In Alpha male speak.....Your're hot !

[TheReasonableHuman]

what do you expect... women today dress fucking sexy the clothes are so tight the breasts are spilling outta the top and the ass is so finely shown... your going to atract men.. and caveman days.. we all have basic instincts that drive attraction that never changes its only this idea that we all progressive now that tries to hide the fact. when im with my girlfriend somtimes i tell her to leave a sexy blouse on cause its more erotic that being naked!

[VikingSkills7]

If "Wolf Whistling" is a Guy admiring a Girl, Then Shouldnt "Cat Call" be a Girl Admiring a Guy? thats the way I see it should be..

Also Good Point on seeing that its a Compliment. Although they can be Too Vulgar from time to time, IT IS Ultimately a Compliment.

[Nono992]

Oh Sweetie :/ Don't you think that maybe the fact that whistling is an expected practice is the problem? They aren't whistling/honking because they like *you*, they're whistling because they like your body. Like that's all you are to them. Now, theres nothing wrong with being proud of yourself, but your self-esteem shouldn't rely solely on your looks and how others percieve you. The whistling is just a problem to me because I am more than my looks or body. I want to be treated like a person.

[Biscom]

it's harrassment..pure and simple. .

[searchingmurphy]

OH YES i policing the jackson funk

[ProjectLifesize]

I can see what you are saying - and for many women they may feel reduced......I was really just talking from a personal experience.... when I have been wolf whistled at ( and Im not refering to obnocious rude comments - but a simple wolf whistle...)- I didnt feel reduced for sexual appeal - I merely felt that he was letting me know that I looked good.......it's not something that I would ever do

[ProjectLifesize]

....but I wasn't offended by it ......in the same way that I wouldnt be offended if someone came up to me and told me that I looked good...........I do appreciate that others may be though........lucie xx

[fleurat3]

Good to hear another side, there is always more than one to an argument. No one appreciates, female or male, aggressive, abusive, belittling cat-calling -just another form of anonymous bullying. However a wolf-whistle by English definition is a compliment. Is a compliment given by a stranger always to be taken in negative sexual way? Keep up the good work!

[ProjectLifesize]

I agree entirely !! I wasnt talking about abusive taunts and rude comments shouted out - but I think that the wolf whistle is different. I can see that there are far more classy and tactful ways of complimenting a stranger - and I certainly would never wolf whistle at anyone but I wouldnt be offended if someone complimented me in that way. I personally think that I would be more offended by drunken lads leering at me and asking to buy me a drink at a bar......xxx lucie

[gililima]

That's really interesting but still bullshit. When I get whistled at or whatever I feel like an object, like a walking vagina. Because none of these guys have gotten to know me they just think I have a nice ass or something. And I understand maybe it's instinct from way back when but, common, way back when is then and this is now. Think through your actions and find more respectful ways of complementing women.

[ProjectLifesize]

I have never felt like an object when I have been whistled at just as I have never felt like an object when someone has come over to me and told me I looked good..I have been bemused lol but never offended.....if I go out and dress up and feel good about myself is it so wrong if someone expresses their agreement? ......I can understand that others do feel offended....and that there are far better ways of complimenting someone....I was just speaking from my own personal experience :+) lucie xx.

[searchingmurphy]

héé!!!

[ProjectLifesize]

LOL :+) xx lucie

[vampiroangelico]

You make a lot of blanket statements about men, in this video....

[ProjectLifesize]

I disagree - I talked about women wolf whistles too I even said girls can be just as bad as boys.......and made sure that I talked about both the behaviours of women and men....in the caveman anaolgy I was talking about groups of people - and if there are any specific male references - then I am talking merely from my own experience - which has been with men acting that way and not women......I am certainly not saying that women dont act like this -

[ProjectLifesize]

just that my experiences have been with males who have acted that way. I am sorry if you were offended......I wasnt intending to make any blanket statments about either sex. xx lucie

[ahhxamy]

hahaha. cavemen. i agree though... in a group most people act differently in general.

i think it depends on the circumstance. if a guy won't stop cat calling or is using offensive language then it can be taken in a negative way. just a thought.

[ProjectLifesize]

I agree - abusive cat calling and shouting is a different matter and something I have never experienced.....I was talking about a simple wolf whistle.....it definetly depends on the situation :+) xxx lucie

[paul20072007]

Like you say--different cultures. American feminists are too shrill, but the UK is too accepting of sexism.

[ProjectLifesize]

:+) very possibly .......though would you still consider it sexism when you consider the rise in female wolf whistlers? :+)xx lucie

[Nono992]

lol, also the rise in female wolf whistlers only contributes to sexism, only now the sexism is being enacted upon men!

[SameFatCrow]

I really liked your take on this.

[ProjectLifesize]

thankyou xx lucie

[jessamyn19]

also, as an American living in London, i would agree that the British are much less prone to cat calling in general. what i have witnessed here has large been so by young boys, fueled by alcohol on a Saturday night, and more likely parroting actions they learned from American tv.

[ProjectLifesize]

I agree - Saturday nights and alcohol does seem to feul it !! lucie xx

[jessamyn19]

I am totally offended by yelling out at women in the street. it's almost never meant as a complement to a particular women, but just saying 'she is woman, they are for sex.' I am not only a women presented for the sexual interest of men standing on the street, but an individual with feeling. Since there attention is more about self gratification and status with in their group, I object to being used in such a way, with no regard for me as in individual. it's the definition of objectification.

[ProjectLifesize]

In my video I was addressing the wolf whistle....I think that yelling in the street is a different thing and is usually rude and obnoxious......its not something I have ever experienced....the wolf whistle I have a different opinion on though...and I am not going to pretend that I find it offensive....although I do see that others may. I have never felt like a wolf whistle means 'I am a woman I am for sex... to me It meant ' you are looking good' and nothing more than that.

[ProjectLifesize]

also there is a lot of female wolf whistling at men - and men seem to take it in a different way than women..........as a compliment......they dont seem to think' I am a man I am for sex' when the same happens to them. Obviously it all comes down to personal opinion.......thanks for your comment :+) lucie xx

[Tiredofcrap]

I agree. Women talk like they are offended by remarks but inside they are flattered. People never make sense.

[ProjectLifesize]

I can see that some may be embaressed / offended and some may be flattered - I just happen to be one of the latter :+) when it comes to a simple wolf whistle......obviously if someone was shouting rude and over sexual comments at me as I walked down the street I would be offended- I think it depends on the situation :+) thanks for your comment xx lucie

[onlyAerik]

The definitions seem different, but really they are the same behavior. A man believes he is entitled to publicly reduce a woman to her sex appeal, so he tells everybody about it obnoxiously.

The definition you saw in the American dictionary is more accurate.  It is derision, because the woman is expected to enjoy being reduced.