Is it Possible? Re: Cheating Men

[brainly]

if u doubt me ask urself this question why do cougar-boy relationship work at the beginning of the relationship also sugar daddy. women are emotional being while men are are sexually and socially being and unless a guy enter a reality relationship why he has more sexually or socially with u he might cheat. unless he is truly mature or spiritual.

[brainly]

a man is as faithful as his option! but the issue is if he is with the best option (desire, fantasy sex)sexually he wont cheat? a man will always want something new or variety but if I got to loss more then to hell with new.

[jaynice22]

Hey, I go to Syracuse...did you go there at one time?

[thesix107]

...but instead the a-hole "man" who chases women all day and it wouldn't matter what you do for him, cause he's after all girls 24/7. Women out there, you should stop assuming that nice guys are bad in bed, then maybe you CAN 100% ABSOLUTELY prevent a man from straying, while being satisfied yourself as well. Or, of course, continue seeking drama from players. But both men and women are to blame. Takes two to make a relationship work.

[thesix107]

I believe 100% YES. But it all depends on the quality of sex, and who the man and woman is. Sexual preferences - position, place, spontaneity, etc - can all make a huge difference on if this man wants to cheat. And if the woman's just a complete moron, then he'll treat her as such. One should also consider the type of man, that a woman who's willing to put out for anytime, would seek out. That, I presume is typically NOT the nice guy who would treat her right...

[hcoprdice]

Giving a man all the sex you can doesnt solve anything. Sure, it takes away some of his energy, but it doesnt keep him from cheating. The main reason guys cheat is because they love the blood flowing thrill of being with someone new. The anticipation of knowing how she tastes, how she smells, what kind of panties she wears, if she shaves her pubic hair, how she responds to your touch, and how wet she gets. Dont believe me? Just wait until the next time another woman gives your man a smile.

[brainly]

also: it is not new vs old, it is about the value pleasure derive from it. I have a sport car, it  is different from just a car if u decided to take the car from me becos it is old then I will fight u becos it is more valuable and more fun to drive. I had a girl before and my time with her I will never trade it for any new p...

[brainly]

cont; to be in love means he intimately and emotionally know u that he is able to see and value ur inner beauty. solution for the boy is one word "fun" the boy has to see that he has more fun with u than any other sex.he has to be in funlife with u. it means sexual fun, fun party, fun personality etc. the boy has to for go the trill of the chase for the trill of being with u. so for a man: in love and in lust. a boy: in fun life, in love and in lust. a boy need a toy to play with

[brainly]

yes depends on the type of man you have. they say; man likes variety, no man like variety of "good sex". there are sex and there are good sex. it is about "value"

there are categories of men but for ur topic I will talk of two. men and boys. A mature man cheat base on sexual frustation while a boy cheat for the "fun" of it. solution for the man, the man has to be in "lust with u and as well as in love with u." to be in lust means he deeply value the sex he get from u. and to be in love means

[navydsjr6621]

Say listen one more time

[hamadoue]

love that

[starsshine4u]

i wish my man gave me sex like that. im just 32 and i want it all the time dirty thirtys i've heard. I use my vibrator more than him. i guess after 9 years i've worn him out. LOL

[ocase1000]

Tonya ....it is not possible

[qwertqwe]

unless their just a retard and are just in the relationship for good sex

[qwertqwe]

so that also means that if they dont love you...they love someone else more then nah its not possible

[qwertqwe]

depends on who they LOVE

[davidburkley]

I have experienced a similar situation. I was with a youg lady who provided sexually better than any women I've ever known. Yet despite how well she handled the bedroom, she didn't really have my heart. Now, although I didn't have sex with another woman I was falling in love with another woman. True sex is very important, but as simple as men are, we are not that simple. As a woman if you are not "multi-satisfactional" , meaning: you satisfy in more than one area, than you should be concerned.

[kshakur]

Interesting....this is not something any woman can resolve. My question is, "Why does a woman feel this is her battle to fight?" This is not a physical dilemma, its a psychological one. Only a man can make the choice to do right by his friend, girlfriend, fiancee, or wife. A woman can help influence this decision (good or bad)....but, it's still a man's decision in the end to do right or wrong by that woman Its no different than lying, and stealing. People still lose in the end, and get hurt.

[1105scoot]

Cheating is always a choice! the only thing any mate can really do is, establish consequences for the betrail.P.S. the better the mate is the more tempted they will be from others who want what you cant have! If your A good dude your HEN PECKED if I have one on the side I'm a DOGG! Maturity and expirience are the best defence, in my humble opinion.

[NoRemainingCharacter]

Quick question: How is it a man following his inborn genetic makeup is considered to be "cheating," yet a woman's multitudes of lies, manipulations, disrespect, and head games is not "cheating" on your vows, formal or not?

I am fortunate to have a true jewel--intelligent, independent, caring, and above all HONEST, and that seals it for me. No cheating on either side. (And by the way, all the women reading this and thinking, "Ha! So you think!": that's exactly the poison I'm talking about.)

[mkjyyyy]

Men were put on this earth to spread their seed..its not about sex or how good the woman looks (women need to understand this). Men are programmed to sleep around to ensure that they have as many offspring as possible. Its in their DNA...I don't think this is a battle than can be won..

[BlackHairandSkinCare]

If thats the case then I'd just rather stay single for the rest of my life cause I just can't continue to take the hurt and pain caused by a man cheating.

[MrHeavydose]

You look busted dude. Normally you look good what happened? Time for make over. lol

[FinalRenaissance]

You're kidding, right?

Sista looks B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L.

You go Tonya.

[MrHeavydose]

Maybe its the color of the clothes she's wearing.

[luvjones2540]

I think Chris Rock said it best..."A man is only as faithful as his options"...and I think this applies to woman too (some of them cheat too)...as you stated in the vid, you may be giving a man all the sex he requests, but are you giving it to him with all the variations???. Now, if you want to get real and you're talking about just intercourse (there are other types of "sex"), 2 words...Lorena Bobbitt....'nuff said

[Famematic1]

i really do think you are ine just the way you are a cutie

[Savvynlady]

I feel like this, if you care deeply for a person and their feelings, you would keep their feelings and their well being a priority; Reason I say this; recently, I was approached by a man who wanted to pay me for sex, my man was nowhere around and all but still I turned him down and trust me, I wasn't working; I was hustling up dollars. But I cared for my man and what he been through that I wouldn't.

[MizShaiOnex18]

I dont believe its possible to keep a man from straying by keeping him sexually satisfied. I would say its possible if it was just a booty call or quick fix but then again even men get bored with that after a while. if you cant keep em entertained mentally then after a while its not gna matter physically.

[slapyou100]

its capable to over sex. thats why we get bored and move on so fast.

[MysteryMan20091]

This subject has got me brainstormin. Have you ever wondered? Is there ever a good reason for cheating? I personally don't think so. But I do believe that there are factors that can lead up to it. Anyway, couples have got to keep growing in love if they are going to remain faithful to one another. Love is like a muscle that needs regular exercise. Sexin ain't the only thing that calls for flexin in more quaint terms.

[MysteryMan20091]

I think that a couple needs mutual love and respect coupled with sex to stay together faithfully. Great sex won't do it alone. Sex without love is just instant gratification or just pure pleasure with no emotional attachment. Most women CAN turn almost any hetero-sexual male on, because you all have that inherent magnetic attraction that binds us to you. But love with passionate sex will cement things. Love is going to move a person not to hurt their partner in any way.

[maciasrasta411]

WOMEN CAN RENDER A GUY INCAPABLE DEPENDING OF THE SEX THEY GIVE HIM: Try this, during sex the female grabs his BALLS and plays with them with her mouth and theeth generating an image  and sensation on his mind. As far as cheating men and women. There is no way you can have any type of control over there minds, but as far as circumstances....that my friend is the ever so famous edge. But again, that will be up to you to choose how far you are willing to do for the one you love.

[maciasrasta411]

Hello Ms. Lovelyness, here is that 411 on men and women. To us men, you ladies are like sodas, here is why. You and I have tasted coke more than once since we were kids and we just love that taste. Every now and then we try out some new soda like sprite, pepsi, doctor pepper, etc. But believe it or not, when there is no other soda out there and if there is only coke on the table. COKE IT IS! As far as not having sex...IMPOSSIBLE even in prison you get some from the PRISON BIYOTCHES or SHOWERS

[charliemaebrown]

It's possible, not all men cheat! It may depend on the QUALITY not always the QUANTITY of sex as well as his level of endurance and the man. Some men cheat 'cause they can, some 'cause they like variety & some 'cause they are not satisfied....these are the words straight from a man...my husband. He always schools me about men and their nature. Peace.

[sultrydoll]

yes and no. depends on the man values, how he was raised and etc.

[pred1919]

TONYA I BELIVE THE SONG U WERE TALKING ABOUT IN THIS VIDEO IS Jay-Z feat. Amil & Ja Rule - Can I Get A What What TYPE THAT IN ON YOU TUBE AND LET ME NO IF THATS IT...

[RonRabbit69]

Good men have standards & principles, It's how ur raised. As far as know, all the men in my family are & were faithful to their women, once we have a committed relationship, thats it...period! Man Up! Now if the relationship deteriorates and the parties can't work it out or feel the love is no longer there, then after they go their separate ways, begin to look for a new partner. The wife's description of men, you got ur house dogs, ur yard dogs & ur street dogs. I'm proud to be a house dog.

[bama1474]

new pus** is the reason why most men cheat....it has nothing to do with whether or not u have a good woman or not...its a natural instinct. europeans instituted marriage and monogamy, muurs and african descendants had many wives.....

[mallen4000]

I dont think you can stop a man from cheating by giving him lots of sex.I think that many times sex dont start in the bed but leads to the bed based on the little things you do for that person (kind words, a gentle touch, a kiss 4 throwing out the trash a hug).Its the mental stimulation you get from other women that you dont get from your significant other that makes you stray,and it also helps to have some bom #@$ss sex until the brake of dawn lol..

[VagianTuerous]

I'm not in a relationship for the sex. Lovemaking is something you can only do with who you're with because of the emotional bond. I would not risk it for a quickie behind her back, however, men and women like variety in their sex life. Talk to her and arrange a swap or a threesome - no double-standards. If she doesn't want it, decide if your relationship is more important to you. Women should not try to give their man all the sex he wants. If he is for real, he is not with her for the sex.

[musicmixingguru]

i don't take nothing to cheat..you either a cheater or not..

[jagice200]

No, You'll only get a set percentage of guys who won't. It's really so many reason for someone to cheat, not that their good reason.

[nanjwan]

if you really think about it, if a woman is giving a man all the sex he can handle and he still stray that is cause the sex is always the same, nothing different, nothing new. all women have to do is change it up and make it seem like new ever so often

[Phreshnis]

I don't think it's possible for a woman to give a man so much sex that He won't cheat on her. It's not just about quantity, its about quality, and even moreso its about diversity. A woman could be fine, big ass, thighs touchin', big titties, perfect skin, and know every sexual trick in the book - I'd probably still cheat on her if I knew I could get away with it. Just to have something different. No man wants to be pussy-whipped.

[MsNsquared]

Me personally I don't it is possible, because you will never be able to control another individuals action or thoughts. Peoples actions speak louder then words, and also I think that people always confuse love and sex together, so that is a totally different issue! I really hate to say this phrase, but I am always around guys, "The only thing better than P****Y is New P***Y!"

[Free6969]

wow..i don't think it is possible to give a man so much sex he does not feel compelled to cheat-a man is never quite satisfied--u can give him the world and he still cheats pulz men cheat because oddly enuff it's in their blood to cheat--just the nature of the beast

[peanutandcocobutter]

If you want a life partner that is loyal, faithful, respectful, and loving look for those traits before you commit your heart and body (dont believe the talk he gives, believe the walk). When he commits to you, wear yourself out ladies. Get in tuned to trying to get multiple orgasms and see if he can handle it. If you have a moment of weakness with Mr. Wrong enjoy it and move on, just be safe.

[Looneveli]

how much sex you have with the man doesn't matter, unless you're giving him so much sex he can't get out of the house, but that might be borderline rape/kidnapping... but seriously, unless the guy's just an inconsiderate asshole, he won't cheat unless he finds flaw with you, most likely in your character... but like i said, that's if he's not simply greedy

[cbgsh]

No...it's not possible. A man who wants to cheat, will. Sex is only ONE reason that a man cheats...there are many others.

[artantro3]

No- because cheating is about a persons character. If she is giving him all the sex he wants and he is faithful person to her he want cheat. However, if is he has a character that is unfaithful he will cheat.

[hoelyone]

forget about it ladies,these porno chicks done raised the bar soooo high,that the average chick cant saticfy most cats fantisies.if you aint bringing it like a porn queen ,dude will prolly lose intrest within 6 months,sorry thats just the way it is

[shany9988]

LOL !! it cant be that bad.

[geeucrazy]

duh men cheat.

[bradthompson86]

No. Not because men always cheat, but rather that sex is not the most important thing to a mature man. So you could give a man as much sex as possible and still get a cheating man who is not intellectually/romantically interested in the girl.

[blacksilkblacksilk]

Nice question, but a bit too open.

How old would the man be, what health would the man be in, and most important: for how long would you want to put the guy out of comission? Half an hour? No problem Can be done. A day? Probably science fiction. A few hours? See above; depends on the abovementioned factors.

As to why some men cheat: look in wikipedia for the "coolidge effect".

Is it possible to give sex and form a relationship so that a guy won`t want to cheat? With some it is, with some its not

[blacksilkblacksilk]

oh, and 5/5.

take care and have a nice day

;-))

[eric8642004]

sex can be mental as well, dont forget that. Although we may not have an erection, it is possible for us to desire sex.

[koolmexican]

cut off his dick.

[ebbie2009]

lol. thats something my mom would say.

[hckr4evr]

Whenever we men decide (yes...decide) to cheat it is because a need is not being met.

Some people need to get over themselves because anyone (male or female) under the RIGHT circumstances can be swayed to cheat, even despite having a "perfect" mate.

That is reality - Harsh and true.

And for the women who believe they have men figured out? Please. This is 2009. You might be able to figure out the knuckleheads, but the educated men of today can run circles around even the "independent" women.

[Looneveli]

damn, thats along the lines of exactly what i was about to say... but yeah, women, stop trying to label MEN ONLY as cheaters, women can be some vicious devious beings as well, gender doesn't decide, the individual does, what it takes for me to cheat is if i don't like how the female is acting, if she's acting too spoiled/bitchy, then i'd decide the next opportunity i'm given, i WILL cheat, but if she doesn't have many personality flaws, and i connect emotionally, i wont cheat, simple as that

[lavinder11]

Why don't you just leave?

[Looneveli]

why not just leave?? well there are multiple reasons for that, one sometimes its simply for the looks, another, it might be because the male is bad with breaking up, so rather be broken up with(i have that problem), or three, because "love" and other like emotions cause people to not think clearly or logically, so while it MAY seem simple to leave, in the back of our minds, we all want just another 30 minutes with our ex's we thought we connected with... :( there's no winner in any of these

[lavinder11]

It is that simple, at least for me. But I do understand having another 30 minutes with the ex... that's happened recently. I just don't get why would anyone want to tangle themselves with a new person when the old one situation is a mess. I can understand being the other man or woman, but not the one stepping out on the relationship.

[Looneveli]

well, while most people would see it as simple selfishness or greed for one to cheat on their bf/gf, its multiple reasons why its chosen by a large number of people, they feel kind of sorry, or even attached sometimes to the person they're cheating on, so they keep the little secret so they wont get hurt emotionally, and they wont leave them, so they wont get hurt emotionally. and sometimes the new person understands the situation and still agrees to be just a sex buddy

[Looneveli]

not every situation has it where the person is tangling themselves with a new person, because they both have an agreement of non commitment... sometimes people DO tangle themselves with a new person, because that new person puts the life back into them that their current situation seems to suck out of them. but i'll say this for everybody, Cheat, Don't Cheat, its up to you, but if you cheat, you can't be mad when that same person cheats on you

[lavinder11]

Agreement that it's just sex is still entanglement.

[TrueYears]

oh crap

Chi City was right..................... these people are uploading shit quaity to have move views..... SHIT ADONDE SIDE

[2hot2trot]

IN MY COMMENT ABOVE: I meant: Men try to have sex even when THE CAN'T GET AN ERECTION. INCAPABLE? IF POSSIBLE SO WHAT?

[TonyaTko]

I did research before asking the question. And based on the research I came to my conclusion. I decided to broaden my base and do research by presenting the question to a wider group than just my immediate friends.

Cant you see putting this question out there is also research. Thanks for commenting.

-Tko

[TonyaTko]

On a last note do U think it is polite to call anybody "Dumb?"

Lets examine yur statement for a moment. I began this video stating that based on the research I had done w male friends, aI believed it WAS possible, so in turn you are basically saying that was "DUMB" of me... Do you think that is the best way to come to my video & communicate with me? In ALL CAPS WIELDING INSULTS?

I had another question about a husband accepting gifts against warning. Guess I wont bother to make that vid

-Tko

[kweencessX]

If a dude wants to cheat, he will do it regardless of how much sex you are giving him. But when he cheats, don't be taking him back. Females who do that bs really get on my nerves. It's like saying it's fine for him to cheat. I always say this because it's true; a man will only do to you what you allow him.

[bydrvd]

@kweencessX a MAN is a MAN is a MAN....They all will cheat if given the chance no matter how "drop dead beautiful" always in the mood mate he may have. Just the nature of the beast.

[murjani80]

Short answer to your question is NO there is nothing a woman can do to render a man "sex'd out" and make him not stray.

You could have the best "p___" in the world but if I see another woman aka "bright shiny object" that is giving me play, it is time to pursue and conquer that new challenge.

Most men by nature love competition and sport. So when a new women comes in the picture it is a challenge to get the "prize"

I have more views about cheating but will save it for your followup video.

[2hot2trot]

I like your answer.

[moetvshow]

I'm a guy! And jst b/c the sex is good and they put it dwn does not mean that they will not cheat.

[hvyweight20]

TKO...

MrChiCity3 gave you a shout-out in his YOUTUBE EXPOSED video...

He included you as a part of his small list of people that are actually REAL here on YOUTUBE!

Im not sure how many of your viewers watch him or if you even were aware of the shout-out...

Take Care!

[TonyaTko]

Thats very sweet, I never saw that... I will have to lookit up. PPL should really put my name in the tags when they make a vid with me in it... and sending me a note sayings its up doesnt hurt either ;-)

-Tko

[hvyweight20]

Yea you are right about that one. He has a really large subscriber base so I hope a bunch of people took his advice and came over and subscribed to you. That Youtube Exposed video was crazy, lol! Hes probably going to get into trouble for that one. It seems like that video said exactly what alot of the people who are already partners, here on the tube, wanted to say but didnt feel that they could without getting into shit for it, lol! Keep screaming them encouraging words Tonya!

[hvyweight20]

I believe that keeping a man from cheating takes far more then just the physical act of sex. When a man cheats its usually because he is lacking something in his current relationship and it usually doesnt include a lack of sex.

[zheahra]

Hi, Tonya,

I wouldn't say that. It all depends on the man. There are other components to a relationship that will help the man not cheat. If he isn't into you like that he might cheat. Women are having sex out the gate so they'll never know whatelse their man likes or desires. When there is no communication there is no understanding. So, I'd say if you can keep his interest with your clothes on then he may not. Unless he is the cheating type then there is nothing you can do. Men hve big egos.

[JaizyOnline]

can i get a what what by jay z of the rush hour soundtrack

[JaizyOnline]

my my, bout time u have a "shorter" video

[TonyaTko]

Jaizy, you are not forced to watch ANY video... short OR long.

-Tko

[JaizyOnline]

i know, i choose to watch em

[misspotential]

I think its possible but not forever its like if you are on someones mind so hard and they crave you they may not be able to have sex with another woman yes its possible I have had someone tell me that they have tried to have sex with another woman and could not get an erection and when they did it lasted for a second and would go away and it was very notice about as if his penis missed .., well ya know lol

[tknockerson]

There is no real way. You have men that cheat and men that don't. 90 percent do 10 percent don't. But although he may cheat. His number one is always his number one. You can give him all the sex you please, but it doesn't mean he won't partake in extra curricular activity. Peace.

[12Coloreal]

Too much of anything is not good. Make him come to you. Its about give and take, not just give. Like Sahbisun said, its about variety. Change it up.

P.S. Great video :-)

[JamConcerned]

This answer is individual some men will say YES to get women dedicated to always providing it. But the answer is NO why men cheat is up to them and the relationship they are in and the woman they are with. If they value, and respect the woman and relationship they are in.

[sg222009]

gunlover2010, all men are not always ready. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Some of these men can't even stay on hard. So that not true. To answer, tonyatko question, no i don't think you can give a man all the sex they want and they won't cheat. Men cheat for different reasons. When youre in a relationship its not all about sex anyway. You have to have a bond and if you communicate with each other the sex can get better.

[mrshonieb]

When I first meet my husband I wouldn't give him sex all the time because I was scared he would get bored with me but when we did have sex I guess you can say I put it down and seven years later he still married me and I never believe he has ever stepped out on me I fill real confident in that.Its not quantity its quality

[KCphantasmagoric]

...and it seems that when men get "excited," all logic goes out the window, so no matter how much a guy is in love with a woman, or commited to someone, if the sex is in his face, I think in many cases, he's gonna take it. But i'm a woman, so those are just my opinions based on what i have observed.

[KCphantasmagoric]

WOW. Shortest video EVER. Well atleast your shortest video in a couple years lol. I haven't been in many relationships, so I haven't been cheated on as far as I know, but when I was in highschool, my father told me that every man cheats, so if I want to be with one, I better deal with that fact. I think there are men out there who want to be faithful, but there are so many loose women out there nowadays that guys can get it much easier and sex is even thrown at them often times.....

[kweencessX]

"every man cheats, so if I want to be with one, I better deal with that fact..." damn. So have to DEALT with this so called FACT? I really don't agree with that, and I also think that making cheating ACCEPTABLE is part of the problem. A man will only do to you what you allow him. I know my boyfriend wouldn't DARE cheat on me because he's got far too much to lose when it comes to this relationship and he KNOWS he would be OUT a-sap!

[kweencessX]

Cont.

Women are far too forgiving. It's rare a female cheats and the dude takes her back at the snap of a finger. We need to be way stricter and not expect the man we are with to cheat. I don't believe that all men cheat. Some are smart enough to know that what they have is far too precious to mess around with. And some men whole heartedly don't want to cheat on their spouse and they won't. If a man wants to be faithful, no matter how much pussy is dangled infront of him, he won't do nothing.

[NvrSettle]

I'm sick of women trying to figure out about how to keep a man from straying. You can ride a man all the way to Jupiter and back and cook him dinner and his ass is still liable to cheat. The key is finding a man that is truly into you. He may even like you a bit more than you like him. His ass won't leave you or cheat usually in that situation. So no. There is no such thing as rendering him to dick incompacity.

[lavinder11]

I like your prose, and I agree.

[NvrSettle]

Thanks Lavinder!

[aprilbutterfli]

No. regardless if it is a male or female they are capable of still cheating. If it is in there character to do so. We are responsible for our own actions. There is never an excuse. If a man or woman is unsatisfied, say they have a fantasy or whatever that is on them to communicate it to the one they are with. And how self centered is it for someone to expect to be catered to on every whim or they will stray? That is an excuse. A cheater will cheat if they choose to a faithful person will not.

[quickpost12345]

i don't think you could wear a man out - like 3 hours later, he would be ready again.

but if he love her, he no cheat.

[Sahbisun]

I found the more sex you give...the faster he will become bored with the same sex partner and maybe wanna try something new. Too much of anything is never good. Men like excitement -adventure- variety. I think women should practice the art of having multiple personalities in the bedroom. ( The virgin, the blower, the tease, the slut, etc) Don't give him everything all the time-all at once.

A females prospective...I just heard you say you wanna hear from guys mostly.

[NvrSettle]

@Sahbisun AGREED!

[gotsnoluv4ya]

If this is about strictly trying to give a man all the heaven he can handle to prevent him from straying, then I would have to say NO. The physical in most instances will not be all that is needed to keep him, I feel it is much deeper than just that.

[rantanen1]

its so very dumb to discuss about cheating men, especially when women cheat just as much.. why not make a big deal out of that too?

if a person is not an ass and is in a happy relationship he/she wont cheat, same applies to men and women.

[TonyaTko]

Rant, you should probably WATCH the video before commenting. No one said women dont cheat. Im asking a SPECIFIC question about sex and men.

-Tko

[gunlover2010]

no ,is the answer,

but all men don't cheat.... 5 years in to my marriage ,i have never cheated & don't flirt either...ain't worth it..!!!

but ,i was at one time a chronic cheater, no ,we men are always ready,no woman can wear a man out , not w/ Viagra ..baby...!!!!

a man might get tired of the same sex,w/ that one person, but around the corner,he might want to jump on someone else in that tight shirt...balancing all that in some high heels...lolz.... but true...