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  • Nice .. I have a question ... I been talk to a girl once and i told her if they won their soccer game

    And she anwerd .. Yeahh we lost and i got shy and i tope the conversation and i want to talk to her again but idk how ..

  • u look like neko fron gta iv lol

  • I lost him after "I am a virgin"

  • v but thats jjust for when ur taking it very slow. ive been going for this girl for months

  • on facebook its easy. u can just say "im bored. can we chat?" and something as little as "i hate coming up with subjects" can start a conversation

  • Guys,

    Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).

    I'll give you some advice right now..

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com

    Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha

    Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the tip.

  • Niko Bellik

  • Hezbolah :)

  • everyone is crappin on this guy but whats obvious is that the right attitude is effective no matter how you dress or how you look. He's clearly a genuine dude. And he's 100% dead on balls accurate with this. Learn to talk to anybody so you dont get nervous when you chat up a chica. He's completely correct.

  • umm were in america eh? Cx

  • I got it, I Got it, you have to """" initiate contact"""", thats a key!!! Notice how many times he mentioned it

  • what the fuck whats this shit

    only reson i looked a this i thot it was sopses to be runny

  • what the fuck whats this shit

  • Lol u look like a Steve-o !!!!

  • eeeeeew it's a poo jacket

  • Dude, if chicks talk to you at all it is because they think you are a foreigner, they take pity on you, and they think you are asking for directions to the 'Nuclear Veaponz', like Chekov in Star Trek IV.

    This dude's best pickup lines and their result:

    "Vhere is buss?" - a lady pointed down the street to the bus stop.

    "How go you? - chick gave him the finger.

    "Make baby now?' - chick called the cops.

  • @bigfatjohn120 Haha bigfatjohn you are right... sort of. Women do make their decision instanstly- thats correct, but its based on the way the man makes them FEEL. (the man's AURA). Everybody has an aura and it changes constantly, based on what you've just done in the past few hours or whats going on in your life at the time. Another point is girls would rather be the ones doing the talking. Just ask her the correct questions that will allow her to run her mouth and youve become an intresting guy

  • this is niko bellic.

  • @bigfatjohn120

    That's cool. So what should I brag about? Ah yeah " hey I'm so good at call of duty ". Lol jkjk ;)

  • @Heyitskelly1

    U give good advice. What about if you you seem like a player and you arent. Sometimes girls flock to me and the girl i like gets jealous.

  • Niko Bellic from GTA IV

    Smh

  • How to get girls to talk to you? Yeah... I prefer having my choice of who I go home with... not being 'picked'. Want to talk to a girl? Confidence. And don't even let her know your interested. Strike her curiosity and walk away. Don't go too far, but give her distance. Allows the illusion that SHE is choosing you. Works 60% of the time EVERY TIME

  • @ExodusFaces "Works 60% of the time EVERY TIME"

    hahaha I like this dude, fully advertising material :P

  • ~SOMEBODY ANSWER!~ If I want to go sit by a girl or talk to her with some of her friends present, would it be best to ask your friend to come along with you? And if none of your friends are around or want to come, what's some good pickup lines? Would anything like this work: "What's up, people? I'm gonna' hang out with ya'll for a while, alright?" But then I'm stuck, I don't know what to say beyond that. Should I keep silent and wait for a chance to enter the conversation, or assert myself?

  • @notessimodude i'm a girl, and i recon you should just be yourself. but obviously, say something like, "hi, how are you?" and smile. you could even say, "so what you talking about?" and the girls will tell you and you can join the conversation. girls notice a guy that smiles, i'm not talking always with teeth, but a simple, relaxed smile is really nice :) and if you feel more comfortable with a friend, then take him with you :) i hope i helped :P :) good luck! :D x

  • @HeyItsKelly1 xD Thanks. BTW, since you're in this already, you wouldn't mind answering a few more questions, right? Once I'm in the conversation, what should I do to let the girl know I like her? I prefer letting her know without telling her, if that'll fit.

  • @notessimodude x] i don't mind at all :P

    Something that almost always works, providing the girl isn't stupid..haha, is basically, to mainly look at her more than the other girls, but not stare. We kind of find it a little odd sometimes. And when she looks at you, catch and hold her gaze for a little while, and near the end when you're both ready to look away, smile sweetly. :) Or you could catch her gaze, and smile and look down (away from her), then back. I hope it works :P haha, :) x

  • @HeyItsKelly1 Sounds legit' for all I know... lol

  • Hey pro-wrestler Santino started to give dating advice?

  • yup virgin

  • ur accent is kinda scary, and your videos are kinda inaccurate.

  • I turned it off when I saw it was French

  • Two facts:

    1) Most women are too lazy to take initiative.

    2) Girls that do it are often much more interesting.

    indeed three facts:

    3) They will have to start doin' it because every day there are less and less "worthy" men out there, and lots of women to compete with.

  • This guy is helping some ppl.. Nobody born knowing sex so plz guys if it don't help u or u already know then this is not appeal to u.. Y waste ur time on comment?? Keep banging ur girl and let the ppl who don't know to learn.. Grow up guys..

  • Pick up line that always work "hey, how does this chloroform smell?"

  • @macchappy ...lol you sicko

  • @donjuan78123

    Stop it, you are embarrasing yoruself...

  • pretty sad that people are trying to run me down, i mean come on, do you really need a vid like this to live? how sad

  • wut if its a girl i like and she is in class but she doesn't know i like her and we r friends???

  • thank alot this helped so much i cant believe all the chances ive been missing

  • How to Get Girls to Talk to You:

    1) don't wear a jacket like this guy has on

    2) don't buzz your head and your eyebrows at the same time

    3) have a large gap in your teeth so that when u actually hav a girl to talk to, it distracts her from your jacket and hair

    4) discontinue posting "coaching" videos on youtube

    5) be someone besides THIS guy

  • Oh stop being so judgmental. He's a nice guy and he's trying to help other guys. Besides, his accent is killer and he's charming. I would give him attention. ;]

  • @donjuan78123 dood u suck man, life isnt all about appearance.

  • @JtoC007 ur right, life isnt all about appearances...but it does help

  • @donjuan78123

    Wow. This guy stepped up and actually tried to help, what have you done aside from trolling around youtube?

    People like you ruin life for the rest of us. Remove yourself from the gene pool, please. Do us all a favor.

  • @vykkheralden im sorry, i didnt realize there were actually guys like you out there who NEED to watch this video. il let u in on a little secret:pussy is wet and warm. thats pretty much all u need to know, since you prolly wouldnt know what to do with it anyway. have a nice life, if i havent ruined too much already.

  • @donjuan78123

    Sorry, I know what sex is like, I used to have it with my Ex.

    Unlike you, I don't go around bragging about my sex life in order to make myself feel better about how shitty things must be really going.

    I saw this video through Encyclopedia Dramatica, and then you happened to comment.

    Nice try loser.

  • @vykkheralden yea ur right, i am a lonely loser who does nothing but troll on youtube all day long looking for idiotic vids to post sarcastic comments about...except the fact that my girl actually helped with the last comment i made to you. she thinks the author of this vid and YOU are both pathetic dick sucking fags who know absolutely nothing about women.

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  • @donjuan78123

    Then your hooker (call it what it is, no girl in their right mind could tolerate your childish stupidity) is as shallow as you are. I find it funny, and a little ironic how you tell me that you don't care, yet here you are, still sending me replies, trying to prove how superior you are. Know what? I'll give, if it makes you feel like a big man, here you go. This is my last reply, so that way you'll stop feeling so butthurt. Have a nice life, loser.

  • @vykkheralden YES I WON! LOSER LOSER LOSER!!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha I WONNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!! suck that youtube virgin!

  • @donjuan78123

    And on that note, I can't believe how pathetic you are for trying to use sex as a way to make yourself seem better than other people. Don't forget that YOU watched the video too, dumbass. Besides, Sex isn't just about pleasure, it's about love, and trust with the other person. But you wouldn't know anything about that, and that is why your love life is going to fail in an epic way when you realize you can't get any when you're old, and it's too damn late to settle down.

  • @vykkheralden oh and an ex....that explains a LOT about yourself there, doesnt it? what, couldnt keep it hard? she cheat with your best friend? or were you so sorry in bed that she turned lesbian?

  • @donjuan78123

    Relationships come and go, why we broke up is none of your concern, but I appreciate you making yourself even MORE of an idiot by even attempting to insult me that way.

  • @vykkheralden let me explain something to you, just because one person is SO awesome(myself) and the other is so awful(you), doesnt mean the awful person has to try to drag the awesome person down to their depths. just lay on ur crummy couch in ur single bedroom loft apartment(which other than a few sticks of shitty furniture is void of any life), take another handfull of potato chips and get to the next self help video to try and meet your future ex wife.

  • @vykkheralden im not concerned, thanks for asking tho ;-P

  • @donjuan78123 you my friend have low confidence about your self and thats all you need to fuck up with a girl.

  • @Mr4892214 nah my girl would say im pretty "cocky" in more ways than one if ya know what i mean and i would say im a pretty self confident and assured individual, but that may indeed be all you need to fuck up with a girl. ask the dozens its happened to. but thanks for trying to cheer my up!

  • @donjuan78123 LOL you made laugh as hell thanks

  • @donjuan78123 LOL but soo true

  • @donjuan78123 you watched the video dipshit.

  • haha true

  • @donjuan78123 HAHAHAHHAHAAH

    

  • ur an asshole bro.

  • @LordoftheLord1 yes, and what's ur point???

  • @donjuan78123 but still you were the one looking for advice form guys like THIS GUY

  • @donjuan78123 *from

  • @idku711 , PUSSY

  • @idku711 hahah lol Very nice, you have nice ponani i take u home now gypsy

  • gimme some-o-dat beckaay

  • how do i talk to 9 year old boys?

  • with your mouth

  • @socal786

    Good idea m8

  • y i always c u wit that red coat on

  • girls r soo unpredictable...in the eastern is way different that in the west...

    I'm in the eastern country so most of the tips r not the things I want to know..

  • i say hey twat ya wanna get a pizza and fuck maby give me some helmet, lay the pipe right and treat em like shit and they will love you 4 eva, no woman wants a fuckin faggy romantic guy they might say they do but thats bullshit, they want a man that will shift there kidneys and make em gag

  • So how does this anwer the question. Sometimes I want the girls to talk to me im tired of initiating contact

  • @Masteruny

    Most girls don't like having to come to a guy. If you like a girl,you have to come to her.

  • @Masteruny who doesnt! Well sad part - they wont!

  • im way too ugly to talk to girls

  • bollocks, take a look at ron jeremy.. in my experience looks have very little to do with attraction

  • do not say that!

  • lol thats how i feel.

  • I say this in the kindest tone, if you talked to me I would also ask "Why are you wearing sunglasses on your head?"

    If you truly understand women that question, in most cases, is more of a statement than a question.

    I liked your answer regarding that. It's honest and friendly, but truthfully, I would smile and be on my way. Why? Because sunglasses are not a hat and I don't really want to be seen with a guy sporting a 1980's leather members only jacket and sunglasses on his crew cut.

  • car:check money:check house:check girlfriend:no go

  • you get girls?

  • and don't think about us as something you can win.

    that's what makes you nervous.

    think about girls as just another person, and don't even focus on getting into our pants.

  • wow, really? some of this is uber offensive shit.

    start talking to UGLIER girls? that's shallow as fuck.

    not saying i'm terrible, but i'm not the hottest in the bunch. the uber pretty girls are often bitches and cheating whores. the less-attractive ones are more likely to be a lasting relationship. and we weren't made for your social skill building, were PEOPLE. if you think we have a clue how to flirt with guys, we dont. girls r just as clueless as you dumbasses, nd u dont even appreciate us.

  • truth is guys this age aren't exactly looking for a long lasting relationship and marriage. Guys are age are only out to get one thing, yes you've guessed correctly apple pie..

  • hoooo... come on!!! did u ever got one???? hahahahahahaha!!!!! NEVER, i bet on that!

  • didnt help just a slap in the face

  • I can tlk to uglhy girls fine but not pretty gidlrls they always ask me questiions thst make me nervous and grinding there ass on me while im waiting in a line and accidebtly backin up

  • me 2 bro i talk to chicks that are what ever but when it comes to hot chicks or chicks that asked me out before i just freeze and get embarrased

  • @ameerskater Yeah, you're right man! I can talk to a load of ugly girls, like I drink water everyday but when it comes to pretty girls, even a drop of water I already find it hard to put down the throat -_-''

  • your not even talking about a real relationship in this video u dumbfuck

  • guys have to just be himself but not too much.

    be nice and not talk about himself all the time.

  • tu as le chance parce que tu a le "french accent"

  • thanks u helped me alot. i will start talking to less attractive girls so that my social skill with girls gets better.

  • that's not offensive or anything

  • Pretty cool....

    But to be serious... to really get started with women i just used this site...

    howtogetagirl.tutors-connect.c om

  • You immature fuck

  • lol heheh

  • foreign.....nice.... chicks dig foreigners, lol

  • this foo speaks the truth

  • I'm really confident and so are my friends except all the girls seem to ignore me and flirt with my friends

  • girls are people to just act normal and dont b 2 cocky

  • you dont have to be confident with girls

    you jus have to be yourself

    and cool :P easy ass

  • I AM myself, ACTUALLY, I'm against ALL conformity. I'm completely different from most people I know.

    And it's NOT EASY AT ALL!

  • Railing against conformity is in a sense forcing yourself to conform and not really being yourself....think about it...

    PUA Mongrel

  • Not true.

    Some of my hobbies fit in with other people, while some are nothing like it. I'm not going AGAINST conformity on purpose, I'm just being myself.

    And from what I noticed, girls like to approach guys, you know, they are usually the extroverts and talk WAY MORE!

  • So you can't be confident AND be yourself?

    PUA Mongrel

  • I can't? Really? Wow, that's news to me.

    That sounds like a very beta-male sort of subversive attempt at an insult.

    Are we maybe a bit insecure?

    PUA Mongrel

  • Hmm....by your AMAZING vocabulary I'd say you're a 16 year old kid who sits in mom's basement and knows nothing about women, but that's just me.

    PUA Mongrel

  • First, it's spelled "Mistake", not 'MISSTEAK'. Not sure if you're talking about some new way to grill a Sirloin or something, but anyhow..

    Been with more women? I'm not even going to start on that comment...except to say the ones that go bragging are always the same insecure beta males who generally have NO women skills at all.

    Oh, and word of advice, kid? This is a public forum. If you don't want to get pwnd, stop showing your inner jackass :-)

    PUA Mongrel

  • To quote PUA Man of Adventures:

    "Let this people be themself and do what they always did; they will get what they always got. Why aren't woman just "themself", but instead go on diets? Because they know that this kind of self-improvement pays off."

  • thanks

  • You want to no how to get girls? talk to them just as you would to a guy same shit very simple

  • That's EXACTLY what I do. I don't FAKE TALK anything and it doesn't work.

    All my friends who FAKE TALK get the girls.

  • I keep seeing remarks about girls only wanted guys for their money and material things. Perhaps it's a double sided coin...of course all women are going to appear shallow if youre only approaching shallow/materialistic women. If you see a woman in expensive designer clothing with her hair and nails done chances are material things are what impress her so why would you then fault her for the same thing that attracted you to her? If you dont like them dont reward them w/attention.

  • Everytime I meet a girl, they don't want to talk to me or they don't seem interested. They hate me for no reason, but I'm the coolest guy around.

    Girls are bitches.

  • Maybe it's because you're a homo in denial and you just said, "I'm the coolest guy around."

  • No, I'm not gay, lol retard.

    I AM COOL.

  • Actually, I've never bragged about how big my dick is, swear to God, moron.

    And I thought girls liked egotistical guys?

  • there is a difference between confidence and arrogance

  • No there is not.

    It's either you're confident, egotistical and believe in yourself, OR your a depressed, emo type person.

    Girls hate guys who like themselves, it's true for some reason.

  • confidence means self assurance

    arrogance means you are self assured but in an insolent manner.

  • Well, girls don't like confident guys at all. They like EMOTIONAL guys who act depressed all the time.

  • i don't know where you live or what stage in life you are in but it seems pretty apparent to me that confidence gets you pussy.

    Now, confidence doesn't mean you boast, like when you said "i'm the coolest guy around"; that's pompousness. It will only get you comtempt and disdain.

    Confidence is an aura of self-assurance.

  • Not really dude, they REALLY DON'T. I'm telling you, they don't.

    Every confident guy I know is well hated by girls.

  • are you sure they are confident not arrogant?

  • Both terms go hand in hand, they really do.

    Chances are, if you're confident, you're arrogant.

  • no i don't think they go hand in hand; i have given you my explaination for the disparity between the terminologies

    please give me your explaination on why they are identical

  • WELL, if you're feeling good about yourself, then there is a GREAT chance you'll be cocky and have an ego, right?

  • if you are confident, you project that ego in an aura of self-assurance. People can detect that confidence in the way you walk, the tone of your voice, and the look in your eye etc.

    If you are arrogant you will insult and spit virtriol at others because you feel you are better than them.

  • dude ur right im always quiet in class look depressed and the hottest girl in class likes me and always comes to me and talks to me deadass and the confident guys in class she ignores them like she hates this confident guy in class

  • EXACTLY!

    I never understood the CONFIDENT myth.

    The way I look at it, it seems girls HATE to be approached. They hate it when guys come up to them.

  • .........eh... go to any big club with that mentality and you'll see all the HB 9's and 10's talking to the guys with enough confidence, social proof, and cocky-funny attitude, but ignoring everyone else.

    PUA Mongrel

  • great video

  • I like your jacket!

    Is it real Leather or Faux/immitation?

    Chick's won't approach you if it's fake leather (^_^)

  • Hey! Okay, I'm not a female, but I think it's great when a male or female wears fake leather instead of real leather.

     I'm a vegetarian, so I don't wear things made of animals that had to die for it, but stupid stores, "genuine leather" this "genuine leather" that, what the heck is so great about real leather?! I can't find any fake leather stores.

  • Here here for going veg! You can check out mooshooz theyve got faux leather jackets shows and wallets

  • I just Started laughing at what he said in the intro LMFAO

  • LOL! This guy is a joke! A dude ask him for advice for how to get girls to talk to you and he says that the guy should approach.

    This guy is an idiot of dimensions. Only ok advice he gave is about peacocking.

    For the guy that asked the question, there are several ways of getting girls to talk to you. Social proof, good looks, money, preselection.

    Just go to a bar and talk to only guys whole night and girls will notice you being social and fun and will approach you.

  • True that it might get them to notice you, however, girls might think that you are uninterested in them.

  • And what is more attractive for a girl then the popular guy at school that dosen't know they exist? (just an example)

  • "And what is more attractive for a girl then the popular guy at school that dosen't know they exist? (just an example)" I suspect, the attractive male that is nice to them. Or in the case of other... females... that say they want a nice guy, but typically date guys that are jerks, but dump them, --the good looking guy that's a jerk to them. Basically what a female wants is to be attracted to you, ignoring them and appearing fun might accomplish that, for certain females I suppose.

  • Wow, I'm so glad girls only care about "popular" douches like you say as opposed to someone who actually has some substance to them.

  • i won't go out with you....

    girls who just look in a guys pocket and looks are....LOSER!...just like guys who look to girls if she is pretty and rich!...and if she have HOLE!

  • I don't agree with you, calling him an idiot. He actually did answer the guys question when he said having things that stand out about you can get a girl to start up a conversation (peacocking as you said?). Also... saying being good looking and visual wealth (expensive watch or car) is kind of obvious. The person talked about "girls that walk by", this is most likely girls that are in and out, or again, just walking by and gone. Not so much time to have the females observe them.

  • And why should a guy NOT approach?

    Social Proofing, Confidence, Public DHV'ing, Wit, Humor, etc are all great but if you have approach anxiety then a woman isn't always going to come to you, and in some cases may be socially INTIMIDATED!!!

    It's like you're saying that if you're a nascar driver, a car is automatically going to drive over to you.

    PUA Chris

  • @OchrismongrelO a guy MUST approach, at least 8/10 times

  • Nig get the fuck out of my internet

  • I guess that the guy who asked it was wanting to know how to be more interesting, to be noticed, how to talk, move and act everytime, in the classroom, in the work... to be more sexy, mor noticeable... make the girls says: "oh he's so cute" or something... that would do things really easier...

  • Where are you from? What is your accent? Just curious. :)

  • swiss

  • most girls r bitches lol no kidding

  • when i said she was unique i didnt mean that she was this goddess or anything she just has unique likes and dislikes.