20 Relationships End Come And Go, Letting Go of Relationship

[DavinaFaerie]

Thanks so much for uploading such awesome vids... You're wonderful... :0)

[zazazu7U7]

I am trying to help my friend cause he is suicidal, his girlfriend past last year...he seems doesnt want to get better...I feel hopeless...I dont want him to kill himself he is only 27....

[saharski77]

@zazazu7U7 :/

[Fresharoni]

i dont know how to let go i am having some serious difficulties. i was planning to marry this girl and were always off and on with happyness and sadness, idk what too doo anymore. weve been in it for about 2 years now and we dont see eachother much, its a long distance relationship thing and were still teenagers. Its very hard and just gets harder but you cant help who you love and its hard to let go of good things. i am not good at this. :/

[jamomasha1]

Let go and something new will fill the spot before long. Hold on and the spot will remain empty until you allow it to be filled by letting go. Simple yet true.

[ews773]

She's right. Crap isn't worth holding on to. Letting bad things go releases a lot of weight.

[Thereisonlythemoment]

I just love your words - so simple to understand but it's putting them into practice that can be the stumbling block. But it's like most things in this life - Practice makes perfect. We humans are constantly trying to strike the balance between Separation and Attachment, we want to connect with others and feel like we belong and are part of the whole, but we must also learn to love and let go. Holding on can prevent you from evolving and moving forward. Lovely Post

[PrettyTigerlilly]

*hugs* Ty for this.

[ninfidelis]

@Jadedgirl13

Use that empty space to get yourself ready for the next thing to come. Often, we have emotional baggage we carry from relationship to relationship. Take that "empty" time to heal any baggage or hurt feelings from the last relationship/job/circumstance so you can be fully present in the next one. Once you feel you are healed and ready for something new, keep your attention on what you would like to see and it'll see show up.

[Marc1414]

You must have such a nice life, being the teacher of letting go, yourself, you must be always positive and optimistic i'm jealous lol.

[gailypoo12]

Death isnt the end, you say that far too much, just because we die in the physical we will never die in the spiritual,

[polarlarve]

@gailypoo12 Yes, we do.

[ElDoradoakasquiggy]

I LOVE YOU !

[angelsaura1]

What if you feel dead where you are but you don't want to leave because of everyone you will hurt....when you don't want to break someone else heart. When you can't bring yourself to hurt them?

[ninfidelis]

@angelsaura1

Sometimes you have to do what's best for you and realize that, even though the decision to leave someone might look like something they might not be able to handle, it is usually best for both of you. When my ex left me she did it because she couldn't handle the depression she was in. It was excruciating for me to lose her but now, a year later, I'm so glad she left because neither of us were happy. I have a chance to move on and so does she.

[bloobersnackle]

Possession is an Illusion.

[hope1396]

I have been betrayed by my bf, it's been many months and I am just clinging unto his memories. He got married with someone else. I am trying hard to forget him, but something pops out that really turns me down, I want to escape from my past, but I am finding it so hard. Betrayal is really the most painful.

[hope1396]

I have been betrayed by my bf, it's been many months and I am just clinging unto his memories. He got married with someone else, and now he ignores me. I am trying hard to forget him, but something pops out that really turns me down, I want to escape from my past, but I am finding it so hard. Betrayal is really the most painful.

[hope1396]

I have been betrayed by my bf, it's been many months and I am just clinging unto his memories. When I was with him I was unaware of how he was cheating with me every moment, I realized it later, when it was already late. He got married with someone else, and now he ignores me. I am trying hard to forget him, but something pops out that really turns me down, I want to escape from my past, but I am finding it so hard. Betrayal is really the most painful.

[Sweetiepie81]

I love you. You are so inspiring. Thank you so much for enlightening us all <3

[ALLTHESAVED]

But why can't something last the distance? Why can't something just stay?

[gtr362]

Not on the subject of relationships, but jobs, I guess I just give up the idea of a job for a while and be in the place of not knowing for awhile right. Well I don't think my local electric company or my landlord is going to really like that much. They kind of want their money. My relationship of 8 years, she'd kind of like to see a paycheck. Now what, because time is not on my side.

[sonickjuice]

I'm 13 and trying to let go of a 3 year relationship. its not a bf/gf relationship, its just of a good friend that is no longer there. ive tried to help her and she just pushes me away, so the best i could do is let her learn from her mistakes. im trying to distance myself from her. reason why is because her bf is being abusive verbally and sexually. (its a long distance relationship)... since im just letting her learn from her mistakes, am i doing the right thing?

[marin986]

awww tu est tellement reconfortante , merci , je t'aime

[GaleZMe]

"CHANGE" is the only constant in life.

[nice1centurion]

she looks and reminds me of the character pheobe from Friends

[misspickles1983]

is every person on this planet capable of learning this words?

[iranarama]

I disagree with her, with all due respect.

If someone that I love "goes", then one of us has just failed hard.

We cause things to come and go. It's in our hands entirely whether something in our life comes and goes (yes, there are limitations and circumstances, and I can't begin to name them now).

Anyways, I like your videos...their very...hypnotic ;)

[angelheartsolor]

Detachment is in a substance this is how to let go in that sense. There is the belief of detachment it is more of gaining control of your emotions and thoughts. Never holding on to anything at the cost of hurting another in connection with human rights but some have also gave up some right temporaly voluntarly to help another avoid harm like a level of buddhism. Ghandi was also an example and was Jesus. Many civil rights activist also have given up rights to help other avoid harm. RVA akaRLV

[WESSYS]

Letting go does not always has to be terminal, you just let go of something that is not working , you let it die , and then something new will come and maybe it will be with the same person if you both grow from the experience and still want to be together. But while is not working just let it go.

[milliondollarabi]

I think I just fell in love Christine..... * : )

[Matthew2010ad]

Your wonderful!! :D

[slimanime]

If things aren't meant to be what if this person is trying to save the relationship anfd things is going okay?

[dennisgunn]

That is great advice but I am the parent left behind in a parental child abduction, the thing in question is the well being of my child. My ex is not a good person and she is denying my child the love of his father the he enjoyed every day and should still be enjoying right now. The advice is not bad in general it just does not help me.

[davies241]

it helps when you have good looks like you to let go

[carlhughes]

I love your style and you add realism and humour!

[DanBurkhardtmusic]

She is Beautiful, and intelligent. lol.

[booyahz]

don't kill yourself dude

the aliens have a reconditioning program .................and it sucks

[kukurukuru21]

Thank you Christine. Your videos are such an inspiration. When I start to feel anxious, I watch your videos and be reminded.

[shravanrulez]

I was courting this beautiful girl for a while and we were really good friends...and decided to propose...several times... got rejected...:( so I cut off that unkind woman from my life.... I feel that is the right thing to do and now I am happier than ever!

[HoustonTxLiLy]

Like you said it is like a river and then you die...so what is the point of it all if we all have a death sentence on our heads. Annihilation!

[TheAnandaXX]

Just quietly what's with all the purple. Its purple overload on your channel

[BigRoSickFlow]

my bestt friend im in love with her --we have been talking for over a year we talk on the phone every singel nighttt for hrs- and now shes in love with some other guy that i know for sure dosent like her but he pretends he does and when he hurts her im the one she vents to all of the time but i cant take it im constantly depressed because of her loving him and now there good firends after everything she did to her--and i wanna tell her that i cant talk to her anymore because of my love for u

[50better]

Thank you so much, this video really spoke to me xx

[noonesflower]

yeah, but....

that sort of gives an excuse to all men so they can walk over women. it kind of gives a handy excuse to be shallow or falsify love. A womanizing bastard can say , oh well she'll be ok because she's learning detachment.

I think this encourages evildoers. I also think it devalues partnership in general. Plenty of people have gone down life's river in company. why should they be denigrated as 'clingy'? they were just happy together.

[WESSYS]

@noonesflower I understand what you are saying, but letting go does not always has to be terminal, you just let go of something that is not working , you let it die , and then something new will come and maybe it will be with the same person if you both grow from the experience and still want to be together. But while is not working just let it go.

[dolfinish]

Great! Makes so much sense.. Dont chase Butterflies , sit down and relax and watch them land on you :-)

[khuggf]

i like the simplicity

feel it's right on some level

but it misses the emotional turmoil

that can result not from spliting from a partner

but the ongoing consequences of dealing with an ex over childcare etc

If it's simple, it's simple

If it's complicated, it's complicated

emotional stresses take time to settle down

you cant just wish them away

you have to go through them

[HarveyEspatchelowe]

Ahh...The Tao.

[ilovejayceon]

i recently ended a relationship with someone i wanted more from. we dated for a yr i just never felt like he loved me, there was never a chase, deepen passion to be with me. restlessness...feeling bouts of ups & downs it was exhausting. but ive learned a new lesson & i wish him the best.

[michelsev]

what about when your the one to make the choice to leave an unhealthy relationship...what comfort is there...it feels double to be the responsible one...anythoughts?

[besadoinacristina]

yeah, "there will be another relationship for you in the future", but right now it hurts so badly :((

[nautimarsh]

Hi Christine, thanks for posting this advice of letting go... it really helped me a lot... I can now stop texting or emailing the man that magnitized my affection... I know in my heart that he does not care for me in the same level I do for him.. but it was so hard to let him go... thank you ever so much because after watching this vid.. I can now let go...

[SilviaDM]

@nautimarsh yeah? please tell me how because I still can't let go :((

[gmrtrumpet]

So anticipation can be a let down as well. That is focusing on the future in delivering to you what you want. The future doesn't exist. The future may be more heartbreak as well. So one doesn't know so why anticipate. It is true most relationships come and go but why ? why can't two people live and love each other and stay together ? One says love is forever and last forever- obviously not if there is a break up. Isn't love unconditional ? Or what we call love isn't love at all.

[mytints]

you don't fall in love u fall in lust just enjoy the passion tell it becomes compassion cuz true love lies within you don't seek love you become love remember love in one and all things not just a human being but all that sorrounds you and it is forever my love and my blessing to you and to all see what i mean

[juneymax]

Beautiful lady x with gratitude

[xomfgxitsxaquax]

i really wish my ex husband would watch this. i made up my mind a long time ago that the relationship/marriage has filled its purpose, but he's still holding on.

[killuminati63]

brilliant !! thank you christine !

[grimrepr]

I like this one it, its really good for breakups and things like that... letting go.

[LawOfAttractionJesus]

one of the best messages i have ever heard about relationship breakups ever. Clinging is suffering- not easy but so true. I hope any one who is suffering must listen to this video every day - several times a day. We must stop loving the feeling of clinging and start loving the feeling of letting go. Namaste x

[babettola]

you help me so much. thank you. : )

[suzzzzana]

i can't stop holding on :(

[rasinbrandi]

i love her underlying sense of humor.....it helps keep me positive :)

[13lovesong13]

Thanks for the Message:)

[1whitebutterfly]

Yes, relationships have a certain life within themselves, don't they? Some lasting longer than others. The good times were almost too good to be true; and, in a strange way... the bad times don't seem to have been quite so bad. Only Love lasts forever!

[asm120160]

Thank you! its so good to be reminded of the impermanence of everything and it makes it that much easier to let go of the old and the passing.

Love to all

[preciouzpistol]

My boyfriend, then fiance just broke up with me after over 3 years of being together and my heart is has broken into a million peices and I dont see it getting better. I really hope something better (someone better) comes along but I wont be able to ever not compare the "new guy" to the one I lost, no one will compare to him and Im so hurt. Hopefully better things will come like u said, but he was the best thing in my life, what I lived for, I really hope Ill be able to move on but I doubt it :(

[ZackisDead]

Maybe you should get yourself to a point where you don't require the new guy to validate you before you go looking for the replacement.

The fact that you look at 3 years as a long relationship speaks to your inexperience. Nobody likes to be dumped but if he didn't have a valid reason that you need to examine then he just got bored and you don't need to be with anybody who treats you as disposable. You'll be fine.

[FairyWebmother]

I just stumbled on this. It's been 10 months...how are you doing? I just lost a three year relationship, myself, but I already understood the concept of the video, so I'm recovering quickly. I have my moments, though, when I really hit the wall. I just let my feelings flow...and ebb.

[myfavoriteperson]

I love your username.

[affluence8]

Wonderful...

[thesimulacre]

It helps to keep in mind impermanence in order to more fully be here. I have been reminded of this by two deaths and one goodbye in the last year. From your point of view as present and intensely engaging I could see how a casualness would be extremely beneficial, but for those of us who pass up opportunities more often a casual outlook is precisely the problem. "We will have to come see you" becomes chilling when it echoes in your mind as the last thing you told somebody. More than once.

[sephg]

Thank you for making this video. You really do make me smile, because no matter how much I know all of these life philosophies, I can definitely get out of touch with them, and you have a way of tuning me right back in. I appreciate what you do immensely.

[namrengav]

"With open eyes life's a simple dream, ya gotta love your self

Cos you never can see for anybody else!

We're all more than brothers and sisters now, we're a part of we

When I see me in the light I shine on everybody

You're all more than brothers and sisters now, you're a part of me

And I like me and I love me, so you see: I love everybody!"

copyright c eric wagner 2005

[cyndiisway]

So be it.

indeed.

love yourself.

love each other.

thanks for putting it out there!

[GodSaveThePres]

Oh my god I love your videos your so amazing !!

Love * 1ness

Tamid

[halation777]

I'm having a very difficult time with my wife and I being separated. We have a four year old boy also. She was the one to leave and I'm clinging...is there ANYTHING worth struggling for, fighting for? Do you just give up when things don't go well??

I'm really having a hard time with this.

[MetaphysicalSciences]

The path of least resistance is to let go of that which doesn't want to stay. You can stop the river. If it is flowing a different direction, you have to let it. Trust that someone else will come your way, it's not the end... promise!

[rojina2007]

@halation777 hi,i also five months ago had to decide to get out of my 3-year-engagement .and it being my 1st serious break-up really kept me hurting for 3 whole months.you know dear when a relationship does not work we have to be strong and step out.a relationship must help you feel happy ,let you grow ,if it is draining your energy ,then it is no good.it is a process we have no choice but to go through the channal before we can set ourselves free compeletly.the lady in video is SO RIGHT

[Martialsmash]

@halation777 Consider the reason for her leaving and see if there is a way that she can come back...it's a bit late but oh well. How did it turn out? 

[elsteviolee]

@halation777 When they leave, they are doing you a favour - believe me!

[speedallurement]

im also clurious if u can make a video of tips to get chicks....?

[MetaphysicalSciences]

Ha! Ok, it goes on the list of topics that we'll give Christine to talk about, she'll think this is pretty funny, I'll bet she'll do it. One thing she would say though, that I've heard her say, is that you'll want to do your personal spiritual homework while you're alone and become very attractive energetically, and then the chicks will come to you! No neediness, that's repusive. Have lots to give, and chicks will come to get it.

[speedallurement]

i wanna get find a girl and marry her, its just that ive been letting go of so many girls....

[GodSaveThePres]

You'll find the right one eventually

[YouhideIseek]

I was so upset when the video ended but I said all things, including this video must pass. Then again i can just press replay and enjoy Christine 4 ever! :)

[tantraman07]

Nicely said, thanks!

[vesivialvy]

thanks Christine for this positive message !

It feel really great to thing about this positive way to see the end of great things in our life but now i have a problem , the dark side of this is that from now bad moments too will come again and again , from this point of view when we finish a very bad moment we can be certain that the next very bad moments or nightmare will come soon or later...how can i solve this logical paradox ??

[linguini82]

you are such a smart lady. it took me 3 years to understand such a simple princple, that people come and go, if someone leaves you, they are not meant to be in your life.

and the way you says it, brings peace into everyone.

thank you.

I hope more people will know about your video.

[Aarashguitar]

Thanks alot for your wonderful videos.

GOD bless you.

[beofonemind]

right on sister.... this is the hardest lesson for people to learn..but learning it is awesome!!!! but do u really beleive that anyone really dies?

[eiknalb]

Thank you Christine.  Much love.

[EMJAYVISION365]

I love you so much

[misseptember]

non attachment, a big part of living is an enlightened human being.

[chatimentz]

We can not Hold on to what we like and we can not Get rid of what we dont like.

Relax, Yes :)

By relaxing in whatever Appears, we will find what we Seek.

[TomSaunders89]

Thanks for the reminder!

[luizahim]

it`s all in the brain isn`t it,after all when i spray thermal water on my face and close my eyes i can be for a moment in the Niagara ...just to spice up my make up routine :D

[bikenik]

This is so true - the sooner one learns this lesson the better off one is.

[CUN10AC]

Wise words.Something new has already come.Thank you!!!!

[tink040370]

thank you for those words. i've been needing to let go of something for a long long time. just when i think the mourning is over it haunts me to insanity again, year after year after 15 years.

[xtraordinarymachine6]

thank you christine, i really needed to hear that these days, even though i try not to cling i do at times go into a sadness when remembering my relationship that ended for no reason. but what would you say, shall this relationship come back into being?

[FoxZo83]

Awesome.

[attractionlaw]

Sending You...

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Love & Light

:)

[Liquidknuckles]

Thank You

[gandersource]

Good video. A friend of mine says "When one door closes, another one slams shut!" but I'm sure he says it tongue-in-cheek. :)

I think it's of great personal benefit to have a positive attitude to the things gone by, rather than being resentful. Like most negativity, it usually hurts the bearer of it most.

Cheers! John

[GameSoH]

thank you :) i was going to message you about relationships yesterday. Guess i didn't have to! hehe

[divinegoddessartemis]

Very True Sista.......

[Niddrym]

ok thanks, but why anticipate so much in to the future? isn't that as klinging to the past?

whats wrong with now?

[eatlotacheese]

Love is not the emotional highs and lows, it is not the need to have someone by you. It is like the current of the ocean ever driving and ever there but sometimes it disappears beneath the waves of emotion, yet it still their driving the direction of the waves.

[pythagoras9]

I think that you are very wise!

[pythagoras9]

I think that you are very wise!