AHH my feminist single mother :( ALL of these things happened to me that a counselor/psychologist had to be involved :(( now I'm getting better, have no clue how to get away for I'm still going to school.
I got out of an abusive relationship. I was unaware of my situation until I fell pregnant and then the pieces fell into place the moment I told my ex. It was a shame it got to the extent it did but I got out and he doesn't have contact with me now. There is hope for all. It isn't just limited to the men doing the abusing. Women are just as capable. Don't forget thou, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
I got out of an abusive relationship. I was unaware of my situation until I fell pregnant and then the pieces fell into place the moment I told my ex. It was a shame it got to the extent it did but I got out and he doesn't have contact with me now. There is hope for all. It isn't just limited to the men doing the abusing. Women are just as capable. Don't forget thou, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
It’s quite ironic that most physical and mental abuse is perpetrated by women toward men, yet laws to stop emotional and physical violence are almost primarily inacted to stop abusive men. We live in such a socially and mentally warped society.
@PsychoticMuse You can't change her, but you can change yourself. Save yourself because nobody else can. We have free will, so don't choose to be treated this way. I know this from experience. Good luck.
@PsychoticMuse Don't waste your life with your mother if she makes you feel bad about yourself,in my experience it got worse and worse until I finally could see what a nasty person my mother is and cut off with her at age 41,I had attempted before only to let her back in to hurt me again and again,remember its your life not hers,the years will fly by quickly.I wasted too many years trying to please a worthless cause.
What if I cry all the time and threaten to leave him because he consistently forgets things that are important to me like my birthday, valentine's day, denies me affection, name-calls and jokes about things I have asked him not to? Am I being the emotional abuser? I feel like my feelings are justified, but am I going too far by crying every day and yelling that he is going to lose me? He says I am a big baby and that I am "messed up in the head". I just get so frustrated!
very sad how this is actually quite common.... I should post a video or look for one on how not to even get in those types of relationships in the first place, how to avoid these people or when you should start noticing your partner behaving aggressive towards you and how to end that bullshit as early as possible.
i live with my n laws the mom is a hypochodriac pillhead who manipulates and personally i think has munchousen proxy.the dad ex marine narcissist manipulaterwho just got physicall with me 5ft5 155lb woman 31 yr old i walk around on egg shells my hair is falling out and my health is suffering due to stress from it all thats a good example of EMOTIONAL ABUSE.
@HotAt31 You should get out of that situation as soon as you can, so you can get on with your life. Dont get comfortable and allow yourself to live that way, think of a better plan for your self and future. Best of luck to you.
@deltaxcd When I said you need to let it go, you really do. This doesn't mean you allow yourself to be someone's punching bag. You do what you have to do. In the long run; if you don't forgive them who abused you. YOU carry that burden for your whole life and it can eat you up on the inside. To forgive = not easy, but nothing else will work 4 you. This doesn't mean you invite the bastard over for a coffee, but in the long run; best to just say "Ok God, this guy is your problem" Then move on
Emotional "abuse" is just an excuse. Learn to fight back. A person could perceive anything as emotional abuse. Getting kicked in the groin or punched in the face...now that's abuse, AKA assault. If person in question says mean things or has malicious intent, then leave. Otherwise, suck it up. The world is full of mean people. Remember..."Sticks and Stones".
@jtnoodle Sticks and stones are NOTHING compared to emotional murder. NOTHING. names can destroy your life, if you let them. a Broken nose is better in a week and healed in a month etc. Put rown artists are psychos, sociopaths, BULLIES. Don't take their crap for one more minute. Their biggest fear is that they be exposed for what they are.
@skaha65 The key phrase being "if you let them". I take it you've never been physically abused? I would take the wagging tongue of an emotional abuser over a step father, hopped on booze and drugs anytime. Apparently, the best part of his day was him looking for a place to shove his boots and fists, namely me, when I was a kid.
And how about for many years, not being able to control yourself from flinching whenever a man would make a sudden movement, out of fear that he might hit you? Even worse, thinking that it was normal behavior to get hit just because a person got angry.
I'm almost 40 years old now. It took me well into my 30's to get over that. I will still occasionally flinch, but no where near like I did when I was younger. It really prevented me from having normal associations and friends. To me, that's true, long term, emotional abuse.
@jtnoodle OK. U are right, I have never been abused. Sorry to read what your exp was as a kid. The tough thing is, you need to let it go. Easier said than done. What goes around will come around. He will get the living crap beat our of him by someone, somewhere some time. Hope you can move on
I had to deal with lots of emotional abuse but only because I was too afraid of being hurt.
retaliation is very expensive but if you do not retaliate you will suffer indefinitely. only if you show that you will not tolerate abuse it will end immediately.
best way to end it is to break some bones for your abuser and he will surely learn a lesson after few months spent in hospital, of course you may pay for that with some prison time too.
@deltaxcd I boxed amateur when I was a teenager. Not to boast, nobody has tried to bully or abuse me twice. When I was about 16, I had this homo try something and he wouldn't back off, so he got a broken nose. I didn't lose any sleep over it. Not violent, but would rather turn the tables on a bully, than turn the other cheek. They need to learn stuff, y'know. So I agree with your comment on this.
@deltaxcd 5 yrs ago this punk walked into the restaurant when I was having a coffee. just looking for a fight. He picked me. A 60 y.o. average sized guy with grey hair. I had no choice. Cops and ambulance attended. Cops said , "Good job" seriously (guy was concussed) He had this history of picking on old farts. Poor bastard. I'm not making up stuff just to sound like a U Tube hotshot. This really happened. Funny thing is, I felt like shit b/c the guy was injured.
it is easy to shield yourself from emotional abuse just detach from abuser and you can even retaliate. Just act same as your abuser do not submit.
However there is no way to shield yourself from sticks and stones unless you literaly wear in steel armor and Kevlar helmet. even then you are not safe.
@deltaxcd Some women are so beaten down in their minds, that they thinkthey deserve to suffer. they attract abusers. Then they end up believing they 'Deserved it' yeah, right
Hmmm, I think the list could be a lot longer than this because this is not everything. But it is a good list.
Best thing to do is stay away from such people if you can, as hard as it may be because if someone claims to love you then why would they be mean at the same time encouraging people to talk about you and spread false information begind your back and just encroaching on your life when they are not actually even a part of it.
My ex tried using everything you mentioned in court, thank goodness her parents testified against her and told the real truth. Oh! and did I mention, I was awarded full custody of my two children.
my family does all these things to me and has for years. im 27 but am treated like i am 2. they refuse to let me grow up but insist that i do so while they continue to act like children themselves. i care about my family but the longer this goes on the more i wish i was not a part of their lives.
HEY I was abused emotinally by almost ALL of my former Girlfriends...
Wanted me to do things I did not want, separated merom my friends and wanted me all alone for them, wantd my money, when I did not had, they bitched and said "look how John is ABLE to earn some money and YOU not" , basically according to this, all FEMALSE are amotionally abusing all man :)
@CommentMustBe Not all women are emotionally abusive. You are repeating a pattern that you have learned. Maybe one or both of your parents were emotionally abusive? You need to heal otherwise, you will contiinue to attract the same type of woman.
I am a victim of abuse here to raise ABUSE AWARENESS., My abuse videos are on my channel, watch them and comment & subscribe to help me fight to raise abuse awareness. If any of you need to talk or need help because you've been a victim, message me immediately.
My Ex Partner was studying Psychology to become a Psychologist. She changed her Mind and stopped studying. During our Relationship i said to her do you realise that you are emotionally abusing me! I have been reading all about Emotional abuse in One of your Psychologist Books. She Answered YES according to Psychology i do realise i am emotionally abusing you! I disagree with Psychology and have every right to treat you this way! So you can not go off Gallivanting.
wow and i thought i was just making more excuses for me to change just the little things and he will change ... umm yea right .. who ever you are start praying and Abba will hear you and show you how get out !!!
Baaaaaawling! And yea 5min i had another emotional/physical(just lil hard slaps to the head) attack from my mom, crying and deeeeeply hurt! Been having them for almost all my life, now I'm 16.All of this is my mom! EVERY SINGLE SLIDE (1-10)describes what my mom has done to me. There is really NOTHING I can do or ANYBODY else can do to make it stop. Until I go to college 2 years from now. I can live with emotional abuse, but I always think about my bright future ahead of me once I leave.
@TheXtremeAsian exactly, you will leave the situation one day, you will be able to find a 'family of choice' rather than blood. Is there any resources or ways you can think of of leaving the situation any earlier?
@amylolarose my mom is just not a very nice person when she is stressed to me, but i just have to wait for college to get away from her verbal abuse. but she does provide me with everything i need so i'm going to have to stick with her.
Is there an issue with reading other peoples remarks to literally or blackly ? They just said, " That is your last chance " out of rage, clumsily. They really meant that they were fed up with the situation and wished they could find a way to make is happy & interesting.
Thanks for the video, good ideas there. Lots of behaviours to try to avoid doing. I think it could help at the end of the day to say, " I'm sorry for any threats or nasty things I've said to you, I just said them by mistake in the heat of the moment, they were dumb, I really just meant that I was really frustrated and annoyed with the situation. It is easy to make over the top remarks ", the other partner should say, " oh don't worry, I do that too ". Sorry is the hardest word to to say ?
I realize that when I watch videos like this, they only tend to focus on "love relationships"...but we have other relationships like parent/child, sibling or other family relationships that can be emotionally abusive. Will someone address those and put them in context. I think those relationships affect you more than any other since they are the first ones that you have. Why is the focus always on who u are "sleeping with." A relationship like that you can get away from, family relationships -no
emotional abuse is verbal a chip away at your feelings of self-worth and independence. If you’re the victim of emotional abuse, you may feel that there is no way out.
physical abuse when person is scar and gets send to hospital..
Look there's abuse, and then shocking abuse, but then there's dumb ass abuse that is not even abuse but people are so fucked up they think it's abuse.
I have a friend in a gay relationship who for years did not realize how bad thinsg were until he was laid off and was forced to deal with it. He has no one to go to. What kind of advice can i offer him. he has no family or friends. he has no job. are there places out there for gay abusive relationships?
@SOUTHFLA33334 I'm sure he had an idea. I'm sure he didn't just realize when he got laid off, he was probably use to it. Why doesn't he have any family? That must be sad. What about friends? Where is he staying now. I'm sure there are hotlines to call etc. Goodluck to him and kudos to you for going out of your way for him you must be a good friend.
Experienced all 10 of those growing up primarily exhibited by my father. Brothers who sexually molested, emotionally abused and to this day one of those brother's is still guilty of abuses. Amazing how these men were never held accountable for their actions toward me and whomever else they abused.
Shame about the spelling mistakes on this vid. Either way I've experienced 9 of these 10 signs for 9 years in Feb. Can't get out because he has made me feel like I am not strong enough to and that no one will want me. I am so sick of it.
I was doing all this to my girlfriend because I wanted her to become stronger - more outgoing.She is exceptionally shy and has just come from abroad... I am at this moment threatening for her to leave. I thought I was showing her the ropes in London. I never intended to hurt her, I just didn't realise. Up until now I have considered myself a very intelligent considerate man, and yet I'd have to admit to everything on that list! Isn't everyone guilty of this behaviour to some extent?
this video a lot like the last employer - the one ya just walk out on cause they're nuts and you can''t stand their crap, well people, relationships are like that too, get out as fast as can.
my best friend does all of that to me. she wants me to be her friend so she decides to look through my room. she finds a journal with alot of stuff written in it and she threatens to show it to everyone. she choked me half to death with my own jacket until it ripped in half...literally! she also takes advantage of me being bi. she always says that she will tell everyone. if everyone found out, i would have bruises for the rest of my young life.
@starrocker123 I'm sorry, but get rid of her! You don't need/deserve anyone like that in your life. I know, I had one & got rid of him. Its tough cuz they can be charming. But, it won't get better, promise! As far as your secrets, don't let her go in your room or give her ammunition. Tell her you're proud of who you are & that she can't "touch" you emotionally. Then, walk away with head up! Protect your soul. Its the only one we get & its valuable...you're valuable!
I am not going to get into the rambling of who is worse. If it happens to you it doesnt matter if you're a woman or a man, it's an awful thing to experience. I am a woman and I checked 9 out of 10 of those points as being my ex. I am still struggling to recover and I would not wish this on Anyone.
Women are worse now. Researchers have been trying to find stats that are less biased against men (pretty hard with feminism going on). They found that the vast majority of men in abusive relationships (verbally or physically) dont report it or arent believed, wich obviously makes previous results unreliable. Especially if you take into account that women are more abusive towards children. Its believed to be 1 of the reasons that male suicide rates have gone up, an idea feminism like to hide.
It's a shame that so many men have to endure this kind of abuse. Maybe these videos and help centers will help these men escape from cruel and heartless women.
I have the 10 out of 10 upon this lists happen to me in my life, I'm a male and doesn't know how to stop this situations, even I was hindered from my brother's friends. I don't understand why being ma middle child is so hard like this. I tried to convince my mother that I can make it to my acting career but she and my whole family said I look ugly, stupid, fat, and slow then who would consider me to work for them in any field. All I can do now is stay and manage the laundromat for life w/o marry
@sangvanchau20 Pardon me,but FUCK your family.You COULD be an actor,like Zack Galifanakis,like Seymour J. Hoffmann,like William H. Macy,like many other actors who aren't handsome,but are STILL respected actors.Being a leading man is over-rated,as a character actor you could have a career that will last you your whole life.The question you SHOULD ask yourself is,"Do I really want to become an actor?" and "Am I actually willing to make the sacrifices that a career as an actor will demand".
@disagreeablesob The answer to the questions would be YES! I act on stage for High School and sing for 4 straight years from 9th grade up to Senior year. I did went into 2 movies and one of them are student film. I started out by being an movie extras until I have my SAG then I will auditions for some other lead movie, every weekend I go to church and pray to god that he help me with my career and he told me in my dreams that I will be there in the future. They will regret this.
FREEDOM not FREADOM a spell check would be a good idea as it rather makes a serious subject look like something you just uploaded without thinking or caring .
my ex is like that.always made me feel not good enough n always get upset about any nonsense things n made a big deal out of it.at first,i was half convinced.(more of reconsidering my self what i did wrong) but time after time that he got upset,i realised he got issues.luckily,i'm a person with self esteem n didn't fall for the self worthlesssness game.from love to neutral.glad i ended it.he was abused emotionally by his family members n sadly the only way he knows is spreading misery.
The joke is,I doubt that there's even ONE woman out there who'll recognise any of HER behaviours as being abusive,but will be ready to label most if not all of the males she knows,young and old alike,as having committed MOST or ALL of these acts of emotional abuse against HER.
@disagreeablesob I used to be emotionally abusive, now I have changed my ways and am getting rid of those bad habbits... perhapse looking at yourself and analysing your behavuiours would be helpful :)
@GavriellaMichal Unfortunately,it's been my experience,repeatedly,that women ONLY recognise abuse when someone else does it to THEM.I've seen women berate men,calling them every ugly,filthy name they could think of,then fly into fits crying about abuse when the man lost his temper and responded with something like "You're a fucking bitch".I actually saw one woman,after having called her ex-boyfriend a "Limp dicked faggot loser" among other things,swing at him after he called her "bitch".
@disagreeablesob sometimes us women talk back and reverse it so the ass hole who is doing it to us will feel just like we feel when they put us down call us names and make us feel worthless and it is worse when you have children with a man who contently does this, some women respond to the verbal abuse hoping the man will feel like shit too
@elopez702grwu No,that's NOT what I'm talking about.I have seen guys who I know AREN'T abusive assholes being mistreated by women who I know ARE.Don't even TRY to tell me it doesn't happen,I'm ONE of those guys.You women are really stuck on this "HE always starts it" bull,but there are TOO MANY GUYS who have lived with being treated like SHIT,abused by girls and women who expect to ALWAYS be treated like gold but think that it's okay to treat guys any way they feel like treating them.
@elopez702grwu The way you said it,you make it sound as if ALL men are bullies.You said that SOME women talk BACK,in other words that they ONLY bully in RETALIATION,but I'm talking about women who ARE bullies,women who are abusive and controlling,women who always START fights,the women other women apparently want to think men make up.That's the point I was trying to make.I'm not trying to bully you,I am damn sick of women only hearing what they want to hear.
@disagreeablesob Not true. I was physically abusive to my boyfriend, when he would not listen; but I was especially short tempered when I was pregnant. I'm in a different relationship now, determined to change. I am very pro-men. I know how easy is for women to victimise themselves. And I was never abused by man myself, I would not let that happen. The point is, not all women are oblivious and blinded to the unfairness.
@Crewka Then PLEASE,the next time some woman starts singing the "All men are SO HORRIBLE to women but we're all SO GOOD to them" song,call her out on it.Thank you.
@disagreeablesob Yes sir! I shall do :) But to tell you the truth I don't really hear stuff like that. I can only hope my friends are better educated, than to think that. Either that, or it all goes on behind closed doors - which is also often half of the problem.
but man these videos are a waste of time and some of the signs you are ambiguous and irrational, im not being critical to be difficult, just how it is.
in my own experience there are only 2 signs of emotional abuse.
a few of them happened to me and im a guy after 1 year living with her i had to leave but i have forgiven her and get on with her for sake of my daughter who is a year old.
i felt my freedom being violated because she was blaming me for emotional abuse and because abuse, like love, is a two way process and it takes just one person to end it all by walking away.
Many people suffer this abuse everyday...and u can pick at the spelling and make snide comments. U could never have made it through the emotional abuse I experienced. I found this video bittersweet because I remember the mental case I was when my family came to my rescue and I have determined to help reach out to young kids to help instil self worth and value themselves so they are aware this is not love. This is a silent killer and hats off to those who overcame!
Alberta Children's services offnders tell ies that the child knows are not true they abuse the child they attack them verbally and they demdn that the child go along with them terroizing them drugging them when they don't. Offenders are all Alberta Crisis Unit attackers in the Alberta. Systematized attacks refined assaults on children & attack them mercilessly. If your child has had contact with an Alberta Response Model team member they have been abused. Non abusers won't work there.
What about barbie,could never do enough for her.! I did all the things needed to take care of kids,most of the cooking cleaning financial issues everything. In my case, she has homestead rights that give them a huge female priveledge that has been used knowingly against me,and many other men. Maybe we live in too much of a capitalistic world.SUICIDE rate in canada for divorced men is ridiculously hi.
Sometimes we need to look at things from a totally different perspective. if we are on earth for soul growth, it is by our relationships that we learn the most about ourselves. when those lessons are learnt, then its time to move on to a new set of lessons, with others, or alone. its all cyclical, sometimes we are up,others down.
All we need to do is accept, learn &move on. however attached we are to another.
thank them for their presence in yr life, for all they have taught u, then let them go
7 out of 10 of those signs apply to my grandmother, she has been emotionally abusing me for about three years now but it's at it's height currently. :(
Wow. you just described my life. Especially about trying to change the subject! At first I thought you knew who I was talking about. My step dad is a bitch. But most of all, he's using me to financially ruin my REAL father. Mainly so is my mom, but, its hard to see in her. And m step dad never wanted kids! and he has never ever liked me. He treats me like he can totall abuse me. and I feel like he is hurting my mother too. She is working 4 jobs! technacly. and they all are hard. and he works one
There's so many females that have been raised by an emotional abusive parent they end up with men just like that because they think its normal. Very sad.
@tristansmom982000 Why do you immediately go to suffering females alone? Women are just as abusive as men, it's a "character" trait of controlling type people. I had a girlfriend who was 8 of the above 10 and extreme and I felt helpless in the face of it and was hugely damaged by it because she took advantage of the exact same type of behaviour my mother had done to me as a kid. Lots of people suffer this. And a lot commit suicide. I came close.
@summerlight67 too right, i went out with a woman with practically all those abusive traits, she was a controlling nightmare & did her best to shatter my self esteem...she was a ghastly bitch. 3 months of mental torture. she was like that with her own family & friends too,. in reality these people are emotionally screwed up & full of hang ups. i got the fuck out of it and now i have a lovely woman in my life. she on the other hand is still single, bitter & nasty as ever
@summerlight67 just wanted to say that i'm finally moving away from a relationship that I've devoted a lot of my life to, and that I blinded myself because I was too in love. I even lied to myself in my thoughts to accept the things I knew were wrong.. "she is just giving him a ride home.." I feel your pain. I m proud of finally standing up for myself. there are better people out there.
@summerlight67 I recently called a suicide hotline after cutting my wrists for the first time in my life because of a girl I dated was verbally abusing me. I would have to shut off my phone or it would ring off the hook for hours with hateful text messages. She would freak out over issues like me not having dinner done on time when she came over, or me being 15 minutes early to pick her up. I agree, women can be just as bad IMO.
all my exes lol
andreasblog21 19 hours ago
check, check, check, check
my dad
creativewriter1000 20 hours ago
AHH my feminist single mother :( ALL of these things happened to me that a counselor/psychologist had to be involved :(( now I'm getting better, have no clue how to get away for I'm still going to school.
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I got out of an abusive relationship. I was unaware of my situation until I fell pregnant and then the pieces fell into place the moment I told my ex. It was a shame it got to the extent it did but I got out and he doesn't have contact with me now. There is hope for all. It isn't just limited to the men doing the abusing. Women are just as capable. Don't forget thou, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
Emmamoo 1 day ago
I got out of an abusive relationship. I was unaware of my situation until I fell pregnant and then the pieces fell into place the moment I told my ex. It was a shame it got to the extent it did but I got out and he doesn't have contact with me now. There is hope for all. It isn't just limited to the men doing the abusing. Women are just as capable. Don't forget thou, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
Emmamoo 1 day ago
It’s quite ironic that most physical and mental abuse is perpetrated by women toward men, yet laws to stop emotional and physical violence are almost primarily inacted to stop abusive men. We live in such a socially and mentally warped society.
seroeth 1 day ago 2
All but one described my mother. I'm almost 26 and still live with her. She won't let me leave. I can't. Even drive to get away.
PsychoticMuse 3 days ago
@PsychoticMuse You can't change her, but you can change yourself. Save yourself because nobody else can. We have free will, so don't choose to be treated this way. I know this from experience. Good luck.
sauroid1 3 days ago
@PsychoticMuse Don't waste your life with your mother if she makes you feel bad about yourself,in my experience it got worse and worse until I finally could see what a nasty person my mother is and cut off with her at age 41,I had attempted before only to let her back in to hurt me again and again,remember its your life not hers,the years will fly by quickly.I wasted too many years trying to please a worthless cause.
SilverStarEyes 1 day ago
3 of them describe my mom. XD
lu4y4pants 4 days ago
Could have been said as simple as "is being a dick to you"
hermanessences 5 days ago
I said yes to each and every one of these because i'm bullied and does that count as an abusive relation ship
PinkPunkPower 5 days ago
What if I cry all the time and threaten to leave him because he consistently forgets things that are important to me like my birthday, valentine's day, denies me affection, name-calls and jokes about things I have asked him not to? Am I being the emotional abuser? I feel like my feelings are justified, but am I going too far by crying every day and yelling that he is going to lose me? He says I am a big baby and that I am "messed up in the head". I just get so frustrated!
mlbf2327 6 days ago
Omg this sounds like the dmv
MALUMDR 6 days ago
Omg that's sounds like the dmv
MALUMDR 6 days ago
very sad how this is actually quite common.... I should post a video or look for one on how not to even get in those types of relationships in the first place, how to avoid these people or when you should start noticing your partner behaving aggressive towards you and how to end that bullshit as early as possible.
noledgewise1 1 week ago
i live with my n laws the mom is a hypochodriac pillhead who manipulates and personally i think has munchousen proxy.the dad ex marine narcissist manipulaterwho just got physicall with me 5ft5 155lb woman 31 yr old i walk around on egg shells my hair is falling out and my health is suffering due to stress from it all thats a good example of EMOTIONAL ABUSE.
HotAt31 1 week ago
@HotAt31 You should get out of that situation as soon as you can, so you can get on with your life. Dont get comfortable and allow yourself to live that way, think of a better plan for your self and future. Best of luck to you.
MsStephanieAnn82 1 week ago
@deltaxcd When I said you need to let it go, you really do. This doesn't mean you allow yourself to be someone's punching bag. You do what you have to do. In the long run; if you don't forgive them who abused you. YOU carry that burden for your whole life and it can eat you up on the inside. To forgive = not easy, but nothing else will work 4 you. This doesn't mean you invite the bastard over for a coffee, but in the long run; best to just say "Ok God, this guy is your problem" Then move on
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hothappens01 1 week ago
this sounds familur ,and it is real
facesofomega 1 week ago
Agreed 1000%
sipraomer 1 week ago
My mother in law and father in law fulfills the requirements of all 10 of these descriptions! (All kidding aside, it is true. )
jjlinert 1 week ago
Emotional "abuse" is just an excuse. Learn to fight back. A person could perceive anything as emotional abuse. Getting kicked in the groin or punched in the face...now that's abuse, AKA assault. If person in question says mean things or has malicious intent, then leave. Otherwise, suck it up. The world is full of mean people. Remember..."Sticks and Stones".
jtnoodle 2 weeks ago
@jtnoodle Sticks and stones are NOTHING compared to emotional murder. NOTHING. names can destroy your life, if you let them. a Broken nose is better in a week and healed in a month etc. Put rown artists are psychos, sociopaths, BULLIES. Don't take their crap for one more minute. Their biggest fear is that they be exposed for what they are.
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jtnoodle 1 week ago
@skaha65 The key phrase being "if you let them". I take it you've never been physically abused? I would take the wagging tongue of an emotional abuser over a step father, hopped on booze and drugs anytime. Apparently, the best part of his day was him looking for a place to shove his boots and fists, namely me, when I was a kid.
jtnoodle 1 week ago
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And how about for many years, not being able to control yourself from flinching whenever a man would make a sudden movement, out of fear that he might hit you? Even worse, thinking that it was normal behavior to get hit just because a person got angry.
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I'm almost 40 years old now. It took me well into my 30's to get over that. I will still occasionally flinch, but no where near like I did when I was younger. It really prevented me from having normal associations and friends. To me, that's true, long term, emotional abuse.
jtnoodle 1 week ago
@jtnoodle OK. U are right, I have never been abused. Sorry to read what your exp was as a kid. The tough thing is, you need to let it go. Easier said than done. What goes around will come around. He will get the living crap beat our of him by someone, somewhere some time. Hope you can move on
skaha65 1 week ago
@skaha65
I had to deal with lots of emotional abuse but only because I was too afraid of being hurt.
retaliation is very expensive but if you do not retaliate you will suffer indefinitely. only if you show that you will not tolerate abuse it will end immediately.
best way to end it is to break some bones for your abuser and he will surely learn a lesson after few months spent in hospital, of course you may pay for that with some prison time too.
deltaxcd 1 week ago
@deltaxcd I boxed amateur when I was a teenager. Not to boast, nobody has tried to bully or abuse me twice. When I was about 16, I had this homo try something and he wouldn't back off, so he got a broken nose. I didn't lose any sleep over it. Not violent, but would rather turn the tables on a bully, than turn the other cheek. They need to learn stuff, y'know. So I agree with your comment on this.
skaha65 1 week ago
@deltaxcd 5 yrs ago this punk walked into the restaurant when I was having a coffee. just looking for a fight. He picked me. A 60 y.o. average sized guy with grey hair. I had no choice. Cops and ambulance attended. Cops said , "Good job" seriously (guy was concussed) He had this history of picking on old farts. Poor bastard. I'm not making up stuff just to sound like a U Tube hotshot. This really happened. Funny thing is, I felt like shit b/c the guy was injured.
skaha65 1 week ago
@skaha65
You are talking nonsense.
it is easy to shield yourself from emotional abuse just detach from abuser and you can even retaliate. Just act same as your abuser do not submit.
However there is no way to shield yourself from sticks and stones unless you literaly wear in steel armor and Kevlar helmet. even then you are not safe.
deltaxcd 1 week ago
Sounds like every goddamned employer I ever worked for. Why do the fucking sociopaths run the world?
Threetails 2 weeks ago
@Threetails
thats because nonsociopaths allow them to do that and they even want that to happen.
why else nice woman is marrying several abuser in a row? and nice guys end with sociopath women or live as singles?
Women like abusers that's the fact, they hate nice guys.
deltaxcd 1 week ago
@deltaxcd Some women are so beaten down in their minds, that they thinkthey deserve to suffer. they attract abusers. Then they end up believing they 'Deserved it' yeah, right
skaha65 1 week ago
You're abusing the English language.
BrainEatingApe 2 weeks ago
all of these are so true..suffered and experienced this from my ex...
justpinahy 2 weeks ago
Yep. Obama has all those covered. On to waterboarding.
rrhynes 2 weeks ago
Xndon. If you have admitted it. Then thats a start. Tell her that and now work on it
sarahbaker90 2 weeks ago
Holy Shit, I am a Emotional Abuser !!! but i luv her. :(
xndon 2 weeks ago
fix the grammar on this guys.
Mocoso7 2 weeks ago
Well done!!
fymichaud 2 weeks ago
good . but . usually want to listen to a video . not . read it
rosajrms 3 weeks ago
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hothappens01 3 weeks ago
who will help me, how do I let you know?
ellenheyer 3 weeks ago
Additionally, people who are emotionally abusive may have been victims of abuse themselves.
Although this is not an excuse, but I think it is important to know this and helps to deal with these types of characters.
BeautyHealthZoneBlog 3 weeks ago
Testing you always as though trying to catch you out in some way.
With these types of people you are always going to be jumping through hoops, because whatever you do will never be good enough.
BeautyHealthZoneBlog 3 weeks ago
My way or the highway people. Controlling people, control freaks...You always have to agree with their opinion or else.
People who like to scream and shout on other people but get angry when you do the same thing back to defend yourself.
Selfish behaviours.
Blackmail or threatening behaviours.
Stalking and listening to your private conversations.
Approaching people you know and making up lies trying to ruin you character and credibility.
Goes hand in hand with psychopathic behaviours.
BeautyHealthZoneBlog 3 weeks ago
Hmmm, I think the list could be a lot longer than this because this is not everything. But it is a good list.
Best thing to do is stay away from such people if you can, as hard as it may be because if someone claims to love you then why would they be mean at the same time encouraging people to talk about you and spread false information begind your back and just encroaching on your life when they are not actually even a part of it.
Some scary people out there.
BeautyHealthZoneBlog 3 weeks ago
Many did not know so thank you from bottom of my heart. God Bless to you all
keshsor 3 weeks ago
number 11, bad spelling
MultiMudskipper 3 weeks ago
Shockingly inaccurate, most of the listed things are broad generalizations that can easily be justified morally.
galinuas 3 weeks ago
ohh gawd im staying singleeeeeeeeee for everrr
Sunnyrach 4 weeks ago
@Sunnyrach Good choice.
Konni1969 4 weeks ago
1:06.
What is "freadom?"
spunkets 4 weeks ago
My ex tried using everything you mentioned in court, thank goodness her parents testified against her and told the real truth. Oh! and did I mention, I was awarded full custody of my two children.
hegigwa7 1 month ago
my family does all these things to me and has for years. im 27 but am treated like i am 2. they refuse to let me grow up but insist that i do so while they continue to act like children themselves. i care about my family but the longer this goes on the more i wish i was not a part of their lives.
TheKearamichelle 1 month ago 2
HEY I was abused emotinally by almost ALL of my former Girlfriends...
Wanted me to do things I did not want, separated merom my friends and wanted me all alone for them, wantd my money, when I did not had, they bitched and said "look how John is ABLE to earn some money and YOU not" , basically according to this, all FEMALSE are amotionally abusing all man :)
CommentMustBe 1 month ago
@CommentMustBe Not all women are emotionally abusive. You are repeating a pattern that you have learned. Maybe one or both of your parents were emotionally abusive? You need to heal otherwise, you will contiinue to attract the same type of woman.
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DerangedLucidity0 1 month ago
only 420 likes....more to the point, 14 dislike? ¯\(°_o)/¯
HSFrox 1 month ago
My Ex Partner was studying Psychology to become a Psychologist. She changed her Mind and stopped studying. During our Relationship i said to her do you realise that you are emotionally abusing me! I have been reading all about Emotional abuse in One of your Psychologist Books. She Answered YES according to Psychology i do realise i am emotionally abusing you! I disagree with Psychology and have every right to treat you this way! So you can not go off Gallivanting.
shaky777001 1 month ago
@shaky777001 Oh please tell me you broke up with her.
Sweddude 1 month ago
wow and i thought i was just making more excuses for me to change just the little things and he will change ... umm yea right .. who ever you are start praying and Abba will hear you and show you how get out !!!
yahuahamashiac 1 month ago
Baaaaaawling! And yea 5min i had another emotional/physical(just lil hard slaps to the head) attack from my mom, crying and deeeeeply hurt! Been having them for almost all my life, now I'm 16.All of this is my mom! EVERY SINGLE SLIDE (1-10)describes what my mom has done to me. There is really NOTHING I can do or ANYBODY else can do to make it stop. Until I go to college 2 years from now. I can live with emotional abuse, but I always think about my bright future ahead of me once I leave.
TheXtremeAsian 1 month ago
@TheXtremeAsian exactly, you will leave the situation one day, you will be able to find a 'family of choice' rather than blood. Is there any resources or ways you can think of of leaving the situation any earlier?
amylolarose 1 month ago
@amylolarose my mom is just not a very nice person when she is stressed to me, but i just have to wait for college to get away from her verbal abuse. but she does provide me with everything i need so i'm going to have to stick with her.
TheXtremeAsian 1 month ago
number 3 is verbal abuse.
Lovingirl80 1 month ago
@Lovingirl80 I think it's also emotional abuse because it hurts your feelings.
amylolarose 1 month ago
can anyone tell me what number 2 actually means?
TheVagabondWolf 1 month ago
@TheVagabondWolf walking on egg shells, meaning consciously trying to avoid upsetting the person for fear of being abused.
wappahawlic 1 month ago
@wappahawlic Thank you
TheVagabondWolf 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
That's my dad for ya
Bebe12232 1 month ago
Is there an issue with reading other peoples remarks to literally or blackly ? They just said, " That is your last chance " out of rage, clumsily. They really meant that they were fed up with the situation and wished they could find a way to make is happy & interesting.
zytigon 1 month ago
Thanks for the video, good ideas there. Lots of behaviours to try to avoid doing. I think it could help at the end of the day to say, " I'm sorry for any threats or nasty things I've said to you, I just said them by mistake in the heat of the moment, they were dumb, I really just meant that I was really frustrated and annoyed with the situation. It is easy to make over the top remarks ", the other partner should say, " oh don't worry, I do that too ". Sorry is the hardest word to to say ?
zytigon 1 month ago
I realize that when I watch videos like this, they only tend to focus on "love relationships"...but we have other relationships like parent/child, sibling or other family relationships that can be emotionally abusive. Will someone address those and put them in context. I think those relationships affect you more than any other since they are the first ones that you have. Why is the focus always on who u are "sleeping with." A relationship like that you can get away from, family relationships -no
Moniqtee 1 month ago
get a dictionary
STjoes824 1 month ago 2
verbal is speaking
physical is touching
ok
STjoes824 1 month ago
i know how u feel i had the same problem to.
STjoes824 1 month ago
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STjoes824 1 month ago
This is more than emotional abuse, it is psychological and even physical.
SuperScreamingEagle 1 month ago
emotional abuse is verbal a chip away at your feelings of self-worth and independence. If you’re the victim of emotional abuse, you may feel that there is no way out.
physical abuse when person is scar and gets send to hospital..
STjoes824 1 month ago
tell to who or where...?
TheSuzane27 1 month ago
Some great tips thanks
selyortherapycentre 1 month ago
dude, learn to spell check before you post.
fishehfishehofdeath 1 month ago
who are we are here to help?
Look there's abuse, and then shocking abuse, but then there's dumb ass abuse that is not even abuse but people are so fucked up they think it's abuse.
CliveGains80s 1 month ago
Freedom. It is spelled FREEDOM.
jojoyourjoy 1 month ago
Our governments are emotional abusers!
tallestbeauty 1 month ago
@tallestbeauty +1
livevilife 1 month ago
number 8 spellcheck
myleftfootprint 1 month ago
Lea B.
atomicprayer 1 month ago
i'm no. 7
VanKrixsz101 1 month ago
I have a friend in a gay relationship who for years did not realize how bad thinsg were until he was laid off and was forced to deal with it. He has no one to go to. What kind of advice can i offer him. he has no family or friends. he has no job. are there places out there for gay abusive relationships?
SOUTHFLA33334 1 month ago
@SOUTHFLA33334 I'm sure he had an idea. I'm sure he didn't just realize when he got laid off, he was probably use to it. Why doesn't he have any family? That must be sad. What about friends? Where is he staying now. I'm sure there are hotlines to call etc. Goodluck to him and kudos to you for going out of your way for him you must be a good friend.
UtubeDuDeDuh 1 month ago
I have never heard of gay abusive counseling have you ? .
SOUTHFLA33334 1 month ago
Experienced all 10 of those growing up primarily exhibited by my father. Brothers who sexually molested, emotionally abused and to this day one of those brother's is still guilty of abuses. Amazing how these men were never held accountable for their actions toward me and whomever else they abused.
TheNewday2 1 month ago
Shame about the spelling mistakes on this vid. Either way I've experienced 9 of these 10 signs for 9 years in Feb. Can't get out because he has made me feel like I am not strong enough to and that no one will want me. I am so sick of it.
Luciannaminx 1 month ago
Help me, please
kld416 2 months ago
Love & Light, Stu.
loveandlightvideos 2 months ago
Someone help me....I'm trapped....
Candistripper0685 2 months ago
I was doing all this to my girlfriend because I wanted her to become stronger - more outgoing.She is exceptionally shy and has just come from abroad... I am at this moment threatening for her to leave. I thought I was showing her the ropes in London. I never intended to hurt her, I just didn't realise. Up until now I have considered myself a very intelligent considerate man, and yet I'd have to admit to everything on that list! Isn't everyone guilty of this behaviour to some extent?
RuffDiamond23 2 months ago
this video a lot like the last employer - the one ya just walk out on cause they're nuts and you can''t stand their crap, well people, relationships are like that too, get out as fast as can.
DAREDARVIL 2 months ago
my best friend does all of that to me. she wants me to be her friend so she decides to look through my room. she finds a journal with alot of stuff written in it and she threatens to show it to everyone. she choked me half to death with my own jacket until it ripped in half...literally! she also takes advantage of me being bi. she always says that she will tell everyone. if everyone found out, i would have bruises for the rest of my young life.
starrocker123 2 months ago
@starrocker123 I'm sorry, but get rid of her! You don't need/deserve anyone like that in your life. I know, I had one & got rid of him. Its tough cuz they can be charming. But, it won't get better, promise! As far as your secrets, don't let her go in your room or give her ammunition. Tell her you're proud of who you are & that she can't "touch" you emotionally. Then, walk away with head up! Protect your soul. Its the only one we get & its valuable...you're valuable!
cetteferge 2 months ago
I am not going to get into the rambling of who is worse. If it happens to you it doesnt matter if you're a woman or a man, it's an awful thing to experience. I am a woman and I checked 9 out of 10 of those points as being my ex. I am still struggling to recover and I would not wish this on Anyone.
empressjulz 2 months ago
Women are worse now. Researchers have been trying to find stats that are less biased against men (pretty hard with feminism going on). They found that the vast majority of men in abusive relationships (verbally or physically) dont report it or arent believed, wich obviously makes previous results unreliable. Especially if you take into account that women are more abusive towards children. Its believed to be 1 of the reasons that male suicide rates have gone up, an idea feminism like to hide.
blackman6270 2 months ago 2
Thank you
echoesofeternity3 2 months ago
ugh, women are the worst
TheDoritosfan1 2 months ago
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@TheDoritosfan1 said "ugh, women are the worst"
Burn the witches!
newtubetubetube 2 months ago
It's a shame that so many men have to endure this kind of abuse. Maybe these videos and help centers will help these men escape from cruel and heartless women.
jensen1971x 2 months ago
I have the 10 out of 10 upon this lists happen to me in my life, I'm a male and doesn't know how to stop this situations, even I was hindered from my brother's friends. I don't understand why being ma middle child is so hard like this. I tried to convince my mother that I can make it to my acting career but she and my whole family said I look ugly, stupid, fat, and slow then who would consider me to work for them in any field. All I can do now is stay and manage the laundromat for life w/o marry
sangvanchau20 2 months ago
@sangvanchau20 Pardon me,but FUCK your family.You COULD be an actor,like Zack Galifanakis,like Seymour J. Hoffmann,like William H. Macy,like many other actors who aren't handsome,but are STILL respected actors.Being a leading man is over-rated,as a character actor you could have a career that will last you your whole life.The question you SHOULD ask yourself is,"Do I really want to become an actor?" and "Am I actually willing to make the sacrifices that a career as an actor will demand".
disagreeablesob 2 months ago
@disagreeablesob The answer to the questions would be YES! I act on stage for High School and sing for 4 straight years from 9th grade up to Senior year. I did went into 2 movies and one of them are student film. I started out by being an movie extras until I have my SAG then I will auditions for some other lead movie, every weekend I go to church and pray to god that he help me with my career and he told me in my dreams that I will be there in the future. They will regret this.
sangvanchau20 2 months ago
FREEDOM not FREADOM a spell check would be a good idea as it rather makes a serious subject look like something you just uploaded without thinking or caring .
3096grandmaster 2 months ago
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ozlemistanbullu 2 months ago
jeremy kyle shizzzz hahaha
Sunnyrach 2 months ago
my ex is like that.always made me feel not good enough n always get upset about any nonsense things n made a big deal out of it.at first,i was half convinced.(more of reconsidering my self what i did wrong) but time after time that he got upset,i realised he got issues.luckily,i'm a person with self esteem n didn't fall for the self worthlesssness game.from love to neutral.glad i ended it.he was abused emotionally by his family members n sadly the only way he knows is spreading misery.
chilluminaughty 2 months ago
I use all but #9, and as soon as I figure out what the hell it means, I'll try it. Thanks for the tips.
destinynoon 2 months ago
@destinynoon lol, You're a dumbass.
JayNJayShow 2 months ago
Dang...
my parents emotionally abuse me...
xDaisyCharm 2 months ago
@xDaisyCharm my mum does. How do you deal with it?
GavriellaMichal 2 months ago
The joke is,I doubt that there's even ONE woman out there who'll recognise any of HER behaviours as being abusive,but will be ready to label most if not all of the males she knows,young and old alike,as having committed MOST or ALL of these acts of emotional abuse against HER.
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GavriellaMichal 2 months ago
@disagreeablesob I used to be emotionally abusive, now I have changed my ways and am getting rid of those bad habbits... perhapse looking at yourself and analysing your behavuiours would be helpful :)
GavriellaMichal 2 months ago
@GavriellaMichal Unfortunately,it's been my experience,repeatedly,that women ONLY recognise abuse when someone else does it to THEM.I've seen women berate men,calling them every ugly,filthy name they could think of,then fly into fits crying about abuse when the man lost his temper and responded with something like "You're a fucking bitch".I actually saw one woman,after having called her ex-boyfriend a "Limp dicked faggot loser" among other things,swing at him after he called her "bitch".
disagreeablesob 2 months ago
@disagreeablesob sometimes us women talk back and reverse it so the ass hole who is doing it to us will feel just like we feel when they put us down call us names and make us feel worthless and it is worse when you have children with a man who contently does this, some women respond to the verbal abuse hoping the man will feel like shit too
elopez702grwu 2 months ago
@elopez702grwu No,that's NOT what I'm talking about.I have seen guys who I know AREN'T abusive assholes being mistreated by women who I know ARE.Don't even TRY to tell me it doesn't happen,I'm ONE of those guys.You women are really stuck on this "HE always starts it" bull,but there are TOO MANY GUYS who have lived with being treated like SHIT,abused by girls and women who expect to ALWAYS be treated like gold but think that it's okay to treat guys any way they feel like treating them.
disagreeablesob 2 months ago
@disagreeablesob I said some I did not say all so don't bully me
elopez702grwu 2 months ago
@elopez702grwu The way you said it,you make it sound as if ALL men are bullies.You said that SOME women talk BACK,in other words that they ONLY bully in RETALIATION,but I'm talking about women who ARE bullies,women who are abusive and controlling,women who always START fights,the women other women apparently want to think men make up.That's the point I was trying to make.I'm not trying to bully you,I am damn sick of women only hearing what they want to hear.
disagreeablesob 2 months ago
@disagreeablesob Not true. I was physically abusive to my boyfriend, when he would not listen; but I was especially short tempered when I was pregnant. I'm in a different relationship now, determined to change. I am very pro-men. I know how easy is for women to victimise themselves. And I was never abused by man myself, I would not let that happen. The point is, not all women are oblivious and blinded to the unfairness.
Crewka 1 month ago
@Crewka Then PLEASE,the next time some woman starts singing the "All men are SO HORRIBLE to women but we're all SO GOOD to them" song,call her out on it.Thank you.
disagreeablesob 1 month ago
@disagreeablesob Yes sir! I shall do :) But to tell you the truth I don't really hear stuff like that. I can only hope my friends are better educated, than to think that. Either that, or it all goes on behind closed doors - which is also often half of the problem.
Crewka 1 month ago
my parents did 7/10 of those to me and my bros. it makes life very hard and its difficult to get over.
cherokeediamond 2 months ago
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but man these videos are a waste of time and some of the signs you are ambiguous and irrational, im not being critical to be difficult, just how it is.
in my own experience there are only 2 signs of emotional abuse.
1: someone causing suffering intentionally.
and
2: you letting them do so
BlackNeon9 2 months ago
@BlackNeon9 leave out the "you" before "are", sorry
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BlackNeon9 2 months ago
a few of them happened to me and im a guy after 1 year living with her i had to leave but i have forgiven her and get on with her for sake of my daughter who is a year old.
i felt my freedom being violated because she was blaming me for emotional abuse and because abuse, like love, is a two way process and it takes just one person to end it all by walking away.
BlackNeon9 2 months ago
I always hate dumbasses on youtube who can use video editing software but not a damn dictionary to spell simple shit like freedom correctly...
patriotofliberty1776 2 months ago
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morticiansdaughter31 3 months ago
everyone singal one bu 9 :(
katnissraylor 3 months ago
Many people suffer this abuse everyday...and u can pick at the spelling and make snide comments. U could never have made it through the emotional abuse I experienced. I found this video bittersweet because I remember the mental case I was when my family came to my rescue and I have determined to help reach out to young kids to help instil self worth and value themselves so they are aware this is not love. This is a silent killer and hats off to those who overcame!
Archer77Skill 3 months ago
9/10 with me ex lmao
therealianquick 3 months ago
stupid people stop making videos
bitethis47 3 months ago
11: Forcing you to spell Freedom with an A
SpitRoastTV 3 months ago
Alberta Children's services offnders tell ies that the child knows are not true they abuse the child they attack them verbally and they demdn that the child go along with them terroizing them drugging them when they don't. Offenders are all Alberta Crisis Unit attackers in the Alberta. Systematized attacks refined assaults on children & attack them mercilessly. If your child has had contact with an Alberta Response Model team member they have been abused. Non abusers won't work there.
AnneFox7 3 months ago
fr..EE..dom
RaeAyla 3 months ago
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Mynameisboxy 3 months ago
well..helo father! you asshole tha fucked up my life
crazycatlady68 3 months ago
What about barbie,could never do enough for her.! I did all the things needed to take care of kids,most of the cooking cleaning financial issues everything. In my case, she has homestead rights that give them a huge female priveledge that has been used knowingly against me,and many other men. Maybe we live in too much of a capitalistic world.SUICIDE rate in canada for divorced men is ridiculously hi.
jjaybabii 3 months ago
Sometimes we need to look at things from a totally different perspective. if we are on earth for soul growth, it is by our relationships that we learn the most about ourselves. when those lessons are learnt, then its time to move on to a new set of lessons, with others, or alone. its all cyclical, sometimes we are up,others down.
All we need to do is accept, learn &move on. however attached we are to another.
thank them for their presence in yr life, for all they have taught u, then let them go
SovereignBeing 3 months ago
All of that is like my dad excapet thr singing wow now i know
xTeamUCPx 3 months ago
Every single one of these was done to me for my first 17 years of life.
darkallegiance666 3 months ago
7 out of 10 of those signs apply to my grandmother, she has been emotionally abusing me for about three years now but it's at it's height currently. :(
AgentChaos747 3 months ago
Wow. you just described my life. Especially about trying to change the subject! At first I thought you knew who I was talking about. My step dad is a bitch. But most of all, he's using me to financially ruin my REAL father. Mainly so is my mom, but, its hard to see in her. And m step dad never wanted kids! and he has never ever liked me. He treats me like he can totall abuse me. and I feel like he is hurting my mother too. She is working 4 jobs! technacly. and they all are hard. and he works one
nolamarley 3 months ago
wow..
my mom use to sing while i would vent out my anger..
no wonder i hate fighting with people or getting mad at them and then I start controlling them or i withdraw from them..
crap i need to stay away from my mom..
Wubblez10 3 months ago
There's so many females that have been raised by an emotional abusive parent they end up with men just like that because they think its normal. Very sad.
tristansmom982000 3 months ago
@tristansmom982000 Why do you immediately go to suffering females alone? Women are just as abusive as men, it's a "character" trait of controlling type people. I had a girlfriend who was 8 of the above 10 and extreme and I felt helpless in the face of it and was hugely damaged by it because she took advantage of the exact same type of behaviour my mother had done to me as a kid. Lots of people suffer this. And a lot commit suicide. I came close.
summerlight67 3 months ago 36
@summerlight67 too right, i went out with a woman with practically all those abusive traits, she was a controlling nightmare & did her best to shatter my self esteem...she was a ghastly bitch. 3 months of mental torture. she was like that with her own family & friends too,. in reality these people are emotionally screwed up & full of hang ups. i got the fuck out of it and now i have a lovely woman in my life. she on the other hand is still single, bitter & nasty as ever
trippy119 2 months ago
@summerlight67 just wanted to say that i'm finally moving away from a relationship that I've devoted a lot of my life to, and that I blinded myself because I was too in love. I even lied to myself in my thoughts to accept the things I knew were wrong.. "she is just giving him a ride home.." I feel your pain. I m proud of finally standing up for myself. there are better people out there.
thepepperz 2 months ago
@summerlight67 I recently called a suicide hotline after cutting my wrists for the first time in my life because of a girl I dated was verbally abusing me. I would have to shut off my phone or it would ring off the hook for hours with hateful text messages. She would freak out over issues like me not having dinner done on time when she came over, or me being 15 minutes early to pick her up. I agree, women can be just as bad IMO.
UcanLEEKmaDEEK 2 months ago 2
@UcanLEEKmaDEEK How long did it take you to think up that user name? Geeze..you do have problems.
Paula120906 2 months ago
@summerlight67 women are just as bad , if not worse ! , lots of women , not all , play the system .
livevilife 1 month ago