Re: How To Know if She is Cheating

[rockbay79]

Married women cheat and use their "lovers" as well. I fell in love when I was 20 and my female friend was 18. She broke up with me and married a rich guy 6 months later. She hated the marriage and started an affair with me which resulted in a child. Because of this, she broke all ties with me to save the marriage. Then 20 years later we picked up where we left off with affairs. Then she just dropped me again indicating she could not leave her marriage. She has remained married for 30 years.

[mia0899cs]

@rockbay79 I'm sorry to hear this. She should follow her heart. She's only with him because he's rich because if she truly loved him she never would have continued to cheat. I do believe she loves you, but she's not going to leave because she loves money more. She made love a choice. I see you falling in love and she's going to find out the hard way that she should have been with you.

She's not happy.

[sevilnguyen]

At 52 second, you can hear something is boiling in the background, to me it sounds like someone hitting the bong pipe! :)

[mia0899cs]

@sevilnguyen Had to be a ghost.

[NAPPYMON361]

but gurls cheat kuz their are in heat or she dont relly like you or revenge... but niggas cheat kuz he horny or we dont love her straigt like that

[NAPPYMON361]

she is cute.. ill lay down in her bed

[BVBfan4life97]

im bi, and im afraid that my gf is cheating on me. I love her to death and dont want to let her go. To me shes TOTALLY worth it.

[nativemrv19722]

No. I wouldn't take her back. If you do your a weak man. Once a cheater aways a cheater. i would hate to see that. i would be real angry. They are a back staber.

[JohnnyRock2000]

So at any given time 10% of women ARE cheating. In a lifetime who knows how many women HAVE cheated, but it's a lot more than 10%. When a woman cheats, NOBODY will tell the guy. A woman can cheat forever and the guy won't be told until after the breakup. Society creates a mythology of women and women wear it just like makeup, but if you were to somehow bug a woman's washroom you'd smarten up pretty fast. Women know that femininity is an act.

[ClassicRockfan79]

@JohnnyRock2000 i think about 95% of women cheat, as a matter of fact ive only known 2 women that have not cheated as far as i know, and thats my mom and grandmother. every other adult female ive ever known or met has cheated, and some of them cheat over and over.

[schmokes1]

@ClassicRockfan79 trick is to control their mind, not their body.

[JohnnyRock2000]

8% of births are of "surprise paternity". The would be father is not the father. Hospitals know this, society does not. We don't even have a word or term for a child like this but 1 out of 12 people out there have dads that are NOT their fathers. Just something that western society doesn't choose to think about. Trying to keep women on a bit of a pedestal. Women are WAY different than they are portrayed. It's sort of a secret that is not disclosed, but women know.

[AshXXMayftw]

You know one this that really pisses me off alot? When a women thinks and suggests that her husband is cheating and she follows him around all day with the women. Women you have to realize that we do have girl friends believe it or not. That women could be one of his high school friends that he had to leave behind after he went through the doors one final time. Just because we hang out with women does not mean were cheating. 

[ReverendDoGood]

Most Women Who Cheat Are Bipolar, What's Crazy A Lot Of Them Don't Know It!!

[Mary54724]

Lads,this is all great but has any of you here have the guts to actually know the truth about weather or not your spouse or lover is cheating? I had the guts I actually intercepted my wife's cell phone for over 2 months before I actually found out she was cheating,some people are just too good at hiding it.

I am using the cell phone interception software I suggest you search on google for hacks4.sale (remove dot between word) and you'll find the software.,it's great

[SouthernSniper74]

I love your hair, I would like to bang your anal hole!

[Ieatbabyseals]

Eh, If a guy has to raise another mans kid because you were fucking around then he was genetically raped.

[MrQuagmire26]

And I would also like to add something. Women also may cheat because of the "nice guy syndrome". Women like a bit of challenge, they don't want a man that "always listen", is "always sweet", lets her walk over him.. once a woman meet a "bad boy" he is like heroine. If a man fail to project alpha masculine traits she will cheat or leave him in the end. I seen it over and over again, being mr nice guy isn't always the best thing. Women are emotional beings and men are on the logical side.

[MrQuagmire26]

WEll, yeah men can cheat because of sexual reasons. But there could also be needs not being met by the woman in the relationship. Some guys cheat just because they can. Lets say he's been married for many years, the sex have died, he tried talking about it with his significant other. But she keeps writing him off, deep down he may still love her. When he meet a woman who give him what his wife/gf isn't. Women probably cheat because one of many needs aren't being met.

[carterchris001]

Not all men are as much of an ass as you portray, My girlfriend cheated on me and didt tell me. I found out by her ex telling me six months later. It hurt just thinking about the deed she had done behind my back. But I didnt leave her should i have just left her alone???

[sk8rboy2013]

My GF was Cheating on me with a 21 year old guy and i found this out after she broke up with me for him and she is only 14.

[darrelincanada]

however I started to get a bad vibe and sure enough I caught her with another man who answered her door in her bath robe. Just before that she was avoiding me and had stopped being intimate a while before and saying she had to work late every night and never answeered her work number to ask if I could bring her take out. her son called me asking if she was at my place and i said she wasn't and wasn't at work.

[darrelincanada]

I thought about this woman ( a woman after the sister incisdent) i was seeing and her cheating hubby. Maybe Im a bit to analytical, butit staarted to feel like she was having her nose rubbed in it with the intro to the mistress. he left her and married the mistress. however I started to feel that she was caught by her hubby and he retaliated with an affair of his own. But the kicker is I would help her with house work yard work and bring her flowers and massage her. and was very romantic

[darrelincanada]

in regards to the man spilling the beans about messing around i have a story for you from another dating disaster on my part. this woman said her hubby actually brought his mistress back to his house and introed her to the wife. my initial reaction was that guy had a lot of balls doing that after telling his wife he wasn't screwing his coworker. However after i thought about it irealized that most men who cheat try to hide it but are found out.

[darrelincanada]

this is a continuation of the sister of a woman i was involved with. I had a vuibe from her about her. So Ia sked my G/Fif her sister was having an affair. and the G/F said no my sister and I are close.. she would tell me if she was. Well about a month later the G/F did admit her sister was indeed checking into a motel room with a man who lived in a city an hour away and who she meet through work. She also said her sister had done this before with a couple of men pre marriage

[darrelincanada]

Hi Cindy I listened to both parts of your insights. What you have said fits about why women cheat and the signs. I disagree about the carnovore perspective. Women can be as predatory with sexual/emotional needs. I have seen it 1st hand. From my ex, took me a while to trust again but I did date a woman whos sister was constantly winking at me amd making subtle comments towarsds me. I found out she was messing around on her hubby.

[alithe25king]

though it might disturbe some viewers but according to a study" Those animals mate for life in which the size of both partneres is same or equal like EAGLES or WOLVES or JACKELS Whereas animals in which there is size difference are polygamus or are Harem animals such as LIONS .GUERILLAS ,CHIMPS etc so man is an example where there is size difference!!!! and are polygamus by nature

[darrelincanada]

@alithe25king

I have a science degree in biology. I have never heard of this study. Im not sasying it isn't out there just that I haven't heard of it. I also wonder if they included info that in those size differentiation between the sexes that its usually the females banishing the males from the herds? I am thinking of elephants tigers bears lions and most primates, It means that while it is perceived that those males are polygamous, they are also kept from their offspring

[alithe25king]

@darrelincanada in my defence i would say that the progeny is strictly defended by the males!!! such as A lion will defend his pride at the cost of his life and so would Chimps and Gorillas!! there is no banashing by the females going on there!!but crux of the matter is children are naturally closer to moms than dads and its fine... but it takes two to raise and since human child is so complex it is an evolutionary requirement to raise the kids with the help of both Parents so no one is Superior

[aikenandre]

is she drunk or what?

[LukeReed627]

If you think MOST men will take a woman back after she has been cheating then I think you are just wrong, the only exception is staying because of the kids.

[crazyhorse1369]

cheating is cheating , Don't try to justify it by saying women do it for different reasons. A whore is a whore.

[iraqiGak47]

you lokk like a cheater to me

[kf4pbb711]

your pretty i love your hair....

[mia0899cs]

@kf4pbb711 Thanks and now I got it a lot shorter with bangs, but it grows fast.

[mia0899cs]

@kf4pbb711 I'm replying to you again because I miss the color that I had. I have a burgandy brown, but this was a nice pale blonde. I did this myself too. I got good with the coloring. I think for me to get to this color again instead of stripping my hair is to put heavy blonde highlights in it and just be patient.

[malikmaxawan]

how can a woman goes distant with her bf she has been involved for more than a year n a half n come up with a statement that maybe she wanted a break from her husband n now she wanna go back becoz her bf caught her coming home late night and she said she was with her cousins wtf !!

[mia0899cs]

@malikmaxawan That's bullshit and don't let her back! Move on and you will be better. Trust me. My ex did similar things.

[PersonOfBook]

the punishment for adultery should be death!

[mia0899cs]

@PersonOfBook I agreed with you when this girl Stacey broke our family up. Her Dad encouraged it and I didn't know it was her dad at the time. We would have been together for 11 years and we have a 9 1/2 y.o. son. I was furious and sad. It was hard on our son.

[Mutt7304]

I think you make great points and I found you're 1st and 2nd video helpful. I have a friendly suggestion that if you polish up your presentation it will improve your video tenfold. Good Points!

[mia0899cs]

@Mutt7304 Thanks!

[HSofRapture1]

Lady, pull back your hair so I can see that beautiful face of yours. I think you have what's called natural beauty and your a white women which turns me on because I haven't seen a white women that can pull off natural beauty like you in a while.

[mia0899cs]

@HSofRapture1 That's so sweet! Well, I have my hair shorter now!!!

[mia0899cs]

@HSofRapture1 I miss that blonde that I had. I know this over 1 year ago but everytime I watch this it looks so good. However, maybe it was the lighting and it was brassy. I have brown with burgandy now. I guess I could have just pulled it back instead of gettng it cut. It's long again. 

[maftuna80]

she would scare anyone with her looooong hairs and eyes,hahahha

[mia0899cs]

@maftuna80 Men love long hair. My eyes are spooky? hehehehe! They change colors too. Green or brown.

[stepdaddyshit]

i hate cheaters

[tevion1226]

Women cheat for the same reasons men cheat. Anyone who tells you different is lying to you and themselves.

[kahmad5]

no they will not take her back as she is doing to her self, she doesn't have any self esteem in her self and then she inflicts on everyone and wants another man for "attention" looking at all the cheating wives sites, and all these junk, corrupting our society

[mia0899cs]

@kahmad5 I know three men that were married and two did take their wives back. Somehow they think it was their fault. The other guy still would but she doesn't want him back. All of these men were very decent husbands too. Go figure!

[nuurka36]

I Hate Cheating Women.

[mia0899cs]

@nuurka36 Yes, I think it's wrong for anyone in a relationship to cheat. I was cheated on and it would have been easier if he would have left before he started to see this girl.

[nuurka36]

I was cheated on, I had so much love , and it changed into so much hate.

it just was unfair, when I gave everything.

srry if my english is bad.

[mia0899cs]

@nuurka36 Yes, it is unfair. I gave everything too. My ex wanted to start a business so I knew for 3 yrs. he wouldn't have any money. Than he met this guy Mark and asked if he needed work. Than my ex ends up with Mark's girlfriend. We have a 9 y.o. son together and he had a choice. He chose her. I feel numb, betrayed, and it still goes through my mind every morning when I awaken. I know we have to accept to move on, but it's not easy. It's always going to be hard to trust again.

[nuurka36]

Yes, its hard to trust again. I know that feeling.

happiness is good health and a bad memory.

[DENMARK7470KARUP]

hi..

Dam you look sweet as candy.

And your voice mmm, nice.

To bad i am in Denmark, smile

Regards

from Denmark

[mia0899cs]

Thanks Denmark! Small, minor details, lol! I could move.

[DENMARK7470KARUP]

yeah i know. So see you like in 6 hrs oki. Just ask for me, when you are landing here in Denmark.. smile

Regards

from Denmark

[mia0899cs]

I'll be there....smile

[DENMARK7470KARUP]

mmm, i cant see you :-( Maybe you are on your way now :-) big smile

Regards

from Denmark

[Slayton76]

Dang Cindy love that sexy hair

[mia0899cs]

Thank you, however, now I am a dark brunette with burgandy highlights. I hope you like it!

[Slayton76]

Burgandy you stole my heart

[tamapalagi]

Put a gun to her head and ask if she's fucking around.

[stripes5150]

that would get a straight answer....lmfao

[Peristerygr]

@tamapalagi That way she will not tell you the truth. She will tell you what she thinks you want to hear!

[schmokes1]

@tamapalagi haha

[AhYaOk]

do you really think most men would take a women back after they cheated on them? i aint so sure about that. lol. to be cheated on has to be the worst. thats a lot to forgive.

[getemall69]

the law should be flexible for cheaters u just cant stop ur self from bursting there heads open with tire irons thats one thing that sucks about america

[UFO4X]

Are you married? Your sexy! I want a date...hehe

[Internetgangstakilla]

nah cuzz if she cheat on me its done i don't care if we have kids together or not you don't do that

[mia0899cs]

I agree it is wrong, but until you are actually in that situation you really don't know what you will do. I've heard so many guys say that and when reality hit home, they started to blame them self and treated their fiance/wife like a Queen. However, it didn't work. The women left and didn't come back. One girl came back only until she could find someone else that would take her in and marry her. She had to get divorced first, but it was wrong what she did. Her husband was always nice.

[rep5281]

People cheat because they either don't care or think they won't be caught. Anyone who cheats is scum. If you feel the need to fill every donut hole (men) or ride every bronco (women) then let your partner know before you do it and get out of the relationship. If you like variety, then relationships aren't for you.

[mia0899cs]

They might wait to see if it worth leaving their significant other for. They should just leave first.

[MIKEASHLEYOUT]

I bet your whiskey collection is massive?

[mia0899cs]

Whiskey? Very fine Scotch!!! Aged to perfection!

[Bigtruck2007]

Recommendation for Great Scotch BRAND..thanks

[mia0899cs]

What are you drinking that you have no videos? It must be that cheap stop called, Mad Dog.

[Kennychipmunk]

Cindy,men sometimes cheat out of revenge for the woman cheating on him.While I never cheated I know people who have.I was left by my last girlfriend for another woman and she ended up becoming one of my best friends after the breakup.And she and the woman are still together.For an interesting movie on the subject you should see the movie Kissing Jessica Stein.

[mia0899cs]

Yes, I know of people cheating as revenge. I am not into that because it wouldn't make me feel better. That has to be hard when a woman leaves for another woman. I've heard of that too. Sometimes, it is ia guy's fantasy and it turns out all wrong when the fantasy becomes reality. In many of those cases, I often think the woman are confused and then they leave the woman for a man later down the road.

[johnnymoondog]

OK ! Youve covered the How and the Why,

r u gonna do a vid about when, where and who ? ! :P

[ArdenLinoge]

Wow.

Are you Drunk in this video? Seriously, you had to be drunk. You are all over the place. Next time lay off the booze.  This is as bad as drunk dialing.

[barnett256]

watch her Breakup Series Part 2 shez buzzin good in that one .. the breastfeeding vid shes seems sober and pretty cool .. .. .

[clashb]

you make a lot of valid points I'm

a dude and I have nothing but the upmost respect

for you

I have looked twords bieng celebete and retain

abstance until I find the right woman

witch may be a while

also sorry for my bad spelling and grammer

[FutureMichael]

OK THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IF YOU THINK SOMEONE IS CHEATING

just became the "overtaker?"lol just give the best thing for her and then whenever shes acting weird begin

just take back all of the love donig lol -im not say take back the ring you know - ok so she want say you never loved me! lol

SOMETIMES THE LOOK OF A PERSON FACE gives thing out

its a"physioloictysirapist" just! like fear or not.. for you and me!! BECAUSE WE DON'T NO.. WE JUST LEARN

[FutureMichael]

lol miss spell mistake

[mia0899cs]

I think that statement is true. They are more animals because of the high testosterone. I think given the opportunity without anyone finding out, a man would cheat but he wouldn't see it that way or feel guilty.

[ilovenbcnews]

well i think men cheat for lack of sex, and women do it for lack of emotional connection.

[mia0899cs]

I just made a vid, "Breakup Series Part II" and I was cheated on. Sex wasn't the issue in my scenario. I think we fell in love but it was lust. Then you realize you don't have a lot in common, but the bedroom. That will wear off if you aren't best friends with your mate. Relationships are tough.

[MidnightTapOut]

There are many reasons why men cheat on women...many common reasons are because women are too casual with oral sex and is looking for a woman that can give him what he wants, supply and demand. It could be that the woman doesn't sexually turn the guy on during sex. Discomfort with that specific woman? We can be casual sometimes in those bed-times lol.

[mia0899cs]

lol! Yes, I think you summed up the sexual part! I think you are right about the oral sex. What if the man has problems performing? I think you should get to know someone really well, but compassion and talking is important too. If you have great sex and nothing in common that will also destroy a relationship.

[Lewismadmax]

I am very carniverous, but isnt compassion and someone to talk to important.

If one has compassion, passion will follow.

I think women cheat out of either boredom or because they just simply want something else.

we are all human, humans change over time, that is more "why" than any other.

Now that Ive said that, "lets all get naked and cheat"! WOOOOOT

[mia0899cs]

I agree if one has compassion then passion will follow, however, I do like carniverous!!! We do change over time and if one's Partner doesn't change with one, than it is over. I don't think one can rekindle the past, but many hold on to the past and not live in the present. Alright, "lets all get naked and cheat"!

[MidnightTapOut]

Hey Cindy, let's go out sometime! I'll cheat on ya okay? lol! jk

[mia0899cs]

lol! I don't know what I did to people that watched this vid! Everyone wants to cheat now and get naked, lol!

[Gimmeabreakman]

Good source here. Thanks. Will read the comments.

[mia0899cs]

Thanks Victor!

[ajdonabed]

just my own advice as a male to the male community and also to the females as well.

yea I agree sex vs. companionship and bonds in love can create AND cause change

[mia0899cs]

That's great advice!

[Whitelinefilms]

So on point here, you speak the truth. All men should watch this video. Very good job and great advice. More tubers need to share videos like this.

[mia0899cs]

Thank you so much!

[ajdonabed]

hey cindy.. (behind closed doors) Im thinking of making a "LOVE CONNECTION" series... just an idea at the moment. I like you

[mia0899cs]

Thanks! Hmmm.."Love Connection" series. Sounds interesting.