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  • You ask too much quick the number, and you ask it wrong. Style always calls it in the end. i suggest you to do the same thing.

  • bro to bro:

    you gotta smile more, energy up and talk about random things. i recommend learning something random on wikipedia

  • yo if a girl rejects you, is it possible to get her to like you again, in the future. i know you should move on, but i just want to know, if it is possible

  • @brightsun11 Depends, if this girl is your friend and rejected you because you landed in the friend zone, the cure is to let time go by without any contact with her, lets say 6 months. After those 6 months, you come back with MUCH higher value, for instance you started working out, drive a new car, make more money, become more attractive.. That's when you can try again.. everyone wants to strive for something better, nobody wants to settle.. So be the higher valued person.

  • @FrangieBruh thanks man, but no i am not in the friend zone. i told her no, so i probley will never see her again. i think i chase to much, i should learn to let things go and not focus to much on trying to get women to like me.

  • dude! you could have totally got both chicks numbers. You lack confidence and self esteem, you can tell by your voice. It's like you dont have any enthusiasm

  • ok wtf, why did they run away like that ? XDDD

  • 7:45 they run off like Hell!

  • Even though the camera was far away nd recording the girls back. Those 2x chicks look punani az hahahaha

  • Where's the physical escalation?

  • you r really good

  • This guy is a complete douche bag. His whole demeanor, style, way of talking, aggressiveness, approach etc prove that he is a 100% jerk off. To all you future pimps, watch this video to see how not to hit on girls. FAIL!

  • One thing that looked really really bad was the fact that as soon as you left they bolted out of there fucking fast. As if they thought you may come back. Thats not a good sign, if they where truly comfortable they would have bolted that fast in your absence.

  • @MKECBS1 would not have***

  • "BEEP BEEP BEEP from BEEP BEEP BEEP i know right? BEEP BEEP not really BEEP BEEP BEEP"

    Lol damn cant really hear anything with all these damn cut outs!

  • Wow you are good.

  • U should at least rem there name u asked about 8 times.if it was me I would at least sticked for 30 second at left I would have taken the " leave" rule

  • great line that builds comfort "i'm gona be that guy that you met randomly, who totally impresses you with his charm and wit" "i wouldnt go that far" "O fuck you"

    The way that friends talk is by saying whatever is on their mind because they are not afraid their friend is not going to like em. The girl will feel comfort and that you talk easily and freely to each other. He showed that he wasnt too serios and that he was a chilled guy. Why wouldn't these chick meet up with him again. Good vid Lad

  • why do u ask the girls to put the number in ur blackberry, is it so they ask the inevitable next question and u can continue the conversation

  • Dude, music feels soooo creepy ! so are you !

  • 7:45

    Girl to friend: "ok, RUN"

  • Repeatedly calls the girls "guys".

    "You GUYS seem fun"

    ..Dude, you're talking to two cute girls and thinking about "guys". Creepy.

  • 5:00

    Dude: "So, what's the craziest thing you've done?"

    Girl: "I traveled to Jamaica once"

    Dude: "Oh, so you girls were banging black dudes, cool"

    FAIL

  • He should at least REMEMBER their names, though I like his neg, opener, smooth conversations, and leaving PAUSES after every sentence or two. It leaves room for THEM to respond or ask questions.

    He kept going AFTER being REJECTED because it shows that the "number pick up," wasn't a big deal. BOOM HEAD-SHOT

  • haha "not mystery method, it's being yourself?" it's Neil strauss though, the blackberry trick, not knowing how to use your phone?? I saw the this exact line on 'Rules of the Game'. ???

  • WHICH ONE SAID I'M NOT WITH HIM ANYMORE...? BLACK SHIRT GIRL OR RED SHIRT GIRL?

  • @dalesalsa girl on the right closest to him

  • Subscribing. I have books and audiobooks but I need to see videos. :)) this is great!

  • "NOTE - THIS IS NOT MYSTERY METHOD - THIS IS JUST BEING YOURSELF"

    LMAO this is totally pumped on this. But bad body language.

  • fuck off with that beeping shit

  • idkkk, i kinda get the vibe they flaked on yah when you shot them a Text. But you handled that rejection so well GOOD JOB MAN!!

  • does anyone know if hes banged any of them? good on him 4 approaching but clearly hes blown it. too many compliments, and moved in too soon 4 the number

  • He starts off is bleeding value in this set, giving it away freely, and then jumped right to the number close before any IOI's or comfort. Recipe for blown set.

    As others have said though, props for going through with it. You need to fall down a few times before you learn to ride a bike. Constantly forcing yourself to face fear is what makes it easier. The ending was great. Props on the level up.

  • anyway you touched her for too much time, you should start with baby steps

  • get the cameraman closer or hire some hobo to film close.

  • This guy has no game...Neil Strauss would eat this guy for breakfast

  • You got balls, that's what matters.

  • Blablabla you should have done this or this.... blablabla always a mask!!!

    Become your own personality!!! Make som Sport, talk to much girls and go your OWN Way!!! It´s the best way, the other are only the way which you should show how it could work!!!

  • You should’ve just REMAINED SEATED in your own bench as a SUB-CONSCIOUS display of DISINTEREST. Remember, body language is just as effective as your words. It just takes 3 MINUTES for your targets to know if you’re a TRIBE LEADER or AFC. Also, it wouldn’t be a good idea to ask for their names. It somehow gives you lower value by seeking rapport.

  • @ONiX21490 What does "AFC" stand for? Also the disinterest strategy, does not work with EVERY girl. Remember that everyone's different, I've tried the disinterest method and the girls I was opening with.. thought I was rude, therefore turned their heads from me... fail. Happened few times to learn- got to read girl's "type" first, judge it based on clothing, swag (body language), whatever else that gives it off.

  • It makes you look like if you don’t have anything to talk about and you have to talk about the weather as a sad attempt of a last resort. It would’ve been better if you open with a story which explains why you’re waiting in the bench in the first place. Maybe you’re friends as picking you up to go have lunch or something. And two, you got up and walked over to them.

  • Lemme tell ya, you got some balls for staying there after they reject you. And I don’t know if you wanted to be rejected on purpose for the sake of the lesson in the video or if you just flunked. Anyway, dude. Get ready for some CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM. Right off the bat you made TWO major mistakes. One, you broke an important rule and that is; NEVER USE WEATHER OPENERS.

  • Dont tell them they r cute...u r showing less value.

  • tell me a story, ive only got a minute left before i meet my friend over there. nice

  • i dont think there is enough demonstration of value which is why there feels like something off.

  • And never talk while they are sitting and u just standing it looks like u r giving them a speech lol

  • She didn't gave her number to you because you telegraphed too much interest man...

  • WERE FROM CUNTCITY

  • there could have been things that he could have done not better but differently, but this was still a great example of what we should be doing out there if we want to get better, how do you expect to get better if you dont even try, i can see this guy being a great PUA instructor.

  • he qualified himself to much

  • leveling up....i hope you're better at call of duty than you are at "charming girls"......

  • I am no expert, no guru, no mPUA but after viewing your approach I felt obbliged to share my impressions. I have to say you did good by staying and continuing the conversation. But I think you made two small mistakes - first, the glasses kinda block your eyecontact which is vital for an approach and second, you passed way too much time standing up. When I approach one of the first things I do is put myself in a confortable position -yeah, it's Mystery's way and it is great....

  • 6:46 "Fuck you"

    Fail.

  • 4:49

    Dude: "I gotta minute left, then I have to meet my friend"

    Girls thoughts: "A whole fucking minute?"

  • @FreeBlago1 LOL "Whole fucking minute?" hahahaha, i like your humor

  • 1:20

    Girl: "where you from?"

    Dude" "very far away"

    Girls thoughts: "not far enough"

  • WTF..this is horse shit..how in the world was the audio recorded..through his white arse??

  • @jasonjose29Nov He's wearing a mic...

  • dude you had it! but you asked for the number WAY!! to early, you should ONLY do that when and ONLY when they are leaving, even if you say your on an rush, you keep going and going and going to you KNOW its fullfilled ... if you dont believe , me you wouldve gotten that number lol.. lmao

  • however, i must add, that as soon as he left those bitches bailed quick as fuck which indicates that they wanted him to be out of their faces a long ass time ago and they were just accommodating him. also, he never gave any follow up info on the chicks- i'm sure he called or texted them and they either didn't respond or responded w/ "oh, the creeepy pushy guy from the park the other day?"

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  • This guy suck at the game....he was just annoying

  • This guy is not smart

  • those girls knew a thing or two, the whole time they were ice queens. especially the one who gave her wrong number.

  • dude thats a wrong number

  • beepbeepbeepbeepbeepbeepbeepbe­epbeepbeep.....beepbeepbeepbee­pbeep

  • You are a fuckin BOSS!!!!!

  • debatable.

    

  • This kid was awful and had NO game!!!

  • haah man geniuos how you pulled off saving the set, you pretty much mindfucked your target!

  • "You guys are both cute, but I'm talking to you"  lmfao, sweet neg :D

  • what i DID notice is no explanation of what happened later. didju fuck one? did they respond to your texts? etc., etc. - i'm guessing they never contactedju again - reference: the way they got the fuck outa there as soon as you decided to leave.

  • Burlington HOY!

  • Ease up on the guy, he tried , and he even stuck around and made uncreepy conversation with them after the rejection...aside from the black guy remark... props to you buddy

  • This kid is a fucking tool

  • I love how you just told her "fuck you" hahahaha

  • This guy has an insecurity with black guys for some reason. First he was like "oh and she had 3 little black kids running around her" uhh owwkay, so was it funny because they were black? And then he was like were you were in Jamaica doing black guys? umm yeah.. ok.

    Seems black men intimidate you huh? Interesting.

  • @mzenji Yes. And he has a BLACKberry. He must be very insecure about black guys. Or... Maybe you're over analysing.

  • Smooth but you didn't really do much DHVing and went for the # close too quick, no wonder she rejected you :/

  • You have a good game, it takes months of opening sets every week to get this good. Practice makes perfect and you will be rewarded at the end.

  • this guy is fucking awesome hahaha

  • hey faggot, wats the go with the story... 3 little black boys running around.... is that supposed to be funny.... when i see you i'm coming after you

  • @convener777 I think it was supposed to be a DHV story but talking about old grannys wanting to bang you is hardly a DHV lol.

  • it wasn't a DHV it was a joke!!!

  • lol that part where u said "WHOA replay that last line" that music is basically setting up for a LOLZ :P

  • Go to Denmark and try ''The game'' out there. that is a good chanllenge!

  • You sound gay and fake... check out david x or amp and you can still be yourself.

  • @itsmedontusee actually dressing and behaving a bit more gay than the average guy, could serve as a false disqualifier... she thinks you are gay and therefor are defenitly not trying to k-close for instance. occasionaly i dress super-gay, for this reason, and that worked for me on several sets.

  • cont...

    3. He went for the phone number way too quick, & was not even sure of the girls name. WTF? Know her name 1st, then say you have to go soon, then ask for her phone #. Better sequence.

    4. When 2 women are together you have to expect: cock-blocking, 1 being jealous of the attention for the other, 1 trying to control the other, etc...

    When dealing with 2 women, you should try to get the other girls approval for her friend to give you the phone number or at least have rapport w/ both.

  • The guy has balls in the approach, but his technique off.

    1. Giving yourself a time restrain right away, makes things awkward. Also, its obvious that the girls are just loitering on the bench & they have some time. Its better to give yourself a time constraint later to escape the set after you have their phone #, not before.

    2. The guy gave off bad signals by not clarifying where he was from & saying "far away". This looks deceptive, untrustworthy, & gives out a creep signal.

  • this is exactly the reason why I never will approach any girl ...

  • AFC!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • where is the punishment after the rejection? body rock out lean against the opposite of the girl and lower your voice so they lean into you. TBH im an afc but you could of do so much more such as adding in humour and teasing.

  • wow i dont feel like a total chode anymore, this guy did the bare minimum to get a number but he keeps his posture and wits with him. I dont see any attraction here, only amusement but the point of the vid is to ignore rejection which he clearly demonstrates

  • youre in conversation land. show that dominant instinct and make them want to give you their number

  • I live in Palermo, Sicily. Night game has to be the hardest here in Europe. Sometimes there are ten or more women to every man and so fives act as though they are tens. It's fucking tight!

  • I live in Palermo, Sicily. Night game has to be the hardest here in Europe. Sometimes there are ten or more women to every man and so fives act as though they are tens. It's fucking tight!

  • My Two Cents: If he opened from where he was originally sitting, he had the perfect place to lock-in, display high value (AMOG), and throw a neg. Once you receiving an IOI (from either one in the set) you could moved toward them, as reward for IOI. Or you could have invited them to take a seat closer by saying “Hey, I can barely hear you; come closer”. Within five minutes you would have become AMOG, neg, and reward IOI’s, but never scorn the obstacle. Stayoff your feet, BIG PIMP!

  • Great set man! I don't agree with zoarces either. You went in fairly direct, and still told them early on that you were meeting a friend. Like AlpineViking said, you don't (and shouldn't) follow some sort of step-by-step. Every set is different, and you just need to handle things as they come.

    If you don't mind me asking, where about in Canada are you located?

  • Nice video mate, you did a really good approach!

  • i so dont agree with zoarces. You don't have to follow the game step by step. They're guidelines. Jack is one of my favorite PUAs along with Juggler and Craig. Why? Cos they have fun and don't care.

    I find the best way to learn is by just going out and trying to have a good time. Make a fool of urself. If you go in to pick up, that's unwanted pressure that you don't need when you're learning. If there is one rule, SMILE!

  • this was more like a rsd student in field than a mm in field

  • why the two girls stand up and walk away just directly ly when he finished ??

  • i am not to sureabout the old ladys story

  • Kudos for making the approach, but that is some awkward-ass conversation. And asking for the number out of left-field like that!?!? That was a big WTF moment.

  • you didnt show magic, or mistery..or good negs...but certainly you show dominance..lets face it..those girls can fake feel annoyed..but the truth is they want to be seduced. and the biggest frustration they can have..is not being enoughly interesting for a man.

    good job

  • those girls are totally numb and shy..they dress like shit..they are uptigth..and the way they sit was very masculine.

    actually you were like the world cup for them, that is good..be the thophy for them.

  • I live in Australia.

    The problem around here is that, unless you live in one of the capitals, you're field is way to small. There's not a lot of opportunity.

    Australia is actually pretty difficult.

  • im from canada and yes, it is fuckin hard to pickup women

  • apparently the easiest place in the world to get girls in New Zealand

  • thats poor man, there was no substance to the convos, no humor, no taking things personal, no comfort, no rooting. u were just jumping from one topic to another. The girls were responding cos they just young and taken by surprise. Good effort for staying in set though, i think it demonstrates the point that mild rejection is not real obstacle, but another chance to show ur confidence

  • Come to Denmark or Scandinavian generally, then you´ll realize how big an effort it demands to get girls.

  • I can tell you've come a long way since your mall pick up days.

    Those girls were some of the worst I've seen. Reminds me of how fortunate I am not to be living in Ontario anymore.

  • agreeance

    ??

  • u frm Toronto!?  im just starting this stuff.. n i need sum guidance = ). help = )

  • @xstarxable I firmly believe that a proper grammar structure and primary linguistic skills will greatly improve your chances of success =)

  • Next time don't censor... It's not meant for kids is it?

  • Way to go a 150%, and push on beyond your Comfort zone man!

  • Man, I respect that you have no visiable AA, but this is totally AFC stuff, infact some of it was worse than most AFC's material. You needa brush up on your skills.

  • dude if a chick says shes not with her bf ne more doesnt necessarily mean shes gonna blow you out wtf. and i bet that chick gave him a wrong number as well lol.

  • You had me at 3:16! XD

  • tbh your looks bought you an extra minute and by the way your target was talking she was clearly a 7(not in her looks but mainly confidence)...you try that staying move on 8-10s and they wont even tell you to fuck off they will turn their back on you or leave themselves and especially in a public gathering you have just lowered your value in the room. and i love the way you think youve discovered some cure to rejection when your jumping from A2 to C2 number close that doesnt demonstrate gd game

  • The correct line is ' we should continue this conversation...', not 'can I get your cell etc.' Also you didnt DHV or build attraction.

    You shouldn't have asked for their names either. Few 'rules' broken but good job.

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  • @zoarces If you hold your frame, you can do almost anything. MM rules can be broken.

  • @zoarces he demonstrated some value with the old lady story lol.. showing he's wanted by women =P

  • @JflyG LMFAO....massive preselection xD

  • @zoarces Not too mention the voice tonality is a little off in the beginning but becomes more natural when he starts telling the story. Also, I didn't think it was a great opener because it led to an awkward transition. But, it worked, so whatever. Not something I would start with personally.

  • @zoarces Negging is extremely overrated and get overused way too much.

    When he sits down, he says "Anyways, I have to go in like two seconds, but I thought I'd come say hi." That's a time constraint.

    There's nothing wrong with seeking rapport, and rapport doesn't have much to do with value at all, other than it giving you value.

    Definitely not a perfect approach, though.

  • @Chandler937 Of course rapport seeking has everything to do with value! Especially at first IN the approach. You got to be a leader. You can not seek rapport right away like this. You think a man of high value, a natural leader of men with great confidence will need to go up to strangers on the street to verify himself? A man of high calibre will NOT need to seek rapport this quickly. YOU are the price. YOU are m¤%"%¤#"ng boss. Game like that, and women WILL sense it and seek rapport with you!

  • ummm i think your a little wrong their you have to approach them they cant just sense you and how you have high confidence half of the girls walking down the street wont even take a look at you and girls in the club get hit on a lot so the chances of you getting her are very low but i wish it was like that where girls would just approach you haha that would be the shit cuz if shes a a decent looking girl a guy wont reject her so i dont know why girls dont game guys life would be easier that way

  • @zoarces He did neg and used a FTC, also you are implying you always need that shit, fuck that, fuck mystery method.

  • Canadian Rocks! What is ur number?

  • do girls ever give fake numbers? LOL!

  • @pilotoatomico

    yeah....sometimes

  • I thot the whole point of the Mystery Method was the neg and not projecting interest. You did the opposite tho 0_0

  • Are they racist like that in Canada too? ur routine sucked. . U waited halfway into the convo to time constraint.  Didnt neg, That was just an AFC looking desparate forcing them into getting the number. You switched targets because you got STR8 REJECTED . . . .Always a punk move. (Ignore target). . U didnt qualify . . .This video was a sack of wack. . . .And racist

  • Hey i seen that te building behind you is the spencers in burlington aha!, i been looking for someone to sarge with who lives by hamilton!

  • The touch on the back was way too much.

  • MysteryMethode? Come on man, if you read the book your not using anything of it.

    The Mystery Methode is the indirect way of getting the girl.

    You where everything but indirect, starting of with compliments and introducing yourself.

    I'm not saying I'm the best PUA or anything like that but this wasn't great.

    The next time you have to spot the shy one quickly and make her feel comfortable.

    Also it's better to look like a potential friend than trying to hook up, especially when you're day gaming!

  • I dunno if anyone mentioned this... but sunglasses can be a hinderance to building trust.

    I also think you tried to number close way too soon. I think when you sat down it was nice to add that you had to leave soon because it contrasts the boldness of the move... But in an ideal world you should have tested the waters after throwing the neg... to see if you could stay and chat longer until they forgot you ever said you had to leave. Then number close.

  • Ok. Nice video!

    Can i give an opinion?

    I think that if you talk less to yourself and spend more trying to figure out their type of conversation, I usually ask after a while "what were you two talking about/ What was your last conversation about?"

    You will find that you can mimic yourself into their game, since what you didn't see is that they were at the same level, harmonic to one another, and once you don't get in that harmony they won't let you in.

  • 6:50 "Oh, fuck you..." Nicely done.

  • Only in the US do you run into awkward problems because the people are so uptight. - In those other vids in Australia, England, and especially South America, hooking up is almost effortless. -

    And way to turn the situation around bro.

    You prevented the dream from collapsing.

  • @Youbian Thank you. Except I'm not int he US, I'm in Canada. It's been dubbed by many pickup artists as the hardest place in the world to pickup. Once you can pickup here, you can do it anywhere. I've noticed women in the US are SO much easier to talk to, it's incredible the difference.

  • @AaactionMan can you teach me how to pick up i saw in one of your videos that you were downtown at the eaton centre?

  • @AaactionMan harder than Italy?? mmmh... don't think that...

  • @AaactionMan what about asia bro? damn hard here too.

  • @AaactionMan dawg where in canada anwser the fwoking question/

  • @AaactionMan so u have to go to Portugal mate!! it's the hardest place to pick up I can guarantee you LOLOL

  • @AaactionMan You should try South America then.

  • @AaactionMan I live in Vancouver, the women are brutal here.

  • @AaactionMan Lmao , I'm canadian , I was in Seattle one weekend for a SlipKnot concert and we were at a bar, I tried picking up this one taller brunette , and she said

    'i've been to Canada, I didnt like it, there's too many bugs' ... f*%k man i burst out laughing and had to just ditch her, but all in all i was amazed how friendly most Americans are, That's contrary to what we hear about them all our lives, In my area anyways.

  • @AaactionMan Perhaps why some of the best pickup artists come from Canada i.e Mystery, Tyler Durden.

  • @AaactionMan @Youbian

    i agree, US is much easier than Canada

  • @Youbian Try Russia where even a response is an achievement :)

  • @Youbian this is just an excuse man.if you really want you can take it, so stop finding excuses.from a few hundred million people there has to be some nice girls.grow up

  • @Youbian Sooo true...i'm from NYC and girls here are soo uptight. Went to europe last month and they were very nice and friendly

  • @pgupta585 I'd say NYC is the least of your problems compared to attitudes across the majority of the country, especially west and south of the NE.

  • @Youbian american girls are so much easier than english girls

  • @Youbian I couldn't disagree with that more - the girls in USA are far easier than anywhere else!

    You say this because you are an American who probably has had no success and have never been to those countries you mention.

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  • Don't touch the woman on her back!!! She doesn't know you, don't touch her or reach over to her. Good luck!!!

  • never ever compliment......they know they are pretty. STOP

  • yea how did the 3 black boys add any significance to the story? that was an un-called for remark

  • what is the MM/?

  • I'm proud of you.. I SUCK at daygame! really.

  • this is horrible sorry. but it looks really needy :S

  • This gentleman sounds a tad gay to me. In the least: bi-curious. I have no problem with that, it is just an observation.

    I do agree with you AactionMan. When it comes to getting what you what - whether it be money, success, girls - persistence is a virtue.

  • "lemme grab your cell"