I feel for Robert, i do. But there is a worst pain then never finding your other half, and that's losing it. I lost mine, we ended horribly. I carry 2 broken hearts on my sleeves, mine and hers. There is no worst pain than that, so if you haven't found yours yet, i promise you it'll come. My advice to you is be open and accept her. And don't end up like this fool.
I was texting this girl and it seemed like it was going well. Then I asked her to the movies. She asked who with? I responded might be you and me. That was 4 hours ago. Girls just love to crush sensitive guys hearts...
@Juggernautishere - Well, people do get married in Indian culture but then they suffer their whole life being with a person who is not compatible with them on many levels and they have no other choice being from "Indian culture" since divorce is such a taboo. I dont think we have a better way of handling this situation, we just force everyone into a relationship. I would rather be alone then be tied to someone with whom I have not much in common. And BTW, I am in Indian too.
well I have said what Robert said a bunch. "Most people find their other half and I have to wake up and accept that there is no other half for me." because I realize just that.
@luvsarah2890 Well that might be true. Its just the fact that I cant hold a relationship over a month while my sister and my soon to be brother in law have been together since 2004.
@repeatman ya but u cant compare ursleves to other people! everyone is different. btw ppl say that when ur not looking for someone thats when someone mite come into ur life. so focus on ur life nd have fun and someone will come along when u least expect it! take care dudee :)
I am 21 and I love being single. I only had one girlfriend back in 2004 and quickly realized that the girls of my generation are all just materialistic, opportunistic, spoiled little bitches. Being single is great. I am totally self-sufficient. I know how to do my own cooking, work on my own car, build a house someday, farm, hunt, invest, etc. When you are born and raised out in the boondocks, you acquire a great deal of self-sufficiency growing up. The single life is the good life.
And since I have all that self-sufficiency, I will never need a some hormal, moody, bitchy woman to keep me company. If I get lonely, I will buy a dog. Getting married to cure lonliness is like drinking battery acid to cure a hangover. You can be single and sel-sufficient and be perfectly happy, or you can accept some hormal, antagonizing bitch who will only inconvenience you everyday of your life. Take your pick boys and girls.
@MrCountryman89 im 21 and love being single too. its the bestt. but i dont agree with wat u said about the girls of our generation cuz i dont think im like that! lol
I'm only 20, but I have this premonition that I'm going to be single forever and die alone. I only had 1 girlfriend, and that was my junior year of highschool.
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It is frustrating for us singles at times. I am in my 30s and have only had 4 girlfriends. Yes I know that is a very low number. 2 were from High school, one was in college, and the last one was after college. The last girl I dated was the first girl I had real feelings for. I loved her very much. After a mere 6 months, she dumped me. It took me about 2 years to recover from it. But as the saying goes, "the wounds have healed but the scars remain".
@boagmuskie In conclusion, that was 4 years ago and have not had another girlfriend since. There is another girl I currently like but I may be in for sheer disappointment. WHYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!????????????
19 years old, have only had 1 girlfriend, but that was when I was 13. Only went out for 3 months and we didn't even have a real kiss. Then she breaks up with me for the stupidest reason ever. When is there ever going to be a girl that likes me for me?
@roamer45 Im 23 and ive only had 1 real girlfriend, it was when I was a freshman in high school, we only went out for a week before she passed away. But you know, age and the amount of girlfriends doesn't really matter in your case. Its not the amount that matters though, quality is what matters - not quantity. I'm not sure if ill ever find "the one", but it'll be better waiting than spending all my life hopping from one meaningless relationship to the next wishing for something that wont happen
@roamer45 I just turned 21 and I never had a girlfriend in my life,there were 2 that I could have gone out with,one when i was in highschool and the second before I took a break from college.I've never had my first kiss.when I was 15 and in highschool I had friends who were already having sex and losing it,and they would always talk about it.I never let it get to me,I'm pushing forward knowing that when I do find someone, I'm going to cherish that relationship with all my heart.You're not alone.
YEah im single i know how it feels,but still i hang in there. I sometimes feel like giving up but still i hang in there . You know i had a fiancee unfortunately she wanted to be with her girlfriend ,she wanted me to be like her girlfriends boyfriend accepting that she will be living with her,shes bi. I loved her ,when we really finished i felt like Shawshank Redemptions Andy Dufrene .
this is probably the most true to life scene i have ever seen in a tv show ever...i know how robert feels yeah it sucks but you know sometimes you gotta just deal with stuff and hang in there...the other day my bro said something that really rang true with me...he said the reason why we as people go through shit and hard times is to make us appreciate the times we have when our life is going the way we want it to...if our lives were always good we would not appreciate what we have
My advice to people struggling with singless and want to find their special some one.....the most likely place where you will find your future spouse is most likely to be the place where you are truly happy to be yourself
If someone is that sweet and that hot is eating flies occasionally really a deal-breaker? People eat bugs as a delicacy so what's the difference (I'm trying to look on the bright side here...)
Real writers of horror, macabre fiction and fantasy were created by people infected with loneliness. So I guess there is some good that comes from being single. lol.
@thechaz83 indeed it is strange how beutiful of a muse misery is, helps though the film I just shot about loneliness and a feeling that your girl is with another guy got me through some really macabre depression.
Being single is not natural. Everybody has a longing in them to be with another. Some people are better at suppressing it than others. In this world divorce is so high because in marriage, or just in general, we expect a picnic or god forbid we have to practice some humbleness and not think of just sex or ourselves 24/7. We live in a selfish age. Plus, people expect perfection in who they will marry.
part 2. Us men want a perfect "Hott" girl with big boobs and a perfect body and fucks us whenever we want and doesn't talk back. This is life people. And girls want that Brad Pitt or "Bad Boy" type guy to be with and they end up getting hurt in the end. Until humanity finds the true meaning of love then nothing will improve
Plus, the church doesn't help. I'm Catholic and believe me they try to make more priests out of people and have a slogan "Well and good if your married but if not don't try to find someone, join us, become a priest". I'm telling ya people relationships are getting spoiled and its our fault. Fine print time, "I'm not a mind reader and this may not apply to every single person who reads this post" thank you :) .
lastly, people may throw religion into the mix to help the single person out. They say, "God is all you need or let him decide". People, it says in the bible "It is not good for man to be alone". God wants the best for us. Most people are built with strong urges for someone. God made us that way but expects us to handle what he gave us in the correct way. Other people don't care about being single. So in conclusion, almost everyone has an urge for someone
some of those people who want someone won't find them. It isn't their fault, It's the worlds fault. We live in a selfish world people. But sometimes those people don't find anyone cuz they expect perfection. Other people will find their soul mate because luck is on their side and they know how to "Talk to people". Lastly, you'll have the perfect people who are hott and always find their man or woman. Thank you for hearing my rants. You can wake up now, lol.
Don't listen to the bible, don't listen pastors or priests. They truly do not know how we feel about singleness nor loneliness because they got "God" in their minds hence they are unable to relate on what single lonely people struggle with. The one way you could meet your special someone is to...well go out there and meet people, make new friends and what not. The place where you're most likely to meet your spouse is that place where you are truly happy to be yourself
It was never roberts fault, it was Amy's fault. SHE was the one who was afraid of rejection. She was so uptite about it that if she didn't get her was fast enough, she would asume they would never marry. So Amy broke it off with Robert because she won't take the time to learn patience in a relationship! End of story!
I feel the same way as Robert. I am 31 years old an have never had a partner, I have tried to find explanations as to why I am single, sometimes it just hurts to think of those reasons, other times I try to feel better by thinking I am at least healthy and have food and shelter.
I can empathize with Robert's annoyance at Debra's attempts to help. People who are in relationships, even if they've been stuck in the single rut before, can't easily console those who are down on their luck. And then "good luck with the frog lady", awesome comeback
if i was Robert i was just get up and said "i'll come back and talk after you've pulled your head out of your ass" and just walked out of there
i love how people act like being single is some sort of death sentence when it's really not. If you want to get married fine but do it for YOURSELF and not to please someone else like your mother otherwise you're just a slave to someone else's approval.
I would have had a really hard time keeping my cool after hearing Marie's speech beginning at 1:36. Yeah, Mom, you may stay up nights fussing, but do you think it's a picnic for me? What do you think *I* go through getting turned down/ignored over and over again? How do you think I feel after going out on first dates and hearing "You're a nice guy, but there's just nothing between us." Do you think I like getting my hopes up again and again only to get squashed?
@scarywriter1830 Yup, when this aired I was in tears. SOMEBODY in TV land knows how it feels. And we aren't sitting home moping about. We have productive lives. And I don't care about the 'it's ok to be alone' crap. I know how to be alone and enjoy it. But after so many years IT GETS OLD!
Yea, It sucks. I was married 12 years, that failed, then a year later, dated a woman for 7 months who turned out to be bi polar. Since I kept failing, I have just given up completely. It would be nice to have someone to come home to, but as long as I get laid every now and then, I can do without hearing a woman's bitching and complaining. Being Single Isn't all that bad.
@willtheman69 Amen. Naturally that's all that is needed. Yes we need human contact with each other, if you can get that you're all good. Monogamy isn't a natural thing for men. Marriage isn't a natural thing either, that's why a lot of marriages fail. I'm glad you've seen the light! They don't call it the three rings of marriage for nothing! The engagement ring, the wedding ring and the SUFFERING
Married or not married as long as your happy being that way it's fine, and if you love someone (keyword here), then people wouldn't divorce. Enough said...
Why do we HAVE to "find someone?" Because society tells you're a total loser if you don't. THEN, you marry this TOTAL STRANGER, and end up divorced, with a lawyer that costs a fortune - the divorce rate is over 50%, so YOUR marriage stands a 50-50 chance of making it. Does your spouse cheat on you? Seriously folks, think it over. The whole marriage and brats thing is totally ridiculous and SO outdated! I love my single life! I only have to impress... MYSELF! =)
@NothingMoreBlack i think tht they want to have someone there when ther down so ther husband or wife will b ther and hug them and give them advice also to have kids tht they created and to b proud of them but its not bad
Where's the rest of it?? The best part is the last scene in the bar when he bumps the waiter and the drinks land all over . . . Amy! The audience went nuts!
I think the audience laughs a little too much at jokes that are not too funny quite frankly. Marie reacts to Robert being single as if Robert must marry to satisfy his mother.
and that's exactly what alot of people do. They get married (usually to someone they don't love or are unsuitable for them) just to please someone else How many people do you know got married not because it was their choice but because it was expected of them? I know quite a few people my own parents for one. They had an arranged marriage and they are miserable.
@Zain844 I know many. People crack me up. People just don't marry because they are in love. I read "Remember why you married in the first place...how you felt" meaning that first love. For some people, it wasn't about that at all.
i'm at the exact same boat Robert is.. and i also feel like mocking people everytime they say "You'll find someone bladibladibla.."
never had an actual relationship, and being 22yrs old and hearing folks say "your so young" annoys me, cuzz there's plenty of younger people who have a long lasting relationship.
@blackflame100 yeah, the "Hey, son" part really shocked me. I didn't know if he was making fun of robert or not, lol. I didn't know if i was going to laugh or be like 'oooooooooooooh, he's serious..'
lol Even if you are married there is a 50/50 chance you will die alone anyway unless you are and your spouse die at exactly the same time. One of you will die alone so the whole "you'll die alone" thing doesn't really scare me. if you die before your spoise. they die alone if they die before you you die alone. Every widow and widower ends up in the exact same situation they would have been if they had not married at all. Old and alone
I'd rather be "alone" my whole life than be with the wrong person. Its saves you and any possible children that might come of it. You dont need a romantic relationship to feel whole. Society is so messed up because of that misconception.
@GreenTeaPlease3 I know what you mean, but..: what if it's actually a personal desire/hunger for a significant other, rather than a pressure brought from society? I think that thats the better reason for you (or someone else) to go and find your half.
@VenomLeon well I think society and people around us can give us that hunger. If you cant be happy alone then being with someone isnt going to fix what made you unhappy in the first place. You have to make your own life before you can invite someone in. I think its true that you can find love when your not looking for it and I think most people find it attractive when someone has their own life .
@GreenTeaPlease3 PUH_LEEZE. That's ok when you are 19, but what about when you are in your 50s? I've traveled, done tons of stuff. Never stopped living. But it really gets old. All my friends are either married or divorced with children and grandchildren. Of course since I'm not, it seems as if I've dropped off the face of the earth. Yes I enjoy my own company but I've made my life and, once again, all that 'happy talk' gets old the older you get.
@GreenTeaPlease3 And let me be specific. I'm talking SINGLE. Not divorced. Not a single parent. Not a widow/widower. SINGLE. Never married. And if you don't think there's a difference, ask someone who is really single and wants to be married. They know EXACTLY what Robert is talking about. Don't mean to sound angry, but I've heard platitudes like your until it is sickening, however well meant. As if there is a lack in people who are single...something they are not doing right.
@GreenTeaPlease3 I thought you would say that. And I can accept that. I just get tired of people saying what you say. And no, I don't sit around dwelling on it. I live my life. Planning my next trip (to Iceland). But people in my situation know exactly what I mean. And don't want to hear repetitive, although well-meaning, stock phrases.
@blkchk I'm not 19 by the way. haha. I'm not gonna argue with you though. Every person has their own unique situation. Sometimes its best to have a partner, sometimes your better off alone. I just get tired of all the brainwashing of women by men. It goes way deeper than most realize.
@GreenTeaPlease3 I didn't assume you are 19. That's how old I was when people starting bombarding me with comments like yours. I don't think it's brainwashing. People have a distinct, biological and emotional need for human companionship. Even some animal mate for life. Brainwashing goes both ways...this 'I don't need a relationship' is part of our society's thinking also. There are worse things than being single, yes, but there is no substitute for having a nice relationship when you want it.
@blkchk Thanks. A really good book to read that talks a bit about this is The Lonely American. Its a really good read. I got it awhile ago and I saw recently its on Oprah's book club lol. But its really interesting.
@VenomLeon I see also so many people who are looking for love and they get with the first person that comes along and its a wreck. People settle too much. If your not looking then the right person will catch your eye, instead of when your looking the first person will catch your eye.
@GreenTeaPlease3 I haven't settled. But that doesn't mean it's easy, especially as you get older. And please...that 'not looking stuff' and 'when you least expect it'. I've heard it all.
Robert: "Most people find their other half. And I just have to wake up and accept already that there is no other half...for this (pointing to self). That is exactly how I feel at this point and time. I am going through a painful separation and now divorce. I thought I found my other half, but it didn't work out....she was controlling, verbally abusive, and angry. At this point and time, I really feel hopeless. This clip really touched a chord with me.
I work for family law attys. I see 10, 20, 30+ year marriages fall apart. My own marriage didn't last but it was amicable. I've been diagnosed with HepC (I'm part of the Hepci Generation!! Har!) and being in my late 40s, I know I will never ever ever have another relationship. I have great friends & a very loving family, I enjoy my work, I adore my cat, I have my hobbies. I don't miss a relationship that much, and having had a lot, some very serious, it's OK; that part of my life is done.
@bradchaz : When you reach the end of the road, you eventually will turn around or turn to left or right, eventually , after decades, Robert ended up marrying Amy at this point, you would be able to find your the other half, but it just needs some time. to you and to the one for you.
@bradchaz You can fall in love with more than one person in a lifetime. The biggest problem is that from birth, many families act like their mother here. "YOU MUST BE WITH SOMEONE". You don't have to be.
The rules of life and love are
-Be comfortable with yourself
-Have enough self esteem to be by yourself, and not have a problem with it.
-Don't seek love, as you find out, it comes to you when you're not looking.
-Enjoy your life, not worrying yourself about finding that "someone"
@bradchaz Don't give up friend. It's been 9 months since you posted your comment, I don't know if you've met someone in that time and if you have then kudos. But if not, then don't give up! The same exact thing happened to me. I thought I met my soul mate. Stayed with her for 6 years and went through the most painful breakup imaginable.
But I met someone else. And now I am happier than ever before! Good luck!
@sulhaq i am with you bro! i also though i found my dreamwomen...but she left me twice,so icecold.. i would never though that she can be that ignorant...but life goes on bro!
a i s means ass in seat. frank did dat to raymond and robert when they were little. he would give a time, and saw "a i s 5:00" meaning ass in seat at 5:00. raymond told debra "a i s at 6:30", but then drove off without her cuz she wasnt ready in time, dat y robert said that, lol
This actually hurts... :'( Marie's whole speech made me feel like she was yelling at me. AGGGHHHH I hate that. I love this show though
TheKlengel 1 week ago
this was hard to watch....
saveen3 3 weeks ago
I feel for Robert, i do. But there is a worst pain then never finding your other half, and that's losing it. I lost mine, we ended horribly. I carry 2 broken hearts on my sleeves, mine and hers. There is no worst pain than that, so if you haven't found yours yet, i promise you it'll come. My advice to you is be open and accept her. And don't end up like this fool.
bananasandpeaches 1 month ago
The one time everyone loved Robert :(
GreenTeaPlease3 1 month ago in playlist Everybody Loves Raymond
I was texting this girl and it seemed like it was going well. Then I asked her to the movies. She asked who with? I responded might be you and me. That was 4 hours ago. Girls just love to crush sensitive guys hearts...
Philssux15 2 months ago
@Juggernautishere - Well, people do get married in Indian culture but then they suffer their whole life being with a person who is not compatible with them on many levels and they have no other choice being from "Indian culture" since divorce is such a taboo. I dont think we have a better way of handling this situation, we just force everyone into a relationship. I would rather be alone then be tied to someone with whom I have not much in common. And BTW, I am in Indian too.
strangerindanger 4 months ago
Is it me, or is real life like an unfunny version of everybody loves raymond.
damndisplace07 6 months ago 16
@damndisplace07 lol someone said that in a movie once. Its so true though.
GreenTeaPlease3 1 month ago in playlist Everybody Loves Raymond
I cry every time.
MeredithOD 6 months ago
it really is like that - from 1:34 to 1:58 what Marie says, my mom says that to me all-the-time!!
tryandlisten 6 months ago
Keep pressing 1 over and over again.....that look scares the shit out of me haha.
MatthewLedZepfan 7 months ago
Marie "I just want you to be with someone, anyone, I don't care who it is!"
Hmmm. She cared when she thought Robert was dating his police partner Judy, who's black.
SilverWolf442 7 months ago 9
Hello I'm queer and now I'm here!
Also, Frank is probably the funniest character in a sitcom. =)
nextbigthingMVP01 7 months ago
Lol
joshuatravels2684 7 months ago
I hate the term 'other-half'. I'm a whole person.
Why is 'single' a dirty word? I love being single to the point where I pity my friends who are trapped in miserable and demoralising relationships.
dcau1 7 months ago 3
I know how he feel I am not gong to try anymore....
shuban 7 months ago
everyone else around me is finding their someone.... maybe I am not supposed to meet mine...
shuban 7 months ago
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internalvalidation 7 months ago
well I have said what Robert said a bunch. "Most people find their other half and I have to wake up and accept that there is no other half for me." because I realize just that.
repeatman 7 months ago
@repeatman be patient. there is someone out there for everybody! :)
luvsarah2890 7 months ago
@luvsarah2890 Well that might be true. Its just the fact that I cant hold a relationship over a month while my sister and my soon to be brother in law have been together since 2004.
repeatman 7 months ago
@repeatman ya but u cant compare ursleves to other people! everyone is different. btw ppl say that when ur not looking for someone thats when someone mite come into ur life. so focus on ur life nd have fun and someone will come along when u least expect it! take care dudee :)
luvsarah2890 7 months ago
I am 21 and I love being single. I only had one girlfriend back in 2004 and quickly realized that the girls of my generation are all just materialistic, opportunistic, spoiled little bitches. Being single is great. I am totally self-sufficient. I know how to do my own cooking, work on my own car, build a house someday, farm, hunt, invest, etc. When you are born and raised out in the boondocks, you acquire a great deal of self-sufficiency growing up. The single life is the good life.
MrCountryman89 8 months ago 3
@MrCountryman89
Part 2
And since I have all that self-sufficiency, I will never need a some hormal, moody, bitchy woman to keep me company. If I get lonely, I will buy a dog. Getting married to cure lonliness is like drinking battery acid to cure a hangover. You can be single and sel-sufficient and be perfectly happy, or you can accept some hormal, antagonizing bitch who will only inconvenience you everyday of your life. Take your pick boys and girls.
MrCountryman89 8 months ago
@MrCountryman89 im 21 and love being single too. its the bestt. but i dont agree with wat u said about the girls of our generation cuz i dont think im like that! lol
luvsarah2890 7 months ago
its bad to b alone....
RainCastle88 8 months ago
I'm only 20, but I have this premonition that I'm going to be single forever and die alone. I only had 1 girlfriend, and that was my junior year of highschool.
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SalonaSesaley 8 months ago
1:02 ROTFLMAO!!!! Oh man poor Robert.
SantiagoKali 8 months ago
@SantiagoKali I rofled my ass off at that part.
ffaithii 8 months ago
What a loser!
dickinson1027 9 months ago
relationships are not everything today, its sad but true.
GameCreator643 9 months ago
@GameCreator643 Yeah thank you Vogue and teen maganizes ,for screwing up the circle of life.
manufran02 8 months ago
@manufran02 that's sad but true, the media is destroying everything about life, its disgusting.
GameCreator643 8 months ago
I would rather be married to my beaten up car...at least it gets me to where i want.
TCFan25 9 months ago
"i mean for Gods sake do u want to die alone!"
"YES!!"
SpadeFungi 9 months ago
Robert is dead on. Only the luckly ones find love, And perhaps not everyone is meant to have someone.
TWHueyGuitar 9 months ago
poor robert : (
baddbxtch33 9 months ago
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agnosticpj 9 months ago
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Dickbaum 9 months ago
It is frustrating for us singles at times. I am in my 30s and have only had 4 girlfriends. Yes I know that is a very low number. 2 were from High school, one was in college, and the last one was after college. The last girl I dated was the first girl I had real feelings for. I loved her very much. After a mere 6 months, she dumped me. It took me about 2 years to recover from it. But as the saying goes, "the wounds have healed but the scars remain".
boagmuskie 9 months ago
@boagmuskie In conclusion, that was 4 years ago and have not had another girlfriend since. There is another girl I currently like but I may be in for sheer disappointment. WHYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!????????????
boagmuskie 9 months ago
@boagmuskie Not sure when the next one will come around but as a young tenor opera singer, heres hoping.
boagmuskie 9 months ago
Wat episode is dis??
BellaZedd 10 months ago
WHAT!?!?!?!??! FRANK CALLS ROBERT SON!!!
TheBratcat1 10 months ago
"Do you wanna die Alone??"".... "YES!!" HAHAHAHA gotta love Frank Barone
brightlights24 10 months ago 3
Doris Roberts character is something else.
superjam18 10 months ago
19 years old, have only had 1 girlfriend, but that was when I was 13. Only went out for 3 months and we didn't even have a real kiss. Then she breaks up with me for the stupidest reason ever. When is there ever going to be a girl that likes me for me?
roamer45 10 months ago
@roamer45 Im 23 and ive only had 1 real girlfriend, it was when I was a freshman in high school, we only went out for a week before she passed away. But you know, age and the amount of girlfriends doesn't really matter in your case. Its not the amount that matters though, quality is what matters - not quantity. I'm not sure if ill ever find "the one", but it'll be better waiting than spending all my life hopping from one meaningless relationship to the next wishing for something that wont happen
cilayin 10 months ago
@roamer45 I just turned 21 and I never had a girlfriend in my life,there were 2 that I could have gone out with,one when i was in highschool and the second before I took a break from college.I've never had my first kiss.when I was 15 and in highschool I had friends who were already having sex and losing it,and they would always talk about it.I never let it get to me,I'm pushing forward knowing that when I do find someone, I'm going to cherish that relationship with all my heart.You're not alone.
Cr1ms0nRav3n 10 months ago 4
what episode is this from?
krajnovic10 11 months ago
YEah im single i know how it feels,but still i hang in there. I sometimes feel like giving up but still i hang in there . You know i had a fiancee unfortunately she wanted to be with her girlfriend ,she wanted me to be like her girlfriends boyfriend accepting that she will be living with her,shes bi. I loved her ,when we really finished i felt like Shawshank Redemptions Andy Dufrene .
manufran02 11 months ago
hard times make strong people in the end
rippindrummer666 11 months ago
this is probably the most true to life scene i have ever seen in a tv show ever...i know how robert feels yeah it sucks but you know sometimes you gotta just deal with stuff and hang in there...the other day my bro said something that really rang true with me...he said the reason why we as people go through shit and hard times is to make us appreciate the times we have when our life is going the way we want it to...if our lives were always good we would not appreciate what we have
rippindrummer666 11 months ago
funny!
SinglesLifeTV 11 months ago
I tried to find love in first site but I fell that every woman uses guys for money,sex, and attention.
ACTWBattles 11 months ago 4
I never really enjoyed this show but I loved this episode. The fly lady was so unexpected
Jurassicparkz08 11 months ago
My advice to people struggling with singless and want to find their special some one.....the most likely place where you will find your future spouse is most likely to be the place where you are truly happy to be yourself
TheFockerizer 11 months ago
one of the best shows ever on tv
herculesboy 11 months ago
If someone is that sweet and that hot is eating flies occasionally really a deal-breaker? People eat bugs as a delicacy so what's the difference (I'm trying to look on the bright side here...)
james1200 1 year ago
hello, i'm quiring now i'm here, that's the slogan, funny like hell
KevinFirm 1 year ago
i am the other half!
THELAURAS2010 1 year ago
Real writers of horror, macabre fiction and fantasy were created by people infected with loneliness. So I guess there is some good that comes from being single. lol.
thechaz83 1 year ago
@thechaz83 indeed it is strange how beutiful of a muse misery is, helps though the film I just shot about loneliness and a feeling that your girl is with another guy got me through some really macabre depression.
rich639 1 year ago
Being single is not natural. Everybody has a longing in them to be with another. Some people are better at suppressing it than others. In this world divorce is so high because in marriage, or just in general, we expect a picnic or god forbid we have to practice some humbleness and not think of just sex or ourselves 24/7. We live in a selfish age. Plus, people expect perfection in who they will marry.
thechaz83 1 year ago
part 2. Us men want a perfect "Hott" girl with big boobs and a perfect body and fucks us whenever we want and doesn't talk back. This is life people. And girls want that Brad Pitt or "Bad Boy" type guy to be with and they end up getting hurt in the end. Until humanity finds the true meaning of love then nothing will improve
thechaz83 1 year ago
Plus, the church doesn't help. I'm Catholic and believe me they try to make more priests out of people and have a slogan "Well and good if your married but if not don't try to find someone, join us, become a priest". I'm telling ya people relationships are getting spoiled and its our fault. Fine print time, "I'm not a mind reader and this may not apply to every single person who reads this post" thank you :) .
thechaz83 1 year ago
lastly, people may throw religion into the mix to help the single person out. They say, "God is all you need or let him decide". People, it says in the bible "It is not good for man to be alone". God wants the best for us. Most people are built with strong urges for someone. God made us that way but expects us to handle what he gave us in the correct way. Other people don't care about being single. So in conclusion, almost everyone has an urge for someone
thechaz83 1 year ago
some of those people who want someone won't find them. It isn't their fault, It's the worlds fault. We live in a selfish world people. But sometimes those people don't find anyone cuz they expect perfection. Other people will find their soul mate because luck is on their side and they know how to "Talk to people". Lastly, you'll have the perfect people who are hott and always find their man or woman. Thank you for hearing my rants. You can wake up now, lol.
thechaz83 1 year ago
@thechaz83
Don't listen to the bible, don't listen pastors or priests. They truly do not know how we feel about singleness nor loneliness because they got "God" in their minds hence they are unable to relate on what single lonely people struggle with. The one way you could meet your special someone is to...well go out there and meet people, make new friends and what not. The place where you're most likely to meet your spouse is that place where you are truly happy to be yourself
TheFockerizer 11 months ago
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joenlbarey 1 year ago
It was never roberts fault, it was Amy's fault. SHE was the one who was afraid of rejection. She was so uptite about it that if she didn't get her was fast enough, she would asume they would never marry. So Amy broke it off with Robert because she won't take the time to learn patience in a relationship! End of story!
Xboxer1080 1 year ago
And the he spills shit on amy and they get married yay the end lol
duckhuntchamp 1 year ago
I feel the same way as Robert. I am 31 years old an have never had a partner, I have tried to find explanations as to why I am single, sometimes it just hurts to think of those reasons, other times I try to feel better by thinking I am at least healthy and have food and shelter.
jorandb 1 year ago 3
Best part is when Frank calls Robert "son" :)
snookerfan75 1 year ago 43
@snookerfan75 yeah, stuck out the most to me.
codename617 1 year ago
well that was depressing
Jrock69ford 1 year ago
1:53 best part.
Dusto22 1 year ago
Everybody Loves Raymond, THE show that puts a contrast from laughter to complete silence
ashieboy1995 1 year ago 3
I like how the end shows Frank truly does care
AndOfTheDeath 1 year ago
I can empathize with Robert's annoyance at Debra's attempts to help. People who are in relationships, even if they've been stuck in the single rut before, can't easily console those who are down on their luck. And then "good luck with the frog lady", awesome comeback
Tmartin1438 1 year ago
if i was Robert i was just get up and said "i'll come back and talk after you've pulled your head out of your ass" and just walked out of there
i love how people act like being single is some sort of death sentence when it's really not. If you want to get married fine but do it for YOURSELF and not to please someone else like your mother otherwise you're just a slave to someone else's approval.
Zain844 1 year ago
I would have had a really hard time keeping my cool after hearing Marie's speech beginning at 1:36. Yeah, Mom, you may stay up nights fussing, but do you think it's a picnic for me? What do you think *I* go through getting turned down/ignored over and over again? How do you think I feel after going out on first dates and hearing "You're a nice guy, but there's just nothing between us." Do you think I like getting my hopes up again and again only to get squashed?
Okay, rant over.
scarywriter1830 1 year ago
@scarywriter1830 Yup, when this aired I was in tears. SOMEBODY in TV land knows how it feels. And we aren't sitting home moping about. We have productive lives. And I don't care about the 'it's ok to be alone' crap. I know how to be alone and enjoy it. But after so many years IT GETS OLD!
blkchk 1 year ago
wow this is exactly how i feel right now
theofficefan731 1 year ago
With parents like Marie and Frank,you don´t need any anemys no more.
dortmundking 1 year ago
Are there may entire episodes of "ELR" here on youtube??
dortmundking 1 year ago
I know most people mean well, but people in Robert's situation really do not want or need to hear those "you'll find someone" pep talks.
AdrianIsaacs 1 year ago 5
Marie and her dialogues are always sooooo funnyyyy!!!
SRKshahid01 1 year ago
Yea, It sucks. I was married 12 years, that failed, then a year later, dated a woman for 7 months who turned out to be bi polar. Since I kept failing, I have just given up completely. It would be nice to have someone to come home to, but as long as I get laid every now and then, I can do without hearing a woman's bitching and complaining. Being Single Isn't all that bad.
willtheman69 1 year ago
@willtheman69 Amen. Naturally that's all that is needed. Yes we need human contact with each other, if you can get that you're all good. Monogamy isn't a natural thing for men. Marriage isn't a natural thing either, that's why a lot of marriages fail. I'm glad you've seen the light! They don't call it the three rings of marriage for nothing! The engagement ring, the wedding ring and the SUFFERING
fourtywpm 1 year ago
One of the true drama scenes in this show where even Frank gets up and has concern for Robert one of the best scenes in the show
mattsmt20 1 year ago 3
this is the best moments that people experience with a family this is y i love this moment :) its really touching
Simeitsa 1 year ago
Married or not married as long as your happy being that way it's fine, and if you love someone (keyword here), then people wouldn't divorce. Enough said...
Britrules10000 1 year ago
Yeah get married for your mommy. That why 50 of couples get divorced
wavemontion 1 year ago
Why do we HAVE to "find someone?" Because society tells you're a total loser if you don't. THEN, you marry this TOTAL STRANGER, and end up divorced, with a lawyer that costs a fortune - the divorce rate is over 50%, so YOUR marriage stands a 50-50 chance of making it. Does your spouse cheat on you? Seriously folks, think it over. The whole marriage and brats thing is totally ridiculous and SO outdated! I love my single life! I only have to impress... MYSELF! =)
juliadennehy 1 year ago 2
@juliadennehy Well spoken!
kolchack55 1 year ago
"Hey, Son!"
Two words... and you can tell so much about Frank...
obiwanobiwan13 1 year ago 4
whats so bad about living alone/being alone? in the end, it doesnt even matter
NothingMoreBlack 1 year ago
@NothingMoreBlack i think tht they want to have someone there when ther down so ther husband or wife will b ther and hug them and give them advice also to have kids tht they created and to b proud of them but its not bad
JacobyRedSoxfan 1 year ago
Where's the rest of it?? The best part is the last scene in the bar when he bumps the waiter and the drinks land all over . . . Amy! The audience went nuts!
Upload it too!
blackiemittens 1 year ago
believe me guys..NEVER, NEVAA give up hope..because it's for free and leads to unbelievable pathes
xPirus26 1 year ago
@xPirus26 but once u turn old u get ugly well sometimes so u wnt find any 1
JacobyRedSoxfan 1 year ago
@xPirus26 dont feed people with this B.S.
goldrat91 1 year ago
@xPirus26 I must give you a thumbs up for that comment my friend :)
thechaz83 1 year ago
I think the audience laughs a little too much at jokes that are not too funny quite frankly. Marie reacts to Robert being single as if Robert must marry to satisfy his mother.
NewYorkS4U 1 year ago
@NewYorkS4U
and that's exactly what alot of people do. They get married (usually to someone they don't love or are unsuitable for them) just to please someone else How many people do you know got married not because it was their choice but because it was expected of them? I know quite a few people my own parents for one. They had an arranged marriage and they are miserable.
Zain844 1 year ago
@Zain844 How many do I know? Nobody. Unless they're not telling me something.
NewYorkS4U 1 year ago
@NewYorkS4U
Either you are lying or your friends arent telling you something. It'd verry easy to find couples who got married for the wrong reasons.
Zain844 1 year ago
@Zain844 I know many. People crack me up. People just don't marry because they are in love. I read "Remember why you married in the first place...how you felt" meaning that first love. For some people, it wasn't about that at all.
blkchk 1 year ago
0:37
theforgiventeen 1 year ago
No other show will ever come along that will be able to create moments like this...where you're laughing one moment and tearing up the next. Amazing.
Goddessgol 1 year ago
LOL MARIE : Hallo now im queer and now im here XD
TheFlashbabeBanned 1 year ago
My favorite scene. Funny and yet so honest. And of course I can relate to it :)
agataanaljubica 1 year ago
that's the slogan ha ha
JRPHILLIPS75 1 year ago
poor Robert i'm glad that he married Amy...
190GoingOn115 1 year ago
@190GoingOn115 , me too goingon
skinnybubblebutt 1 year ago
Yup I know the feeling
half the ppl I every asked out or ever liked told me no
and majority of them for some off reason hit me
I've practically given up on relationships and I'm only 18
I do have a crushes on ppl but I'm too scared cuz of the possible blunt object to my head
Yamaz29 1 year ago
i'm at the exact same boat Robert is.. and i also feel like mocking people everytime they say "You'll find someone bladibladibla.."
never had an actual relationship, and being 22yrs old and hearing folks say "your so young" annoys me, cuzz there's plenty of younger people who have a long lasting relationship.
funny stuff btw =) made me smile a bit..
VenomLeon 1 year ago
You really knew Robert was hurting when Frank got up and said : "Hey, son" because Frank isn't all that sensitive if u watch the show.
blackflame100 1 year ago
@blackflame100 yeah, the "Hey, son" part really shocked me. I didn't know if he was making fun of robert or not, lol. I didn't know if i was going to laugh or be like 'oooooooooooooh, he's serious..'
oratadin 1 year ago
"do you want to die alone?"
lol Even if you are married there is a 50/50 chance you will die alone anyway unless you are and your spouse die at exactly the same time. One of you will die alone so the whole "you'll die alone" thing doesn't really scare me. if you die before your spoise. they die alone if they die before you you die alone. Every widow and widower ends up in the exact same situation they would have been if they had not married at all. Old and alone
Zain844 1 year ago 3
I'd rather be alone my whole life. Freedom is great.
mooveetraylaguy 1 year ago
I'd rather be "alone" my whole life than be with the wrong person. Its saves you and any possible children that might come of it. You dont need a romantic relationship to feel whole. Society is so messed up because of that misconception.
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 I know what you mean, but..: what if it's actually a personal desire/hunger for a significant other, rather than a pressure brought from society? I think that thats the better reason for you (or someone else) to go and find your half.
VenomLeon 1 year ago
@VenomLeon well I think society and people around us can give us that hunger. If you cant be happy alone then being with someone isnt going to fix what made you unhappy in the first place. You have to make your own life before you can invite someone in. I think its true that you can find love when your not looking for it and I think most people find it attractive when someone has their own life .
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 PUH_LEEZE. That's ok when you are 19, but what about when you are in your 50s? I've traveled, done tons of stuff. Never stopped living. But it really gets old. All my friends are either married or divorced with children and grandchildren. Of course since I'm not, it seems as if I've dropped off the face of the earth. Yes I enjoy my own company but I've made my life and, once again, all that 'happy talk' gets old the older you get.
blkchk 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 And let me be specific. I'm talking SINGLE. Not divorced. Not a single parent. Not a widow/widower. SINGLE. Never married. And if you don't think there's a difference, ask someone who is really single and wants to be married. They know EXACTLY what Robert is talking about. Don't mean to sound angry, but I've heard platitudes like your until it is sickening, however well meant. As if there is a lack in people who are single...something they are not doing right.
blkchk 1 year ago
@blkchk You got some true anger in you.
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 I thought you would say that. And I can accept that. I just get tired of people saying what you say. And no, I don't sit around dwelling on it. I live my life. Planning my next trip (to Iceland). But people in my situation know exactly what I mean. And don't want to hear repetitive, although well-meaning, stock phrases.
blkchk 1 year ago
@blkchk I'm not 19 by the way. haha. I'm not gonna argue with you though. Every person has their own unique situation. Sometimes its best to have a partner, sometimes your better off alone. I just get tired of all the brainwashing of women by men. It goes way deeper than most realize.
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 I didn't assume you are 19. That's how old I was when people starting bombarding me with comments like yours. I don't think it's brainwashing. People have a distinct, biological and emotional need for human companionship. Even some animal mate for life. Brainwashing goes both ways...this 'I don't need a relationship' is part of our society's thinking also. There are worse things than being single, yes, but there is no substitute for having a nice relationship when you want it.
blkchk 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 You seem very happy with your situation and good for you. Thanks for your comments...a lively discussion is always welcome.
blkchk 1 year ago
@blkchk Thanks. A really good book to read that talks a bit about this is The Lonely American. Its a really good read. I got it awhile ago and I saw recently its on Oprah's book club lol. But its really interesting.
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 Thanks but I'm not a big reader of 'self-help' books. I'd rather continue to be busy and look for new adventures.
blkchk 1 year ago
@blkchk LOL its not a self help book. More of a study of American culture
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@VenomLeon I see also so many people who are looking for love and they get with the first person that comes along and its a wreck. People settle too much. If your not looking then the right person will catch your eye, instead of when your looking the first person will catch your eye.
GreenTeaPlease3 1 year ago
@GreenTeaPlease3 I haven't settled. But that doesn't mean it's easy, especially as you get older. And please...that 'not looking stuff' and 'when you least expect it'. I've heard it all.
blkchk 1 year ago
I know the pain
blkchk 1 year ago
Wow, the ending blew me away. Where did that heart-wrenching twist in the last 23 secs come from?.
Hear everybody try to reach him then finally the dad says "hey, son".....
I would just love to meet a nice woman after 37 years of loneliness......:(
Sjofugla 1 year ago 5
if my mom said i was a homo i was prolly slap her
burtonrules123 1 year ago
Beutifully put because I know what it's like and how it feels.
reneecalling 1 year ago 34
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TheDukeskiller142 2 years ago
"Your a HO-MO-sexual." LMAO! Priceless, just priceless!
Weeds1239 2 years ago 7
@Weeds1239 I like the way she says "You're a gay".
blkchk 1 year ago
He just described how I feel most of the time about my (non-exsistent) love life. I love this show because it is so real.
popmum19 2 years ago 14
Robert: "Most people find their other half. And I just have to wake up and accept already that there is no other half...for this (pointing to self). That is exactly how I feel at this point and time. I am going through a painful separation and now divorce. I thought I found my other half, but it didn't work out....she was controlling, verbally abusive, and angry. At this point and time, I really feel hopeless. This clip really touched a chord with me.
bradchaz 2 years ago 51
I work for family law attys. I see 10, 20, 30+ year marriages fall apart. My own marriage didn't last but it was amicable. I've been diagnosed with HepC (I'm part of the Hepci Generation!! Har!) and being in my late 40s, I know I will never ever ever have another relationship. I have great friends & a very loving family, I enjoy my work, I adore my cat, I have my hobbies. I don't miss a relationship that much, and having had a lot, some very serious, it's OK; that part of my life is done.
findapartmentnow 2 years ago 3
@findapartmentnow dont give up!
Silversava2 1 year ago 3
@bradchaz : When you reach the end of the road, you eventually will turn around or turn to left or right, eventually , after decades, Robert ended up marrying Amy at this point, you would be able to find your the other half, but it just needs some time. to you and to the one for you.
MrRossbu 1 year ago
@bradchaz I'm only 22 and I feel this way.
Justinfhtube 1 year ago
@bradchaz You can fall in love with more than one person in a lifetime. The biggest problem is that from birth, many families act like their mother here. "YOU MUST BE WITH SOMEONE". You don't have to be.
The rules of life and love are
-Be comfortable with yourself
-Have enough self esteem to be by yourself, and not have a problem with it.
-Don't seek love, as you find out, it comes to you when you're not looking.
-Enjoy your life, not worrying yourself about finding that "someone"
xamire 1 year ago
@bradchaz wish u the best my friend
airdna4382 1 year ago
@bradchaz Don't give up friend. It's been 9 months since you posted your comment, I don't know if you've met someone in that time and if you have then kudos. But if not, then don't give up! The same exact thing happened to me. I thought I met my soul mate. Stayed with her for 6 years and went through the most painful breakup imaginable.
But I met someone else. And now I am happier than ever before! Good luck!
sulhaq 1 year ago 19
@sulhaq i am with you bro! i also though i found my dreamwomen...but she left me twice,so icecold.. i would never though that she can be that ignorant...but life goes on bro!
AmericanAli1995 4 months ago
@bradchaz every cloud has a silver lining...you will find peace and happiness soon
ankitacha 1 year ago
@bradchaz better being alone than being wif som1 like that.
chuPOO 11 months ago
@chuPOO Exactly. People can be so crazy. I think it's best to learn how to enjoy your own company.
PurpleShades1 10 months ago
i love Italians xD they are the funniest families
JakayBalay202 2 years ago 2
nedostajace nam nema ih vise na avali
petrovicibns 2 years ago
why did someone take the series finale off utube I loved watching it . would you please put it back on
persianlady55 2 years ago
18 Rejections. Why do i keep trying?
LMbasspro16 2 years ago 5
Everybody Loves Raymond is such a great show!!
DrumTVShow 2 years ago 5
dat ur homosexual...lol lol lol lmao
dayna3700886 2 years ago
Great
erakhsh2 2 years ago
Does anyone have the clips from the Lateness show? Also, in that episode, Robert said that Ray A I S'ed Debra? What does that mean?
EXJASAMER 2 years ago
"AIS" meant "ass in seat". It was something that Frank used to do to Ray and Robert whenever they went anywhere in the car.
chakkuri2 2 years ago
a i s means ass in seat. frank did dat to raymond and robert when they were little. he would give a time, and saw "a i s 5:00" meaning ass in seat at 5:00. raymond told debra "a i s at 6:30", but then drove off without her cuz she wasnt ready in time, dat y robert said that, lol
Ranmik 2 years ago
Ass in seat.
ligguma 2 years ago
at the end frank calls robert thats' very unusual to see frank do
he is acting like a father
he even calls him ''son''
KneeCapHill 2 years ago 5
this episode is called "she is the one" if you are interested see it in my account you gona be cry from laughing
faisal1979m 2 years ago
"I mean, For God's sake! Do you wanna die alone?!"
"Yes!...oh him."
lol hilarious!
siLveRscOpe13x 2 years ago 5
I love this episode!
PRNeneChulo 2 years ago
This episode was hilarious!!!! Doris Roberts totally rocks this show!
EXJASAMER 2 years ago 6
I love Doris Roberts!
EllenCanDance 2 years ago 5
this is just like my mom and me when she buggers me about finding someone