Re: Black Women Dropped the Ball(Attitude,Weave and Disrespect)

[hollyboo21]

The way I understand Delilah is that black women should turn the tide concerning self esteem and confidence, THEREFORE embracing their natural bodies and hair, THEREFORE appealling to black men due to a newfound sense of calmness and self knowledge INSTEAD of alienating black men COS they can no longer stand to be around resentful, hurt, angry women COS they fancy latin/caucasian/asian females. Its a circle of hurt that only the women can stop, it starts and ends with THEIR sense of self worth.

[Rddef9]

A man should never point the finger at women for being the ones who dropped the ball. Real men demand the ball like Jordan, and we run with it to fix the situation for our women and children. Not blaming them. That isn't being a man. Ignorance of self is caused by false image of white supremacy caused us both to drop the ball.

We were bred to hate ourselves and work against ourselves. How can you blame our women? We need to stand up for them not blame them. We men should TAKE responsibility

[seanjayheaven]

Damn Willie Lench still winning all these many years later

[MrLyrics83]

Guy....

How, out of all of the 8:25 of video that Ms. Delila had done, did you pull out "She is saying that blacks should only have sex with black people."? How? At what part did you grab this interpretation from?

Before I comment on how ridiculous you sound, I'd first like to know just WHERE are you pulling this mess from?

[salina8712]

@trinity4life1 - and you think you are clever by having a new born child brain calling other people names? Lol, if you only were half smart of an Africa I bet you would have jumped of from your high horse and realised that you are just a pathetic imbecile racist. Nigger or any name calling dont beat me nor anyone from Africa, we are far beyond Kindergarden age.

[salina8712]

@Ade161 - Thats a very sad and stupid thing to say, You think you will go to Heaven by judging other people? Well let me tell you, Christianity nor Islam supports judgments and prejudice. I'm Muslim and according to my religion I cannot judge you nor say whether you will go to heaven or hell, because thats out of my power and it is up for your creator Allah. I bet many of you ignorant people doesnt even know what Islam is. GET A LIFE AND GO AND SING IN THE CHURCH.

[trinity4life1]

again this is why i call niggaz stupid bc they lack comprehension and proper linguist skills you are talking on a different issue than what she is talking about.... she is talking about sisters upholding themselves better on a social, historical and psychological perspective ....u just into sinning and into the eurocentric world

[msquestionmark]

you're right. but her video was about black women respecting themselves and stop trying to have white looks. being confident in their own skin and not wearing weaves or colored contacts or whatever.

[MrBlackStatue]

Fool with the glasses, SHUT DA FUCK AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

Real disresptful Man Damn go get a white woman Sell out you aint REAL

[markanthonygraham]

Fucking Idiot!

[service0011]

My IQ went down. What are you talking about???

[Ade161]

you are a muslim.

:-'(

i feel sorry for you lovespoet7 .

your soul is lost.

you will share your part in the lake of fire.

[lovespoet7]

First things first... Prove it!!! If you were in charge of whether or not anyone went to the lake of Fire then we would all burn. YOU are not in charge and you BLASPHEME by being presumptuous as if it were your position.

Only God will decide who makes it in and who doesn't and any one who assumes the role of the Almighty has mightily transgressed. So watch your mouth. Or in Biblical terms Judge not lest ye be Judged.

About my religion it is the original religion. One God, One Man, One DEEN.

[YahSedQanu]

@lovespoet7

go'head son, give it to her! It is sad that some people dont hold anything back and then make the worse mistake to go stand in a place where there feet will burn them.

[whenzlunch]

@lovespoet7 Damn tore him a new asshole and I ain't even religious

[FlankerVT]

@lovespoet7

actually, islam came after judiasm and christianity. It borrowed the ideas of both christianity and judaism, and it really is not original in anyway.

Having said that, all religion is bullshit, so it doesn't matter what religion you have.

But, your right, women are more slutty these days. too bad for them.

[SlighBaby]

@Ade161 Dude u sound so stupid.

[leledenee]

Concept...what concept? And don't take things so personally...But really, there is no phenominal information here, but as long as you see a "concept", I know you're intellect is very limited.

[leledenee]

This man sounds like an idiot

[justfarr1030]

Or are you an idiot for not having the intelligence to grasp the concept of what he is talking about?

^I think it's that.

[moonfreak421]

Finally!! A male responce to the video that actually tries to address the issue without offending anyone. And I have to say that I agree with him.

[liljjjj]

Golden video on Social-Economic!

However I only partially agree with your written comments.

[racecarchick08]

Right on!

[Krazie316]

You misinterpreted what she was saying dawg.

She didn't say black folks shouldn't be with whites or other races, she said black females DON'T HAVE TO BE with a white man because some think they do.

You can't take what someone said and add to it man.

[JoeThaDreamer]

i know there are certain problems in the black community such as what you responded to and, i have a suggestion. to me african americans dont have a strong connection to any culture which may be a large factor to this self-hatred. I know Africa but i dont see that many blacks in the US hold on to that. A.A. culture is very shallow(as in not as much history) compared to other cultures. {[Overall I just think that blacks should imbrace a stronger black culture other than the A.A. culture.]}

[lovespoet7]

Well Joe that is not entirely true. We as A.A do have a rich history, the problem is that it is a fractured history. If you start from 400 years ago then the history and world view that we have will always be dismal and engineered to be self-defeatist. For there to transcend this conundrum there needs to be a reconnection with that fracture and then dignity needs to be placed upon that. It has been a problem for years in our community and every effort to repair that is usually undermined.

[TraeThaTruth]

History gets lost over time due to war and conquest. Many European cultures have lost parts of their cultures over time too, but some things remain that we don't even realize.

[BxCandy91]

I so agree with that black americans act as if they are ashamed of being african or they are seperate from being associated with Africa.

We are all africans deal with it its a great thing not a bad thing at all. The black community needs to learn about the culture from countries in Africa. Stop being ashamed of it its disgraceful to the slaves, and the way our people came to this country.

[BXMammal]

BXCandy, lets not avoid the issue that most Africans dont really associate with African Americans. I have been told by many different Africans how they dont identify with African American behavior which they view as dsyfunctional. Many Africans fail to realize the psychological scars of growing up in a broken family and being subjected to America's brutal social system on Blacks. Africans truly dont understand our plight in America yet I'm suprised at their willingness to critcize us.

[BXMammal]

We're not ashamed of being African-its just that the ties between both were destroyed with slavery. You should know that. Can you as an African trace back your ancestry to those captured in the slave trade? My point being Africans dont make an effort either to have a relationship with African Americans.

[allornothin86]

Young man (and I do mean your obsessive juvenile ideation of a premised based on sex), your earlier years of tomfoolery has hurt you more than you can ever realize. The sister was wholly attempting to address the urgent need for us African-Egyptian men and women (Blacks?) to identify with more readily, that which made us a strong Egyptian people capable of self-sufficiency. This (self-sufficiency and reliance) would be wholly impossible when trying to figure in Sub-Huemans.

[lovespoet7]

First of all WHAT Exactly are you talking about? I would just like to know. Second of all it is pointless to try to address the problem as though we are connected by anything deeper than our pigmentation. Pigmentation is no means of alliance to another human being. Belief offers a deeper connection and blood fostered by close personal relationships offer the deepest bond yet. The African-Egyptian thing is ri

[lovespoet7]

ridiculous because most African-Americans were removed from west Africa and the Ivory Coast so just picking an arbitrary point on the African continent and saying that is where we are from is ludicrous.

[lovespoet7]

The culture of sex in this country I.E. the tomfoolery as you call it is deeply rooted as it is psychologically connected to business and therefore exploited to grandiose proportions so the complete devaluing of the female sex at a very young age while being subjected to the constant intellectual bombardment is highly plausible for the average child however in minority circles these types of social handicaps are exacerbated. Thank you for posting though I hope to hear from you again.

[allornothin86]

A learning Man has no arbitrary boundaries, only defined limitations. Your mental pre-occupation with an arrested piece of African-Egyptian's history has forced you to speak prematurely.

[lovespoet7]

No what I would suppose is that your lumping of "Black" people into one monolithic structure such as the Europeans have done has continued the cycle of raping our cultural diversity as a people. African Americans in this country have been raped and robbed of our life-history altogether so as much as we don't remember who we are. Then for you to come along and cart-blanche lump us altogether as either African or Egyptian is completely ignorant of our diversity as a people. We are many not one.

[allornothin86]

Beliefs does not and never will, bear any substantive value because beliefs are subject to change. The issue here young man is CHARACTER. Half of your video holds sex as the basis for the disconnection of an entire people. So of course you have much difficulty seeing the link existing between pigment-enriched, pure African-Egyptians and the Hueman experience.

In the 21st century young man, surrendering one's ignorance is a virtue.

[lovespoet7]

This argument begins in fallacy as it is Beliefs that provide the basis for your argument. There needs to be a belief that blacks are separate from other races and therefore need to be preserved that is a belief system based on the false dominance of one race over another based on pigmentation. True the Character of a man is what decides whether or not he will remain chaste or sleep around with white or black. I mentioned that in my video clearly. My video does not hold sex as a disconnection of

[lovespoet7]

a people what it does is state what the societal constructs around peoples sexual patterns are. If a foundation is laid early on in a child's life of self, then in the future it is predictable to define that child's attitudes in the future. If you construct a culture of the fulfillment of desire which our country is whether material, flesh, sensual, then you have effectively constructed a community of individuals given to hedonism white or black that can easily be separated from their MONEY.

[lovespoet7]

In doing so you can effectively orchestrate a slave-like mentality and make a nation of drones that will carry out your bidding and be happy about it. If you are looking at my statements as those bound in sex then obviously you have missed much of the big picture and that may be my fault as an orator. However to look at the problem of whether or not black women dropped the ball or not is not so simplistic as raising the pro-black flag and pointing fingers and ignoring all of the other societal

[lovespoet7]

constructs surrounding the situation.

Ultimately what needs to happen is that you recognize yourself as a servant of the Creator on this planet and live your life accordingly. Race is an illusion that is arbitrarily malleable as clay. If you think that you can go to Africa and just because you are Black you are going to fit in is absolutely foolish. Dominicans and Hatians can't do that and they live on the same damned Island. RACE is an illusion given to man by him who hates him. Righteousness

[lovespoet7]

is the only sound construct in which to bring society and humans together. Race is a card that is played time and time again to usurp the power of the many into the hands of the few. Because historically it goes from race to tribe from tribe to family from family to the true bloodline from the true bloodline to the pure bloodline from the pure bloodline to the first born from the first born to his family Etcetera you can never win with RACE. FACE IT! Belief, righteousness is the only way to go!

[prettiblackbuttafly]

@lovespoet7 You've made very valid points as far as systematic control as awhole and I appluad your assessment of that, but you totally missed the point of what that sistah was saying. Her message wasn't about sex as much as it was about black women degrading themselves sexually and resenting the black man for their own behaviors, while denying our need for a black man. It was about elevating our consciousness as to who we are as black women and not emulating behaviors foreign to us.

[pheonixunlimited]

It could happen if we men develop self control which we should.

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