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  • I'm sorry but I cannot bend the bill on my hats. I just don't like the way it looks. But I agree with everything else!

  • Well here is my (femme) point of view: I don´t like flanel shirts at all! They are ugly even someone would think they´re comfortable and nice, but not me. Flanel is for pajamas, not for shirts to wearing out daily life. Oh and pants what are hanging from ass-area? They are one of the most stupid invention in this world (and includes hip hop style of hanging pants too). Just my thoughts.

  • when you have an identity as an lesbian...(who i am - it´s done), then

    wear what u want. NO uniform, please

  • I think you look beautiful

  • ahhhhhhk you look like the nerdy, sweaty sweater wearing kid who annoyed me in the playground all 6th grade.. still dont find the look appealing. oh and right now i'm wearing black camo cargo pants with a white tank top and im a girly girl ;)

  • I love how you're talking about fashion while wearing your shirt collar popped out of your jumper.

    OH THE IRONY

  • @MrMitchellHundred first off what is a jumper? also this video is from 2008, i'd like to think even what i was wearing THEN is out of style in almost 2012.

  • @AskAJanything It was never in style. A jumper is a sweater by the way.

  • your sexy >:D btw, could you like do a video on how to come out without your parents disowning you, or if you already have, could you hand me some directions in where to find said video? fanks.

  • Hey, just wanted to know if you have ever heard of fashionable dyke nerds. We like white sox, penny loafers, and argyle vests. But I just love my white sox.

  • WERENT YOU ON RUPAULS DRAG U ?

  • @alexpaulslikewassup yes, and i won!

  • Typo

  • Cargo pants and an iron maiden t shirt with fat ironed hair and work boots baby!

  • In general I like your video. The key word in your video is "style", style is objective. Its personal. Its regional. I do wear a clip for my keys because I don't want to scratch my pone or lose them...which I have seen many many times at The Abbey, Jewels, Normandy, Palms etc... I can not tell you how many cars I have opened because keys were kept in pockets and fell out when they reached in their pockets. I am a bit dismayed by the "fat" comment.

    I like your passion though...take a breath LOL

  • dingy as sport bras? Who the fuck is wearing dingy as sports bras?

  • Do you visit a barber shop or ladies hairdressers

  • awwww your sooo cuuttteee!!!!<3 ugh if i wasnt taken lol geeze haha ur amazing!!

  • MJ and John Travolta in Grease. Black shoes and white socks look cool

  • black and red is the way to go

    TY *SLAP* BUTT, now yous a beanie baby

  • sweety - tucked in T-Shirts only make you look fat if you ARE fat. They look great on anybody with a slim waist. Just thought I'd point that out :-)

  • thoughts on rachel maddow's casual attire? Oh HEY...I wear t-shirts with no sleeves. I have really nice arms and shoulders...I think it looks good, but no dingy sports bra.

  • thoughts on rachel maddow's casual attire?

  • I got a question about jeans. I am a butch lesbian and most of my jeans I have are female jeans but in a size bigger. Now I am going to get new jeans soon and I want to get guy jeans and how do you go about the sizing to know which ones fit you best that are not too baggy?

  • dope

  • Rock the Vans. If you like 'em, wear 'em. I agree with 90% of what you listed. (Especially the keys on the belt. Haha, I actually put my work keys on my belt when I'm in a hurry, running a work-errand, and DON'T want to be kit on.) BUT, the sleeveless, cotton shirt with a sports bra is incredibly hot. 'Provided the sports bra is clean and a dark color (preferrably black) that won't show too much sweat as the day/night wears on.

  • i find only extremly pretty girls can pull off butch cloth. most of the time, it just make me look querre,and not in the good way...

  • Yeah... you go girl...

  • I will admit it. I do a few of these. I have a phone case attached to my pocket. My phone will pocket dial any other way, so it's a great fix. I wear my keys on a clip. And this is probably a number one no-no. I love flannel. I'm a teen, so maybe that's why, but flannel rocks. Oh, but I do hate the whole mullet and tucked in t-shirts. Who does that? No offense.

  • dude, most schools in texas high school have to tuck in our shirts. i hate it. yes i am a little dyke and its funny how i get away with it. u are cute

  • You are really HOT!!

  • cheers

  • i agree with all... but nothing wrong with wearing a straight bill hat. if worn properly it can look very cool. plus i grew up in NYC so thats how we do it ! :-) what urks me the most is every one that weres a Yankee fitted hat and not even know they are wearing a yankee hat. and not even from NY lol BTW cool shirt, i have one just like it

  • So true sister! Those rules are not just for the butch but also for men! I hate it when a man wears a tucked in dress shirt with khaki's and a shiny dressy tie, wear a more casual tie if your not wearing dressier slacks! Also, don't just look at neck and sleeve size when picking out a dress shirt, look at the width around the body, those shirts are meant to be tucked but if they are too wide you end up looking sloppy and heavier. BTW you look great!

  • I agree! I love the passion! =)

  • I hate stereotypes!! thank you for saying all of that!!

  • what a cutie pie you are. Nice.

  • "if your dress pants are pleated in the front, cut them and... donate the fabric to like, this first grade group who wants to do a patchwork quilt or something.." hahaha i love you.

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  • Rock your pink vans. You know whats hotter than a well dressed woman? A woman with an individual style and A LOT of personal integrity. You can tell plenty about a person from their shoes. Maybe you're not a pink vans personality?

    And the hat thing... You need a black friend. Desperately.

  • Rock your pink vans. You know whats hotter than a well dressed woman? A woman with an individual style and A LOT of personal integrity.

  • God, I love you and this video.

    It's been a long time since I've laughed like this.

  • Wow Really?

    What do you such for terrible dressers who cant afford to go out and buy all these new clothes that you think will make us look so great ? I mean clearly you're on top of the fashion trends in your black sweater and haircut from 87.

    You just talk about the money money money you need to spend- fuck off you make me sick.

  • @julesw111 you can go out and get a nice shirt and pants for less than 20 bucks. its not like she said you have to go out and buy Gucci and Versace.. she just said to stop walking around looking like you were attacked by a hunter in cargo pants named Micheal Jackson.

  • I'm not lesbian, bi, but not lesbian or butch or however someone wants to label it in a nice way lol, I saw your video browsing through the fasion section and I really like it lol. You have a good sence of humor and style "friends don't let friends leave the house looking like crap" epic XD

  • if i saw you down the street.... i'd totally throw myself at you lol

  • @BlackSheepJam

    I love you. Please marry me. :D

  • @BlackSheepJam Love you, please marry me. :D

  • this could possibly be the gayest person I have ever seen. I still don't believe it, this dude looks like pat from snl. I don't know if he's a dude or a dike

  • @MrExit15 this is a girl

  • LOL UR SO AWSOME!!! IM NOT A BUTCH GIRL BUT ILL LET MY GIRLFRIEND KNOW LOL.

  • who is this guy

  • Is this "thing" male or female? If we are not going to wear our "fucking" phone on our belt, where the fuck are we going put it? Do you know that cellphone emits RF radiation and it needs to be a few inches away from the body at all times? A belt clip does just that. So please STFU. And leave the wallet chain/jean chain alone. You couldn't possibly understand it - no point to explain.

  • you strike me as one of those really condescending hipster faux bohemian west hollywood dykes...

  • @rainbowjane85 i'm sorry you feel that way, but i'm NOTHING like that...besides i live an hour from weho

  • @rainbowjane85 ...and a tool/douche....even though I agree with the carpenter jeans

  • But I love my free t-shirts!

  • lol oh my gosh ur funny as hell! and its alllll true!!

  • LOL. Gotta admire your passion. Myself, I love a butch with cut sleeves, a round belly, wearing keys on their left belt loop. Really, don't touch the keys, know your history! ;)

  • well... you changed the world right there.

    why can't people dress how they are comfy?

  • YESSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The bills on hats! BENDTHEM, BENDTHEM!

    I hate it when people dont bend them. they need to be bent

  • Hey, gay guy here with love for the butch sistaz.

    I think it's been long enough that the right person could pull off acid wash if it's totally obvious that its intended to be ironic.

    Also, i got a YSL keychain that hung from my belt as a gift and it was pretty hot. Then it broke and I was sad about that. I'll have to agree with you if you're talking like Schneider from One Day at a Time.

    Hysterical vid, btw.

  • @BlackSheepJam ouch! btw, I completely appreciate the sacrifices you (and other like you) have made for lesbians across the board. Especially from someone who's afraid to come out of the closet in today's age-- you have guts.

  • People need to relax... There are people out there who really need to be told this.

  • Advice*

  • So the day I watch this, You see my comment right there, Yeah I commented before, I went out, and my little key thing that attaches it to my belt loop, Broke. I think you died and went to haunt me to break it xD Good.. Job? xD

  • Hahahahhahahahahahaha, You get like redder and redder and angrier as the video continues. xD Soo funny. Luckily Ive only done one of these things.. Poor keys.. =[ They're gonna be lonely in my pocket now. xD

    But pretty =D

  • Have you done a positive video?? I think it would be really helpful for you to have a "What TO Wear: Butch Edition".. I know some butches who don't do any of the things that you say not to do, but still aren't dressed "sharp" or fashionable. I'd love to know your advice!!

  • I get giving fashion advice, because you have great style, but what's with all the ordering others around on what they should and should not wear? Just let people be! Who cares if it annoys you, their clothes choices are probably not for you but themselves.

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  • Nice =)

  • I agree with most of this except I look good in tight jeans and I lose my keys if they're not attached to me when I go out.

    The hat thing is right on. Take off the stupid stickers and PLEASE, DO NOT WEAR your hat BACKWARDS!!! The 10-year-old boy look is just plain weird.

  • I appreciate this and I agree 100%. And you are indeed very well dressed.

  • Nice glasses dude.

  • Amazingly enough.. fashion is like art. You like what you like. Yes there are rules and there is no reason to deny this-- but there is no reason to insult a persons lifestyle if this is what they choose..(To comment from siezetheday) Thank you so much for this vid. I love it. :)

  • You're hot!

  • thank you!

  • haha, i use a clippy thing for my keys, it is a handy way to not lose my keys

  • I gotta comment on the hat thing....Being a serious New Era Fitted collector (hence the YT name) For myself the sticker on the hat is a style...A influence from hip-hop artists and the music itself - Yea people hate it but it depends on the person wearing it, if they want to remove it or not. another thing... There's ALOT of fakes when it comes to fitteds so the sticker is just a lil varification to the buyer that their shit isnt bootleg

  • i agree with newera88 about the hats. i mean those hats are more than 20 dollars, most are like upper 30, 40 to 50 dollars, so yeah. i like the hats, and wear them. sometimes the sticker is lame-if your a lame person, but the sticker is fine with me.

  • Guilty of flannel, cell phones on belts, keys on belts.

  • Um. Guilty of the key thing, : )

  • I see so many guys with the sticker still on the hat, thats so stupid lol

  • ok so i wear my cut off shirts to softball and rugby practice but not to just walk around in i mean i think that should be common sense

  • you are quite an enjoyable butch.

  • hey for the cut off t-shirts what if u r doing a work-out outside?

  • i agree with the authentic sticker on hats, its rediculous!!! just like when ppl leave the tags hanging on their shoes.

  • I like my sticker on my hat hahaha

  • I am not a lesbian or butch but I think that being butch doesn't mean you need to dress bad. I think some of them are so concerned about looking butch that they think dressing well will make them look less butch.

  • i love this chick.. keep em comin"

  • Xoxoxoxoxox

  • chill out.

  • GUILTY!!!

    P.s.

    Hey truknowledge1, you're a dick.

  • You Rock!  Thanks for telling it like it IS!!!!!

  • LOL! Your hilarious!

  • ok so the only thing i didnt agree with completely was the bent bill on hats lol i love my flatbrims lol the sticker is kinda awful though i agree lol

  • put the key part in your pocket and only let the clippy thing attach to the back part of your pocket, no noise, no visible keys, and they are still attached =)

  • "Wow, look at that girl with that hot free t-shirt on"

    LOL! You rock. <3

  • hey

  • Why are you the expert? This is so disdainful and condescending it makes me sad. Does everyone have to be like you? I hope not, because you don't thrill me.

  • People like the way AJ dresses. They ask for advice.

    I want to add DENIM SHORTS to that list of stuff. UGH! If you're one of my friends reading this, know that I say this out of compassion and love.

  • you are doing a service to the women of Atlanta, Trust me!

  • whatever. i'll wear what i want, thank you. and i like my hats to have the stickers on them. it reminds me i worked hard to get what i wanted and p.s. those flex fit hats are like $35 not $20. thanks.

  • thats just owful you want everyone look same way? i cant get is that kinda dress code or what. I try 2 b uniqe, if you gonna obey those crazy advices you gonna be booooooring

  • LMAO!! I LOVE YOU

  • what about what not to wear fem edition?

  • Is there any reason that you are allowing someone, anyone, to dictate what you wear or do not wear? Rock the pink vans.

    An individual makes these decisions for themselves.

  • your hot.

  • i have been known to get all hot over some low-cut-off sleeveless tee-shirts/binder-sports-bra combos.

    but i am gross. :D

  • I agree with you 100% Mille981...now, for AJ i've seen some of ur other videos.. "bar ettiquete" and i highly doubt that u are a stud or w/e at the bar. im sorry but ur not that attractive. Something i also question was the binder thing..why do u do that? u said that if ur a butch and wear a pretty bra that will not get u laid but wearing a binder will? idk for me that is not atractive at all. idk im prolly just attracted to femmes and really dislike butchs..not all but most.

    sorry

  • i think sports bras are hot

  • que pedo con esta pendeja!

    que asco!!!

    pinche gorda machorra!

  • mira pendejeta,

    si no entiendes el punto

    del video, mejor kedate callada

    ke para pendejas y askerosas, existe

    la gente ignorante como tu

  • no. 1 soy hombre

    no. 2 tu no me vas a decir que debo y que no debo decir.

    no. 3 sigo pensando que es una machorra asquerosa

    no. 4 que risa tu actitud tan bobita y mas risa que te hayas proyectado con mi comentario, seguro tu tambien eres una machorra asquerosa o si eres hombre has de ser un pendejete pretencioso y wanna be!

    Szia..!

  • hahahah...eso ke.

    ke bueno ke eres hombre,

    asi tu comentario no cuenta.

    Y gracias, si soy lesbiana.

    ...askerosa? ya kisieras!!!! hahaha

  • You didn't cover lesbian/ butch hair

  • i see my gf headed in this direction. ha. you should make another fashion video with pictured of people actually doing these things. your videos are awsome.

  • u seriously call urself a lesbian lol. idk i dont agree with some of ur stuff but ya some i agree. hats are cool. dont dis the hats. pink vans ughhh...one word converse. ikes

  • Don't get me wrong, I'm a fashionable butch who will spend money on Armani and Delli Aldo men's dress shoes, but when I'm chillin' at home, the cargo pants will be seen at some point or another...I can't walk around in Versace all f-ing day! Then you become that weird nerd at the club...no offense to your glasses. Try contacts though...

  • dear mille981,

    you are an asshat. please fuck off.

    AJ is the shit and she is sexy as fuck. holdin it down for our badass butch women. we love you AJ!

    that is all.

  • well said...you are awsome!!!

  • when i get my cam working im gonna show u what im talkin about im a fly azz dresser and im gonna post a video to show you what not to wear

  • your please find close that fit your properly with that long azz long sleeve and sweater im clownin i feel what you was sayin to some degree u know about the white soc thing but gotta understand when a stud buys a brand new fitted cap we aint gonna take the tag off or bend it up them joints cost 30 bucks and up its a hood thing u gotta understand its called being fresh to death

  • wtf im takin notes on how 2 dress from the verison guy and no im not in your network......

  • I agree with the video pretty much(and i know a some straight males who should follow this stuff too.. uhhhg... hat stickers...), but, dammit, i like my cargos and my wallet chain! I'd end up leaving my wallet places if it wasn't chained to me, ha.

  • The Pink Vans would be cute to wear out -- but only if you have pink socks.

    We would also accept Lavender.

    Just KIDDIN wear what you want. And you don't look like Woody Allen but there are some mannerisms in this vid that reminded me of Woody.

  • this video made me wanna take a long deep breath lol

  • I totally agree with you!! I am the master at loosing my keys, and hate shit in my pocket, hangy keys a must!

  • lol amazing. I always make fun of badly dressed butch women. haha I find it so annoying when people keep stickers on their hats!!

  • meeeee...toooo!

  • that was funny

  • thank you!

  • Wow. That was an incredibly ignorant thing to say.

  • She does have a male appearance. I agree.

    However, you're painting a very stereotypical picture that shows amazing ignorance. Maybe in the culture of wherever you live you've just been brought up to believe that and that makes sense. I'm not saying I'd be different if I was raised the same. But I'm just saying you sound really bad with that comment.

  • Different people have different views on the subject and everybody's a little self righteous. Who's to say who's right and who's wrong?

  • Yeah, there's a lot that can be said about how families or the lack of them has affected kids nowadays and how these guys wanna be players or whatever and getting all these girls pregnant.

  • That was sooooo awesome! I love it!

  • that

    was

    great.

  • I actually think it's hot when women wear cargo pants

  • Guilty of wearing black socks with white shoes. but ONLY when im wearing all black and white!!

    you're sooo awesome!

    you're sexy as hell too!!

  • I am SO guilty of hanging keys off the belt loop... I was convinced you'd not hit me with anything, but I was wrong. lmao.

    And I DO get to wear carpenter jeans! Woohoo!

  • Wow, I must commend you; you hit all the important points!

    I would have to add: No hiking boots unless you're actually...well, hiking. They're clunky and... yeah, just don't do it.

    Keep up the awesome videos!

  • Nooo haha I love the free t-shirts and the hanging keys! =) =) =)

  • you started to sound extremely exasperated; like you wanted to either kick some ass or cry. it's what bad fashion does to people..lol

  • hilarious and true!

  • he he awe so serious <3

  • i hate when people wear freakin lounge pants and pajamas

  • What about the butchy chicks I have seen that are wearing HUGE basketball or football jerseys that go to like their knees and then with really long shorts and socks pulled up to cover all leg? That always tripped me out a bit... oh and this is to a club no less.

  • Lol pink vans

  • You go & wear your pink vans all u want!!!lol

  • bahaha

    oh god

    i laughed so hard.

    couldn't have said it better myself.

    i'm going to put this in my next myspace blog.

    oh and another thing! okay, all these dykey girls that wear a cheap tshirt with a tie. what's with that?

  • I appreciate that you have opinions on how to dress well but I think you don't realise that for some, clothing is either a perfunctory part of "civilized" life or is merely intended to serve its function (keeping our body temperature tolerable). Is it really necessary to decry people whose priorities differ from yours? Dowdy dressers don't really have an adverse effect on your life do they? We don't fill garbage dumps with old clothes so that's rather positive :)

  • "We are not janitors"...OMg thats so hilarious

  • I'm a classic lipstick lesbian!I love wearing skirts, dresses and other clothes that are typical "feminine" clothes. I wear glasses similar to yours, by the way, but they're purple;)

  • I LOVE that style of glasses! That's a good fashion choice.