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  • hi robert i cant seem to find the next video ........very interesting stuff wow thnaks

  • Hey there! Have you thought about anxiety zero technique (It is at anxiety0.info)? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate pretty much cured anxiety and panic attacks with it.

  • Hello there! Have you tried anxiety zero technique (Go to anxiety0.info)? Ive heard some great things about it and my buddy pretty much cured anxiety and panic attacks with it.

  • wow.... interesting... i can learn about this... very helpful....

  • i like your channel

  • Another profound video. How wonderful to see that EFT can help heal trauma. You see so calm and peaceful, such a beautiful soul, I would never have guessed you had difficulties, but I think we all do in some way. My father was very irresponsible & immature, & I tend to attract guys with the same emotional patterns. Yet I am mature & responsible. Now I realize that I have to tap this out to change the pattern in myself, in order to get a different result. God bless & thanks.

  • Very interesting video. If we can identify the root of our issues, then how do we disconnect and even remove that memory? I think my problem is just that -- I can't let go. It's like I just want someone to hypnotize/brainwash me into forgetting it completely.

  • @watersunearth

    Just keep watching these videos and you will get your answer.... You can do your own brainwashing and create a life you want. If you need help go to my website. Robert

  • @HealingMagic - Thank you very much for taking the time to respond to my questions. I'll have to reflect on them...

  • 6. Lastly, why would the unconcious draw you to people to play this particular negative program? Myself if I had an experience where something negative happened with someone - as far as I can tell, my unconcious warns me when I meet people who appear even remotely similar, and flashes warning signals to stay away. Is it just me?

  • @joebann68

    It does it to say in alignment with what you hold to be true in the world and you love them who did it to you as well. The warning are still there to tell you that you are in the right situation to feel the feelings you know.

  • @HealingMagic Thank you, I needed to hear that! much love.

  • 5. So even though it didn't work that way for you, wouldn't you have installed the desired alternative as the way you would act to your children in that situation? Or are you saying that the unconcious will automatically default to the example you learned from your father.

  • @joebann68

    It automatically defaults to what you hold within because which has the most emotional support wins...pain, hurt, love or joy.

  • 4. I think for myself as I was growing up, when I had issues of disappointment or let down with how I expected my father to act, I made note of it so that I could do better for my children.

    And from your example it seemed the same. You were in the tree, and you expected your father to be the hero... he wasn't, BUT you knew how you'd have liked the siutation to be.

  • @joebann68

    Your experiences again was building your skills to be disappointed and even projecting it. But you can over write it with effort in some areas but the pain is still driving the behavior to not do it which means it is still there in other ways.

  • 3. From my own life, with my own father, I believe this is what I've done. I've realized the inadequacy of following his example, and looked for better ones.

    I'm just trying to understand the reasoning behind why the unconscious would model something that doesn't work - unless there are absolutely no other examples to follow. But even then, the imagination can still create better examples - no?

  • @joebann68

    The way to get better is to release the negative, harmful, or painful memories because your unconscious mind will work to keep you in alignment with them. When you are trying to break the rules of your past you will find big resistance. You are not suppose to break out from your recorded pains. It is not wise or safe because it has proof.

  • 2. What is puzzling is why in the example of "how to have a relationship with your father", you would take what doesn't seem to work, and build on that?

    Wouldn't we just take references that are better than the ones we have?

    For example, if I see a father son interaction on tv, that is better than the reference I have, why wouldn't I just use that instead?

  • @joebann68

    You learn to survive within your environment. This is your world the emotional experiences go in and you operate from them. They changed your diapers, fed you, loved you in their own way good or bad. You then have this pattern of how the world is and you'll stay in alignment with it without consciously thinking about it.

  • 1. Thanks for your videos, they are very insightful.

    My purpose of writing this is to learn where you're coming from, as I may be missing something that is in my blindspot. So please take this as a genuine question.

    I may have to split this up into sections as comments are limited to 500 characters.

    Using your example...

    When you're learning to ride the bicycle, I can grasp that you will take what works, and apply it to the next experience and build on that experience.

  • ...I can´t stop watching your videos,

    I´m german, but my dad came from Louisiana - he left home when he was 14 - because of the hard times with his step-dad - he stayed in Germany, met my mom and they had some kids - so many bad things happened, terrible things - parents are gone since such a long time, also my brother died much too young, big sister is ill since I can remember, me and little sister also got our problems - hope, by watching your videos and learning I will be able to chance...

  • Do address what you do within yourself and make peace with what you hold within you.

  • this is all so true.. I've still got some extreme difficulties with my love life... I also understand that the last girl I liked and who rejected me... was exactly the same as the girl before who didn't seem to have any interest in me... treated me the same way... and I ended up feeling humiliated... the last time is happened was in january and I've been tapping on it ever since... it seems to keep coming back... very difficult challenge for me

  • You may even look at your family dynamics and who also rejected whom? Just a thought.

  • One more thing. Robert, I love the way you understand and explain EFT and how we humans work.

    I am interested in learning EFT and your faster technique because I want to be able to heal myself others. I feel like this is my calling in life. Can you recommend the right sequence of DVDs from your website?

  • I was so teased when this video ended. I wanted to hear what's next :)

    I tried to find the rest on youtube, but the next video was a little bit later. I tried to find the DVD on the website but I was kind of confused. Is it there?

  • wow....Very interesting!

  • Why do you become the father too?

  • Thanks for your videos, very helpful!! I want to ask you a question about an appointment with you.

    How can I ask you?

    Thanks

  • We are all children, no matter what our age, and attract what is in our unconscious. LOA doesn't discriminate, nor can it distinguish the conscious thoughts from the unconscious ones. We are all innocent. We are simply a product of our programming. The healing magic happens when we release, embrace/allow, forgive and let go. And the tapping helps to release the programming from our nervous system, run by the unconscious mind for the most part. I appreciate what you are ^up^ to Robert!

  • You are right on and very well stated!

    It sounds like something I would have said or I have already stated in 50 thousands of ways!

    We are on the same page!!! Thank you for the kind comment!!! Love and peace Robert

  • Hi Robert, thanks for the lesson. How can I change this image of my dad who abused my mom, adultery and I seen those things happen and to this day I am almost 50 he does not know that I seen him do this. But I find myself choosing men who have cheated on me or mentally abused me. Married twice and then in relationships that the man is not fully with me or disrespectful. I allowed my relatives to physically abuse me when I was little and it plays over and over in my head, the beatings. Help!

  • You already know that the image is inside you and you are the one now affirming the actions they did many years ago. The image is within you so there are many ways to change it. One you can change the color of the image, push away, put clown noses on everyone involved, tap away the emotions you are feelings you have involved. You have to understand you are all actors in your your memories as well as the movie director. You will need to make peace within yourself with each memory. Sessions

  • I would like to believe in LOA. But, can anyone tell me how is it supposed to work in babies, children and animals? I can't understand how these innocent optimistic beings can attract bad things on themselves.

  • There is another law when you are innocent optimistic child it is called do the best you can with what happens. (I actually call it, "Shit Happens Law") How you handle it from that point on will either will occur again or not but we must learn to let it go.

  • FIRST PART:

    Very good question, I've been wondering the exact same thing, though I haven't gone into animals, which is another interesting point...

    But I've read we design the main points of our lives before we are born. Call it our soul, spirit, energy, consciousness... So while being innocent babies, we have that program in us already. And just like I agree with HealingMagic, the way we react to it is another level of our free will.

  • That is a system that may support having the problem, you chose these experiences before coming so why are you complaining. That is a belief system that tries to explain why "shit happens to innocent people"  It just happens, so let it go and move on unless you have already bought the name tag then you may have to wear that one for a long time. I suggest get the one that says, "I am a dynamic person who is always changing and improving by letting go."

  • Lately I've been giving up on any opinion/perception/understandi­ng/explanation I've given in the past to life. It's odd, but I seem to be blocking my own thinking somehow. I've been obsessively trying to find these explanations via deep thinking since an early age. Now I can't do that any more, I'm blank & it's hard to connect stuff & concentrate. An extremely bad short term memory. I guess it is a way of my system to protect me from this obsessive thinking,that has led me to depression as well.

  • What about: "Stuff happens and whether it's shit or not is up to us".

  • 100% Correct Everything is a blessing even shit

  • SECOND PART:

    I realized I didn't have anything to add except my sources:

    DR Brian Weiss and "The Secret".

  • But isn't this against the law of attraction? I mean, while your tapping you are constantly repeating what you DON'T want; you are focusing on what you want to get rid of and tha law says that's the way to get more of what you don't want.

  • The law of attraction is whatever you hold in mind you wll attract. If you have negative memories IN SIDE YOU will attract them into your life. We address the memories and release the negative emotions along with changing how you see the memory. When it is gone you replace it with good. LOA is whatever you hold inside good or bad. Changing what you hold inside will change your present and future.

  • How do I start tapping? My husband cheated on me for over a year, while I was pregnant. He was unemployed then and still is. He lives at my expense I even have to pay for his child support for kids of a previous marriage. I am angry, I hate myself, feel unlovable, ugly, I want out of the marriage but don't have the guts, I don't hate him but I can't forgive him and at the very leaste I need to be able to demand him to find a job. Help!!!!

  • Start with one issue & stay with it until you feel at peace with it. Start with memories of certain events. Release the hate for yourself, feelings of being unlovable, ugly & the feelings of being trapped. Unless you release what you have inside you, you will pick someone else to do what you know how to do to yourself. Love yourself & then you will find someone to love you at that newer level. You can not run from yourself so make peace with your hurts & move on. I send you love & peace.

  • Thank you, where's number one? I like to go in order?

  • Sorry it was removed by request.

  • Removed by request? What was it about? Who would request that when you have helpful videos?

  • Hi Robert,

    Thank you so much for all your video's you have put up watching them has been a very great healing help to myself and to help others I had know of Nlp and TFT and EFT for a very long time and knew some of its concepts but never had I known it as simple and understanding and how to love doing it on myself until I began to watch your video's.

    Thank you with great kindness,

    Shay

  • I too have known all of them (NLP, TFT, EFT, TAT, religion, hypnosis) but to gel them together with simple, easy and effective understanding is what I have done so I can understand them. Giving to others creates healing all over the world. If you like these videos you will really love my DVD series I have on my website. As you watch them your understanding gets greater and then pass them along because freedom is a powerful gift. Love and Peace Robert

  • Robert,

    I already knew that all the characters in dreams while sleeping are aspects of myself, but now you tell me that it is true for my memory reruns, also. WOW! That's powerful! It will help me heal faster. Thank You! PEACE G:-)

  • Hello Mr. Smith, thank you very much for all your wonderful work. The phone session with you was really great, you really know how to work and are very intelligent. I am looking forward for the next phone session. I sure will be there ;)

    * I have a question regarding relationships: According to what I have in my unconscious mind, I have attracted the perfect person to play the same old pattern, is it mean that this person will no longer be the right person if I change the program in my mind?

  • As you heal then the relationships will also follow. The old style becomes less attractive. If your in a currently in the relationship it will transform it if they play the game. Transformation will occur.

  • I first saw Robert on You Tube when I was searching for videos on EFT. I was really impressed and set up a private phone session with him. He did his "quick EFT" with me for 2 hours. It was really deep. I had a lot of powerful emotions come. Perhaps, what was most valuable is that he helped me see that I am the one making up these stories. I can keep re-creating tales of woe or I can let them go.

    EFT works. Robert is amazing. Enjoy.

  • Perfect! Thank you! I would also think that along the same vein, if I shift my views of myself to a more loving place, my views on relationships would probably shift also. I have been working with EFT for a while now and just discovered your work. Its very refreshing! Thank you!

  • What do you think of my style?

  • I like it a lot! I like the "fast" approach. I'd never done the wrist part before, and experienced a noticeable shift after I watched one of your videos...the one called "How to Tap Faster." That was great! I always enjoy delving further, so I'm enjoying your approach. Your way of speaking to the stresses in depth is also nice. I went to your website and wondered which video would lend itself to relationships and self-acceptance the most.

  • All the video are really good...The relationship set covers many areas of self and how we are the creator of all relationships. The most popular is the weight loss program which it also covers that relationship you have with food. All your problems start with you and end with you. That is good because you are in control...

  • Great video! How would you use the process for changing limiting beliefs around relationships?

  • Limiting beliefs are based on past experiences so you would look at them and then tap away the experience to where you shift the view. They are so build with fears and emotions so look for what it is you don't want then do the same tap them until you have a new view. After tapping it away restructure the memory to get what you do want...make it feel good for you! Peace and Love Robert

  • Good

  • Thank you. What was it that make it good for you?

  • I like this guy's style. He talks a lot of sense.

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