just let it go. why is it so important that he knows of your sexual preference? you've told him multiple times. if he doesn't get it by now, let it go. you're just being selfish.
@Enyaron yeah, but i don't think that's the case here. his grandpa's old and from a completely different generation. we can't just expect him to "get" things like we do today even though it may seem obvious to us.
If my grandparents responded like this I would just be happy. I am not ever going to tell them I am trans. They still think I am a lesbian and they are praying for my soul. He isn't mad, he still wants to spend time with you. If it were me I would just let it go.
I'm a little worried about your grandfather. You should really look to see if he's showing any other signs of Alzheimers. It may be something less sever, but it really sounds like he's having real trouble remembering that you're gay, not like he's having trouble accepting it. It could be nothing, be better safe than sorry.
I have to ask, albeit belatedly: is it that important that you convince your grandfather of your homosexuality? The only person to whom it really matters is you, and the rest of your family who are lucid. If he needs to be told three or four times, then it sounds like the usual "old person syndrome"; I speak, of course, of senility. Granted, there may be extenuating circumstances I don't know about that confirm he is of otherwise sound mind, but it's worth a thought.
@DaveyWaveyRaw Your sooooo lucky that you have such an accepting family. My dad told me when I was 10 if I was gay he would kick me out and never talk to me again. I HATE that I've been raised in the South of the USA, it wwwwaaaayyyy too religous down here.
Depending on your grandfather's age, his definition of the word 'gay' may be the traditional "happy and carefree", perhaps if you use the word 'homosexual' instead of 'gay', he'd get it. The word 'fag' used to mean cigarette so be careful with that one too. Then again, if Dementia or Alzheimer's is a factor I'd dance around the issue with him (my mother, who knew I was gay 40 years ago, had it and she didn't even know who I was shortly before she died).
I don't think that he really places that much importance on your sexuality. He really does not need to understand. If he shows you love and shows kindness to your boyfriend, that is all that matters.
Perhaps your Grandfather has Alzheimer's? That or he thinks you're "gay until you find the right girl". Either way, you've got your entire family behind you, there really is nothing to prove with the guy. Don't go out of your way trying to "prove yourself" to him.
I'm with Trieutran, sounds like there may be some memory issues going on with him. I would suggest just letting it go, it doesn't seem like it's hurting your relationship with him, so what's it matter what he thinks your sexuality is. Although, if you're really intent on telling him, maybe making him a breakfast of those penis pancakes from your "21 ways to come out of the closet" video might do the trick.
I actually think there's something going on with his memory. He sounds like my grandma. She can't remember anything being told to her 5 minutes ago. That doesn't sound like somebody who's overpositive about his grandson getting a gf.
see it would be awesome to see your grandpas face if you pulled rainbow beads out of your ass but it would make more sense if you just told him. maybe he is just waiting for you to tell him... my parents are acting just like him. :)
lol, I have the same problem with my mother. Dunno why, but she keeps forgetting that I'm gay... well, at least she always talks about me getting a boyfriend soon and that kind of stuff. I'll just have to have "The Talk" with her for the millionth time and perhaps she'll get is 100% one day.
to be honest, when i'm a grandfather, and my grandson was gay, i'd do this on purpose just to fuck with him, because i'm retired and shenanigans and hijinks are all i could do
I think that you should sit down with him and have a long talk. You don't have go too deep into it but just explain to him face to face that you are gay. Maybe his problem is that maybe you were very close to him and he feels like he is losing you in some way. Sometimes family can't process the thought of their loved ones being gay because they don't know how. So I think the best thing to do would be to bring him back to earth and say, "Grandpa, I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. No girlfriends."
hahah My grandma is like that.....The only solution I can come up with is make out with my GF in front of her LOL.......but then that might be awkward O.o
Davey, don't put it past him that he's been pulling your leg this whole time - I know that when I get older, i'm gonna have all kindsa fun messing with people! ;)
lol yeah i kinda know how u feel, my cousin will not believe that i'm gay or not a virgin lol, i've even called up one of my ex's, put him on speaker phone and let them talk for a bit lol, still doesn't believe me.
You should show us this "pulling rainbow anal beads out of your ass" trick! then we might get some good ideas on what to do! LOL...kidding! my grandma does this all the time! I can't seem to get it into her head that I REALLY do like men, and it's not a phase. I won't be "growing" out of it anytime soon!
I personally think that what Dave's grandpa is expecting, perhaps due to him being from a different time, is that Dave will marry a girl even if it's just "for reproducing". After all, "he wants to see his blood [him having children]. It's similar to Oscar Wilde being gay but having five children.
My paternal grandparents have no clue I'm gay, and that's the way my family and I want it. Well, it's the way my family wants it. I wish my family was as cool as yours, Davey.
you should just show him your blogs.... pretty sure that would help him realize.
also my grandfather didn't get it as well originally. He kept seeing all these girls around me and was like "Mikey always has all these girls around him, i can never tell which one he's dating" as to which my grandmother without missing a beat said "Herb, he's dating the hot blonde boy with the abs, you know this"
I was laughing so hard i was crying when i heard about this. (He was talking to my aunt)
This is one of your funniest videos. You're gonna need to sit down with him,hold his had, and go through it word by word. Listing the implications of being a homosexual. I have BF, I have Elton John DVD's......etc
Maybe he's just in denial. They prolly think dating guys is a "thing" instead of an actual orientation. Alot of older generations sadly think being gay is a fad or some kind of phase. And yeah gays prolly had hetero families and secretly cheated with men in the old days, since openly gay people couldn't have work or rights back then. Even today open homosexuals can be executed in other countries ) :
Somehow it would seem that even anal beads would not do the trick. He probably doesn't know what they are. I would suspect that a touch of dimentia is setting in. I've seen the same thing with my own parents. Sad but life goes on.
Well back den pplz thought that gay was not very well not a way for a guy to get married nd back then pplz were having kids to have a larger family. In they bible said that one day that the world will end because of the siners and those that did not follow gods rule. We are here on earth to reproduce and make a bigger generation. but ill say why cant we just be our selves? like i got to admit im might be kinda...... never mind
lol,my stepdad is 60 years old,and im kinda come out me my family couple of years ago. And now about 2 years in a row my boyfriend is visiting my home. we like sleep in one room ,sharing a bed and im constantly talking about him with my mom (well she likes him very much) and my stepdad still dosnt get it. :)
True story, no joke. I was watching your videos, and thinking about how people come to the realization that they're attracted to the same gender. Then I started thinking about women, and how I'm not very attracted to them as opposed to men. I thought for a moment, "Oh my God, I'm gay!"
It was a thought that only lasted for a millisecond, because I then realized that I'm a girl.
Just curious, is it at all possible that your grandpa may have mild alzheimers? Not enough to forget major things... but a brief conversation once a year may slip his mind.
P.S. Rainbow anal beads are probably the way to go. :P
Hi just wanted to try and help. But honesty I agree with smileyxgirl11. Chances are since im guessing he is about 60 yrs old or older and even though there were gay people in his generation its possible that he was never had any friends who were so the concept of two guys loving one another may be kinda foreign to him. I would say that since gay meant happy in older generations that might be what he thinks. Im not sure but yes talk with him. Have a dialogue and talk. That needs to with everyone
I think your grand parents know your gay it's just as you said,,, they come from a time when gay's were not out. They had a spouce and kids and worked 9 to 5... But they had thier "secret" life or friends on the side and never talked about it. I know this because I'm 52 and where I lived we had several families who's dad's were "a little strange" or "that kind of way", and years later found out they were gay.. I would just sit down with them and talk from the heart. @-)--- x12
i maybe not have so much experience like you but i believe he knows that you're gay but maybe try continue to see you has a straight guy because don't understand how do you like penis being penetrated or at reverse i don't know if you're active or passive. in my case my grandma it's always accusing someone because i'm gay my mom, my sister, my friends. what i'm trying to say is that you have to be you and if asks you if you have a girlfriend again just play along that's my only advice i have ;)
Hey Pepe is not thick. He has been playin' you from the getgo. He knows your gay He knew before you. He played you, your BF and your Unc. He prolly laughing at how ya'll tiptoe around him.
I think you should tell him yourself in your own way.That may be what he wants . or you could look at it like I do and just think its really my buisness.
I think you should just snog the face off your boyfriend infront of him lol, them he might understand! Oh and snog is British for making out. Love you Dave xo
Going though the same thing with my parents, but I don't have a girlfriend to back it up :(. Hang in there and talk to him. Make sure he knows you don't think you're missing out or having less of a life by not having girls.
Lol I think he probably just forgets. Like my grandma sometimes will tell me something, pause for a little while, and repeat it again because she forgot she already said it. xD
Why should you HAVE to say anything. Straight people dont HAVE to say anything so why should a gay person HAVE to say anything... Not to hide or lie about it but becouse its ur own business and its friggin private :) People think what they think. Cant change that but they can atleast have the decensie to stay out of ur friggin business. But yeah. How do you tell ur grandpa that :)
I'm gay and I'm thinking of telling my family, but how the he'll do I do that!!! Also if you don't mind me asking what was your families reaction??? Thanks
Oh my gosh... lol I definitely have the same story (as do many of us out/proud gays, I'm sure), except it's my maternal grandmother and her sister *constantly* asking me "Where's your girlfriend?" and "When are we gonna meet her, Nicholas?" followed by my parents or my sister or my cousins (whoever's around) jokingly asking the same question... lol jerks (the ones who know, not my grandmother and my aunt. I love them, but I can't tell them. They literally won't want me around children) Sad rly.
My grandmother is the same, I don't think there is a way to convince them. Since I told my grandma she acknowledges it but keeps making comments that I might still meet a nice girl lol. I think they see it like a passing phase or something, not a part of who we are.
That sounds a lot like his short term memory is in the process of failing. So he will have a harder time of remembering things. As you may or may not know, you need your short-term memory in order to store new information.
You know what let your boy friend fuck you up in the ass in front of your grandad!!! Just kidding I mean maybe he doesn't want to believe that you gay or maybe he just old and old people forget things:) just let it go :)
YEAH. My grandmother is fine with it but i couldn't beat it into her skull with a 9 and a half foot pole..we get into this argument, about Obama and how hes done nothing. She says name one thing hes done. I go i'll name three. Hes repealed dont ask dont tell, hes attended and spoken with several leaders of the lgbtq community and hes been a part of instituting national anti discriminatory policies for the lgbtq. well why do i care? Because im YOUR GAY GRANDSON. Shes said I dont know yet? REALLY?
YEAH. My grandmother is fine with it but i couldn't beat it into her skull with a 9 and a half foot pole..we get into this argument, about Obama and how hes done nothing. She says name one thing hes done. I go i'll name three. Hes repealed dont ask dont tell, hes attended and spoken with several leaders of the lgbtq community and hes been a part of instituting national anti discriminatory policies for the lgbtq. well why do i care? Because im YOUR GAY GRANDSON. Shes said I dont know yet? REALLY?
Haha! In all fairness, your granddad sounds like a legend! Just one of those people who are oblivious to anything and everything. The moment around the table actually made me laugh out loud, the awkwardness of the situation!
I just think he probably still sees you as being 'his innocent grandson' and he probably wants you to say it to his face, not just 'hints'. From what you make him out to be, I think he'll be cool with it. Have you told him directly yet?
You'r doing just fine. I can't see this is much different from my father asking my each time i visited for 4 years if I had a new car. Well I had the same car all the time and even though he was not with alzheimers or dementia, he had some spots where his memory betrayed him. Just be as nice and polite to your grandfather as you have been, when he asks you answer the truth and that's it... well of course you have to repeat it maybe quite many times but so what :-) you're doing very well
maybe you should ask him what being gay means to him (so maybe you can get an idea of why he says or does the things he does), and then let him know what it means to you (a more modern aspect) and basically tell him you're gay.
@TheCherryBomber1 Tell the others of your family, your siblings, then your parents, once you got their support, THEN tell your grandfather. Perhaps you could also try coming out to your grandmother (if you still have one) first. She may take it better, and she could explain it to your grandfather.
It's often better to say it on a neutral time and place.
haha, just tell him u love him and go with cause he will not be here forever and u don't want to mack him mad at u..... so hope very thing works out lov ya :)
You will understand. You will see them and they won't recognize you or will call you by your father's name. Don't focus on their understanding of your sexual orientation. Focus on the aging process and their experiences. Experiencing the aging of grandparents is a priceless life lesson. So, in brief, its about them and not about you. I hope you continue to have your family's love everyday of your life!
i know exactly how you feel my father constantly insists that i have girlfriends and that i have sex with women, but i've told him that i'm gay like three times i've pretty much just given up on him either he's going to except it or he isn't it doesn't really matter to me anymore
You're a great conversational speaker! This is is a terrific anecdote. Oh, and DON'T pull the anal beads out. It's both AGE (short-term memory. That is they forget w) and GENERATIONAL (homosexuality as a regularly accepted lifestyle is just something they aren't used to). He sounds pretty loving and accepting. I wouldn't worry about it, although you will probably have to go through this a few dozen times yet :-)
My partner's grandmother kept on asking my partner whether he wanted to get married. We're asian living in Malaysia. Eventually, he told her, well, that's my husband. She looks at me, smiles kindly, and says "yes but don't you want to get married?"
Having said that, she kept on forgetting all sorts of stuff about us and in all likelihood, your grandad just doesn't remember or possibly doesn't understand what gay might mean. "Gay" meant "happy" until the 50s I think.
My two pennies: Just let it go. I have had "outings" with family members that just "didn't take." There maybe a variety of factors at play (forgetfulness, misunderstanding, etc.) but don't stress about it. If your grandfather loves you and this is not stressing your relationship, don't sweat it. <3
He needs visual representation. I wouldn't go as far as pulling rainbow anal-beads out your ass, but maybe be more affectionate towards your boyfriends while your grandfather is watching.
Let it go. It sounds like it might be the early stages of dementia. He just doesn't have the capacity to retain it any more since it is not in his long-term memory. One way around it might be to introduce your boyfriend at family functions each time at the beginning and casually dropping references that act as reminders in conversation. That way you can remind them without brining attention to their forgetfulness/dementia/Alzheimer's.
Hello sweet and lovely Davey. Happy New year! From having heard only what you have told in this video it dosen´t sound to me as your grandpa means to disrespect you but more like an old man forgetting stuff! Please don´t take this the wrong way, but if he is forgetting this (rather big) thing about you, could he be forgetting other things to? If so maybe he is -1- just old or -2- suffering from early alzheimers... Just my thought... Luv from Ann
Hey if this situation really bothers you that much think of it this way. Are you really doing your pipe' (I hope I got that right) a favor? Some people just can't grasp the idea. Im not discriminating against yur gramps because of his age, its just some people really can't understand so the more you try and put it in perspective the more confusing the situation becomes. if papa brings it up, do your best don't sweat the small stuff. YOU AINT DOIN NUTHIN IF U AINT GOT HATERZ
@daveywaveyraw Some people just REFUSE to get it. I'm expressive about being gay, with rainbow wristbands and gay themed T-shirts. I've been in bars and hit on by dames dozens of times. I point to the rainbows and the "the homo depot" t-shirt and say, "do you not see this"? And they're always the same, "are you gay? No way! You're not gay, are you?" After it get's established that I'm gay, they're like "okay...", some time passes... then they hit on me again. I say, "I just told you I'm
I vote you do the anal beads..............do it!!!! :) lol, you should prolly carry on as normal i dont think it matters, ur grandpa still loves you :)
Davey, did anyone ask your pipé (sp?) if he remembered those two previous times you were outed? If not, I think he may be suffering not from a socionormative generational differences, but from advanced-age related memory loss. Either way, I would have a longer chat with him about what you do for a living and what kind of life you live, and maybe then it will help sink in. Since he didn't react poorly on those other occasions, it's probably fair to say he'll be cool with what you have to tell
that sounds like my mother lol just let it go lol
MyCrazyPsycho 1 day ago
just let it go. why is it so important that he knows of your sexual preference? you've told him multiple times. if he doesn't get it by now, let it go. you're just being selfish.
hotdogwithmustard88 4 days ago
@hotdogwithmustard88 Isnt it more selfish to not accept someones sexual preferance and continue to insist that he should have/get a girlfriend?
Enyaron 2 days ago
@Enyaron yeah, but i don't think that's the case here. his grandpa's old and from a completely different generation. we can't just expect him to "get" things like we do today even though it may seem obvious to us.
hotdogwithmustard88 2 days ago
ummm maybe he is just missing with you. waiting to hear you say it. thats what mine did
96cs 5 days ago
If my grandparents responded like this I would just be happy. I am not ever going to tell them I am trans. They still think I am a lesbian and they are praying for my soul. He isn't mad, he still wants to spend time with you. If it were me I would just let it go.
TheEzrasimon 5 days ago
What i did was kiss a guy while there around
soundwave159 6 days ago
He might have Alzheimers
ihatemath44 6 days ago 2
you have a boyfriend whattttttt
like to see that lucky bastard
jugnoooji 6 days ago
did he watch Avenue Q perhaps? (there's that song about my girlfriend in canada and stuff... idk)
sylterran 1 week ago
I'm a little worried about your grandfather. You should really look to see if he's showing any other signs of Alzheimers. It may be something less sever, but it really sounds like he's having real trouble remembering that you're gay, not like he's having trouble accepting it. It could be nothing, be better safe than sorry.
BrandonSchleifer 1 week ago 7
maybe hes forgetfull, i know my grandfather doesnt remember im out of highschool, he might just forget it since he doesnt see you alot
zZbobmanZz 1 week ago
I have to ask, albeit belatedly: is it that important that you convince your grandfather of your homosexuality? The only person to whom it really matters is you, and the rest of your family who are lucid. If he needs to be told three or four times, then it sounds like the usual "old person syndrome"; I speak, of course, of senility. Granted, there may be extenuating circumstances I don't know about that confirm he is of otherwise sound mind, but it's worth a thought.
secondeagle 2 weeks ago
SO BEAUTIFUL !!!!!
+33664102984 if you want to talk :)
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erdeuzone 2 weeks ago
@DaveyWaveyRaw Your sooooo lucky that you have such an accepting family. My dad told me when I was 10 if I was gay he would kick me out and never talk to me again. I HATE that I've been raised in the South of the USA, it wwwwaaaayyyy too religous down here.
ca13814 2 weeks ago
I love you too Davey! :3
samusaran181818 3 weeks ago
I love you too davey!!! :3
samusaran181818 3 weeks ago
Your not the only person in the world with this problem :)
I have the same problem with my nan :)
antonyslack1 3 weeks ago
I think it's him developing Alzheimers.
ShadowValhalla 3 weeks ago 4
You really aren't funny. Like you just kinda suck at telling stories.
ShipDipTheChips 3 weeks ago
My super-Catholic aunt and uncle do the same thing. They pretend to keep forgetting about it.
GayGreekGuy 3 weeks ago
Depending on your grandfather's age, his definition of the word 'gay' may be the traditional "happy and carefree", perhaps if you use the word 'homosexual' instead of 'gay', he'd get it. The word 'fag' used to mean cigarette so be careful with that one too. Then again, if Dementia or Alzheimer's is a factor I'd dance around the issue with him (my mother, who knew I was gay 40 years ago, had it and she didn't even know who I was shortly before she died).
46619TAB 4 weeks ago
I don't think that he really places that much importance on your sexuality. He really does not need to understand. If he shows you love and shows kindness to your boyfriend, that is all that matters.
theoriginalmgb 1 month ago
how senile is your grandpa?
Flashyfinancier 1 month ago
Perhaps your Grandfather has Alzheimer's? That or he thinks you're "gay until you find the right girl". Either way, you've got your entire family behind you, there really is nothing to prove with the guy. Don't go out of your way trying to "prove yourself" to him.
RecklessFire29 1 month ago 4
@RecklessFire29 grandpa is just rejecting the fact and is in denial most likely
EvilJirachi 1 month ago
I love this xDDDDD
olb852 1 month ago
If you DO decide to pull out rainbow-anal beads out of your butt...
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I'm with Trieutran, sounds like there may be some memory issues going on with him. I would suggest just letting it go, it doesn't seem like it's hurting your relationship with him, so what's it matter what he thinks your sexuality is. Although, if you're really intent on telling him, maybe making him a breakfast of those penis pancakes from your "21 ways to come out of the closet" video might do the trick.
newhampshireboy 1 month ago
I actually think there's something going on with his memory. He sounds like my grandma. She can't remember anything being told to her 5 minutes ago. That doesn't sound like somebody who's overpositive about his grandson getting a gf.
TheTrieutran 1 month ago
see it would be awesome to see your grandpas face if you pulled rainbow beads out of your ass but it would make more sense if you just told him. maybe he is just waiting for you to tell him... my parents are acting just like him. :)
jazzybellejimenez123 1 month ago
Haha was ur grandpa unintentionally making an Avenue Q joke? XD
Yazora 1 month ago
You have to tell your grandpa that your boyfriend is a woman stuck in a man's body - quote quagmires dad :)
dowezee 1 month ago
@dowezee but the majority of gay men are not women stuck inside a man's body, hence why quagmires dad dressed as a women and gay men dress as men.
philessexuk 1 month ago
Just let him watch this? :)
MrChasingDreams 1 month ago
Are you sure that your grandfather doesn't have alzheimer's because it doesn't seem that he recalls all of these conversations.
jryanroberts 1 month ago
Woop Woop on the Penis song!!! :D
toohappyforwords19 1 month ago
lol, I have the same problem with my mother. Dunno why, but she keeps forgetting that I'm gay... well, at least she always talks about me getting a boyfriend soon and that kind of stuff. I'll just have to have "The Talk" with her for the millionth time and perhaps she'll get is 100% one day.
HongKongXena 1 month ago
to be honest, when i'm a grandfather, and my grandson was gay, i'd do this on purpose just to fuck with him, because i'm retired and shenanigans and hijinks are all i could do
SkwerlBergamot 1 month ago
PULL THE RAINBOW ANAL BEADS OUT OF YOUR ASS...PLZ ;)
gordoncampion 1 month ago
that was so funny !
p.s i´m straight
DobermanVI 1 month ago
I think that you should sit down with him and have a long talk. You don't have go too deep into it but just explain to him face to face that you are gay. Maybe his problem is that maybe you were very close to him and he feels like he is losing you in some way. Sometimes family can't process the thought of their loved ones being gay because they don't know how. So I think the best thing to do would be to bring him back to earth and say, "Grandpa, I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. No girlfriends."
TheSLM1996 1 month ago
hahah My grandma is like that.....The only solution I can come up with is make out with my GF in front of her LOL.......but then that might be awkward O.o
skinchen 1 month ago
old people don't remember things for more than half an hour
joshbulldog1661 1 month ago 3
Davey, don't put it past him that he's been pulling your leg this whole time - I know that when I get older, i'm gonna have all kindsa fun messing with people! ;)
fanguk2 1 month ago 4
lol yeah i kinda know how u feel, my cousin will not believe that i'm gay or not a virgin lol, i've even called up one of my ex's, put him on speaker phone and let them talk for a bit lol, still doesn't believe me.
HazelHart 1 month ago
the end hahahahaha
97TheWatcher 1 month ago
You should show us this "pulling rainbow anal beads out of your ass" trick! then we might get some good ideas on what to do! LOL...kidding! my grandma does this all the time! I can't seem to get it into her head that I REALLY do like men, and it's not a phase. I won't be "growing" out of it anytime soon!
Philip
terpprm 1 month ago
maybe he has alzeimers?
Karopex 1 month ago 3
Just Make Out With Your Boyfriend for 5 Minutes in Front of Grandpa's Face. Tongue Each Other Down!
JRCoolDude412 1 month ago
Maybe the best would be to explain that Dave doesn't want to marry at all, though his grandpa would be a bit disappointed.
MegabyteYou 1 month ago
I personally think that what Dave's grandpa is expecting, perhaps due to him being from a different time, is that Dave will marry a girl even if it's just "for reproducing". After all, "he wants to see his blood [him having children]. It's similar to Oscar Wilde being gay but having five children.
MegabyteYou 1 month ago
My paternal grandparents have no clue I'm gay, and that's the way my family and I want it. Well, it's the way my family wants it. I wish my family was as cool as yours, Davey.
pckthooks133 1 month ago
you should just show him your blogs.... pretty sure that would help him realize.
also my grandfather didn't get it as well originally. He kept seeing all these girls around me and was like "Mikey always has all these girls around him, i can never tell which one he's dating" as to which my grandmother without missing a beat said "Herb, he's dating the hot blonde boy with the abs, you know this"
I was laughing so hard i was crying when i heard about this. (He was talking to my aunt)
MTMyTails 2 months ago
Have ur boy pound ur ass while he watches. That might do the trick.
1ucantmesswith 2 months ago 3
Does he have Alzheimer's or something? :P
similispastor 2 months ago
This is one of your funniest videos. You're gonna need to sit down with him,hold his had, and go through it word by word. Listing the implications of being a homosexual. I have BF, I have Elton John DVD's......etc
marvin41 2 months ago
Lol i hate how people assume everyone is straight
Laughtraxx 2 months ago 18
@Laughtraxx omfg shut up.
ShipDipTheChips 3 weeks ago
I cant come out to my grandpa he is 90 years old an the last thing i need is for him to have a heart attack!!!
Stateoftention 2 months ago
How old r u
jakemik1 2 months ago
So gay
jakemik1 2 months ago
Your soj
jakemik1 2 months ago
Penises are beautiful, penises are fine. I like penises, I eat them all the time? Sing that for him, you should be good.
YouAreThePeaceSign 3 months ago 44
@YouAreThePeaceSign lmao XD
Brookevlogsalot 2 months ago
@YouAreThePeaceSign you're a fucking moron.
ShipDipTheChips 3 weeks ago
@ShipDipTheChips Was a joke, you should calm down =)
YouAreThePeaceSign 3 weeks ago
@YouAreThePeaceSign Oh trust me you cunt, I'm calm, you aren't funny. Please shut up next time you feel like speaking.
ShipDipTheChips 3 weeks ago
Maybe he's just in denial. They prolly think dating guys is a "thing" instead of an actual orientation. Alot of older generations sadly think being gay is a fad or some kind of phase. And yeah gays prolly had hetero families and secretly cheated with men in the old days, since openly gay people couldn't have work or rights back then. Even today open homosexuals can be executed in other countries ) :
Figgy2Socks 3 months ago
thats funny
37bergtommy 3 months ago
Somehow it would seem that even anal beads would not do the trick. He probably doesn't know what they are. I would suspect that a touch of dimentia is setting in. I've seen the same thing with my own parents. Sad but life goes on.
Spark103 4 months ago 2
Well back den pplz thought that gay was not very well not a way for a guy to get married nd back then pplz were having kids to have a larger family. In they bible said that one day that the world will end because of the siners and those that did not follow gods rule. We are here on earth to reproduce and make a bigger generation. but ill say why cant we just be our selves? like i got to admit im might be kinda...... never mind
stevensanatana 4 months ago
I vote for anal beads!
Mjolkmaestro 4 months ago
maybe he has memory problems
massagejoedallas 5 months ago
lol,my stepdad is 60 years old,and im kinda come out me my family couple of years ago. And now about 2 years in a row my boyfriend is visiting my home. we like sleep in one room ,sharing a bed and im constantly talking about him with my mom (well she likes him very much) and my stepdad still dosnt get it. :)
TheGenesisarcanum 6 months ago
Wanna borrow my anal beads?
lobum 6 months ago
ANAL BEADS.
ANAL BEADS!
bahijian 6 months ago
True story, no joke. I was watching your videos, and thinking about how people come to the realization that they're attracted to the same gender. Then I started thinking about women, and how I'm not very attracted to them as opposed to men. I thought for a moment, "Oh my God, I'm gay!"
It was a thought that only lasted for a millisecond, because I then realized that I'm a girl.
FrivolousKnowledge 6 months ago 5
Just curious, is it at all possible that your grandpa may have mild alzheimers? Not enough to forget major things... but a brief conversation once a year may slip his mind.
P.S. Rainbow anal beads are probably the way to go. :P
fff275 6 months ago
You have the funniest grandpa
sheaofleaves124 6 months ago
show him those last 10 seconds, he will know!
BigBlackButton 7 months ago 3
WTF?!?!?
ahighbalckguy 7 months ago
Hi just wanted to try and help. But honesty I agree with smileyxgirl11. Chances are since im guessing he is about 60 yrs old or older and even though there were gay people in his generation its possible that he was never had any friends who were so the concept of two guys loving one another may be kinda foreign to him. I would say that since gay meant happy in older generations that might be what he thinks. Im not sure but yes talk with him. Have a dialogue and talk. That needs to with everyone
A7Guitar 8 months ago
my theory is he either has alziemers or hes hding his "shock"
smileyxgirl11 8 months ago
When I heard you say" Pull rainbow anal beads out of my ass" I just lost my shit ROFL.
lizzy532 8 months ago
In your grandpa's time, gay meant happy. So He may think that your just happy all the time. Just a thought.
Ba32BrET 8 months ago
I think your grand parents know your gay it's just as you said,,, they come from a time when gay's were not out. They had a spouce and kids and worked 9 to 5... But they had thier "secret" life or friends on the side and never talked about it. I know this because I'm 52 and where I lived we had several families who's dad's were "a little strange" or "that kind of way", and years later found out they were gay.. I would just sit down with them and talk from the heart. @-)--- x12
bibearnj 9 months ago 3
I vote you pull rainbow anal beads out of your ass.
magmaheat1 9 months ago 4
Alzheimer's Dementia.
MerkurX 10 months ago
i maybe not have so much experience like you but i believe he knows that you're gay but maybe try continue to see you has a straight guy because don't understand how do you like penis being penetrated or at reverse i don't know if you're active or passive. in my case my grandma it's always accusing someone because i'm gay my mom, my sister, my friends. what i'm trying to say is that you have to be you and if asks you if you have a girlfriend again just play along that's my only advice i have ;)
jsdgfdf 11 months ago
He's probably just playing you, and knew all along (:
neonfiona 11 months ago 4
No, my family understands pretty well. You just have bad luck man. LOL
CannibalPrinceTV 11 months ago
Hey Pepe is not thick. He has been playin' you from the getgo. He knows your gay He knew before you. He played you, your BF and your Unc. He prolly laughing at how ya'll tiptoe around him.
TheFirstheOnetheOnly 11 months ago 4
I would it down with him, when he stil wouldn't get it. Pull the beads out and slap him with that. :P smack some sense in him (just kidding).
blundboy 11 months ago
I think you should tell him yourself in your own way.That may be what he wants . or you could look at it like I do and just think its really my buisness.
wachtower100 11 months ago
I would go with the anal beads.
TheIntJuggler 1 year ago
I think you should just snog the face off your boyfriend infront of him lol, them he might understand! Oh and snog is British for making out. Love you Dave xo
jackaab123 1 year ago
Going though the same thing with my parents, but I don't have a girlfriend to back it up :(. Hang in there and talk to him. Make sure he knows you don't think you're missing out or having less of a life by not having girls.
litfan4ever 1 year ago
hahah "dave's girlfriend is a boy"
LOL
perpexel 1 year ago 31
Well singing THAT to ur grandpa would prolly get it through to him..
rollino717 1 year ago 3
he is so cute
hotpepper2100 1 year ago
well just sit him down and talk to him im going thowe that right now just sit him down and talk
andrew20131000 1 year ago
hahah oh wow anal beads out of my ass just wow
vwizzle97 1 year ago
im going threw the same thing dude!!!!
kissmesavvy 1 year ago
My grandpa is dead be nice to yours!!
keir77 1 year ago
That's Funny!!
keir77 1 year ago
Get him to listen to Penises are beautiful and then MAYBE he'll understand.
BeatlesSeinfeld123 1 year ago
Lol I think he probably just forgets. Like my grandma sometimes will tell me something, pause for a little while, and repeat it again because she forgot she already said it. xD
XinXyourXfaceX 1 year ago
I... I really think you don't need to see it....
LOL I know why :P
carbint2 1 year ago
hmm...........i think anal beads xD
xxoCOLTERoxx 1 year ago
PS maybe u should show him one of ur gayest blogs:)
SuperJo1970 1 year ago 36
Why should you HAVE to say anything. Straight people dont HAVE to say anything so why should a gay person HAVE to say anything... Not to hide or lie about it but becouse its ur own business and its friggin private :) People think what they think. Cant change that but they can atleast have the decensie to stay out of ur friggin business. But yeah. How do you tell ur grandpa that :)
SuperJo1970 1 year ago
I'm gay and I'm thinking of telling my family, but how the he'll do I do that!!! Also if you don't mind me asking what was your families reaction??? Thanks
01707895552 1 year ago
I love you
jakusaking 1 year ago
Soooo... you definitely should pull the beads out of your ass. Yeah. Thats all
SirMrMatthew 1 year ago
Well, maybe he thinks you're happy? Is that not what "gay" meant back then?
Sabio22 1 year ago
Yeah, my grandmother had the same issue and she did have dementia.
gesslar 1 year ago
LOL this is such funny situation!
0062513 1 year ago
Oh my gosh... lol I definitely have the same story (as do many of us out/proud gays, I'm sure), except it's my maternal grandmother and her sister *constantly* asking me "Where's your girlfriend?" and "When are we gonna meet her, Nicholas?" followed by my parents or my sister or my cousins (whoever's around) jokingly asking the same question... lol jerks (the ones who know, not my grandmother and my aunt. I love them, but I can't tell them. They literally won't want me around children) Sad rly.
cathlicscholboy4life 1 year ago
Your GaY I didny know
hopejust18 1 year ago
"Short of pulling anal beads, rainbow anal beads, out my ass..."
-wow
xXxXBlazIngXxXx 1 year ago 69
haha, your grandpa's funny! i like this story. i say just let it go and let him think you have a gf.
dannysimion 1 year ago
My grandmother is the same, I don't think there is a way to convince them. Since I told my grandma she acknowledges it but keeps making comments that I might still meet a nice girl lol. I think they see it like a passing phase or something, not a part of who we are.
executivespunk 1 year ago
you should tell your grandfather directly that you are gay
xcapote 1 year ago
That sounds a lot like his short term memory is in the process of failing. So he will have a harder time of remembering things. As you may or may not know, you need your short-term memory in order to store new information.
darnell7299 1 year ago
You know what let your boy friend fuck you up in the ass in front of your grandad!!! Just kidding I mean maybe he doesn't want to believe that you gay or maybe he just old and old people forget things:) just let it go :)
meanboy995 1 year ago
The anal bead thing would probably work.
comradebeardski 1 year ago
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YEAH. My grandmother is fine with it but i couldn't beat it into her skull with a 9 and a half foot pole..we get into this argument, about Obama and how hes done nothing. She says name one thing hes done. I go i'll name three. Hes repealed dont ask dont tell, hes attended and spoken with several leaders of the lgbtq community and hes been a part of instituting national anti discriminatory policies for the lgbtq. well why do i care? Because im YOUR GAY GRANDSON. Shes said I dont know yet? REALLY?
deedundone 1 year ago
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YEAH. My grandmother is fine with it but i couldn't beat it into her skull with a 9 and a half foot pole..we get into this argument, about Obama and how hes done nothing. She says name one thing hes done. I go i'll name three. Hes repealed dont ask dont tell, hes attended and spoken with several leaders of the lgbtq community and hes been a part of instituting national anti discriminatory policies for the lgbtq. well why do i care? Because im YOUR GAY GRANDSON. Shes said I dont know yet? REALLY?
deedundone 1 year ago
to him gay probably means happy so explain it to him :) x
meggyw90 1 year ago
I agree with that remix ( :
TillDeath93 1 year ago
Haha! I kind of want to edit the last couple seconds into a remix!
DJShpank 1 year ago
Haha! In all fairness, your granddad sounds like a legend! Just one of those people who are oblivious to anything and everything. The moment around the table actually made me laugh out loud, the awkwardness of the situation!
I just think he probably still sees you as being 'his innocent grandson' and he probably wants you to say it to his face, not just 'hints'. From what you make him out to be, I think he'll be cool with it. Have you told him directly yet?
Anyways, loving the vids, keep it up!
Malbo22 1 year ago
Sit down and tell him properly.. say that you don't have any girlfriends because you don't like girls i love boys.. but it prop generation thingg x
Dimond892 1 year ago
He's slow.
MOARTOAST 1 year ago
let it go.
emokaixo 1 year ago
..I think it'll be pretty awesome to see ya putt anal beads out your ass. But thts Juss me ;D
user123270 1 year ago
You'r doing just fine. I can't see this is much different from my father asking my each time i visited for 4 years if I had a new car. Well I had the same car all the time and even though he was not with alzheimers or dementia, he had some spots where his memory betrayed him. Just be as nice and polite to your grandfather as you have been, when he asks you answer the truth and that's it... well of course you have to repeat it maybe quite many times but so what :-) you're doing very well
sisignor 1 year ago
maybe you should ask him what being gay means to him (so maybe you can get an idea of why he says or does the things he does), and then let him know what it means to you (a more modern aspect) and basically tell him you're gay.
daniiiex 1 year ago
I'd let it go... I suspect it's generational, he just doesn't understand what it means to be gay.
lekoman 1 year ago
If he's never heard yur wee Penis song, then maybe tht'll get th message thro lol <3
Blackiie13x 1 year ago
you should
definitely
pull rainbow anal beads out of ur ass.
that will get the message through.
hehe jk. sit down and talk to him, show him ur blog!
djunodataiwanese 1 year ago 2
send him a vid of you having sex with your boyfriend it's what i did with my grandpa when he did that and now he doesn't ask anymore
jacob77339 1 year ago
U should sit down with him and with ur boyfriend and of u want to with ur family
Btw rainbow bead ftw
TheMigueltorrez 1 year ago
I'm terrified of telling my Grandfather, he's rather homophobic.
TheCherryBomber1 1 year ago
@TheCherryBomber1 Tell the others of your family, your siblings, then your parents, once you got their support, THEN tell your grandfather. Perhaps you could also try coming out to your grandmother (if you still have one) first. She may take it better, and she could explain it to your grandfather.
It's often better to say it on a neutral time and place.
kurtislonely 1 year ago
haha, just tell him u love him and go with cause he will not be here forever and u don't want to mack him mad at u..... so hope very thing works out lov ya :)
paulie709 1 year ago
bahaha! i loved this video! made me giggle! :D
try kissing your BF in front of him.
TheKidRufio 1 year ago
You will understand. You will see them and they won't recognize you or will call you by your father's name. Don't focus on their understanding of your sexual orientation. Focus on the aging process and their experiences. Experiencing the aging of grandparents is a priceless life lesson. So, in brief, its about them and not about you. I hope you continue to have your family's love everyday of your life!
mikielaguna 1 year ago 2
i know exactly how you feel my father constantly insists that i have girlfriends and that i have sex with women, but i've told him that i'm gay like three times i've pretty much just given up on him either he's going to except it or he isn't it doesn't really matter to me anymore
enethng 1 year ago
You're a great conversational speaker! This is is a terrific anecdote. Oh, and DON'T pull the anal beads out. It's both AGE (short-term memory. That is they forget w) and GENERATIONAL (homosexuality as a regularly accepted lifestyle is just something they aren't used to). He sounds pretty loving and accepting. I wouldn't worry about it, although you will probably have to go through this a few dozen times yet :-)
Neilacts 1 year ago
My partner's grandmother kept on asking my partner whether he wanted to get married. We're asian living in Malaysia. Eventually, he told her, well, that's my husband. She looks at me, smiles kindly, and says "yes but don't you want to get married?"
Having said that, she kept on forgetting all sorts of stuff about us and in all likelihood, your grandad just doesn't remember or possibly doesn't understand what gay might mean. "Gay" meant "happy" until the 50s I think.
nigelskelchy 1 year ago
tell him you suck (cock) and you dont lick(twot) be more up front he might not like it but it will tell him the trurth
marantz240 1 year ago
My two pennies: Just let it go. I have had "outings" with family members that just "didn't take." There maybe a variety of factors at play (forgetfulness, misunderstanding, etc.) but don't stress about it. If your grandfather loves you and this is not stressing your relationship, don't sweat it. <3
intrepidblue 1 year ago
Lol let him watch the end of this video haha -3
dewdog123456789 1 year ago
I think your grandpa might be senial lol or have alzheimers or something
Sirpatrick1988 1 year ago
He needs visual representation. I wouldn't go as far as pulling rainbow anal-beads out your ass, but maybe be more affectionate towards your boyfriends while your grandfather is watching.
dfvanbuuren 1 year ago
Let it go. It sounds like it might be the early stages of dementia. He just doesn't have the capacity to retain it any more since it is not in his long-term memory. One way around it might be to introduce your boyfriend at family functions each time at the beginning and casually dropping references that act as reminders in conversation. That way you can remind them without brining attention to their forgetfulness/dementia/Alzheimer's.
inq1784 1 year ago
I may be alittle late but I think you should talk to him, tell him. You may even have to be alittle blunt but it just may work.
shadgirl13 1 year ago
i told my dad a few moths ago, and he asked ne do i like any girls in my school, and i said nothing
ThePooh0987 1 year ago
Hello sweet and lovely Davey. Happy New year! From having heard only what you have told in this video it dosen´t sound to me as your grandpa means to disrespect you but more like an old man forgetting stuff! Please don´t take this the wrong way, but if he is forgetting this (rather big) thing about you, could he be forgetting other things to? If so maybe he is -1- just old or -2- suffering from early alzheimers... Just my thought... Luv from Ann
buneojne 1 year ago
@daveywaveyraw Then again, maybe he just wants to hear it from you. He's heard it from everybody else.
wychinski 1 year ago
lol you should suck a penis lollipop in front of your grandpa, and if he still doesnt get....SUCK A REAL ONE! :)
danielrosasvargas 1 year ago
i think he gets it, but just that the idea of you having a girlfriend makes him feel more comfortable.
kassxp 1 year ago
HE THINKS YOUR GOING THROUGH PHASES AND THAT I WILL GO AWAY YOU SHOULD MAKE A VIDEO TELLING HIM YOU ARE GAY AND WATCH IT WITH HIM
Sleazecjthedj 1 year ago
Hey if this situation really bothers you that much think of it this way. Are you really doing your pipe' (I hope I got that right) a favor? Some people just can't grasp the idea. Im not discriminating against yur gramps because of his age, its just some people really can't understand so the more you try and put it in perspective the more confusing the situation becomes. if papa brings it up, do your best don't sweat the small stuff. YOU AINT DOIN NUTHIN IF U AINT GOT HATERZ
mccoyboy1989 1 year ago
@daveywaveyraw Some people just REFUSE to get it. I'm expressive about being gay, with rainbow wristbands and gay themed T-shirts. I've been in bars and hit on by dames dozens of times. I point to the rainbows and the "the homo depot" t-shirt and say, "do you not see this"? And they're always the same, "are you gay? No way! You're not gay, are you?" After it get's established that I'm gay, they're like "okay...", some time passes... then they hit on me again. I say, "I just told you I'm
wychinski 1 year ago
I vote you do the anal beads..............do it!!!! :) lol, you should prolly carry on as normal i dont think it matters, ur grandpa still loves you :)
RuteliaMari 1 year ago
cute grandpa XD
Gtoasth 1 year ago
Davey, did anyone ask your pipé (sp?) if he remembered those two previous times you were outed? If not, I think he may be suffering not from a socionormative generational differences, but from advanced-age related memory loss. Either way, I would have a longer chat with him about what you do for a living and what kind of life you live, and maybe then it will help sink in. Since he didn't react poorly on those other occasions, it's probably fair to say he'll be cool with what you have to tell
mfupi2 1 year ago
but the question everyone is ask