And I don't know ANYONE in my life, other than him, that would understand this stuff... because my friends are so normal and it kinda really sucks because I feel extremely isolated at this point.... I tried to kindof even just suggest to my mom "hey it's not all bad if a guy has the control in a relationship" and she flipped out. =[
Okay, so, I'm not watching this video buttt I'm using this as a place to say something. I'm a really normal girl, in college, I work out, do/like normal stuff, but I'm reeeally getting into this d/s stuff and it's kindof controlling my life to the point where it's all I think about annnd it doesn't help because the guy who is the dominant one or wtv, he kinda wants me to think about it all the time anyways. I mean this d/s stuff is really exciting but wtf I can't balance school and this. =[
@unefillejaune If you can't do it then don't. Some people are able to be submissive and still carry on with a "normal" life, others are more a bedroom submissive and will only be submissive for certain occasions. You have to know what you want to be and if it's worth it for you or not. If it's not working you need to tell the guy and see if he can work with it or not.
i am sorry to take up flaws here... i love your advice but how does one go about doing that... a Dom that has had a submissive that gives too much is use to getting that and so does the sub need to object or how does a sub stare things in the right direction? thank you for great advice again, you have given me much in my time as a sub.
@JiniShearer Thanks for the question. There needs to be a time to sit down and talk without the mantel of roles. In this conversation the sub needs to express the need to change and it needs to be agreed upon. It's always best to lay things all out on the table. If the submissive can not get what they need in the relationship without feeling like a doormat then perhaps the relationship has worse issues and they need to consider leaving.
And I don't know ANYONE in my life, other than him, that would understand this stuff... because my friends are so normal and it kinda really sucks because I feel extremely isolated at this point.... I tried to kindof even just suggest to my mom "hey it's not all bad if a guy has the control in a relationship" and she flipped out. =[
unefillejaune 1 month ago
Okay, so, I'm not watching this video buttt I'm using this as a place to say something. I'm a really normal girl, in college, I work out, do/like normal stuff, but I'm reeeally getting into this d/s stuff and it's kindof controlling my life to the point where it's all I think about annnd it doesn't help because the guy who is the dominant one or wtv, he kinda wants me to think about it all the time anyways. I mean this d/s stuff is really exciting but wtf I can't balance school and this. =[
unefillejaune 1 month ago
@unefillejaune If you can't do it then don't. Some people are able to be submissive and still carry on with a "normal" life, others are more a bedroom submissive and will only be submissive for certain occasions. You have to know what you want to be and if it's worth it for you or not. If it's not working you need to tell the guy and see if he can work with it or not.
subguide 1 month ago
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great information, I know I needed that... lots of women, even non-submissive should watch this.
electrosexkitten 7 months ago
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electrosexkitten 7 months ago
i am sorry to take up flaws here... i love your advice but how does one go about doing that... a Dom that has had a submissive that gives too much is use to getting that and so does the sub need to object or how does a sub stare things in the right direction? thank you for great advice again, you have given me much in my time as a sub.
JiniShearer 9 months ago
@JiniShearer Thanks for the question. There needs to be a time to sit down and talk without the mantel of roles. In this conversation the sub needs to express the need to change and it needs to be agreed upon. It's always best to lay things all out on the table. If the submissive can not get what they need in the relationship without feeling like a doormat then perhaps the relationship has worse issues and they need to consider leaving.
subguide 9 months ago