Passion must be real... and cannot taught. It can be shown but must be felt before it can be understood. Most nice guys would proudly die for their love. I cannot think of a woman whose passion is more pure. Men are in conflict with a changing socail mores and I personally feel a passion to fight for what I believe.... love.
You know its a load BS what you said, many nice/decent guys have passion...most are more passionate than the retarded dudes that women seem to go for..as a comment stated below, if you don't go for a man or give a man a chance you are blind to if he is passionate or not but hey if a women don't date nice/decent guys due to assumptions than the nice/decent guy is better off, because she don't know any better and is immature. Don't befriend nice guys to complain when your b/f is being an ass than
Just ask yourself one question...do you really want to date a woman that prefers a guy who is a jerk and a dickhead over one who is nice and decent? Not all women are into this bad-boy bullshit. Just keep looking until you find a real woman who truly values a nice, quality man and is herself a sincere, caring, quality woman. If you settle for a woman that values bad behavior, then you get what you deserve. It's a simple matter of karma, what you put out comes back to you.
If you are a MALE seeking dating advice from a FEMALE then you're already screwed. Would a woman ask for dating advice from a man? (Steve harvey don't count. Anyways how did I even find this video??? Oh well back to watching more thugitician
theirs one big hole in your argument........if a woman doesn't give you the chance to begin with how will she ever know how much passion you have exploding inside of you
dont listen to her she doesnt know what she is talking about to get a women is simple and it doesnt take a lot of mental guesswork to figure it out either. Be confident in your masculinity project power, strength and control women are drawn to men who exhbit these traits the nice guy is wishy washy not confident in who is and makes the women his idol and thats why nice guys end up trodden underfoot by women never make a woman the center of your universe show that you have life outside of her.
proper balance....I have learn to show militancy ,and yet be nice....depending on who is in front of me. Any Black woman who doesnt respect nice guys deserves the woman beating thug. This is the primary reason that the so called nerd ends up with other ethnicities......usually happier .....Black women have shot themselves in the foot.
I tried passion with 3 different African American Women to no avail. They want Low saggin pant Thugs. I started and dating then married another ethnicity and haven't been happier.
@imyjam Sweet heart not all African Americans prefer thugs and as a matter of fact there are PLENTY (like me) who do not. I was fortunate as an AA woman to attract a good AA man who has passion. It is not about race because there are all types of men and woman in each race. There are women who make poor choices in men in all races so to use a generalization after only interacting with 3 women is ignorant.
@lovein30days You know what shay, honestly, Im sick of this bullshit where you women want us men to treat yall like queens. i have learned to never treat a woman as a queen because the moment i do, thats when they start to run all over us, and you know its true. yes passion is a way but if thats the case, then why when it comes to treating a woman right yall want to turn and treat us like shit? if this is the natural way with women then prove to me the real way! show me a solution
@lovein30days Also you forgot "Ambition" which also plays a huge role because don't nobody want someone who has no direction in their life. A relationship is suppose to be 50/50 not 20/80, but theres a concept that can be read true "One must have more attraction toward the other to keep the relationship going" This is true because 2 people cannot be leaders in relationship, therefore, there can only be 1 person leading (which should be the man) the two
Sounds like your describing a thug. Thugs usually don't show passion to women. All they want is to bang and move on. The minute a good man shows passion to a black woman is when you turn that black woman off.
Why does the women not know when to read the signals when men are interested in her? women do not always knows how man feels about her, Neither man or woman can read thoughts if this were the case then you would not be making video like this. women give men a hard time to nice guys or good guys just because don't know how I know how to speak to women. I know how to look after women they just don't men like me.
what happen to that comment by onlygreatness007. dude was on point. so luvin30days i guess your view is the only one? you couldn't come back with an intelligent response so you deleted dude's comment. must be some truth in it somewhere. i agree with onlygreatness007.
Mothers raise their boys to respect and be nice to women. The most important woman in mens lives 'The Mother' brainwash boys to be nice guys. The frustration that men have is when reality hits them like a brick. Women respect men who disrespect them and treats them badly. The opposite of what Mommy said. Letting go of that deeply rooted belief is hard for men to do. They feel like they are betraying their Momma.
I tend to agree with you here. I have found passion to be the number one thing that can set a woman ablaze, particularly when it comes to romance and sex. In fact, I think a lot of ladies most remember the men whose enoromous...passion swept them off the cliffs. At the same time, other qulaities have to complelement passion - for instance, intelligence, ability to hold stimulating conversations, strength, and so on, as I am sure you know.
PEOPLE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THERE IS NO METHOD FOR WINNING A WOMAN. IS EITHER THE WOMAN LIKES YOU OR SHE DONT. HOWEVER THERE ARE BASIC RULES THAT EVERY DUDE NEEDS TO KNOW; WHICH IS NOT BEING DESPERATE AND BEING YOURSELF. DONT ACT LIKE JAYZ TO HER BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED ANOTHER JAY Z
I feel you baby...i wanna passionantly put you over my knee.............im a nice guy how do i get your product...................why do women like gettin spanked...is it an authority issue?
What happens is that a lot of nice brothers get bitter and move on to women of other races. it is sad but the truth I have not dated american women in a long time. And don't realy plan on it been messed over too many times.
This was cool but I think ...I guy has to take in consideration the social economic back round of the female. Some females may take that passion for weakness and try the guy up ..Just my view...other than that nice info
You got to do the Ike Turner on these women out here, make them eat the cake. You got to be the pimp, and she is the hoe, tell her to bring back my money!!! You got to have a i don't give a fuck mentality, be mysterious. You must have rough sex with them, beat it up!!!, pull her hair, choke her, she will submit to you. You must rule with an iron fist, you leads she follows or else. You gotta have felonies, and war wounds(bullet wounds) and be violent, women love niggas like that.
I wouldnt have said it izzackly like dat but I think this is true across the board. I'm a musician, frisbee playin white guy and I have to say you are dead on. they also like when you do NOT focus on them too much. you're better off with a woman complaining that you dont spend enough time with her or think about her enough to the other way around. its all so backwards but its reality. sucks but true.
No passion? Really? That's part of our damn problem. When we become passionate ya'll get instanly turned off. All most women want (because i've asked quite a few) is for the man to have tons of cash flow, illeagal or not, and a big dick and know how to fuck. Hate to be blunt but i've heard it a thousand times.
i swear the entire video all i heard was "theres ONNE thing... ONNE thing that guys need to know.. just WUNNNN thing....... all they need is ONNNNE thing......"
Passion? Baby ,you are lost in beyond belief! If us nice guys did not have passion, then why are we academically educated and financially stable? Obviously we had the passion to better ourselves and offer something to our companions and children! What "passion" do your thug ass niggas bring to the table? They work blue collar jobs, most are not even high school educated, they live in the ghetto, have all these illegitimate babies, they have crimal records. You got to be kidding me, now!
very true. I think what she really means is dominance. part of the problem is that women dont even really know what draws them to a man. This chick knows more than most and is close but even then its very difficult for women to describe what draws them in on an animalistic level. I think the fact that men and women are so different in that way is one big huge fucking cosmic joke. Gay people must have it easier. those lucky bastards!! lol : )
Shay your videos are brilliant. Keep doing what you do. I know everybody may have their own style or do what makes them happy but the advice that you give is very good. God bless you for sharing your wisdom.
This lady is over her self.....She says she's married and i BET the relationship has some hairpin curves in it....smh, one reason why women do what they do now..listenin to other crazy women..
Oh boy, listen fellas we all know that a passionate man, is passionate man whether he be nice guy, bad boy, gentleman or degenerate. If you want women you gotta have the money, but if you want a woman to be all over you head over heels dedicated to you, you need ONE THING. If you want a woman to crave your attention more than anything you need this ONE THING, and that's.... Other Women.
Any woman that does not respect a nice man should not be trusted herself. If excitement intoxicates her...she"ll be drunk and on his cock in no time. The excitement of cheating is what a lot of these types live for. Their harlots!
What a load of BS! Generic relationship advice just doesn't work. There's no such thing as 'what women want' because women continually look to improve their lives which may not necessarily involve you, hence yo ass gets dumped for pointless reasons. When we hear 'secrets' being revealed, it's more often than not someone trying to put fresh spin on an age-old conundrum. "How to get women eating out the palm of your hand"? Please. Matriarchal domestic life is what many women strive for anyway.
@panchotheaddict u better find a way bruh else these girls jus gone keep shittin on u.............................s/n @lovein30days shay u sexy gurl i wanna give u a 30 minute kiss to your love below. is that passionate enough for u baby?
@lovein30days isn't disrespect what you women love? You say you want men to be nice, tolerant and agreeable. So why you blockin' him when he basically acting the what ya'll women want?! Just kidding, but honestly a nice guy is the only thing thats going to keep you happy and alive in this world. No thug/ bad boy is going to be taking care of you in the projects with a blue collar job with all them illegimate children.
A friend sent me this video and honestly, I don't know why.. Yes, I am single, however I don't think "passion" is the single trait nice guys need. What about loving Christ, being a gentleman, compassion, etc. These are the reasons I am still single. I am young, educated, own my own business and home and feel I have much more to offer than "a big butt & smile". I thought this would tell me something I didn't know.
if u a nice guy and u tryna get a woman u gotta hug ya nuts stop being a chump and stop trying all these lame ass advice pages jus be yourself and get in where u fit HUG YO NUTS NIGGA ERRRRRDAY
@panchotheaddict420 u better find a way bruh else these girls jus gone keep shittin on u.............................s/n @lovein30days shay u sexy gurl i wanna give u a 30 minute kiss to your love below. is that passionate enough for u baby?
???? you say nice guys need passion and a backbone to stand up for themselfs??? 1, a backbone well then why when men stick up for themselfs do women then think men dont lissen or care about there opinion?? 2, PASSION if any guy shows any passion women always think that that means hes only thinking about sex. i watch a few of these "women helping men out vids" and to tell you the truth none of you have a clue what a nice guy is. i'm nice and kind but women dont give me a second glance, THAT HURTS
I must say sure this applies to some women but there are a number of women who associate passion and kindness as a sign of weakness and prefer men who don't mind doggin them out in relationships for years.
some nice guys do get girls, these men are called "Gentlemen", the characteristics of a gentleman are (1). Confidence in who they are and who they are not. (2). Strong leadership and team effort: be a leader to others, but also be willing to walk beside them when no one else will. (3). Sincerity for others' thoughts and feelings. (4). Standards that you value and honor as a man, those same standards you look for in others. (5) yes passion, but I prefer to call it motivation. Be an achiever.
So I'm a nice guy I had the passion to give my girlfiend yet she still cheats on me when I'm in Afghanistan steals all my money leaves me in my flat with nothing but the ring I was going to give her her excuse I don't want you to be my husband you don't have any leges
This is nonsense. Women are attracted to bad boys and jerks on a subconscious level. They prefer bad boys even over nice guys with backbones, especially when they are younger women. They start looking at nice guys who have their stuff together when they start getting old and need someone to help them raise the children they had with the bad boy who isn't worth a damn. Fellas, do not save these women who dissed you back in the day. Just say no to a ho.
I'm guessing you never had a TRUE nice guy......love that you are making that money off these weak and insecure guys that you are REALLY talking about (and girls)
...smh...First...nice guys have passion thats one of the key things to being a nice guy you have that emotional side...second...Teach them to be passionate?...Sounds like someones scamming these young gents.
All men have a passion for something. It's the woman's job to tap into it. If you don't show interest in a man he's gonna be guarded with his emotions. Women want men to commit without security. Women want to feel secure with a man, but men want to feel secure with a woman. I think black women/men have a communication bridge that is going in the wrong direction.
@lovein30days Shay, you seem very observant, intelligent, and you are quite beautiful in my opinion. However, aren't men more apathetic/indifferent when it comes to emotion? Men were taught not to show emotion at an early age, so would that not make having passion more difficult for them?
I really did learned a lot from you nice guy videos. Well Iam a nice guy, in my past I had alot of problems out of past relationships. But in your videos I have learned that I have to change things with myself to be a better person for her and mostly for my self.
i can see how this would make sense but dont forget to tell these people that when there is too much of anything the VALUE is driven down. Then she will be eating out of the palm of your hand but make sure there is much more deepness to you than just that.
this helped me alot to see how foolish i have been im my past trying to be nice to females, espically my so called black women, who love putting brothas down for being nice, thats so negative i do realise, yall dont want pussy azz guys, it proves be a asshole and only worry about urself, never show emotions, cause they all think ur weak, its better to be a thug over a gentelman they all think tha same way lol but i dont care cause i know im good people, every real man knows how to stand up!
nice guys don't finish last. watch alex coulson videos. this man beats all the bad boys. he approaches women anywhere. you just have to be confident and not nervous and never let the conversation die out or seem desperate. that is the problem with nice guys. they lack confidence and stay always quiet and say they love the girl right away like an obsession person. just watch alex coulson videos and you will see that girls like nice guys
IE: ONCE A GUY SAYS HE LOVES A WOMEN SHE SUBCONSCIOUSLY WILL BECOME TURNED-OFF. PERIOD. TREAT THEM LIKE WHORES AND YOU WILL ALLLWAYS GO FAR---TRUST ME, I KNOW AND I LIVE IT EVERY MINUTE.
Why do you define a "nice guy" as a guy with no passion and no self-esteem? There are guys with passion and self-esteem and are also nice. And there are also guys without passion and self-esteem but are complete jerks.
Speak up . n show u have a backbone. The 1 thing every 1 wants is respect Man Women it doesnt matter. U respect her as a person n as ( Women ) never demean some 1 . But don't let people ( especially ) women talk S***T 2 u don't let them put u down. women try 2 bust ur ego n make u think ur opinion or ur view is not worth C**P stand by ur opinion n when he or she is wrong let them know it bc if u don't they will do it 2 u again or the next person bc no 1 stood up to them
One thing , One thing. just get 2 the point arleady stop the teasing . Passion. please. I work with alot of women. n at work is 1 thing u cant be 2 upbrut . but its how you react to what they say. means " O Bob can u get that cart. n u get it in a sec .say ok Lisa. what ur her personal get this person n she knows it she just played u n u don't even know it. what u should say is " whats a matter u can get it u know how to walk rite. thats Passion what u say 2 her n not be a wimp. Be a MAN !!!!!
one thing you need : is indifference and detachment.WHen you want something too bad .....you wont get it.However,you dont want something it seems to come in flowing like water....just stop giving a damn and women will come.
Before i started not giving a damn...i would want a GF and be in a relationship but it never came to fruitation.Now I just dont give a damn and im focusing on myself and my life and all of a sudden i have women coming at me wanting to date,etc.....
Women are not funny , women are only reactive ,,,they cannot initiate anything on their own ...so why must have man only do..and women receive ....lol...she is lame and most women are
I have passion for one woman only. To suggest you can give this type of passion to stop any woman in her tracks is not exactly honest. Without love all passion is...is another form of manipulation. If you are trying to "get" something like sex(men) or money(women) then you will manipulate each other. Dont worry what women want. Worry about what your woman wants. If you can not do this honestly then your with the wrong woman. In fact if you have any of these "nice guy" problems ur with the wrong1
I thought this was going to be something that was going to help me... but it didn't. No disrespect, but it seems you've got a lot more observation and assessment to be done. What you've covered is only 1 out of 4 underlying issues that men have in trying to keep their partner interested. I'm a nice guy and have plenty of passion... but apparently (from my own personal experiences) that's not attractive.
@xivinrah Hi, nice guy! The video referred to only one aspect of a few traits that many nice guys are lacking. However I address a MAJOR complaint many women have against "nice guys". You can have all the passion in the world but with no backbone, you are not attractive to women. Know and love yourself and stand firm in that and women will flock to you like flies to honey:)
@lovein30days PEOPLE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THERE IS NO METHOD FOR WINNING A WOMAN. IS EITHER THE WOMAN LIKES YOU OR SHE DOESN'T. HOWEVER THERE ARE BASIC RULES THAT EVERY DUDE NEEDS TO KNOW; WHICH IS NOT BEING DESPERATE.
LMAO AT THAT SONGGG!!! That passion thing is A LIE Tho. I GOT PASSION... YOU MEANT TO SAY THAT 1 THING IS MONNNNNEY. SO YOU CAN BUY THAT DIVA PURSE AND GET THEM DIVA NAILS DONE. BUT I AINT PAYING FOR THAT BABY...
I was expecting something more earth shattering. Sorry, but if a woman has no respect for her man, it doesn't matter how much passion he tries to throw at her, she's just going to be disgusted by him.
The one last thing is cash and lots of it to flaunt on her, it moves a woman to marraige faster than you can say golddigger!! Even the Christian ones and I'm sold out for Jesus.
@micpeee it looks like it nowadays. At the university I attend....most black girls (yea, I call them that) just prefer the violent and tough out dude rather than the dude who actually respect them for who they are....Obviously, the previous generation of black girls (13-24) are just a lost cause as you stated. only Jesus Christ can save them now...Disrespectful to everyone, will go have sex with anyone..for that money and fight anyone for the stupidest reasons.
@micpeee Really, they want "passion"....after they got many beatdowns, neglected, gangbanged (if so) and have children from different dudes. I still can't figure it out: The black women said that they want a gentleman, a man of noble character, simultaneously, they desire the "rap star/hoodstar" dude. Really? In perspective, correct me if i'm wrong but the black women mostly want the hoodstar dude to f*** them every which way, meanwhile, using the gentleman as a personal bank/lending farm.
@micpeee PEOPLE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THERE IS NO METHOD FOR WINNING A WOMAN. IS EITHER THE WOMAN LIKES YOU OR SHE DONT. HOWEVER THERE ARE BASIC RULES THAT EVERY DUDE NEEDS TO KNOW; WHICH IS NOT BEING DESPERATE AND BEING YOURSELF. DONT ACT LIKE JAYZ TO HER BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED ANOTHER JAY Z
it's not that alot of black women love men, who don't have show no passion for them... its that alot of black women love men show don't really show emotion.
because men who tend to show alot of emotion come off as soft all the time with no back bone like she says in her other video's.. and i'm saying this from experience and im a 18 year old nice guy... that's strait
I think an big issue that has been lost in this whole discussion is that now women have taken on the persona of "No good men" This whole "DOING ME" thing and what not. Women in general can confuse themselves about what they want. With the nice guy they constantly try to find something wrong because when it's going right.. there must be something "He's hiding" The main issue I see is women coming into a relationship with a atttude of entitlement because of past relationship failures.
@drestack75 Idk, that can backfire on them pretty quickly. Speaking for myself and mostly every woman I know, if they knew a guy they were seeing was seeing other women as well, they'd get upset and end things. I'm focused on dating you and only you, the least you can do is give me the same kind of respect and focus on me.
Maaannn!!! @sebkhetsabur@uhuhforreal I don't know where y'all finding women at, but the ones that I meet and and talk to they think I want something from which is sex and thats the end of calling me and receiving my calls. I'm meet them and talk to them as my normal self.
Why does it seem so easy for a man to attract a women when it comes to what they have to do in order to get and keep our attention....... but when it comes to us women we have to jump through hoops and be all extra in order to capture and maintain a man? It seems like we are in the days where sexy, smart, and have it all together isn't enough for men anymore....
OMG THIS SOOOOOOOOO TRUE.. I have dumped several good men because of this & they just dont understand it.. but without passion i feel like there is a barrier between us like i cant get connected to you.. i am so glad you posted this video so men would know you can have everything but of you dont have passion you will not keep that woman..
Oh please i got more passion than 10 men in this country. i have no problems with relationships just attracting American women. i'm a latin lover baby
Peace is a lie. There is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall set me free.
@uhuhforreal most women i met it was always about sex. one woman broke up with me because i didn't want have sex with her. when you give your life to Jesus Christ lust and sex is the last thing on my agenda.
@sebkhetsabur Good for you. There aren't many men out there who can refuse to take part in sex when it's being thrown at them, so I applaud you for that. Maybe you should find a woman who's on the same spiritual journey as yourself. That way sex won't be a problem with either of you.
@musicproducer16 I don't know where you can meet a man like me. In my Mind I'm the only one. I would say if you want to meet a guy like me then Just pray to God Almighty and if it is his will you will meet that man, Your soul mate. If not embrace being single.I believe the reason why a lot of relationship go bad in these days is because people or choosing who they want to be with and not letting God Almighty lead the way. God Almighty plan could be for a lot of those people to be single...
@sebkhetsabur Amen to that man its the same way with me I turned down sex countless times and I keep going downa straight path because God is my lord and savior. I know i'm not perfect but i pray for God to send me the women for me because the women in my age range (i'm 19) most of them do not know what they want and they do things to find something to fill that void in them. I agree though on what u said
@XFactoration101 Right on man, at 19 you are doing good. Stay on the righteous path. when temptation come rebuke it in the name of Jesus. I had Lust in my heart and took me years to free myself from it. Once you plant the seed of sin it is hard to come out of it, so while you are still young plant righteous seeds so you don't have to struggle when you get older. Peace, Happiness,Love and Eternal Life.
@sebkhetsabur I'm not into all that religious stuff, but she was attacking the good fellas again. Suddenly, sex becomes the main issue. I swear the major difference between a man and a woman is brain chemistry. Men have the whole egg in the shell, women have scrambled eggs for brains this is why they never make logical decisions when it comes the ones that they're supposed to love of care about.
Shay, it's not only amongst nice guys that you find guys who aren't passionate for their women, you also can find many bad boys and thugs who aren't passionate for their women. A lot of the bad boys abuse and treat their women like crap and boldly demand sex from them. That's not passion for women, that's passion for their vaginas! The way how I see it, nice guys have more of the real passion for women. What nice guys lack is confidence, not passion.
Passion must be real... and cannot taught. It can be shown but must be felt before it can be understood. Most nice guys would proudly die for their love. I cannot think of a woman whose passion is more pure. Men are in conflict with a changing socail mores and I personally feel a passion to fight for what I believe.... love.
Keep faith real.
Patrick.
joecool977 4 months ago
How does a woman know if a guy is passionate or not before they even get to know them?
keithlamontbraggs 4 months ago
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LOL American women ARE SO screwed up (laughs).
MichaelPAUSA 4 months ago
true
Six7soulja 4 months ago
You know its a load BS what you said, many nice/decent guys have passion...most are more passionate than the retarded dudes that women seem to go for..as a comment stated below, if you don't go for a man or give a man a chance you are blind to if he is passionate or not but hey if a women don't date nice/decent guys due to assumptions than the nice/decent guy is better off, because she don't know any better and is immature. Don't befriend nice guys to complain when your b/f is being an ass than
IDiedForYou1776 4 months ago
@BigMarkusFella you're just using that an excuse.
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stamstuff 4 months ago
Passion... What she said is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT...
NYTNinAmerica 4 months ago
Just ask yourself one question...do you really want to date a woman that prefers a guy who is a jerk and a dickhead over one who is nice and decent? Not all women are into this bad-boy bullshit. Just keep looking until you find a real woman who truly values a nice, quality man and is herself a sincere, caring, quality woman. If you settle for a woman that values bad behavior, then you get what you deserve. It's a simple matter of karma, what you put out comes back to you.
superhornet69 4 months ago
If you are a MALE seeking dating advice from a FEMALE then you're already screwed. Would a woman ask for dating advice from a man? (Steve harvey don't count. Anyways how did I even find this video??? Oh well back to watching more thugitician
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revemupman 4 months ago
theirs one big hole in your argument........if a woman doesn't give you the chance to begin with how will she ever know how much passion you have exploding inside of you
vanityrose12 4 months ago
dont listen to her she doesnt know what she is talking about to get a women is simple and it doesnt take a lot of mental guesswork to figure it out either. Be confident in your masculinity project power, strength and control women are drawn to men who exhbit these traits the nice guy is wishy washy not confident in who is and makes the women his idol and thats why nice guys end up trodden underfoot by women never make a woman the center of your universe show that you have life outside of her.
doctorw2 4 months ago
nice guys dont have passion.that is a lie
juseph29 4 months ago
Divassss dont get playedddd...... watch me
musixismylife420 4 months ago
proper balance....I have learn to show militancy ,and yet be nice....depending on who is in front of me. Any Black woman who doesnt respect nice guys deserves the woman beating thug. This is the primary reason that the so called nerd ends up with other ethnicities......usually happier .....Black women have shot themselves in the foot.
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telemanque 4 months ago
I tried passion with 3 different African American Women to no avail. They want Low saggin pant Thugs. I started and dating then married another ethnicity and haven't been happier.
imyjam 5 months ago 11
@imyjam Sweet heart not all African Americans prefer thugs and as a matter of fact there are PLENTY (like me) who do not. I was fortunate as an AA woman to attract a good AA man who has passion. It is not about race because there are all types of men and woman in each race. There are women who make poor choices in men in all races so to use a generalization after only interacting with 3 women is ignorant.
With Love,
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 5 months ago 3
@lovein30days Your opinion is appreciated and taken with thick skin. Through 'ignorance', I've found happiness. God Bless, and keep up the good work.
imyjam 5 months ago
@lovein30days You know what shay, honestly, Im sick of this bullshit where you women want us men to treat yall like queens. i have learned to never treat a woman as a queen because the moment i do, thats when they start to run all over us, and you know its true. yes passion is a way but if thats the case, then why when it comes to treating a woman right yall want to turn and treat us like shit? if this is the natural way with women then prove to me the real way! show me a solution
nafis100 2 months ago
@lovein30days Also you forgot "Ambition" which also plays a huge role because don't nobody want someone who has no direction in their life. A relationship is suppose to be 50/50 not 20/80, but theres a concept that can be read true "One must have more attraction toward the other to keep the relationship going" This is true because 2 people cannot be leaders in relationship, therefore, there can only be 1 person leading (which should be the man) the two
nafis100 2 months ago
Sounds like your describing a thug. Thugs usually don't show passion to women. All they want is to bang and move on. The minute a good man shows passion to a black woman is when you turn that black woman off.
southboy99 5 months ago
I don't want women eating out of the palm of my hand.
I'm glad to have one woman who can look me in the eye, and still appreciate that I'm a nice guy.
Nice guys finish last with certain types of women ("certain types" is my nice way of saying immature).
But women that stick with their nice guys have much better lives.
dcsquatch 5 months ago
Why does the women not know when to read the signals when men are interested in her? women do not always knows how man feels about her, Neither man or woman can read thoughts if this were the case then you would not be making video like this. women give men a hard time to nice guys or good guys just because don't know how I know how to speak to women. I know how to look after women they just don't men like me.
President1st 5 months ago
This is very very very true....
thisispoloa 5 months ago
what happen to that comment by onlygreatness007. dude was on point. so luvin30days i guess your view is the only one? you couldn't come back with an intelligent response so you deleted dude's comment. must be some truth in it somewhere. i agree with onlygreatness007.
CrashProofCurrency 5 months ago
1:43 men think the same about women, keep that in mind before you go off playing smart
PharaohIslands 5 months ago
drama is NOT racially biased. women in general like and engage with drama, gossip, etc. thats what keeps them interested.
ir0nwarfare 5 months ago
@OnlyGreatness007 I AGREE...
ir0nwarfare 5 months ago
your so wrong u know nothing about men u should stop talking about men and find something better to do ur no date diva
dldlane8 5 months ago
in other words you have to be a borderline rapist and savage.
newbalance404 5 months ago
This 1 thing is.... Money. A lot of you women are useless aside from sex. where's your video on that?
TMac473 5 months ago
THAT COMES AFTER YOU TWO GET TOGETHER!!
3089280288 5 months ago
THE BEST ADVICE IS TO JUST BE YOURSELF! FIND A WOMAN WHO WANTS YOU AND ONLY YOU AND TRY YOUR BEST TO KEEP HER HAPPY!
cjgyt98 5 months ago
Mothers raise their boys to respect and be nice to women. The most important woman in mens lives 'The Mother' brainwash boys to be nice guys. The frustration that men have is when reality hits them like a brick. Women respect men who disrespect them and treats them badly. The opposite of what Mommy said. Letting go of that deeply rooted belief is hard for men to do. They feel like they are betraying their Momma.
MrJavier7777 5 months ago
I tend to agree with you here. I have found passion to be the number one thing that can set a woman ablaze, particularly when it comes to romance and sex. In fact, I think a lot of ladies most remember the men whose enoromous...passion swept them off the cliffs. At the same time, other qulaities have to complelement passion - for instance, intelligence, ability to hold stimulating conversations, strength, and so on, as I am sure you know.
rmsolympic1 5 months ago
PEOPLE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THERE IS NO METHOD FOR WINNING A WOMAN. IS EITHER THE WOMAN LIKES YOU OR SHE DONT. HOWEVER THERE ARE BASIC RULES THAT EVERY DUDE NEEDS TO KNOW; WHICH IS NOT BEING DESPERATE AND BEING YOURSELF. DONT ACT LIKE JAYZ TO HER BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED ANOTHER JAY Z
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Charliesonbaahsonsky 5 months ago
I feel you baby...i wanna passionantly put you over my knee.............im a nice guy how do i get your product...................why do women like gettin spanked...is it an authority issue?
abethoqua 5 months ago
1:43 "A lot of you men are about as interesting as a "TICK MICE"?
Whatever she meant the key here is she said INTERESTING, not something us guys would associate with PASSION.
It says says more about what INTERESTS her in men than anything about passion.
mofotax 5 months ago
"Women are Passionate beings." YEAH RIGHT SOUNDS LIKE WOMEN ARE JUST HORNY TO ME.
Redjoker96 5 months ago
What happens is that a lot of nice brothers get bitter and move on to women of other races. it is sad but the truth I have not dated american women in a long time. And don't realy plan on it been messed over too many times.
erictbrown1 5 months ago
@erictbrown1 Preach bro! Leave the weave.
imhotep527 5 months ago
@imhotep527 LOL thanks
erictbrown1 5 months ago
This was cool but I think ...I guy has to take in consideration the social economic back round of the female. Some females may take that passion for weakness and try the guy up ..Just my view...other than that nice info
Gullahboy 5 months ago
Bullshit, I get girls to chase me when I treat them like shit and ignore them.
KirbyPwnz13 5 months ago
"Passion"
verb: to punch your woman in the mouth when she talks back
see "opposite of nice guy"
CMLaneLV 5 months ago
lmao this woman is out of her mind.
every time she uses the word "woman" replace with "trashy ho" and it all makes sense.
epocs 6 months ago
You got to do the Ike Turner on these women out here, make them eat the cake. You got to be the pimp, and she is the hoe, tell her to bring back my money!!! You got to have a i don't give a fuck mentality, be mysterious. You must have rough sex with them, beat it up!!!, pull her hair, choke her, she will submit to you. You must rule with an iron fist, you leads she follows or else. You gotta have felonies, and war wounds(bullet wounds) and be violent, women love niggas like that.
4life1deep 6 months ago 4
@4life1deep
I wouldnt have said it izzackly like dat but I think this is true across the board. I'm a musician, frisbee playin white guy and I have to say you are dead on. they also like when you do NOT focus on them too much. you're better off with a woman complaining that you dont spend enough time with her or think about her enough to the other way around. its all so backwards but its reality. sucks but true.
Coppulor 6 months ago
No passion? Really? That's part of our damn problem. When we become passionate ya'll get instanly turned off. All most women want (because i've asked quite a few) is for the man to have tons of cash flow, illeagal or not, and a big dick and know how to fuck. Hate to be blunt but i've heard it a thousand times.
livendapast 6 months ago
i swear the entire video all i heard was "theres ONNE thing... ONNE thing that guys need to know.. just WUNNNN thing....... all they need is ONNNNE thing......"
GUnitIntern 6 months ago
Passion? Baby ,you are lost in beyond belief! If us nice guys did not have passion, then why are we academically educated and financially stable? Obviously we had the passion to better ourselves and offer something to our companions and children! What "passion" do your thug ass niggas bring to the table? They work blue collar jobs, most are not even high school educated, they live in the ghetto, have all these illegitimate babies, they have crimal records. You got to be kidding me, now!
GPCJordanDowns 6 months ago
@GPCJordanDowns
very true. I think what she really means is dominance. part of the problem is that women dont even really know what draws them to a man. This chick knows more than most and is close but even then its very difficult for women to describe what draws them in on an animalistic level. I think the fact that men and women are so different in that way is one big huge fucking cosmic joke. Gay people must have it easier. those lucky bastards!! lol : )
Coppulor 6 months ago
Passion? That's a joke.
RalphFee 6 months ago
Shay your videos are brilliant. Keep doing what you do. I know everybody may have their own style or do what makes them happy but the advice that you give is very good. God bless you for sharing your wisdom.
coolcoop44 6 months ago
This lady is over her self.....She says she's married and i BET the relationship has some hairpin curves in it....smh, one reason why women do what they do now..listenin to other crazy women..
Kenuwine24 6 months ago
Oh boy, listen fellas we all know that a passionate man, is passionate man whether he be nice guy, bad boy, gentleman or degenerate. If you want women you gotta have the money, but if you want a woman to be all over you head over heels dedicated to you, you need ONE THING. If you want a woman to crave your attention more than anything you need this ONE THING, and that's.... Other Women.
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newj34 6 months ago
What a load of BS! Generic relationship advice just doesn't work. There's no such thing as 'what women want' because women continually look to improve their lives which may not necessarily involve you, hence yo ass gets dumped for pointless reasons. When we hear 'secrets' being revealed, it's more often than not someone trying to put fresh spin on an age-old conundrum. "How to get women eating out the palm of your hand"? Please. Matriarchal domestic life is what many women strive for anyway.
jc55 6 months ago 2
All You Need to Get a Woman if you're ugly, nice or whatever is Cash!! Don't allow this to fool you!
billions18 6 months ago
pay women no attention be self absorbed
vacapone 6 months ago
#1 Trait Nice Guy's Don't Have: Looks & Money !!!
mba2ceo 6 months ago
@panchotheaddict u better find a way bruh else these girls jus gone keep shittin on u.............................s/n @lovein30days shay u sexy gurl i wanna give u a 30 minute kiss to your love below. is that passionate enough for u baby?
blkCAPTAINAMERICA 6 months ago 4
@blkCAPTAINAMERICA you disrespect has cost you to be blocked! I am a married woman and do not play being disrespected by another man.
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 6 months ago 3
@lovein30days isn't disrespect what you women love? You say you want men to be nice, tolerant and agreeable. So why you blockin' him when he basically acting the what ya'll women want?! Just kidding, but honestly a nice guy is the only thing thats going to keep you happy and alive in this world. No thug/ bad boy is going to be taking care of you in the projects with a blue collar job with all them illegimate children.
GPCJordanDowns 6 months ago
@blkCAPTAINAMERICA
You thirsty @ss fool
templarkc 5 months ago
ok date diva yall that was interesting settle cheak out my videos on why black women can't find good black men
pacedeli24 6 months ago
my passion is to kill someone. please help me i want to kill with passion
theinhumanoidz69 6 months ago
I thought passion was the trait that nice give did bring, but mabe not. Patience would have been my guess to all men...
TJM1230 6 months ago
ohh...I thought you'd say a big cock
x78340 6 months ago
A friend sent me this video and honestly, I don't know why.. Yes, I am single, however I don't think "passion" is the single trait nice guys need. What about loving Christ, being a gentleman, compassion, etc. These are the reasons I am still single. I am young, educated, own my own business and home and feel I have much more to offer than "a big butt & smile". I thought this would tell me something I didn't know.
KRS0110 6 months ago
if u a nice guy and u tryna get a woman u gotta hug ya nuts stop being a chump and stop trying all these lame ass advice pages jus be yourself and get in where u fit HUG YO NUTS NIGGA ERRRRRDAY
blkCAPTAINAMERICA 6 months ago
@blkCAPTAINAMERICA damnit dude! i cant seem to be able to hug my nuts. top far!
panchotheaddict420 6 months ago
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@panchotheaddict420 u better find a way bruh else these girls jus gone keep shittin on u.............................s/n @lovein30days shay u sexy gurl i wanna give u a 30 minute kiss to your love below. is that passionate enough for u baby?
blkCAPTAINAMERICA 6 months ago
???? you say nice guys need passion and a backbone to stand up for themselfs??? 1, a backbone well then why when men stick up for themselfs do women then think men dont lissen or care about there opinion?? 2, PASSION if any guy shows any passion women always think that that means hes only thinking about sex. i watch a few of these "women helping men out vids" and to tell you the truth none of you have a clue what a nice guy is. i'm nice and kind but women dont give me a second glance, THAT HURTS
paulyatkinson 6 months ago
SO WHAT ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT THE BAD GUYS
arcadeMUZIK1 6 months ago
I must say sure this applies to some women but there are a number of women who associate passion and kindness as a sign of weakness and prefer men who don't mind doggin them out in relationships for years.
OceanJackson40 6 months ago
some nice guys do get girls, these men are called "Gentlemen", the characteristics of a gentleman are (1). Confidence in who they are and who they are not. (2). Strong leadership and team effort: be a leader to others, but also be willing to walk beside them when no one else will. (3). Sincerity for others' thoughts and feelings. (4). Standards that you value and honor as a man, those same standards you look for in others. (5) yes passion, but I prefer to call it motivation. Be an achiever.
RamelK98b 7 months ago 2
So I'm a nice guy I had the passion to give my girlfiend yet she still cheats on me when I'm in Afghanistan steals all my money leaves me in my flat with nothing but the ring I was going to give her her excuse I don't want you to be my husband you don't have any leges
CHARLES1111MAC 7 months ago
This is nonsense. Women are attracted to bad boys and jerks on a subconscious level. They prefer bad boys even over nice guys with backbones, especially when they are younger women. They start looking at nice guys who have their stuff together when they start getting old and need someone to help them raise the children they had with the bad boy who isn't worth a damn. Fellas, do not save these women who dissed you back in the day. Just say no to a ho.
southc81 7 months ago 19
@southc81 right. some bad dudes cant even spell " Pash-ion" lol
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livendapast 7 months ago
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NICE GUYS FINISH LAST (;
LenkeH 7 months ago
I'm guessing you never had a TRUE nice guy......love that you are making that money off these weak and insecure guys that you are REALLY talking about (and girls)
IAmSquareOne 7 months ago
...smh...First...nice guys have passion thats one of the key things to being a nice guy you have that emotional side...second...Teach them to be passionate?...Sounds like someones scamming these young gents.
boiprof 8 months ago 3
WTF.....SO YOU TELLING ME NO NICE GUY IS PASSIONATE, GIVE ME A BREAK
antgerm21 8 months ago 3
All men have a passion for something. It's the woman's job to tap into it. If you don't show interest in a man he's gonna be guarded with his emotions. Women want men to commit without security. Women want to feel secure with a man, but men want to feel secure with a woman. I think black women/men have a communication bridge that is going in the wrong direction.
vlpinkney 8 months ago
@lovein30days Shay, you seem very observant, intelligent, and you are quite beautiful in my opinion. However, aren't men more apathetic/indifferent when it comes to emotion? Men were taught not to show emotion at an early age, so would that not make having passion more difficult for them?
FlashmanJW 8 months ago
I really did learned a lot from you nice guy videos. Well Iam a nice guy, in my past I had alot of problems out of past relationships. But in your videos I have learned that I have to change things with myself to be a better person for her and mostly for my self.
302andrewheeler 8 months ago
I want u.
laryon 8 months ago
smh@ people that come to youtube for advice.
Neptunz05 8 months ago
1.32 wooooh, wait a second...if you are that woman..then you better start tracking the mistress!
montelka 8 months ago 3
i can see how this would make sense but dont forget to tell these people that when there is too much of anything the VALUE is driven down. Then she will be eating out of the palm of your hand but make sure there is much more deepness to you than just that.
breadstax 8 months ago
totally agree with you hun! xx
spookyboo22 8 months ago
this helped me alot to see how foolish i have been im my past trying to be nice to females, espically my so called black women, who love putting brothas down for being nice, thats so negative i do realise, yall dont want pussy azz guys, it proves be a asshole and only worry about urself, never show emotions, cause they all think ur weak, its better to be a thug over a gentelman they all think tha same way lol but i dont care cause i know im good people, every real man knows how to stand up!
Dreadd313 8 months ago 7
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@Dreadd313
nice guys don't finish last. watch alex coulson videos. this man beats all the bad boys. he approaches women anywhere. you just have to be confident and not nervous and never let the conversation die out or seem desperate. that is the problem with nice guys. they lack confidence and stay always quiet and say they love the girl right away like an obsession person. just watch alex coulson videos and you will see that girls like nice guys
enjoy90000 4 months ago
ONCE A GUY SHOWS YOU WOMEN PASSION YOU CHANGE.
IE: ONCE A GUY SAYS HE LOVES A WOMEN SHE SUBCONSCIOUSLY WILL BECOME TURNED-OFF. PERIOD. TREAT THEM LIKE WHORES AND YOU WILL ALLLWAYS GO FAR---TRUST ME, I KNOW AND I LIVE IT EVERY MINUTE.
iYEMTheGreatest 8 months ago 4
Why do you define a "nice guy" as a guy with no passion and no self-esteem? There are guys with passion and self-esteem and are also nice. And there are also guys without passion and self-esteem but are complete jerks.
trstenik100 9 months ago
Shae, I do have to give it to you. YOU LOOK GOOD! CUTE AS HELL!
MyDhogan 9 months ago
Speak up . n show u have a backbone. The 1 thing every 1 wants is respect Man Women it doesnt matter. U respect her as a person n as ( Women ) never demean some 1 . But don't let people ( especially ) women talk S***T 2 u don't let them put u down. women try 2 bust ur ego n make u think ur opinion or ur view is not worth C**P stand by ur opinion n when he or she is wrong let them know it bc if u don't they will do it 2 u again or the next person bc no 1 stood up to them
HarPlayer 9 months ago
One thing , One thing. just get 2 the point arleady stop the teasing . Passion. please. I work with alot of women. n at work is 1 thing u cant be 2 upbrut . but its how you react to what they say. means " O Bob can u get that cart. n u get it in a sec .say ok Lisa. what ur her personal get this person n she knows it she just played u n u don't even know it. what u should say is " whats a matter u can get it u know how to walk rite. thats Passion what u say 2 her n not be a wimp. Be a MAN !!!!!
HarPlayer 9 months ago
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atolliver91 9 months ago
thank you, love you
mapadron1983 9 months ago
wow! you make a lot of sense...i always wondered about that!! lol thanks shay!! I want to meet you, you are soo intelligent!!
radiochick2010 9 months ago
Passion is what makes us nice guys. WTF man
eftultimate 9 months ago 4
I am a nice guy and this is the one thing we actually have is PASSION WTF is this shit all about
shthd84 9 months ago 3
Once again, you're wrong! Just another excuse to knock a decent man, that was weak.
kltiswhoib 9 months ago
one thing you need : is indifference and detachment.WHen you want something too bad .....you wont get it.However,you dont want something it seems to come in flowing like water....just stop giving a damn and women will come.
Before i started not giving a damn...i would want a GF and be in a relationship but it never came to fruitation.Now I just dont give a damn and im focusing on myself and my life and all of a sudden i have women coming at me wanting to date,etc.....
Peace.
ether150 9 months ago
Nice guys don't finish first.
vfIskullangel 10 months ago
Women are not funny , women are only reactive ,,,they cannot initiate anything on their own ...so why must have man only do..and women receive ....lol...she is lame and most women are
lauh4rl 10 months ago
I have passion for one woman only. To suggest you can give this type of passion to stop any woman in her tracks is not exactly honest. Without love all passion is...is another form of manipulation. If you are trying to "get" something like sex(men) or money(women) then you will manipulate each other. Dont worry what women want. Worry about what your woman wants. If you can not do this honestly then your with the wrong woman. In fact if you have any of these "nice guy" problems ur with the wrong1
brgordon38 10 months ago
Common sense is the #1 trait Nice Guys don't have. Not passion.
needles1987 10 months ago 2
I thought this was going to be something that was going to help me... but it didn't. No disrespect, but it seems you've got a lot more observation and assessment to be done. What you've covered is only 1 out of 4 underlying issues that men have in trying to keep their partner interested. I'm a nice guy and have plenty of passion... but apparently (from my own personal experiences) that's not attractive.
xivinrah 11 months ago 6
@xivinrah Hi, nice guy! The video referred to only one aspect of a few traits that many nice guys are lacking. However I address a MAJOR complaint many women have against "nice guys". You can have all the passion in the world but with no backbone, you are not attractive to women. Know and love yourself and stand firm in that and women will flock to you like flies to honey:)
lovein30days 11 months ago
@lovein30days PEOPLE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THERE IS NO METHOD FOR WINNING A WOMAN. IS EITHER THE WOMAN LIKES YOU OR SHE DOESN'T. HOWEVER THERE ARE BASIC RULES THAT EVERY DUDE NEEDS TO KNOW; WHICH IS NOT BEING DESPERATE.
Charliesonbaahsonsky 5 months ago
LMAO AT THAT SONGGG!!! That passion thing is A LIE Tho. I GOT PASSION... YOU MEANT TO SAY THAT 1 THING IS MONNNNNEY. SO YOU CAN BUY THAT DIVA PURSE AND GET THEM DIVA NAILS DONE. BUT I AINT PAYING FOR THAT BABY...
theright1allthetime 11 months ago 11
I was expecting something more earth shattering. Sorry, but if a woman has no respect for her man, it doesn't matter how much passion he tries to throw at her, she's just going to be disgusted by him.
phillydisco 1 year ago 3
The one last thing is cash and lots of it to flaunt on her, it moves a woman to marraige faster than you can say golddigger!! Even the Christian ones and I'm sold out for Jesus.
Truthshallsetu3 1 year ago
MORE BS !!! ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN LOVE MEN WHO HAVE NO PASSION FOR THEM ! STOP MAKING EXCUSE FOR BLACK WOMEN !! THEY ARE LOST
micpeee 1 year ago 13
@micpeee it looks like it nowadays. At the university I attend....most black girls (yea, I call them that) just prefer the violent and tough out dude rather than the dude who actually respect them for who they are....Obviously, the previous generation of black girls (13-24) are just a lost cause as you stated. only Jesus Christ can save them now...Disrespectful to everyone, will go have sex with anyone..for that money and fight anyone for the stupidest reasons.
RaidenStorm843 11 months ago
@micpeee Really, they want "passion"....after they got many beatdowns, neglected, gangbanged (if so) and have children from different dudes. I still can't figure it out: The black women said that they want a gentleman, a man of noble character, simultaneously, they desire the "rap star/hoodstar" dude. Really? In perspective, correct me if i'm wrong but the black women mostly want the hoodstar dude to f*** them every which way, meanwhile, using the gentleman as a personal bank/lending farm.
RaidenStorm843 11 months ago 3
@micpeee PEOPLE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THERE IS NO METHOD FOR WINNING A WOMAN. IS EITHER THE WOMAN LIKES YOU OR SHE DONT. HOWEVER THERE ARE BASIC RULES THAT EVERY DUDE NEEDS TO KNOW; WHICH IS NOT BEING DESPERATE AND BEING YOURSELF. DONT ACT LIKE JAYZ TO HER BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED ANOTHER JAY Z
Charliesonbaahsonsky 5 months ago
@micpeee
it's not that alot of black women love men, who don't have show no passion for them... its that alot of black women love men show don't really show emotion.
because men who tend to show alot of emotion come off as soft all the time with no back bone like she says in her other video's.. and i'm saying this from experience and im a 18 year old nice guy... that's strait
shameonjagex 5 months ago
nice guys, you need passion AND confidence. without those two things, honey i'm OUT.
emilyislovelyx3 1 year ago
I think an big issue that has been lost in this whole discussion is that now women have taken on the persona of "No good men" This whole "DOING ME" thing and what not. Women in general can confuse themselves about what they want. With the nice guy they constantly try to find something wrong because when it's going right.. there must be something "He's hiding" The main issue I see is women coming into a relationship with a atttude of entitlement because of past relationship failures.
Dharvey34 1 year ago
@Dharvey34 - So True Bruh
AnOldSoul45 1 year ago
WTF??...this is about some of the most off ish i've heard yet...lol..
kappa27 1 year ago
the best thing for a nice guy to hv is OPTIONS watch how fast ya results with women change when they know there in competition
drestack75 1 year ago
@drestack75 Idk, that can backfire on them pretty quickly. Speaking for myself and mostly every woman I know, if they knew a guy they were seeing was seeing other women as well, they'd get upset and end things. I'm focused on dating you and only you, the least you can do is give me the same kind of respect and focus on me.
ZeksterMesker 1 year ago
Women don't know what the hell they really want. I hear the same ole shit everyday and not a damn thing changes.
bigolewords 1 year ago 3
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AnOldSoul45 1 year ago
@bigolewords - REAL TALK !!
AnOldSoul45 1 year ago
Maaannn!!! @sebkhetsabur @uhuhforreal I don't know where y'all finding women at, but the ones that I meet and and talk to they think I want something from which is sex and thats the end of calling me and receiving my calls. I'm meet them and talk to them as my normal self.
Lonstone 1 year ago
Instead of passion, I say sex appeal. Not sexy neccessarily, but having the appeal makes us want to do more.
calibaby1991 1 year ago
Why does it seem so easy for a man to attract a women when it comes to what they have to do in order to get and keep our attention....... but when it comes to us women we have to jump through hoops and be all extra in order to capture and maintain a man? It seems like we are in the days where sexy, smart, and have it all together isn't enough for men anymore....
Saraiyah2007 1 year ago
OMG THIS SOOOOOOOOO TRUE.. I have dumped several good men because of this & they just dont understand it.. but without passion i feel like there is a barrier between us like i cant get connected to you.. i am so glad you posted this video so men would know you can have everything but of you dont have passion you will not keep that woman..
SexyladyMylissa 1 year ago
@SexyladyMylissa Well why you aint tell them you fuckin dumb ass
NewJackBaby 1 year ago
@NewJackBaby I did tell them.. and get a pic before your ugly ass try to call somebody dumb!!
SexyladyMylissa 1 year ago
@SexyladyMylissa oops
NewJackBaby 11 months ago
Passion?......i was expecting you to say MONEY
DirtyFaceCapon3 1 year ago 43
Oh please i got more passion than 10 men in this country. i have no problems with relationships just attracting American women. i'm a latin lover baby
cfG21 1 year ago
@cfG21 correction i meant african american women shay
cfG21 1 year ago
Peace is a lie. There is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall set me free.
nelcomar 1 year ago
i have the most important trait of them all a 12in penis wanna c check da page
mccoolrecords 1 year ago
You got down for this one, Shay. And the same can be said for females, too. Men love passionate females, as well.
christiandior1947 1 year ago
u look amazing
sseungslee 1 year ago
the thing that hard is finding a women who not always about having sex.
sebkhetsabur 1 year ago 2
@sebkhetsabur What? Sir?
uhuhforreal 1 year ago
@uhuhforreal most women i met it was always about sex. one woman broke up with me because i didn't want have sex with her. when you give your life to Jesus Christ lust and sex is the last thing on my agenda.
sebkhetsabur 1 year ago 34
@sebkhetsabur Good for you. There aren't many men out there who can refuse to take part in sex when it's being thrown at them, so I applaud you for that. Maybe you should find a woman who's on the same spiritual journey as yourself. That way sex won't be a problem with either of you.
uhuhforreal 1 year ago
@sebkhetsabur OMG where can I meet a man like you? Christian who isnt worried about sex. Thats really nice.
musicproducer16 1 year ago
@musicproducer16 I don't know where you can meet a man like me. In my Mind I'm the only one. I would say if you want to meet a guy like me then Just pray to God Almighty and if it is his will you will meet that man, Your soul mate. If not embrace being single.I believe the reason why a lot of relationship go bad in these days is because people or choosing who they want to be with and not letting God Almighty lead the way. God Almighty plan could be for a lot of those people to be single...
sebkhetsabur 1 year ago
@sebkhetsabur Amen to that man its the same way with me I turned down sex countless times and I keep going downa straight path because God is my lord and savior. I know i'm not perfect but i pray for God to send me the women for me because the women in my age range (i'm 19) most of them do not know what they want and they do things to find something to fill that void in them. I agree though on what u said
XFactoration101 9 months ago
@XFactoration101 Right on man, at 19 you are doing good. Stay on the righteous path. when temptation come rebuke it in the name of Jesus. I had Lust in my heart and took me years to free myself from it. Once you plant the seed of sin it is hard to come out of it, so while you are still young plant righteous seeds so you don't have to struggle when you get older. Peace, Happiness,Love and Eternal Life.
sebkhetsabur 9 months ago
@sebkhetsabur
Amen dude. I have had that happen to me before too.
Its shame we are in a society now that women are dumping men for not putting out...lol
KINGRODP 1 year ago
@sebkhetsabur you have to get another christian woman who doesn't believe in premarital sex. you have to look in certain places to get what you want.
thelivingpoet 1 year ago
@sebkhetsabur my man
mrslick58 1 year ago
@sebkhetsabur I'm not into all that religious stuff, but she was attacking the good fellas again. Suddenly, sex becomes the main issue. I swear the major difference between a man and a woman is brain chemistry. Men have the whole egg in the shell, women have scrambled eggs for brains this is why they never make logical decisions when it comes the ones that they're supposed to love of care about.
kltiswhoib 9 months ago
@sebkhetsabur Passion doesnt automatically refer to sex honey.. You can have passion just by grabbing someones hand.... ^o^
ElasticPenaltyInc 8 months ago
@sebkhetsabur I agree with you on that.
ShamonjTV1 6 months ago
@sebkhetsabur agreed.....
Kenuwine24 6 months ago
Ummmm You said you teach guys how to kiss correctly. Is there any chance that would be with you? If so sign me up.
LOL! Nice video though.
Mrbaltimore2001 1 year ago
Ummmm You said you teach guys how to kiss correctly. Is there any chance that would be with you? If so sign me up.
LOL! Nice video though.
Mrbaltimore2001 1 year ago
Shay, it's not only amongst nice guys that you find guys who aren't passionate for their women, you also can find many bad boys and thugs who aren't passionate for their women. A lot of the bad boys abuse and treat their women like crap and boldly demand sex from them. That's not passion for women, that's passion for their vaginas! The way how I see it, nice guys have more of the real passion for women. What nice guys lack is confidence, not passion.
kjordon1 1 year ago 3
@kjordon1 thugs have passion ..they are usually really strong in everything they do...so passion is in their blood..passion doesnt mean ag