ur really have beautiful eyes and everything you said is exactly how i feel but its like everyday of going to school wcctialy helps me im living with it for over 6 years but now in highschool i can feel mysellf wondering less about what poeple think off me and i really hope you and all sad sufferers out there also finds a stage in their lifes to feel free and stop carring what poeple think.God bless
Hi sweety, i kno its been 4 years since youve posted this video, and i hope youve pushed through your SA, ive had social anxiety off and on for the past year, and it is very frustrating to deal with, and the only thng tht is going to help you is by facing your fears, and i kno from experience tht its much easier sed than done and its easier to just hide, but tht is not going to help you at all, i kno tht for a fact, it will be very uncomfortable to face your fears but just take baby steps :)
I get psychosomatic symptoms. Sometimes when I think of raising my hand in class, my heart starts to beat rapidly as hell. I also tend to get some sort of weird feeling in chest even if my mind is calm, but something unusual is going to happen.
@Archferumphis That feeling in ur chest. is it like some1/something is gripping ur heart and sqeezes is so hard.. u cant breath properly? I can recognize that.. I got this less and less when I met more friends who I felt comfortable with. And they accept me who I am.
Great video, im 21 years old, have anorexia, and pretty bad Social anxiety. I have trouble leaving the apartment, making eye contact, never even had a girlfriend. Been on quite a few meds as well I'd be so grateful to have a girlfriend like you, hope I can find someone like you one day, Hope your feeling better these days, your not alone :)
You shouldn't have social phobia girl. You are YOUNG and PRETTY, never take that for granted. Imagen that you could have been born short, fat and butt ugly; think how different your life would have been then!? Probably a lot less viewers for your video too ;)
So beautiful...and insightful and perceptive and understanding...It's so hard to find girls like you amidst the arrogant bitches that talk lots of shit...
This was really inspiring to watch. My social anxiety has somehow gotten WAY worse in the last few years, and it's affecting my ability to upload my own videos.
Illusion is a mask itself; fear is anxiety. You fear negative reaction, and in turn, this makes you anxious. But you must understand this negative reaction you so fear and anticipate is fake, a mask to hide the truth. And the truth is this: If one realizes the true nature of anxiety, then one stops fearing being afraid. Soon this concept sweeps over you and you realize just how simple it is to be fearless, and slowly the confidence starts to build, now your anxiety is left in the dust
I am not sure if I suffer from this or not.. I do take risks and find it very scary and I after I talk to someone I always feel they didn't like talking to me. And I think about it a lot... but I love music and performing So I try to do things like that and I can do them but i feel a little sick doing them and I shake a lot afterwards. I cant talk to new people and I dont like going out the house in case i see someone I know...
I like how you break it down I was going through the same thing in 2010,didn't know what was happening to me it just hit me.i couldn't do anything..I didn't leave the house for about a year.i was taking alporozam to sleep.
dificulde.tenho a conocer el mismo problema, parece no tener salida, pero con el uso de medicamentos adecuados han tenido buenos resultados, después de haber tenido varias alteraciones mentales,espero so recuperación,y puede sonreír de nuevo!charlezfuz@hotmail.com
I think you truly know that you have SAD when you've tried so hard for so long to break free of it but you still have it. Thats when you know your fucked. SAD for life
i can relate 100% to every thing you say. i've experienced every stage you mention. SAD sucks!!!! but we can't let anxiety win we need to be strong and fight this monster!! haha good vid.
Basically you have stuck yourself because you are scared. You need to understand that you can unstuck yourself too. Its a simple choice. Ask yourself "do i enjoy being like this, if so why?" humans are creatures of habit. Truthfully though, change should be embraced. My advice to you is to spend time with yourself and write down all the things that make you unhappy and try and unravell what exactly has made you so sad. This works but only if you are willing to embrace change.
Omg I thought I was the only one who felt this way. Sometimes you think you know what they're saying about you in there head and it's usually always negative and you get really anxious when a person keeps trying to hold a conversation with you because you don't want them to think your boring. And you don't want them to stare at you for long periods of time because you don't want them to notice any of your flaws. Thankyou for sharing this video thumbs up its nice to know I'm not alone.
Wow, that's how I feel most of the time. I thought it was just because im a loser that i don't deserve to have friends so i will do everything in my power to socially alienate myself. Its comforting to know that its a actual condition, thx for your vid. If you ever need a boost, i like your attitude and i think you are gorgoues, thank you for making the world a better place :-)
accepts your bad feelings/sensation in socializing with other people... Get USE to it and accept who you truly are inside and in outside world... EVERYONE can loved by the other people.. and especially don't forget to PRAY... :D
Wow i can relate. For instance, i'm starting to apply to different jobs now which is really..not fun. I usually get uptight when i socialize and so i talk as little as possible. Then afterwards i feel upset because i keep thinking of how i could have done better which usually means more communication which i have a hard time doing...yeah it sucks.
I also am really shy but mainly talking to men or in big groups. If someone yells at me, I get more scared of talking. I don't know how to overcome it and do not want to have people laugh at me.
I used to be worse when I was younger, but I still have it. It bubbles up even with people I've been outgoing with and hung out with a lot. Its random for me. But surprisingly I've come over a lot of it, probably cause I'm getting older so its not as a big deal. The main area I have a lot of SA is with girls when it comes to trying to date or be more than a friend. I have issues when it comes to that as far as SA, especially when I usually get burned when I do try. Good video. You're not alone
i feel for u and think u have done a very good job on explaineing how u-me fell after watching this i am now able 2 put in2 words the way i have always spent my life.... ty and gl
I am so proud of you for speaking up! I think that I have a minor case of social phobia. I never heard anyone actually indentify the stages of it, which I have felt, and listening to you really brings things into perspective for me which allows me to control these behaviors to a certain extent.
I am going through the same thing. You have split it well into 3 stages..it's a vicious circle. I am at stage one now. It's very difficult to live with. I am 38 and i must say it was always bad but it gets worse when you get older. As they say you can't teach old dog a new trick. I suggest to deal with it as long as you are young. My heart goes up to you.
I see mc2method or selftherapy is the best, you can for free listen to it online at selftherapy org The man has so clean and strong voice, and talks also about some other problems, but i can't say anything is it true, i am still learning, listening to it, what do you say about??? For me I beleive that is true.
Fascinating and insightful blog, thankyou for posting this. I want to meet this girl but she has social anxiety and has difficulty answering the phone and meeting up. I'm convinced there is something special about her and so I keep trying my best to understand but keep to her pace. Not much progress has been made but I'm convinced we would be good for each other.
guess what! if you don't like school, you won't want to be there. and if you don't want to be there, you'll try not to seem to be there. then you won't be there cuz no one will notice you. you got what you wanted. happy?
(this applies to all things that you don't want to do but must do no matter what you want. if you have to do it, you might as well make the best of it, right? ah, the conundrum.)
You are very pretty! What helped me the most was getting a "puplic" job in which I had to talk to strangers all the time, because I was payed to do so. In my case it was selling photo frames at a large DIY store. It didn't feel like I was representing myself, but this store instead, I just had to help people out with the same stuff over and over, which gave me the room to observe what was going on, on a non verbal level, and to gradually adjust my behavior to the point where I didn't feel tensi
For a good life & meaning try Truth-savescom, also, Robert M. Price, ' The reason driven life ', also mindvendorcom & authentichappinessorg, richarddawkinsnet,
i'm a (attractive) black gay guy with a social anxiety disorder......so I have a lot of shit to deal with...but it gets better every year...I use to not be able to walk from pt A to pt B, without looking horrified and walking funny.
No matter what "stage" your in, people will see you or they won't, people will talk or they won't, they'll like you or they won't. Who gives a shit, anyway? You're not "in a stage", you are a person and you are just alright the way you are.
Hope you feel better soon sweetheart. I was very shy as a kid but I quickly grew out of it. Stop living for people and allowing them to dictate your behavior, Live for your self and be strong.
@pakhazman people with social anxiety DON'T grow out of it, it's jus getting WORSE and WORSE. It's in your mind, it's just these obsessive thoughts accompanied by constant fear and tension in your body, which won't go away. At first, you don't understand it, you think if you try to endure it all, then it will go away, but it never does. Also, you start experiwncing severe depression and you just wanna die.
Im 51 years of age and im going to give all of you younger people advice. The biggest problem with SAD is that it leads to avoidance behaviour. No matter how nervous or easily embarrassed u get u will not die. Sure people will notice and disapprove of you. But remember you have spoken to people before so you know you can do it. You just have to be consistent. The pain and torment will be hard to bear but the pain and torment of depression if you avoid will be worse. Avoidance will ill you
I developed halitophobia because of drinking too much. Now that I've fixed the drinking part and I no longer have halitosis, why the hell am I still feeling anxiety around people eventhough I know I don't wreak like alcohol?
I still struggle from time to time, but i 'm not where I was three years ago, all because I put my trust in the One who created the both of us. My advise for you is run to Jesus. Not forcing a religion on you but this ain't about religion. It's about establishing a relationship with your Creator that He longs for. Don't go to Him just because of the disorder, but recognize that we sinned against a perfect God and Jesus is the only way to Him. It all starts with repentance and faith and trust in
Hey bishi4me. I've severely had this disorder for the majority of my life. Some people are outspoken, some people aren't. But we were all made in the likeness and image of God. God didn't give us the spirit of fear. If God created us, He can fix us. But sin seperated us from Him. The only advise and hope I can give to you is found in Jesus Christ. I'm 28 years old but I became a born again believer about three years ago. I used to be afraid of being aroud people
I also have social anxiety. I also don't talk to people. It made me uncomfortable, nervous and shy. It had al my life, from my childhood. Now my age is 24.
Believe me I understand I have suffered lifelong. You Tube is fantastic bcz every time someone like you shares their story it really helps me. I feel more energy and a Hugh wieght is lifted. Here's something (not sure even what stage this would be ) but I will try to raise the energy of the room "slightly" by acting as if I have a bit more energy and so in return the person(s) im with they start to match my energy and I noticed that it can really help . The thing is it's got to be a desire on y
youre probably think this is silly but i been living whith this all my life im 35 now and finally i found something that helps me and thats praying to god i know it sounds crazy but its been giving me confidence
Thank you so much for this video! I'm 21 years old and I had social anxiety my whole life. Because of it I lost so much, so many missed opportunities, so many friends I will never have, so many things I will never experience.
It's so good to know that I'm not alone in this, that there are people like me out there.
I fill that I have the same problem..like whenever my family try calling me I never answer the phone and I never answer the door..which I think also causes me to have depression...like as of right now its 2pm in the afternoon and I'm home alone inside my dark room with all the blinds closed ....and it sucks because I have a wife and daughter that's out at a family gathering right now without me.
I always think someone is being two faced and get paranoide people arnt truthfull about how they feel about me.. I am a mess.. I feel like people talk behind my back
@noodlez4me bro just dont give a fuck about any thing.. just listen to some loud fuckin music... or shit like that.. i did that for a month and now im good..
note : i had a fuckin strict arab parent... for all my fuckin life...
wow wow ow you all stupid right.only ugly people have sa ,you all think like that.
you can be very good looking but not perfect .you can find a flaw or more about you.it is about negativity .stop telling her that she is beautiful ,fuking idiots.and when someone is uglyb he deserves sa right.YOU ALL HAVE NO GOD.
Anxiety attacks are just the mind afraid of losing control. The truth is that we are not in control. Just knowing this helps anxiety go away. A free book called "The Present" helped me a lot with my anxiety attacks, and understanding my mind. To find it, go to Truthcontest(dot)com and look under the entries. It is the first one.
of course there is more to life then women. but women are only good for 2 things, sex and babies. and this is FACT. men have many other pursuits besides women, if anyone should take your advice, it certainly isn't men.
The solution to your problems is not to feel sorry for yourself, but to find a solution, and it's called "The Happiness Trap" on Amazon. Your welcome.
Dude I tried stage two with the people i live with...it failed so bad and i went back to stage 1 with them. they hate me! they say I make them feel uncomfortable and they left. now im almost 100% sure the others are holding it against me that they left. I CANT, WHY cant they understand that!
For me social anxiety is like a Drug u get Addicted to it... Real addicted to all the Negative thoughts in your mind....A every painful, struggle N loneliness to face along the Broken Road Ma Friend.....But just like a Broken Road we can learn to fix it and face it with no fear......(just start small)... talk to the people closest to u and Never lost ur faith in God.... build your confidence through that.....
Mine came from family abuse, they made me feel like a worthless dog. Even my aunts, uncle and cousins would point out every fault in me which makes SA worse. The world is an evil place and people abuse people with SA to make themselves feel better. People are hardly accepting and kind to us, they only feel remorse people with physical handicaps!
I definitely understand her situation. I dropped out of high school due to it. Most people will never understand the symptoms of this disorder. For me I would start to sweat, feel nauseous, start to get the shakes and my heart rate would go through the roof. Lastly I would avoid eye contact at all costs. Luckily after two years of dealing with it I somehow overcame this disorder without the aid of a therapist. My advice, get yourself in EVERY social situation that you can. Confront your demons!
@yoginyomom I dropped out of high school because of SAD too.. my parents thought that I didn't go to school because I was lazy or I couldn't "wake up" because I slept late at night. My brother tried to talk to teachers about it but it made me feel even worse. That was two years ago, I am now taking my high school exams in a private instituition and I still get really nervous around people sometimes but atleast I try not to avoid it now...
No worries, the anxiety will persist for a while. But it will just get easier and easier. I have worked at a few retail stores, man was that a nightmare at first. Though I think that kind of environment with a ton of people that are always changing helped me tremendously.
Stay strong and I am extremely happy to hear you are taking the first steps. Good luck on your HSD.
I think the key to trying to defeat the main problem with social anxiety ( avoidance) is to constantly and consistently push the envelope and get yourself out of your comfort zone. Even if you pass out doing the exposure you won't die. You will dust yourself off and carry on. Its quite fun challenging yourself because when you're in the situation you feel yourself doing the living not the thinking about and stressing. A famous football coach in australia used to say "don't think, dooo."
Hey guys, I'm a therapist and I'm working on a new blog and video series to help people overcome social anxiety. I hope you'll check it out and help me build a community. Just search for my user name.
hey everyone I had Social anxiety & I overcame it, with tools I have learned the past months, & Im here to help you out! Check out my channel, and I will be posting videos to help you out! Its curable, its how you think!
Does anyone else's mind wander when your sitting with a group of people, if so does your vision kind of blur and you can't really see around your peripherals it always happens to me and i get kind of paranoid sometimes and it makes it look like people are looking at me and then i get freaked :L
They say you reflect yourself in the eyes of others. If you are often met with positive eyes you will believe what you see. A rare negative look will mean nothing cause you know it isn't true. But when you are met with negative eyes too often, you see yourself as negative, as bad. One positive look is going to have the same effect as the previous example. It's not just about how you see yourself, it's also about how others are seeing you or have seen you in the past that is rooted in you.
i have SA i think. its weird but im getting bored talking to my friends so i shut them out and idk i just get bored talking to people period because i feel like its boring so i don't is that bad ? T-T
even my mom has told me i look funny and she sometimes starts to laugh and it makes me feel bad :( thats why im thinking of maybe losing weight to see if it will gain my confidence and even when i go to work its hard 1 of my dads workers even looks at me just to see how nervouse i am and he kinda starts to laugh :( and it hurts my feelings a lot.any advice please
ive had social anxiety for 2 years ughhh i hate it when im around people i feel like their staring at me and i just feel like getting away from everyone and i feel like everyone is judging the way i look and act...ever since i gained weight i feel like everyone is thinking i look funny and see me as a joke...even my dad 1 time i was talking to him and he laughd a bit because of the way i look uggggh when will it go away :(
I had social anxiety, but I no longer do. After a while, I got fed up with people misunderstanding me and being alone. It was SO painful. I still have times when I fret about conversations that I had in the past and whether I said something stupid. But I soon come to realize, who cares? Does it really matter what other people think? I feel the pain from being alone and isolated hurts more than any possible negative opinion people may have about you.
why you feel bad its not because any1 else is putting you down but urself. if you work on stop putting urself down. your brain will adapt better an ul have more confidence to go out and do things. ul need 2 take risks and face your fears. and its not all a one way road there are bumps n cracks along the way which u will need 2 figure out. god bless x
it's so hard for me to walk alone on the street because i think everyone is staring at me! I don't pick up the phone because i am so afraid. I hate going out.i am already 18 years old. and i never had a boyfriend and it's all because i think that nobody likes me. and i think i am so ugly, i get so many compliments that i have a great body/face, they always tell me i should start modelling but i don't believe them, i feel so strange when somebody gives me compliments :(
@SomeKindOfMagie Wow...so you've never had anyone? I understand hahaha, like, I think "Why the hell would she like me? I'm the ugliest person I know! Is she sick in the head?"
@LolVermillion no, I never had a boyfriend, I think I am gonna die as a virgin :D When a boy has a crush on me and if I have a crush on him I try everything not to show my emotions to him because I don't wanna be close with anyone cuz I think I am so ugly and they don't wanna hang out with me ;( I push everyone away from me....
@SomeKindOfMagie Yeah I feel you, like if they get to know me they'll get bored of me and leave me, so why try? Even if they like me I feel like we're worlds apart somehow. I do that too, though I want to be with someone I can't help but shut them out of my life, I won't get into it but there's just so many fears, what they'll think of me, what people say if I'm with someone, etc......
Hope you overcome someday.
I hate it, it's seriously messing with my life on many levels.
I feel a bit better, since I know that I am not the only one who has this disease. I always thought I am a freak and they just need to lock me up somewhere :D
....and yeah, on eday we will overcome this fucking disease!
I am surprised at how many attractive people have social anxiety you are so cute............Thanks for your video........... Glad to see I am not alone.
@l0stlin3s This is so true, I recall that in high school I sat behind a really cute girl. I was afraid to talk to her, I figured she was a stuck up bitch. I introduced myself to her, and after that she was talking to me like as if we had known each other for years. We were both afraid to talk to each other out of fear of rejection. I see two different people in a number of mirrors that I look into, at times I see an attractive guy and others the opposite. I don't know how I look.lol
@omgbygollywow making a video does not consider people being around you its not really social making a video is basically communicating without the having people around its much more easier i think the only worry about making videos is what will people think, will they judge me for what i said, how i look.....
@omgbygollywow It's because it's a safety net in a way, it's the internet, she has the option to not give a flying fuck about me, you or anyone else that comments here, just because someone has social phobia does not mean they are scared shitless of the world.
Thank you for sharing this video. Like you, I am also dealing with a large amount of social anxiety on a daily basis. I hope you don't worry too much if people are judging you for putting yourself out there. You are very courageous and have a big heart. Good luck dealing with SA, and never forget that you are making a difference. Keep up the good work, -Matt
Thank you for doing this video. I am 58 yrs old, have been in denial all my life because of the stigma that comes with mental health problems. I have been so scared of every situation, but carry on like it is nothing.. until I break down in tears and run away. always blushing, tongue tied.. it is horrible.. I am going to seek treatment as I am tired of running, but afraid of the meds and being alone. you are sweet, keep up the good work, helping people is your niche.
I can't stand people who put down others with any kind of mental illness or anxiety issues. People may only see our flaws because they fail to get to know each of us and how each of us can have good qualities.
Thanks for taking the risk you took to make this video. I am really struggling at the moment, particularly at work. I just had a melt down this afternoon because i am back at work tomorrow for another week and my anxiety is making life hell there. I feel like everyone hates me. It could be true, but it's also a recurring theme in my mind.
Has anyone suggested the scientific approach? A Neurofeedback specialist can analyze the problem by looking at the brain activity. If you have severe activity causing your thoughts to race this will cause severe anxiety. Neurofeedback can unlock the brain. My son has had 26 sessions and is feeling extremely better.
u r fucking gorgeous woman, i have SA too but im in the same boat as you being gorgeous ( im a guy) iim stuck in the middle of stage 2 as well and i def hear and know what ur saying about everything just know you wil overcome it, especailly when some egotistical ass hits on you just be yoiurself and he will fall in love trust me!! LMAO
I finally tried TMS therapy. 30 treatments. No pills...no head shrinking.
They have some vids on YouTube. I'm not 100% yet, but I'm feeling like I have a choice whether to be outgoing or not. I just have less anxiety all around.
Everyone who suffers from Social Anxiety should totally google Morty Lefkoe ASAP. He has the permanent cure.
dispacct1 7 hours ago
so true
candorpluslove 2 days ago
ur really have beautiful eyes and everything you said is exactly how i feel but its like everyday of going to school wcctialy helps me im living with it for over 6 years but now in highschool i can feel mysellf wondering less about what poeple think off me and i really hope you and all sad sufferers out there also finds a stage in their lifes to feel free and stop carring what poeple think.God bless
Theanielas 2 days ago
Hi sweety, i kno its been 4 years since youve posted this video, and i hope youve pushed through your SA, ive had social anxiety off and on for the past year, and it is very frustrating to deal with, and the only thng tht is going to help you is by facing your fears, and i kno from experience tht its much easier sed than done and its easier to just hide, but tht is not going to help you at all, i kno tht for a fact, it will be very uncomfortable to face your fears but just take baby steps :)
11faulkner1 6 days ago
hiiiiiiii i too have social anxiety i am tryind to deal with it its very difficult
ashwinstar007 6 days ago
I get psychosomatic symptoms. Sometimes when I think of raising my hand in class, my heart starts to beat rapidly as hell. I also tend to get some sort of weird feeling in chest even if my mind is calm, but something unusual is going to happen.
Archferumphis 6 days ago
@Archferumphis That feeling in ur chest. is it like some1/something is gripping ur heart and sqeezes is so hard.. u cant breath properly? I can recognize that.. I got this less and less when I met more friends who I felt comfortable with. And they accept me who I am.
ghillas16 3 days ago
Great video, im 21 years old, have anorexia, and pretty bad Social anxiety. I have trouble leaving the apartment, making eye contact, never even had a girlfriend. Been on quite a few meds as well I'd be so grateful to have a girlfriend like you, hope I can find someone like you one day, Hope your feeling better these days, your not alone :)
NotSober100 1 week ago
You shouldn't have social phobia girl. You are YOUNG and PRETTY, never take that for granted. Imagen that you could have been born short, fat and butt ugly; think how different your life would have been then!? Probably a lot less viewers for your video too ;)
Maloperverso 1 week ago
So beautiful...and insightful and perceptive and understanding...It's so hard to find girls like you amidst the arrogant bitches that talk lots of shit...
ImSofaKingGood 1 week ago
Please people, if you suffer with anxiety or depression from a early age get tested for pyroluria.
Also check histamine levels, along with copper blood test..
Everyone who has anxiety disorders has adrenal fatigue or adrenal exhaustion depending on how long you have had anxiety.
bamptonbred 2 weeks ago
wow your gorgeous
gorillaRooster 2 weeks ago
This was really inspiring to watch. My social anxiety has somehow gotten WAY worse in the last few years, and it's affecting my ability to upload my own videos.
Gropings 2 weeks ago
@miissmiaa Mapofmates or social anxiety forums are great websites to meet other sufferers on.
sarrishaa 2 weeks ago
Illusion is a mask itself; fear is anxiety. You fear negative reaction, and in turn, this makes you anxious. But you must understand this negative reaction you so fear and anticipate is fake, a mask to hide the truth. And the truth is this: If one realizes the true nature of anxiety, then one stops fearing being afraid. Soon this concept sweeps over you and you realize just how simple it is to be fearless, and slowly the confidence starts to build, now your anxiety is left in the dust
InTeNsItYuNdEfInEd 3 weeks ago
Go to the gym, exercise
It helps.
sebaswildboy 3 weeks ago
I am not sure if I suffer from this or not.. I do take risks and find it very scary and I after I talk to someone I always feel they didn't like talking to me. And I think about it a lot... but I love music and performing So I try to do things like that and I can do them but i feel a little sick doing them and I shake a lot afterwards. I cant talk to new people and I dont like going out the house in case i see someone I know...
2kmandrake 3 weeks ago
I like how you break it down I was going through the same thing in 2010,didn't know what was happening to me it just hit me.i couldn't do anything..I didn't leave the house for about a year.i was taking alporozam to sleep.
420Pangea 3 weeks ago
All you SA fellows should come and talk to us other sufferers at MOM (mapofmates . com)!
miissmiaa 4 weeks ago 8
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dificulde.tenho a conocer el mismo problema, parece no tener salida, pero con el uso de medicamentos adecuados han tenido buenos resultados, después de haber tenido varias alteraciones mentales,espero so recuperación,y puede sonreír de nuevo!charlezfuz@hotmail.com
Carlos51748 1 month ago
We need some sort of gathering so all of us, who deal with SA can help eachother
xCleverlyx 1 month ago
i have this problem ....i always think people picking on me from every where on the tv or in they cars
MATT111MARTIN 1 month ago
I KNOW HOW TO HELP YOU YOU HAVE TO FIND GOD THROUGH THAT YOU WILL GAIN HEART AN CONFIDENCE TRUST ME WATCH MY VIDEOS!!!!!!
platinumloco 1 month ago
see my video on social phobia in teens
platinumloco 1 month ago
I think you truly know that you have SAD when you've tried so hard for so long to break free of it but you still have it. Thats when you know your fucked. SAD for life
CallidusAnguis 1 month ago
i can relate 100% to every thing you say. i've experienced every stage you mention. SAD sucks!!!! but we can't let anxiety win we need to be strong and fight this monster!! haha good vid.
TheSADdaydreamerr 1 month ago
Basically you have stuck yourself because you are scared. You need to understand that you can unstuck yourself too. Its a simple choice. Ask yourself "do i enjoy being like this, if so why?" humans are creatures of habit. Truthfully though, change should be embraced. My advice to you is to spend time with yourself and write down all the things that make you unhappy and try and unravell what exactly has made you so sad. This works but only if you are willing to embrace change.
joinery11 1 month ago
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@joinery11 You like telling people what to do yes?
And do you suffer from Social Terrorism?
Rethorical question, I'm sure ...
Soveraine 1 month ago
Gorgeous
RCplaneCLUB 1 month ago
the dialogue is about the nature of thought
Gustavschneckentritt 1 month ago
have a look at the dialogue between Krishnamurti and Dr. W Anderson
Gustavschneckentritt 1 month ago
Omg I thought I was the only one who felt this way. Sometimes you think you know what they're saying about you in there head and it's usually always negative and you get really anxious when a person keeps trying to hold a conversation with you because you don't want them to think your boring. And you don't want them to stare at you for long periods of time because you don't want them to notice any of your flaws. Thankyou for sharing this video thumbs up its nice to know I'm not alone.
MsKayDanielle 1 month ago
You're soo beautiful *_*
TheOblivionFan 1 month ago 2
Wow, that's how I feel most of the time. I thought it was just because im a loser that i don't deserve to have friends so i will do everything in my power to socially alienate myself. Its comforting to know that its a actual condition, thx for your vid. If you ever need a boost, i like your attitude and i think you are gorgoues, thank you for making the world a better place :-)
pedros19801 1 month ago
im crying, writing this... but thumbed up faved and subscribed..
PivotGuardianDZ 1 month ago
accepts your bad feelings/sensation in socializing with other people... Get USE to it and accept who you truly are inside and in outside world... EVERYONE can loved by the other people.. and especially don't forget to PRAY... :D
kumii15 1 month ago
ur beutiful
Greasyxx 1 month ago
I was normal before i hit puberty, then i got all of the anxiety disorders =[
JohanBomholt 2 months ago
People think im fake because im like this in public, but when I get to know someone, im a little more talkative person.
yeabudie745 2 months ago 2
@yeabudie745 me too :l
Wubblez10 2 months ago
Wow i can relate. For instance, i'm starting to apply to different jobs now which is really..not fun. I usually get uptight when i socialize and so i talk as little as possible. Then afterwards i feel upset because i keep thinking of how i could have done better which usually means more communication which i have a hard time doing...yeah it sucks.
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miissmiaa 2 months ago
I used to be worse when I was younger, but I still have it. It bubbles up even with people I've been outgoing with and hung out with a lot. Its random for me. But surprisingly I've come over a lot of it, probably cause I'm getting older so its not as a big deal. The main area I have a lot of SA is with girls when it comes to trying to date or be more than a friend. I have issues when it comes to that as far as SA, especially when I usually get burned when I do try. Good video. You're not alone
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miissmiaa 3 months ago
check out the other videos about agoraphobia/anxiety - all the girls are hot @_@
mdak91 3 months ago
i feel for u and think u have done a very good job on explaineing how u-me fell after watching this i am now able 2 put in2 words the way i have always spent my life.... ty and gl
ShamLess02 3 months ago
I am so proud of you for speaking up! I think that I have a minor case of social phobia. I never heard anyone actually indentify the stages of it, which I have felt, and listening to you really brings things into perspective for me which allows me to control these behaviors to a certain extent.
flylovesong 3 months ago
omg! so true good for your getting into stage 2 im still in stage 1 you are very beautiful will you marry me?
yossijoeyX 3 months ago
@DanielKohbad hi im here....um my names colby im 17 i had sp all my life
aberrant456 3 months ago
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aberrant456 3 months ago
I am going through the same thing. You have split it well into 3 stages..it's a vicious circle. I am at stage one now. It's very difficult to live with. I am 38 and i must say it was always bad but it gets worse when you get older. As they say you can't teach old dog a new trick. I suggest to deal with it as long as you are young. My heart goes up to you.
tinarett 3 months ago
I see mc2method or selftherapy is the best, you can for free listen to it online at selftherapy org The man has so clean and strong voice, and talks also about some other problems, but i can't say anything is it true, i am still learning, listening to it, what do you say about??? For me I beleive that is true.
ThePhDChemist 3 months ago
Fascinating and insightful blog, thankyou for posting this. I want to meet this girl but she has social anxiety and has difficulty answering the phone and meeting up. I'm convinced there is something special about her and so I keep trying my best to understand but keep to her pace. Not much progress has been made but I'm convinced we would be good for each other.
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stripthatfatweightlo 3 months ago
guess what! if you don't like school, you won't want to be there. and if you don't want to be there, you'll try not to seem to be there. then you won't be there cuz no one will notice you. you got what you wanted. happy?
(this applies to all things that you don't want to do but must do no matter what you want. if you have to do it, you might as well make the best of it, right? ah, the conundrum.)
nobodysXghost 4 months ago
Searching for other people with social anxiety.. Girl or boy i don't care just need to talk about it with someone who understands..
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eduyjrm20 4 months ago
@DanielKohbad right here.
BinaryReader 4 months ago
@BinaryReader thank you.. do you have skype? only to send messeges not use camera, cause youtube isn't the best place..
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AwwwMuffinz 4 months ago
You are very pretty! What helped me the most was getting a "puplic" job in which I had to talk to strangers all the time, because I was payed to do so. In my case it was selling photo frames at a large DIY store. It didn't feel like I was representing myself, but this store instead, I just had to help people out with the same stuff over and over, which gave me the room to observe what was going on, on a non verbal level, and to gradually adjust my behavior to the point where I didn't feel tensi
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RosalieStreet 4 months ago
i used to just sit alown in school but idt i could talk to people i was just scared to be in a large amount of people?
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zytigon 4 months ago
i'm a (attractive) black gay guy with a social anxiety disorder......so I have a lot of shit to deal with...but it gets better every year...I use to not be able to walk from pt A to pt B, without looking horrified and walking funny.
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vivekapply 4 months ago
I just have to say YOUR SO BEAUTIFUL!!! GOd i wish i lived near you then we can both go through Social anxiety together :))
Aries25x 4 months ago
i wanna hug you.
BastardViking 4 months ago
Looks like the girl from Twilight lol. I think her ears look similar to mine, big kind of like an elfs.
Dirkzy 4 months ago
No matter what "stage" your in, people will see you or they won't, people will talk or they won't, they'll like you or they won't. Who gives a shit, anyway? You're not "in a stage", you are a person and you are just alright the way you are.
TheLycaeum 4 months ago 2
Hope you feel better soon sweetheart. I was very shy as a kid but I quickly grew out of it. Stop living for people and allowing them to dictate your behavior, Live for your self and be strong.
pakhazman 4 months ago 17
@pakhazman It's not about being shy. You can't "grow out of" social anxiety disorder. Jesus christ... >__>
Cass0emoheart 2 months ago
@pakhazman Easier said then done
yeabudie745 2 months ago
@pakhazman people with social anxiety DON'T grow out of it, it's jus getting WORSE and WORSE. It's in your mind, it's just these obsessive thoughts accompanied by constant fear and tension in your body, which won't go away. At first, you don't understand it, you think if you try to endure it all, then it will go away, but it never does. Also, you start experiwncing severe depression and you just wanna die.
tingDoll 1 month ago 3
Stage 2 :(
mizterFREDDY 5 months ago
Im 51 years of age and im going to give all of you younger people advice. The biggest problem with SAD is that it leads to avoidance behaviour. No matter how nervous or easily embarrassed u get u will not die. Sure people will notice and disapprove of you. But remember you have spoken to people before so you know you can do it. You just have to be consistent. The pain and torment will be hard to bear but the pain and torment of depression if you avoid will be worse. Avoidance will ill you
raccuia1 5 months ago
I was so bad I purposely failed out of middle school to avoid high school... It gets better...
istayaway1 5 months ago
I developed halitophobia because of drinking too much. Now that I've fixed the drinking part and I no longer have halitosis, why the hell am I still feeling anxiety around people eventhough I know I don't wreak like alcohol?
tkathryyn 5 months ago
what is hard for me is i can't be happy cause if I feel pain from being alone I can't say anything cause I'm worried what other people think.
okamifox13 5 months ago
Try inositol for anxiety. Check out Dr. Peers videos.
dino33ca 5 months ago
I still struggle from time to time, but i 'm not where I was three years ago, all because I put my trust in the One who created the both of us. My advise for you is run to Jesus. Not forcing a religion on you but this ain't about religion. It's about establishing a relationship with your Creator that He longs for. Don't go to Him just because of the disorder, but recognize that we sinned against a perfect God and Jesus is the only way to Him. It all starts with repentance and faith and trust in
sbJC2121983 5 months ago
Hey bishi4me. I've severely had this disorder for the majority of my life. Some people are outspoken, some people aren't. But we were all made in the likeness and image of God. God didn't give us the spirit of fear. If God created us, He can fix us. But sin seperated us from Him. The only advise and hope I can give to you is found in Jesus Christ. I'm 28 years old but I became a born again believer about three years ago. I used to be afraid of being aroud people
sbJC2121983 5 months ago
I also have social anxiety. I also don't talk to people. It made me uncomfortable, nervous and shy. It had al my life, from my childhood. Now my age is 24.
sha6193 5 months ago
I also have social anxiety. I also don't talk to people. It made me uncomfortable, nervous and shy.
sha6193 5 months ago
Oh wow!!! 2007 are you still there?? I notice alot of videos are from years ago ,not sure if I comment or not anyways I'm a YouTube newbie.
Shurupadi 5 months ago
Believe me I understand I have suffered lifelong. You Tube is fantastic bcz every time someone like you shares their story it really helps me. I feel more energy and a Hugh wieght is lifted. Here's something (not sure even what stage this would be ) but I will try to raise the energy of the room "slightly" by acting as if I have a bit more energy and so in return the person(s) im with they start to match my energy and I noticed that it can really help . The thing is it's got to be a desire on y
Shurupadi 5 months ago
youre probably think this is silly but i been living whith this all my life im 35 now and finally i found something that helps me and thats praying to god i know it sounds crazy but its been giving me confidence
yhx1000000 5 months ago
Would you be my girlfriend?
alden009 5 months ago
If you need any help with anxiety visit my channel I help myself and you can do same as well. :)
TvMeditation 5 months ago
hi i liked your video and it helped me though a difficult time
Nuala83 5 months ago
Thank you so much for this video! I'm 21 years old and I had social anxiety my whole life. Because of it I lost so much, so many missed opportunities, so many friends I will never have, so many things I will never experience.
It's so good to know that I'm not alone in this, that there are people like me out there.
magiczoo 5 months ago 15
Great video. Thank you so much. Its nice to see a video of someone who actually has Social Anxiety. Very well done.
ironkatia 5 months ago
I fill that I have the same problem..like whenever my family try calling me I never answer the phone and I never answer the door..which I think also causes me to have depression...like as of right now its 2pm in the afternoon and I'm home alone inside my dark room with all the blinds closed ....and it sucks because I have a wife and daughter that's out at a family gathering right now without me.
jr2robinson7900 5 months ago
I always think someone is being two faced and get paranoide people arnt truthfull about how they feel about me.. I am a mess.. I feel like people talk behind my back
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stina8236 5 months ago
I feel this way daily .. I know how you feel.. it sucks ..
stina8236 5 months ago
OMG, you so beutifull, can´t believe you have SAD...
EkaterinaItsMePedro 5 months ago
you are my favourite human being.
aom9010 6 months ago
I wish I could just hug you.
Sivels 6 months ago
flat nose and small ears i hate it when people say that to me -_-
kurtanglerocks555 6 months ago
i want to commit suicide because of it but my mum has lost two loved ones so i just keep living for my mums happiness
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noodlez4me 6 months ago
@noodlez4me bro just dont give a fuck about any thing.. just listen to some loud fuckin music... or shit like that.. i did that for a month and now im good..
note : i had a fuckin strict arab parent... for all my fuckin life...
slingmoe94 5 months ago
wow wow ow you all stupid right.only ugly people have sa ,you all think like that.
you can be very good looking but not perfect .you can find a flaw or more about you.it is about negativity .stop telling her that she is beautiful ,fuking idiots.and when someone is uglyb he deserves sa right.YOU ALL HAVE NO GOD.
WhiteMoonLights 6 months ago
i am a very handsome guy with Social Anxiety
drunkenp0t 6 months ago
Thank you so much for sharing.
iusedtohaveaname 6 months ago
Anxiety attacks are just the mind afraid of losing control. The truth is that we are not in control. Just knowing this helps anxiety go away. A free book called "The Present" helped me a lot with my anxiety attacks, and understanding my mind. To find it, go to Truthcontest(dot)com and look under the entries. It is the first one.
DemianHermann 6 months ago
You're hot and fuckable. Let's get it on
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punnanpro 6 months ago
@punnanpro There is a lot more to life than sex and what society deems currently physically acceptable.
iusedtohaveaname 6 months ago
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of course there is more to life then women. but women are only good for 2 things, sex and babies. and this is FACT. men have many other pursuits besides women, if anyone should take your advice, it certainly isn't men.
punnanpro 6 months ago
@punnanpro I was not addressing men or women, but, rather, all people and their acceptance and perpetuation of social binaries.
iusedtohaveaname 6 months ago
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The solution to your problems is not to feel sorry for yourself, but to find a solution, and it's called "The Happiness Trap" on Amazon. Your welcome.
punnanpro 6 months ago
lol 'Ambien!' -shakes bottle-
WootMapler 6 months ago
Dude I tried stage two with the people i live with...it failed so bad and i went back to stage 1 with them. they hate me! they say I make them feel uncomfortable and they left. now im almost 100% sure the others are holding it against me that they left. I CANT, WHY cant they understand that!
HeartlessArchAngel69 6 months ago
Thanks for posting this!
sweetpeariot 6 months ago
For me social anxiety is like a Drug u get Addicted to it... Real addicted to all the Negative thoughts in your mind....A every painful, struggle N loneliness to face along the Broken Road Ma Friend.....But just like a Broken Road we can learn to fix it and face it with no fear......(just start small)... talk to the people closest to u and Never lost ur faith in God.... build your confidence through that.....
Bladeofthreelandz 6 months ago
Good Video.
weerobot 7 months ago
Mine came from family abuse, they made me feel like a worthless dog. Even my aunts, uncle and cousins would point out every fault in me which makes SA worse. The world is an evil place and people abuse people with SA to make themselves feel better. People are hardly accepting and kind to us, they only feel remorse people with physical handicaps!
ScientistSoundSytem 7 months ago
I definitely understand her situation. I dropped out of high school due to it. Most people will never understand the symptoms of this disorder. For me I would start to sweat, feel nauseous, start to get the shakes and my heart rate would go through the roof. Lastly I would avoid eye contact at all costs. Luckily after two years of dealing with it I somehow overcame this disorder without the aid of a therapist. My advice, get yourself in EVERY social situation that you can. Confront your demons!
yoginyomom 7 months ago
@yoginyomom I dropped out of high school because of SAD too.. my parents thought that I didn't go to school because I was lazy or I couldn't "wake up" because I slept late at night. My brother tried to talk to teachers about it but it made me feel even worse. That was two years ago, I am now taking my high school exams in a private instituition and I still get really nervous around people sometimes but atleast I try not to avoid it now...
sirpecky 6 months ago
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No worries, the anxiety will persist for a while. But it will just get easier and easier. I have worked at a few retail stores, man was that a nightmare at first. Though I think that kind of environment with a ton of people that are always changing helped me tremendously.
Stay strong and I am extremely happy to hear you are taking the first steps. Good luck on your HSD.
yoginyomom 6 months ago
I think the key to trying to defeat the main problem with social anxiety ( avoidance) is to constantly and consistently push the envelope and get yourself out of your comfort zone. Even if you pass out doing the exposure you won't die. You will dust yourself off and carry on. Its quite fun challenging yourself because when you're in the situation you feel yourself doing the living not the thinking about and stressing. A famous football coach in australia used to say "don't think, dooo."
raccuia1 7 months ago 2
Hey guys, I'm a therapist and I'm working on a new blog and video series to help people overcome social anxiety. I hope you'll check it out and help me build a community. Just search for my user name.
SocialAnxietyDr 7 months ago
You are a beautiful girl. You have much to live for. Make your life more important than the anxiety. Release it like a balloon. You can do it.
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TheResurrectedLight 7 months ago
Does anyone else's mind wander when your sitting with a group of people, if so does your vision kind of blur and you can't really see around your peripherals it always happens to me and i get kind of paranoid sometimes and it makes it look like people are looking at me and then i get freaked :L
insanebuzzie 7 months ago 3
i am having thoughts of suicide because of my socail phobia
kurtanglerocks555 7 months ago
They say you reflect yourself in the eyes of others. If you are often met with positive eyes you will believe what you see. A rare negative look will mean nothing cause you know it isn't true. But when you are met with negative eyes too often, you see yourself as negative, as bad. One positive look is going to have the same effect as the previous example. It's not just about how you see yourself, it's also about how others are seeing you or have seen you in the past that is rooted in you.
ZeonGenesis 7 months ago
i have SA i think. its weird but im getting bored talking to my friends so i shut them out and idk i just get bored talking to people period because i feel like its boring so i don't is that bad ? T-T
castyourlastshadow 7 months ago
even my mom has told me i look funny and she sometimes starts to laugh and it makes me feel bad :( thats why im thinking of maybe losing weight to see if it will gain my confidence and even when i go to work its hard 1 of my dads workers even looks at me just to see how nervouse i am and he kinda starts to laugh :( and it hurts my feelings a lot.any advice please
thepoopstinks1 7 months ago
ive had social anxiety for 2 years ughhh i hate it when im around people i feel like their staring at me and i just feel like getting away from everyone and i feel like everyone is judging the way i look and act...ever since i gained weight i feel like everyone is thinking i look funny and see me as a joke...even my dad 1 time i was talking to him and he laughd a bit because of the way i look uggggh when will it go away :(
thepoopstinks1 7 months ago
I had social anxiety, but I no longer do. After a while, I got fed up with people misunderstanding me and being alone. It was SO painful. I still have times when I fret about conversations that I had in the past and whether I said something stupid. But I soon come to realize, who cares? Does it really matter what other people think? I feel the pain from being alone and isolated hurts more than any possible negative opinion people may have about you.
asian897 7 months ago 33
why you feel bad its not because any1 else is putting you down but urself. if you work on stop putting urself down. your brain will adapt better an ul have more confidence to go out and do things. ul need 2 take risks and face your fears. and its not all a one way road there are bumps n cracks along the way which u will need 2 figure out. god bless x
milpup20 7 months ago
its a mind disease u cant control your mind
for example if u like to eat apples or cereals u cant dislike
is all about how you think
and yes usualy is the pretty girls also boys that usualy got this mind disease
foroeste1 7 months ago 3
@foroeste1 im a pretty boy and i have this not only the pretty girls
celtic4ever18 7 months ago
@foroeste1 I know right? There was this girl in my school, she was so shy.....but oh my god she was cute!
LolVermillion 7 months ago
it's so hard for me to walk alone on the street because i think everyone is staring at me! I don't pick up the phone because i am so afraid. I hate going out.i am already 18 years old. and i never had a boyfriend and it's all because i think that nobody likes me. and i think i am so ugly, i get so many compliments that i have a great body/face, they always tell me i should start modelling but i don't believe them, i feel so strange when somebody gives me compliments :(
SomeKindOfMagie 7 months ago 3
@SomeKindOfMagie Wow...so you've never had anyone? I understand hahaha, like, I think "Why the hell would she like me? I'm the ugliest person I know! Is she sick in the head?"
LolVermillion 7 months ago
@LolVermillion no, I never had a boyfriend, I think I am gonna die as a virgin :D When a boy has a crush on me and if I have a crush on him I try everything not to show my emotions to him because I don't wanna be close with anyone cuz I think I am so ugly and they don't wanna hang out with me ;( I push everyone away from me....
SomeKindOfMagie 7 months ago
@SomeKindOfMagie Yeah I feel you, like if they get to know me they'll get bored of me and leave me, so why try? Even if they like me I feel like we're worlds apart somehow. I do that too, though I want to be with someone I can't help but shut them out of my life, I won't get into it but there's just so many fears, what they'll think of me, what people say if I'm with someone, etc......
Hope you overcome someday.
I hate it, it's seriously messing with my life on many levels.
I bet you ain't ugly.
LolVermillion 7 months ago
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I bet you ain't ugly too :D
I feel a bit better, since I know that I am not the only one who has this disease. I always thought I am a freak and they just need to lock me up somewhere :D
....and yeah, on eday we will overcome this fucking disease!
SomeKindOfMagie 7 months ago
Do you realize that thousands of decent guys would roller skate backwards to Texas to go out with you!
I wouldn't be surprised if you were 280 pounds with zits with this problems.
Sweetheart, you are BEAUTIFUL.
I wish I knew you when I was 20, you are a diamond in the rough!!!!1
Thoeswerethedays 7 months ago
hey thanks for your video
twinspeaksful 7 months ago
your beautiful
yellowcatme 7 months ago
I am surprised at how many attractive people have social anxiety you are so cute............Thanks for your video........... Glad to see I am not alone.
l0stlin3s 7 months ago 62
@l0stlin3s yeah it could be coz we were over protected
celtic4ever18 6 months ago
@l0stlin3s This is so true, I recall that in high school I sat behind a really cute girl. I was afraid to talk to her, I figured she was a stuck up bitch. I introduced myself to her, and after that she was talking to me like as if we had known each other for years. We were both afraid to talk to each other out of fear of rejection. I see two different people in a number of mirrors that I look into, at times I see an attractive guy and others the opposite. I don't know how I look.lol
UniverseOffspring 4 months ago
How can you make a video if you have a social phobia? You seem just fine to me. Maybe you just over analyze?
omgbygollywow 7 months ago
@omgbygollywow making a video does not consider people being around you its not really social making a video is basically communicating without the having people around its much more easier i think the only worry about making videos is what will people think, will they judge me for what i said, how i look.....
Frando87 7 months ago
@omgbygollywow It's because it's a safety net in a way, it's the internet, she has the option to not give a flying fuck about me, you or anyone else that comments here, just because someone has social phobia does not mean they are scared shitless of the world.
LolVermillion 7 months ago
i wanna be close to ppl but when i try im boring and they go hang out with their real friends
noodlez4me 7 months ago
@noodlez4me exactly the same with me. I feel like they hate me because i am so boring and ugly :(
SomeKindOfMagie 7 months ago
@SomeKindOfMagie same
kurtanglerocks555 7 months ago
Thank you for sharing this video. Like you, I am also dealing with a large amount of social anxiety on a daily basis. I hope you don't worry too much if people are judging you for putting yourself out there. You are very courageous and have a big heart. Good luck dealing with SA, and never forget that you are making a difference. Keep up the good work, -Matt
simplyStatic33 7 months ago
Thank you for doing this video. I am 58 yrs old, have been in denial all my life because of the stigma that comes with mental health problems. I have been so scared of every situation, but carry on like it is nothing.. until I break down in tears and run away. always blushing, tongue tied.. it is horrible.. I am going to seek treatment as I am tired of running, but afraid of the meds and being alone. you are sweet, keep up the good work, helping people is your niche.
flowerchild77777 8 months ago 3
I can't stand people who put down others with any kind of mental illness or anxiety issues. People may only see our flaws because they fail to get to know each of us and how each of us can have good qualities.
RB902050 8 months ago
Thanks for taking the risk you took to make this video. I am really struggling at the moment, particularly at work. I just had a melt down this afternoon because i am back at work tomorrow for another week and my anxiety is making life hell there. I feel like everyone hates me. It could be true, but it's also a recurring theme in my mind.
sarahscollage 8 months ago
I had no idea so many beautiful girls such as this one has social phobia.
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Diane9773 8 months ago
you seriously summed this up better than i could ever explain to anyone about what i go through with this disorder
ninjaturtlesbang7 8 months ago
"maybe I'm the only one who goes through this"
there are 6,920,280,294 people in this world, you're not the only one who goes through anything. people have it a lot worse
icoshp 8 months ago
@icoshp u shut ur mouth punk
rjp9871 8 months ago
@rjp9871 you mad, faggot?
icoshp 8 months ago
@icoshp come at me bro ill spit in ur eye
rjp9871 8 months ago
hey, she is one of the brave ones. you shouldn't be putting her down like that. i'm very proud of her.
MrLink003 8 months ago
It's like if u know me!
AlejandroN2r2 8 months ago
beautiful !
chaddchaddful 8 months ago
I totally find myself in this video....
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socialanxietydisable 8 months ago 10
Ur video helped me alot!! :)
carlyh2os100 8 months ago
u r fucking gorgeous woman, i have SA too but im in the same boat as you being gorgeous ( im a guy) iim stuck in the middle of stage 2 as well and i def hear and know what ur saying about everything just know you wil overcome it, especailly when some egotistical ass hits on you just be yoiurself and he will fall in love trust me!! LMAO
Bainer55 8 months ago
i dont understand how girls as pretty as u can have these problems
zwap12 8 months ago
@zwap12 i know! ive seen a couple of these types of videos and many of them have been very attractive girls
RattleheadAnthony 8 months ago
I finally tried TMS therapy. 30 treatments. No pills...no head shrinking.
They have some vids on YouTube. I'm not 100% yet, but I'm feeling like I have a choice whether to be outgoing or not. I just have less anxiety all around.
MonacoBlast 8 months ago