I don't know you but I can say, I'm proud of you. I know i'm late seeing this video, I just happened across it but still :) I hope you're doing well and life is treating you alright.
@wuwujohn congrats for representing gay asian men so well. I hope you find a man to share your life and your heart with. Your brave choices amaze us all. That is extremely sexy to people.
Science and Religion should stop scrutinizing Gay people. Moms who secretly hate and reject the life growing in their wombs make their children gay. It is time to investigate the moms.
Check out this video on Youtube: "Mom made my sister Gay"
And apparently you haven't read my comments, because you wrote things I already explained. All you anti religious people just follow whatever Richard Dawkings says. You WANT to reject religio, becvause the idea of religion interferes with your true desires. So when the devil and you something saying the slightest thing against religion, you snatch it up, and believe it.
@XChineseNewYearX Who the fuck is Richard Dawking? I am a proud atheist who do not need any one to tell me how to think and act like a robot. It is stupid religious people like you that think every one has sins. Sins my ass, you have sins being so hateful. You should not exist in the world. What do you know about human emotions? What do you know about caring and loving other people who are different from you?
You are just a cold blood animal no better than a pig!
@AllenRobinson2010 This all boils down to religion. You reject it but think for a moment. Lets pretend you know half of EVERYTHING possible to know. Even though noone does, lets pretend. Do you think its possible for God and true religion to exist in the othe half you dont know anyting about?Your reason to reject religion is based on yur lttle understanding of it. You have only heard one side of the story- the anti religious side. Type in to yutube "Kent Hovind Debate". He will get yu to beleive
@AllenRobinson2010 As I said, to me, fag is not bad word. Maybe to gays it is, but not to us Godly people. And because of my love for the Bible, sexuality has alot to do with stuff. I dont want to befriend an ungodly sodomite. If they dont want to be a fag, thats one thing. And I do not HATE fags. I just hate what they do, which sometimes leaks into the fag thmself. Also, hell is not a place where you are being burned. It is just your unsaved, eternal grave. And I do dislike atheism.
@AllenRobinson2010 I am not harassing any1 or persecuting any1. Look back at my 1st comment. God hates nonrepentant fags. Not persecution. If I said "I will castrate all dirty non-repentant faggots so you cant pollute the earth with your homo nature" thats persecution. I never said that. And I can speak for God. You see, 4-2000 years ago he wrote Christians a book called the bible. He clearly expressed all of his ideas and shared them w/ us,so now I can share them with you. How am I an atheist?
@AllenRobinson2010 ""fags" - there you go again! This isn't what Jesus supported or encouraged. You're just creating your own religion."
Jesus definately ws against fags. And I don't see whats wrong with the word fag. Maybe itsounds sensitive to you bc of your gayness, but to me, fag is a normal word like tree.
" I can see galaxies through a telescope."
But you have eve seen THE farthest star- yet you know it exists. You are taking the words or the astronomers, just like I am wih my pastors.
@AllenRobinson2010 And God does not need to speak to anyone so we can know he exists. You have never seen the Andromeda Galaxy, yet you know it exists. You have never heard gravity, yet you know it exists. And you can't prove that God has never spoken to anyone. How can you prove God did not speak to Abraham 5,000 years ago? You can't. People (fags especially) want to deny the LORD Their God, because their either are afraid of, or want to ignore his judgement.
@AllenRobinson2010 I'm not persecuting fags, I'm just telling them tha the LORD Their God is angry with them. Anyway, Jesus also never instructed his apostles to write letters to the churches (with information included about how homosexuality and gay pride are abominations) but they did anyway. And I worry about others because they don't know that what they are doing is wrong. God hates proud fags.
God hates fags. All of you faggots may beg for the mercy of God, and by his grace, he might save you. Otherwise, you are hell bound sinners. Obey the LORD your God!!!!!
sweetheart,, for real there is no cure for who you are... in saying that you can whither away within your self or bust out and embrace it!! of course it isnt a choice who chooses suffering...
sweetheart,, for real there is no cure for who you are... in saying that you can whither away within your self or bust out and embrace it!! of course it isnt a choice who chooses suffering... i have secterts that i bare 2...xoxo
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Are you filipino? I noticed Asian guys who are gay are filipino descents. Just tell them you're filipino instead of Asian so you don't have to drag in other Asians. They probably hate you for it.
I totally understand. I don't even know what I am anymore. I've dated girls and guys. And have had to hide my sexual orientation from people because I don't know if I am a lesbian or I am straight. I've liked girls a lot and I have liked boys a lot.
I may marry one or the other in the future. There is times when I say I am bisexual, but there is times when I feel that there is no such thing as bisexual. There is only gay people and lesbians. I accept the fact that I find both sexes attractive.
Brother, I can relate. I too am gay, but have not had the courage to come out to anyone. I admire you for coming out and wish I had the courage that you do. You are correct, NO ONE chooses to be gay and it is hard for me to accept as well. One day I may have the courage to come out.
Not only are homosexuals - homosexual men in particular - more likely to contract HIV/AIDS, when you compare stats from the CDC it looks like smoking is actually a safer activity than sodomy. Type "What's Worse - Smoking or Sodomy?" into your favorite search engine to read more.
I understand how u . feel . the only thing u need to think about is how u feel u cant change who u love so .... others r just gonna have to deal . well i hope everything worked out great...even though this video is super old lol
i sent you a message? i just came out recently and i would love to get a relationship with an asian male..i'm a gay white german nordic male and OMG it would be cool
wow cool you seem really brave to come out to the world with this i say im bi but really i like them as friends and i really like guys alot but i think im going to let them believe that till i move because im moving soon but i dont know
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LoL! Why U being Gay? go to sleep on it and wake up tomorrow.. Go fuck a female its better to hear a girl moan then a guy moaning.. LOL! guy moaning is nasty. Fuck mann. Go fuck a female mann.. does this look right to you? 8===D O===8 No.. dick on Dick is no Good.. Suppose to be 8===D{@} dick on pussy foo..
Cute cute cute...but off subject. This is an old video but I'll comment anyways.
Coming out has got to be one of the most difficult things that I can imagine doing. It's weird but I agree with you. I am so open about everything because the only thing I'm concerned with keeping secret or remaining reserved about is my sexual orientation. I'm physically drawn to men but I can't imagine everyone knowing this about me. I don't know if I would say I'm ashamed of it, but I'm scared of people knowing.
First of all Y'all are mean why y'all hatin' on his eyebrows there is nothing wrong with em' and I like your video. (: I wish I can come out that easy but turns out mine was hard my parents didn't like it and now I don't have them in my life anymore they abbanded me.
Being gay is not a choice. Gay people never choose to be gay. In Asian country, being gay is suffering. We can't say out loud like "hey, I'm gay". Homosexuality is unacceptable in Asian countries. We are feeling hurt deep inside our heart. We can't profess our love to our partner publicly like normal couple do. I just hope that one day the community shall accept the gay community as part of them.
Very strong words you say, I thought the same as you did before coming out to friends and family. I finally said fuck it I am who I am and nothing more. I feel you dude wether it's another suffering soul or whatever. We do what we can to move forward and I'm happy for who I am and I'm glad you have the strength to say your part, it's better to be hated for what you are then to loved for what your not.
ok get this straight u have a choice 2 b straight or gay and u r jus tryin 2 deny it u cant run away u have 2 fight like a man 2 get out of that predicament no 1 else can help but the 1 and only true GOD pray 2 him and ask 4 your forgivness son dont let homosexuality take u over child thats my wisdom 4 u
honestly, how do you think being gay is a choice? because it is NOT. people do not wake up one day and decide to be gay. being gay is something that is inside of you. This isn't something you can turn to god to, what are you going to do? Ask for forgiveness? Say we are sorry we were born gay? Umm, that is a something BEYOND the control of any human. Kinda like being born into a certain family. You simple do not have the choice. it happens. Please, stop ignorant. You DON'T understand.
@FinnLitas Damn read your comment you are hilarious! And i think some people do think that we should say sorry for being born into something that is far outta our control!
@wuwujohn Wow love ur story, love how open u are, and how u go about things! I think that u are a very cool person and i felt the same way 4 years sense i was 13, i am now 18 i asked god plenty of times why pick me for this situation, to me at the time i felt alone and felt like i was not normal but u no what i say now " FUCK THAT I AM NOT LIVING MY LIFE TO FIT OTHERS AND WHAT THEY WANT FOR MY LIFE"! And now that i am just being myself which i am Transgender, God new we could handle it obviously
I sympathize. Originally from the Midwest in a very conservative state I went through the same thing and it was a difficult road ahead but being the person you are and the best you are capable of being people will find you lovable and define you as the person you are not the gender you like. It worked for me and I encourage you to try it :)
Thank you for your video here... I have to tip my hat to you. it is not easy haaving to come out and reveil your orientation. Another thing is and I am a firm beleiver of this ... "I am what I am"
It could be a long path for a gay person to find his or her identity. Some find their destinies earlier and others find theirs later. Regardless what others say about you or how they look at you, being honest and truthful to yourself is priceless. You are not alone and you will find acceptance from your community and open minded people. Be brave, be strong.
i felt that way at one time till i realized that i was born gay so i was made perfect. there is no normal. your not sick so dont fool urself about a "cure". weas gay men have a most unique perspective on life that if u accept ad love who u are will give u gifts that no straight man can percieve. U are normal love urself
Okay okay telling friends are easy. What about TELLING TO YOUR PARENTS? Oh oh... By the way, you are right about being gay is not a choice. A lot of people are confused between transvestite and gay. You CAN choose to become a transvestite (for entertainment purposes) by you CANNOT choose to be gay. Gay is the real deal.
I will never regret being true to myself. Society is more understanding of gays now. Gay Pride events verifies this. I hope you find happiness. Multiple hugs!
"We do not choose to be gay" rings so true. I've know I was gay since age12. In the 70's it was impossible for me to come out. Instead, I lived the str8 life and married at age 29 and have 2 beautiful children. When my wife left me in 1996 , I decided to come out in 2000. In 2002 I lost my job,car, condo and now am penniless. But I do have the sweetest Asian guy that has stuck with me and my children love me and him to death.
what a dirty slut. i bet you engage in deviant sex acts with random mexicans. by the way your negro of a mother told me that you pick your butt and sniff it regularly and then giggle.
I agree with what you said, people tell me being gay is a choice, but who would choose to be discriminated against, bashed, and called names. I believe no one would choose "damnation" as the pro-Christians say. I'm proud to be gay, and you should be too. You're just a person like everyone else. You shouldnt have to feel alienated or feel different. Just cause you are attracted to males doesnt define you. Just be happy, you don't need people to accept you to live a happy life, accept yourself. ^^
i think you are a liar btw. if youre really gay, perhaps youd like to engage in some furious buttsecks with me then? go ahead, reach over and grasp my firm nuts whilst undulating vehemently on top of me. go ahead. yeah i didnt think so you fucking charlatan. gay, yeah right, gay my ass. damned imposter.
Such an honest and very frank discussion about how gay feels for you. You made me cry, really you did, when you said that if there was a cure for being 'gay' you might take it. I guess that would be a straight pill, which for me sounds hard to swallow. I'm not condeming I might take that pill myself but in the mean time honey, you are you, which from your video is one great man as you are. You will be just fine, all you need now is love. Sweet love and it will happen in time. Hugs,Mark
i came out when i was 14, now 21 it still shocks me. I am gay...
it wasn't easy. I believed my peers that jesus or god or someone could make me straight, tut it never worked. It may seem easy to just live your life and putting that thought away, but it always hits you, not a choice,but a feeling. People harassed me, and I hated myself & people, i became extremely antisocial until just 1 year ago. When I learned that people aren't against you, they are against what scares them.
mate, good on you! its wonderful what you have done here and i think you are an inspiration to other young gay asian guys. well, you are someone i would like to chat with. why not contact me for a chat sometime.
Way to go. Glad you had the strength and sureness in yourself to be who you are. You will have a much fuller life this way. I hope others can also find the strength to choose their time to stand up and be themselves. Society should never rob us of this fundamental freedom, and we should not be an accessory to the crime!
Hey I am Gay but I just fear coming out, I don't want to know what the consequences are??? Can ya help me or anyone can tell me how I can face my fear and come out to my friends and families, i'll be happy to hear from you.
First off, congratulations! Thank you for being so open and honest. I started the coming out "process" just over 2 yrs ago. Only my friends and mom know thus far, I haven't fully accepted myself yet, but I'm sure I will someday, and I know you will too, just give it time.
Bro, good on you for coming out like this, it took a lot of guts and only a person of strong constitution can do this! Hang in there, it does get better.
You are my hero! Thanks for being open and honest! You've encouraged and inspired me! I know we don't know each other. still I admire and respect you. Thanks!
:-) Aw I'm so happy that you did that.So um baby where are you from?.lol Need a date???-i'm letting you know online that I would totally date U for coming out.(wink)Wait & a "small" gay percentage?? um naw you got that part wrong boo.lol
I know exactly what you are talking about. I came out 18 years ago. It does get a little easier as time goes by. Be strong. You are now in a much bigger family than you may think.
Bravo! Congratulations, it takes a lot to say what you did. The hardest person to come out to is yourself. The burden of carrying that is tremendous, and once lifted will free you to experience more from life. You'll go from being a gay man to a man that's gay.
I don't know you but I can say, I'm proud of you. I know i'm late seeing this video, I just happened across it but still :) I hope you're doing well and life is treating you alright.
RyeowookieMin 3 months ago
@wuwujohn congrats for representing gay asian men so well. I hope you find a man to share your life and your heart with. Your brave choices amaze us all. That is extremely sexy to people.
BonniesBoys 3 months ago
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Science and Religion should stop scrutinizing Gay people. Moms who secretly hate and reject the life growing in their wombs make their children gay. It is time to investigate the moms.
Check out this video on Youtube: "Mom made my sister Gay"
bs1buster 6 months ago
What the fuck is he rambling on about? He reminds me of Sarah Palin - a speech to nowhere !!!
ThomasAUSTRALIA1 6 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010
sfscubaman 7 months ago
you are so hot! :D
TheLusciouslad 8 months ago
And apparently you haven't read my comments, because you wrote things I already explained. All you anti religious people just follow whatever Richard Dawkings says. You WANT to reject religio, becvause the idea of religion interferes with your true desires. So when the devil and you something saying the slightest thing against religion, you snatch it up, and believe it.
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
@XChineseNewYearX Who the fuck is Richard Dawking? I am a proud atheist who do not need any one to tell me how to think and act like a robot. It is stupid religious people like you that think every one has sins. Sins my ass, you have sins being so hateful. You should not exist in the world. What do you know about human emotions? What do you know about caring and loving other people who are different from you?
You are just a cold blood animal no better than a pig!
sfscubaman 7 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010 This all boils down to religion. You reject it but think for a moment. Lets pretend you know half of EVERYTHING possible to know. Even though noone does, lets pretend. Do you think its possible for God and true religion to exist in the othe half you dont know anyting about?Your reason to reject religion is based on yur lttle understanding of it. You have only heard one side of the story- the anti religious side. Type in to yutube "Kent Hovind Debate". He will get yu to beleive
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010 As I said, to me, fag is not bad word. Maybe to gays it is, but not to us Godly people. And because of my love for the Bible, sexuality has alot to do with stuff. I dont want to befriend an ungodly sodomite. If they dont want to be a fag, thats one thing. And I do not HATE fags. I just hate what they do, which sometimes leaks into the fag thmself. Also, hell is not a place where you are being burned. It is just your unsaved, eternal grave. And I do dislike atheism.
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010 I am not harassing any1 or persecuting any1. Look back at my 1st comment. God hates nonrepentant fags. Not persecution. If I said "I will castrate all dirty non-repentant faggots so you cant pollute the earth with your homo nature" thats persecution. I never said that. And I can speak for God. You see, 4-2000 years ago he wrote Christians a book called the bible. He clearly expressed all of his ideas and shared them w/ us,so now I can share them with you. How am I an atheist?
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010 ""fags" - there you go again! This isn't what Jesus supported or encouraged. You're just creating your own religion."
Jesus definately ws against fags. And I don't see whats wrong with the word fag. Maybe itsounds sensitive to you bc of your gayness, but to me, fag is a normal word like tree.
" I can see galaxies through a telescope."
But you have eve seen THE farthest star- yet you know it exists. You are taking the words or the astronomers, just like I am wih my pastors.
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010 And God does not need to speak to anyone so we can know he exists. You have never seen the Andromeda Galaxy, yet you know it exists. You have never heard gravity, yet you know it exists. And you can't prove that God has never spoken to anyone. How can you prove God did not speak to Abraham 5,000 years ago? You can't. People (fags especially) want to deny the LORD Their God, because their either are afraid of, or want to ignore his judgement.
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
@AllenRobinson2010 I'm not persecuting fags, I'm just telling them tha the LORD Their God is angry with them. Anyway, Jesus also never instructed his apostles to write letters to the churches (with information included about how homosexuality and gay pride are abominations) but they did anyway. And I worry about others because they don't know that what they are doing is wrong. God hates proud fags.
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
God hates fags. All of you faggots may beg for the mercy of God, and by his grace, he might save you. Otherwise, you are hell bound sinners. Obey the LORD your God!!!!!
XChineseNewYearX 9 months ago
This is a moving wonderful statement, thanks!
sincere8180 10 months ago
2008! probably dead by now. U.S. Asians why are U.S. Asians on youtube wannabe comedians and wannabe more woman than woman bitches.
SawLots 10 months ago
sweetheart,, for real there is no cure for who you are...
mzhangeloregon 10 months ago
sweetheart,, for real there is no cure for who you are... in saying that you can whither away within your self or bust out and embrace it!! of course it isnt a choice who chooses suffering...
mzhangeloregon 10 months ago
sweetheart,, for real there is no cure for who you are... in saying that you can whither away within your self or bust out and embrace it!! of course it isnt a choice who chooses suffering... i have secterts that i bare 2...xoxo
mzhangeloregon 10 months ago
I'd love for him to rub that prickly head against my balls
HotHole4goal 11 months ago
I used to ask my self all the time why i was gay and if there was a way i could change it i would... i know how you feel....
PS: your HOT !
dude2755 1 year ago
klump1953 1 year ago
Coming out takes a lot of courage and we repect your courage of making this awesome video...
sfgamdotcom 1 year ago
Are you filipino? I noticed Asian guys who are gay are filipino descents. Just tell them you're filipino instead of Asian so you don't have to drag in other Asians. They probably hate you for it.
ThePirateship2010 1 year ago
shit
that sux
LoggyWD 1 year ago
I'm straight, but i respect all gays/ bisexuals etc.
ChineseRunescape 1 year ago
i support u bro im gay 2 and from california
CalimodKilla 1 year ago
I totally understand. I don't even know what I am anymore. I've dated girls and guys. And have had to hide my sexual orientation from people because I don't know if I am a lesbian or I am straight. I've liked girls a lot and I have liked boys a lot.
I may marry one or the other in the future. There is times when I say I am bisexual, but there is times when I feel that there is no such thing as bisexual. There is only gay people and lesbians. I accept the fact that I find both sexes attractive.
smonica09 1 year ago
Brother, I can relate. I too am gay, but have not had the courage to come out to anyone. I admire you for coming out and wish I had the courage that you do. You are correct, NO ONE chooses to be gay and it is hard for me to accept as well. One day I may have the courage to come out.
TheVamp7luv 1 year ago
He COmes Out...Then he has a Video of Him Meet My Girlfriend..im hella confused is he or is he not HA HA HA HA...=)
FrEaKySxYaZn 1 year ago
Make more videos!!
letopho 1 year ago
@letopho ok. your wish is my command. =)
wuwujohn 1 year ago
@wuwujohn where can i find sme mascline gay asian in nyc
jamardjk 9 months ago
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shieldsff 1 year ago
Nice video. I live in OC too.
gpn0099 1 year ago
@gpn0099 cool!
wuwujohn 1 year ago
I understand how u . feel . the only thing u need to think about is how u feel u cant change who u love so .... others r just gonna have to deal . well i hope everything worked out great...even though this video is super old lol
divaG21 1 year ago
i sent you a message? i just came out recently and i would love to get a relationship with an asian male..i'm a gay white german nordic male and OMG it would be cool
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porksareHARAM 1 year ago
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i'm gay german white man? would you take me ?
well add me then slayedjudas666 on youtube as a friend ; )
muah xoxoxo i want cocktail
porksareHARAM 1 year ago
i am glad you came out
jdcinsf 1 year ago
FUCK U GAY NIGGA WTF IS WRONG WITH U!
BboyAFanAzn 1 year ago
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fuckin quers .,. kill the mother fuckers
pornpan96 1 year ago
kudos man :)
AnnToeKnee 1 year ago
at least he happy now
nope267 1 year ago
trim ur eyebrows and u can be a good looking gay =]
mystizO 1 year ago
ur cute!!
shakigwenlover 1 year ago
wow cool you seem really brave to come out to the world with this i say im bi but really i like them as friends and i really like guys alot but i think im going to let them believe that till i move because im moving soon but i dont know
emoniyafollower 1 year ago
You are so sexy...I want you :)
DZP0923 1 year ago
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LoL! Why U being Gay? go to sleep on it and wake up tomorrow.. Go fuck a female its better to hear a girl moan then a guy moaning.. LOL! guy moaning is nasty. Fuck mann. Go fuck a female mann.. does this look right to you? 8===D O===8 No.. dick on Dick is no Good.. Suppose to be 8===D{@} dick on pussy foo..
uglyestprince69 1 year ago
Cute cute cute...but off subject. This is an old video but I'll comment anyways.
Coming out has got to be one of the most difficult things that I can imagine doing. It's weird but I agree with you. I am so open about everything because the only thing I'm concerned with keeping secret or remaining reserved about is my sexual orientation. I'm physically drawn to men but I can't imagine everyone knowing this about me. I don't know if I would say I'm ashamed of it, but I'm scared of people knowing.
thethingkid 1 year ago
First of all Y'all are mean why y'all hatin' on his eyebrows there is nothing wrong with em' and I like your video. (: I wish I can come out that easy but turns out mine was hard my parents didn't like it and now I don't have them in my life anymore they abbanded me.
MrDiddi92 1 year ago
cool
happymarkkj 1 year ago
your cute :)
TemariFan33 1 year ago 4
Being gay is not a choice. Gay people never choose to be gay. In Asian country, being gay is suffering. We can't say out loud like "hey, I'm gay". Homosexuality is unacceptable in Asian countries. We are feeling hurt deep inside our heart. We can't profess our love to our partner publicly like normal couple do. I just hope that one day the community shall accept the gay community as part of them.
momeru83 1 year ago 11
gays all over the world are crying their eyes out!!look at those fucking eyebrows!
FUdirtbag 2 years ago
yay! :) <333 so am i :3
TheRunescapefan3 2 years ago
Very strong words you say, I thought the same as you did before coming out to friends and family. I finally said fuck it I am who I am and nothing more. I feel you dude wether it's another suffering soul or whatever. We do what we can to move forward and I'm happy for who I am and I'm glad you have the strength to say your part, it's better to be hated for what you are then to loved for what your not.
TheWhisperFox 2 years ago 3
clean up those eyebrows
blindnarcissus 2 years ago
Probably the reason you're saying it is because you from the United States
and people from the United States have a need to be exhibitionists. "The Jerry Springer show" put a camera in front of somebody from the United States
and they will do absolutely anything to be on camera. Have a nice day now you hear.
Crime1234management 2 years ago
cool Dude im gay too more fucking power to you
treyeiscool 2 years ago 4
i found it really hard to tell people im gay
Manfredstheone 2 years ago 2
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ok get this straight u have a choice 2 b straight or gay and u r jus tryin 2 deny it u cant run away u have 2 fight like a man 2 get out of that predicament no 1 else can help but the 1 and only true GOD pray 2 him and ask 4 your forgivness son dont let homosexuality take u over child thats my wisdom 4 u
kwaundagunner 2 years ago
honestly, how do you think being gay is a choice? because it is NOT. people do not wake up one day and decide to be gay. being gay is something that is inside of you. This isn't something you can turn to god to, what are you going to do? Ask for forgiveness? Say we are sorry we were born gay? Umm, that is a something BEYOND the control of any human. Kinda like being born into a certain family. You simple do not have the choice. it happens. Please, stop ignorant. You DON'T understand.
FinnLitas 2 years ago 25
@FinnLitas Damn read your comment you are hilarious! And i think some people do think that we should say sorry for being born into something that is far outta our control!
GaynProud2Be 1 year ago
@wuwujohn Wow love ur story, love how open u are, and how u go about things! I think that u are a very cool person and i felt the same way 4 years sense i was 13, i am now 18 i asked god plenty of times why pick me for this situation, to me at the time i felt alone and felt like i was not normal but u no what i say now " FUCK THAT I AM NOT LIVING MY LIFE TO FIT OTHERS AND WHAT THEY WANT FOR MY LIFE"! And now that i am just being myself which i am Transgender, God new we could handle it obviously
GaynProud2Be 1 year ago
I sympathize. Originally from the Midwest in a very conservative state I went through the same thing and it was a difficult road ahead but being the person you are and the best you are capable of being people will find you lovable and define you as the person you are not the gender you like. It worked for me and I encourage you to try it :)
Best of luck
bobbyjolinar 2 years ago 3
So how are things going now? You're correct we didn't choose to be gay, but we can choose to live with integrity. Cheers!
Cavedogpdx 2 years ago
Thank you for your video here... I have to tip my hat to you. it is not easy haaving to come out and reveil your orientation. Another thing is and I am a firm beleiver of this ... "I am what I am"
djluna96 2 years ago
It could be a long path for a gay person to find his or her identity. Some find their destinies earlier and others find theirs later. Regardless what others say about you or how they look at you, being honest and truthful to yourself is priceless. You are not alone and you will find acceptance from your community and open minded people. Be brave, be strong.
sfgamdotcom 2 years ago
ya look up
KyoshirouNybu 2 years ago 2
I would never guess you gay. Your 'look' is not gay at all. Hmm
tosheatower 2 years ago
You did a good job!
Leviwosc 2 years ago 4
wow. Good on you!
I don't think I can ever accept my sexuality. I hate my life. I wish I could have that "cure".
Straight people would never understand what we go through.
I just want a fucking normal life.
sjp1830 2 years ago
i felt that way at one time till i realized that i was born gay so i was made perfect. there is no normal. your not sick so dont fool urself about a "cure". weas gay men have a most unique perspective on life that if u accept ad love who u are will give u gifts that no straight man can percieve. U are normal love urself
Burne3 2 years ago 2
Good for you guy! it's not easy to do. It's a great step and now you life can start.
hennings74 2 years ago
im gay 2, girl.
ichyEars 2 years ago
wow :)
it´s not easy to say this ~
vamp93 2 years ago
well said
ThaiGayTingTong 2 years ago
i am happy to be who i am .. but sometimes it hard to tell that we are gay..
but it is so great that u arre face it...
videnden 2 years ago
Seems that you are ashamed of who you are...
Paperstones 2 years ago 3
well done mate!!
bryeneedaniel 2 years ago
think of it this way..
you were givin that life because you were strong enough to handle it
4rr0w619 2 years ago
he's cute
same here tooooooooo
i never chose to be this way
and if given the chance, don't think i would change
i like the way i am now
=)
twshuman 2 years ago
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ohh noo im turning gayy!! fuck i should get stoned and take a shit on a green eggs and ham plate
larrythestoner415 2 years ago
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fucking fagget
hotcummin 2 years ago
Gay is the way! I love being gay.
NOtoPROP8 2 years ago
Only God can judge me..... if a God exists in the first place.
Juanchopepe86 2 years ago
Okay okay telling friends are easy. What about TELLING TO YOUR PARENTS? Oh oh... By the way, you are right about being gay is not a choice. A lot of people are confused between transvestite and gay. You CAN choose to become a transvestite (for entertainment purposes) by you CANNOT choose to be gay. Gay is the real deal.
StalwartSpirit 2 years ago
i like this.
letopho 3 years ago
You rock man. You should always be proud of who you are.
Tidus1976 3 years ago 5
I will never regret being true to myself. Society is more understanding of gays now. Gay Pride events verifies this. I hope you find happiness. Multiple hugs!
theflark 3 years ago
"We do not choose to be gay" rings so true. I've know I was gay since age12. In the 70's it was impossible for me to come out. Instead, I lived the str8 life and married at age 29 and have 2 beautiful children. When my wife left me in 1996 , I decided to come out in 2000. In 2002 I lost my job,car, condo and now am penniless. But I do have the sweetest Asian guy that has stuck with me and my children love me and him to death.
theflark 3 years ago 2
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I wish you success and happiness. May every day be filled with peace and happiness.
ilchiman 3 years ago
I wish you success and happiness. May every day in life be a happy one.
ilchiman 3 years ago 2
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what a dirty slut. i bet you engage in deviant sex acts with random mexicans. by the way your negro of a mother told me that you pick your butt and sniff it regularly and then giggle.
zjsword 3 years ago
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Epic Fail. Go /wrist now n(o.o)b
Clytemnesta 3 years ago
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well what can i say other than TITTY BUTTSECKS???? chink muthafucka.
zjsword 3 years ago
I agree with what you said, people tell me being gay is a choice, but who would choose to be discriminated against, bashed, and called names. I believe no one would choose "damnation" as the pro-Christians say. I'm proud to be gay, and you should be too. You're just a person like everyone else. You shouldnt have to feel alienated or feel different. Just cause you are attracted to males doesnt define you. Just be happy, you don't need people to accept you to live a happy life, accept yourself. ^^
Clytemnesta 3 years ago
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i think you are a liar btw. if youre really gay, perhaps youd like to engage in some furious buttsecks with me then? go ahead, reach over and grasp my firm nuts whilst undulating vehemently on top of me. go ahead. yeah i didnt think so you fucking charlatan. gay, yeah right, gay my ass. damned imposter.
zjsword 3 years ago
X>X Lolz furious Buttsecks
ZuNatious18 3 years ago 6
You are spirit wearing the body. Life is a dream, so enjoy this dream we call life. There is no right or wrong bro.
Peace be with you.
rickyt11 3 years ago
your amazing. i really agree with all your opinions and i think that its a good thing that you did this. 5 stars! hope things go well :]
bfme1fan 3 years ago
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Homosexuality, in my honest opinion, again this is my opinion, is a mental illness. please respect my opinion.
zjsword 3 years ago
Why bother to comment?
Clytemnesta 3 years ago
i'm glad you came out. it's especially hard being an asian to come out. congrats =]
poonpam 3 years ago
Hi John:
Such an honest and very frank discussion about how gay feels for you. You made me cry, really you did, when you said that if there was a cure for being 'gay' you might take it. I guess that would be a straight pill, which for me sounds hard to swallow. I'm not condeming I might take that pill myself but in the mean time honey, you are you, which from your video is one great man as you are. You will be just fine, all you need now is love. Sweet love and it will happen in time. Hugs,Mark
markmcan 3 years ago
I type on the YOU TUBE search engine: 'Asian wisdom',and you were on top of the first page.
***** stars! Good honesty.
luciodelgado 3 years ago 3
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LOLFAG.
zjsword 3 years ago
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People like this asshat are why others feel they have to "come out" for being who they are.
Clytemnesta 3 years ago
i came out when i was 14, now 21 it still shocks me. I am gay...
it wasn't easy. I believed my peers that jesus or god or someone could make me straight, tut it never worked. It may seem easy to just live your life and putting that thought away, but it always hits you, not a choice,but a feeling. People harassed me, and I hated myself & people, i became extremely antisocial until just 1 year ago. When I learned that people aren't against you, they are against what scares them.
awesomedarksun 3 years ago 2
Hear Hear! Coming out has to be done in order to become a full human being.
Since the "default" is straight, gay people do have to make a "public announcement" in some way. Usually it's one at a time, but it has to be done.
I'm gay too. See how that works!?
youbart 3 years ago 14
@youbart i'm bi and not ashamed! :)
volugthebeast 11 months ago
mate, good on you! its wonderful what you have done here and i think you are an inspiration to other young gay asian guys. well, you are someone i would like to chat with. why not contact me for a chat sometime.
spunkeetrunks 3 years ago
Way to go. Glad you had the strength and sureness in yourself to be who you are. You will have a much fuller life this way. I hope others can also find the strength to choose their time to stand up and be themselves. Society should never rob us of this fundamental freedom, and we should not be an accessory to the crime!
themuse64 3 years ago
Hey I am Gay but I just fear coming out, I don't want to know what the consequences are??? Can ya help me or anyone can tell me how I can face my fear and come out to my friends and families, i'll be happy to hear from you.
matrixfmfreak 3 years ago
CONGRATS!!!,, I know how you feel / felt, know what you went through. it takes a lot of guts!.
thank you for informing people, ITS NOT A CHOICE!... well done really!..
Handsome guy like you,,,, you will find someone really great I am sure!.. GOOD LUCK!
britipino 3 years ago 2
You're a brave guy, and cute too. Congratulations. You have my support, from another gay man
dressbenblue 3 years ago 5
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do u really have too make a "public annoucment"????
deebojo1234 3 years ago
sure, why not? :)
RapNameChaudeezy18 2 years ago
First off, congratulations! Thank you for being so open and honest. I started the coming out "process" just over 2 yrs ago. Only my friends and mom know thus far, I haven't fully accepted myself yet, but I'm sure I will someday, and I know you will too, just give it time.
dancingthru 3 years ago 2
Asian people that look like you.
GluttonGrow 3 years ago
I admire you a lot for doing this video, I understand how you feel. Be happy :)
Jagamp 3 years ago 4
Hey dude you are awesome and i respect you sooooooooooo much for doing this, and just for the record your a HOT Asian...good for you, I'm proud
jmljade 3 years ago 4
thanks =)
wuwujohn 3 years ago
congratulations! it takes alot of guts to do something like this, so congrats again, u look like a really kool person, so good luck:)
bfme1fan 3 years ago
Bro, good on you for coming out like this, it took a lot of guts and only a person of strong constitution can do this! Hang in there, it does get better.
By the way, you are hella handsome, too!
Peace!
BUDDDHA5 3 years ago
You are my hero! Thanks for being open and honest! You've encouraged and inspired me! I know we don't know each other. still I admire and respect you. Thanks!
hughbietube 3 years ago
:-) Aw I'm so happy that you did that.So um baby where are you from?.lol Need a date???-i'm letting you know online that I would totally date U for coming out.(wink)Wait & a "small" gay percentage?? um naw you got that part wrong boo.lol
Aaliyahluver85 3 years ago
I'm not gay, but I am proud of you for being yourself...
good for you mate!!
5 stars from me. Excellent.
WenHao07 3 years ago 2
I know exactly what you are talking about. I came out 18 years ago. It does get a little easier as time goes by. Be strong. You are now in a much bigger family than you may think.
Ppan821 3 years ago 2
Bravo! Congratulations, it takes a lot to say what you did. The hardest person to come out to is yourself. The burden of carrying that is tremendous, and once lifted will free you to experience more from life. You'll go from being a gay man to a man that's gay.
smoothswimjock 3 years ago