaking up, it may make perfect sense logically, but emotions don't always pay heed to logic. Hang in there. It's tough but you can get through it, and be able to meet more wonderful people to share your life with.
Darkoshi 3 months ago
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."....I give you a cyber hug for every tear you shed.
iktlwmaw 3 months ago
Sorry about that ,u look like just got stabbed in the heart for a second time. Maybe you should give yourself some time from being around that person . u need time to heal. u seem like a mature , sensitve and passionate person. Do'nt change who u are because of someone else, hold your head up. and keep reaching for love, Peace and Happiness to u always.
carmelious111 3 months ago
Thank you for choosing to share this hard moment with us. Just know that we've all been where you are at some point and we are here for you <3
dustinthewind2u 3 months ago
send me something, i think i deserve it.... <3
BarrettTV 3 months ago
Sometimes it's not a good idea to still be friends. Sometimes.
Good luck.
TruthSerum101 3 months ago
I appreciate that you actually share stuff with us. Makes me feel like my opinion matters, and hopefully it helps? There isn't anything any one of us can say to fix how you feel. It really is a self-healing process. Some people, and I'll be honest, never get over it. The key to avoiding that peril is to not become self-destructive, and keep moving. Keep busy, keep dating (in a classy way, not slutty, which could demean yourself) and allow yourself time to grieve about it. Also stay social.
XforeverlongingX 3 months ago
Hope you are ok....hook up with Shawn...you are a cute couple!!
LEEP1948 3 months ago
It sucks things did not work out for you man, break-ups are the worst but I'm going to tell you like I tell my best-friend in times of need just stay strong man. You have a bright future ahead of you. And As cliche' as it sounds there are plenty more fish in the sea. So just stay strong.
Dooman16 3 months ago
Hang in there, youngster. Believe me when I tell you, there will be more. I would not doubt that if there is a line (that you haven't noticed) of guys waiting for a chance with you. Your an attractive, sexy, cute and intelligent young man/soul. If I notice I know others have.
mancheeks64 3 months ago
Smart decision to make a vlog to vent this stuff. Breakups are hard, but you get by them. Keep up the good attitude.
Aoanoxi 3 months ago
I am sorry for your loss, which it is, mourn it in the way you feel is appropriate and do what is right for you. :) Thanks for sharing your feelings with us.
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I'm really sorry that things didn't work out man - but at least it was on more mutual terms this time [always the best]. Some people are just better as friends I think [which may, or may not be where you two are meant to be]. And I think that time alone for awhile [is] a great healer.
Just focus on College, your friends and family [as rigid and plain as that might sound] for now. And just don't seek another relationship, let it come to you.
Chosenoneknuckles 3 months ago
@Chosenoneknuckles Keep busy [as my mum has told both me and my sis of late]! And take care. :)
Chosenoneknuckles 3 months ago
what a mess ..
NIstrumone 3 months ago
your whining and depression and constant sad stories would cause anyone to break with you….your doom and gloom gets boring….everyday..every vlog the same ole crap….man up and get it together….the pity party is over …darn !!!
NIstrumone 3 months ago
@NIstrumone These are human feelings, and are inescapable given certain circumstances. Some people are incapable of having these emotions. The first group we call the psychopathic, the second the sociopathic. Both can get treatment, I suggest you do that.
XforeverlongingX 3 months ago
Darien, always know, dear, that there will be times when you're gonna feel like you don't know what to do (in my opinion, that feeling is written on your face). Always know that we've (or at least I) got your back, and that we will be your shoulder to cry on, figuratively or literally.
For now, just take your time. Spend a little time alone (where relationships are concerned) to help heal yourself. Go somewhere natural and scenic and take it all in. It should help you gain an inner happy place.
1AlexWagner 3 months ago
Aww this is terrible news, I remember when you first said you had met him and I was sooo happy for you because it was at a time when everything was starting to go great for you, and I was getting hope that things would get good for me too. Sometimes relationships don't work out and you seperate and some times you spend time apart and that helps you get back together! I really hope you feel better soon it was horrible to see you like this. If you need to talk, you can msg me any time :)
Asherz1 3 months ago
....i am so sorry mate, pls. remain strong and confident :)!
PushkinX 3 months ago
Xy, I can't say that I know how you feel because these things all effect us differently but I can say that I know the pain of breaking up with someone you care about. I don't have any inspiring words for you because I know that you already know that it'll get easier with time. That being said, I hope that the hurt ends soon and I can wait to see you smile again.
Confucius0ne 3 months ago
How brave of you to do something like this, I know I couldn't do it. Bravo to you.
CoRLeJr01001 3 months ago
hope you are okay it sucks to be in love and sucks to be hurt because of love and you will survivor
pharmguy1981 3 months ago
You are a strong individual!
I commend you on bouncing back so quickly and not allowing yourself to be so consumed by a failed relationship. I am glad you just didnt settle with someone just because you didnt want to be alone (most people do that, sadly ). I am happy that realized that you deserve more and deserve a person who recognizes all of the effort you put in to make a relationship work. You will find somebody who will meet you half way, trust me. Hang in there.
isiah58 3 months ago