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  • Dang, the church really brainwashes people. Cheating on your significant other is wrong, yes.

    But I don't see why you would judge someone and say they are a bad person and committing sins" for being intimate and sharing those special moment with their partner, married or not. If it makes you happy at that time, if it makes you feel good emotionally, and it's not hurting anyone else in the process, I see nothing wrong.

    I don't believe in waiting until marriage for sex. Having a great sexual

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    But it does end up hurting people. It hurts you, because it can make you feel worthless. It hurts the one you're with, because they've made themselves vulnerable to you. As for making you feel good emotionally...sure it will— for the night. The next morning can be a different story. And as for not cheating...isn't that what you're doing every time you sleep with someone not your husband? Virginity and your sexual appeals are gifts from God. Don't waste them.

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  • This has helped show me what not to do thank you for posting!

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  • Thank you for this video. I've slipped in my Christian walk in the past, and this video reminded me of some verses that I'd forgotten about. I'm really getting my life on track now :-). I've always heard rely on God, rely on God, rely on God and it finally clicked in my head and heart what that means. Life is much happier with God. I had some problems with depression in the past, and I don't think that will ever be a struggle for me again. God. Is. Awesome!

  • Man this song is awesome but it gives you chills

  • That's why you get tested

  • Shawnkitty1 is right you have to wait. And that is so true once you are exposed to stuff like that it's so hard to stop And if you have sex early it does hurt your future family with stuff like the possibility of passing STD's and other stuff and your spouse might keep a good eye on you

  • I had a really good friend cheat on his wife.everything in that video is true it starts with small things than it moved up to big things and then it moves up to a place where when you look back you say how did I get here.

  • @starzrun just because someone does it doesn't mean someone else should do it

  • this song really touches me. my family went through this exact situation. except it wasnt stopped. i love my dad but he abandonded us. i love my step mom and step bro and sister with them too. the decisions parents make will affect their kids forever and i can feel the affect of this. so i beg of u. never put your family through this. it ruins relationships. bc of this i have little to no relationship with my father. i love u daddy

  • I LOVE THIS VIDEO!

    I recommend it to everyone. It's soo good and inspirational!

  • wonderfully done video...It has really made me think.

  • I totally agree w this video I love this song the official video is better and to all those jerks who say it's going to happen wheather or not ya ur right but if u r smart then u will wait till ur married I got my purity ring for my b day from my dad and I have made that commitment and thissong isn't really bout waiting till ur married its not commuting adultery

  • I'm not gonna lie, this is an amazing video with an amazing message, thank you so much for posting! <3

    <3 God Bless you all <3

  • ok tbh this is a major overeaction to it big time.. this video makes it sound like you screw up your entire life when it happens like drugs..... in my honest opinion its not that bad as long as its safe and tbh with you folks in 90% of cases its gonna happen whether you like it or not and if you child say she doesnt want it the most usual case is because she CANT get it even if she tried i dont mean to flame online but im just saying the truth....

  • @GrlovesMA its just a natural cycle of life and its gonna happen whether you want it to or not so might as well make it safe while your at it

  • @GrlovesMA You say you don't mean to flame, while you are in fact flaming. You're entitled to your own opinion but don't expect anyone to agree with it.

  • @GrlovesMA ok... your right and your wrong. pretty much all people after they hit puberty want sex... duh. but this video isn't saying that you shouldn't want it. its saying that you should wait. I know from experience that its gets so much harder to say "no" once you've said "yes" once. just because it happens in "90% of cases" doesn't mean that a teenager can't decide to be one of the "10%" left. everyone makes their own choices and you saying that its inevitable is taking that choice away

  • @GrlovesMA ok so your right and your wrong. Sex may not ruin the rest of your life like drugs, but it does change the rest of your life. I know from experience that it becomes much harder to say "no" once you've done it once. All post-pubescents want to have sex... duh. but the point of the this video/idea is to be stronger than that want. Oh and your "its gonna happen deal with it" philosophy is saying basically that ppl don't have a choice. They do.

  • @GrlovesMA every person that has consensual sex makes a choice. why are you taking that choice away from them? why assume they will make a certain choice?

  • wow, great job. it gets the word/point across.

  • wow....it says it all.....n i just got done watching fireproof 2.lol

  • This is amazing - I am working through these struggles with my teens at present and its all so true - not only for teens for but adults as well - we should all be aware of what we look at, listen to, watch on TV and at the movies and even who we hang out with. Thank you so much for putting this together - I am sharing it with our youth group.

  • THIS IS LIKE THE BEST VIDEO EVER.... my church might sing this and this might be our video to put for everyone to see it was that good so we honoring it :)

  • Please also portray the BEAUTY of sex in a committed relationship. (because marriage is little more than a legal long-term committed relationship) Lets educate our children so that they dont end up hurt or diseased WHEN they become curious. I applaud you for searching out a new way to open up conversation with the youth. I hope this video doesn't cause any harm, as I know it is intended for good.

  • Just because two people abstain from sex before marriage doesnt mean they wont divorce. And vice versa. When we teach our kids that they need to suppress their sexuality, we are suppressing something natural. Feelings that God intended us to have. So when I get married I am supposed to flip a switch and suddenly the whole physical aspect to my relationship will be guilt-free and peachy? challenges with sex AFTER marriage for those who wait are more prominent than we think.

  • depressing. misleading. guilt-driven. Double check the context of your verses and perhaps remove if it doesn't fit the context of the viewer.

  • As a wife of a youth pastor I can say that you have done a tremendous job with this video! Could you send me some information on the pictures you used? I am in charge of powerpoint for our services and we are singing this song Sunday... you have some great pictures that display the truths of this song beautifully... Very artistic- the Lord is using your gifts to transcend words girl! Amen!

  • Omg! This is amazing! I love it

    I wanna know how you did this

    Like the pictures and music

    I need to do it for a viedo I want to make like this

    Comment or message me thanks

  • Christians should not be judge for what we believe. Just like many people who dont believe, judge us for talking to them about God and his Love and Word.

    I only wanted to say that our couple doesnt have to say: "Everybody is doing it". We know we want to. "Curiosity killed the cat", right?! But we are empowered by the Holy Spirit and OUR decision not to have sex. But we have to be clear with ourselves and our couple. And, offcourse, not thinking about it, even if we want to !

  • i'm not religous, i just love this song, and this was the video i clicked on, but tbh it's all about when the person is ready to do it, no one should be judged for it, everyones differemt and believes different things, i completly respect people who wait till they are married before having sex, but to most teens now it's just not the case, if your careful and look after yourself then i don't think theres anything wrong with it, i've had sex with 4 people, and i'm 19 and i don't regret it at all

  • This video was not meant to condemn or judge anyone. To be honest, Im 35, about to Celebrate 16 years of Marriage this year & I did make wrong choices that I wish I had not made. God intended sex to be an experience between a husband and a wife to join them as 1, as well as to build a family. But having sex before marriage, viewing pornography, it takes away the beauty of what it was really meant for. Having multiple partners in life is like a chain, you have soul ties to each person your with.

  • Look up online Soul Ties and what it means if your not sure. You are right, everyone is different and believes differently but if God is able to reach just 1 through this video then maybe a young person would be encouraged to wait for their future husband or wife. I listened to the holy spirit, the youth we presented this to were among the ages of 11 up to16 and were not ready to have sex before marriage....

  • we all know is going on in schools these days & how hard it is to say no but with the strength of Christ they can say no.

  • as i said i completly respect that, i've been in a few long relationships for my age, and i just think that sex is part of a healthy relationship, and i do want to be close to my bf's without having to wait, i don't want to get married, and neither does my bf, to us it's not practical, so why wait? we are both mature enough to handle it, but yeah, kids 11-16 are too young alothough i was 15, but this is seems like it's rtying to scare people away from sex rather than tell them the facts about it

  • I understand where your coming from and its not my place to judge you or anyone for what they choose to do in their life. The bible does talk about sex before marriage and how we should wait until we are married. I've been through enough in my own life & marriage to see how sex before marriage can destroy relationships. I dont think its trying to scare them but its giving them the reality of what can happen if people have sex before marriage.....

  • Look at Lifetime and all the movies they are putting out. I saw one the other day about 13 and 14 year olds having sex and ended up with a STD that was transmitted to half the school. I wish that there would have been something there to give me a reality check when I was their age & I know its a heck of alot harder for them now then it was for me back then. I have a 13 year old that I encourage to wait through talking with him and being there for him when he needs to talk....

  • I see the tv today and it is constantly teaching that sex is just another thing to do, just like drugs, drinking etc. It can all be damaging one way or another. Im a youth leader and I pray for all of my teens daily that they make the right choices in life so they dont have to go through the things that I have had to deal with in life. Sometimes we have to give some tough love to our kids to reach them, they are a tough generation, and God can use us to reach them.

  • This was a great video. But you have to remember we are all human and sin will sometimes get ahold of us. This "Say No" "Don't be with that crowd" doesn't always work and is much harder then these types of videos and other programs make it seem. No may be a small word... But it isn't the easiest word to say.

  • I have had sex and I'm a teen. I regret it badly. Don'do it before marriage. ®

  • This is a very negative video, you have to remember that god loves you and wants you to be happy, you grow and learn from the mistakes you make. This video makes it out like only shame and despair will come from sex before marriage, which is NOT true in some cases. Beautiful song.

  • @6NightStalker9 it is true that god loves you and wants you to be happy, you grow and learn from the mistakes you makes. and that he will forgive you of your sins that i totally agree with you.

    But all sin dose in fact result in shame. few may never get a disease, pregnant,or raped, cheated on, or regret, just to name a few. sex outside of marriage is just like playing with a loaded gun. you may not get shot but why take that chance? nothing good can come from it and it can only bring pain

  • one more thing i forgot to say While God wants us to learn from our own mistakes and grow from them, He also wants us to Learn from the mistakes other people have made. He wants us to learn from the millions of teen girls who were used for sex then dumped, or who got pregnant or diseases. He wants us to take those Mistakes and Learn from them so that we will not make the same mistake. He wants us to learn from their suffering so that we wont have to suffer as well. He hurts when we hurt.

  • lol

  • and tweens, i go to an activitie in church called Club 56 and we started out with 20girls.. and now including me.. all that's left is 5girls

  • Wow this video is so good. And so true, but I wil say, if people have made this sort of mistake in life, it is nnot out plave to judge, just remember that. Thats wy many teens have problems with church...

  • u r a amazing person for makin this video

  • wow i love that video most kids my age would laugh at it but im waiting till im married for sure ^_^

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  • Wow! You did a great job on this video and it is encouraging to know that others want to stay pure for their future husbands/wives. God bless you for posting this video for the whole world to see! ♥

  • wow this vid is so powerful and true God bless

  • Brilliant! May God richly bless you! :-)

  • that was amazing! You did an absolutly awesome job with that video! I am going to recommend it to every one in my youth group!

  • wow this is amazing! you took an amazing song and turned it into this wow you are awesome!! im going to take it to me youth group!!!

  • I do want to add though, that what you are trying to do is wonderful Our Youth need direction, Just remember that the wrong direction in the Word is just as bad for them as the wrong direction in the World. 1 misconception that they may get from "Christians" Can really turn them away from seeking God fully and accepting His plan for their lives... The Bible also warns us of this...

  • two things-1 you cant just use any verse and try to fit it to your point some dont go, last 1 for example, plz read it again dont just use the thesaurus and pick out ANY U feel, ppl that prevert the gospel for their own points give christians a bad name. 2-you need to pull the part about influence naming ppl who in your opinion are sinning is not a place you want to put yourself, God also says that it is His place to judge-not ours-and when we choose to do that we are walking on very thin ice.

  • wow good job! great video. And its so true! We have to be reminded that all the meaningless stuff from the world should not be important and shouldnt be the main focus in our lives,, only God. Our Savior should be the One we honor so that we may be blessed and live a wholesome life

  • We arent asking people to be perfect coming from experince there is no such thing as perfect only god is perfect He just wants people to turn away from sine and try to live are lives the way he wants us to.Oh and dont ever talk harshly about church

  • Awesome video! It is an amazing encouragement to know their are other teens commited to staying pure. This song was a perfect pick for the presentation and the visual images fit, keep your attention and make you think. Again, Awesome Job!

  • Galatians 5:17. so many levels you are wrong and in need of God! It is not people who want people to be perfect, God wants us to be perfect. God does not love everyone. God hates all unrighteousness. How can God love something that is evil and an enemy of his. God loved Jacob and hated Esau! If God loved everyone the same way, there would be no hell. you have a question to answer in your own mind. Will you be judged for the hypocrisy of the church or your own sins Trust in Jesus and repent!

  • So freakin' judgemental. When you get to the pearly gates and you are refused entry, you'll know why. Again, BS Video..imperfect people want everyone else to be perfect. Go back to your Tammy & Jim Bakers and all the other evangelical dudes who lead two lives.

  • And a "bs" comment from someone calling us hypocrites indirectly. I never expect people to be perfect anymore (hint: anymore, used to be an extreme legalist). Guess what? I grew up.

  • This is such a great video.

  • This is one of the most amazing and impactful videos I have seen. My 15 year old daughter saw it and shared it with me. You did an awesome job laying it all out. People commented below about all sin and how true they are. But I think this is an awesome video for struggling christian teens who by nature MOSTLY have sex on the brain. I would love to share it with my friends on myspace. Looking forward to you posting more great videos. We found a great one on YouTube. Look up Lifehouse..Everything.

  • nice video & good message 4 this current youth...

    God bless you

  • Just to let you know, at 1:13 it should be "you're" instead of "your". Just figured I'd let you know if this is a presentation. Not bad, though

  • Yeah my friends even said "If I could get my virginity back I would. When you're a virgin you don't feel dirty dirty dirty dirty dirty." I felt awful, and by that point I was ecstatic I was still pure ^_^ thanks

  • i love this sooo much very good video!!!

  • it is really good video you have made. But just a thought or comment, its may not only apply to sexual sins, but sins in general. If we dont follow the truth then we will fade away. Praise God for Casting Crowns.

  • This is an amazing video. It really touched me and made me think. Thank you so much for posting it! May I have your permission to show this at my youth group?

  • Hi, Yes if anyone would like to use this video to show it to others please feel free and use it. Im so amazed as to how many people have watched it and God is speaking to through it. Praise God!

  • that is amazing. Thank you for posting that. I got a purity/promise ring from my daddy a few weeks ago and I am even stronger in my belief of being and staying pure. Thank you, I am going to show this video to my church youth group.

  • THIS IS SOO GOOD!!!!

    that is such a eye openning video

    it is so true

    i love the video and the song

    good job

  • good  job

  • OMGSH! it really makes you think about how your living!

  • awesome video...it helps u think if ur living ur life the way god wants u to..and it helps u to b pure :)ty for posting this

  • its true you do see that in high school,pregnant girls walking around,who do you think are the fathers of those babys older guys dont waste your time no matter how nice they seem arent worth it,this video is good because it addresses all the issuses with sexual impurity,satan wants nothing more this kind of sin for us it brings us down so much and its sad this is how our world is to day,be stronge in school and dont leave the straight path it dont get easyer trust me im in college now its harder

  • I completely agree with the person who posted below me. I'm 14 as well and I walk around my school and constantly see girls my own age who are pregnant. This video has helped to put purity in a new perspective.

    This past Christmas my sister bought me a purity ring and I didn't really think that it was a big deal.. but now I get it.

    Thank you! You did an amazing job on this video!

  • this is one amazing video! i'm 14 and i see alot of girls at my skool pregnant and i dont want to be like that this video rele opens my eyes and makes me look at alot of things differently! you guys did and amazing job and i hope this video can make other people lok at life differently cuz it deffinately made me look at things differently thank you so much!

  • very good music video and extremly god msg to :)

  • i am a 35 year old woman who was left by her husband 4 years ago. he was not a christian. I have a 15 year old daughter and we both learned from this video. great job!!!!

  • amen. this has such a powerful message. i fully agree with this. thank you for making this :-)

  • I see that i don't want that for me. so I really like this video cause it speaks the truth. Many young girls and getting pregnant, and they are just babies themselves. I think we as Christian should speak up and speak the truth of the Lords calling of what is to be done from us.

  • I'm 20 years and i can never hold a boyfriend for long b/c they always want to have but i made a promise to God to stay pure. but it's funny cause all these guys try to get me to break. But what the guys I use to date don't realize they can tell you all these things like i love you but they never cause they always leave after they get it. Mest best friend Was a senior and she got pregnant, now she is alone with her son the father isn't even in the picture.

  • I'm exactly in the same boat as you. It's an amazing thing to have gone this far, without giving into temptation. God has a plan for us, and it will be the most rewarding when we get married. We're staying pure not just for the Lord, but for ourselves as a whole..

  • i know it so amazing.. even the guy i'm dating is doing the same thing. and i even asked God to bring me someone who is pure as I am. and it's amazing how God works.

  • esmeralda1221, it's too late. U knew that you shouldn't have sex before marriage, and yet you still do it. U already sinned!!

  • Its NEVER too late to ask forgiveness. 1 John 1:9 says that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us of our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Teenage mother, drug addict, murderer, it doesn't matter. All have sinned and all can be forgiven. The real question here should not be if you have sinned or how often, but rather, are you born again according to Romans 10:9-10.

  • This is the most ingorant thing to say I have ever seen. Its not what Christ would say. He would say, "God my child, and sin no more." You are forgiven if you ask.

  • to teach kids about purity you shop them people kissing and in bed together, i do not follow?

  • Often the world presents the first part of the sequence of events: Love, romance, sex. And they leave out the consequence part.

  • Amazing job, i usually don't like the remakes of artists videos but this was great, great message as well. keep up the gud work my fellow Christians

  • oh wow! this is a great video! it really hit home and made me think. keep up the great work!

  • I know the song and like the song but I'm a proud mother and I have never been married . So all I have to say is do not judge what you do not know. Btw I am a Christian and to assume one does not know god because they have had sex is to be judgmental and the bibal also says that people shouldnt judge.

  • true to assume someone doesnt know God because of ANY sin is an error. GOD does not say you cannot know him if you sin. but it is our sin that seperates us from God and Jesus had to die so that we do not have to be slaves of sin. i think that the point of this song is to encourage us not to allow sin to take control of our lives again now that we have been set free!

    btw the bible says no where that we are not to judge. it DOES say "flee sin (also evil) and love what is good."

  • I see your point, I'm a teenega mother who lives w/my boyfriend (her dad) though we need to get married, b/c either way living together w/o being married is still FORNICATION and we're still sinning. We are reborn christians and that's why we are getting married soon, b/c we are aware that in the eys of God it is wrong, no matter how anyone else my justify it. People should not judge, but as we make choices we must learn from them as well.

  • No judgment from here, just a point. A person has to LIVE as a Christian, not just say they are Christian,it should be obvious to anyone. Rebelchild, people who know God do sin, we ALL sin, it is God's grace that matters, we ask forgiveness and try to learn from our errors. Believe me, I learned the hard way, but found that God is AMAZING!

  • Rebelchild, you are right, we have all sinned. And, to correct you, your christain peers are given the right to reproof you. We all are. If we turn a blind eye to what our brother is doing,and not judge them in love, and tell them what they are doing is wrong according to the word, we are causing more harm than good! So yes, you can judge, if the spirit of God, not the spirit of man. Watch what you do, because you may cause your brother to sin. Remember that one as well.

  • Romans 14:21 It is good not to eat meat or to drink wine, or to do anything by which your brother stumbles.

    If what you do causes your brother to fall, you must RETHINK. This goes for EVERYTHING we do as Christians! EVERYTHING.

  • oh my gosh, that was so touching! i mean it! this was just so amazing, i'm lost for words! i love it! i'll be sure to look at this with my friends, if they ever are having problems.

  • wow this is so powerful! i wish i could show this to my friends in pennsylvania! this is an incredible slide show! it really speaks to me!

  • Thank you everyone for your comments. They inspire me and its a true blessing to know that this video has touched so many. Giving God all the Glory. Thanks!

  • that was really good

  • Thank you ao much for posting this video, i really enjoyed it. this was very well done.

  • Outstanding! Well done! Truth is truth and needs be presented as such.

  • excellent work. good pics and images and timing was tight.

  • Wow this song is good on its own but this vid just make me want to cry because of crap thats going on in my life right now. Keep up the good work

  • i thank you soo much for putting this video up. it is very powerful. and ive been going through some tough times and i needed help bad. And god spoke to me through this video. and it has blessed me beyond measurment. thankyou again and god bless.

  • Awesome interpretation of an awesome song! Thank you for taking the time to put this together. You have wonderful insight into the deeper meaning behind the words to this song. And yes, thank God for laying this on your heart.

  • wow...

    That's all I can say. I never thought of it that way. This is a very powerful song/video.

    Thanks for opening my eyes.

  • wow this is really good i loved it.

  • Definately a video and song everyone needs to see and listen to...

  • This song is so powerful. You did an Awesome job showing how someone can be drawn away by their own lusts. We all need to keep our eyes on Jesus. The devil is right outside our door.

  • This is amazing you did a wonderful job on this video !!

  • WOW, The response has been unbelievable. I am so blessed to know that this video is being seen by so many people. Thank you God & Thank you for all the comments! Alesia

  • Good job! that was moving. Here's praying this vid gets one million views by teens who need to see it. we CAN take back our youth from satan...

    (pa'lante y pal cielo, as we say in spanish: ever heaven-ward)

  • Well done!!!

  • that video was put together very nicely! the pictures got more and more deep as the song went on! i just thought i would say that.. good job!!

  • good job so true

  • What about you? Do you think it dosen't effect you too?

  • Wow. this vid is really great and i just wanted to say that if you dont think that god sees everything, guess again. I know 4 a fact(the bible says)that your spiritual form is always directly infront of him and whatever you do, your spirit does at the same time. Yes, he does to try and remind us that we are loyal to him, but sometimes satin gets the best of us. Anyways...i love this song!! It really tuched me!

  • Greta vid!!!! im gonna show this to everyone i know!!! Christians rule!!!

  • Awesome and Chilling Good Job I think this song has a lot of different things about it

  • that was awesome i love this song it really has a great piont god is my hero that video really toched me ohh this a girl his sister thats the only way i could post a coment lol

  • this was put together wonderfully. I love the images you chose to illustrate an important message. A price is always paid when we do not follow God's loving instruction! So full of truth

  • whats up with the satan thingie in your description?

    anyway the vid seems great :)

  • :) It was the title of a series we did for our youth group if you look up that title you will see what its about. Thanks for the comments...

  • Hahaha Our Projection Is Hooked To A Computer And Everyone Watched It In Church On The Projector

  • awsome vid makes me think deffently about the choices i have made in the past, jesus loves you

  • awesome vid.

  • this is amazing... i just finished true love waits at my church and i am proud to tell people about my ring. this is a great video i will be sure to show it to my you pastor! ;)

  • Hey there this video is really great...I appreciate people like you helping open peoples minds and helping create awereness. I really enjoyed the truth and reality of this video. keep on keeping on. and thank you...

  • This video is amazing! I especially loved when you showed how Jamie Lynn followed in Britney's footsteps. Very creative! 5/5

  • Thank you for your comments. It encourages me to create more and Im blessed that so many young people are viewing this video and learing from it.

  • That video was Awesome. It sends a very powerful message to all who watch it. It makes me think twice about what I do because I have little eyes watching me.

  • Thank you for your comment. It was geared for our youth of today but God is using it in so many other ways. Thanks God bless.

  • Excellent Video...Very powerful message!

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