Iol I like the Papi or Daddy types, but I don't expect them to 'take care of me' I like having a job, so I can buy art supplies,books and clothing. If Daddy wants to spoil me every now and then? Cool. But spoiled doesn't have to mean designer jeans,(go to Salvation Army and thrift stores! I've seen my local stores sell hell of alot designer clothes! But spoiling could be a candlelit dinner in the living room, lights down low and soft music. Expand your mind!
I really enjoyed watching this, I am a femme that finds this really interesting, the mind is very powerful in terms of how we ID ourselves.... It's all about being who you want tobe and being comfortable in your skin! As you said don't deny your womanhood - love it!
wow I tried the saaame thing..I joined the military and I tried to be this masculine manly stud...it was so hard because I thought this was the only way a stud or an aggressive female could be. I could never let down my guard and I was stuck on this im in charge idea. My wife (4 yrs now legally) saw right through me lol now I don't try to fiit this idiotic mold.
I am glad I found this video-I am femme who loves Butches, and I always found it attractive and real when she/hy is able to be be her/hys self, and as you say-to recognize the soft sides and need to be equal-there is no reason for us to support heteronormative attitudes, hack, the mere existance of this dynamic is subversive for heteronormative.
Thanks for watching go to you tube butch voices and vote for Charita!!!! and check out there other videos and upload your butch,stud ,aggressive perspectives!!!
This was a great topic I'm a young aggressor and for years i tried to play that manly role that i have to pay all the bills and take care of my girl but that has all changed now lol she better get a job and help me out with the bills or she has to go. I should have a house after all the money i spent on these women peace.
Thanks for watching!!! If you know any one with a story about the above subject we would love to start a video diary project! We invite all ages, class, race,ETC especially the current generation to comment on this subject!!!
thanks for yet another great upload. for some reason your videos always make me think: "wait a minute... this is better than this or that book I read."
Bravo Charita! You speak the truth. My wife, retired military, is Butch, and she has no problems with her femininity. As she says, I was born a female and I enjoy being a Butch Woman. And I certainly LOVE her being a Butch Woman!! LOL. Thanks for posting this insightful video.
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DSPENCE1986 1 year ago
I would love to have a conversation with her..
She seems very cool
=)
TheKnowledge4ya 1 year ago
Iol I like the Papi or Daddy types, but I don't expect them to 'take care of me' I like having a job, so I can buy art supplies,books and clothing. If Daddy wants to spoil me every now and then? Cool. But spoiled doesn't have to mean designer jeans,(go to Salvation Army and thrift stores! I've seen my local stores sell hell of alot designer clothes! But spoiling could be a candlelit dinner in the living room, lights down low and soft music. Expand your mind!
starmaiden26 1 year ago
She has an interesting story.
Not1OfUrFans 1 year ago
What we need is to divorce the concept of strength from the concept of masculinity.
HotButterOnToast 1 year ago
awesome interview!
useful for people on all kinds of places on the masculine spectrum to think on.
or even just concerning roles and models and how we try to translate ourselves in these languages that sometimes are too tight for us.
cheers!
orfeo
ArWx 1 year ago
Awesome video! Favorited!
MainelyButch 2 years ago
I really enjoyed watching this, I am a femme that finds this really interesting, the mind is very powerful in terms of how we ID ourselves.... It's all about being who you want tobe and being comfortable in your skin! As you said don't deny your womanhood - love it!
Love to you for lovey London.xxx
LadyPhyll 2 years ago
wow I tried the saaame thing..I joined the military and I tried to be this masculine manly stud...it was so hard because I thought this was the only way a stud or an aggressive female could be. I could never let down my guard and I was stuck on this im in charge idea. My wife (4 yrs now legally) saw right through me lol now I don't try to fiit this idiotic mold.
whoiAm08 2 years ago
I am glad I found this video-I am femme who loves Butches, and I always found it attractive and real when she/hy is able to be be her/hys self, and as you say-to recognize the soft sides and need to be equal-there is no reason for us to support heteronormative attitudes, hack, the mere existance of this dynamic is subversive for heteronormative.
Thank you for the video :)
devokica 2 years ago
Thanks for watching go to you tube butch voices and vote for Charita!!!! and check out there other videos and upload your butch,stud ,aggressive perspectives!!!
butchlove!
goddessboi 2 years ago
This was a great topic I'm a young aggressor and for years i tried to play that manly role that i have to pay all the bills and take care of my girl but that has all changed now lol she better get a job and help me out with the bills or she has to go. I should have a house after all the money i spent on these women peace.
patrice975 2 years ago
yo I love that t-shirt
petrailani 2 years ago
Well said.
fluvaluva 3 years ago
excellent video :) neat perspective. "retired papi" heh
SighNotSo 3 years ago
OMG Hey Charita!! Good to see you again! Who knew you were a star!!
~Natalie
(see you in august)
blkdykegoddess 3 years ago
Thanks for watching!!! If you know any one with a story about the above subject we would love to start a video diary project! We invite all ages, class, race,ETC especially the current generation to comment on this subject!!!
goddessboi 3 years ago
thanks for yet another great upload. for some reason your videos always make me think: "wait a minute... this is better than this or that book I read."
PPJnet 3 years ago
Thank you for checking it out!!!
peace
goddessboi 3 years ago
Bravo Charita! You speak the truth. My wife, retired military, is Butch, and she has no problems with her femininity. As she says, I was born a female and I enjoy being a Butch Woman. And I certainly LOVE her being a Butch Woman!! LOL. Thanks for posting this insightful video.
proudyke 3 years ago