Mothers do not go out of their way to see about their childs education. How many of you have just taken a surprise visit to your childs school when neither the child nor the school was expecting it. Oh, I forgot, I'm sorry. You (mother) can't afford to take off from work but if, as you say, if that deadbeat father was around maybe you'd have the time to see about more of your childs needs but it was you who decided that you "didn't need him".
Black women tend to dislike anyone instructing them when it comes to their children. Try to tell a Black woman about her child. That is how the child gets over-protected and it hurts the child as well as other people because had that mother listened or had she shown that she was a mother willing to know from others about things her child had been involved in maybe that child would have stayed in school and that child would not be toting a gun around the neighborhood today.
Today's parent aka the single Mom,in alot of cases are too busy trying to their child's friends instead of being the damn parent.I know alot of brothas had sex with you that you offered in the first place and got you pregnant and then ran off like a thief in the night.When some of these fathers try to come back and right thier wrongs alot of you sistas won't let him and shame on your black ass.It take two parents to be actively in involved in the child's life .
@ Teshia (did i spell ur name right) please dont let techn deter u from parenthood. children r a blessing, yes its a challenge, but a reward "Lo' children are a heritage of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is His reward." Psalm 127:3 Remembr kids cant hav the techn if u dont give it 2 them, especially if u cant police or ovrsee. there r parental control options on all elec 2day. we use them like crazy. my son comes 2 me every 2 seconds 2 input our code wen using the laptop cuz of parent controls
Most of the stuff you guys are sayin is right but as a NY-er...lol, 9 is the startin age to start going to school by yourself! lol the MTA is pretty save so to say here but then again.. >,>/
I agree with all the points. I can't add anything without being redundant. I don't have any yet but I hope their father and I provide the kind of support system that makes them comfortable enough to share their questions, concerns, and goals with. In other words; help them to help us.
today's parents sad to say are baby mama's still in high school with no true life experience so the child does not learn anything such as how to say please excuse me or thank you and the parent does not have the skills to teach right from wrong because of their young age yet they feel that having a child would make them feel grown up or important . Im 44 years old and doing a 9 to 5 there are times I would rather stay home and collect hotwheels cars but bills have to be paid enjoy your youth
you 3 give some of the most honest advice and i love the fact that ya'll don't have to always agree with one another but can actually be honest. i like that. when i get a question....i'm coming to find ya.
for some odd low self esteem, fearful, never grew up theirself reason, these parents these days are scared of their own children. being a parent can be intimidating these days. But the problem is, parents haven't grown up themselves. they don't know if they're coming or going. like now... it's 1:30 a.m. where i am now and there are 2 teenage girls in the lobby of my hotel and their on the internet. they can't be any older than 14. their mom and dad wen to their room around an hour ago. crazy
The police have to protect themselves they don't have time to be trying to raise your kids. If a family does not know that police as a friend that policeman is not going to go the extra mile to protect some else's kids.
My first time getting on public transportation by myself was at 16 and I was scared as hell. I wouldn't talk to nobody.
Parents need to take their responsibility as the parent and stop blaming outside sources for they lack. Games, movie,tv anything except themselves.
Im probably quite a bit oldern yall. I grew up during the late 60s, 70s. Wasnt no internet, iPods, or smartphones. We played outside at school, came home and did chores, homework, ate dinner, THEN maybe got to play ouside til the streetlights came on. And if we came in too late, there was a WHUPPIN for dessert! So yeah, I definitely think madern parents are way to lenient. It seems every generation thinks their wiser than the previous one.
I probably quite a bit oldern yall. I grew up during the late 60s, 70s. Wasnt no internet, iPods, or smartphones. We played outside at school, came home and did chores, homework, ate dinner, THEN maybe got to play ouside til the streetlights came on. And if we came in too late, there was a WHUPPIN for dessert! So yeah, I definitely think madern parents are way to lenient. It seems every generation thinks their wiser than the previous one.
Thanks for discussing my topic! Ithink it's a shame that todays youth can't enjoy the same freedoms that my parents gereration did. The media tries to panic everybody into thinking that there's somebody waiting to abduct your child on every street corner, so you can't let them out to play. So then we keep them inside and then complain when they become couch potatoes.
I have other ideas for topics but I'll someone else have a chance. Peace.
yeah that public transportation would happen with my mother neither
but i think my parent are more lenient on my younger brother
but the thing is that we werent allowed outside because my mum thought it wasnt safe hence why we had spent some much time with technology which i regret
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27Nadra 6 months ago
Mothers do not go out of their way to see about their childs education. How many of you have just taken a surprise visit to your childs school when neither the child nor the school was expecting it. Oh, I forgot, I'm sorry. You (mother) can't afford to take off from work but if, as you say, if that deadbeat father was around maybe you'd have the time to see about more of your childs needs but it was you who decided that you "didn't need him".
Jonattbi 7 months ago
Black women tend to dislike anyone instructing them when it comes to their children. Try to tell a Black woman about her child. That is how the child gets over-protected and it hurts the child as well as other people because had that mother listened or had she shown that she was a mother willing to know from others about things her child had been involved in maybe that child would have stayed in school and that child would not be toting a gun around the neighborhood today.
Jonattbi 7 months ago
Today's parent aka the single Mom,in alot of cases are too busy trying to their child's friends instead of being the damn parent.I know alot of brothas had sex with you that you offered in the first place and got you pregnant and then ran off like a thief in the night.When some of these fathers try to come back and right thier wrongs alot of you sistas won't let him and shame on your black ass.It take two parents to be actively in involved in the child's life .
mightyblack1 7 months ago
@ Teshia (did i spell ur name right) please dont let techn deter u from parenthood. children r a blessing, yes its a challenge, but a reward "Lo' children are a heritage of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is His reward." Psalm 127:3 Remembr kids cant hav the techn if u dont give it 2 them, especially if u cant police or ovrsee. there r parental control options on all elec 2day. we use them like crazy. my son comes 2 me every 2 seconds 2 input our code wen using the laptop cuz of parent controls
3minesak 8 months ago
Most of the stuff you guys are sayin is right but as a NY-er...lol, 9 is the startin age to start going to school by yourself! lol the MTA is pretty save so to say here but then again.. >,>/
ButtaUsagi 9 months ago
We live in a under-protective generation/society of babies raising babies.
Kwaagoe1 9 months ago
I agree with all the points. I can't add anything without being redundant. I don't have any yet but I hope their father and I provide the kind of support system that makes them comfortable enough to share their questions, concerns, and goals with. In other words; help them to help us.
BeaSiegal 9 months ago
today's parents sad to say are baby mama's still in high school with no true life experience so the child does not learn anything such as how to say please excuse me or thank you and the parent does not have the skills to teach right from wrong because of their young age yet they feel that having a child would make them feel grown up or important . Im 44 years old and doing a 9 to 5 there are times I would rather stay home and collect hotwheels cars but bills have to be paid enjoy your youth
batman66ism 9 months ago
you 3 give some of the most honest advice and i love the fact that ya'll don't have to always agree with one another but can actually be honest. i like that. when i get a question....i'm coming to find ya.
coldestwoman 9 months ago
for some odd low self esteem, fearful, never grew up theirself reason, these parents these days are scared of their own children. being a parent can be intimidating these days. But the problem is, parents haven't grown up themselves. they don't know if they're coming or going. like now... it's 1:30 a.m. where i am now and there are 2 teenage girls in the lobby of my hotel and their on the internet. they can't be any older than 14. their mom and dad wen to their room around an hour ago. crazy
coldestwoman 9 months ago
The police have to protect themselves they don't have time to be trying to raise your kids. If a family does not know that police as a friend that policeman is not going to go the extra mile to protect some else's kids.
My first time getting on public transportation by myself was at 16 and I was scared as hell. I wouldn't talk to nobody.
Parents need to take their responsibility as the parent and stop blaming outside sources for they lack. Games, movie,tv anything except themselves.
kidunique10 9 months ago
Im probably quite a bit oldern yall. I grew up during the late 60s, 70s. Wasnt no internet, iPods, or smartphones. We played outside at school, came home and did chores, homework, ate dinner, THEN maybe got to play ouside til the streetlights came on. And if we came in too late, there was a WHUPPIN for dessert! So yeah, I definitely think madern parents are way to lenient. It seems every generation thinks their wiser than the previous one.
MortalRon08 9 months ago
I probably quite a bit oldern yall. I grew up during the late 60s, 70s. Wasnt no internet, iPods, or smartphones. We played outside at school, came home and did chores, homework, ate dinner, THEN maybe got to play ouside til the streetlights came on. And if we came in too late, there was a WHUPPIN for dessert! So yeah, I definitely think madern parents are way to lenient. It seems every generation thinks their wiser than the previous one.
MortalRon08 9 months ago
Thanks for discussing my topic! Ithink it's a shame that todays youth can't enjoy the same freedoms that my parents gereration did. The media tries to panic everybody into thinking that there's somebody waiting to abduct your child on every street corner, so you can't let them out to play. So then we keep them inside and then complain when they become couch potatoes.
I have other ideas for topics but I'll someone else have a chance. Peace.
PurpleShades1 9 months ago
no mine im 19 and they still wont leave me alone
yeah that public transportation would happen with my mother neither
but i think my parent are more lenient on my younger brother
but the thing is that we werent allowed outside because my mum thought it wasnt safe hence why we had spent some much time with technology which i regret
aylix89 9 months ago