Holy shit this is just what I needed to hear. I always bother myself saying I could be so so much better and recall my best moments when I felt so good. I just need to accept that this is me and I can't keep dwindling on the past ecstasies (not drugs lol).
Am very unconfident i always think so much when i talk someone icant talk staight way an some time i think to say something but i cant say i feel shy with everyone but i dont want to to people think that am shy an uncofident but i cant help it.an i cry so much an take stress all the time am very worried about my self now am married an in a new house an its more hard for mr:-(:-(if i cant talk with any one in my language i mean (urdu) so how am gonna speak in english that i dont know well.:-|:-(
The higher you start off in life the lower you fall and it's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything. Then you'll realise that what other people say and think about you is none of your business. The polite have the strong eye, and if you treat others the way you want to be treated, whilst holding on to positive dreams, you can do whatever you want with this short life. amen
im so selfconcious constantly, i worry so much about what other people are thinking about me. I'm only confident around my friends, until I realised that one of my 'friends' have been talking about me behind your back, then I closed up and stopped being confident with my friends. But i worry that if i act too confident then people are still going to be saying things about me, I can never win!!
Fuck man , my exams are just around the corner and i dont have confidence in myself after what people said about me and spread rumours about me. FML!!
@ZephySeffeh don't listen to what over people say ; people spread rumours because you're important , significant and they are just jealous of you ! btw good luck with your exams !
Well, when my patients ask me if I can help them with their confidence, I always do.
I let them know why they're not confident and this is after vigorous clinical tests.
All my patients suffer from "a give a fuck" syndrome.
This mental illness is known to eat away individuality, make people act from their normal routine. I usually subscribe them with the clinically proven "don't give a fuck" therapy combined medication. 100% of them overcome their illness.
To be honest, i think most people are not confident because they lack particular experience or that childhood experience was awful.
I think what would help now is to understand who you are, that combined with patience and understanding of yourself, might help you brush off things that would in other cases break you down.
@tybash Yes, I do think I lack particular experience.. to be more clear, I probably lack social experience. I think it was caused because we used to move a lot and it was hard making new friends.
im confident when im with friends and family and act myself but when im around people i dont know or boys that i like it go bright red, dont know what to say and get really embarrassed. I dont know what to do anymore because i really like this boy and i cant even talk to him be cause my lacking confidence doesnt let me. please help x
@TheLilmisscutiepie listen here is a tip that helped me practice in the mirror talking as if you were talking to they guy/girl you like it really built my confidence but just try that,
@TheLilmisscutiepie your beautiful .. say it to your self over and over and then talk to him he might not be into you he might be dont be scared to have a go. that first step is always the hardest but after that it gets easier :)))) x
@TheLilmisscutiepie u have been giving far too much of your own power away to this boy you like. How well do you know him? There's nothing u have to say to him. What do you want to say? Unless he knows you really well, this boy has no idea who u are so can't reject you. If he's good enough for you, you'll find that out. If not, he's no big loss and u've still got every wonderful thing in your life like family, friends etc.
@thesmithhouse9 I dont have too. I am slowly becoming more confident. That's why I watch these videos. Plus, Im only 12. So figures why I hate like everything about myself.
@BaileyEatsRainbows I'd still look after your mental and emotional well being in some way. And,since you were confident about not liking yourself, it's pretty obvious you've got a lot of confidence you can tap into when you need it.
@AlixWii Well, how do you know that's been true for you in the past? Who or what told u that? And since when is behaviour and identity the same thing?
I'm very shy and it's hard for me to make new friends plus I have social anxiety, I would like to change that about my self so I don't care what people think. please any one, if you have advice help me out.
@okamifox13 Ahh, just own it!!! Be silly! Don't be afraid to laugh at urself! Forget about everyone else! Have fun! Like seriously, everything u don't like about yourself (that you think others will judge u for) embrace it e.g. your really shy - laugh about it, find places in which ur not shy and just apply everything from there to all the time! <3
Hi I'm 16 I have no confidence and extremely shy which is why I have no friends which makes me feel worse in myself to think that no one likes me! I'm moving to a new school and country is there anything I can do that will help make friends and actually be happy at school??? I feel very isolated how can I gain more self confidence???
@Pinknut16 Sure people like you! You got to show yourself to them first! If you show them your UNCONFIDENT and SHY and AWKWARD side, thats not you! You sure dont feel shy here on youtube by posting that message and asking for help! Show them the OPEN side of you and people will like you! that means be the REAL yourself and dont think there is a STRATEGY to get friends... it will just happen by being nice to the people you want to be friends with! ;)
@Pinknut16 mate look at me i was shy. i stopped caring nd stepped up. Your 16 and im 18. I stopped being shy when i was 17 by creating role models for example if Jesus was in my position or goku then theyd confront whatever situation they have and i must do the same. I just started uni and iv made friends after 5 days. Well i actually talk about myself say hi, talk to the teacher or lecturer. Trust me mate everyone is shy, nobody is born with it. Chewing gum helps a lot as wel
I was the most shyest, least self confident person on earth.
My friends ditched me, and I never had the confidence to confront them, resulting in me being miserable for three years. It didn't help that I had a problem with the muscles in my throat and couldn't talk coherently. I gave up talking altogether because I was scared of people making fun of my voice.
But now I speak up more confidentally and now have lots of wonderful supporting friends.
ok can someone help me out...im 14 and i have a speaking assesment at my school but im really scared...i have to stand in front of a class and do a speech, how do i become confident in doing it and how do i sound confident in doing it....someone help me plz :(
@TheHugeRedButton oh thank you, ill just try that, wow you helped me just on time too because my speech is tomorrow, thanks alot and thank you, your cool too xx
@CoverProductionz well...it was scary, especially becoz i went first xx but i used yer advice nd it wasnt so bad, then i volanteered to do another speech in one of my other classes :D so im not scared 2 do it no more , thank uu <3
Brilliant advice, seriously. I've been adjusting to anxiety disorder for a couple of years and this is some of the best information on it that I've read.
i have been bullied all my life, by bullies at school and even the teachers, they either were mean to me because i was black or because i was ugly. This made me lose ALL of my confidence, This will not help my future dreams as a singer, because if i make it as a singer i will have to to concerts infront of hundreds, thousands and even millions of people! I doubt i will though because its hard to get a job these days but great video!
i am not confident in anything about me.. i dont have any particular talents or skills, its not that im horrible at making friends or that im ugly but i have never had a boyfriend because i don't know how to act.. i need more confidence:(
im am the worst case each time i wanna get to a girl and i think wath i dont have and i feel a nobody and i let her go , i never had a girlfriend before and im not ugly just don t have self confidence and i wanna be more than tis guy .
I will try to build self confident from today onward, because, I don't have any self confidence, in myself, right now. :( Thanks a LLOOT!! for these tips. :)
I have no confidence. But also I am too nice to change. I like myself too much just as I am. It's a dilemma that has followed me through life. Need to get confidence but need to stay the same. Help.
I am only confident when i'm locked away in my room,alone with my music on.Everyone thinks i'm confident but reallyi'm very insercure.I punch the mirror because i hate what i look like.People call me pretty but i don't see.I wear allot of makeup and I'm really mean to boys when they like me, I don't mean to be.I hate myself i can't be confident with my own mam and when i'm hyper i allways think the person i'm talking to dones't like me they think i'm werid so i stop talking.Someone help me? plz!
Self confidence has to do with fear, but not what people think of you. Self confidence is bravery, and only 'great warriors' are brave. In more simpler terms, you can only have more self confidence if you can defeat your enemies.
hi where is your clinic can i get help ,how much do u charge? an atheist have destroyed my belive in god i want to come back to religion and again have that confident and belive can i recover right now i do belive in god but i dont have confident in me pls reply
I have a drama exam on monday and i'm so scared about having to do something by myself or have to improvise because i really suck being under pressure and put on the spot. I took drama to get more confident but i haven't really seen much change in myself. I'm a complete and utter nervous wreck and i can't get the exam off my mind. Can you give me any tips on how to get really confident, really fast? Even just for the exam. Please help :)
Isnt life too short to be not confident? Probably when I turn 80 I will regret that I wasted my time worrying what others think of me. But the sad thing is, I just can't change...
@amsterdamska you can change! You need to believe in yourself, there is so much help out there, read books, listen to podcasts, watch videos. i used to think i couldn't change but i am and have changed alot since then. I know you can do it, don't give up on yourself!
wow, Thanks Laura! I watched your other vid, I have recurring anxiety attacks that came randomly. your voice its self is really calming, it really is just mental, lol.
but for all of you guys out there see a doctor for healthy but the best thing to do in these situations is staying calm, panicing will just make you feel worse. but check out the doctor anyways :)
I was with some girl and in the first date she saw that I have no so much self-confidence, so how can I fix this now and change her opinion about me??
@forevermkd dude,I'm a female & females like it when you open your self up but thats just me,and i don't realy have self confidence ether but girls like it when you do.
My friend has got issue with her nose, because we are asian thats why our nose is kind of flat. She is kind of upset and depress about how other's nose is so pretty or how other girls is much prettier than her. she said everytime when she looks in the mirror she hates herself and wonder why can't she be like other girls. And being a good friend, I really do want to help her ,but I'm not professional yet to give advise, so I hope you can give me some advise to cheer her up,
I have a serious problem...I am starting high school in 2 days I know no one there and when I don't know someone well I tend to feel like everyone is judging me(in a bad way) I then to begin the out of control decline of my confidence and proceed to feel as if I'm on fire all over my body! Any suggestion for help
@crazydill34 OMG, I feel the SAME way. I have been to seven other schools and, I am starting high school this year + I just got braces >.< one thing I always try and, do is just look in the mriror and, tell myself I am beautiful or something I like about myself.
I like the way I look but, once I get around popular girls I get really nervous so I just have to think of what I told myself in the mirror.
I'm doing an oral presentation tomorrow and I've been lucky enough to do it in front of fewer people but I'm still nervous. The main reason I think I'm nervous with public speaking is that I'm too self concious. I think that everyone is judging me but I shouldn't. I'm not quite sure how to overcome this?
it is all about geting out of your comfort zone and expanding your horizon. just kepp pushing and it worked for me. try singing a song you like by yourself then in front of people lightly but not to them and then start telling yourself i can and enjoy yourself.
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People with more confidence just seem more attractive. I've met some girls that didn't seem very attractive at first glance but after getting to see their high self esteem, it makes them much more desirable.
hello, i love you! i wondered if there was a way to get help. im 15 and really struggle with confidence at school. this is going to sound really stupid but at school i cant talk to anyone and i can't look into people's eyes. whenever i do i go red and my eyes can even swell up. Is there anything i can do........
You will realize that you will look on the interent and find an acting school and feel calm and take down their details and send them an email and ask them to call you and or call them and enrol and start acting class's enroll in martial arts and look for an organisation called outward bounnd and enroll in some course talk to teh people in these organisations. Stop thinking about it just do it.
@sussanaweljones Hi, yes you can contact us via our website, There is a link to the top right of this page, or you can type in the url as it appears on the video. Thanks for your comment.
great psycholigist. thank you
andrewerdna100 2 weeks ago
Damn relapsed lol. Can't help it...
EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION 2 weeks ago
But what happen when others disrespect you when you are yourself. Its a horrible feeling i think and noone can deal with it if you are quite lonely
Gmmodel 3 weeks ago
@Gmmodel Haters gonna hate. You just tell 'em: Fuck you bitches! I aint no pussy! I don't need you, you filthy hoes!
MikhailStepanskiy 2 weeks ago
Holy shit this is just what I needed to hear. I always bother myself saying I could be so so much better and recall my best moments when I felt so good. I just need to accept that this is me and I can't keep dwindling on the past ecstasies (not drugs lol).
EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION 3 weeks ago
dont care wat dem haterz say !! blahhhhhh bitxh
Dora7840 1 month ago
so actually that was advertisement of being well clinic :D
silverbreathz 1 month ago
My left ear is loving it
chickenyfood123 1 month ago 3
yeah it easy for you to say
gordan2555 1 month ago
im not confident around really popular people...
jemmaxxo 1 month ago
Only confident when alone or with friends in public. Or alone in another country. Don't know why.
vogelbekdier97 1 month ago
Am very unconfident i always think so much when i talk someone icant talk staight way an some time i think to say something but i cant say i feel shy with everyone but i dont want to to people think that am shy an uncofident but i cant help it.an i cry so much an take stress all the time am very worried about my self now am married an in a new house an its more hard for mr:-(:-(if i cant talk with any one in my language i mean (urdu) so how am gonna speak in english that i dont know well.:-|:-(
minariz1 1 month ago
I am a pretty confident guy until it comes to women!
devindevinful 2 months ago
@devindevinful haha watch simplepickup on youtube.. sure changed my game :)
FloweyG 1 month ago
@devindevinful LOL
Verification11 1 month ago
@devindevinful same lol
andrew19vato 1 month ago
The higher you start off in life the lower you fall and it's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything. Then you'll realise that what other people say and think about you is none of your business. The polite have the strong eye, and if you treat others the way you want to be treated, whilst holding on to positive dreams, you can do whatever you want with this short life. amen
deejayhog 2 months ago
DON'T CARE IF ANYONE SAY SHIT ABOUT YOU
earlsutton 2 months ago
If the only time you're confident is when you're alone making tea...you're in trouble!
adda241 2 months ago 17
im so selfconcious constantly, i worry so much about what other people are thinking about me. I'm only confident around my friends, until I realised that one of my 'friends' have been talking about me behind your back, then I closed up and stopped being confident with my friends. But i worry that if i act too confident then people are still going to be saying things about me, I can never win!!
musiclover1561 2 months ago 2
And I'm not confident around my gf idk why?
NinjaTreeSwag 3 months ago
I'm confident in my looks cause I'm a cute kid but I always feel like I'm judged and I'm shy when I'm not around people I'm good friends with
NinjaTreeSwag 3 months ago
2.30....well said
huh9416 3 months ago
Fuck man , my exams are just around the corner and i dont have confidence in myself after what people said about me and spread rumours about me. FML!!
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@ZephySeffeh don't listen to what over people say ; people spread rumours because you're important , significant and they are just jealous of you ! btw good luck with your exams !
itGAMEHUNTER01 2 months ago
i have special needsand im going to college its scaring me but there is nothing to be scared of i cant get confidence
TheGamingBooth 4 months ago
Well, when my patients ask me if I can help them with their confidence, I always do.
I let them know why they're not confident and this is after vigorous clinical tests.
All my patients suffer from "a give a fuck" syndrome.
This mental illness is known to eat away individuality, make people act from their normal routine. I usually subscribe them with the clinically proven "don't give a fuck" therapy combined medication. 100% of them overcome their illness.
tybash 4 months ago 20
@tybash Probably THE best advice I've heard in my life. Thank you kind sir.
MikhailStepanskiy 3 weeks ago
@MikhailStepanskiy
To be honest, i think most people are not confident because they lack particular experience or that childhood experience was awful.
I think what would help now is to understand who you are, that combined with patience and understanding of yourself, might help you brush off things that would in other cases break you down.
tybash 2 weeks ago
@tybash Yes, I do think I lack particular experience.. to be more clear, I probably lack social experience. I think it was caused because we used to move a lot and it was hard making new friends.
MikhailStepanskiy 2 weeks ago
@johnnydk24 that does work i tried it
BadBoyZz97 4 months ago
Thank you that was actully so helpfull
BadBoyZz97 4 months ago
im confident when im with friends and family and act myself but when im around people i dont know or boys that i like it go bright red, dont know what to say and get really embarrassed. I dont know what to do anymore because i really like this boy and i cant even talk to him be cause my lacking confidence doesnt let me. please help x
TheLilmisscutiepie 4 months ago
@TheLilmisscutiepie listen here is a tip that helped me practice in the mirror talking as if you were talking to they guy/girl you like it really built my confidence but just try that,
homiegskilletz 4 months ago
@homiegskilletz thankyou x
TheLilmisscutiepie 4 months ago
@TheLilmisscutiepie your beautiful .. say it to your self over and over and then talk to him he might not be into you he might be dont be scared to have a go. that first step is always the hardest but after that it gets easier :)))) x
drebo699 4 months ago
@drebo699 thankyou x
TheLilmisscutiepie 4 months ago
@TheLilmisscutiepie u have been giving far too much of your own power away to this boy you like. How well do you know him? There's nothing u have to say to him. What do you want to say? Unless he knows you really well, this boy has no idea who u are so can't reject you. If he's good enough for you, you'll find that out. If not, he's no big loss and u've still got every wonderful thing in your life like family, friends etc.
thesmithhouse9 4 months ago
@JustBeWell thankyou your reply made me think i should be myself around people at least then they will know the real me x
TheLilmisscutiepie 4 months ago
Thing is, I hate my voice, my face, my body, my clothes, my hair, Everything. It's horrible. :\
BaileyEatsRainbows 4 months ago
@BaileyEatsRainbows oh im sorry. try seeing a counselor man
homiegskilletz 4 months ago
@BaileyEatsRainbows How do you know you hate all those aspects of yourself? See a therapist asap.
thesmithhouse9 4 months ago
@thesmithhouse9 I dont have too. I am slowly becoming more confident. That's why I watch these videos. Plus, Im only 12. So figures why I hate like everything about myself.
BaileyEatsRainbows 4 months ago
@BaileyEatsRainbows I'd still look after your mental and emotional well being in some way. And,since you were confident about not liking yourself, it's pretty obvious you've got a lot of confidence you can tap into when you need it.
thesmithhouse9 4 months ago
Thanks Laura, your very sweet and you sound very young :)
dhaalchawal 4 months ago
I'm really confident when I'm drinking.
kevinhistorynut 4 months ago
I'm socially awkward.
'nuff said.
AlixWii 4 months ago
@AlixWii Omg same\:
BaileyEatsRainbows 4 months ago
@AlixWii Well, how do you know that's been true for you in the past? Who or what told u that? And since when is behaviour and identity the same thing?
thesmithhouse9 4 months ago
im scared to stand up :/
thebestanthe3rd 4 months ago
OKAY WELL SO IM SCARED I HAVE MY FIRST VOLLEYBALL GAME INFRONT OF THE WHOLE SCHOOL, AND IM AFRAID IMMA JACK UP INFRONT OF EVERYBODY. </3
NoNamedChick 4 months ago
like this if you have SAD
italianstllion93 5 months ago
thnx
A7MADAL7DDADI 5 months ago
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Sorry you lost me att "confident" :/
Piromano415 5 months ago
I'm very shy and it's hard for me to make new friends plus I have social anxiety, I would like to change that about my self so I don't care what people think. please any one, if you have advice help me out.
okamifox13 5 months ago
@okamifox13 Ahh, just own it!!! Be silly! Don't be afraid to laugh at urself! Forget about everyone else! Have fun! Like seriously, everything u don't like about yourself (that you think others will judge u for) embrace it e.g. your really shy - laugh about it, find places in which ur not shy and just apply everything from there to all the time! <3
sweetytweety0011 5 months ago
@sweetytweety0011 Thanks! I'm going to try! Thank u! :D
okamifox13 5 months ago
@okamifox13 np <3
sweetytweety0011 5 months ago
i hate being shy.
dancercutey12 5 months ago 4
@dancercutey12 being shy sucks....:/
JPkerTutorials 4 months ago 4
@JPkerTutorials ikr lol but im kinda getting out of my shell :D hehe
dancercutey12 4 months ago
Thank You for this video! I think it'll definetly be helpful when school starts again..
DarkDreamsKristy 6 months ago
nice 007 james bond book in the back :D
rafael1877 6 months ago 5
@johnnydk24 only during rough sex?
xXjsulli15Xx 6 months ago
by yourself ?
nihaolzw 6 months ago
Just subscribed to your channel. Love what you have to say. Pennie
PennieMunslow 6 months ago
I'm confident.
until I see a ugly picture off me they tag me in, and then I feel like a ugly bitch again.
fml
trippycat123 6 months ago
THE CAKE IS A LIE!!
16SeanD 6 months ago 3
she has a james bond book and sounds like his superior
Qwertyjones12345 7 months ago
Hi I'm 16 I have no confidence and extremely shy which is why I have no friends which makes me feel worse in myself to think that no one likes me! I'm moving to a new school and country is there anything I can do that will help make friends and actually be happy at school??? I feel very isolated how can I gain more self confidence???
Pinknut16 7 months ago
@Pinknut16 Sure people like you! You got to show yourself to them first! If you show them your UNCONFIDENT and SHY and AWKWARD side, thats not you! You sure dont feel shy here on youtube by posting that message and asking for help! Show them the OPEN side of you and people will like you! that means be the REAL yourself and dont think there is a STRATEGY to get friends... it will just happen by being nice to the people you want to be friends with! ;)
vukboy 7 months ago
@Pinknut16 mate look at me i was shy. i stopped caring nd stepped up. Your 16 and im 18. I stopped being shy when i was 17 by creating role models for example if Jesus was in my position or goku then theyd confront whatever situation they have and i must do the same. I just started uni and iv made friends after 5 days. Well i actually talk about myself say hi, talk to the teacher or lecturer. Trust me mate everyone is shy, nobody is born with it. Chewing gum helps a lot as wel
ben1000081 6 months ago
This video rocks.
I was the most shyest, least self confident person on earth.
My friends ditched me, and I never had the confidence to confront them, resulting in me being miserable for three years. It didn't help that I had a problem with the muscles in my throat and couldn't talk coherently. I gave up talking altogether because I was scared of people making fun of my voice.
But now I speak up more confidentally and now have lots of wonderful supporting friends.
marinelife24 7 months ago 4
i have a yorkshire accent and everyone at school makes fun of it :( and tht makes me less confident...
huddzgiant1 9 months ago
@huddzgiant1 coz i live in cornwall :(
huddzgiant1 9 months ago
I feel confident when i game :p
AL0229 9 months ago
ok can someone help me out...im 14 and i have a speaking assesment at my school but im really scared...i have to stand in front of a class and do a speech, how do i become confident in doing it and how do i sound confident in doing it....someone help me plz :(
huddzgiant1 9 months ago
@huddzgiant1
It's often helpful to look just over your clasmates heads-Everybody'll think you're loóking straight into the class- But in fact, you aren't.^^
Also, try to practice often and remember that everybody in class is "just" human as well- Could they have done better? No? See?;)
PS: I'm not too confident either (English is not my first language, I hope you'll understand me though) ^^
And I think a yorkshire accent is cool:)
TheHugeRedButton 9 months ago
@TheHugeRedButton oh thank you, ill just try that, wow you helped me just on time too because my speech is tomorrow, thanks alot and thank you, your cool too xx
huddzgiant1 9 months ago
@huddzgiant1 how was your speech? :)
CoverProductionz 8 months ago
@CoverProductionz well...it was scary, especially becoz i went first xx but i used yer advice nd it wasnt so bad, then i volanteered to do another speech in one of my other classes :D so im not scared 2 do it no more , thank uu <3
huddzgiant1 8 months ago
@huddzgiant1 the irony is, that if you speak with more confidence people will actually enjoy your accent rather than making fun of it.
QueenSakina 7 months ago
Thank you so much for this video! You offered very helpful, honest advice.
emilyemilyemilee 9 months ago
Ha, british accent
ThatHaloGuy117 9 months ago
@ThatHaloGuy117 what's wrong with a british accent? i have onee?
xoxoLauraJasmin 9 months ago
Brilliant advice, seriously. I've been adjusting to anxiety disorder for a couple of years and this is some of the best information on it that I've read.
allaboutdmagic 10 months ago
im only confident when im drunk or by myself
smokeb3atz 10 months ago 119
@smokeb3atz ha go to a job interview drunk
drebo699 4 months ago
i hadnt know, that james bond (look the book in the Back) are used in Psychotherapys:)
hybrisss 10 months ago
@hybrisss your grammar is appauling
NickLikesBacon 9 months ago
this was really really good. Thx you its a fantastic Stratagy to life better.
hybrisss 10 months ago
thank you :)
459miyuki 11 months ago
I LOVE this video. Go check this site out it helps soooo much. Its like a magic website;)
millionman15060 11 months ago
after this the word "confedince" became really weird sounding lol
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i have been bullied all my life, by bullies at school and even the teachers, they either were mean to me because i was black or because i was ugly. This made me lose ALL of my confidence, This will not help my future dreams as a singer, because if i make it as a singer i will have to to concerts infront of hundreds, thousands and even millions of people! I doubt i will though because its hard to get a job these days but great video!
cadbrycreamegg 11 months ago
Get a small earbud of some kind so that everywhere you go is set to the tune of eye of the tiger.
rcroxyosox1 11 months ago
has anyone heard of the book Unstoppable Confidence by Kent Sayre?
Pls does anyone know if its a scam or not?
ThePankar95 11 months ago
thank you great advice
sampfa 11 months ago
i am not confident in anything about me.. i dont have any particular talents or skills, its not that im horrible at making friends or that im ugly but i have never had a boyfriend because i don't know how to act.. i need more confidence:(
primplegirliessxoxo 11 months ago
im am the worst case each time i wanna get to a girl and i think wath i dont have and i feel a nobody and i let her go , i never had a girlfriend before and im not ugly just don t have self confidence and i wanna be more than tis guy .
superstijn16 11 months ago
I am not confidant at all.... I wanna get my hair done different but I'm scared of what ppl will think :(
randomsha5211 11 months ago 4
I will try to build self confident from today onward, because, I don't have any self confidence, in myself, right now. :( Thanks a LLOOT!! for these tips. :)
vichetmeng 11 months ago
I love acting - but I'm not confident in performing infront of others. I feel really scared..!
LilacMiss 1 year ago
wow i really love this advice its soothing, this made me feel better =/
Yezenia101 1 year ago
(: thank
btw, there is a james bond book in the background <3
GalsPals66 1 year ago
confidence is not in my DNA
Jvilleman31 1 year ago
007 book FTW
guitar241990 1 year ago
I'M The Man!
MrSteviesax 1 year ago
@johnnydk24
Mum says that didn't work for her. Any other ideas?
PeteLinUni 1 year ago
I feel like a fucking looser watching this shit.
TheCoasterpimp 1 year ago
I have no confidence. But also I am too nice to change. I like myself too much just as I am. It's a dilemma that has followed me through life. Need to get confidence but need to stay the same. Help.
PeteLinUni 1 year ago
@PeteLinUni I agree
ThewebLies 1 year ago
@PeteLinUni
i understand the dilemma. i love the person that i am, yet have absolutely zero confidence because i know the world can never appreciate who i am.
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TheIcelandicPatriot 1 year ago
Some people say that Self Confidence make less stuttering speech ? Is it true? Because i'm a stutterer!
guiteful 1 year ago
I am only confident when i'm locked away in my room,alone with my music on.Everyone thinks i'm confident but reallyi'm very insercure.I punch the mirror because i hate what i look like.People call me pretty but i don't see.I wear allot of makeup and I'm really mean to boys when they like me, I don't mean to be.I hate myself i can't be confident with my own mam and when i'm hyper i allways think the person i'm talking to dones't like me they think i'm werid so i stop talking.Someone help me? plz!
Alicerunt 1 year ago
BEER = CONFIDENCE JUICE
i.e drink more beer
jamydoyle 1 year ago 2
Self confidence has to do with fear, but not what people think of you. Self confidence is bravery, and only 'great warriors' are brave. In more simpler terms, you can only have more self confidence if you can defeat your enemies.
TOWinkworthIpswich 1 year ago
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TOWinkworthIpswich 1 year ago
I feel confident when I'm drunk or high, also when I'm listening to music thats all about getting mashed.
pakibizzle2813308 1 year ago
hi where is your clinic can i get help ,how much do u charge? an atheist have destroyed my belive in god i want to come back to religion and again have that confident and belive can i recover right now i do belive in god but i dont have confident in me pls reply
siddikaumatia 1 year ago
hi where is your clinic can i get help and how much do u charge, pls reply
siddikaumatia 1 year ago
I have a drama exam on monday and i'm so scared about having to do something by myself or have to improvise because i really suck being under pressure and put on the spot. I took drama to get more confident but i haven't really seen much change in myself. I'm a complete and utter nervous wreck and i can't get the exam off my mind. Can you give me any tips on how to get really confident, really fast? Even just for the exam. Please help :)
PurpleCrayon09 1 year ago
Isnt life too short to be not confident? Probably when I turn 80 I will regret that I wasted my time worrying what others think of me. But the sad thing is, I just can't change...
amsterdamska 1 year ago
@amsterdamska you can change! You need to believe in yourself, there is so much help out there, read books, listen to podcasts, watch videos. i used to think i couldn't change but i am and have changed alot since then. I know you can do it, don't give up on yourself!
foreverparadise 1 year ago
I love u so much thank you for some tips.
ronlumanog 1 year ago
wow, Thanks Laura! I watched your other vid, I have recurring anxiety attacks that came randomly. your voice its self is really calming, it really is just mental, lol.
but for all of you guys out there see a doctor for healthy but the best thing to do in these situations is staying calm, panicing will just make you feel worse. but check out the doctor anyways :)
shadowcar88 1 year ago
Thank you Laura :) I'm 19 years old and really shy. Thanks for uploading this video.
deceptacongrl 1 year ago
thank you laura this was a big help!
lastcore1 1 year ago
Thank you very much Laura.
NightmareCrab 1 year ago
You're such a wonderful person. Thank you.
Unvergesslichh 1 year ago
I was with some girl and in the first date she saw that I have no so much self-confidence, so how can I fix this now and change her opinion about me??
forevermkd 1 year ago
@forevermkd dude,I'm a female & females like it when you open your self up but thats just me,and i don't realy have self confidence ether but girls like it when you do.
98ichigo 1 year ago
What does one do with over confidence, knowing one is the centre of one's universe?.
RonAlmeida 1 year ago
My friend has got issue with her nose, because we are asian thats why our nose is kind of flat. She is kind of upset and depress about how other's nose is so pretty or how other girls is much prettier than her. she said everytime when she looks in the mirror she hates herself and wonder why can't she be like other girls. And being a good friend, I really do want to help her ,but I'm not professional yet to give advise, so I hope you can give me some advise to cheer her up,
dottylover 1 year ago
@dottylover Asians are so eautiful. I am white but, I wish I had asian eyes I think there beautiful :D and, you should love ur nose too.
Enjoy being different, no guy wants a girl who is just like the others.
TheOkiLuv 1 year ago
@TheOkiLuv Thanks so much, that helped alot ;)
dottylover 1 year ago
I have a serious problem...I am starting high school in 2 days I know no one there and when I don't know someone well I tend to feel like everyone is judging me(in a bad way) I then to begin the out of control decline of my confidence and proceed to feel as if I'm on fire all over my body! Any suggestion for help
crazydill34 1 year ago
@crazydill34 Smoke weed.
sirjoikz 1 year ago
@sirjoikz lulz
crazydill34 1 year ago
@crazydill34 OMG, I feel the SAME way. I have been to seven other schools and, I am starting high school this year + I just got braces >.< one thing I always try and, do is just look in the mriror and, tell myself I am beautiful or something I like about myself.
I like the way I look but, once I get around popular girls I get really nervous so I just have to think of what I told myself in the mirror.
TheOkiLuv 1 year ago
your fabulas! thanksx
kackerandboney 1 year ago
ur hot
CharmingJustin1995 1 year ago
i need more confidence. .. . when i talk to people i dont know that good.. i choke up my words... and mumble cus im so unconfident
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77794471 1 year ago
Your voice is so comforting...that everytime I find myself in less confidence..I come to see this video. Thanks.
ntujnagkevhlub 1 year ago
ahh girls:D
siggibiggy 1 year ago
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TOWinkworthIpswich 1 year ago
U ARE AWESOME AND PUT US AT EASE, YOUR VERY REAL AND SINCERE TY.
Lesli2 1 year ago
Lol I am from a WA person, and whenever I rope or something, I usually get really nervous and heart pounding very fast during my turn...
And my friend keep saying, "You need more confidence about your roping, be more relax, and other stuff."
charizard8989 1 year ago
I'm doing an oral presentation tomorrow and I've been lucky enough to do it in front of fewer people but I'm still nervous. The main reason I think I'm nervous with public speaking is that I'm too self concious. I think that everyone is judging me but I shouldn't. I'm not quite sure how to overcome this?
xWeMakeVidsx 1 year ago
Thanks ... I need your help
rosn73 1 year ago
@rosn73 nice advice
MrRajeshpatkare 1 year ago
thats very nice. The NeoTec Discovery. Great book.
mrrrks39 1 year ago
it is all about geting out of your comfort zone and expanding your horizon. just kepp pushing and it worked for me. try singing a song you like by yourself then in front of people lightly but not to them and then start telling yourself i can and enjoy yourself.
mommasboy34 1 year ago
this video/she warms my heart :)
justintimeTM 1 year ago
thank u soo much for this information
azgurl12390 1 year ago
Truly amazing...
Tirmizee 1 year ago
Laura
Thanks for the video. I've put it on my website because it's such good honest advice.
portraitofalion 1 year ago 7
@portraitofalion Thanks I appreciate that :)
JustBeWell 1 year ago 8
Do you do coaching?
titoferni29 1 year ago
i've failed 5 job interviews in a month because i'm not confident enough.
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theseeker2k5 1 year ago
Nice one, we are always confidence one way or another which can be used as a framework for another area of life.
Thanks
GetConfidence 1 year ago
thnx
TheRockfairy18 1 year ago
People with more confidence just seem more attractive. I've met some girls that didn't seem very attractive at first glance but after getting to see their high self esteem, it makes them much more desirable.
GunDream 1 year ago
instant confidence-cup of cold gin
uridium64 1 year ago
hello, i love you! i wondered if there was a way to get help. im 15 and really struggle with confidence at school. this is going to sound really stupid but at school i cant talk to anyone and i can't look into people's eyes. whenever i do i go red and my eyes can even swell up. Is there anything i can do........
ssj9997 1 year ago
You will realize that you will look on the interent and find an acting school and feel calm and take down their details and send them an email and ask them to call you and or call them and enrol and start acting class's enroll in martial arts and look for an organisation called outward bounnd and enroll in some course talk to teh people in these organisations. Stop thinking about it just do it.
Happiness will occur if you focus on it.
adroit86 1 year ago
ssj9997 I feel the exact same way at school.
mildemtaysel1234 1 year ago
great jobbb
fjwusizzling 1 year ago
just left mono? DAMN
pokerockman 1 year ago
i love u lol. nways, is there any way to contact u?! pls..
sussanaweljones 1 year ago 4
@sussanaweljones Hi, yes you can contact us via our website, There is a link to the top right of this page, or you can type in the url as it appears on the video. Thanks for your comment.
JustBeWell 1 year ago
ILU!
GastoniaOnline 1 year ago 2
great advice
ssips720 1 year ago
nice
VoiciMoiViri 1 year ago
that was very helpful thank you
luvpeopleandbananas 1 year ago