Why the hell should whatever is between someone's legs dictate who I can be attracted to? Women are amazing, guys are amazing, transgender people are amazing. I am bisexual and I refuse to be put into a box and dictate for myself who I can love based on something as trivial as their freaking sexual organs.
finally someone who says exactly all i think, i soo hate it when people say bisexuals dont exist, i am actually atracted to both sexes equally, thats just the way it is and i could never change that
@neil22100 Hahah I don't think you understand the concept of us bisexuals not caring! You're not going to change our sexuality by calling us "dumb and filthy" so for your own sake, stop wasting your time commenting on every video on Youtube about Bisexuality.
also would like to say, i'm bisexual and i refuse to get married to a man until all people can equally get married and have the same rights, that way i don't hear that whole argument. if i find a man who i love and he is the unique person for me, out of respect for my gay and bisexual brethren and sisters, i will not marry him until the fight for equality is over! same thing with adoption rights!
THANK YOU!! i'm the most boring bisexual in the world. i just happen to be attracted to both men and women. its who ever i have the best chemistry with, that is it, that simple really! i know it blows peoples heads but they are ignorant and need to get some things right!
@yivivylu You have a sad sense of humor...or you're trying to cover your own ass for being made to look like a fool, or of course both. In any case I urge you to find a more constructive pass time then trolling youtube videos.
@yivivylu Odd...I didn't think I said anything to warrant such a response. In any case since you're apparently no longer able to form a cohesive argument I guess I can only hope you won't let your pride get in the way of you better understanding bisexuals as a result of this conversation. Or if nothing else, others will come across this conversation and be better educated as a result at the very least. Have a nice day now.
@yivivylu Switch sides? Exactly when did this turn into some sort of game or war that has sides? It's not as if it's one day we like guys, next day we like girls. I love my boyfriend, but that doesn't mean he or I will stop looking at porn of girls and/or guys just because our significant other is a guy, or if the worst happens and we split up or one of us dies we aren't going to limit possible future significant others to just guys just because that's who we dated before.
@yivivylu I never said personality was the only thing, but that it's more important then appearance, at least to me. Physical attractiveness helps in any relationship obviously, but I'm not going to go dump someone just because they let their looks go a bit either. I don't see why it should matter to me which set of equipment they have downstairs. I know intellectually that's how you monosexuals are wired, but I just can't imagine being so limited. I feel sorry for you actually.
@yivivylu Clearly you have a short attention span as I already explained I never decided to go with both, I just noticed I was attracted to both and that was it. It never occurred to me that I "had" to decide, and I still don't see one good reason why I should have to. To me the person's personality matters to me more then their appearance.
@yivivylu no, that means you were touching yourself. If you touching yourself I'm not surprised you got an erection. I'm talking about erections without playing with your junk. If you got a stiffie from just looking at the wall I'd say you were attracted to it, which would be weird but I've seen odd fetishes before so I wouldn't rule anything out at this point. And what decision are you talking about? Did you decide which gender you like? Because if you are, you'd be the first I've ever met.
@yivivylu I am perfectly aware of who I am. I never wondered "do I like men or women?". One day, I just happened to realize I got a hard on while thinking about men in a sexual manor, just like I did with women. I shrugged and accepted that I was bisexual. I saw no point in questioning a natural reaction. And unlike you monosexuals I can appreciate someone for their personality rather then their looks. You need to stop caring about what's in between your significant others legs and GROW UP!
@yivivylu ah...you're one of those people. Well, that's an understandable misconception usually from young, single people as people who actually do settle down can probably tell you that they didn't stop being attracted to other woman just because they married their wife. It's the same way with bi's but we're still attracted to men and woman regardless of who we settle down with.
@yivivylu I'm bisexual and I assure you I'm not confused about a damn thing. Well...that's not true. I'm confused about how people can only be attracted to only one gender.
I like what you said toward the beginning. Bi' people fall in love with the person. Gender is not so important. I fall for a person. Their sexual plumbing is not so important to me.
I'm a bisexual woman too,and I really know the feeling of the bisexual,so I'll share a great bisexual dating site (bi matching.com)with other bisexual people,because I've found my bisexual love at there,and now,I live a happy life with my lover...
if a person needs both a man and a woman in their relationships (or for that matter more than one person period). that is called being polyamorous, it has nothing to do with sexualtiy, but rather their emotional needs. :)
Lots of straight and gay people are Poly-A, as well.
i am a bi woman and im in a relationship with a man. I am faithful to him but we have 3sums with other bi women. Without the option of the 3sums i dont think i could be faithful because i dated a man in the past who wasnt into 3sums so i cheated on him with women and later left him for my current boyfriend. i know bisexuals can be faithful with one sex partner because i dont put one group of people in a box to be one way. but for me as a bi woman, i need both. sry if i let some of you bi's down.
It's the same thing with biracial people. It is easier for society to identify them as one, or the other. People want things white, or black. Most people do not believe in the like, or the grey.
hold on a second. i think the problem that people (and me, subconsiously til now) have with bisexuals is that at least with uni(???)sexuals they only would have to worry about 50% as many people for their partner to cheat with. in this theory bisexuals would be twice as likely to cheat because if most life situations involve half women and half men, doesn't the chance of encountering someone they find attractive go up?
@karmacop911 No. I don't think that logic holds at all. A person is either going to cheat or not. And it's not a sea of people that makes them cheat--it's usually just one person or they are choosing to actively pursue it.
Really what difference does it make if a bisexual person in NYC has 8 million options and a hetero/homosexual person ONLY has 4 million? Really now.
@JerbyVids yeah but ... have you ever been in a room with 8 million people? have you never found yourself stolen away by someone's attractiveness despite yourself?
i have been in a relationship with a bi guy. he said he was "bi now, gay later". i think he would never have cheated, but i dumped him, not because of that, but just because i wasn't attracted to him.
bisexuaility IS kind of attractive "P, but being a 5 or 6 i still feel a little intimidated by it.
@JerbyVids amen brother! i'm a bisexual women and i'm christian and nerdy to boot. i am all about monogamy and i think majority of true bisexual are that way. theres cheaters in every sexual orientation, what was it, 15 or 20 years ago wasn't it thought that gays could not be monogamous because of AIDS! that got debunked quickly i hope the same will happen to bisexuals!
I am a bisexual man, about 3 years now. I am 25 y old. I look masculine but in a childish like way. What lead me to bisexuality was desire, but now I realize it is basically freedom. It is a true act of freedom and independence to CHOOSE to receive or give pleasure to people of any sex, because of the statistically greater possibilities of finding, not just someone to "connect" with, but also because of the knowledge and experiences being accumulated by such a way of life. Thank you for the vid
I am a bisexual woman. I prefer women than men mostly but that does not go to say I would go and marry either right off the bat bc I like one better. I look at a man or woman and if I like what I see then I get to know them as a person not for whats below. I am not confused or anything. I just want someone who is going to love me for me. Not what I have between my legs. Same with bisexual men. I can't speak for all but I can speak for myself. I am with a grl now whom I love.
@woyay its a stereotype thing. Lesbian women are far more accepted than gay men. Same thing for bisexual. If anything bisexuals are more misunderstood. this goes to what of my co workers put it a couple months ago when she found out i was bi.. "gays are nasty but bisexuals are freaks". Its an issue with how society understands it. sadly most of society DOESN'T understand it.
@dsexton1055 I know exactly what you talk about there... Especially here in Norway people are generally sexists even though they all preach about how "accepting" they are about different people
THANK YOU for this great video defending me & others like me. It feels like a lot of gay people and straight people seem to hate on bisexuals.. ugh -_-
i'm bisexual and i came out as gay at first, i thought that liking guys atomatically made me gay, but you know what i like girls too, anyway good video
i'm bisexual and i came out as gay at first, i thought that liking guys atomatically made me gay, but you know what i like girls too, anyway good video
Good to see a gay man stand up for us. I have encountered so much more discrimination within the gay community than in mainstream society against my sexual orientation. Most think I am faking it, some think I am gay but won't admit it but I know I like men better than women but find women sexually attractive nonetheless. I am definitely more gay than straight, but I say I am one or the other depending on relationships. Labels don't mean much to me.
Nice vid... There's a lot of talk out there about straight and gay... but bisexuals often are forgotten and I really can imagine that they feel pretty left out by both 'communities'.
I so agree with all you say in this video. Everybody has the right to be themselves regardless of ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation or political preference. Greetings from South America ... I think your position is super smart.
Most bisexual men would be happier with men. Period. Studies have shown over and over that homosexual unions are largely (by a large percentage) happier than straight couples. Most bisexual guys have more in common with other men, connect sexually, have more similar personalities, emotional needs and there's also more in common. Most bisexual guys date women not because they prefer them but because it's easier to date women (socially acceptable, they 'know their role', and guilt issues).
@JerbyVids Too right Jerby. I may not be the best person to refute this, because I feel like I'm like a 2 or a 1.5, but I've had meaningful relationships with people of both sexes. Generally speaking I prefer women, but I still identify as bi/pansexual, because it's an important part of me. I take a lot of shit from people about that. I will never claim hetero privilege though, because I shouldn't have to.
@JerbyVids - Simple question- have you ever met a 60 year old bisexual? 99% of the time, NO, they get married to a woman and do the whole straight bit (if male, if female alternative ), because they can, bisexuality does exist as i am one myself but it exists but it does not endure at some point them majority of bisexuals go straight cause it is easier even if they would rather a same sex partner, refute as you see fit the evidence, books and statistics and lived experiences are there. peace
@bluevozhak Now that's an interesting pov you have there considering most people claim bisexual men are really just gay.
The major flaw in your argument there is the idea that if I person ends up with one person for life, they are no longer bisexual. Now, that's absolutely foolish--and if you are really bisexual, you know this.
People in monogamous relationships still find others attractive and it is there that dictates a person's sexual orientation--not who they shack up with.
@JerbyVids - I am indeed bisexual check my channel, anyhow, if attraction dictates sexuality then we are all bisexual as humans are attracted to others of the same or opposite sex at different points in life, the theory of sexuality goes more than beyond attraction and as i pointed out who they live with, for some it is rooted in choice and how they choose to live and who they choose to live with and have sex with, the majority of bisexuals end up in straight relationships---
@bluevozhak No. Not everyone is sexually attracted to both genders. I would agree that most people are and that most of them prefer one gender over the other most of the time. That's great. Long as they are happy.
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@JerbyVids -- that is what i am pointing out, bisexuals by a large choose to go straight, now this may not mean they are straight of course not, but what they have done is intentionally decided to go one way, now that is what perplexes most LGBTQ individuals that bisexuals go straight most of the time. why not remain single and bisexual all their lives, have kids and be bisexual, no they do the whole 10 miles of straight life
@bluevozhak It may or may not be true that the majority of bisexual people end up with someone of the opposite sex. Who gives a fuck? As long as they are happy. Again, the funny thing is that most gay people seem to think bisexual men end up gay--the opposite of what you are saying. Again--who gives a fuck? People should love who they love and live how they want to live.
But a bisexual person choosing to settle down with someone of either gender does not negate their bisexuality.
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@bluevozhak Because I could make the same argument about "ex gays" who deeplt closeted gay men who marry a woman. They may be married to a woman, but they are attracted to men. They are gay.
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@electronicoffee It takes ONE google to see : 'gay relationships happier' to link to the studies.. sorry you're so fucktarded you can't TYPE a simple google. Do your research before you mouth off, asshole.
" a bisexual has to have both genders" this is true. i know that anyone who is okay with small breasted and large breasted women have to have both, so- oh, wait that doesn't happen
I'm into that 'stages'. I'm bi. but not a '50-50' bi. For most of like I've been in love with girls. But I've been in love with boys occasionally. How do I know it's not a choice? Because when I had feelings for boys the 'choice' was to deny them and say to myself 'I'm straight, it's just a friendship feeling'. When I accepted it it felt better.
Great video! At this point, I feel like Anne Heche so I put myself in the questioning category. You make a very interesting point and I should probably not box myself in. :]
I agree that a lot of bi people cant be monogamous and that a lot of people who think they are bi are homo but dont want to let go of their straight identity.
That does not discount the fact that there are a significant number of bisexual people, but most that I know would root anything!
@JerbyVids Actually yes, studies have also shown bisexual men (and women) are more likely to cheat, more likely to lie, and more likely to 'not know what they want' when they are in a relationship. Jesus, you act like these studies have never been done.. are you that stupid and self-involved?
@electronicoffee maybe that's true but it's not the case for every bisexual. I know this may be hard to believe for you, but there are a lot of pure-hearted bisexuals who just want to love one person and one person alone for an entire lifetime.. I would know because I am one of them. For a bisexual, experimenting when you're younger may lead to the "cheating" you're referring too, but eventually everyone just wants to settle down with the one they love.. it's almost basic human instinct.
@spkenn36 straight people want to save the human race from stupid gay ideas: bisexuals and homosexuals like to stick their dicks in poo and often rinse it in pussy... its not very hygenic, its un-natural and promiscious,and sticking your dick in shit is pretty disgusting if you think about it, especially since most fags then turn around and suck others' poo soaked cocks. Gay life is repulsive and bisexuality is the first slippery rung in a life of peversion.
@iamslightlybored hello, condoms. in safe sex, feces will stick to the condom not attatch directly to the penis. the condoms can be disposed of and a replacement used between anal and oral- wait, what the hell does this have to do with with the topic
@iamslightlybored I am bisexual, and don't like to stick my dick in shit...that would be difficult since I have no dick. I have been in a monogamous relationship for over 7 years, am not promiscuous, am very happy with my husband.
I agree. I am a bisexual woman who is currently in a relationship with a man. I still support gay marraige. Why alienate people who support the cause?
Great video =3 Love how well you explain it, even I understood it all (and my first language isn't even English) I especially like your paralyzation wit Marthin Luther King it gives a great picture of your point =3
true love is between the ears, not between the legs. Not trying to deny the existence of of sexual orientation or anything, but it's still possible for a gay man to love a woman, or a staright man to love a man and the same thing with women, because their are more ways you can be attracted to a person then just sexually, if that makes sense.
Also, I tend to think it's more productive to treat gender identity and sexual orientation as gray areas, rather than black and white.
I am very interested in Bi-sexually and I don't intend to offen you or anyone of the bi-sexually people commenting. But I hate to inform you that monogamy isn't possible for a bisexual person. Bisexuals talk about how their sexually is fluid. If you are to be in a long term relationship with a guy (lets say) and then you go through a stage of being attracted to women I really doesn't bode well for the guy in that relationship?
It doesn't work like that. Bisexuals are gay for a few months and then straight for a few months. They are bisexual all the time. But that doesn't mean that they can't meet one person and fall in love with that person and be happy with that person.
They aren't compulsive, needing both genders to be happy. It simply means that they have twice the potential mates. That's all.
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bisexuality works the same ways as your preference on hair color you might prefer one over the other but you dont care what it is as much as who it is.
@shagnastii I'm a bisexual female in a monogamous relationship with a man. I have no desire to cheat on him just because I also like women. I'm attracted to men as well, does that make me cheat on my man? No.
@shagnastii yeah(/sarcasticly), that works. for the sake of argument, let's assume you're gay. you reach a phase where you are really into six packs, then you start more and more falling for guys who have normal muscle mass. if that happens, sorry, by your logic you are a polyamorous cheater who can't make commitments
I do agree Stereotypes do suck, but you are creating a stereotype with this video.
I am Bi, and married. My wife is Bi. So the idea that a bisexual is always going to be unfaithful is wrong. We only play together and we both enjoy the same sex. So why would we be unfaithful?
I certainly wasn't trying to put that stereotype out there. I don't think you two are being unfaithful at all. Unfaithful would be lying or doing something without permission.
You are quite welcome, and thanks for the reply. I really do like what you have said here. I hope that my comment did was helpful, and in no way took anything from what you have said.
you're damn right. This stereotypes suck! I'm sick of listening to people who don't know what it's all about with being bisexual. It's good someone speaks out what's the reality! Good job and I admire you and OMFGitsJUSTIN!
As a real bisexual person I can assure you, it exists, I'm a monogamous person, I'm dating a girl, and I'm faithful to her. We don't need "both at the same time", we need a relationship whatever the gender, it's just we have more choice... :p (I'm french, sorry if there are mistakes...)
pedophiles are still interested in kids they just fight off there desires or they dont and go to jail. a homosexual can fight off there desires but why should they they arent hurting anyone.
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This all sounds convincing but actually I do not believe that bisexuality can be an orientation of itself. What i believe is that there is eventually a phase during which people are not so sure about what they truly are but it is inconceivable that there should be a lasting attraction to both sexes in the sense that you feel the ability to lead a relationship in both directions. in the end, everybody necessarily must end up as a monosexual. i do not mean this as an offend. It's what i believe.
Then I know you haven't really observed that many bisexuals. Haven't truly known any as people. More than Dr. Kinsey?
I can't begin to count the number of thank yous I have gotten for this video both here and on it's original posting on my other channel from people who identify precisely as I describe it.
Thank you for articulating what I have a hard time articulating about my own bisexuality. I am a bi woman, married to a straight man, and I am faithful to him just like he is to me. He is my soulmate, not a gender, and he accepts and loves me for who I am, not my orientation. Our society sees genders/orientations first and people second - I wish we could all just see people.
Really insightful video. I am a bisexual guy who also believes in personality and the individual. It is sad to think somebody would dismiss a potential soul mate because of their genitals.
I think sexuality is as unique to a person as their fingerprint. At the end of the day we all just want to be happy. :-)
Great video. Thanks so much for your insight. As someone who has just begun dating a bisexual man, I had a few concerns, but am now confident that he is interested in me because of who I am, not because of my anatomy. Great to hear this reaffirmed.
This is great, except for one thing. Kinsey's scale is 0-6, not 1-6. 0=completely hetero, 6=completely homosexual. NO preference at all is 3. Most bisexuals aren't 3's.
take me for example i am an open bisexual but i have a girlfreind who knows im bisexual i also love and care for her very much but i am still 50/50 bi so if me and her ever broke up idk i might find a nice man or women who ever i fall in love with
I quite like this vid. I know I'm dominantly attracted to women, but every once and awhile I'll come across a man who I'm attracted to.
Really life is too short to make a big deal about who is in a relationship with who. We all have such a brief moment alive. Find your soul mate. No matter who they are, it's okay. It only matters that you have that kind of love.
I'm not ashamed of who I am. Personalities are more attractive to me than specific genitals. Be comfortable with who you are.
I'm not talking about bad relationships with men. I'm talking about abuse. I am not a lesbian. I am a between a 3 and 4 on the scale jerby was speaking of. Why are you so jaded? I made a conscious decision to look at women as potential mates rather than be alone. That decision helped me heal as a person AND find love. Years later I could look at men in a new light and date them again too. minded now. I was not before. Never would have been except for circumstance. It does happen.
I'm bisexual and I am NOT promiscuous or slutty. I really do find both sexes attractive. I did not start off this way. I was straight, badly mistreated by men, and began to look the other way for love. I am still predominantly attracted to men, but now that I have tried the women too I am also genuinely attracted to them as well. I am faithful to whoever I am with.
In my 50 years of life as a gay man I have NEVER seen any "Bi" men who ever left his boyfriend/husband to cheat with or marry a woman. I can't count the many times I have watched a "Bi" man cheat on his wife/ girlfriend with another guy. "Bi" is a myth. It is simply gay men who don't want to believe they are that: gay. Listen to and watch this guy, everything about him is gay. Can you see him saying "Hmm...that is a nice piece of pussy! I'm going to eat her tonight"? No, you can't. Case closed.
isn't it possible that the bi men you've seen leave their female partners had simply yielded to societal pressure and chosen the more acceptable relationship option of the two they enjoyed? The gay men you've known chose relationships with men because it was the only relationship they were interested in.
Oh my god, I love you. Totally worth watching! You said it so well and I got this stupid grin on my face watching this thinking "someone actually gets it".
You totally won over this bisexual (yes people, we do exist).
How do you know if your bi? I like girls but sometimes i am attracted to certain guys and i can imagine a relationship with them. Does that make me bi?
This is a great video. You've got it right man. So many people just can't get their heads around bisexuality and it confuses them so much that they have to discredit it, or flat out say it doesn't exist. They should show this vid in schools! People need to think about this stuff.
I'm about a 5.4873 on that scale.
sarumbley 2 months ago
Very nice job.
jeccz 3 months ago
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1This know also,that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2For men shall be LOVERS OF THERE OWN selves,covetous,boasters,proud,BLASPHEMERS,disobedient to parents,unthankful,UNHOLY
4 Traitors,heady,highminded,lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God.
Having a form of godliness,but denying the power thereof:from such turn away
7 Ever learning,and never able to come to the KNOWLEDGE OF THE TRUTH.
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beasty108 3 months ago
Why the hell should whatever is between someone's legs dictate who I can be attracted to? Women are amazing, guys are amazing, transgender people are amazing. I am bisexual and I refuse to be put into a box and dictate for myself who I can love based on something as trivial as their freaking sexual organs.
LexieRhi333 5 months ago in playlist bisexuality, pansexuality
@LexieRhi333 Oooh you could be Pansexual! I recently heard the term and looked it up.
sarumbley 2 months ago
finally someone who says exactly all i think, i soo hate it when people say bisexuals dont exist, i am actually atracted to both sexes equally, thats just the way it is and i could never change that
lex123z 5 months ago
Good thoughtful presentation and analysis!
brucelaidlaw 6 months ago
Bisexuals are dumb and filthy.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 Hahah I don't think you understand the concept of us bisexuals not caring! You're not going to change our sexuality by calling us "dumb and filthy" so for your own sake, stop wasting your time commenting on every video on Youtube about Bisexuality.
numankels22 6 months ago in playlist bisexuality, pansexuality 3
@numankels22 i will win. HANG THE BI'S
neil22100 6 months ago
@neil22100 Thats like saying hang the stupid people ~cough cough~ You!
booboocici1 2 months ago
@neil22100 Fuck you. Im bi and i'm love it!!
booboocici1 2 months ago
@booboocici1 you greedy bitch you can only choose one!!! now go choose to be one or the other!!!
ausomei 1 month ago
@ausomei Nah im good with being who I am but thanks for the suggestion
booboocici1 3 weeks ago
Bipride<3
MissMirandaRG 7 months ago
also would like to say, i'm bisexual and i refuse to get married to a man until all people can equally get married and have the same rights, that way i don't hear that whole argument. if i find a man who i love and he is the unique person for me, out of respect for my gay and bisexual brethren and sisters, i will not marry him until the fight for equality is over! same thing with adoption rights!
sillykatz 9 months ago
THANK YOU!! i'm the most boring bisexual in the world. i just happen to be attracted to both men and women. its who ever i have the best chemistry with, that is it, that simple really! i know it blows peoples heads but they are ignorant and need to get some things right!
sillykatz 9 months ago
So adorable.
Siateac34 9 months ago
you make so much sence! :D
MinieSkirt15 9 months ago
If you're not hot than being bisexual is just disgusting...
wiiman247 10 months ago
@yivivylu You have a sad sense of humor...or you're trying to cover your own ass for being made to look like a fool, or of course both. In any case I urge you to find a more constructive pass time then trolling youtube videos.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu Odd...I didn't think I said anything to warrant such a response. In any case since you're apparently no longer able to form a cohesive argument I guess I can only hope you won't let your pride get in the way of you better understanding bisexuals as a result of this conversation. Or if nothing else, others will come across this conversation and be better educated as a result at the very least. Have a nice day now.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu Switch sides? Exactly when did this turn into some sort of game or war that has sides? It's not as if it's one day we like guys, next day we like girls. I love my boyfriend, but that doesn't mean he or I will stop looking at porn of girls and/or guys just because our significant other is a guy, or if the worst happens and we split up or one of us dies we aren't going to limit possible future significant others to just guys just because that's who we dated before.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu I never said personality was the only thing, but that it's more important then appearance, at least to me. Physical attractiveness helps in any relationship obviously, but I'm not going to go dump someone just because they let their looks go a bit either. I don't see why it should matter to me which set of equipment they have downstairs. I know intellectually that's how you monosexuals are wired, but I just can't imagine being so limited. I feel sorry for you actually.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu Clearly you have a short attention span as I already explained I never decided to go with both, I just noticed I was attracted to both and that was it. It never occurred to me that I "had" to decide, and I still don't see one good reason why I should have to. To me the person's personality matters to me more then their appearance.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu no, that means you were touching yourself. If you touching yourself I'm not surprised you got an erection. I'm talking about erections without playing with your junk. If you got a stiffie from just looking at the wall I'd say you were attracted to it, which would be weird but I've seen odd fetishes before so I wouldn't rule anything out at this point. And what decision are you talking about? Did you decide which gender you like? Because if you are, you'd be the first I've ever met.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu I am perfectly aware of who I am. I never wondered "do I like men or women?". One day, I just happened to realize I got a hard on while thinking about men in a sexual manor, just like I did with women. I shrugged and accepted that I was bisexual. I saw no point in questioning a natural reaction. And unlike you monosexuals I can appreciate someone for their personality rather then their looks. You need to stop caring about what's in between your significant others legs and GROW UP!
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu ah...you're one of those people. Well, that's an understandable misconception usually from young, single people as people who actually do settle down can probably tell you that they didn't stop being attracted to other woman just because they married their wife. It's the same way with bi's but we're still attracted to men and woman regardless of who we settle down with.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
@yivivylu I'm bisexual and I assure you I'm not confused about a damn thing. Well...that's not true. I'm confused about how people can only be attracted to only one gender.
ChakatBlackstar 10 months ago
I like what you said toward the beginning. Bi' people fall in love with the person. Gender is not so important. I fall for a person. Their sexual plumbing is not so important to me.
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catchacheater11 11 months ago
jerby, whats the music you use at the beginning?
cannedkitty 1 year ago
@cannedkitty Just something simple that I wrote and created.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
at the beginning i as getting really fucking pissed off >:( then i was like oooohhhhhhhhhhhmg haha
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
if a person needs both a man and a woman in their relationships (or for that matter more than one person period). that is called being polyamorous, it has nothing to do with sexualtiy, but rather their emotional needs. :)
Lots of straight and gay people are Poly-A, as well.
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
i am a bi woman and im in a relationship with a man. I am faithful to him but we have 3sums with other bi women. Without the option of the 3sums i dont think i could be faithful because i dated a man in the past who wasnt into 3sums so i cheated on him with women and later left him for my current boyfriend. i know bisexuals can be faithful with one sex partner because i dont put one group of people in a box to be one way. but for me as a bi woman, i need both. sry if i let some of you bi's down.
arbeish1 1 year ago
It's the same thing with biracial people. It is easier for society to identify them as one, or the other. People want things white, or black. Most people do not believe in the like, or the grey.
flatlanderdot 1 year ago
hold on a second. i think the problem that people (and me, subconsiously til now) have with bisexuals is that at least with uni(???)sexuals they only would have to worry about 50% as many people for their partner to cheat with. in this theory bisexuals would be twice as likely to cheat because if most life situations involve half women and half men, doesn't the chance of encountering someone they find attractive go up?
karmacop911 1 year ago
@karmacop911 No. I don't think that logic holds at all. A person is either going to cheat or not. And it's not a sea of people that makes them cheat--it's usually just one person or they are choosing to actively pursue it.
Really what difference does it make if a bisexual person in NYC has 8 million options and a hetero/homosexual person ONLY has 4 million? Really now.
JerbyVids 1 year ago 4
@JerbyVids yeah but ... have you ever been in a room with 8 million people? have you never found yourself stolen away by someone's attractiveness despite yourself?
i have been in a relationship with a bi guy. he said he was "bi now, gay later". i think he would never have cheated, but i dumped him, not because of that, but just because i wasn't attracted to him.
bisexuaility IS kind of attractive "P, but being a 5 or 6 i still feel a little intimidated by it.
karmacop911 1 year ago
@karmacop911 I'm married to a man. Do I find other people attractive? Of course. That has nothing to do with my actions. And that's the distinction.
JerbyVids 1 year ago 6
@JerbyVids amen brother! i'm a bisexual women and i'm christian and nerdy to boot. i am all about monogamy and i think majority of true bisexual are that way. theres cheaters in every sexual orientation, what was it, 15 or 20 years ago wasn't it thought that gays could not be monogamous because of AIDS! that got debunked quickly i hope the same will happen to bisexuals!
sillykatz 9 months ago
I am a bisexual man, about 3 years now. I am 25 y old. I look masculine but in a childish like way. What lead me to bisexuality was desire, but now I realize it is basically freedom. It is a true act of freedom and independence to CHOOSE to receive or give pleasure to people of any sex, because of the statistically greater possibilities of finding, not just someone to "connect" with, but also because of the knowledge and experiences being accumulated by such a way of life. Thank you for the vid
jojofulkrum 1 year ago
I am a bisexual woman. I prefer women than men mostly but that does not go to say I would go and marry either right off the bat bc I like one better. I look at a man or woman and if I like what I see then I get to know them as a person not for whats below. I am not confused or anything. I just want someone who is going to love me for me. Not what I have between my legs. Same with bisexual men. I can't speak for all but I can speak for myself. I am with a grl now whom I love.
writeroffantasy 1 year ago
Great video :)
VOVOVO8 1 year ago
i love this video i can't believe it only has 12000 or so views you should be famous and speaking for all LGBT groups
iloveashelytisdale 1 year ago
it is greed he's right so what.. there's no God in Bisexuality please keep that in mind..
this is complete satanism..
woyay 1 year ago
@woyay You do realize that not everyone is Christian...right?
flatlanderdot 1 year ago
look how many women are bisexual..a guy can't be bisexual???
woyay 1 year ago
@woyay its a stereotype thing. Lesbian women are far more accepted than gay men. Same thing for bisexual. If anything bisexuals are more misunderstood. this goes to what of my co workers put it a couple months ago when she found out i was bi.. "gays are nasty but bisexuals are freaks". Its an issue with how society understands it. sadly most of society DOESN'T understand it.
dsexton1055 1 year ago
@dsexton1055 I know exactly what you talk about there... Especially here in Norway people are generally sexists even though they all preach about how "accepting" they are about different people
jojofulkrum 1 year ago
Love that closing remark :]
WingedTerrapin 1 year ago
THANK YOU for this great video defending me & others like me. It feels like a lot of gay people and straight people seem to hate on bisexuals.. ugh -_-
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i'm bisexual and i came out as gay at first, i thought that liking guys atomatically made me gay, but you know what i like girls too, anyway good video
MrDeepiddy 1 year ago
i'm bisexual and i came out as gay at first, i thought that liking guys atomatically made me gay, but you know what i like girls too, anyway good video
MrDeepiddy 1 year ago
im bi but i describe myself as gay because its just easier and i dont want stereotypes
Concept3601 1 year ago
Good to see a gay man stand up for us. I have encountered so much more discrimination within the gay community than in mainstream society against my sexual orientation. Most think I am faking it, some think I am gay but won't admit it but I know I like men better than women but find women sexually attractive nonetheless. I am definitely more gay than straight, but I say I am one or the other depending on relationships. Labels don't mean much to me.
The gay community isn't without sins.
HimmiJoe 1 year ago
Nice vid... There's a lot of talk out there about straight and gay... but bisexuals often are forgotten and I really can imagine that they feel pretty left out by both 'communities'.
Vouk73 1 year ago
I so agree with all you say in this video. Everybody has the right to be themselves regardless of ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation or political preference. Greetings from South America ... I think your position is super smart.
MarcieZ70 1 year ago
I'm a 3 ;)
APEEEEEx3 1 year ago
what you say is true :) (A monogmaous bisexual woman in a relationship with a man here)
edaj84 1 year ago
Most bisexual men would be happier with men. Period. Studies have shown over and over that homosexual unions are largely (by a large percentage) happier than straight couples. Most bisexual guys have more in common with other men, connect sexually, have more similar personalities, emotional needs and there's also more in common. Most bisexual guys date women not because they prefer them but because it's easier to date women (socially acceptable, they 'know their role', and guilt issues).
electronicoffee 1 year ago
@electronicoffee Bull. Shit.
JerbyVids 1 year ago 12
@JerbyVids Sorry dumbfuck, there's SCIENCE behind it. What science do YOU have to show?
electronicoffee 1 year ago
@JerbyVids Too right Jerby. I may not be the best person to refute this, because I feel like I'm like a 2 or a 1.5, but I've had meaningful relationships with people of both sexes. Generally speaking I prefer women, but I still identify as bi/pansexual, because it's an important part of me. I take a lot of shit from people about that. I will never claim hetero privilege though, because I shouldn't have to.
zabriel13 1 year ago
@JerbyVids - Simple question- have you ever met a 60 year old bisexual? 99% of the time, NO, they get married to a woman and do the whole straight bit (if male, if female alternative ), because they can, bisexuality does exist as i am one myself but it exists but it does not endure at some point them majority of bisexuals go straight cause it is easier even if they would rather a same sex partner, refute as you see fit the evidence, books and statistics and lived experiences are there. peace
bluevozhak 1 year ago
@bluevozhak Take the intolerance of the past decades in consideration. Thats a quite strong force.
Fieseler103 1 year ago
@bluevozhak Now that's an interesting pov you have there considering most people claim bisexual men are really just gay.
The major flaw in your argument there is the idea that if I person ends up with one person for life, they are no longer bisexual. Now, that's absolutely foolish--and if you are really bisexual, you know this.
People in monogamous relationships still find others attractive and it is there that dictates a person's sexual orientation--not who they shack up with.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
@JerbyVids - I am indeed bisexual check my channel, anyhow, if attraction dictates sexuality then we are all bisexual as humans are attracted to others of the same or opposite sex at different points in life, the theory of sexuality goes more than beyond attraction and as i pointed out who they live with, for some it is rooted in choice and how they choose to live and who they choose to live with and have sex with, the majority of bisexuals end up in straight relationships---
bluevozhak 1 year ago
@bluevozhak No. Not everyone is sexually attracted to both genders. I would agree that most people are and that most of them prefer one gender over the other most of the time. That's great. Long as they are happy.
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
@JerbyVids -- that is what i am pointing out, bisexuals by a large choose to go straight, now this may not mean they are straight of course not, but what they have done is intentionally decided to go one way, now that is what perplexes most LGBTQ individuals that bisexuals go straight most of the time. why not remain single and bisexual all their lives, have kids and be bisexual, no they do the whole 10 miles of straight life
bluevozhak 1 year ago
@bluevozhak It may or may not be true that the majority of bisexual people end up with someone of the opposite sex. Who gives a fuck? As long as they are happy. Again, the funny thing is that most gay people seem to think bisexual men end up gay--the opposite of what you are saying. Again--who gives a fuck? People should love who they love and live how they want to live.
But a bisexual person choosing to settle down with someone of either gender does not negate their bisexuality.
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
@bluevozhak Because I could make the same argument about "ex gays" who deeplt closeted gay men who marry a woman. They may be married to a woman, but they are attracted to men. They are gay.
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
@electronicoffee It takes ONE google to see : 'gay relationships happier' to link to the studies.. sorry you're so fucktarded you can't TYPE a simple google. Do your research before you mouth off, asshole.
electronicoffee 1 year ago
@electronicoffee
Some bi people are gay but say they're gay. But there are real bi people. They get in love with women and with men.
paul6842 1 year ago
" a bisexual has to have both genders" this is true. i know that anyone who is okay with small breasted and large breasted women have to have both, so- oh, wait that doesn't happen
arachnophile01 1 year ago
Right on the dot. THANK YOU!!!
dark7jedi 1 year ago
the ending of the video is beautiful. ty.
curzond 1 year ago
I'm into that 'stages'. I'm bi. but not a '50-50' bi. For most of like I've been in love with girls. But I've been in love with boys occasionally. How do I know it's not a choice? Because when I had feelings for boys the 'choice' was to deny them and say to myself 'I'm straight, it's just a friendship feeling'. When I accepted it it felt better.
curzond 1 year ago
Thank you. So much.
DeMaulwurfn 1 year ago
Great video! At this point, I feel like Anne Heche so I put myself in the questioning category. You make a very interesting point and I should probably not box myself in. :]
shigekishock 1 year ago
bi's need help!
neil22100 1 year ago
I agree that a lot of bi people cant be monogamous and that a lot of people who think they are bi are homo but dont want to let go of their straight identity.
That does not discount the fact that there are a significant number of bisexual people, but most that I know would root anything!
Im bi myslef, bi the way...
spkenn36 2 years ago
There are just as many gay and straight people who would root anything. Sluttiness is not limited to one sexual orientation. Nor is being chaste.
JerbyVids 2 years ago 8
@JerbyVids Actually yes, studies have also shown bisexual men (and women) are more likely to cheat, more likely to lie, and more likely to 'not know what they want' when they are in a relationship. Jesus, you act like these studies have never been done.. are you that stupid and self-involved?
electronicoffee 1 year ago
@electronicoffee maybe that's true but it's not the case for every bisexual. I know this may be hard to believe for you, but there are a lot of pure-hearted bisexuals who just want to love one person and one person alone for an entire lifetime.. I would know because I am one of them. For a bisexual, experimenting when you're younger may lead to the "cheating" you're referring too, but eventually everyone just wants to settle down with the one they love.. it's almost basic human instinct.
octoberskies33 1 year ago
@spkenn36 straight people want to save the human race from stupid gay ideas: bisexuals and homosexuals like to stick their dicks in poo and often rinse it in pussy... its not very hygenic, its un-natural and promiscious,and sticking your dick in shit is pretty disgusting if you think about it, especially since most fags then turn around and suck others' poo soaked cocks. Gay life is repulsive and bisexuality is the first slippery rung in a life of peversion.
iamslightlybored 1 year ago
@iamslightlybored hello, condoms. in safe sex, feces will stick to the condom not attatch directly to the penis. the condoms can be disposed of and a replacement used between anal and oral- wait, what the hell does this have to do with with the topic
arachnophile01 1 year ago
@iamslightlybored I am bisexual, and don't like to stick my dick in shit...that would be difficult since I have no dick. I have been in a monogamous relationship for over 7 years, am not promiscuous, am very happy with my husband.
edaj84 1 year ago
I'm half way bisexual.
gaireljew 2 years ago
I agree. I am a bisexual woman who is currently in a relationship with a man. I still support gay marraige. Why alienate people who support the cause?
rachelwobig 2 years ago
exactly
medaphsyco 1 year ago
Thank you!!!
jesusaduran1 2 years ago
Thank you!
27Dominico 2 years ago
Brilliant video!
oakwitch 2 years ago
I'm not bi, I'm halfway lesbian ;P
Great video =3 Love how well you explain it, even I understood it all (and my first language isn't even English) I especially like your paralyzation wit Marthin Luther King it gives a great picture of your point =3
mitter712 2 years ago
awesome video.
true love is between the ears, not between the legs. Not trying to deny the existence of of sexual orientation or anything, but it's still possible for a gay man to love a woman, or a staright man to love a man and the same thing with women, because their are more ways you can be attracted to a person then just sexually, if that makes sense.
Also, I tend to think it's more productive to treat gender identity and sexual orientation as gray areas, rather than black and white.
DevilWomanCake 2 years ago
I am very interested in Bi-sexually and I don't intend to offen you or anyone of the bi-sexually people commenting. But I hate to inform you that monogamy isn't possible for a bisexual person. Bisexuals talk about how their sexually is fluid. If you are to be in a long term relationship with a guy (lets say) and then you go through a stage of being attracted to women I really doesn't bode well for the guy in that relationship?
shagnastii 2 years ago
It doesn't work like that. Bisexuals are gay for a few months and then straight for a few months. They are bisexual all the time. But that doesn't mean that they can't meet one person and fall in love with that person and be happy with that person.
They aren't compulsive, needing both genders to be happy. It simply means that they have twice the potential mates. That's all.
JerbyVids 2 years ago 24
@JerbyVids Wow you're really intelligent I was extremely uneducated with bisexual girls you made me trust in my bi sexual girlfriend.
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
@shagnastii
bisexuality works the same ways as your preference on hair color you might prefer one over the other but you dont care what it is as much as who it is.
medaphsyco 1 year ago
@shagnastii I am 37 male, married to a woman, and bisexual, and completely monogamous.
TheRationalWill 1 year ago
@shagnastii I'm a bisexual female in a monogamous relationship with a man. I have no desire to cheat on him just because I also like women. I'm attracted to men as well, does that make me cheat on my man? No.
Asperuaca 1 year ago
@shagnastii yeah(/sarcasticly), that works. for the sake of argument, let's assume you're gay. you reach a phase where you are really into six packs, then you start more and more falling for guys who have normal muscle mass. if that happens, sorry, by your logic you are a polyamorous cheater who can't make commitments
arachnophile01 1 year ago
@shagnastii monogamy is very possible for a bisexual person.
edaj84 1 year ago
I do agree Stereotypes do suck, but you are creating a stereotype with this video.
I am Bi, and married. My wife is Bi. So the idea that a bisexual is always going to be unfaithful is wrong. We only play together and we both enjoy the same sex. So why would we be unfaithful?
Thanks so much for the video!
BiSaidSo 2 years ago
I certainly wasn't trying to put that stereotype out there. I don't think you two are being unfaithful at all. Unfaithful would be lying or doing something without permission.
Thank you!
JerbyVids 2 years ago
You are quite welcome, and thanks for the reply. I really do like what you have said here. I hope that my comment did was helpful, and in no way took anything from what you have said.
BiSaidSo 2 years ago
you're damn right. This stereotypes suck! I'm sick of listening to people who don't know what it's all about with being bisexual. It's good someone speaks out what's the reality! Good job and I admire you and OMFGitsJUSTIN!
CrazyCoconut21 2 years ago 2
yeah, you're right! this steroetypes suck!
CrazyCoconut21 2 years ago
Thats a wonderful way of describing it. I'm so glad you cleared this up for a lot of people :]
krissyr08 2 years ago 2
Love this video. Thank you so much.
ThePoetCherryMoon 2 years ago
As a real bisexual person I can assure you, it exists, I'm a monogamous person, I'm dating a girl, and I'm faithful to her. We don't need "both at the same time", we need a relationship whatever the gender, it's just we have more choice... :p (I'm french, sorry if there are mistakes...)
Huginn 2 years ago 4
Pedophiles prove that sexuality is NOT a choice same with bisexuality.
missaquaboogie 2 years ago
pedophiles are still interested in kids they just fight off there desires or they dont and go to jail. a homosexual can fight off there desires but why should they they arent hurting anyone.
medaphsyco 1 year ago
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This all sounds convincing but actually I do not believe that bisexuality can be an orientation of itself. What i believe is that there is eventually a phase during which people are not so sure about what they truly are but it is inconceivable that there should be a lasting attraction to both sexes in the sense that you feel the ability to lead a relationship in both directions. in the end, everybody necessarily must end up as a monosexual. i do not mean this as an offend. It's what i believe.
soccerlover1980 2 years ago
I can believe the earth is flat. Doesn't make it so.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
I take my believes from observation.
I never observed the earth to be flat.
soccerlover1980 2 years ago
Then I know you haven't really observed that many bisexuals. Haven't truly known any as people. More than Dr. Kinsey?
I can't begin to count the number of thank yous I have gotten for this video both here and on it's original posting on my other channel from people who identify precisely as I describe it.
But believe what you please. Good luck with that.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
Thank you.
BourneArgonaut 2 years ago
You are welcome!
JerbyVids 2 years ago
Thank you for articulating what I have a hard time articulating about my own bisexuality. I am a bi woman, married to a straight man, and I am faithful to him just like he is to me. He is my soulmate, not a gender, and he accepts and loves me for who I am, not my orientation. Our society sees genders/orientations first and people second - I wish we could all just see people.
manticaurn 2 years ago 2
Excellent video. Thank you.
MysWhiGi 2 years ago
Really insightful video. I am a bisexual guy who also believes in personality and the individual. It is sad to think somebody would dismiss a potential soul mate because of their genitals.
I think sexuality is as unique to a person as their fingerprint. At the end of the day we all just want to be happy. :-)
Rabbitsoup8 2 years ago
Great video. Thanks so much for your insight. As someone who has just begun dating a bisexual man, I had a few concerns, but am now confident that he is interested in me because of who I am, not because of my anatomy. Great to hear this reaffirmed.
PinkMingo3 2 years ago
This is great, except for one thing. Kinsey's scale is 0-6, not 1-6. 0=completely hetero, 6=completely homosexual. NO preference at all is 3. Most bisexuals aren't 3's.
rozrozroz5 2 years ago
correction, 3 is equally both. Equally both and no preference are two different things. No preference or Non sexual/Asexual is 'X'
beatlemaniacforever 2 years ago
i´m 3 or 4 on the scal i think i´m 3,2 so bit more gay-bi^^ but that changes :)
maybe i´m 2,3 in 4 month and then 4.1 next time xD
monrose7 2 years ago
take me for example i am an open bisexual but i have a girlfreind who knows im bisexual i also love and care for her very much but i am still 50/50 bi so if me and her ever broke up idk i might find a nice man or women who ever i fall in love with
jmet69 2 years ago
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lol ur ugly as fuck
BowToMySkill 2 years ago
I quite like this vid. I know I'm dominantly attracted to women, but every once and awhile I'll come across a man who I'm attracted to.
Really life is too short to make a big deal about who is in a relationship with who. We all have such a brief moment alive. Find your soul mate. No matter who they are, it's okay. It only matters that you have that kind of love.
I'm not ashamed of who I am. Personalities are more attractive to me than specific genitals. Be comfortable with who you are.
Nodrog666 2 years ago
Nitpick: Kinsey goes from 0-6, not 1-6.
AND
Awesome vid.
Scix 2 years ago
any male bisexual is considered gay by str8 men.
ricmarc 2 years ago
@ricmarc not always
cherrydog9 1 year ago
I'm not talking about bad relationships with men. I'm talking about abuse. I am not a lesbian. I am a between a 3 and 4 on the scale jerby was speaking of. Why are you so jaded? I made a conscious decision to look at women as potential mates rather than be alone. That decision helped me heal as a person AND find love. Years later I could look at men in a new light and date them again too. minded now. I was not before. Never would have been except for circumstance. It does happen.
cynthiahaire 2 years ago
I'm bisexual and I am NOT promiscuous or slutty. I really do find both sexes attractive. I did not start off this way. I was straight, badly mistreated by men, and began to look the other way for love. I am still predominantly attracted to men, but now that I have tried the women too I am also genuinely attracted to them as well. I am faithful to whoever I am with.
cynthiahaire 2 years ago
this coming from someone with a username of "LicentiousSlut"?
levans71 2 years ago
In my 50 years of life as a gay man I have NEVER seen any "Bi" men who ever left his boyfriend/husband to cheat with or marry a woman. I can't count the many times I have watched a "Bi" man cheat on his wife/ girlfriend with another guy. "Bi" is a myth. It is simply gay men who don't want to believe they are that: gay. Listen to and watch this guy, everything about him is gay. Can you see him saying "Hmm...that is a nice piece of pussy! I'm going to eat her tonight"? No, you can't. Case closed.
savdavid 2 years ago
isn't it possible that the bi men you've seen leave their female partners had simply yielded to societal pressure and chosen the more acceptable relationship option of the two they enjoyed? The gay men you've known chose relationships with men because it was the only relationship they were interested in.
bjfewell 2 years ago
I've had a gay guy tell me he'd go straight if he could be with me. What a compliment!
cynthiahaire 2 years ago
I'm male and confident I like both genders equally. And I'm in no way camp.
You've had a very bad sampling.
PopeBarley 2 years ago
Oh my god, I love you. Totally worth watching! You said it so well and I got this stupid grin on my face watching this thinking "someone actually gets it".
You totally won over this bisexual (yes people, we do exist).
Thanks :)
BiAndTheCity 2 years ago 2
This video is awesome. I agree completely. 5 stars!
angelfish000 2 years ago
thanks man, nine minutes and 18 seconds were worth watching. your brought it to the point!
i couldnt have sayed it any better.
GossipAstronaut 2 years ago
if I would've enter my comment before the first 30 seconds of this vid you would've got dogged out. lol luckly i wanted to hear more
MrBisexuallySexy 2 years ago
Are you trying to say that bisexuality=promiscuity? If you are, you need to watch this vid again.
WhipItIntoShape 2 years ago 2
Yes. And there are promiscuous heteros, gays, and bis. And there are non-promiscuous heteros, gays, and bis.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
Yes. A private affair. In bathrooms, with page boys, and mistresses in Argentina.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
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balderdashandpiffle 2 years ago
Um. Did you watch the full video?? LOL
JerbyVids 2 years ago
hey im a proud bisexual female FUCK STEROTYPES
DeadEndJustice13 2 years ago 2
Oh my that is not true. Many times we do not or cannot find a Partner. You do not knot know what you are speaking of,
aunkmaa 2 years ago
How do you know if your bi? I like girls but sometimes i am attracted to certain guys and i can imagine a relationship with them. Does that make me bi?
Justiceman951130 2 years ago
Only you can know, honestly. You don't have to put yourself in any box. Just love who you love. :)
JerbyVids 2 years ago
This is a great video. You've got it right man. So many people just can't get their heads around bisexuality and it confuses them so much that they have to discredit it, or flat out say it doesn't exist. They should show this vid in schools! People need to think about this stuff.
WhipItIntoShape 2 years ago
Thank you for summing up how I feel.
bioncafemme 2 years ago
why do you hate womenn?
i dont see much wrong with women besides there bitching and whining but 90% of women arent like that at all.
are you homosexual just curious cause you hate women so you must like men.
i dont hate men but some males are rapist so all genders arent perfect but i support gender equality
DeadEndJustice13 2 years ago
that is such sexist bullshit LicentiousSlut
DeadEndJustice13 2 years ago 2
bisexuality is also discrimative why would they be bi if they were gay doesnt make any sense. how would you know ur not bi or gay or anything
DeadEndJustice13 2 years ago 2
no no no not right alot of bisexuals are