Do You have a Bromance?

[hugmeister4744]

I had a bromance before the word was even known of. This dude was the closest thing that I had to a "boyfriend" but we never had sex or made out. Every time he stayed at my place we slept in the same bed and he always allowed me to show him my love, as well as returning it. Then, he got engaged and would not let our bromance continue. I have not spoken to him or called him since that day. Im still devastated by it.

[tatuyugipiulover]

I like seek Bromance by Tim Berg

[KachiOya]

Fuck yes. I'm gay and my two best friends are guys. They've stuck by me since middle school and they've never given half a fuck that I'm gay.

[KingdomXeiln06]

Yes, I have like 3 bromances. 3 straight friends that cant live without me.

[cherrydog9]

i had a bromance with my foxy straight pal

[RajjGupandajionline]

Yeah, even being 17 years old there are dudes that i have that connection with, they're the people i will always have by my side.

[warmgulfwind]

Hmmm, I used to have two best friends: one straight guy and one straight girl. Both relationships were extemely close and we shared everything one on one and a lot openly between the three of us. Because I'm gay they both thought I could help them with thier love lives: "You're a guy so, what's my boyfriend thinking..." and "You're gay so, you're more emotional, what does my girlfriend mean..." Ugh. Now I have a guy friend who I would marry if he were so inclined, sadly he is not. He's funny...

[warmgulfwind]

(con't)... he thinks I'M funny. He even loves my singing voice for chrissakes. I like going to movies and playing Rockband and so does he, we insist on playing every time we get together with friends. Our other friends don't get it: they either think I'm hopelessly in love or that he's secretly gay.Yes, I'll always have a thing for him: he just does it for me, period, but that's not what he is to me. If he wasn't so busy with school, work and his girlfriend I think we could become like brothers.

[kern0099]

I have a bromance I'd like to end, actually. Our landlord is a born-again xtian, nuttier than anyone, but a really nice guy. We always chat, etc, while my partner hates him, lol. Anyway, I'm tired of being his emotional mop. He dumps on me like I'm his therapist. Straght men: Messes for someone else to clean up. It's just tacky, really.

[jobberinnyc]

Hmmm, I'm not sure if this counts as a bormance, but I met a really good friend in line at a comic book convention. We weren't sure we were in the right line to get books signed, so he held my spot while I was checking with the guys who ran the booth. I came back and we talked about comics and bonded and have been close since. I also have a tendency to have a lot of my straight friends tell me that if they were gay, I'd be the guy they'd want to date. If only a gay guy would say that to me.

[MaefGalaxies]

I have really cool friends and many bromances...nothing to do with sex...just fantastic cool times that hang out and talk to me about anything and are way masculine and go out with my firends who are girls...anyhow this is a raddass video...i just found your youtube site and u are way rad! Ur transformer and toy collection and your topics are awesome..love it! Peace Man!

[jonjon1491]

I do have a bromance. It's actually with my neighbor who I met back in March. We've become I think so close, though he is straight and im gay hes talked to me about things I didnt think he would feel comfortable talking to me about. But hes a great guy, has literally changed my life, and I know im there for him. I think I can say that I would trust him with my life. and I'd do whatever he needed help with. A good way to put it is, If he needed the help, Id help him bury the body.

[JasondeLEpee]

I'd say I have a bromance with a great friend of mine. He and I are geeks ourselves, he being an anime-geek, while I'm an action figure and video game geek, so we can talk a lot about different things ourselves. It was Fullmetal Alchemist that drew us together as bros.

I'm gay myself, and he was the first person I came out to, and his reaction was awesome. He's straight, but he is so supportive. I love that guy. Always make time to talk to him about whatever.

[drby3]

I have one close friend who I tell everything to and tells me everything.....he is also straight and I wonder if that fact has bearing on the closeness of the relationship? ... Chuckie and I have been friends now for almost 13 years

[BrewsterMcCloud1974]

Only real man let the emotion run free. The sensation of freedom is overwhelming. No matter if youre straight, gay or in between.

[FaytLinegod]

I have at least three really good buddies who I consider close enough to be brothers. Two straight, one gay. We bonded over geek stuff. Comics, animation and whatnot.

[Ravage1979]

Thats how me and my mate bonded, Transformers, Thundercats, Visionaries, He-Man, etc etc, all the classics from the 80's.!

[Grotomode]

I dont even have friends! T_T

[possbejm]

"No homo"? I'm going to have to look that up - sounds pretty funny. I've never heard anyone use that phrase, but I'm sure in 6-8 weeks it'll arrive. Our city is usually quite a ways downstream from the newest trends.

[appleyeoman]

This is such a sweet video!

[danrupert]

I like to use the phrase "full homo".

[GayComicGeek]

LOL, I should start to use that myself.

[meitzjoei]

sure wish i did

[ShartimusPrime]

Yeah, me and one of my best friends traveled the country together in a band for a year and went through some crazy shit together. Each band member was a Turtle, he's Mikey and I'm Donnie, so he's the one that really went thru most of the crazy shit. He got arrested in Nevada and Utah, and then he almost died right in front of me in North Carolina. Those things and unforgettable happy memories gives us a strong bond. He's like a brother to me. What can i say, I love the guy. So homo, I know.

[sandform]

I didn't realize it was a rap thing, I had been annoyed by some annoying little freaker that kept on saying no homo all the time. I was like what the hell man? No one in here thinks your gay or would care if you are gay, so shut the fuck up! "I have really sensitive skin, no homo." Makes me want to strangle the gosh darn bastard.

[darquenite]

I have one. But Im totally falling in love with him.. Sucks

[GayComicGeek]

Oh...well that does suck. I don't wanna go into therapist mode here, but do you know his feelings towards you?

[darquenite]

Um they're very unclear. Like one min he'll be like man i like that girl. But then he'll say he loves broadway shows and wants to see wicked so bad.

I told him I made out with some one

then he pretty much yells " Who was he!.... I mean him or her....."

cuz im bi but thats a weird reaction. I didnt tell him either

[ovakasan]

@GayComicGeek

mehim the same way i cant help it im kinda into him so badly however he kissed me and i dont know what the hell is going on

[maxxxxsolo]

dude if i had a bro crush its you. staighup of course I'm a bromance whore lmao.

[GayComicGeek]

LOL! Thanks dude! If we lived near each other, we'd probably be talking geek stuff all the time. It's rare for me to talk about geeky to other people besides my best friend, which I think is what got me so close to him to begin with.

[Ravage1979]

Rare....?! Your videos at the convention showed god knows how many people to talk to!

I love geeky talk!

[roberdancer]

i totally have a bromance XD

[zxcbyyyy]

I have a friend where we just talk about everything and feel free to ask each other anything. We tell each other a lot of terrible and political incorrect jokes. We see a lot of movies together and he is a great friend. That no homo video was too funny and ya rap is really gay.

[arklightbabybear]

My best friend and I are that close, closer than friends, like brothers...we talk about everything...

[tattooskin72]

I've had quite a few of these so called bromances. I think it's mostly because of my profession. Guys have found it very easy to just say things to me.

[sadguyfoundout1]

lol are u a counselor?

[tattooskin72]

LOL, no, I'm a hairstylist... or used to be. I don't work in a salon anymore. When I did... those guys would tell me shit they wouldn't tell anyone else... crazy stuff.

[reesemoney]

yea i have a bromance with my best friend but he is sort of struggling with his sexuality and with me being gay i sort of try to help him figure it out and we talk about certain things constantly. Things that he could never tell anyone else he tells me and that is wat keep us so close.

[xBrandonHexx]

well, This would be there first time I addressed a friendship as such, but after Scrubs it does seem funnier to me, yes have had many. I'm pretty talkative and expressive so never held back, just never thought of it outside a 'best friend' thing.

[GayComicGeek]

Well it's good that you can express yourself. A lot of guys just don't want to talk about their emotions and can't connect to their friends outside of talking about chicks and liquor.

[xBrandonHexx]

I've had to roll my eyes about a million times with somebody thinking i was all man, a mans man, a guy that must not mind hearing some stupid crap about sex or race or religion.

I have to admit, online I get carried away with fighting at times and lose sight of how I am and how I think I need to be to deal with scum. That's when I turn into another person to make excuses for myself. Working on it, changing.

[bimboblacky]

@GayComicGeek Late comment, I realize, but R U not 4-getting the other classic topic? ***SPORTS***

[swampex]

Yeah I do have. I have two actually. One is my friend since we where5 or so, we recently had a fallout but we are okay now, is not the same thing but we are getting there.

And the other one, the one i care the most right now is with this guys from high shcool, we been thru a lot together, I think i´m the only guy he has ever hug, ( it´s not sad he just is not confortable hugging at all XD) His family doesn´t like me that much, but yeah, if he ever has chldren i´m probably uncle Javier.

[GayComicGeek]

Yeah, I'm being introduced constantly to my buddies kid as Uncle Paul.

[YouStoleMyTube]

Nope nope nope nope nope! I stay away from all straight males. Just... Never works out. They're either always uncomfortable around you, or you start having feelings for them, or worse, both.

All around bad news!

[ovakasan]

@YouStoleMyTube meh not always but i get what you mean

[olnightstar69]

In the begining, no. However, now I do. Attitudes have changed over the years, and it's easier now than it was when i was a teenager. I'm out @ my job, my gym, and most of my friends are gay, but I've got straight friends who are cool with it, They seem to be intrigued with the dynamics of our lifestyle.

[GayComicGeek]

Yeah, me too. Most of my straight friends are a little intrigued about me and my boy. But most of friends are straight. Not that I don't love my gay buddies, but honestly most of my gay friends have more drama going on than my straight friends do and it's hard to keep up with so I have to limit my time around them or I'll get involved in all of it.

[olnightstar69]

When everyone starts out, there can't be anything else but drama. Everything you were raised to believe in completely changes when you come out. You'll see sides of people that you didn't know existed. Folks say a lot of things, but their behavior speaks volumes. The good experiences take away the bad ones. It's great that your bros are so cool.

:-)

[Ravage1979]

Yeah, i have a bromance, similar to yourself. Im gay he's straight, and weve been mates for nigh on 10 years, and i think of him as a brother more than a best friend. Even his family call us brothers, i call his brother and sister my brother and sister, and his kids call me uncle, its awesome!

[GayComicGeek]

That's awesome! Sometimes I feel bad and I worry that some people give my buddy slack for having a gay best friend, but he's been great and he's never said anything to me about it, so I don't think it bothers him too much.

[Ravage1979]

The thing is, and ive said this to my 'Bro', is that if people cant accept you for who you are, then theyre not worth worrying about. He has taken this on board for himself, and for me, and me fr him, thats why were so close, we stick together no matter what. He knows i love him, and i know he loves me, though he hasnt said it as such. If anyone gives him a bad time because of me, i'll talk to these people, and most of the time their attitude changes. The best things is, were both geeks too!

[slyfox1944]

You are very lucky to have such a close friend. I wish that I could say the same, but it has just never happened. It's true that men usually keep their emotions hidden. I think should break out of the mold and shed a tear once in a while. I bet we would all feel better.

[GayComicGeek]

Yeah, it's tough for guys to shed their tough image to let themselves be free. I bet there are guys that you know that want to open up and talk, but just can't because they're afraid to let out their emotions. It's a shame that our society does that us.