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Man, Luke Skywalker is badass. He's a winer- but this is no comparison. This is youtube buddy, not fagtube shut your wang hole and grow a pair of nuts. Life isn't that confusing.
damn dude, you're wise when you're stoned. here's the thing, though. while i definitely feel all those concepts you talk about, zen and everything... you gotta keep in mind the fact that you ARE an animal! you've evolved with the biological impulse to mate! denying this is physiologically and psychologically unhealthy, no matter what the buddha says. i fit sex into buddhism. it's not hard. i recognize my nature. i am a male human. i am designed to "f*ck this girl." that's it.
omg i really dont care!!uhh someone actually thought he was hot??lol. i hate ppl like this who think they know so much but they really have no idea what they're talking about.
You are missing my point by searching for a loop hole.
All but a few women stop as baby starts to get teeth.
The one-in-a-million weirdo who continues to 4 or 5 isn't what I was talking about, and shouldn't be used to set any example for anyone because it's abnormal.
Please think outside of box of sexualizing the boobie. The sexualization is happening in YOUR mind.
cradamik2, if you don't know the history between me and DonSvenne, don't stick your nose in it. I have good grounds for calling him a retard. Besides, I'm not in this to drive some politically correct discussion.
you aren't opening anything. this person took what we said wrong. see my reply to your 1st comment on this. aggression/violence is way separate from sex. polarized is reading into things. later-jen
I meant I opened a can of issues with P0larized. Clearly the person has a few. It's all good - I just read his/her profile comments and see he/she has a pattern of not understanding what others are saying.
Wow, what a strange, strange concept. I've never heard of such nonsense nor do I know any women or men that would stand by your obvervations. I'm curious, where does your skin in Psychology come from?
You didn't say violence and agression are the same, you said violence and sex are the same. If you really believe that, I suggest you go talk it out with a professional.
As a woman who just turned 40 I have to tell ya, I have never seen so much attention from younger men. I had no idea.
One day recently I was out jogging and some 20something year old guys drove by in a truck yelling "MILF" .... I had to come home and google 'milf' because I really didn't know what it meant. Maybe those young guys are smart enough to figure out experience trumps youth.
Good Lawd!!! Shock factor? I promise breast feeding women of the world are not feeding their hungry babies wondering what people think about it. That's all in your mind. Maybe you are still sexualizing the boobie... lol.
Yes, of course breastfeeding 4 and 5 year old children is weird. That's why I used the term 'baby'.
Wow, that's strong. Last time I checked I was not the antichrist. I was just sayin to Ian that he CAN lighten up sometimes. Laughter is healthy. Lack of it...not so much.
Anyone, man or woman, who views sex and violence as one and the same needs to either grow up or get some professional help. Shallow women with not much to offer mentally or intellectually find boxers and UFC sexy. They also love Pabst Blue Ribbon on a Friday night playing pool, and consider that a great date.
i agree with your thought about sex/violence (tho i think he referred to it as aggression so not sure that's the same.) i don't find boxers/ufc sexy & i don't drink pbr but do like bud light & i think a night w/beer/pool playing is a good date. better than a movie & dinner. movie=2hrs of no talk and dinner after=2hrs about the movie you just saw. you get to find out more about the other person i think if you're drinkin beer & playin pool. interaction is everything. later-jen
What I meant by it being a good date, is women who find equate sex with violence and think boxers and UFC fighters sexy also think lousy beer and a game of pool at a dive bar is high class date.
and hey dont you think that knowing you could 'fuck that girl', and knowing that feeling exists between you, and NOT acting on it, is better than fucking? It is, its just hard to beleive it i guess..
yeah he got that wrong but he was just trying to talk about 'releasing' things. but you're right, buddha's always laughing because hes constantly releasing.
What's with the brown suit jacket and brightly coloured 80's shirt? Have you been watching too many Daxflame vids? Or is this the new fashion in the US?
why is people, working class people talking like they know shit, get a fuckin education on the subject in hand, this is why your americans is fucking lame outside you world=P
There's an interesting little technique you can try help maintain eye contact with someone more comfortably. Choose one eye of the other person try focusing your attention on just that eye.
as a very hot guy who sometimes talks too much, some of which is talking too much crap, i have some news for you. when a girl like that interrupts you and stops you from talking by saying you're so hot or you're sexy, what they're really saying is please shut the fuck up, i don't care about your dopey thoughts, i'm just horny and want to screw. it's sad but true. they just want us for our bodies sometimes, dude. not our minds. frowny face.
If you're (you=generally speaking) enlightened to the point where you "think" you understand everything, and you can't even laugh anymore.. then that's not enlightenment. We will never know EVERYTHING no matter how enlightened we get. And if that were to happen and I can't laugh anything anymore, then I'd rather be ignorant. {You know how they say ignorance is bliss} Laughter is one of the many joys of life.
It's funny: I found that last story to be incredibly sad for some reason. I could feel myself tearing up- not sure what the hell could be sad about this video but there you go.
there were some good ideas about not laughing at things, because you clearly understand them, but the thing which you call steam is actually posive and negative steam do not make love and hate the same because its opposite.
In this country we tend to sexualize everything, including touch. A good example of this is how uptight some people get about the female breast. It's been so sexualized that it's biological function is looked down upon, as nursing mothers are made to feel breastfeeding is wrong and should be hidden. Women have ended up in court for feeding their hungry baby on an airplane. While in many countries the female breast is looked upon like an elbow. We should wake up to this stuff more.
"When your enlightened nothing is funny.." If that's true I don't ever want to become enlightened. I think there is a time to be serious and a time not to take things so seriously. It's part of the balance.
Gender role models are changing: now the girl is the one who pretends to give a damn about any dimension more than the third just trying to get laid with the guy. I want my time machine back...
i see whatyoure saying. on what level is sex/eating/sleeping etc.? on the level of a dog. its nice to be human and look beyond that and understand it. to be creative productive . however not many like to be human when they can get away with being a dog.
I have an idea for an Ian video. Start to laugh sometimes. Nothing big, you can start with little giggles here and there, and work your way up to a big belly laugh. That may take some time and practice. Anyway, every time you laugh, get it on video. Then post all the clips, all in one video, of just you laughing. It might make you seem more real. Just an idea.
the fact that people let out steam is good. It means they are passionate about life. Laughter is probably the best way as laughing is good for your body and mind.
Perhaps if you made sex about giving and not about taking you might better understand how to enhance the connection with the girl across the room who was intense and afraid. If sex is about aggression, then that is what you have inside you, let's talk about that. I know this because it is a dark cancer that also inhabits me from time to time.
Wow, great. This resonates with what i've been experiencing recently. Thinking about sexuality in a different perspective. Turn your fear into confidence. That's what I need.
While you are "giving" are you getting/taking anything out of it? If not then why bother doing it? In not suggesting that sex is "taking" in the extreme way that Ian used it... what I am saying is that its also not just about "giving" either. People who do charitable work do it because it makes them feel good about themselves ie. they get something out of it. If it made them feel terrible they wouldn't do it.
Yea man, I've heard that before about the key. He who says he knows, knows nothing. And he who says nothing knows everything.
I think it's all connected to the ego - so if someone feels the need to boast about their spiritual knowledge, then they're not completely spiritual. Enlightenment is above base-level communication.
"The fool thinks himself to be wise, while the wise man knows himself to be a fool." It's a perpetual circle, a mind trap I suppose, similar to that having the key is knowing that the is no key.
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very interesting stuff
temsa026 2 years ago
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Man, Luke Skywalker is badass. He's a winer- but this is no comparison. This is youtube buddy, not fagtube shut your wang hole and grow a pair of nuts. Life isn't that confusing.
MicroCorp 4 years ago
lol luke skywalker :D
perverator 4 years ago
i actually found that really interesting.
zzBird 4 years ago
HA - HAAA IAN GETTIN SOME action, tryin to use his you tube popularity LOl. " you're so hot" "i thought, I could fuck this girl..NOW" LOL yo
ssips720 4 years ago
I can be extremely aggressive...
wvlngth36 4 years ago
damn dude, you're wise when you're stoned. here's the thing, though. while i definitely feel all those concepts you talk about, zen and everything... you gotta keep in mind the fact that you ARE an animal! you've evolved with the biological impulse to mate! denying this is physiologically and psychologically unhealthy, no matter what the buddha says. i fit sex into buddhism. it's not hard. i recognize my nature. i am a male human. i am designed to "f*ck this girl." that's it.
kevinellerton 4 years ago
omg i really dont care!!uhh someone actually thought he was hot??lol. i hate ppl like this who think they know so much but they really have no idea what they're talking about.
littlemissmoi 4 years ago
Something about steam, machines, and not laughing. What the fuck.
depletable 4 years ago
I'm all out of Marmite. Ian, tell me, how do I go about manifesting some more out of the fifth dimension?
spacebungle 4 years ago
You are missing my point by searching for a loop hole.
All but a few women stop as baby starts to get teeth.
The one-in-a-million weirdo who continues to 4 or 5 isn't what I was talking about, and shouldn't be used to set any example for anyone because it's abnormal.
Please think outside of box of sexualizing the boobie. The sexualization is happening in YOUR mind.
saba66 5 years ago
cradamik2, if you don't know the history between me and DonSvenne, don't stick your nose in it. I have good grounds for calling him a retard. Besides, I'm not in this to drive some politically correct discussion.
thedakkster 5 years ago
Eeeks. Sorry I opened the can of issues here. Take care and get well.
Michelle5451 5 years ago
you aren't opening anything. this person took what we said wrong. see my reply to your 1st comment on this. aggression/violence is way separate from sex. polarized is reading into things. later-jen
jmjchief 5 years ago
I meant I opened a can of issues with P0larized. Clearly the person has a few. It's all good - I just read his/her profile comments and see he/she has a pattern of not understanding what others are saying.
Michelle5451 5 years ago
Wow, what a strange, strange concept. I've never heard of such nonsense nor do I know any women or men that would stand by your obvervations. I'm curious, where does your skin in Psychology come from?
Michelle5451 5 years ago
You didn't say violence and agression are the same, you said violence and sex are the same. If you really believe that, I suggest you go talk it out with a professional.
Michelle5451 5 years ago
As a woman who just turned 40 I have to tell ya, I have never seen so much attention from younger men. I had no idea.
One day recently I was out jogging and some 20something year old guys drove by in a truck yelling "MILF" .... I had to come home and google 'milf' because I really didn't know what it meant. Maybe those young guys are smart enough to figure out experience trumps youth.
saba66 5 years ago
Good Lawd!!! Shock factor? I promise breast feeding women of the world are not feeding their hungry babies wondering what people think about it. That's all in your mind. Maybe you are still sexualizing the boobie... lol.
Yes, of course breastfeeding 4 and 5 year old children is weird. That's why I used the term 'baby'.
saba66 5 years ago
Wow, that's strong. Last time I checked I was not the antichrist. I was just sayin to Ian that he CAN lighten up sometimes. Laughter is healthy. Lack of it...not so much.
moxiethedog 5 years ago
I don't think it's so much 'Look at me', as it is a hungry baby saying 'feed me'.
saba66 5 years ago
and who are you?
dannyd318 5 years ago
Anyone, man or woman, who views sex and violence as one and the same needs to either grow up or get some professional help. Shallow women with not much to offer mentally or intellectually find boxers and UFC sexy. They also love Pabst Blue Ribbon on a Friday night playing pool, and consider that a great date.
Michelle5451 5 years ago
i agree with your thought about sex/violence (tho i think he referred to it as aggression so not sure that's the same.) i don't find boxers/ufc sexy & i don't drink pbr but do like bud light & i think a night w/beer/pool playing is a good date. better than a movie & dinner. movie=2hrs of no talk and dinner after=2hrs about the movie you just saw. you get to find out more about the other person i think if you're drinkin beer & playin pool. interaction is everything. later-jen
jmjchief 5 years ago
What I meant by it being a good date, is women who find equate sex with violence and think boxers and UFC fighters sexy also think lousy beer and a game of pool at a dive bar is high class date.
Michelle5451 5 years ago
you seem to be a very artsy and deep very deep
cattom124 5 years ago
and hey dont you think that knowing you could 'fuck that girl', and knowing that feeling exists between you, and NOT acting on it, is better than fucking? It is, its just hard to beleive it i guess..
dannyd318 5 years ago
or you make your 'body' so that its always letting out steam as soon as its making it, so theres no build up, its just constantly expressing.
And I think sex pushes the steam in rather than letting it out, but gives the huge illusions of letting it out.
dannyd318 5 years ago
you got it wrong-- when you're enlightened, everything's funny, because you understand everything. haven't you ever seen images of the buddha?
justwatching1980 5 years ago
yeah he got that wrong but he was just trying to talk about 'releasing' things. but you're right, buddha's always laughing because hes constantly releasing.
dannyd318 5 years ago
What's with the brown suit jacket and brightly coloured 80's shirt? Have you been watching too many Daxflame vids? Or is this the new fashion in the US?
lautest 5 years ago
I'm DONE! Ba Bye!
UtahRadioGuy 5 years ago
Great story Ian. I loved how you tied it in to your earlier memory of holding hands with that girl.
wonderist 5 years ago
PUFF PUFF BRO..
InsultAlien 5 years ago
Puff Puff PASS.... don't forget to pass
saba66 5 years ago
why is people, working class people talking like they know shit, get a fuckin education on the subject in hand, this is why your americans is fucking lame outside you world=P
DonSvenneProduction 5 years ago
Oooooh and this is coming from the right retard. You claim you know shit just because you've gone to high school. Shut the fuck up, tard.
thedakkster 5 years ago
Education? You can't seem to manage English.. is it your first language?
saba66 5 years ago
He's swedish and his piss poor English skills make me, as a fellow Swede, feel ashamed.
thedakkster 5 years ago
"the key is that you have to know you have no key"...ROFL wtf is that?
GrandHero 5 years ago
think about it.
dannyd318 5 years ago
DO I have the key? yes I have the key, but the map to the locked door is wrong!... (this was communicated to me in a dream quite some time ago.)
wgeorgew 5 years ago
You are welcome to look at my map if it helps
IanCrossland 5 years ago
There's an interesting little technique you can try help maintain eye contact with someone more comfortably. Choose one eye of the other person try focusing your attention on just that eye.
Peter
urbanimage 5 years ago
lol
thedakkster 5 years ago
as a very hot guy who sometimes talks too much, some of which is talking too much crap, i have some news for you. when a girl like that interrupts you and stops you from talking by saying you're so hot or you're sexy, what they're really saying is please shut the fuck up, i don't care about your dopey thoughts, i'm just horny and want to screw. it's sad but true. they just want us for our bodies sometimes, dude. not our minds. frowny face.
tdejmcd 5 years ago
If you're (you=generally speaking) enlightened to the point where you "think" you understand everything, and you can't even laugh anymore.. then that's not enlightenment. We will never know EVERYTHING no matter how enlightened we get. And if that were to happen and I can't laugh anything anymore, then I'd rather be ignorant. {You know how they say ignorance is bliss} Laughter is one of the many joys of life.
Shana80 5 years ago
It's funny: I found that last story to be incredibly sad for some reason. I could feel myself tearing up- not sure what the hell could be sad about this video but there you go.
donald347 5 years ago
Making love is "violent aggression"? You have issues. Ummm....I mean, you have the whole damn subscrption!
stupidvidiot 5 years ago
You need to talk more about Obama, Ian. Like, tell us five campaign points of his that you support.
thedakkster 5 years ago
Thomas, he's already let us know he's been following Obama's career for years and years. Isn't that enough? Bwahahaha.
Michelle5451 5 years ago
To declare oneself enlightened seems to me to be the ultimate act of arrogance.
Sandguy99 5 years ago
you really dont know what enlightenment means then.
simonodell 5 years ago
yes...i think your starting to see what i meant when i said sexuality is a distraction in our evolution of the mind.
Menacexp 5 years ago
funky hat
philofelinist 5 years ago
there were some good ideas about not laughing at things, because you clearly understand them, but the thing which you call steam is actually posive and negative steam do not make love and hate the same because its opposite.
juliusdance 5 years ago
Who was the other group he was with?... the Democrats?
pokerpussey 5 years ago
Dude there are only 2 fucking dimensions.
Women and men.
w0rldpeace 5 years ago
understanding..
sgtjalinko 5 years ago
In this country we tend to sexualize everything, including touch. A good example of this is how uptight some people get about the female breast. It's been so sexualized that it's biological function is looked down upon, as nursing mothers are made to feel breastfeeding is wrong and should be hidden. Women have ended up in court for feeding their hungry baby on an airplane. While in many countries the female breast is looked upon like an elbow. We should wake up to this stuff more.
saba66 5 years ago
God bless pads... ;)
1650million 5 years ago
"When your enlightened nothing is funny.." If that's true I don't ever want to become enlightened. I think there is a time to be serious and a time not to take things so seriously. It's part of the balance.
xDrLx 5 years ago
both men and women have both testosterone and -- shit, whatever chick hormone there is.
superasente 5 years ago
Estrogen and Progesterone (a steroid hormone)
Michelle5451 5 years ago
Whats up with that hat Ian?
katiesopinion 5 years ago
Gender role models are changing: now the girl is the one who pretends to give a damn about any dimension more than the third just trying to get laid with the guy. I want my time machine back...
1650million 5 years ago
HIGH TIMES!!!
thedakkster 5 years ago
Oh noes not again!
Michelle5451 5 years ago
i see whatyoure saying. on what level is sex/eating/sleeping etc.? on the level of a dog. its nice to be human and look beyond that and understand it. to be creative productive . however not many like to be human when they can get away with being a dog.
WSomerset 5 years ago
I have an idea for an Ian video. Start to laugh sometimes. Nothing big, you can start with little giggles here and there, and work your way up to a big belly laugh. That may take some time and practice. Anyway, every time you laugh, get it on video. Then post all the clips, all in one video, of just you laughing. It might make you seem more real. Just an idea.
moxiethedog 5 years ago
the fact that people let out steam is good. It means they are passionate about life. Laughter is probably the best way as laughing is good for your body and mind.
minuchan69 5 years ago
Perhaps if you made sex about giving and not about taking you might better understand how to enhance the connection with the girl across the room who was intense and afraid. If sex is about aggression, then that is what you have inside you, let's talk about that. I know this because it is a dark cancer that also inhabits me from time to time.
numsii 5 years ago
Wow, great. This resonates with what i've been experiencing recently. Thinking about sexuality in a different perspective. Turn your fear into confidence. That's what I need.
wonderist 5 years ago
While you are "giving" are you getting/taking anything out of it? If not then why bother doing it? In not suggesting that sex is "taking" in the extreme way that Ian used it... what I am saying is that its also not just about "giving" either. People who do charitable work do it because it makes them feel good about themselves ie. they get something out of it. If it made them feel terrible they wouldn't do it.
lautest 5 years ago
now that's scratching the surface... open the altruism debate up :)
numsii 5 years ago
ah, joy. =)
voideyez 5 years ago
release your spiritual energy my friend :-)
jcr12976 5 years ago
In case you don't wanna watch the whole video, I've done a transscript: "This girl said I was hot, and I was too afraid to have sex with her".
doofey731 5 years ago
If you don't have steam, can you still be passionate about life? Do you think it's good to be passionate in your life?
sdafergu 5 years ago
Yea man, I've heard that before about the key. He who says he knows, knows nothing. And he who says nothing knows everything.
I think it's all connected to the ego - so if someone feels the need to boast about their spiritual knowledge, then they're not completely spiritual. Enlightenment is above base-level communication.
Really interesting video! I liked it!
BenLoka 5 years ago
talking is "letting out steam from the machine" too.
in fact everything is.
coaxx 5 years ago
Interesting
IanCrossland 5 years ago
"The fool thinks himself to be wise, while the wise man knows himself to be a fool." It's a perpetual circle, a mind trap I suppose, similar to that having the key is knowing that the is no key.
Gaugaukkistonnian 5 years ago
your funny
stefaniVintage 5 years ago
why wouldent you want to bang her? you dont have a gf...you should elaborate more on this
matt357 5 years ago
Hey man does this tactic help you get laid? I'm considering trying it out but I'm to afraid that chicks will see right through it... let me knwo.
ArchieAA 5 years ago
She thought you were hot from the get go which is why she wanted to smoke weed with you. Sexuality didnt "become" a distraction.
ReallyTallShortGuy 5 years ago