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  • I know i know. " Some victims were not dressed sexy!" maybe he got gassed up from another chick on another day. Or maybe from tv adverts. Funny how slutwalk supporters think that dressing a certain way has absolutely nothing to do with getting raped. In any situation. Men are stronger than women and they just cant accept that. Its something these new generation lezzies will have to learn to deal with. Got a problem with it? Take it up with your maker.

  • Yes women can dress how they want. People can also go surfing in south Africa and Australia knowing there are great whit sharks in the waters. They take that chance anyway and if they get chewed to bits there is no one to blame but themself for taking that chance, knowing the risks.

  • A woman dressed provocatively has nothing to do with sex. We as men have been conditioned to find a correlation between the two. Women know this as well. They know they have a certain type of power over some men using their body. They love to play dumb like they arent aware of their influence. They do it because they are aware. They want the attention. Some of it. But stupid them for thinking they can control the amount of desired responses they get.

  • Thumbs up.

  • Very clever, young lady. great vid.

  • A girl on my street was raped when she was 12 years old. She did not "dress like a slut", and the incident left her traumatized for years. Even if she did "dress like a slut", even if she wasn't a child, no one had the right to lay a finger on her without her consent. No one deserves rape.

  • @Nerdtrig

    You seem too be missing the point. If I were to walk down a back alley late at night, in a bad neighbourhood, would I deserve to get jumped? No. Was it a good idea for me to make those decisions that put me in a place where I could be jumped? No.

    That's the point. Women seem to think that they should be able to do whatever they want, whenever they want without any consequences. In reality, there are risks that have to be mitigated, regardless of whether you deserve them or not.

  • @psychopomp66 Wait wait wait, so you're saying that a woman covering her body is having the same likelyhood of getting raped as a nearly naked woman? Think over, Rape rates are almost non existent in saudi arabia. in america they flaunt their figures thus they get raped

  • What? death?

    

  • The officer's comment was stupid because dressing a certain way has nothing to do with whether or not you get raped. Women have been raped for wearing the sort of thing you're wearing in this video. Tell me, was that school teacher dressing like a slut when the NYPD officer raped her in an alley at gunpoint on a Saturday afternoon? How do you explain that women in Saudi Arabia are raped even when wearing garments that cover their whole bodies?

  • It's troubling that so many people are ok with the culture of rape and anti-woman attitudes that prevail. I don't consider myself a feminist, I believe that things should be EQUAL not one over the other. But something like this, the issue of rape victims being blamed is upsetting. We have countries where women are killed for being raped, that's NOT ok. In so-called "civilized" western countries women are treated like pigs for being raped, this is troubling and quite frankly scary.

  • @LibertineDeSade so wat about false rape cases, and man bashing attitude that to prevail in our society today.

    think once are we not in a society that everything said by a female is taken as truth without doubt?

    are we not in a society that is ok with provocative dressing and traumatize young male minds with sex urges?

    rape is a serious crime so as provocative dressing

    cont....

    i think its time realize our difference, men and women are different

    comments welcome

  • @LibertineDeSade cont...

    the difference is in later the criminal is hidden under the cover of individual freedom/ freedom of clothing.

    by the way what sort of freedom is this? causing trouble psychologically to some one for your perverse pleasure... of being oogled....

    if u have real moral and rational thinking. think about it

    comments welcome

  • Lol only ugly women do the slut walk, this girl is actually attractive, and no, shes against slut walk. Their entire point, is retarded.

  • feminism fails give up girls

  • only social disease i see is a person like you being closed minded if a man wore a shirt that said gay pride is he provoking a homophobic to assault him? there use to be a time where just being black was reason for someone to kill you. who are you to judge what a person wears says or does a womans body is her own. raise a boy in a nude colony and instill in him good morals and i doubt clothing would be able to provoke him its a mans own mind set thats screwing this country up not a womans cloths

  • @Aftonalletta18 Thank you for posting that!

  • @kalivious your welcome

  • @Aftonalletta18,

    I agree.

  • @ElectricShark thanks didnt think i would get any support 

  • sweety our ancestors use to run around completely naked but perfectly safe ive seen females wear swimsuites that show more than most victoria secret pieces most rape victims look like you or me completely normal some are 5 year old girls cloths dont make anyone do anything a gentleman doesnt rape raise your sons right and no temptaion in the world would persuade them ask yourself if you send your child out in a cute little tutu some shorts and a pretty pink top does she deserved to be raped too?

  • @Aftonalletta18 Nobody is saying anyone deserves to be raped, classic straw man fallacy. Dress like a slut and people might treat you like one. All women want to do is escape accountability and responsibility for their actions. That's all feminism is about, no responsibility for women. Abortions, ultrapromiscuity, higher divorce rates, etc. It's a social disease.

  • @Aftonalletta18 1) "our acestors..." Do you have newspaper articles from 10,000 B.C. or something or are you just making that up? 2) I agree with you that "cloth don't make anyone do anything". However, if cloth doesn't mean anything, why does anyone ever say, "that outfit is sexy"? 3) Why do you think that 3 year old boys deserve to be raped?

  • Is it ok to rape a woman if she dresses like a slut? Of course not.

    Is a woman more likely to get raped if she dresses like a slut? Yes.

    This is a non issue that has been blown out of proportion.

  • @jihadexposed "Is a woman more likely to get raped if she dresses like a slut? Yes."Do you know of any research that supports this claim?

  • @jihadexposed indeed

  • A wise soul named chthonios once said "When guys go out clubbing, they put on their best pants, a nice shirt, spash some after-shave on, and go out looking for some fun.Do those guys expect or fucking DESERVE to be dragged into a back alley and raped till they are bleeding from their ass and they need serious medical attention? Any guy who says "its not the same thing" can fuck off"

    I agree with this!

    Why is it that you blame the victims for being rape?

    It's the rapist's fault!

  • @ElectricShark Guess what... "It's NOT the same thing". Women don't have the tool's nor the "drive" to do that... Anyone who dissagrees is a "Feminist". My daughter isn't going out in "nothing" PROVOKING negative sexual thoughts men...It doesn't make it right but don't tempt the Lion.

  • @cantbsdave,

    Um.......YES, women DO have sex drives and feelings.

    Last time I checked.

    Don't tempt the lion?

    Are all men vicious beasts waiting to ravage innocent girls in your mind?

    That would make you the feminist, not me then.

  • @ElectricShark Nobody is blaming the victim. Stop lying. It's about asking people to take responsibility for their own safety.

  • Yeah, because in Saudi Arabia women completely cover themselves up and that certainly seems to be preventing sexual abuse of women, right? Good logic.

  • @kalivious It actually does when you compare the number of cases HERE vs. the fewer THERE...

  • @cantbsdave Do some research.

  • The brothel pimps and madames are getting really pissy about losing their business in this bad economy. Slutwalk is the brothel owner's protest.

  • Maybe people watching this video should know what the police officer said:

    "Women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be sexually harassed."

    Controversial?

  • @Candyliz2003 Its only controversial if you havent taken the red pill. ;)

  • This is how feminism works - by intimidating law enforcement and judges and any other professional that dares to question the illogical " women are all victims and men are all abusers and perpetrators" shtick. It is social bullying and control. They call out the troops and work to try to enrage women against men but also to intimidate cops and judges who privately admit they fear these women that are organized and call them rapists and supporting rape yada yada.

  • Thank you! It's so refreshing to see a woman say what needs to be said and show women that they need to take accountability for their own safety!

  • I would only wear a bathing suit on a beach and it wouldn't have a back strap, I wear a cover up over it then I take it off to go in the water, out of respect for my husband as I gave him my body when I married him, I know I am going to be argued with for that statement but it is fact I go with my body there fore he married it and has a right to keep it to himself:)

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  • well I made a comment on a slut walk video where I said I never supported woman dressing like that and then not exspecting bad attention..I wasn't rude at all I just said something about having self esteem based on being loved and also being a woman who made a contribution to society...at any rate I was completely put down and cussed out for it...

  • @lucy9359 These people don't have the sense to realize that rapists aren't going to respond to this "don't rape" movement. They are using it as an excuse to continue to dress provocatively as that is the common method for many women to net their man. I have always said if you don't want it window shopped, don't showcase it. Unfortunately, these people won't listen. You obviously struck a nerve with them, and they can't find a way to reasonably justify it. Don't worry about it.

  • @DPL101 the nerve was that I told them I am a professional...trained in mediation and the law and I am doing a research project...I believe that you can attract bad attention to yourself and we are physically weaker so it is kind of obvious that you should use your smarts....why people want to be in such denial makes no sense to me I am a strong woman I believe in woman being treated with respect...I oppose the sex trade industry they make a mockery of their own selves! continued

  • @lucy9359 I told them they are doing exactly what the men who think like that want them to...men don't think like woman do and in this world I want to see woman using skills and brains and being recognized for a legitimate contribution to society and not just for their curves...your curves do belong to you your right so why not cover them up and show you respect yourself :) I guess that did it,lol! I enjoy you any how keep up your work!!!

  • Women dress slutty because they want to be able to use sex as a weapon. Its there need of men that they hate. They need us to validate their looks. They don't want sex, but they want to add notches on their belt when guys look at them. To them that is sex. Women don't want us men to regulate their sexual appeal by saying what they can't wear but women want to dominate men by having the same kind of monopoly over sex. That fine be feminists. But if you don't have balls then you don't have fun. =)

  • the whole point of the slutwalk movement was to say that it doesnt matter how women dress, implying that women invite sexual assult by dressing promiscously is wrong. how dare someone (man or woman) suggest that rape is in any way the victims fault! just because someone dresses like a slut doesnt mean they are one. would you imply that a man is opening himself up to rape if he walks around shirtless? do all nudists secretly want to get raped? no means no no matter how a person dresses.

  • It disgusts me that people can say women "ask for it" by dressing a certain way. A woman should be able to wear whatever she wants & still be respected. It's her body & no man has the right to touch her if she doesn't want that. Yes, it might look slutty... but it's no excuse for rape.

  • @Jezzkuhh You're absolutely right. But that does not address the fact that people who are capable of rape *will*, without any debate, be less likely to be able to control their actions when they see something that arouses them. That's human behaviour. It's incredibly wrong and disgusting, but the point was simply that it is safer to not tempt the crazy nutcases. Nobody, anywhere, is excusing rape. Stop painting it like that, and come to terms with certain realities.

  • @senecadream Excuse me? Come to terms with "realities"? I have. I was talking about the men convicted of rape that use that as an excuse.

  • @Jezzkuhh That wasn't clear, since that isn't at all the issue. Nobody is excusing rape.. it angers me to no end. However, the issue is that the police chief was simply saying that you can reduce the risk, and increase your own safety, by dressing differently.

    If a pedestrian walks out in front of a car and gets hit, they had the "right of way". They weren't wrong in any way, but guess who suffers.. If police said "watch for cars before entering the street", nobody would care. Same idea though.

  • @senecadream I know...

  • @Jezzkuhh

    -"A woman should be able to wear whatever she wants...it's no excuse for rape."-"

    -

    Yes and I should be able to walk around with money hanging out my pockets and not be robbed, right?  Welcome to the REAL WORLD. In any other crime if you intentionally put yourself in danger people would accept SOME responsibility, here you want to blame everyone else and talk about an idealistic utopia about how the world "should" be. The world isnt perfect, its never going to be, get used to it.

  • @Edbrad That's the example I was going to use... There are certain things about human behaviour that won't change any time soon. There's no denying that dressing conservatively will reduce the sexual urges of some creeper on the streets... that is a proven fact. In no way does it excuse rape, but what the police chief said holds true.

    Like you say, the world has some messed up issues, but we have to deal with it as best we can.

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  • @Edbrad What the fuck? I was talking about the people who rape & then use it as an excuse you fucking idiot. I already said that to another guy who told me the same thing as you, read first nitwit.

  • @Jezzkuhh

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    ". A woman should be able to wear whatever she wants & still be respected."

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    You said this. Which is wrong on two levels. 1, a women can wear what she wants, but dont expect the world to change. It is not wrong to point out that a women dressing slutty is more likely to get the attention of violent men. 2. Why should they necessarily be respected? Can a women do what she wants and wear what she wants and get respect necessarily? Can a man do that?

  • @Edbrad If a woman walks down the street butt naked & a man rapes her... does he have the right to do that? Yes, the woman is being incredibly stupid, but the man does not have the right to have sex with her, cause her pain & disrespect her. It is the most common excuse for rapists "she was dressed like a slut". You think that's ok? If not, what's the point of you arguing? A man could walk down the street naked & not be raped by a woman.

  • @Jezzkuhh

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    "f a woman walks down the street butt naked & a man rapes her... does he have the right to do that?"

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    Why is this always the argument? Didnt you watch the video? NO ONE says that they have the right to rape her, what they are saying is that women who do that are putting themselves at risk. When the police or anyone suggests that you lock you door at night, maybe put a light/TV on when you leave, they are not saying its okay for a robber to steal your stuff if you don't.

  • @Edbrad Well done! *BIG CLAP* - you have grasped almost all of the point I was making before. I'm proud of you. Now go away.

  • The Toronto slutwalk is one of the only things I like about feminism.

  • Lots of psycho angry femnazis on here. I think I just fell in love.

  • @TheEqualizer2U Excuse me? Are you generalizing all women as irresponsible and dependent on men? Don't act like you know me personally- you don't. I understand that precautions to protect yourself are necessary at times, but the rapist crime was much worse. Also, side note: how dare you call all women pathetic you pretentious bigot.

  • To the women that commented that she's saying that women ask for rape, watch her other video, and really pay attention this time.(especially the part at 11:15) You may have to watch it a few times before you actually comprehend it.

  • I watched your other video and emailed Constable Wendy Drummond. Well done videos. I don't know what these crazy women on here are talking about. You never said that women that wear slutty clothes deserve to be raped. Everything you said made a lot of sense.

  • Everyone I know personally who has taken part in this walk only did so because of the name. "Oh look, an excuse to dress like a slut, an outlet for my teen angst."

    I'm not making a generalization that this movement is a bunch of dumb sluts. But I'm also not accepting the generalization that this movement is a bunch of justified angry rape victims, simply because that's what people say it is.

  • top comments are really missing the point.. thumbs down and ill tell you why.. you wouldn't dress your 8-12 year old girl in very promiscuous clothing.. and if you can't figure out why you may be beyond helping

  • @TheEqualizer2U Dress does matter. But if you're suggesting a girl has to change the way she dresses in fear of rape you're an idiot. We have the right to do whatever we want that doesn't give anyone the right to rape. NOTHING does.

  • @cinnamonspice14

    Did I say that... NO!

    But you can help prevent it, just like you do things to prevent other CRIMINALS, by locking your door and not flashing your wallet full of money.

    When you dress like the circus, your going to attract clowns. The fact that you wimmin hate doing this speaks volums about your personal responsiblity. You have none!!!

    You refuse to do anything to protect yourself, and instead shame other men for not protecting you.

    So pathetic its almost unbearable!!

  • @t

    Iran women dress in rags/ walk in pairs, and still get raped by groups of men.

    men get raped by men, all the time.

    sorry, a 9mm isn't going to protect you from a group of men who want to do you harm, and mostly, and your gun will probably be used against you -- if they don't already have guns.

    you live in a false reality and scapegoating any group/thing that offenses your fragile sensibilities... you are just as stupid as the bitch in video.

    prevention any goes to far

  • @FREEAMERICANOW69 Do you live in Iran? Because I'm pretty sure this is a protest to chance police thinking in the US. Iran is a completely different environment where women are considered inferior or property. Yeah its sick but its not like that here.

    Most of us aren't arguing that rape is ok. Were arguing with the bullshit mentality that by saying "dress down lowers your risk of assault" is condoning rape. Because its not... because without that this whole thing falls flat.

  • @FREEAMERICANOW69

    You mean criminals are raping those women in rags, right? Your also talking about Iran, where the men are animals, and the women are treated less than animals.

    Yes men get raped by men, in prison, where they keep the CRIMINALS!

    Also, I never said anything about carrying a gun, can you debate me, without lieing about what I said or twisting my words? I doubt it.

    Some prevention would be good, you have everything to gain from it, and we men cant do everything.

  • @electrobutt You are a fucking genius. God will people start looking at the SlutWalk for what it is? It's standing up for our rights, a woman shouldn't have to change the way she is out of fear of being raped, rather the criminal who raped her should have to change!

  • i like slutty women but i also like prude women. I would never rape them, no no no

  • You are a fucking moron. If/when you ever get raped, you'll know how it feels to be blamed for it because of what you wore, what you drank, where you were going, who you were with, etc etc etc. Fuck you. Some one gets raped because SOMEBODY RAPED THEM! Why is this such a hard concept? You seem to think feminists hate men, but really, if you think men aren't capable of controlling themselves, then you must not think highly of them. Who's the real misandrist here?

  • @electrobutt

    Is it such a hard concept to see these men as criminals? Shouldnt you treat them as criminals? Now what do we do when criminals are around?

    Thats right, we lock doors, we try not to bring attention to ourselves...ect ect.

    But not with rape, why is that? You go out and flash your body around, then get really drunk so you have no ability to defend yourself, or make a rational decision, then get all mad when some criminal rapes you.

    Fucking pathetic!!!

  • I support sluts and SlutWalk. Hoes ftw.

  • Women who dress like sluts do so to attract sexual attention. Enough said.

  • Things that cause rape: rapists.

    

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  • I agree with the Toronto Police.

  • She had on a mini-skirt...bitch was asking for it, amirite? I mean, as a guy, why should I have to control my sexual feelings and impulses? Really, if she wants to keep herself safe...she should cover herself up totally, in my opinion. What we really need (apparently, some of you think) is some strict Sharia law to keep women covered and modest. 

  • wasn't the police officer suggesting that women are responsible for their own safety? Is it so wrong to expect women to excercise some sense?

  • Christy would make an awesome radio talk show host.

  • Its refreshing to hear a female voice in support of the MRM don't let the haters deter you from making videos.

  • So I guess if she gets raped, she'll totally be cool with it because if she wasn't cool with it, then she would be a "femnazi". People like her make me sick!

  • @ecleff If she got raped while wearing the clothes she protests against then I bet she wouldn't have a problem with men telling her she asked for it.

  • Generally speaking, labeling people as "feminazis" and calling people who disagree with your stance "idiots" isn't the best way to persuade people to take your point of view seriously.

  • @sesquey I think many people take her seriously.

  • @crangdaniel Indeed, those who may already agree with her probably do. In this day and age where we gravitate all the more readily only to beliefs we already hold, it's a common occurrence. I was just suggesting if she really wanted to reach more people, she might get farther not using terms that make some people disregard her as unintelligent and shallow as soon as they hear them - regardless of whether or not that is the truth.

  • @sesquey Most people don´t like feminism she just putting it out there. I hardly believe anybody perceives her as unintelligent.

  • @crangdaniel Yes, I agree that a lot of people don't believe in equality for women. In some countries, women have acid thrown at their faces if they attempt to get an education. In many countries, women are covered from view in clothing to keep them "modest". Tell me, don't you find the notion that men are so weak that they are incapable of controlling their sexual impulses insulting? Why do we think it's acceptable to force others to change because we lack self-control? Sad.

  • @sesquey Yes in some counties both men and women suffer horrible fates, Is there any logical reason for feminism taking the frustration out on innocent men in the west. Get out of here!

  • @crangdaniel No, you're over-simplifying. In some countries women are oppressed and mutilated for no other reason than that they are women. Also, you might want to learn to expose yourself to different ideologies that your own without turning into a scared little boy who needs the Bogeyman to leave.

  • @sesquey In many western countries men have no say in being father, no contraceptive rights, worse legal liability for being male, suffer harsher sentences in court for the same crime and so on and so on. Deal with our real problems right here instead of telling tales about the whereabouts in the land of Narnia far far away.

  • what the hell is she doing out of the kitchen and who taught her to use the electronics???

  • @Mastershroom She has more brains than most men and all feminists combined. However I do wish she would make me a sammich.

  • I agree with you that male policemen should tell women how they should dress. If men in other countries can tell women how they should dress, it should be the rule in Canada also. Thanks for your wisdom. BTW, please finish dressing, you're asking for the wrong kind of attention going around half-dressed.

  • theres always those women who try and get on the "mens side" with misogynistic views.pathetic.even men think your stupid

  • @DarkRebelCafe We certainly do not. Please stop speaking for men you´re doing a crappy job.

  • Let's DO SOMETHING About Women Who Support Rape Myths and Victim-Blaming.

    Of course we're going to be "yelling and screaming marching up and down the streets". We're ANGRY that this is still an issue. And we're angry that there are fucks like you who believe that rape can be excusable and/or justifiable.

  • @xxAVAxADORE Than direct your anger the right way and stop taking it out on innocent men, Your the offender. Go to the gym and work out.

  • @xxAVAxADORE You and people like you are putting words in peoples mouths and then demonizing them for what they "say". Its typical feminism bullshit I'm sorry. Ive watched all of this young lady's videos and not once in ANY video she has put out did she condone rape... Saying that showing off skin makes you more likely to get raped is not excusing the rapist. Its not saying its ok to rape you... Its saying dont be a victim and take some responsibility in minimizing your risk...

  • @xxAVAxADORE No you are just angry because nobody really want to be with you,

  • @crangdaniel Because people are scrambling to be with you I'm sure. :) No really, you seem like such a gem.

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  • @xxAVAxADORE

    Not near as angry as the men, who are being told it is THIER responsiblity to save you from yourselves.

    Even if it wasnt a stranger jumping from the dark alley to rape you, but instead someone you kinda knew, or even dated, and YOU decided to invite him in, or go to his place, maybe there wasnt any booze involved, but still YOU got raped.

    How in the %$&* are we suppose to save you from that?!?

    IT IS NOT OUR RESPONSIBILITY, IT IS YOURS, NO AMOUNT OF CRYING WILL CHANGE THAT!!

  • @xxAVAxADORE where in this does she say rape is excusable and justifiable?

  • I don't know lady, you're showing a LOT of cleavage there. Best grab your veil and cover up as to not attract the evil males that's can't control themselves and will undoubtedly jump on you should they SEE SKINNNN!! What is sad is that some men are against Slutwalk without realizing that they're defending you guys too. If a woman needs to "dress in order to not to get raped by men", what does that say about the men? Wake up people.

  • I respectfully disagree, and think that the police officer's comments were horrendous.

  • so to all the women who were raped wearing un-sexy pajama's and baggy clothing that reveals nothing, who were told they were raped for wearing slutty clothes, those women deserved it?? Speaking as one of those women who was raped wearing baggy jeans and an oversized t-shirt (and told I must of asked for it with my clothing) I can safely say its people like you who keep crap like this going in the world. I'm not a fem-nazi -I love men!- and I am ashamed to know there are women out there like you.

  • @das1sephani When women who are the overwhelming majority of rape victims are young (Often scantily dressed) women yes. I'm sorry to hear that you were raped but demonizing a cop who was only trying to help is campaigning your cause? What do you expect them to do exactly? This fiasco was sparked by one cop giving some advice that wasn't entirely wrong. You didn't like how he talked about rape so now your demonize him, his organization and anyone who disagrees with you as "pro rape". It's sick...

  • @imwithmoo - here's the problem - its not just "one cop". The cops who investigated my case said the same thing to me. a woman I met who was raped in her pajama's (not sexy ones!) was told the same thing. There are millions of women out there (and men!) who were raped and told by the cops that it was their fault based on their clothes. That is a pattern of epic proportions that should be stopped and campaigned against. I don't care if your a stripper on stage, no MEANS NO!

  • @das1sephani

    Heres a little tip for you.

    Criminals dont care if you say NO. You can scream it all you want, it means nothing to a criminal. Just like laws do not stop criminals, nor do locks, or fences or anything else I can think of. They are criminals, they commit crimes and they know its wrong, but they dont care!

    Dont you wimmin get it, no means no and criminals dont care!! Unless you think all men are criminals? Now where have I heard that stereotype before.......

  • @das1sephani

    Chisty is great, you can stop blaming everybody for one persons wrong.

  • @das1sephani

    If you ever go to court, wear the same clothes that you would wear on a night out.

    When your out on the town, wear something you would wear to church.

    You wont, becuase dress matters!

    While your at it, try these!

    Get rid of all the locks on your house.

    Never lock your car door.

    If you ever walk somewhere, never take your cell phone, or a dog with you, and always go alone.

    Bet you dont, because thats blaming the victim, amirite!

  • @das1sephani Was it in a park? Or were you hanging around the wrong men? Because usually women get involved with men that ought not be talked to or acknowledged as human beings.

    I hate rape, I would literally kill anyone who did that to my sister, but I also think that she ought not be hanging out alone with sleazy guys

  • @Jamespot24 - I was in high school, walking from my classroom (with a note from the teacher) to the office. He was a new kid at the school. Thanks to the lovely victim blaming mentality, my school counselor and my dad both told me it was my fault because of how I was dressed. The cops agreed and didn't pursue charges. I was a virgin and 15 years old - I definitely was NOT asking for it in any way shape or form.

  • @das1sephani Im not blaming the victim or saying any woman is "asking to be raped"

    What I am saying is that we live in a dangerous world and women especially need to be careful on what type of guys she hangs around with. I support CCL's being issued to any woman who feels threatened and I would applaud a woman who defends her body with deadly force.

    Regardless of what a woman was wearing rape disgusts me to the fullest extent, and I am tremendously sorry for coming off like I was blaming you

  • @Jamespot24 - oh you didn't come off like that at all, I'm sorry if it sounded like I said that. What I meant was because of the general attitude of victim blaming, everyone I dealt with surrounding that scenario blamed me even though I had in no way "asked for it" - though I was told it was my fault because of what I wore even though my clothing was not even remotely slutty. Its good to hear a man support the idea that clothes don't mean consent to rape!

  • @das1sephani Be safe is what I say and if that means covering up and not hanging out with some guy that "seems nice" then DO IT!

    The main problem with rape being convicted is usually its done by a boyfriend or a close friend. And there are some sick twisted girls out there that want to get back at a guy and actually lie about rape, it has happened.

    As an woman you need to be careful

    Personally I believe a modestly dressed woman is sexy because it shows she has security and confidence in herself

  • @Jamespot24 - agreed. its even harder to convict a spouse of rape but it does happen. And I have met girls who do the "rape" revenge crap too. One tried that shit with my brother when he wouldn't sleep with her because she was underage. That kind of crap sickens me!

    Leaving something to the imagination is always preferable to showing the world what's on offer. What you have to offer your man is suppose to be between you & your man - not everyone who sees you on the street.

  • @das1sephani Rape revenge should be treated harsher than Rape, because it has made Rape an almost unconvictable offense.

    So many real rapes go unbelieved because of those awful women

    But all girls need to be safe and know that a real man respects a woman saying NO. Being a "slut" and proud just makes you lose all credibility, not just with with the authorities but with any man you say NO too.

    Be safe is all the advice I can give to women, and a real man will always respect your body

  • @das1sephani

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    "who were told they were raped for wearing slutty clothes, those women deserved it??"

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    There are people who are just unluckly with crime. You can have all kinds of security in your house and still get robbed, but you know damn well that if you leave your doors and windows unlocked and open with valuable items on view you're going to be far more likely to be robbed. If I walk down a dark ally in a bad neighbourhood I also am putting myself in danger.

  • finally a white woman with some common sense about this stupid feminist bs.

  • I completely agree with you. You are AWESOME!

  • Hooray for sluts.

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  • Making women at all feel guilt about a crime committed against them is wrong, you can say don't dress that way I am only trying to protect you but ultimately the only thing you're doing is shaming her making her feel guilty about being a victim. What should a girl who was raped do?...say "oh well I knew I shouldn't have dressed that way, it was my fault" Really? NO

  • Oh look, another prime example of a woman who shits all over other women so she can gain some illusory acceptance and sense of elevated status in a patriarchal society. Or perhaps some idiotic "GRR WE HATES GENDER EQUALITY" club? Anyway, good job in promoting rape myths and hateful, irrational attitudes and ideas. :clap clap clap: We should all look up to you, shouldn't we?

  • Those "radical feminists" were trying to say that, "No one deserves to be raped." Women have the right to dress how ever they wish without being exempt from the law. Sure, there are radicals that take things too far, but that doesn't justify that police officer's comments. You should really check out astrorice's video called, "Slut Shaming and Why it's Wrong." She's only 13 and yet still a wiser feminist then you.

  • hahahahah she is awesome ! anybody saying otherwise deserves a kick in the face.... hahahahaha Feminazis.......hahahahaha

  • Toronto slutwalk isn't stupid...it's insidiously clever. The radical feminists are entrenched now and organized. They scare the police and even judges and every other professional by singling out some poor cop for something he said and they ruin the guy publicly. They get the media and draw so much attention and organize marches. They are bullies. They scare the cops into silent obedience and enforcing their domestic violence agenda which they use as a weapon to create fear.

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  • I didn't expect to find someone who actually agreed. That's awesome. Someone who still has a head on their shoulders.

  • cops are stupid because all they want is to inflate their egos

  • Why the fuck is YouTube randomly flagging several comments as spam...WTF??

  • @dsonjane

    Trying turning down the rhetoric and getting in touch with cold reality. Warmth comes from our values system. Truth is merciless.

  • From what I've seen I agree with your views on Feminism. Feminism, fundamentally, is a form of tribalism and thus hostile to men.

    But, your religious conservativism undercuts the rationality of your arguments. A police officer is a representative of the State. A moral, and rational, Government representative ought to remain silent. His personal opinion is NOT TO BE BE SHARED. Shame on him! Even if I agreed with him he should shut up!

  • you know what: shut up. if you argue against feminism, then shut up and go bakc being the oppressed woman that can be raped at any time without being able to call for help. please go back being the property and sexual object of man, go back into the private sphere of your home and get out of the internet. public sphere is nothing for oppressed women, since it is something feminism has fought for. you so naive that you take for granted your freedom of speech, while in fact it was a feminist goal

  • @dsonjane Feminism has done it's job. We do not live in a world that is controlled by men. Yes, the richest and most powerful people generally are men. But their interest are not to oppress women, their interests are money. The world has changed a lot over the past 100 years, and I'm glad it did. Women now have the right to vote, they have the same rights as men, and they are treated equally. We do not need feminism anymore. The feminists these days are generally very sexist themselves

  • @cannabisPREVENTION Oh really? So, women today do not get raped, women today do not earn less than men (Gender pay gap), women in Egypt, Iran, Iraq, or whatever other country do NOT have the same rights as men, they are NOT treated equally, they are not sexist. Is it equality, when women are excluded from the public sphere? If you're so convinced YOU don't need feminism, please move to Iran and try to act the same way you're doing right now. You'll end up dead pretty soon. where's the equality?

  • @dsonjane First of all, I'm a man. So if i go to Iran or Saudi Arabia no one will give a shit. Second. We are talking about feminism in the western world. There is no need for it. I should have mentioned this in my previous comment. Yes, in the middle east there is a lot of discrimination against women. And yes, something must be done. But Christy here is not talking about that. Shes talking about western feminists.

  • @cannabisPREVENTION If you're a man, you clearly do not know what discrimination feel s like. So shut up!You're just afraid of women being better than you are. As for not working enough: do you clean the butts of your kids, do you clean the toilets, do you do the dishes, do you cook, do you clean up the house, do you pick up the children as many times as your wife (but I suppose you don't have one) does? Do you ask women if they like the sex the way you do?

  • @dsonjane actually the reverse is true. Google that chick who dressed like a man for a year and read her eye opening account of how privaleged the western female has become compared to men. It is impossible for women as a group to be "better" than men as a group because they are different, have different social roles and physical attributes. Simply put, you are a bigot.

    And finally, do you ask men if they like sex the way you do?

  • @johnas1011

    QUOTE: "...Google that chick who dressed like a man for a year and read her eye opening account of how privileged the western female has become compared to men.."

    Could you please provide more detailed information on who this woman was or the name of the article, book or video. I can't seem to find it. I want to post it on my channel. If it is a video, I will make it the featured "front page" video on my channel and credit your name on the video for helping me find it.

  • @rexx1234567

    I know of her. She actually underwent a year of therapy in the wake of her experiment, as a repercussion. She considered the emotional impact of competing and relating in a male realm brutal. Feminists seem to have this bizarre delusion that Males are all colluding to conspire against them. They don't get that the reason that they run into "ceilings" in the jobs market, is because the males are competing with EVERYONE. And it's brutal. They don't single out women.

  • @rexx1234567 "Self-Made Man: One Woman's Year Disguised as a Man [Paperback]

    Norah Vincent (Author)" sorry for the late reply. Haven't been on youtube for a while

  • @dsonjane and don't play that rape card. Rape isn't a product of men created for the oppression of women. People who rape are sick, just like murderers and criminals. And the pay gap? You know why there is a pay gap? Because men work more then women do. If you want to see that gap shrink then tell women to get more jobs.

  • @dsonjane And third. Christy is just stating the obvious fact that MEN TOO ARE OPPRESSED. Men too are subjected to sexism from the female side but whenever a man brings it up, he is considered sexist. If you really want equality, you need to look on the other side as well

  • @cannabisPREVENTION I agree with that. But that doesn't mean that there are no sexist men out there and that there is not need for feminism. We just need a different feminism. To state otherwise would be more harmful to everyone.

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  • @dsonjane 1. men are raped at greater rates than women if prison rape is accounted for (and it should be). 2. Gender pay gap is a myth - search youtube for "why men earn more warren farrell" if you even care about the answer. 3. Western feminists rarely attempt to assist women in Iran, Iraq etc, they only complain about imaginary problems in the west.

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