i understand where you are coming from but she doesent deserve six thousand a month for doing nothing his responsibilty is to the child not her some mothers take advantage of the system n want someone to support them if they were worth that theyd still b n the relationship nd some will put u on child support jus bcuz u dont want them i kno you love black people but there are some of us black guys who do right and some black women do live up to stereotypes
TO ALL U GIRLS OUT THERE WHO CRY ABOUT OH CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT ENOUGH!...I NEED MORE MONEY...IAM A SINGLE MOM...THEN JUST GIVE THE CUSTODY TO THE MORE STABLE PARENT THE FATHER WHO HAS THE MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF THEM SO MANY FOOLS COMPLAIN ABOUT THE RAISING AND MONEY IT TAKES STOP BITCHING AND LET THE MAN TAKE THE CUSTODY BUT MOST GIRLS KNOW THEY DONT WANT THAT CUZ THEY DONT WANNA PAY SUPPORT ...ITS ABOUT THE CHILD NOT YOU ...GO MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY!
How are people who are paying $30,000 a month or more in child support stupid? If the judge orders you to pay you HAVE to pay, you have no control over it. Do you think people wanna pay that much? hell no! if you are ordered to pay ANYTHING, and you don't pay, you will be in contempt of court. People go to JAIL for not paying the amount they are supposed to pay or not paying at all, and their wages are garnished and income tax checks deducted for not paying what they were ordered.
You pay what is fair, and you pay for the child! You don' t pay ridiculous amounts so money hungry women can live a certain lifestyle. Earn your own damn money!
are you ever happy or in a good mood about anything? so much anger in you surely theres a reason your not married still....i have watched 2 video's and the 1 i really wanted to check you on was the re:interracial video but you are a negative person. I have a job, date white women and don't hate myself and im married
@savagemann78 So ... being married makes you happy? LOL! Obviously not since 50 to 60 percent of you get out of the deal. Fool, take that lame shit somewhere else. You question my happiness because of a video? Really??? Honey, boo. I have no time for lames such as yourself. My life is full and content spiced with happiness. I can vent on subjects I choose to vent on. Like it or not, this is my channel. You can vlog on your own. now who gone check me, boo??? LOL! yeah ..
you on birth control! thats a form of population control so as long as you don't have kids your doing exactly what they want you to by keeping black babies to a minimum
but no one is there to give them any. Its a shame. You see the break down of the American family everyday. Take a walk down any street you please...at least one of them is a single parent trying to be both a mom and dad as well as bread winner, housekeeper, disciplinarian etc. Take care of your kids...its never about the money. These are the people that are supposed to take care of us when we reach old age...
I do believe marriage secures yourself and your kids future..even for the men. Marriage exist for a reason, when you step outside these social boundaries things like the 'baby mama and baby daddy' phenomenon happen. Multiple children are raised in single parent homes often with no male direction. The structure of the family home then become compromised because a woman cant raise a man just like a man cant raise a woman so the end result is a bunch of mad angry fatherless kids who want answers
This yet again a one sided way of seeing things but i will not punish anyone for there ignorance I am a single dad and I have had custody of my son since he was 2 months old I have got little to no help at all she is more than abandoned her responsibilty. But im not gonna sit on my butt and wait for anyone too take care of me and my son I did what all HUMAN BEINGS should do get a EFFIN job. My mother did not give birth to a lazy boy but she did raise a man
I never understand women who think because you had a baby by a man and when things don't work out being you two, the man is now obligated to not only support his kids (which most MEN do) but to support her as well. Should she not support these kids also? Should she not get Or do women think their job is done after they give birth?!? EXACTLY what do you spend $6000 a month for two kids on?
you don't need to be showing this kinda shit for female. their alot of male out their paying shit load of child support. us men end up keeping like thousand buck a month. and their rent,food,gas,eletric, . their be no option to have fun!.and women file wellfare and child support spouse support. lazyass women. I personally havent seen my kids. i miss them like crazy! I wake up crying . the question is why don't i see them? cause i don't have the money to visit i'm broke from child support
Wow ... sorry to hear of your situation. I never said men as a whole are not paying child support. I am saying that women need to stop having children out of wedlock. It secures a better future for your child in my opinion. Not that all out of wedlock children are doomed. Not saying that at all. Just saying make better decisions where children are concerned. Good luck to you.
You got that right, you need to get married BEFORE you get married. Not right or wrong but how can you commit to raising another human being but not be married first. I was married and it was so much better for us and our children. I really had a partner to help raise our children right.
The more money you make the more money you pay in child support. Are people living under rocks. This is the NORM!! And Elin Woods is getting ready to get her $20 million settlement and that isn't even including child support. Based on income. You are right, it is your duty...go girl!!!
@williamskat1 You pay what is fair! Only a dumb- ass would pay too damn much so mommy can live royally. Elin woods gets alot because she was married to that guy and he didn' t have her sign a prenup. But when it comes too child support, those rich people paying 30,000 a month are just plain stupid.
@MrJambone1 How are people who are paying $30,000 a month or more in child support stupid? If the judge orders you to pay you HAVE to pay, you have no control over it. Do you think people wanna pay that much? hell no! if you are ordered to pay ANYTHING, and you don't pay, you will be in contempt of court. People go to JAIL for not paying the amount they are supposed to pay or not paying at all, and their wages are garnished and income tax checks deducted for not paying what they were ordered.
she need to take her ass to the studio & record that album. what the fuck you need ten thousand dollar a month for. hell haths no fury for a tramp scorned.
You don't live in that world so how do you know? Is TI better than other celebrities that he would only need to pay $2 grand a month. That is no money. My ex pays almost that for 2 kids and he definitely does not make anything near TI. Does anyone know how much the mom pays for the kids per month? With what my ex pays and I contribute to my kids, my ex is wayyyy behind!! Think about both sides of the fence, both arguments.
the things is most woman are trained to be dependent on a man...they are not conditioned to be self sufficient and use marriage or having a baby as a means of financial opportunity. A father should HELP take care of his children notice the word HELP. I mean help in every way including homework and other things to help develope a solid individual.Money should never be the sole issue.
Nothing goes according to plans I had a plan Sistah for real I used protection alll while I dated until I got MARRIED so I did my planning still didn't last three year I'm trying to say don't take nothing personal it's just a personal situation and honestly its not that bad. WHY women be acting crazy even on a bm that's in the kids lives you know That's all no one is mad at you. I don't even know you but thanks for your attention to my crap. Peace.
She has a house he paid for a car he paid and all the other expenses the kids may have. So 6000 dollars is more than enough when she don't have to spend money on the kids in the first place. I think she is just being greedy.
Looking at your face and hearing your opinion just made me so angry about females and what you all do even to brothers that want to be fathers to there children yall wrong for that. I got two kids a girl and a boy I love them the mother is a evil psycho. What makes females transform into this, most black don't survive because of this genetic flaw to destroy the man, destroy what I have built out of over due child payments and stress. Whats up with that?
you like that don't you evil attracts evil stupid is stupid does I get it. I'm just like her yeah over here my heart out the truth is I'mma psycho. cause I try make a family not just the baby I love my kids and the mother but you don't understand
Actually it is common sense with this chic. men are indeed getting married. The main point is marry women that you truly love. If not married, make sure you wear a durable condom. Protect yourself from the get go. Then you will not have to deal with this scenario.
It's a blessing because the Lord giveth and the lord taketh away!Please don't forget that. There are parents who aren't in the position to provide for their children due to death, jail,etc. so she is blessed to have their father provide for them. The issue is not that he is providing for them because he is; she is worried about what he is doing for somebody else. Whether he is with Tiny or not she can provide for her own children without the help of TIP, can LaShon say the same thing?
I agree with you but "Vengence is the Lord's not mine" she should do her part and leave the rest to the Lord. In the end we all have to pay for our wrong doing. She shouldn't expect him to take care of her. He is being a man and taking care of his children and she should commend him on that. She is blessed that she has someone that wants to be and is a part of her children's lives. His job is to support his kids, not her.
Again I love the video. And you are right about everything you have said. I have kids out of wedlock. And things would have been so much easier. If I had gotten the license first. Then the kids. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way. But I love my kids. And I am raising them to have more self worth about themselves. And take care of themselves. Thanks again for another great videos.
whats the big fuss idk y people feel as tho they have to voice a negative oppinion wen u can jus say i dont agree and b dun i feel ATL sista have a rite to voice her oppinion and im sorry if u guys dont like what im sayn im the type who hear what sumone has to say and deal with it let people say what they have to say im sure u guys have said things in ur life people didnt agreewid u.didnt like it did u now take a sec think about it.. dont lie cuz its life peace out and more power to ya ATLsis
its better to shoot the kid or the mom, or both. in the future there is going to be a blood bath.
right or wrong men will soon act on the child support law and take action. i know alot of men ready to set it off and go shooten. babies mamas are gonna have to hide. look at the news... they shoot mom and kids. i'm not for killing but i know its coming with the future economic chaos. men feel enslaved... and they will become animals.
ask any dude who is trapped... they will all agree.
Not sure why ne1 would give you a negative to this comment. Marriage should be encouraged. Though nothing is perfect, the odds for raising a happier child are higher when they are under the care of their two loving, sensible adult parents.
hmmm, T.I DOES pay for child support. and ALL of T.I.'s kids live with T.I. and Tiny... T.I. still takes care of those kids... like every father should. Lason Dixon just needs to shut the hell up. =D.
man lady shut the hell up 4realll becuz i bet that baby mama stays at home all damn day ridin in the NEW CAR he just bought he not doin shit with her life but waitin 4 that child support i bet he does wayyy mre 4 those kids then she does regaurdless of him been a rich celeb or not if she feels that she needs more money she needs to get her lazy ass up and do somethng and yes i do agree w./ u ladys stop havin babys w. theses niggaz and not marring them
I just need you to learn how to spell. Please. It is so necessary in the real world. Also, she got what she wanted. So, tell the men to stop putting their naked docks in raw pussy and we would not be having this discussion.
It is also your choice to allow a naked penis enter you vagina and conceive. There ARE more contraceptive options for women than men.
Marriage isn't an option for you or the women you're talking too. If you're over 30 and single, guys know the deal; it's instinctUAL and they want nothing to do with you. You are a permanent "common she-dogg" As Ms. Tyler calls it.
There's no mistakes when it comes to women and pregnancy; AND wmen tend to WEAR their mistakes as they get older.
You got me fucked up, little one. The point that I have made many times is that blames lies with both parties. I don't give a damn who has more birth control targeted toward them. All folks are responsible for their own individual decisions. And all women over 30 are not looking to get married. Speak for your own useless life. Get a clue! Marriage is not the end all be all. Kick rocks and go play in traffic.
contd:...to pay out of pocket, 20K is come up money for herself. Yet, she is back in court again asking him to fork out more money. And why? So she can set aside money for the kids savings. Really! So, Lashawn, how much is it you say that you contribute financially to the kids upkeep? I say, give T.I. full custody. That way he doesn't have to pay her a dime. Then we'll really see whether it was all about the money or not. That's the way you kill that noise.
Going above and beyond is all well and dandy, ATLSis, but when you have a man who bought your house, bought your car, pays all the monthly expenses, pays all the kids healthcare,extracurricular activities, schooling, etc....and you still ask for more, that's a problem. ESPECIALLY when what you do for the kids compared to him is but a drop in the bucket. It's totally one-sided. I think they said she makes 20K a year. With no mortgage note, no car note, and no expenses she has to pay out of...
I agree ATL you women ((well not you)) but women need to find compadiable mates, get to know him at least a year before opening your legs to him, that way he will see your not quote every other girl, but as in the case of TI's baby momma I totally disagree yes your right were not in her shoes, but she seems like a very ungrateful bitch I'm 90% sure it's not about her kids it's about her buying fur coats & stuff
i dont understand why u cant have an opinion just bc u dont have kids. i dont have kids either and think that all of this baby mama/baby daddy crap is out of control. how hard is it to get on birth control. why do these women keep having babies by men who dont want to be with them? i cant call it. and i dont understand it. *sigh*
Your right Lady. That piece of paper gives you everything you need when you divorce your husband for cheating or beating on you. Did you even consider that this little bit of paper also gives you everything when its the woman who has cheated? It works both ways, wether your black, white, pink, green or orange.
The mssg in this video is to get married so you can collect when you get divorced.
This is truly sad.
Guess Brothers should be advised to get PRENUPS to preempt these women being advised (by this video) to get you to marry them so when they divorce you they can take you to the cleaners.
Well if that is the message you received, then so be it. You are entitled. And like I have said in my video to follow, some folks need to stop fooling themselves into thinking they money that is even prenup material. You folks kill me with the foolishness. And by the way, the state of the Black families I see is just fine. Have a great day!
AtlSistah, your video is going out to avrg black women dating avrg black men. I dont understand what you mean by the avrg black man's money is not prenup material.
In a true relationship, both parties should indeed get everything out of each other. Don't be stupid. I really have a low tolerance for the youtube stupidity. It has become overwhelming.
why get married when she thinking bout devorce before the ring get on her finger, see i've sat back and said nothing for over a year now and just listen, see alot of black females want to know why they not getting married, here it is. AS HARD AS IT IS FOR A BLACK MAN TO GET SOMETHING THAT WENT TO SCHOOL WHY IN THE FUCK WOULD I WORK THAT HARD DAY IN DAY OUT TO GIVE 65 CENT OF A DOLLAR TO A FEMALE WHO'S PLAN ALL ALONE WAS TO GET ME FOR THAT 65 CENT. see it's their way of thinking... get the man
you are right kenolson and that is the mssg AtlantaSistah is putting out to these young sistahs. I suggest to counter that the young black males need to be told to prenup.
Personally I think spousal support should be done away with. Every person should be responsible for him/herself.
she has to pay for security, kids private school, food, clothes, going over they're homework with, im sure shes the mom and dad in her kids life if hes always on the road, with his wife etc.
OK, second comment....surely you dont think that women dont want money? TI has some money and oh yah, women want that...I know plenty of women who are white, black, etc., who are with men because they have money. For TI to assume a woman wants him for his money, is dead right on the mark. ~Raven
OK, I stand corrected on that....but I know women like my cousin where whats in his pocket is how they think of his money. He doesnt even have to have a job so its really a trip these days. ~Raven
Also, it is important to note that in addition to being forced to pay shit loads of money, a man will often have a diminished relationship with the child...Because, to be perfectly honest...that is the most important thing here. The child will suffer the most as a result of parents having child custody and child support wars.
Both the mother and the father need to put their personal hostilities and resentments to the side....for the sake of the child.
I think that you are discounting the fact that a lot of women use the fact that they have a child by a man as a means to control them or simply get money that they don't even use for the child. It's never ALL the man's fault or ALL the woman's fault. And YES the court systems are mostly geared towards a woman. It has improved over the years, but generally speaking, the man doesn't really have that much of a voice in the matter, especially if the woman has bitterness towards the man.
You got that right :) Only runaway financial advisers have money in this economy. Anyway all I am saying is especially in the so called black community is as long as people(men or women) think that potential spouses are after assets people will resist marriage. Also a woman does not "marry a man" it just does not work that way. :)
i agree a lil bit wit some shit she say but aaaanyway, fuck t.i. & dat bitch, life is aaaaallll about da games people play & i hate to say it but women play the most games, especially black women.
atlanta sistah, thanks for the video, as a man watching this, i know what to do, invest my funds in silver bars and gold and bury it under my kinsfolks residences. so no money shows up in my ASSETS. I have no MONEY!!!!
personal responsibility is loaded issues many of us do not want to deal with. Its easier to come up with excuses for our poor behavior and choices. I agree with sentiment but too many people with rather look on the outside than within.
Aftr reading these comments, it amazes me hw some of these men totally negate the fact that if they dont want to be held financially responsible, then DONT HAVE SEX! Simply do NOT have sex. Cuz if you do, you are AUTOMATICALLY setting YOURSELF up for a HUGE responsibility. We all know how babies are made. And we all know that it is MEN who are the biggest initiators/seekers of sex.(yes woman want it to, but lets he real here). So MEN need to be accountable for their desires. Its quite simple.
wow!!!!!!!! that was an extreme gold digging tactic atlantasista. get married so if ya'll get divorce you'll have a better chance getting the cash? lol, oh man, americanize females are fucked up seriously.
lol, that doesn't stop materialistic women tho. but african-american females are just shameful. and ya'll wonder why 70% of ya'll are single. shit like this and more.
This is pathetic. Marriage is nothing more than a scam (towards men that is). Marriage then divorce is almost certain. Why even bother getting married? Just a waste of money and time, and yet we are so afraid of commitment...LMAO!!
First of all, you don't know me so don't tell me what I have to clean up.
2. "Shitty folks attract shitty folks" is a ridiculous response. Some shitty folks lure naive and innocent people because they won't see their shit coming (or assume so anyway). This message your portraying here is a prime example of that. And don't even think your going to sucker me into defending my character because my character has nothing to do with your video(good or bad).
70% of divorces are initiated by the woman, so YES you have put us off marriage. You have PROVED!!! that the laws are completely unfair how can a man spend 20 years in education for some woman to marry him, make his life hell then take half his money AND THE KIDS!!! Feminist movement has f***ed up society
What fucking money?? Why do you bitchlits keep acting as if you have any money?? STOP IT! Please! It is getting to be ridiculous. Have you looked at yourself lately? Look in the mirror. What woman wants to be bothered to your trifling short ass? be for real.
No confusion here, son. I meant what I said. No contradiction either. Marriage secures certain rights that being a "baby momma" does not. Don't act stupid. Addressing these broke (back mountain) men has to be done. They fly up in here and on other videos talking about their money is in danger. Hmph ... what money?
One thing I must agree with you on. Marriage does secure [responsibility rights] in a childs life. Maybe, just maybe, some people can explain why they're "allergic" to marriage. Seems as though people are so self involved with self gratification, be-damned any social resposibility at taking care of a child that may come from a brief, albeit horizontal encounter of lust. Appreciate you mixing it up here in your response posts and setting some people straight. Keep it cooking!
They need to stop talking like they asses are balling out of control. Get real. If men avoid marriage because of my comments, then they never entertained the idea anyway. Why don't they avoid going up in the pussy without protection? Stop trying to screw every hole in sight. Do that!
Rely on a man for what?? Most of thses broke (back mountain) fools ain't got no damn money. Stop fooling yourselves! No of these women is trying to have your baby for your money. BROKE!
why wouldn't a skank want to "get money" like this. This is a way of life for most black women (70%)...child support, welfare alimony...2nd parenting is not signing a check every month...don't let these golddiggers fool you, and stop trying to justify this Bs
gold digging hoe, you black women are evil. Straight from the horses mouth. Y'all black men need to watch this video -there's your explanation for why 70% of black children are born out of wedlock. straight from her own mounth. It's like gold
You dumb asses are hysterical to say the least. Most of you mofo's don't have anywhere near the money T.I. has. Stop fooling yourself. Don't even think some sistah wants to have your kids for the money. You know your ass is broke, so don't even go there. And then to top it off, most of you are short. Honey, boom! Take that bullshit elsewhere.
Woo hoo! I too love being a BW who does NOT have kids out of wedlock, actually I don't have any kids although people think that young black women just hiccup the babies out! Woo hoo anyway though!
What cracked me up about the Whinos is the fact that they get mad at Sisters for not schooling young women on making a commitment. But here you are talking about marriage, about making a commitment. No more OW babies.
I also noticed none of them responded to either of our comments about using condums.
Duh! I know that and have said so as well. In fact, lets divert from the Black race and take a look at everyone. ALL people need to take responsibility. I hope that works for you.
I just want to start off by saying I love your video. That said I agreed with everything you had to say but the marriage thing. Making a baby does not make a marriage. No matter how much you love your children a one night stand is a one night stand not a marriage. Your kids are much worse off if they know in thier hearts mommy and daddy only got married to raise them.
GIRL! I wont touch this subject! BUT I clearly understand and you know even IF you explained this a trillion times, they will cuss you! I had fun tonight.
Nah ... the losers come up in here buck wild thinking they will not be addressed. You come fucked up, you get fucked up. See it is all in your approach. Many folks have disagreed with me. Hell, that happens everyday. BUT it is all in how you say it. Anything else?
@mc1dash1b So your saying, IS TO LATE just like EVERYBODY.....that bought A HOUSE or a CAR?
But aslong the deed is done, The situation. hAs to go on. All because Collateral Damage, That's was done by the GOVERMENT.
Look, If your a Spy ??
I wasn't in No Military to pay No CHILDSUPPORT!!! You feel me.
Hell with the EX and my SOCAL Daugther, I don't own theme SHIT......as well to the Goverment.
I've payed my TAXES...Fuck them.
Make them work ..on the BOOKS!!!
Like Hitler made those JEWS.
smrfr 6 months ago
i understand where you are coming from but she doesent deserve six thousand a month for doing nothing his responsibilty is to the child not her some mothers take advantage of the system n want someone to support them if they were worth that theyd still b n the relationship nd some will put u on child support jus bcuz u dont want them i kno you love black people but there are some of us black guys who do right and some black women do live up to stereotypes
acp248 7 months ago
TO ALL U GIRLS OUT THERE WHO CRY ABOUT OH CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT ENOUGH!...I NEED MORE MONEY...IAM A SINGLE MOM...THEN JUST GIVE THE CUSTODY TO THE MORE STABLE PARENT THE FATHER WHO HAS THE MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF THEM SO MANY FOOLS COMPLAIN ABOUT THE RAISING AND MONEY IT TAKES STOP BITCHING AND LET THE MAN TAKE THE CUSTODY BUT MOST GIRLS KNOW THEY DONT WANT THAT CUZ THEY DONT WANNA PAY SUPPORT ...ITS ABOUT THE CHILD NOT YOU ...GO MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY!
MIC7572010 7 months ago
fathers need to start taking their kids away from gold diggin women... usin kids as an excuse to get money..... that shit is cheap...
ironboogz 1 year ago 5
I so agree with you get married before you start having Babies!!!
DJKJMyBabies 1 year ago
How are people who are paying $30,000 a month or more in child support stupid? If the judge orders you to pay you HAVE to pay, you have no control over it. Do you think people wanna pay that much? hell no! if you are ordered to pay ANYTHING, and you don't pay, you will be in contempt of court. People go to JAIL for not paying the amount they are supposed to pay or not paying at all, and their wages are garnished and income tax checks deducted for not paying what they were ordered.
TrynaGetBacToMyLuv 1 year ago
You pay what is fair, and you pay for the child! You don' t pay ridiculous amounts so money hungry women can live a certain lifestyle. Earn your own damn money!
MrJambone1 1 year ago
are you ever happy or in a good mood about anything? so much anger in you surely theres a reason your not married still....i have watched 2 video's and the 1 i really wanted to check you on was the re:interracial video but you are a negative person. I have a job, date white women and don't hate myself and im married
savagemann78 1 year ago
@savagemann78 So ... being married makes you happy? LOL! Obviously not since 50 to 60 percent of you get out of the deal. Fool, take that lame shit somewhere else. You question my happiness because of a video? Really??? Honey, boo. I have no time for lames such as yourself. My life is full and content spiced with happiness. I can vent on subjects I choose to vent on. Like it or not, this is my channel. You can vlog on your own. now who gone check me, boo??? LOL! yeah ..
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago 6
Who doesn't know that.
lindaisgay 1 year ago
you on birth control! thats a form of population control so as long as you don't have kids your doing exactly what they want you to by keeping black babies to a minimum
MrShawnsimms35genius 1 year ago
@MrShawnsimms35genius Black babies are no where near to being kept to a minimum. Stop believing the hype.
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago 2
but no one is there to give them any. Its a shame. You see the break down of the American family everyday. Take a walk down any street you please...at least one of them is a single parent trying to be both a mom and dad as well as bread winner, housekeeper, disciplinarian etc. Take care of your kids...its never about the money. These are the people that are supposed to take care of us when we reach old age...
TheAleska1987 1 year ago
I do believe marriage secures yourself and your kids future..even for the men. Marriage exist for a reason, when you step outside these social boundaries things like the 'baby mama and baby daddy' phenomenon happen. Multiple children are raised in single parent homes often with no male direction. The structure of the family home then become compromised because a woman cant raise a man just like a man cant raise a woman so the end result is a bunch of mad angry fatherless kids who want answers
TheAleska1987 1 year ago
This yet again a one sided way of seeing things but i will not punish anyone for there ignorance I am a single dad and I have had custody of my son since he was 2 months old I have got little to no help at all she is more than abandoned her responsibilty. But im not gonna sit on my butt and wait for anyone too take care of me and my son I did what all HUMAN BEINGS should do get a EFFIN job. My mother did not give birth to a lazy boy but she did raise a man
xxrobinannxx 1 year ago
@xxrobinannxx Well, you are welcome to make your own video and say what you want to say. It's YOUTUBE. Go for it!
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago 4
I never understand women who think because you had a baby by a man and when things don't work out being you two, the man is now obligated to not only support his kids (which most MEN do) but to support her as well. Should she not support these kids also? Should she not get Or do women think their job is done after they give birth?!? EXACTLY what do you spend $6000 a month for two kids on?
kyronqyahoo 1 year ago
A lot of women are emotional
89Ryanhoward 2 years ago
@89Ryanhoward
Obviously men are too. That would be evident by the number of women that are killed everyday at the hands of so called lovers and husbands.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
yea you're right, but i don't think they understand what i man go through in life
89Ryanhoward 2 years ago
you don't need to be showing this kinda shit for female. their alot of male out their paying shit load of child support. us men end up keeping like thousand buck a month. and their rent,food,gas,eletric, . their be no option to have fun!.and women file wellfare and child support spouse support. lazyass women. I personally havent seen my kids. i miss them like crazy! I wake up crying . the question is why don't i see them? cause i don't have the money to visit i'm broke from child support
personlikejonathan 2 years ago
@personlikejonathan
Wow ... sorry to hear of your situation. I never said men as a whole are not paying child support. I am saying that women need to stop having children out of wedlock. It secures a better future for your child in my opinion. Not that all out of wedlock children are doomed. Not saying that at all. Just saying make better decisions where children are concerned. Good luck to you.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
You got that right, you need to get married BEFORE you get married. Not right or wrong but how can you commit to raising another human being but not be married first. I was married and it was so much better for us and our children. I really had a partner to help raise our children right.
williamskat1 2 years ago
The more money you make the more money you pay in child support. Are people living under rocks. This is the NORM!! And Elin Woods is getting ready to get her $20 million settlement and that isn't even including child support. Based on income. You are right, it is your duty...go girl!!!
williamskat1 2 years ago
@williamskat1 You pay what is fair! Only a dumb- ass would pay too damn much so mommy can live royally. Elin woods gets alot because she was married to that guy and he didn' t have her sign a prenup. But when it comes too child support, those rich people paying 30,000 a month are just plain stupid.
MrJambone1 1 year ago
@MrJambone1 How are people who are paying $30,000 a month or more in child support stupid? If the judge orders you to pay you HAVE to pay, you have no control over it. Do you think people wanna pay that much? hell no! if you are ordered to pay ANYTHING, and you don't pay, you will be in contempt of court. People go to JAIL for not paying the amount they are supposed to pay or not paying at all, and their wages are garnished and income tax checks deducted for not paying what they were ordered.
TrynaGetBacToMyLuv 1 year ago
she need to take her ass to the studio & record that album. what the fuck you need ten thousand dollar a month for. hell haths no fury for a tramp scorned.
stlgreed 2 years ago
You don't live in that world so how do you know? Is TI better than other celebrities that he would only need to pay $2 grand a month. That is no money. My ex pays almost that for 2 kids and he definitely does not make anything near TI. Does anyone know how much the mom pays for the kids per month? With what my ex pays and I contribute to my kids, my ex is wayyyy behind!! Think about both sides of the fence, both arguments.
williamskat1 2 years ago
I'm 19 and i'm not gonna have no children unless i'm married to a man.
jazziejay0918 2 years ago
the things is most woman are trained to be dependent on a man...they are not conditioned to be self sufficient and use marriage or having a baby as a means of financial opportunity. A father should HELP take care of his children notice the word HELP. I mean help in every way including homework and other things to help develope a solid individual.Money should never be the sole issue.
darind1nonly 2 years ago
I don't know what women you speak of, but thanks for sharing your experience.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
jesus christ gold digger 101
KINGHARGRAVE 2 years ago
No, actually it is child support 101. The gold diggger excuse is tired and so not the point. But thanks for sharing anyway.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
I was married to my son's father and now we are divorced so marriage does not matter because it doesn't always last.
SuperJanet08 2 years ago
I'm not saying it last. I am saying that I would rather be protected under the law as a wife than a baby momma. That is what I am sayinng.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
Nothing goes according to plans I had a plan Sistah for real I used protection alll while I dated until I got MARRIED so I did my planning still didn't last three year I'm trying to say don't take nothing personal it's just a personal situation and honestly its not that bad. WHY women be acting crazy even on a bm that's in the kids lives you know That's all no one is mad at you. I don't even know you but thanks for your attention to my crap. Peace.
Divinecyphr 2 years ago
You plan your perfect life all you want, I don't need luck you do.
Divinecyphr 2 years ago
yeah, actually we all do. Question: why are you mad at me for the decisions you have made in your own life. I had nothing to with it.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
She has a house he paid for a car he paid and all the other expenses the kids may have. So 6000 dollars is more than enough when she don't have to spend money on the kids in the first place. I think she is just being greedy.
Dmidgette1 2 years ago
Looking at your face and hearing your opinion just made me so angry about females and what you all do even to brothers that want to be fathers to there children yall wrong for that. I got two kids a girl and a boy I love them the mother is a evil psycho. What makes females transform into this, most black don't survive because of this genetic flaw to destroy the man, destroy what I have built out of over due child payments and stress. Whats up with that?
Divinecyphr 2 years ago
Evil psychos attract evil psychos.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
you like that don't you evil attracts evil stupid is stupid does I get it. I'm just like her yeah over here my heart out the truth is I'mma psycho. cause I try make a family not just the baby I love my kids and the mother but you don't understand
Divinecyphr 2 years ago
Good luck to you.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
seems to be all about money with this chic, thats why brothers don't marry them chics..
billions18 2 years ago
Actually it is common sense with this chic. men are indeed getting married. The main point is marry women that you truly love. If not married, make sure you wear a durable condom. Protect yourself from the get go. Then you will not have to deal with this scenario.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
It's a blessing because the Lord giveth and the lord taketh away!Please don't forget that. There are parents who aren't in the position to provide for their children due to death, jail,etc. so she is blessed to have their father provide for them. The issue is not that he is providing for them because he is; she is worried about what he is doing for somebody else. Whether he is with Tiny or not she can provide for her own children without the help of TIP, can LaShon say the same thing?
premiergurl 2 years ago
I don't know her. I wish her the best whatever the situation. Seems from the latest reports they have worked everything out.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
I agree with you but "Vengence is the Lord's not mine" she should do her part and leave the rest to the Lord. In the end we all have to pay for our wrong doing. She shouldn't expect him to take care of her. He is being a man and taking care of his children and she should commend him on that. She is blessed that she has someone that wants to be and is a part of her children's lives. His job is to support his kids, not her.
premiergurl 2 years ago
How is it a blessing for him to do what he is supposed to do? Taking care of your kids is what you should do. Not a blessing.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
actually not all women of all Cultures go through this...Women of my country will not give a shit about ur Money.
thestreetdogg 2 years ago
That is your opinion. I am speaking from mine.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
Again I love the video. And you are right about everything you have said. I have kids out of wedlock. And things would have been so much easier. If I had gotten the license first. Then the kids. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way. But I love my kids. And I am raising them to have more self worth about themselves. And take care of themselves. Thanks again for another great videos.
Tennia1 2 years ago
wats her problem everything she'd talking boutis crazy
tosheh 2 years ago
whats the big fuss idk y people feel as tho they have to voice a negative oppinion wen u can jus say i dont agree and b dun i feel ATL sista have a rite to voice her oppinion and im sorry if u guys dont like what im sayn im the type who hear what sumone has to say and deal with it let people say what they have to say im sure u guys have said things in ur life people didnt agreewid u.didnt like it did u now take a sec think about it.. dont lie cuz its life peace out and more power to ya ATLsis
shardaedae23 2 years ago
u wrote me that only the weak mindless men will agree... and i also agree.
never the less, if u look at the stats they will prove me correct and u just a romantist. facts are facts
sorry sista, but babies mamas will have to hide in the not to distant future.
99% of men will become mindless when the shit hits da fan. ta ta and interesting vid.
MrWolf666 2 years ago
Hmm ... then they need to carry condoms on their person AND USE THEM. Yeah, that goes for both parties. So simple to do.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
its better to shoot the kid or the mom, or both. in the future there is going to be a blood bath.
right or wrong men will soon act on the child support law and take action. i know alot of men ready to set it off and go shooten. babies mamas are gonna have to hide. look at the news... they shoot mom and kids. i'm not for killing but i know its coming with the future economic chaos. men feel enslaved... and they will become animals.
ask any dude who is trapped... they will all agree.
MrWolf666 2 years ago
Only the weak mindless ones will agree.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
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pairadicetv 2 years ago
Hoes attract hoes. So, they both need to suit up. Hmph ...
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
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pairadicetv 2 years ago
You sound ridiculous.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
thanks for encouraging marriage!!!
many people have lost sight of marriage and the importance of it.
MiloandDaisy113 2 years ago
Not sure why ne1 would give you a negative to this comment. Marriage should be encouraged. Though nothing is perfect, the odds for raising a happier child are higher when they are under the care of their two loving, sensible adult parents.
GogatsuGirl 2 years ago
you need to be quiet and stop teaching the women to be gold diggers and go get a job any job,
tutan36 2 years ago
hmmm, T.I DOES pay for child support. and ALL of T.I.'s kids live with T.I. and Tiny... T.I. still takes care of those kids... like every father should. Lason Dixon just needs to shut the hell up. =D.
T.I. is still my babbbbyyyy. =D.
T.I.♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
lizzyforever5461 2 years ago
man lady shut the hell up 4realll becuz i bet that baby mama stays at home all damn day ridin in the NEW CAR he just bought he not doin shit with her life but waitin 4 that child support i bet he does wayyy mre 4 those kids then she does regaurdless of him been a rich celeb or not if she feels that she needs more money she needs to get her lazy ass up and do somethng and yes i do agree w./ u ladys stop havin babys w. theses niggaz and not marring them
orignalmosthated 2 years ago
I just need you to learn how to spell. Please. It is so necessary in the real world. Also, she got what she wanted. So, tell the men to stop putting their naked docks in raw pussy and we would not be having this discussion.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
@Atlanta
It is also your choice to allow a naked penis enter you vagina and conceive. There ARE more contraceptive options for women than men.
Marriage isn't an option for you or the women you're talking too. If you're over 30 and single, guys know the deal; it's instinctUAL and they want nothing to do with you. You are a permanent "common she-dogg" As Ms. Tyler calls it.
There's no mistakes when it comes to women and pregnancy; AND wmen tend to WEAR their mistakes as they get older.
alexchick404 2 years ago
You got me fucked up, little one. The point that I have made many times is that blames lies with both parties. I don't give a damn who has more birth control targeted toward them. All folks are responsible for their own individual decisions. And all women over 30 are not looking to get married. Speak for your own useless life. Get a clue! Marriage is not the end all be all. Kick rocks and go play in traffic.
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
contd:...to pay out of pocket, 20K is come up money for herself. Yet, she is back in court again asking him to fork out more money. And why? So she can set aside money for the kids savings. Really! So, Lashawn, how much is it you say that you contribute financially to the kids upkeep? I say, give T.I. full custody. That way he doesn't have to pay her a dime. Then we'll really see whether it was all about the money or not. That's the way you kill that noise.
Severe Poetry
mrflightrisk 2 years ago 2
Going above and beyond is all well and dandy, ATLSis, but when you have a man who bought your house, bought your car, pays all the monthly expenses, pays all the kids healthcare,extracurricular activities, schooling, etc....and you still ask for more, that's a problem. ESPECIALLY when what you do for the kids compared to him is but a drop in the bucket. It's totally one-sided. I think they said she makes 20K a year. With no mortgage note, no car note, and no expenses she has to pay out of...
mrflightrisk 2 years ago
I agree ATL you women ((well not you)) but women need to find compadiable mates, get to know him at least a year before opening your legs to him, that way he will see your not quote every other girl, but as in the case of TI's baby momma I totally disagree yes your right were not in her shoes, but she seems like a very ungrateful bitch I'm 90% sure it's not about her kids it's about her buying fur coats & stuff
MalcomAP 3 years ago 2
i dont understand why u cant have an opinion just bc u dont have kids. i dont have kids either and think that all of this baby mama/baby daddy crap is out of control. how hard is it to get on birth control. why do these women keep having babies by men who dont want to be with them? i cant call it. and i dont understand it. *sigh*
rileymichelle1999 3 years ago
Your right Lady. That piece of paper gives you everything you need when you divorce your husband for cheating or beating on you. Did you even consider that this little bit of paper also gives you everything when its the woman who has cheated? It works both ways, wether your black, white, pink, green or orange.
BloodRaaven 3 years ago
Of course it goes both ways.
No one said it did not.
Don't be silly.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
so if you never been in this situation or know much about it, then why comment on it or worse yet post a video?
Ifoxye 3 years ago
This is my channel and I wanted to make a video. Very simple. Doesn't take a degree to figure that one out.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
women need to watch out who they have sex with, and men also!! It goes both ways, i seen some grimey baby mothers and also grimey baby daddies.
sistacee32 3 years ago 3
The mssg in this video is to get married so you can collect when you get divorced.
This is truly sad.
Guess Brothers should be advised to get PRENUPS to preempt these women being advised (by this video) to get you to marry them so when they divorce you they can take you to the cleaners.
THE STATE OF THE BLACK FAMILY UNIT.
kahanyah 3 years ago
Well if that is the message you received, then so be it. You are entitled. And like I have said in my video to follow, some folks need to stop fooling themselves into thinking they money that is even prenup material. You folks kill me with the foolishness. And by the way, the state of the Black families I see is just fine. Have a great day!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
AtlSistah, your video is going out to avrg black women dating avrg black men. I dont understand what you mean by the avrg black man's money is not prenup material.
kahanyah 3 years ago
HOW SAD
xxxlady77 3 years ago
yeah, it is. Dig a hole ...
AtlantaSistah 2 years ago
i agree... and i hope that they get married for the reasons of being with the person...
kidblackfoot 3 years ago
My advice to young men..if you're having sex wrap that shit up!!!
Young ladies....demand that he uses protection or at least be on some form of birth control yourself.
Men....if you have money and you want to get married...do a prenup first or walk away... real talk.
supergoddamn 3 years ago
I agree.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
I'm glad you do. You'd be surprised at hoe many women hate that I support prenups.
I have a nephew who's likely to get into Major League Baseball. The girls are coming at him left and right black and white.
If he marries one he will be doing a prenup even if I have to hold a gun to his head.
And if he marries he will also treat her with respect and he will marry one that respects him. Real Talk!!
supergoddamn 3 years ago
I support any and everyone doing what is necessary to have their business in order. I know Britney Spears wishes she had a prenup.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
best advice on the blog!
kahanyah 3 years ago
how is that, so are you all for a women getting everything she can out of a man
kenolson04 3 years ago
In a true relationship, both parties should indeed get everything out of each other. Don't be stupid. I really have a low tolerance for the youtube stupidity. It has become overwhelming.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
why get married when she thinking bout devorce before the ring get on her finger, see i've sat back and said nothing for over a year now and just listen, see alot of black females want to know why they not getting married, here it is. AS HARD AS IT IS FOR A BLACK MAN TO GET SOMETHING THAT WENT TO SCHOOL WHY IN THE FUCK WOULD I WORK THAT HARD DAY IN DAY OUT TO GIVE 65 CENT OF A DOLLAR TO A FEMALE WHO'S PLAN ALL ALONE WAS TO GET ME FOR THAT 65 CENT. see it's their way of thinking... get the man
kenolson04 3 years ago
you sound like a true idiot
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
you are right kenolson and that is the mssg AtlantaSistah is putting out to these young sistahs. I suggest to counter that the young black males need to be told to prenup.
Personally I think spousal support should be done away with. Every person should be responsible for him/herself.
kahanyah 3 years ago
she has to pay for security, kids private school, food, clothes, going over they're homework with, im sure shes the mom and dad in her kids life if hes always on the road, with his wife etc.
LyricalPoetAuthor 3 years ago
He doesn't have a wife. But yeah, he is on the road alot. She is doing double duty.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
oh i thought he married Tiny but the woman with the other kids knows how much is needed so i wouldnt arguecwith her
LyricalPoetAuthor 3 years ago
uve got to be one of the ugliest women ive ever seen
bulletintheface2 3 years ago
nah ... not hardly. You forgot about your momma and the whore you lay with at night.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
LMAO....now that is
lovie2000 3 years ago
OK, second comment....surely you dont think that women dont want money? TI has some money and oh yah, women want that...I know plenty of women who are white, black, etc., who are with men because they have money. For TI to assume a woman wants him for his money, is dead right on the mark. ~Raven
RadicalComedy 3 years ago
The lady that had his first children was with him BEFORE the money.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
OK, I stand corrected on that....but I know women like my cousin where whats in his pocket is how they think of his money. He doesnt even have to have a job so its really a trip these days. ~Raven
RadicalComedy 3 years ago
You may have a point there. There's nothing attractive or compelling about TI or rather being with TI WITHOUT money!
But does he even have enough to make being with him worth it though?
jrmetmoi 3 years ago
Ask Tiny.
She seems to be in it for the long haul.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Cause SHE'S a FOOL! LOL Let's press the Rewind button back to her Xscape days! LOL
Hey their songs weren't bad at all anyway!
jrmetmoi 3 years ago
Also, it is important to note that in addition to being forced to pay shit loads of money, a man will often have a diminished relationship with the child...Because, to be perfectly honest...that is the most important thing here. The child will suffer the most as a result of parents having child custody and child support wars.
Both the mother and the father need to put their personal hostilities and resentments to the side....for the sake of the child.
Jasmusic23 3 years ago
I think that you are discounting the fact that a lot of women use the fact that they have a child by a man as a means to control them or simply get money that they don't even use for the child. It's never ALL the man's fault or ALL the woman's fault. And YES the court systems are mostly geared towards a woman. It has improved over the years, but generally speaking, the man doesn't really have that much of a voice in the matter, especially if the woman has bitterness towards the man.
Jasmusic23 3 years ago
That was so well said Jasmusic.
betterworld21 3 years ago
All about the money grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
redman30034 3 years ago
You ain't got no money!
LOL!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
You got that right :) Only runaway financial advisers have money in this economy. Anyway all I am saying is especially in the so called black community is as long as people(men or women) think that potential spouses are after assets people will resist marriage. Also a woman does not "marry a man" it just does not work that way. :)
redman30034 3 years ago
I feel you.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
There is no incentive for a man to enter a relationship nowadays.
TSmitty3000 3 years ago
Yes there is....Love and Happiness!
purpleamythstone 3 years ago
i agree a lil bit wit some shit she say but aaaanyway, fuck t.i. & dat bitch, life is aaaaallll about da games people play & i hate to say it but women play the most games, especially black women.
PaiprBoi 3 years ago
atlanta sistah, thanks for the video, as a man watching this, i know what to do, invest my funds in silver bars and gold and bury it under my kinsfolks residences. so no money shows up in my ASSETS. I have no MONEY!!!!
babyfadda45 3 years ago
Do you, boo.
Good luck!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
fellas: if you not ready to have kids, get a vasectomy. It can be reversed letter.... law systems favored women period
babyfadda45 3 years ago
personal responsibility is loaded issues many of us do not want to deal with. Its easier to come up with excuses for our poor behavior and choices. I agree with sentiment but too many people with rather look on the outside than within.
thatbklyngirl 3 years ago
You give black women a
very bad title with this
speech! and you think it's
funny too, what the fuck?
23taurus23 3 years ago 4
No, I think you are funny.
LMFAO!!!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
What I said was funny huh?
it was about you LMAO!
23taurus23 3 years ago
Oh, sorry, boo.
I didn't mean funny as in ha-ha ...
See ya!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Aftr reading these comments, it amazes me hw some of these men totally negate the fact that if they dont want to be held financially responsible, then DONT HAVE SEX! Simply do NOT have sex. Cuz if you do, you are AUTOMATICALLY setting YOURSELF up for a HUGE responsibility. We all know how babies are made. And we all know that it is MEN who are the biggest initiators/seekers of sex.(yes woman want it to, but lets he real here). So MEN need to be accountable for their desires. Its quite simple.
morenabella13 3 years ago
wow!!!!!!!! that was an extreme gold digging tactic atlantasista. get married so if ya'll get divorce you'll have a better chance getting the cash? lol, oh man, americanize females are fucked up seriously.
dnice5555567899 3 years ago
So are bitch ass men. And stop the gold digging BS. You ain't got no T.I. money. No one is going to dig gold on you. Be for real.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
lol, that doesn't stop materialistic women tho. but african-american females are just shameful. and ya'll wonder why 70% of ya'll are single. shit like this and more.
dnice5555567899 3 years ago
Believe the statistics if you want.
My circle says something different.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
This is pathetic. Marriage is nothing more than a scam (towards men that is). Marriage then divorce is almost certain. Why even bother getting married? Just a waste of money and time, and yet we are so afraid of commitment...LMAO!!
silverdragon1979 3 years ago
Depends on the individuals involved. Shitty folks attract shitty folks. Clean up your shit.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
First of all, you don't know me so don't tell me what I have to clean up.
2. "Shitty folks attract shitty folks" is a ridiculous response. Some shitty folks lure naive and innocent people because they won't see their shit coming (or assume so anyway). This message your portraying here is a prime example of that. And don't even think your going to sucker me into defending my character because my character has nothing to do with your video(good or bad).
silverdragon1979 3 years ago
No need for you to defend a thing. Your words are all we need. Thanks for weighing in.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Stopping by To Say hI!!
superjeremy99 3 years ago
LOL! hey Jeremy. Good to see you.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
70% of divorces are initiated by the woman, so YES you have put us off marriage. You have PROVED!!! that the laws are completely unfair how can a man spend 20 years in education for some woman to marry him, make his life hell then take half his money AND THE KIDS!!! Feminist movement has f***ed up society
thrilla72 3 years ago
What fucking money?? Why do you bitchlits keep acting as if you have any money?? STOP IT! Please! It is getting to be ridiculous. Have you looked at yourself lately? Look in the mirror. What woman wants to be bothered to your trifling short ass? be for real.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
you're getting alimony and child support confused.
And if you claim all these men are broke, then why'd you claim that women should marry the men to get their money? That's contradictory.
And you've done nothing but made men avoid marriage more with your comments.
rockb922 3 years ago 3
No confusion here, son. I meant what I said. No contradiction either. Marriage secures certain rights that being a "baby momma" does not. Don't act stupid. Addressing these broke (back mountain) men has to be done. They fly up in here and on other videos talking about their money is in danger. Hmph ... what money?
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
One thing I must agree with you on. Marriage does secure [responsibility rights] in a childs life. Maybe, just maybe, some people can explain why they're "allergic" to marriage. Seems as though people are so self involved with self gratification, be-damned any social resposibility at taking care of a child that may come from a brief, albeit horizontal encounter of lust. Appreciate you mixing it up here in your response posts and setting some people straight. Keep it cooking!
nine110 3 years ago
They need to stop talking like they asses are balling out of control. Get real. If men avoid marriage because of my comments, then they never entertained the idea anyway. Why don't they avoid going up in the pussy without protection? Stop trying to screw every hole in sight. Do that!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
its much easier for a man to prevent a woman from getting all he has to do is a wear DAMN rubber some of these men are lazy and careless
corrinecurry 3 years ago 2
I AGREE
Lady30906 3 years ago
Agreed.
lifeinterrupted 3 years ago
Or maybe they should get a career and not rely on a man.
penguinworm 3 years ago
Rely on a man for what?? Most of thses broke (back mountain) fools ain't got no damn money. Stop fooling yourselves! No of these women is trying to have your baby for your money. BROKE!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL broke back mountain gurl u got me over here dying LOLOLOL check your mail
corrinecurry 3 years ago
I'm saying their focus should be on supporting themselves rather than getting married so that they can get more money if it doesn't work out.
penguinworm 3 years ago
why wouldn't a skank want to "get money" like this. This is a way of life for most black women (70%)...child support, welfare alimony...2nd parenting is not signing a check every month...don't let these golddiggers fool you, and stop trying to justify this Bs
BlackMenVentTV 3 years ago
Well, lookie here. Oh, this is too good to be true.
ROFLMAO!
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
gold digging hoe, you black women are evil. Straight from the horses mouth. Y'all black men need to watch this video -there's your explanation for why 70% of black children are born out of wedlock. straight from her own mounth. It's like gold
k16jones 3 years ago
You dumb asses are hysterical to say the least. Most of you mofo's don't have anywhere near the money T.I. has. Stop fooling yourself. Don't even think some sistah wants to have your kids for the money. You know your ass is broke, so don't even go there. And then to top it off, most of you are short. Honey, boom! Take that bullshit elsewhere.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Love it!
ramissa404 3 years ago
Irrevelant opinion. Clearly immaterial and lacking good judgment.
ocular1 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Girl you are the bomb! keep up the good good!
Tebias
FlightTherapy 3 years ago
Woo hoo! I too love being a BW who does NOT have kids out of wedlock, actually I don't have any kids although people think that young black women just hiccup the babies out! Woo hoo anyway though!
jrmetmoi 3 years ago 3
yeah baby that't right. PUT A RING ON IT
freek373 3 years ago 2
What cracked me up about the Whinos is the fact that they get mad at Sisters for not schooling young women on making a commitment. But here you are talking about marriage, about making a commitment. No more OW babies.
I also noticed none of them responded to either of our comments about using condums.
makezmuzic 3 years ago 4
To respond would mean one would have to take responsibility. SOME Black men on youtube can't do that.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
Many black women don't take responsiblity as well.
lcchill 3 years ago
Duh! I know that and have said so as well. In fact, lets divert from the Black race and take a look at everyone. ALL people need to take responsibility. I hope that works for you.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
I just want to start off by saying I love your video. That said I agreed with everything you had to say but the marriage thing. Making a baby does not make a marriage. No matter how much you love your children a one night stand is a one night stand not a marriage. Your kids are much worse off if they know in thier hearts mommy and daddy only got married to raise them.
much love ,
CrimsonCliff
CrimsonCliff 3 years ago
Maybe so. It depends on the situation. But I do get your point. Thanks for weighing in.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
GIRL! I wont touch this subject! BUT I clearly understand and you know even IF you explained this a trillion times, they will cuss you! I had fun tonight.
Cya next month
vivey623 3 years ago
Girl, they mad. I knew the losers would be. It is what it is.
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago
So people who disagree would be "losers"..? Nice.
"Getting that money you want." Is that more important than the welfare of the child?
LLO525Star 3 years ago
Nah ... the losers come up in here buck wild thinking they will not be addressed. You come fucked up, you get fucked up. See it is all in your approach. Many folks have disagreed with me. Hell, that happens everyday. BUT it is all in how you say it. Anything else?
AtlantaSistah 3 years ago