Tamia - Me

[smoomook]

I love Tamia's artistic expression she chooses in her music. Not just in this video but in the way she organizes her songs to be of artistic value. She goes deeper than any other R&B singer. And that's what gives her depth. Love it and her and all that she brings to the table of her genre.

[smpglasgow]

the video depicts a double of herself since she's talking bout loving herself more than the man.thats why theres two women ,,which both are actually her.thats the point of it

[desirahandjamie]

this song is nice but i still dont get the music video

[lilagirl2703]

this my song f*ck alll em niggers that think they can controll us

[lilagirl2703]

this my song fuck alll em niggers that think they can controll us

[MsFruitbasket]

Not only is Tamia stunningly gorgeous with a marvelous singing voice and style but she chooses some of the best songs lyrically. I am going through some of her videos now asking myself why don't I have any of her CDs???? Oh yeah, and she's CLASSY, unlike some other artists whom I won't name right here lol

[projectprince]

10 people are blind and deaf.

[maleyDee]

YOU GO GIRL!

[maleyDee]

GO GIRL.

[Arezen210]

That girl can blow... Oh wee.... Wanna ask Tamia to marry my... I'll dump my girl, she might cut u tho... lol

[Arezen210]

That girl can blow... Oh wee

[lildpt]

Was she really pregnant in this video or was dat a padding ??

[MissNVS1]

Clearly 9 people have a like IKE Turner in them, lol

[MissFyah24]

I love this song, coz to me, it shows strength- This song showed me that I don't need a man to validate me-coz i learnt, that lovin him and loving me, don't work at all.....i will always choose ME!!!!

[Aries7882]

I love this song! It's completely the best uplifting song! I wish I had of heard this song when I was going through my divorce a few years ago.

[CieraBland1234]

like this if u know all the words to this song <3

[DeexFukzxUrxMan]

i love da end....I GOTTA GO WIT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE­EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE­EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE­EEEEEEEE

[xAbercrombieFitchx]

DISLIKED?!?!  7 people are deaf....... this song is beautiful.

[sadestackz]

love this song

[d3zzy151515]

suffer just take them home father and let them smell the flowers again

[d3zzy151515]

i love this song wen i was little i didnt understand and wen i would get up ready we would put on this station and everytime at 9:31 exactly i would run downstairs and sit in frount of the tv and watch this and sing it and now that i am old enough to know themeaning i dont sing it to myself just cuz i sing it cuz i support it i now volenter 8 hours at a shelter for wemen who have suford from men i hav sen the worst its been so bad that women legs have been broken black eyes pray that if they

[MSCARREY1]

gotta put yourself FIRST (not tryin to sound selfish)

[hottiehomework]

I love the metaphors she uses in this and stanger in my house

[mschrissyboo994]

love this song!!<3

[TheYpsigirl]

My x asked me that exact ? When I stopped caring and turned around and had my own back loved myself more than he had ever.I am proud to say I left and am happy being all alone .

[sexcgal06]

This is such a beautiful song. I just love it.

[wolfman9102]

ilove this muthafuckin song dhis shit goes hard she has a very beautiful voice

[JazzySlim35]

And at the end of the vid she is pregnant... Btw

[JazzySlim35]

No Dummies. Shes Putting HERSELF over him and choosing to leave because shes tired of being hurt... Idiots.

[KillaRoy59]

i like this song some people really don't get the song i do

[kmanais]

I know she in an abusive relationship, but is she also leaving because she is pregnant ????

[iAmPhilSanchez]

lezo with her self?

[lamarkusp]

@ beba66 how are things now with you now ?

[ttgraham2]

In my opinion if u like this song u will like Bitter By Chante Moore ...and Tired by Kelly Price

[TheLenaSoul]

Check out a clip of me singing a Tamia song Search: LENA SOUL ...thanks!

[denmaiku]

this is like a continuation of the song a stranger in my house

[mzdream21]

why wouldnt anybody like this song?

[babbz152]

this sonq was about beinq preqnant so she choose to leave a relationship thats qoin no where duh!! lol 

[Duttywhinequeen]

@babbz152 where do you get that she is pregnant?

[Thedesigner145]

she has a beautiful voice

[stingstungme]

One of my coworkers hated this song because she thought Tamia was being narcissistic and was too stuck on herself.

Damn meaning just zoomed right over her head. -_-

[MrHotgurl23]

i love this song so much

[lucyg8loose1]

when will i get the strength to leave??? when will i love me enough? i just cant get the courage..............

[lovemyselfforever86]

@lucyg8loose1 you will get the courage and have the strength, i know becuase i finally let go of someone who was making me not feel well. Now, i am focusing on what i like and what i want, it's a good feeling to have.

[schartorrs1437]

@lucyg8loose1 self preservation comes first ! you're wasting away if you stay

[OverXposedKC91]

@lucyg8loose1 do it now. you'll love urself so much more after.

[225mesha]

i love this song!!!! me n my sister sing this all the time to each other=)

[RysiFyee]

this is my song ;

[Aquarious280]

my fav ever helpd me understand i only need myself i dont need no one else to love me

[shaterrica18]

i love this song....it makes me think about about alot of stuff, sang it tamia

[diversitytvnet]

OH MY GOD!!!! THIS WOMAN CAN SING... I LOVE HER. DAMN GRANT, YOU ARE THE LUCKEST MAN ON THE PLANET.

[Diva4Ever1234]

I simply love this song. The Girl is doing her thing. Go Tamia

[dizzle9882]

good job

[ImUbBeRcOoL8]

Loving him and loving me just dont seem to work AT ALL.....Im emotionally spent with a relationship thats abusive and going no where fast...This song gives me strength!

[pineapplegrl1978]

OMG, LORD THIS SONG IS SO TRUE!!!! I CHOOSE ME!!!!!!

[YoungLove3030]

iLove This Sonq ! This Goes out To Them Girls Who Stuck In A Relationship Where They Know Isn't Doin Them Any Good , The Strength To Walk Away....

[dougbillings]

one of her best

[helicopta2008]

most girls jus dumb if yu know yu in a bad relationship then get yo ass out of it,,,cause iHate to hear or see a guy put his hands on a female

[chocolateladyct]

Luv it

[thesmexxi1]

I lov her she is the best singer and always gives me strength to do the impossiable

[karamelkutie203]

lovely song

[GabbiBabee]

okay...so she had the baby with herself or with that other man ? humm slow question huh ? but i dont get it . . . help me out (: lmboo .

[digit67]

The baby helps to confirm that whats important right now is "Me" I have to take care of "Me" because you and I are not working out.

[musicalmica00]

this is my fav song all girls should love them selves more then a man

[uwannakissme]

I love this song sooo much! Tamia is soo pretty and her voice is amazing i wish i could sing like her! It's a shame she's not as big as she should be, but maybe it's good because it's kept her humble!

[JPrince69]

mann...i hope grant hill aint messin up...he 1 of my fav players

[MissCOTRONE]

so true!

[souljaboywifey012]

i love this songg ;)

i sing this song when im walking around my house lol

[ChokksGurl]

this is da shhhhhhhhhh,i love da song and i love her...and dis song has my name all over it!!!

[dminnitt24]

i dont think tamia get enough credit for her beautiful vioce but im here to let know that as long as long as u sing and look as hot as u do u gotta fan... my wife also loves ur music so best of luck...

[ballndkrump]

yeah i think so too...she needs more credit...but hey maybe she deonst have dat drama other celebs have...but oh well i like tamia..not every song deos it for me tho.

[09mrslee]

i love this songs it relates to so many woman who are to ashame to say any thing or do any thing

[gbnf4life]

any man who hits a woman who isn't an emminite threat to his life is a f*cking coward, if it comes to it, just end things, there's nothing to be gained by hitting a woman

[angelarms2008]

@gbnf4life : Thank you for this comment.

[iQualify]

@gbnf4life

I agree and in retrospect . . .any woman who hits a man who isn't an emanate threat to her life is a f*cking coward, if it comes to it, just end things, there's nothing to be gained by hitting a man.

[justinswifey81]

@gbnf4life SOOO TRUE...

[ladypinkstar18]

i choose me....and she loves me more than you will ever know......i love this song!!! and i love tamia

[Dood966]

i love this!

[intwinesoul]

amazin song beautiful

[TheSquiggles1980]

A REAL SONG

[michealjacksonfan954]

im about to freak i love this song

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[dorethamj]

great 5 stars *****

[gulzaempire100]

this song is so great and i keep playin it over over again=mishka

[missnonchalant09]

wasnt she prego iin thiis viideo??

[1LuvEvery1]

Grant Hill is lucky.

[romydidit]

I play this song over and over again in my car. I use this song for friends too. If you have ANYONE in your life that is not treating you the way you should be treated, CHOOSE "ME".

[theeLIVESTchicks]

preach!

[etemuru]

great great great great great great great song!!!!! Me loves me:-)

[SUPASOAKER]

I hate the lying ass bitch (cant call him a man) that destroyed my heart...I lived and breathed him just to get nothing in return. Not any more--I choose ME!!

Love this song!!!!

[dandriana1111]

Is there really really a man that can do all this? Respect you, love you, and the answer is?!! I heart this song!!! oxoxoxoxox

[MrOnelove43]

With me being a true MAN I can respect this song and I pray to GOD that I never make a woman feel like that, she's pouring her heart out about the terrible things a man can do to a woman. A Plus on this song........

[DoMo2BadD]

I love song cuz i choose me!!!!

[niyla321]

wen i first heard dis song i thought tamia was gay

[fozzyozzy106]

lol

[ILuVmEmOsT]

you are a fucking dumb bitch. I'm gay, so I aint no homophobe

[niyla321]

look childish dat wasnt for u to reply to

i dont care if u gay catch aids or die if u dont have nutin good to say dont send me a reply cause apparently ur a hater .

but i luv my haterz cause they inspire me to do wat i do so

duces hater!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!or would u perfer for me to say hi hater ur choice.

[dorethamj]

wow !!!! 5 star comment *****

[Albizzie23]

Very deep!

[delocollier]

tamia is in a group now called tdk with kelly price and deborah cox cant wait

[jenifa24]

it does not change a thing that you are now sorry for what happend. Her whole life she`ll never forget the bad times you put her throu. Man never do what they should and what they did was never what they wantet to do isn`t that crazy ???

[tweety4ubabii]

kyubidriven i dont know wat you did ta her but i really do respect the fact that you can man up and apoligize for wat you did. every man needs ta learn from his mistakes and better himself.

[kyubidriven]

The one thing I regret as a man is making a woman feel this way. A woman that I cared so much about. She hated herself because she was in love with a heathen like me. As it may seem like a great thing, it isn't. I never wanted to be trouble for. I just wanted her to be happy...Oh well, she became happier with someone else and thats all I can ask for.

[JanettieBabyDatCraKK]

All i can say is DAMN. Only cause this is the first time I have ever heard a man actually admit that he fucked a woman over, and regrets it. Thats real big of yu.

[trishannam]

i love tamia shes such a good singer i love this song

[Haye95Roberts94]

Beautiful Song !!

[sassy3703]

i luv tamia and this song..because rite now im learning 2 love my self...and not need a man in my lfye

[takimbra]

I loveeee this song!!! and her!!!!

[FireWolfFangdiamondt]

love this song

[beba66]

i love this song!!!!! this song gave me the strength to get out of an abusive relationship i was in =)

[ZimNgir88]

Good for you..that takes a lot of strength!

[Didireallysaythat]

Well congratulations to you for gaining the respect and the strength for yourself that was needed for you to pick yourself up and get out of a situation that was causing you pain instead of happiness. This song was written by Tamia during a very rough time in her life when she had to make the difficult choice of herself and her happiness over her bad marriage to Grant Hill. Its sad that things didn't work out but she and the kids are much better off now in a family home without him.

[keevi84]

Um really?, they are divorced? I thought that this song came from an unpersonal inspiration or the past...........way after this song was released Tamia & Grant Hill appeared on Oprah & appeared to be madly in love. *shrugs*

[LucayanBeauti]

They are still very together!

[thesmexxi1]

@beba66 Same here he only wanted to kiss and go to the next step and would never talk to me! Tamia is just such a powerful speakers!

[MZCP3]

@beba66 thatz qreat !! im so happy for u!!! (so b.s. and/or sarcasim included)

[NENE318ily]

@beba66 im so happy that yo got outof that relationship

[lashalle1972]

i really enjoy it and it is so true. i love me!

[lovmyfam01]

My daughter went to the same preforming arts highschool in Canada as Tamia.I was so sadden when I found out Tamia has MS.May God continue to bless you and your family.

[qwatts17]

I love her voice she is so beautiful. When I hear this song, I always think back to my older cousin. My cousin is in loooove with Tamia, when he first heard the beginning to this song, he almost passed out at the wheel of the car when she replied yes about the "other woman" he was like "Aw shit she's gay, what did that beast of a man do to her?" but releived when the "other woman" was herself. He was just like "whooo, I could've sworn she was about to say,.

[fosiabella]

wats da song about ?????????

[LADYWEEZYBABY1]

make rock sign with hands

-cross arms

-close eyes

-make a wish (BIG PART)

-cough 5 times

-send to 2 other vid

1tomorrow ur wish will come true

[Fellasluvme2]

I love her voice she is so beautiful. When I hear this song, I always think back to my older cousin. My cousin is in loooove with Tamia, when he first heard the beginning to this song, he almost passed out at the wheel of the car when she replied yes about the "other woman" he was like "Aw shit she's gay, what did that beast of a man do to her?" but releived when the "other woman" was herself. He was just like "whooo, I could've sworn she was about to say, and her name is Chante or somethin" lol

[mamoummoute]

still your cousin in gay, believe me ! a man who loves Tamia (or Deborah Cox) to such a point that he'd almost pass oud at the wheel of the car ?? humhum !!! da guy is a sista lol

[Fellasluvme2]

to:mamoummoute

Excuse you, don't come at me like that. He didn't really pass out at the wheel. If he's gay why would he be crushing on Tamia and all worked up that she probably didn't like guys anymore? He was joking around. I know one thing YOU are ignorant, self involved, and rude and if you were trying to be funny you weren't! God bless you and may he speed up your maturity process.

[EmiiBabiix33]

iii love this sonq !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[PeacefullyBroken]

ME :-)

[Tygerizs]

when it comes right down to it u have to choose yourself.... story of my life.... hardest thing in the world for me to do this time was choose me.

[rinpup14]

I luv listening to her voice its so soothing when im in a bad mood

[missybronx]

she has the most soulful voice and she sings from the heart

[missybronx]

this is my theam song

[AmazingSameFlower07]

this is theee bomb!!

[kesha111580]

i love this song and keep lovin ur self girl and ur family and god

[tatia200]

i love this song i was looking 4 it everwere

[princessklive]

i dont prefere the old look 4 the vid

[akaCB]

this song is so genius.

[MaRo0uhaa]

wow man she is gud all her songs r powerfull iif uu gt me :D....lyk she nows wat she doen gt me ahah lol fanks for da vid hun :D

[pottingerlisa]

i love this song it is really great, she knows how to build up a woman to love herself more than a man who dont really love her , great song ladies

[mikailgaloremusic]

I keep comming back to hear this peace of heaven.

[bebegurl10]

LUV iiT..

[RnCc06]

love this soong made me realize things in my life. ...Niboo

[LILMIZzZHyd3]

I love this song because it can build up woman's self esteem to leave all no good triffling ass boyZ who only care for themselves because i was in that type of relationship and in the end I chose me and now i happier than ever with my new man!

And her name is me {Shamone}

[KissMey08]

Thanks for leaving that comment.....im not afraid to leave now

[tanyatmr]

Good for you, I left mine too. Who has time for foolishness, life is too short.

[pottingerlisa]

it is a good song yes to truly build up a woman yes

[Belovedangel123]

i luv this song...i sent it my ex!! :D

[akaCB]

lmao.

seriously?

[Belovedangel123]

girl....i had to make a point!!

[akaCB]

haha.

i am not mad at you.

[Wizgam]

helll yess goodd songgg thsi shit si awesom Tamia is hot and it reminds of my friend Olivia oh.

[lilskinny313]

this make me wanna cry i like

[4evayourstruly]

I'm in love wit a gurl and her name is me and she'll love me more than you'll no

p.s. i love u quin

[FanOfRealMuzik]

I love how she switched it up on him like, is it another man (no), is it another woman (yes) and then she revealed that it was her. That was very clever. This song builds up women's self- esteem.

[mzTALLNESS]

i luv thiz...

ere women needz 2 take thiz stand n stopp chasen` dudez... bra we SO MUCH BETTA THEN THAT...WELL SHID I KNO I AM!!!

[Dimaondbabygirl1]

i love this song because it is telling women to love there self before they love a man

[cargletwo]

I really love this song. If more women choose themselves first. We would have a lot more stronger women in the world; intead of these naive weak ones. Choose yourself first.

[arcrittenden]

love it

meeee

[AnGi394]

i love this song

[sassydaisha]

Ilove this video and i ts so true because id choose me 22222222222 and her name is ME Cuz im dat bad chick

[honeyb115]

I love this song...I've noticed Tamia's videos are always by herself.

[joko9395]

And lying in bed.

[Sprinkles7777]

i love this song and i can sing it real well

[franche15]

she has a betufil voice when i lisn to this ong i cry reallly hard

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[boowatchyado]

i mean she is so good i love her voice i have a nice voice but if i was talented lyke her i wouldnt know what to do with my self lol

[Shon9tilR]

I never seen this video.

[CriticizeRRR]

Anyone know where i can get tabs ?

[ninacleveland]

this is a beautiful song, i heard this song was out about a year before they played it on the radio. is that true? It kind of put me in the mind of Heather Headly "i wish i wasnt"

[YPshow]

wtf why da hell it skipped

[shinyboo93]

wy it skip???

[XxiLOVEYUxXx]

i love yu this is my song

[LaNadia897]

sing it girl sing it. diz my song

[Kagome7982]

We should all live by this song! It's so true! I love it so much, it sends shivers down my spine everytime I listen to it!

*Kagome*

[loonlyluna]

I tottaly agree with you. This is one of my favoirte Tamia songs. And I do wish people lived there choosing themselfs over others sometimes you just gotta do you! And leave all the hate behind.

[kandiey05]

dis is ma song