She is amazing..she speaks the truth LEAVE YOUR HAIR ALONE=)..my advice is to get a nice moisturizing shampoo/conditioner to keep moisture in your hair. keep ur ends clip when needed,oil scalp/hair AS NEEDED bottom line is to keep your hair moistuirize=) Just listen to your hair.
Your videos make me want to fix my hair lol. but any way(: im 13 and going into the 8 grade and i want my hair to be long by the time i go into 9th and i need your help!(:what do i do!!!
Great advice. I need to watch this video again before i go to beauty supply store. I definitely mess with my hair more since the hair journey. I will try to break free and just let the hair be. Thanks
when i leave my hair alone it breaks from the growth and tangles because it is relaxed. All the relaxed part of hair on the back broke when i was not combing it. But I understand she means. I will definately try your methods and hopefully my hair will improve. Thanks.
first thing i would like to say is i absolutely <3 ur videos..im thinking about doing a journey to hair growth n about two weeks (after i take my leave out..lol) im addicted to weaves which is a major problem but as of 2 wks from now i will b dedicated to growing my hair healthier and longer.My hair is currently right at my sholders and my edges are broken off due to glue and plats..also my hair is ver course and dry and the shampoos usually make it feel rough and dry..and suggestions? thx
@Brittany904bound Ok you have some work to do but first things first stop doing what doesn't work! Stop ripping your hair out! Can you make it to my live webshow I give on Saturdays?
I recently started using coconut oil and my hair is breaking quite a lot... i don't know what to do.. do you have advise on what i should do??? i really want my hair to stay in my head. I relaxed in early March and i can already see some new growth, but right now there is just way too much hair on my comb...
This resembles the sermon that I heard this past Sunday. It is like letting go of the control to allow a natural process to occur. I like it and appreciate you being honest enough to share something personal with us as ethnic Women.
Hello, Im the one that contacted U about my hair and the vinegar rinse. I watched this breaking free video and I am new to youtube but with U I am understanding more what to do and what not to do U R a God send to ME. Thank you sister for all of your help and hey if no one else does I am going to follow your blog from now on.
Hi im new here just started my hair journey about two months ago and im a member of hairlista "wonderful site" i have never left a comment on anyones videos and i have watched many but i must say u are as real as it gets u make things so less complicated and easy to understand yet your real about everything just wanted to say thanks for the great videos continue to keep ur head up ur so positive and god bless hun..
You are on the right track Lady, I get asked all the time how does my hair continue to grow while theirs breaks off. I am big on low maintanace hairstyles. I have been using coconut oil as a staple for over ten years. And just like you have said many times the less you do to your hair the more you will retain over time. I find that hair says alot about a person. And just like any bad habit it take complete devotion to want to change. I am with you all the way lets get our "Queens" back!
i decided that i was going to leave my hair alone cause its whats worked best for me...i also decided that i was going on some weekly regiment.. only to find out i messed my ends up more..leaving it alone is the best key,,it does not work it is overwhelming
I respectfully disagree. Yes you don't have to do anything to grow your hair but you DO have to do stuff to retain length. Sleep in a satin bonnet. Moisturize and seal when needed. Wash when needed. You can't just live and do nothing and get length.
Thanks for putting out this video. Your tips are helping me. My hair is growing and I have natural hair. The less manipulation the better and I wear protective hair styles and protect the ends of my hair. I agree just leave the hair alone. Don't need to use hair products that don't help and all the other things that break off the hair strands. You are definitely on the right track in what you state.
Very inspirational!!! I have to agree with this and will be implementing this. I am not going to stress anymore. This vid came at the right time because last night I combed my hair which I hadn't done in 2 days and saw a lot of hair in the comb and freaked out. I was up researching shedding and what causes shedding. I am pregnant and have come to terms that that could be it and that castor oil or peppermint oil I'm using on my scalp could be causing it but the truth is hair is suppose to shed
This makes sooo much sense.. I'm a typical "broke college student" lol and when i didn't have enough money to buy new products to try i would get really stressed, which then effected my hair..
I HAD an unhealthy attachment to the hype of products, most of which didn't even work great when i bought them anyway!
I've been trying natural things from the local grocery store, cheap and effective, great!
Oh and about your live chat? How do i connect to it? I'm in England by the way.. Thanks girl! x
Thanks for your videos, they are really helping me take care of my hair, my hair has never grown, i used to relax it every month and do all sorts of things to it 'to make it grow' . I love your hair, its just gorgeous and i pray i continue to gain more knowledge and just relax about it now so it can actually grow lol
For some reason when I see young ladies on Youtube using the word "regimen" I think of "RELIGION". Its almost as if you dont live by the rules then bad things will happen lol.
I had long hair on my back between the years of 2000-2003 and guess what? That was when I had a relaxer. Now that I've been natural for about 7 years now my hair isn't that long anymore, Its shoulder length. I believe its that way because I to was falling for the hype, but that has changed I got my mojo back lol
I have also noticed that women r promoting a different product every week. Sometimes going against previous beliefs and I was wondering what is really going on here. I'm so glad that u cleared that up. We as women: mothers, wives, homemakers, and moneymakers, have so much going on in our lives as it is. We don't need the added stress of always having to buy different hair products. I'm so happy that u r keeping it real and that u r not being tainted by the "almighty dollar".
Great video, I'm going to try to remember to focus on what I don't need to be doing vs. always looking for the new latest and so called greatest thing to start doing. This makes so much sense.
Sis, I just love you for being so true....the truth is just so pure and you are just so beautiful for putting it out there. Much respect and smooches, SK
You're speaking the truth. I have always enjoyed ur videos. Its funny, I am currently undergoing some changes in my LIFE/HHJ. The principle I have instituted is LIVING LIFE SIMPLE, KEEPING IT SIMPLE. These other things are distractions from what is truly important, our progress and development into the beings God has created us to be and creating a future/culture for our childrens children to follow.
For women with natural hair, I agree with you 100%. I use shampoo, leave in conditioner, and an oil. That's all. Nothing more and my hair is very long and thick (I have what "they" call 4c/cnapp hair) and it is healthy.
I love u and ur vids. I have tried jus using oil on my hair, but when I used it & straighted my hair , it was damaged I guess, but it still doesnt look right. I guessed I used to much oil, but now I use serums, & oil itself doesnt help stop my breakage. Maybe Im not doing sumthin right But u help me calm down & not stress too much about different products & methods. Women R trying everything, GEEZ
This is like the best piece of advice i have recieved since the start of my journey. I have a quick question. Wht if you are trying to recover your hair ( damaged or dry) but not neccessarly "Grow" your hair. Does this still apply?
I had to discover this truth myself, for myself, I was doing way too much to my hair and going broke at the same time. I couldn't come up with a consistent regimen that would stand the test of time. then I thought to myself i said "self momma didn't need to do all of this when your hair was long years ago" and that's when it clicked for me. now my hair is getting it's thickness back and i'm less stressed about "doing it right". I don't make concoctions or anything anymore.
@missemocha I do love what I've been learning through the ladies though..so i'm not gonna take anything away from them. But I wish from the start that someone besides "TheTruth..." woulda said that you don't have to do all these things because it took me months to find ya hon lol. So thanks for saying what my common sense was trying to tell me. Glad to see you back I was wondering what happened to u.
I think you're basically repeating what you've said in so many of your other videos :product doesn't grow your hair, stop manipulating your hair so much, listen to your hair, etc. It's stuff you've said before. I always look forward to your videos so I'm glad to hear you're going to grow more with your videos since it is getting a bit repetitive.
truth this is a great video. I remember when i first began watching these videos and i was a new natural and didnt know where to begin. You helped me alot and now I understand my hair needs. I wash when it needs to be washed and moisturize when it needs it. Thanks so much..
you're so right. I used to be on a STRICT regimen, but after a couple months of learning what my hair likes, I just started washing it when it needed to be washed, moisturizing it when it needed to be moisturized etc. my hair's grown and I have progress pics as proof. we just need to learn what our hair needs, and then go from there.
I dis-agree because many relaxed hair ladies leave their hair alone and that ALONE makes their hair drop,hair experts will tell you that products DO help maintain your growth,they do help soften your hair and give it the moisture that it needs because relaxed hair will DROP OUT if you are not giving it regular care and your regimen helps your to be consistent with your hair needs.
By "leaving it alone" she DOES NOT mean that you should not take care of your hair. Obviously, or she wouldn't be oiling and moisturizing her hair every night. What she means by LEAVING IT ALONE is STOP the straightening and manipulating and curling and combing every single day of the week. You're doing too much if you do all of that. She stated this very clearly in her video.
@blahblahblahman but then she should of been a lot clearer-she has quite clearly said in other videos that products don't grow your hair,there have been products that have been scientifically tested to disprove what she says also there are people whose hair naturally has a hair growth limit but when they have applied a certain product their hair has grown.I agree with most of what she says just not this.she clearly says -you dont have to do anything,ANYTHING..its a very misleading comment.
@onlinebabeful Not moisturizing and maitaining your hair will cause breakage eventually but nothing but death will stop your hair from growing unless you have disease of some sort. As long as you are alive hair grows. If you are natural and do nothing to maitain your hair it will drop out so its not about relaxed or natural its about care and hair care doesnt have to be some long routine.
@miss2umister thats exactly what I have just said-some peoples hair just doesn't grow and threy use products to help their hair grow-and it does grow.
@onlinebabeful Gee, for a supposed white lady, you sure know an awful lot about "bad" hair. Why don't you just admit what we all know to be true about you?
@onlinebabeful Why are you so ashamed of your black skin and "bad" hair? Learn to be proud of who you really are, instead of running and hiding and denying all the time. Give up your delusions and BE FREE!
@jaidaphire yes,you can not help yourself,you obviously miss me hence why you have to keep on following me around the net telling me who I am.lol your on every video saying the same thing lol yet you dn't know me & will, I give an opinion on all sorts of people and all hair YOU WOULD ONLY NOT KNOW THIS if you didnt follow me around the net like a lost child who craves love.
your pathetic,your obsession for me is hitting a low & now your on another video sprouting the same shite.missing me? lol
@onlinebabeful I'm just trying to give you one more chance to redeem yourself. Christ enjoins us to bring others into the light. You are a lost soul, lost in delusion and self-hatred. Just admit the truth about yourself, beastful. Also, I like rubbing your nose in your cowardice. You gave up and ran away. It's all you know how to do.
jaida is now bringing her campaign of hatred to another video,no doubt thetruthishere will deffinately block you if you unleassh that poisonous tounge of yours,all anyone one has to do is to look at the trail of disaster you've left behind on other videos & any videos you encounter to see see how scheming & duplicitous you are..
Funny how you followed me on a hair video when you've called black peopls hair bad & generalised by saying they all have puffy hair lol
@onlinebabeful This is rich coming from the old crone who has called her fellow black men "gorillas" and "ape men". Funny how you act all "sistah" on these hair videos but absolutely TRASH black men on other videos. Like I said, you're a self-hating black woman with SERIOUS issues. Instead of worrying about your "bad" hair, perhaps you should worry more about your bad attitude towards your own people.
@jaidaphire you need to get a life ,STOP making lies about people, you said I had aids,I'm a man etc ,now you're here again like a stink that won't go away bringing your venom time & time again..you continue to deny you're asian,I have left you behind,deal with it.
rejection is sad thing for anyone but if you think I'm going to let you pursue another tireless battle with me on this HAIR video,think again..
as people will see ..you'll continue this defeated campaign.cause you have no life.
@onlinebeastful What a lame attempt at evasion. You know damn well you have said HORRIBLE, RACIST things about black people, then you come here and want to act like you never said them. But anyone can look them up and see you're lying. We are willing to forgive you, however...as long as you own up to your sins and make amends. You can start by simply acknowledging your African heritage and apologizing to the men of your race for your vicious libels. Then we go from there. Let the healing begin!
@jaidaphire I think just from your poisonous comment tinged with such anger, most can establish that you have a very bitter,twisted character.I however know you are not well and chhose to look past you ..
your like a bull-dog with a bone-you refuse to let go,
LET ME GO,let it go ..all the pain , I know rejecttion is not nice but your boring me and I have better things to with my time..
@onlinebuttful The only poisonous thing around here is your soul, or what passes for it. You CANNOT truthfully deny the HORRIBLE, RACIST things you have said about black men. You obviously like playing both sides of the fence: You go on videos about black men and absolutely TRASH them with the vilest racist comments...then you come on videos about black women & hair care and try to act all "sistah". It is YOU who needs to let go of her inner pain. YOU are the one with the unhealthy obsession.
@jaidaphire what you need to ask yourself is why you feel the need to attach yourself to me, why you feel the need to talk derogatively about black peoples hair & insist your statements are NOT racist then turn the tables on someone WHO STUCK UP FOR BLACK WOMEN against their own men who were ridiculing them in the highest order and most hostile way,I gave them a taste of their own medicine and opened their eyes to the beautiful black women around them.lastly ask yourself,why are you here?
@onlinebuttful I already told you, buttful: Christ enjoins us to help save the lost souls of this world, no matter how hopeless they are & futile it might seem.
AHA, so NOW it all comes out, and it is just as I said all along: You ARE a black woman who was cruelly rejected by her own "ex" and is out for revenge. THAT'S why you haunt all those YouTube videos about black men who date white women and leave racist comments. This is a major breakthrough, buttful. LET THE HEALING BEGIN!
@jaidaphire Y ou really like to twist things, lol you make me laugh no-one can't take you serious particularly when you have nothing to do but follow me around youtube and make lies.
ask yourself another thing.
Why do you lie?
Why do you make things up when you don't know the person you are against
@onlinebeastful I twist nothing. You are condemned by your own words. It is verifiable fact that you haunt videos about black men's taste in women and obsessively post racist insults--you yourself have just admitted it. You have also just admitted that you are motivated by anger at the black men who didn't find you attractive. I do not need to make things up. I simply read your words as clear as day and point out the obvious truth about you.
@jaidaphire Your a very sad person if you have to keep following me around youtube sluring your tireless campaign to make yourself better when you sound devious,bitter and angry..you are quite frankly a bomb at its peak to explode,why do you continue to support black men who have spoke so harshly of black women? why do you keep following me around on youtube..YOU ARE ONE BITTER,TWISTED SOUL AND NO AMOUNT OF COUNSELLING IN THE WORLD CAN HELP YOU..and again why are you STILL here?
@onlinebuttful Then how much sadder are YOU who devotes her entire life to stewing over old injuries and obsessively posting racist comments about black men because your black ex dumped you decades ago? The only black woman I speak harshly of is YOU...but I do it out of Christian charity. It's tough love, baby, and it's for your own good. You're backtracking, but still I think we're making progress. We had a breakthrough yesterday. It will take time for you to digest it. But there's hope, maybe.
@jaidaphire Hahaaa YOU CONTINUE to protest I'm a black female who has been dumped by a black male lol when you don't know what colour I am and don't know my personal life OF WHICH HAS NEVER BEEN DISCLOSED yet you lie soooo much that you now believe your own lies...how sad does one person become when you have to constantly follow me around on every video,constantly repeating the same content in every comment time and time again yet YOU DENY YOUR ASIAN HERITAGE BECAUSE YOU'R ASHAMED,are you mad?
@onlinebuttful No, you have tacitly admitted earlier on this thread that everything I said about you (angry old black woman bitter about being dumped by her black ex and now out for revenge against ALL black men) is true. We don't need to actually hear you say it in those specific terms. You have been understood--because you CANNOT keep your motives a secret. The anger is too deep in you to let you to dissemble for very long. You are transparent. And easily manipulated. Dance, Petrushka, dance!
@jaidaphire I have never,ever ,ever disclosed my personal affairs about my personal life lol,it as usual is another one of your lies..wonders never cease..
WHY DON'T YOU PROVE I SAID WHAT YOU SAID I SAID,make any sence jaida let me spell it out for you,
provide A LINK
but of course you can't because your an outright LIAR!
@onlinebuttful You may not have meant to disclose all those things about yourself, but you "accidentally" did anyway. You can't help it, buttful. Your bitterness permeates everything you do and say, so much that it becomes obvious to everyone at a glance. The fact that you are spinning out here is proof enough of your guilt.
As I said, it will take you a while to digest your recent breakthrough, but I have faith that eventually you will be able to face the truth about yourself.
@jaidaphire VERY FUNNY you should say that when you can not provide a link, why is this? because as I said and as this proves you are nothing but a liar.
If theres anyones who sounds bitter and angry-people only need to look at your comments to see it seeping through,you seem to forget this is a hair video but unlike you ,others have the sence to stick to the related topic, so tell me why else should I feed your anger,EVEN THOUGH i HAVE CLEARLY EXPLAINED TO YOU ,you still fail to grasp this .
@onlinebeastful Yes, yes, you have clearly explained that you refuse to accept the truth about yourself and will always deny and dissemble to spare your fragile ego. We all know this. We have been very patient with you and will continue to be patient with you because we understand that your mind can't handle too much revelation at once. We will allow you time to absorb the painful truths you have half-absorbed. It'll take YEARS, but eventually you'll see that there is nothing to fear.
@jaidaphire haha you talk of christian charity , there is nowt christian about YOU,NOTHING! your about as christian as the ant on the floor-the insults,harassment & anti-social comments from you speaks volumes about how GODLY you are..
I expressed a related comment to the subject, AS I PREDICTED you have brought your verbal tirade here-you're so PREDICTABLE that I know you more then you do,I've finished here let's see if you continue to talk to yourself or better still follow me again ....
@onlinebuttplug I will NOT stand idly by while you spew your hate-filled venom against my faith. Perhaps if you would let Jesus into your heart, you would finally learn to stop your racist self-hatred and abandon your sick delusions about your non-existent white skin and your fantasy straight hair. As long as you continue to reject Christ's love and wander down the path of self-indulgence you will be lost. Your first step would be to stop worshipping Satan and follow the light.
i love this video.the way the regimens are on here always makes me wonder if im doing enough for my hair sometimes to the point of being paranoid....such as not having the right products or washing enough or the right oils . it can make you go nutty and broke.....lol. so....im breaking free from the hype and doing what works for me. i think your videos are great ,thank you for being you. :o)
Good to see you back. I agree with most of what you said, however I do believe in a low and simple regimen. Whether its weekly bi weekly monthly whatever works best for you and your hair. I will be sure to attend your next ustream. Luv ya!
I totally agree with your no-rule approach and your view that hair grow's anyway. However, there are things that can keep your scalp healthy (like castor oil) and things that can keep your hair healthy- like natural oils.
She is amazing..she speaks the truth LEAVE YOUR HAIR ALONE=)..my advice is to get a nice moisturizing shampoo/conditioner to keep moisture in your hair. keep ur ends clip when needed,oil scalp/hair AS NEEDED bottom line is to keep your hair moistuirize=) Just listen to your hair.
keedaomen 4 months ago
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keedaomen 4 months ago
Your videos make me want to fix my hair lol. but any way(: im 13 and going into the 8 grade and i want my hair to be long by the time i go into 9th and i need your help!(:what do i do!!!
TheFantabulous11 6 months ago
Great advice. I need to watch this video again before i go to beauty supply store. I definitely mess with my hair more since the hair journey. I will try to break free and just let the hair be. Thanks
carlyg6 8 months ago
when i leave my hair alone it breaks from the growth and tangles because it is relaxed. All the relaxed part of hair on the back broke when i was not combing it. But I understand she means. I will definately try your methods and hopefully my hair will improve. Thanks.
desie20000 9 months ago
first thing i would like to say is i absolutely <3 ur videos..im thinking about doing a journey to hair growth n about two weeks (after i take my leave out..lol) im addicted to weaves which is a major problem but as of 2 wks from now i will b dedicated to growing my hair healthier and longer.My hair is currently right at my sholders and my edges are broken off due to glue and plats..also my hair is ver course and dry and the shampoos usually make it feel rough and dry..and suggestions? thx
Brittany904bound 10 months ago
@Brittany904bound Ok you have some work to do but first things first stop doing what doesn't work! Stop ripping your hair out! Can you make it to my live webshow I give on Saturdays?
TheTruthisHair 10 months ago
Hi,
I recently started using coconut oil and my hair is breaking quite a lot... i don't know what to do.. do you have advise on what i should do??? i really want my hair to stay in my head. I relaxed in early March and i can already see some new growth, but right now there is just way too much hair on my comb...
thank you
bazpoze88 10 months ago
This resembles the sermon that I heard this past Sunday. It is like letting go of the control to allow a natural process to occur. I like it and appreciate you being honest enough to share something personal with us as ethnic Women.
Camiagay 1 year ago 2
Hello, Im the one that contacted U about my hair and the vinegar rinse. I watched this breaking free video and I am new to youtube but with U I am understanding more what to do and what not to do U R a God send to ME. Thank you sister for all of your help and hey if no one else does I am going to follow your blog from now on.
bbeautiful2011 1 year ago
Hi im new here just started my hair journey about two months ago and im a member of hairlista "wonderful site" i have never left a comment on anyones videos and i have watched many but i must say u are as real as it gets u make things so less complicated and easy to understand yet your real about everything just wanted to say thanks for the great videos continue to keep ur head up ur so positive and god bless hun..
trinaakateetee 1 year ago
You are on the right track Lady, I get asked all the time how does my hair continue to grow while theirs breaks off. I am big on low maintanace hairstyles. I have been using coconut oil as a staple for over ten years. And just like you have said many times the less you do to your hair the more you will retain over time. I find that hair says alot about a person. And just like any bad habit it take complete devotion to want to change. I am with you all the way lets get our "Queens" back!
MissKoKoBrown 1 year ago
i decided that i was going to leave my hair alone cause its whats worked best for me...i also decided that i was going on some weekly regiment.. only to find out i messed my ends up more..leaving it alone is the best key,,it does not work it is overwhelming
gmeetsG08 1 year ago
I respectfully disagree. Yes you don't have to do anything to grow your hair but you DO have to do stuff to retain length. Sleep in a satin bonnet. Moisturize and seal when needed. Wash when needed. You can't just live and do nothing and get length.
KeaNicTur 1 year ago
@KeaNicTur
but she does all of that....
lukki7ster 1 year ago
Thanks for putting out this video. Your tips are helping me. My hair is growing and I have natural hair. The less manipulation the better and I wear protective hair styles and protect the ends of my hair. I agree just leave the hair alone. Don't need to use hair products that don't help and all the other things that break off the hair strands. You are definitely on the right track in what you state.
purplerain259 1 year ago
Great video!
249money 1 year ago
Perfect timing! Have I been missing something? I wanna chat on Thursdays too!
Tyme4Chg 1 year ago
Very inspirational!!! I have to agree with this and will be implementing this. I am not going to stress anymore. This vid came at the right time because last night I combed my hair which I hadn't done in 2 days and saw a lot of hair in the comb and freaked out. I was up researching shedding and what causes shedding. I am pregnant and have come to terms that that could be it and that castor oil or peppermint oil I'm using on my scalp could be causing it but the truth is hair is suppose to shed
destine2grow 1 year ago
You are speaking the true. I love your videos.
darkangel30569 1 year ago
Oops. Or to limp. I hate ritual behaviors.
denise08094 1 year ago
I agree!! I only wash when my scalp Is itchy or to
denise08094 1 year ago
great video
shorty2sweet59 1 year ago
This makes sooo much sense.. I'm a typical "broke college student" lol and when i didn't have enough money to buy new products to try i would get really stressed, which then effected my hair..
I HAD an unhealthy attachment to the hype of products, most of which didn't even work great when i bought them anyway!
I've been trying natural things from the local grocery store, cheap and effective, great!
Oh and about your live chat? How do i connect to it? I'm in England by the way.. Thanks girl! x
Jerlisa1991 1 year ago
Thanks for your videos, they are really helping me take care of my hair, my hair has never grown, i used to relax it every month and do all sorts of things to it 'to make it grow' . I love your hair, its just gorgeous and i pray i continue to gain more knowledge and just relax about it now so it can actually grow lol
dzuki100 1 year ago
This makes a lot of sense.
allthatisbeautyntrue 1 year ago
For some reason when I see young ladies on Youtube using the word "regimen" I think of "RELIGION". Its almost as if you dont live by the rules then bad things will happen lol.
I had long hair on my back between the years of 2000-2003 and guess what? That was when I had a relaxer. Now that I've been natural for about 7 years now my hair isn't that long anymore, Its shoulder length. I believe its that way because I to was falling for the hype, but that has changed I got my mojo back lol
izdatsweets 1 year ago
I have also noticed that women r promoting a different product every week. Sometimes going against previous beliefs and I was wondering what is really going on here. I'm so glad that u cleared that up. We as women: mothers, wives, homemakers, and moneymakers, have so much going on in our lives as it is. We don't need the added stress of always having to buy different hair products. I'm so happy that u r keeping it real and that u r not being tainted by the "almighty dollar".
nadiaaf678 1 year ago
Great video, I'm going to try to remember to focus on what I don't need to be doing vs. always looking for the new latest and so called greatest thing to start doing. This makes so much sense.
FAT2FIT333 1 year ago
luv, this video...just common sense but we needed to hear it and get back to the basics.
Rheminise 1 year ago
What do you do about alot of breakage? Thanks!
sashaahiggins 1 year ago
Sis, I just love you for being so true....the truth is just so pure and you are just so beautiful for putting it out there. Much respect and smooches, SK
skhawkin 1 year ago
its ok to skip a week of regimen jus m.s.
Rmaykupjunkie 1 year ago
hey girl iv been waitin for u i no u dont no me but i really like ur video wow but let me listen to u lol
lameka68 1 year ago
You're speaking the truth. I have always enjoyed ur videos. Its funny, I am currently undergoing some changes in my LIFE/HHJ. The principle I have instituted is LIVING LIFE SIMPLE, KEEPING IT SIMPLE. These other things are distractions from what is truly important, our progress and development into the beings God has created us to be and creating a future/culture for our childrens children to follow.
abigail1234ridah 1 year ago
You are speaking the truth!
moncaQT 1 year ago
I luv ur vids. I know I can always come to for the truth when it come to my healthy hair journey. Thanks a lot :-)
ladyen7 1 year ago
Tell the Truth and Shame the Devil !
Ask not what you can do to grow your hair,
but ask what you can stop doing for better care.
God Bless!
missdreadblack 1 year ago
Damn girl I missed you
soxxyfox 1 year ago
For women with natural hair, I agree with you 100%. I use shampoo, leave in conditioner, and an oil. That's all. Nothing more and my hair is very long and thick (I have what "they" call 4c/cnapp hair) and it is healthy.
PetUniqueLLC 1 year ago
Look at Annie in the back ground....SHE so cute!!
Monkigurl2 1 year ago
I love u and ur vids. I have tried jus using oil on my hair, but when I used it & straighted my hair , it was damaged I guess, but it still doesnt look right. I guessed I used to much oil, but now I use serums, & oil itself doesnt help stop my breakage. Maybe Im not doing sumthin right But u help me calm down & not stress too much about different products & methods. Women R trying everything, GEEZ
shellisa04 1 year ago
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shellisa04 1 year ago
I didn't want to post the fact it does grow for a few hours after you're dead...nails do too!
lolascrib 1 year ago
A fun but true fact is that unless one is dead, hair will keep growing! When people stop tugging, pulling, over-styling their hair....it grows!
lolascrib 1 year ago
@lolascrib Your hair grows even when your dead
LuvinLife0512 1 year ago
@LuvinLife0512 Lol your hair doesnt grow when your dead. If it does then your not dead, your still alive.
MadameSledge 1 year ago
@LuvinLife0512 Your hair does not grow when you are dead. Instead, the skin shrinks and makes the hair under the skin visible and appear longer.
TBOR25 1 year ago
have you ever considered going natural?
crazydivaliciouschic 1 year ago
Good video.
tamoniva12 1 year ago
This is like the best piece of advice i have recieved since the start of my journey. I have a quick question. Wht if you are trying to recover your hair ( damaged or dry) but not neccessarly "Grow" your hair. Does this still apply?
x0MahoganyBliss0x 1 year ago
I needed this thank you
fastparts07 1 year ago
I had to discover this truth myself, for myself, I was doing way too much to my hair and going broke at the same time. I couldn't come up with a consistent regimen that would stand the test of time. then I thought to myself i said "self momma didn't need to do all of this when your hair was long years ago" and that's when it clicked for me. now my hair is getting it's thickness back and i'm less stressed about "doing it right". I don't make concoctions or anything anymore.
missemocha 1 year ago
@missemocha I do love what I've been learning through the ladies though..so i'm not gonna take anything away from them. But I wish from the start that someone besides "TheTruth..." woulda said that you don't have to do all these things because it took me months to find ya hon lol. So thanks for saying what my common sense was trying to tell me. Glad to see you back I was wondering what happened to u.
missemocha 1 year ago
I think you're basically repeating what you've said in so many of your other videos :product doesn't grow your hair, stop manipulating your hair so much, listen to your hair, etc. It's stuff you've said before. I always look forward to your videos so I'm glad to hear you're going to grow more with your videos since it is getting a bit repetitive.
Writerchic1 1 year ago
@Writerchic1 I thought that too, but I guess thats all it is too it. Simple same thing. I would love for it to be that simple.
shellisa04 1 year ago
Great message sis!!
ElPressie 1 year ago
truth this is a great video. I remember when i first began watching these videos and i was a new natural and didnt know where to begin. You helped me alot and now I understand my hair needs. I wash when it needs to be washed and moisturize when it needs it. Thanks so much..
niebunny 1 year ago
listening to our hair.
blessingsgirl 1 year ago
You are on point with this video QB! Love your honesty
lisablisa 1 year ago
I know how u feel, I am the same way, I don't do vids just to do them. I like to give info.take ur time and put out vids u feel are useful.
KLT828 1 year ago
your absolutely right..I know the feeling, my hair is long and all I do is wash it, moisturize it and leave it alone.
cassyajos 1 year ago
you're so right. I used to be on a STRICT regimen, but after a couple months of learning what my hair likes, I just started washing it when it needed to be washed, moisturizing it when it needed to be moisturized etc. my hair's grown and I have progress pics as proof. we just need to learn what our hair needs, and then go from there.
ybefutile 1 year ago 12
I dis-agree because many relaxed hair ladies leave their hair alone and that ALONE makes their hair drop,hair experts will tell you that products DO help maintain your growth,they do help soften your hair and give it the moisture that it needs because relaxed hair will DROP OUT if you are not giving it regular care and your regimen helps your to be consistent with your hair needs.
onlinebabeful 1 year ago 2
@onlinebabeful
By "leaving it alone" she DOES NOT mean that you should not take care of your hair. Obviously, or she wouldn't be oiling and moisturizing her hair every night. What she means by LEAVING IT ALONE is STOP the straightening and manipulating and curling and combing every single day of the week. You're doing too much if you do all of that. She stated this very clearly in her video.
blahblahblahman 1 year ago 16
@blahblahblahman but then she should of been a lot clearer-she has quite clearly said in other videos that products don't grow your hair,there have been products that have been scientifically tested to disprove what she says also there are people whose hair naturally has a hair growth limit but when they have applied a certain product their hair has grown.I agree with most of what she says just not this.she clearly says -you dont have to do anything,ANYTHING..its a very misleading comment.
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebabeful Not moisturizing and maitaining your hair will cause breakage eventually but nothing but death will stop your hair from growing unless you have disease of some sort. As long as you are alive hair grows. If you are natural and do nothing to maitain your hair it will drop out so its not about relaxed or natural its about care and hair care doesnt have to be some long routine.
miss2umister 1 year ago
@miss2umister thats exactly what I have just said-some peoples hair just doesn't grow and threy use products to help their hair grow-and it does grow.
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebabeful Gee, for a supposed white lady, you sure know an awful lot about "bad" hair. Why don't you just admit what we all know to be true about you?
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire I have never said I was WAS white and I have never said I was black.I am what I am..so boo hoo
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebabeful Why are you so ashamed of your black skin and "bad" hair? Learn to be proud of who you really are, instead of running and hiding and denying all the time. Give up your delusions and BE FREE!
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire yes,you can not help yourself,you obviously miss me hence why you have to keep on following me around the net telling me who I am.lol your on every video saying the same thing lol yet you dn't know me & will, I give an opinion on all sorts of people and all hair YOU WOULD ONLY NOT KNOW THIS if you didnt follow me around the net like a lost child who craves love.
your pathetic,your obsession for me is hitting a low & now your on another video sprouting the same shite.missing me? lol
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebabeful I'm just trying to give you one more chance to redeem yourself. Christ enjoins us to bring others into the light. You are a lost soul, lost in delusion and self-hatred. Just admit the truth about yourself, beastful. Also, I like rubbing your nose in your cowardice. You gave up and ran away. It's all you know how to do.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire oh here we go..
jaida is now bringing her campaign of hatred to another video,no doubt thetruthishere will deffinately block you if you unleassh that poisonous tounge of yours,all anyone one has to do is to look at the trail of disaster you've left behind on other videos & any videos you encounter to see see how scheming & duplicitous you are..
Funny how you followed me on a hair video when you've called black peopls hair bad & generalised by saying they all have puffy hair lol
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebabeful This is rich coming from the old crone who has called her fellow black men "gorillas" and "ape men". Funny how you act all "sistah" on these hair videos but absolutely TRASH black men on other videos. Like I said, you're a self-hating black woman with SERIOUS issues. Instead of worrying about your "bad" hair, perhaps you should worry more about your bad attitude towards your own people.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire you need to get a life ,STOP making lies about people, you said I had aids,I'm a man etc ,now you're here again like a stink that won't go away bringing your venom time & time again..you continue to deny you're asian,I have left you behind,deal with it.
rejection is sad thing for anyone but if you think I'm going to let you pursue another tireless battle with me on this HAIR video,think again..
as people will see ..you'll continue this defeated campaign.cause you have no life.
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebeastful What a lame attempt at evasion. You know damn well you have said HORRIBLE, RACIST things about black people, then you come here and want to act like you never said them. But anyone can look them up and see you're lying. We are willing to forgive you, however...as long as you own up to your sins and make amends. You can start by simply acknowledging your African heritage and apologizing to the men of your race for your vicious libels. Then we go from there. Let the healing begin!
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire I think just from your poisonous comment tinged with such anger, most can establish that you have a very bitter,twisted character.I however know you are not well and chhose to look past you ..
your like a bull-dog with a bone-you refuse to let go,
LET ME GO,let it go ..all the pain , I know rejecttion is not nice but your boring me and I have better things to with my time..
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebuttful The only poisonous thing around here is your soul, or what passes for it. You CANNOT truthfully deny the HORRIBLE, RACIST things you have said about black men. You obviously like playing both sides of the fence: You go on videos about black men and absolutely TRASH them with the vilest racist comments...then you come on videos about black women & hair care and try to act all "sistah". It is YOU who needs to let go of her inner pain. YOU are the one with the unhealthy obsession.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire what you need to ask yourself is why you feel the need to attach yourself to me, why you feel the need to talk derogatively about black peoples hair & insist your statements are NOT racist then turn the tables on someone WHO STUCK UP FOR BLACK WOMEN against their own men who were ridiculing them in the highest order and most hostile way,I gave them a taste of their own medicine and opened their eyes to the beautiful black women around them.lastly ask yourself,why are you here?
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebuttful I already told you, buttful: Christ enjoins us to help save the lost souls of this world, no matter how hopeless they are & futile it might seem.
AHA, so NOW it all comes out, and it is just as I said all along: You ARE a black woman who was cruelly rejected by her own "ex" and is out for revenge. THAT'S why you haunt all those YouTube videos about black men who date white women and leave racist comments. This is a major breakthrough, buttful. LET THE HEALING BEGIN!
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire Y ou really like to twist things, lol you make me laugh no-one can't take you serious particularly when you have nothing to do but follow me around youtube and make lies.
ask yourself another thing.
Why do you lie?
Why do you make things up when you don't know the person you are against
And why ARE YOU STILL HERE?
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebeastful I twist nothing. You are condemned by your own words. It is verifiable fact that you haunt videos about black men's taste in women and obsessively post racist insults--you yourself have just admitted it. You have also just admitted that you are motivated by anger at the black men who didn't find you attractive. I do not need to make things up. I simply read your words as clear as day and point out the obvious truth about you.
I am still here because your soul needs saving.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire Your a very sad person if you have to keep following me around youtube sluring your tireless campaign to make yourself better when you sound devious,bitter and angry..you are quite frankly a bomb at its peak to explode,why do you continue to support black men who have spoke so harshly of black women? why do you keep following me around on youtube..YOU ARE ONE BITTER,TWISTED SOUL AND NO AMOUNT OF COUNSELLING IN THE WORLD CAN HELP YOU..and again why are you STILL here?
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebuttful Then how much sadder are YOU who devotes her entire life to stewing over old injuries and obsessively posting racist comments about black men because your black ex dumped you decades ago? The only black woman I speak harshly of is YOU...but I do it out of Christian charity. It's tough love, baby, and it's for your own good. You're backtracking, but still I think we're making progress. We had a breakthrough yesterday. It will take time for you to digest it. But there's hope, maybe.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire Hahaaa YOU CONTINUE to protest I'm a black female who has been dumped by a black male lol when you don't know what colour I am and don't know my personal life OF WHICH HAS NEVER BEEN DISCLOSED yet you lie soooo much that you now believe your own lies...how sad does one person become when you have to constantly follow me around on every video,constantly repeating the same content in every comment time and time again yet YOU DENY YOUR ASIAN HERITAGE BECAUSE YOU'R ASHAMED,are you mad?
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebuttful No, you have tacitly admitted earlier on this thread that everything I said about you (angry old black woman bitter about being dumped by her black ex and now out for revenge against ALL black men) is true. We don't need to actually hear you say it in those specific terms. You have been understood--because you CANNOT keep your motives a secret. The anger is too deep in you to let you to dissemble for very long. You are transparent. And easily manipulated. Dance, Petrushka, dance!
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire I have never,ever ,ever disclosed my personal affairs about my personal life lol,it as usual is another one of your lies..wonders never cease..
WHY DON'T YOU PROVE I SAID WHAT YOU SAID I SAID,make any sence jaida let me spell it out for you,
provide A LINK
but of course you can't because your an outright LIAR!
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebuttful You may not have meant to disclose all those things about yourself, but you "accidentally" did anyway. You can't help it, buttful. Your bitterness permeates everything you do and say, so much that it becomes obvious to everyone at a glance. The fact that you are spinning out here is proof enough of your guilt.
As I said, it will take you a while to digest your recent breakthrough, but I have faith that eventually you will be able to face the truth about yourself.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire VERY FUNNY you should say that when you can not provide a link, why is this? because as I said and as this proves you are nothing but a liar.
If theres anyones who sounds bitter and angry-people only need to look at your comments to see it seeping through,you seem to forget this is a hair video but unlike you ,others have the sence to stick to the related topic, so tell me why else should I feed your anger,EVEN THOUGH i HAVE CLEARLY EXPLAINED TO YOU ,you still fail to grasp this .
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebeastful Yes, yes, you have clearly explained that you refuse to accept the truth about yourself and will always deny and dissemble to spare your fragile ego. We all know this. We have been very patient with you and will continue to be patient with you because we understand that your mind can't handle too much revelation at once. We will allow you time to absorb the painful truths you have half-absorbed. It'll take YEARS, but eventually you'll see that there is nothing to fear.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
@jaidaphire haha you talk of christian charity , there is nowt christian about YOU,NOTHING! your about as christian as the ant on the floor-the insults,harassment & anti-social comments from you speaks volumes about how GODLY you are..
I expressed a related comment to the subject, AS I PREDICTED you have brought your verbal tirade here-you're so PREDICTABLE that I know you more then you do,I've finished here let's see if you continue to talk to yourself or better still follow me again ....
onlinebabeful 1 year ago
@onlinebuttplug I will NOT stand idly by while you spew your hate-filled venom against my faith. Perhaps if you would let Jesus into your heart, you would finally learn to stop your racist self-hatred and abandon your sick delusions about your non-existent white skin and your fantasy straight hair. As long as you continue to reject Christ's love and wander down the path of self-indulgence you will be lost. Your first step would be to stop worshipping Satan and follow the light.
jaidaphire 1 year ago
Awesome ! Cant wait to see more videos !
CoCogLam22 1 year ago
is that your daughter? what is your hair regimen for her?
gena8964 1 year ago
i love this video.the way the regimens are on here always makes me wonder if im doing enough for my hair sometimes to the point of being paranoid....such as not having the right products or washing enough or the right oils . it can make you go nutty and broke.....lol. so....im breaking free from the hype and doing what works for me. i think your videos are great ,thank you for being you. :o)
shortydee0379 1 year ago
im so glad your going to be doing more videos.
metrolady72 1 year ago
i always miss the livestream show.
metrolady72 1 year ago
good msg
77deerose 1 year ago
So you don't use castor oil for hair growth anymore?
77deerose 1 year ago
what does it mean when the hair is breaking even when i run my hands through it
aicneuqram 1 year ago
Good to see you back. I agree with most of what you said, however I do believe in a low and simple regimen. Whether its weekly bi weekly monthly whatever works best for you and your hair. I will be sure to attend your next ustream. Luv ya!
shlinda1 1 year ago
Wow thank you for this, this is exactly my struggle. Thanks for this message again and keep up the good work!
zfikelepi 1 year ago
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zfikelepi 1 year ago
You are the TRUTH! Thanks for taking the time to speak it.
sweetlifecake 1 year ago
you truly speak from your heart truly
Shemsa08 1 year ago
I totally agree with your no-rule approach and your view that hair grow's anyway. However, there are things that can keep your scalp healthy (like castor oil) and things that can keep your hair healthy- like natural oils.
hotriceandbeans 1 year ago
i wish you would continue doing more tutorial type videos :(
XxaleyixX 1 year ago