Should you tell him that you like him? - FOR WOMEN ONLY!

[piskou95]

another bad advice, and more single women

[Singerbabie1]

Okay... Ladies :) though this video came off somewhat helpful, not going to lie... but this is just one guys opinion. yes its romantic to keep the mystery alive i agree. but there will always be a point along the line where the feelings of both parties will be unleashed. Does not mean the romance dies, if the persons worth the world to you and you think the same. theres nothing from stopping you 2 from having the best love and relationship ever. theres always that one person out there.

[peenutbutter1324]

so theres this kid i like, n he always talks to this other girl. he moght go out w my friend, n i really dont want that to happen. i try talking to him, but he insults me all the time. he told me he liked me a while ago, but thats when i didnt like him, and now he is telling me he doent feel that way. i dont know if i should keep trying, or let him go.?

[lucariospirit]

REALLY loudly with other girls when I'm around...I just dunno...I just don't understand people or what they mean....

[lucariospirit]

Wow this really helped!!!...kinda...I can't seem to trust people I dunno why so I don't kno if I should trust his friends cause they said he likes me back.....gah...my mom ALWAYS asks me how he's doing and if were going out yet.....it's REALLY awkward...

But yeah I'd appreciate it if someone could help me out!

Oh yeah I've known him for nearly 2 years and I liked him nearly the whole time...and he teases me and puts his arm around me and even once held my hand in choir....plus he seems to flirt

[Fredloverize]

@iamabove18youknow I told my crush I liked him, too.. After he told me he liked me.. But after that nothing happened.. Nothing. I guess it just.. Wasn't meant to be..?

[WereMoosePamcakez]

What if you've been seeing him for a while and want to take things to the next level? The signs are clearly there, and I'm just wondering if I should tell him that I like him to see if it brings up the possibility of moving things along further.

[GuidesAndVidsForYou]

u mean for women and gays only =)

hahahaha

[poopoopaula101]

i never told him i liked him and he started telling me that i was like a "sister" to him. sigh. i think after a while, if he is the shy type, just tell him u like him. or he will see u like family. next time i see him IM TELLING HIM HOW I FEEL

[kevinzgurl1]

okyy;so theirs this 'quyy' & hee toldd mee hee likes mee but he doesnt know i likee him =^_^=

but i wannaa tell him!,how should i tell him!?!

ty!(:

[iamabove18youknow]

but what if i already told him i liked him? omg. :(

[blulicorish1]

im scared

[cookiemonster6240]

did not work

[hannaremnant]

I just can't make up my mind if I want to get to know this guy if he's really not even that into me and is just going on my looks...

[annamc01]

I just posted a comment giving you a compliment and now I am watching this video. LOL, Well that was just a compliment I wasn't asking you out, LOL but you still can contact me, you have a lot to teach, I guess I am one of those girls that did everything wrong, I have a crush in a guy but I guess my chances are gone, I did everything you said not to. LOL, maybe it wasn't meant to be :)

[vitalcoaching]

@annamc01 - Your approach is VERY sexy... See? we're already friends on facebook, so it worked! ;)

[XPrincess30]

@annamc01 what was your approach TELLL ME lmao

[xiaoli26]

here's a little story....

I saw a guy following me to the rooftop...

he confessed to me...he said "(my name) I LOVE YOU!"

then I ignore him and I go back to my classroom.

days passed. and I realized that I like him. at the farewell party, I planned to confess...but I saw him laying his arms on a girl's shoulders.

1 year passed. I changed. never wonder I would punch a pervert. one HANDSOME guy came near me...and said "are your hands alright?" and I said " what?" then he took my hand and kissed it

[mary2537]

theres is a guy and we are close an i found out he likes me the i way i do but he hasnt asked me out...an its been days an he still hasnt done so but we keep talking to each other still but each day its getin harder to talk to him or even c him an sometimes i feel like just telling him to ask me out but im not that type to say that so idk anymore =( help please!!

[9088Nadia]

Should i tell him i like him??? He always stares at me, and i always stare back to see if his looking at me...omg i fancy him so muchh...i wanna tell him but i dont know how his gonna react...!!

[RaZZJeFFHarDY]

@9088Nadia if you know he likes you. you better go tell it to him because if he dont know you love him. he can maybe lose hope. just take a deep breath and go tell it to him ill bet he will smile!

[Nellyhot1]

THANK U SO MUCH THIS HELPS A LOT

[tamarabashore]

HELP! he just wont say it! were the best of friends and i love him with all of my heart! im to shy to tell him......but if he EVER asked, i would say yes b4 he got the question out.......someone! plz comment bak!

[RaZZJeFFHarDY]

@tamarabashore do you know he likes you?

[elesebaby]

duddee, your voice! haha. I couldn't even take it seriously. hahaha.

[CuddleCakez]

lmao

[ducky120082]

I am friends with this guy and i really like him but i dont want to tell him that i like him because i am afraid it will ruine anything that we have already had......i am flirty with him every day but i am gettig mixed signals.....what should i do?????

[Edwardlover222]

lol

[Starrypla]

Is he really worth it if he can't handle the responsibility `by loving someone in return? I think you can risk that, that guy is just using you..

[teckay84]

there is a guy that i think he likes me..... because, he keeps to stare at me and looking for where I am, but now since Im shy and i dont know how to relate and act to guy, seems like he is giving up with me and he is not staring and smiling at me anymore ;(

[vitalcoaching]

tease him - check my "dating for women" playlist on my channel - there is a vid called "how to tease guys" - enjoy!

[poisonwood23]

but what if he's moving very soon... should i still tell him i like him?

[Ravenex2]

@poisonwood23 I realize I'm rather late to the party...but I do have some advice, still.

If he was going to move, why not ask for his e-mail and then send one later on asking to hang out sometime? Asking for an e-mail is less personal too, so it's easier to get.

[mollyfucface]

It is very hard to eat fish crackers and understand you at the same time.

[vitalcoaching]

;) - Funniest comment this month - You made me crack with that one

[garnetluvsmuffin]

hi franciscooooo! :) this video is awesome!

soo... yeah, i BADLYYY need your advice, pls.

ive like this guy at my church for over a year now.. we only got to see each other once a week and we never once talked face to face. However, he always stares at me and smiles.. i dunno what to do and im not sure if he has something with me.. or maybe NOT. im shy and actually, its against my principle to make the first move or tell him i like him.. im lost.. can you give me some advice? =_=

[omgITSmichelleGAO]

if hes not looking at you because ur doing something weird,then go ahead and ask ur friend to ask his best friend if they know about anything. if not, then just keep flirting.

[garnetluvsmuffin]

another problem is that i dont have a friend that is a friend to one of his friends :D hopeless huh? anyway thanks for the advice :)

[OooftBabesz]

& shes ok with him going out with other girls though but not me, we didnt talk for a while & now weve gotten really close he flirts with me alot, texts me everyday & always gives me loads of hugs when i see him & says iloveyoubabe all the time & i dont know if he still have feelings for me or not? today i saw him & wen i was goin he hugged me & whispered i love u to me does this mean anything what shall i do x

[OooftBabesz]

i really like this lad & iv liked him 4 a while hes had a girlfriend 4 ova a year & we had this thing a couple of months ago & he told me he liked me & that i meant more to him than his girlfriend did, he dont go 2 the same school but i see him alot & his girlfriend gets really annoyed with him if he meets me,

[LalithaSr]

hi fransisco you are great! what does it mean if i saw (from the corner of my eye) this guy pointing me out to one of his close friends? is it just like she's hot or she llikes me or could he like me??? i know its hard to say..but what do u think??

[kboizkillah]

haha im a guy and i WATCHED IT

livin la vida loca baby

[xMissMarleyx]

ughhh, oki help me plzzz!

i told this guy that i liked him (well, i dnt really tell him, a guy friend told him), and i guess he likes me bak (well at least thats what i HEARD) but hes never even talked to me face to face before.

i mean im in 11th grade....

its just weird, should i just let it go or wat?

[reanice1989]

LOL, just be patient..

if he really likes you..

he'll go after you.

[XxXFFiisshhyyXxX]

i love the vid. and its awesome to open up, but dont some guys just get a little creeped out?

[kboizkillah]

never. be spicey. guys like this

[WaffleIronKun]

I've known this guy for about a year now, and I've had a crush on him for about that long. We chat sometimes, whenever I'm around he tries to get my attention (by teasing me and scaring me), I've invited him over to hang out a few times. The issue is that he doesn't talk to me that much in class and sits by himself, I'm always the one to call him to hang out. I'm just having trouble just getting across the point that I like him and want to spend time with him! Do you have any advice? :)

[ceruleanmist]

i told my crush's best friend that i liked my crush 5 years ago, at the end of high school. I've seen him about a dozen times since and he's always craning his neck to stare at me. Once, at a party, he stood around looking at me for 5 minutes while i was taking pictures with friends. I don't know if he's looking because he's just curious or because he likes me! HELP!

[babiiejaz95]

i dunno what to do cuz i am in  y9 at high achool theres this boy i like but he is older than me so i can't just walk up to him and start talkin to him out of the blue....what should I do? But great advice though ???please help me???

[vitalcoaching]

sure you can talk to him... Why not? simply have a casual conversation

[soofunnny]

are you like THE best dater ever? seriously, you know EVERYTHING!! :p

[vitalcoaching]

thanks - I am touched ;)

[rebeccalovesthejb]

i really like this guy. but hes a total flirt and most of the time has a girlfriend. funny story actually; he told me he likes me. a day later he told me he liked someone else. then 2 days later he started going out with someone else!! My friends consider him a jerk, but im just so into him, there seems to be alot of chemistry between us. and i cant ignore it, this has been going on for 3 months now - and i really wanna date him. what should i do?

[vitalcoaching]

play the game without being too attached to the outcome - if he has a girlfriend you need to have other options too - anyone else you like?

[SmartGirl27]

UGH u could have told me this a week ago.

[sexyguinea]

there is this sooo cute guy on the bus and I don't know what to say because I'm scared because I think he likes me too! I'm so lost!

This video is quite helpful by the way, thanx!

[vitalcoaching]

you're welcome ;)

[iloveSunnynsunshine1]

ok im kinda yung but i lve been going to school for only 3 weeks but i like him so much.

ive always liked popular boys but he is kinda geeky. i always always see him staring at me but he is a really shy person and only talks to one of his frends nd only a little the rest the time. i want him tto ask me out what should i do!!!

[clueless097]

There's this guy at my school that I've liked for a long time but I know that he doesn't like me. I have accepted the fact that we will never be more than friends but I am contemplating telling him that I like him. I know that nothing will happen between us but I think it would be good just to get my feelings off my chest. Do you think this is a good idea??

[AnimeWarrior1]

i think u shood just tell him

[clueless097]

Thanks Anime,

yes I think i will

[futureweakness]

did you tell him? how did it go?

[clueless097]

I did tell him :) It went really well. He didn't like me back, which I knew anyway, but he was really nice about it and I'm glad I told him. It also gave me more strength - now I know I will be able to do something like this again in the future without feeling so nervous. Thanks for asking! It's nice of you :)

[futureweakness]

im glad it went really well for you :) and youre welcome^^

[PUNKROCKGIRL44]

ok so this guy kept starin @ me and stuff but neva really sed much apart from sayin i was hot then he got back 2eva with his ex and we are friends now but i think we cood b more than that and i want it 2 b more so wat do i do????

[HoneiiDiiva]

I kinda did.. and he said thanks I appreciate u telling me...i should of said nothing!

[leher000]

That was great..thank u. Reminded me exactly of a past situation and how he might have felt with me. He left my life 6 months ago hasn't contacted me since. He said he cannot reciprocate n needed space b4 he walked away. I know I had made him feel v. pressured. My fault. I still love him and wish to reconnect as a friend in a more stable casual way. I only know his email address & my emails of Hi's (and I miss u's) have gone unanswered. Any advise? Ty!

[ciaobella863]

has anyone ever told u that u are amazing? Thanxs for the advice!

[vitalcoaching]

thanks ;)

[joejonasluver24xo]

Ok, here I go. I really like this one guy I've known for a week, but we've really clicked and I've fallen for him. He lives an hour away and I call him ocasionally, but, I don't know if I should tell him I totally like him. My friend says yes cause friday, when I wasn't somewhere, he talked about me alot. Should I go for it, and if I should, how?

[vitalcoaching]

don't tell him you like him - instead, arrange a cool date with him, cook something fun for him, invite him to a party with friends, etc - he will get the message

[Poca446]

i have this guy who ive been best friends with since we were in diapers and he told me he likes me!!!!! omg should i tell him i like him to? (i do)?????????????? help!!!!!

[vitalcoaching]

go out on a couple of dates ;) - see if you click romantically

[babybluesgreen]

i discovered i like a guy i have known for 4 months about a week ago. i asked him to go for a movie ..he said ok but wasn't too excited i guess...i really want to tell him i like him but its hard because i dont think he likes me! Should i tell him??

[vitalcoaching]

no, don't tell him - invite him casually for something fun - if he's into you, he will say yes

[emmabee11]

oh god i did that i told the guy i like i like him but he likes people to be open with him and he is very understanding so i think he was fine with it.

[vitalcoaching]

no worries ;) - If he did not run away, I am sure he is ok with it

[XxDariax]

I liked this guy for quite some months now and I've given him signs (i think) And there was several times where he stared at me for what seemed like a really long time (5 seconds) ...Does he like me? ..After many tries my friend decided she would tell him for me... and apperently when she told him, he went red... Does that mean anything?

[vitalcoaching]

it might ;) - Go to him and tease him on something he is proud of - This will break the ice between the two of you - Enjoy ;)

[87didgy]

hey! i need help for a guy!! i like very much a boy for several months and i did everything to effect him without words also i guess i did :)) but he didnt still come to me to speak:((( and i have only 2 months to grow a relationship with him! so what can i do? directly to go him and tell my feelings to him! because i dont have so much time to wait anymore!! Help me please!! thanks...

[vitalcoaching]

tell him about your feelings? Don't go that way - watch my vid on how to tease guys - It will work much better - It is on my channel ;)

[julian12321]

i told my crush i liked him. i think he likes me but i cant go out with him becuz my best friend(who likes him too and is gonna ask him out next year) made me swear i wouls=dnt ask him out :( i dont care tho cuz i dont think he likes her anymore :)

[vitalcoaching]

exactly! by the way your best friend does not own you. you are free to like who you want

[xShizumix]

This guy in my class keeps on staring at me and i don't know if he likes me or he just stares at people for no reason, and i have a HUGE C r u s h

on him.

[vitalcoaching]

sounds good ;)

[sheepingly15]

Well how can you tell if a guy likes you I mean, I like a guy and I thought it was mutual by the way he acted around me (i could tell u how he was if u wanna know) and one day a couple of months ago he started asking questions about my dating "status". I dont know if it was something I said that night but ever since then he's been serious in a "walking on eggshells" around me kinda way. I feel like I lost what we potential could have had. Help

[vitalcoaching]

Go back to the teasing, flirty, sexy attitude. Don't let his present mood make you feel uncomfortable. Let him see as well that other guys appreciate you

[sheepingly15]

Well, what do you think happened. He asked me questions abotu if i was single or not and what i liked in men and if I was interested in anyone at the moment. And so he knows now that I'm single and then I made a teasing remark then all of a sudden he's been "serious" all the time and doesn't really talk to me as much. Once in a while he'll be teasing and playful and I'll be like that in return but I just don't get what I did wrong. What do you think?

[vitalcoaching]

maybe he's not into dating you and think YOU are. Maybe you suggested that in one way or another and this turned him off - Only a possibility

[sheepingly15]

so what was the point in him asking about my dating status. I mean he really was laying it on thick. He kept fishing for information and I said something at the end of it all along the lines of "Omg you're worse than someone's parents." But I was just teasing. Maybe that killed it.

[vitalcoaching]

maybe

[ramenlover817]

what if i had already done it, i already told him, wat should i do now?

[vitalcoaching]

no prob - simply be flirty and don't claim him as if he was owing something to you now - what you gave him is like an open invitation ;) - Enjoy

[ramenlover817]

thanks, that really helped^^

[ebonyxrose]

Your videos are great. I do have one question though. I like friend I have known for about a year and he is dating a chick I know. He and I are very clse and text constantly. Sometimes I get texts from him in the middle of the night. During spring break he spent the night for 3 nights and each of those nights we ended up doing stuff (not sex though so dont worry). He never once objected. We have not spoken about these incidents once. A night after the last time we did stuff, he and his

[vitalcoaching]

oups! Looks like the end of your question was cut off - What was it?

[yoyoyozo]

you dont want to scare him off!!

[vitalcoaching]

True! The prospect of dating can be terrifying for some guys ;)

[junti900]

great advice! what if its a guy you like who asked for ur number but doesnt call? should u kinda hint u like him?

[vitalcoaching]

Sure, watch the vid on my channel: "How to make it very easy for him to ask you out". Often guys are afraid of getting rejected or making a mistake... This is why they might sometimes give up before they even try...

[xObAsKeTbAlLcHiCoX]

I really need a boyfriend. I'm already 13 and i've only had one. HELP!! =[

[vitalcoaching]

That's very young ;) - You've got plenty of time

[ITALDONNABUTTERFLY]

i find ur videos very helpful

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks Donna ;)

[ITALDONNABUTTERFLY]

luv ur videos...

[vitalcoaching]

Glad to hear that! Go get him ;)