this is me...im trying to get my ex back and yet i keep having Anxiety and panic attacks while i try to get in shape and whenever i try to do anything i have anxiety or a panic attack very bad. What can i do?
Thankyou so much for making these videos. You're a really nice person. I found your channel recently and had not really thought anyone felt the same as me, and didn't really have alot of material to help myself with. I feel like I've found a gold mine of helpful material.
Im really starting to think I have social anxiety...or maybe I know but don't want to belive it.
I recognize very much off what you are saying and alot other things.
When I started in a new class, everybody was new then and nervouse but I can't talk to new people so everything got screwed so I went to the toilet everyday in school. But now I'm like an robot instead. I dont know why i am writing this. Yeah bye!
thank you for your effort into putting these videos together. for a long time I thought I was alone, and as I got older I thought my social anxiety was just me dealing with the fact that I was gay andwas hiding it from everyone. I recently found out tat my life long emotional negativity struggles was called social anxiety, and typing in here on youtube and watching your videas has made me feel a little secure with myself for the first time. Thank you for the emotional support.
i left school and now im staying at home sitting infront of the computer all day i have no friends for 7 years im 16 now soon i will have to get a job and i dont know what to do with my life please tell me!!!!
@linusbomb don't be shy! :) you can do it! you can take the tiniest step forward, it's paradoxical but the smaller the step forward the better! I believe in you!
Thanks you for posting this video up... I have to act as a person with social anxiety disorder for my psychology class and this had help me. Thank you again :)
You are really into this stuff. I need to make videos like yours. Not many people on youtube with SA actually speak intelligently and as like a...counselor..as you do haha....im gonna make a channel about social anxiety.....yaa
@NoSocialAnxiety, You misunderstood me..xD. I meant therapy was too expensive . Your site is fine! :) And, I'll definitely use it and I wouldn't have a problem donating if it's for a good cause, which I know it is. And, I really appreciate your thoughtful response to my initial inquiry:)
Sorry for coming across in the wrong way in my previous response haha(Looking back, I would have misinterpreted it too) . Hopefully, this straightens it out :)
@NoSocialAnxiety, I checked out your site. You're right. It's very insightful. And, I appreciate your advice a lot. I'll try to develop a better self concept and overcome this phobia(possibly with therapy). Due to financial constraints, I'll probably have to stick to free online sources though...
@Chad19Gambit my site is free, making a donation is only optional. Was there something about my site that put you off? What was it? So I can change it. Oops. I'm sorry if my site gave the wrong impression?
Hey Emily: Today, I viewed this video along with another video you had made. While I believe that you're sincere and not trying to promote your site, I find that it'd be impossible for me ever to relate to you. A lot of your viewers have pointed out that you're VERY attractive(There's no denying that). Because of this very attribute, I'd be too afraid to approach you in any setting. In my mind, gorgeous individuals like yourself are superior to me. I wish I could rid myself of this..Advice?
@Chad19Gambit I'm not superior. And I have started writing a lot about this thing which I am calling "Appearancism" like Racism or Sexism, is all about some people being superior because of having a certain appearance. It's not true and it's all appalling. Sounds like a phobia of people who think they're superior + a certain appearance. You can overcome any phobia by c.b.t and exposure therapy. I've had this phobia too.
@NoSocialAnxiety But if someone really thinks they're superior to you for any reason & you are lowly as a human for any reason, they are so unworthy of you and you deserve a kinder, more substantial person to interact with or be friends with!!!!!! Someone believing they are superior to others shows that your social attitude is superior! We are all equals, everyones different, we all look different, AND we are all equals. Uniqueness is good. Abusive hierarchy is not.
@Chad19Gambit oh and I am trying to promote my site but I am sincere at the same time, there's nothing wrong with that. I think I've built a very useful, inspiring, large-sized, and helpful website! :)
are you the author of socially positive .com? if so its amazing cos you seem so bright for your i asume young age? thanks for your dedication im so thankful . Jon 29 from UK
im taking a positive psych class this year in college...hope it helps..apparently happiness comes from being really nice to everyone.....like a flaming homosexual
I recently started working on these problems. I hope I someday soon have the courage to say openly I have SAD. You are an attractive, valiant, and inspiring individual and I wish you only the best life has to offer.
Emily, you are the utmost example of a person with a life. Aside from the fact that you are well spoken and your reflections in the video, the sheer fact that you decided to fight your social anxiety shows you are an intelligent person who wants to be able to take advantage of, or not take advantage of, the same opportunities in life as anyone else. I grew up in an often hostile environment which caused low self confidence and extreme anxiety, social and otherwise. I recently started working on
You appear adorable and cute. You should focus on your positive qualities (as normal people don't have your qualities). Very polite, empathetic, sensitive, warm hearted, etc.
@yingdiskette You obviously want to fight, don't you? Why do you need to be like this? Emily helped many people in different countries all over the world ("fucked up" included ;) ), just check the comments here and on her page. Really, you are so baseless that I won't bother to reply to you anymore. Greetings from the most promising country for the next years!
Anybody else sort of happy that they found out what the disorder was? I was always wondering why it was so hard to socially talk to somebody. I just found out today that Social Anxiety disorder was my problem... Thanks Emily
Just want to say that I think you're beautiful, and I'm sorry that you have social anxiety and I hope that all who struggle with anxiety, or any mental disorders for that fact are blessed :)
Hey I want to say thank you for making these videos. I don't have social anxiety, but I know how it feels to be shy and left out and not look forward to school. It really helps to know I'm not alone. Thanks again. I will definitely subscribe!
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2 years of highschool I did online schooling. If it is available for you (a highschooler that might read this comment) I really recommend it. the school I went to is called IQ academy
@ernesdee2o916 She is. In some of them she has make up on her eyes which alters her appearence slightly. I've seen some really old ones were she looks more like this.
youre soo pretty :)
2KhelIe 2 weeks ago
this is me...im trying to get my ex back and yet i keep having Anxiety and panic attacks while i try to get in shape and whenever i try to do anything i have anxiety or a panic attack very bad. What can i do?
MandyHarmony 3 weeks ago
Thankyou so much for making these videos. You're a really nice person. I found your channel recently and had not really thought anyone felt the same as me, and didn't really have alot of material to help myself with. I feel like I've found a gold mine of helpful material.
Weenerbaneener 2 months ago
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Geardoodle 2 months ago
Im really starting to think I have social anxiety...or maybe I know but don't want to belive it.
I recognize very much off what you are saying and alot other things.
When I started in a new class, everybody was new then and nervouse but I can't talk to new people so everything got screwed so I went to the toilet everyday in school. But now I'm like an robot instead. I dont know why i am writing this. Yeah bye!
AlexandraLindahl 2 months ago
thank you for your effort into putting these videos together. for a long time I thought I was alone, and as I got older I thought my social anxiety was just me dealing with the fact that I was gay andwas hiding it from everyone. I recently found out tat my life long emotional negativity struggles was called social anxiety, and typing in here on youtube and watching your videas has made me feel a little secure with myself for the first time. Thank you for the emotional support.
SimoruhThis 2 months ago
I m in love with this girl...she reduced my depression to some extent....
pratheekraj747 2 months ago
Are you practicing NLP...conversational hypnosis?
Tokkitaco 2 months ago
ur cute
lilwayne450 2 months ago
i just found out today that i have social anxiety disorder
candyluvrs1ful 2 months ago
i left school and now im staying at home sitting infront of the computer all day i have no friends for 7 years im 16 now soon i will have to get a job and i dont know what to do with my life please tell me!!!!
yossijoeyX 2 months ago
Im so happy I graduated high school this yr....I was soooo shy.
GamingTvx1 2 months ago
I feel exactly same way as you did in high school . ! :/
mihaella95 2 months ago
@nosocialanxiety tell me not to be shy and I promise I will try not to be shy. I need motivation. Please
linusbomb 2 months ago
@linusbomb don't be shy! :) you can do it! you can take the tiniest step forward, it's paradoxical but the smaller the step forward the better! I believe in you!
NoSocialAnxiety 2 months ago
Tell me not to be shy in a comment and I promise I will try. I need motivation to it.
linusbomb 2 months ago
Thanks you for posting this video up... I have to act as a person with social anxiety disorder for my psychology class and this had help me. Thank you again :)
Gypsyviridian 3 months ago
You represent a perfect girl for me :) Thanks for helping!
voodoochild1029 3 months ago
brilliant as always
AmberMaloneAZ 4 months ago
You are really into this stuff. I need to make videos like yours. Not many people on youtube with SA actually speak intelligently and as like a...counselor..as you do haha....im gonna make a channel about social anxiety.....yaa
DesertSmeagle 4 months ago
@NoSocialAnxiety, You misunderstood me..xD. I meant therapy was too expensive . Your site is fine! :) And, I'll definitely use it and I wouldn't have a problem donating if it's for a good cause, which I know it is. And, I really appreciate your thoughtful response to my initial inquiry:)
Sorry for coming across in the wrong way in my previous response haha(Looking back, I would have misinterpreted it too) . Hopefully, this straightens it out :)
All the best,
Chad
Chad19Gambit 5 months ago
@NoSocialAnxiety, I checked out your site. You're right. It's very insightful. And, I appreciate your advice a lot. I'll try to develop a better self concept and overcome this phobia(possibly with therapy). Due to financial constraints, I'll probably have to stick to free online sources though...
All the best,
Chad
Chad19Gambit 5 months ago
@Chad19Gambit my site is free, making a donation is only optional. Was there something about my site that put you off? What was it? So I can change it. Oops. I'm sorry if my site gave the wrong impression?
NoSocialAnxiety 5 months ago
@NoSocialAnxiety Why is the socially positive 'audio' on your site password protected? =(.
TheNoookiie 4 months ago
Hey Emily: Today, I viewed this video along with another video you had made. While I believe that you're sincere and not trying to promote your site, I find that it'd be impossible for me ever to relate to you. A lot of your viewers have pointed out that you're VERY attractive(There's no denying that). Because of this very attribute, I'd be too afraid to approach you in any setting. In my mind, gorgeous individuals like yourself are superior to me. I wish I could rid myself of this..Advice?
Chad19Gambit 5 months ago
@Chad19Gambit I'm not superior. And I have started writing a lot about this thing which I am calling "Appearancism" like Racism or Sexism, is all about some people being superior because of having a certain appearance. It's not true and it's all appalling. Sounds like a phobia of people who think they're superior + a certain appearance. You can overcome any phobia by c.b.t and exposure therapy. I've had this phobia too.
NoSocialAnxiety 5 months ago
@NoSocialAnxiety But if someone really thinks they're superior to you for any reason & you are lowly as a human for any reason, they are so unworthy of you and you deserve a kinder, more substantial person to interact with or be friends with!!!!!! Someone believing they are superior to others shows that your social attitude is superior! We are all equals, everyones different, we all look different, AND we are all equals. Uniqueness is good. Abusive hierarchy is not.
NoSocialAnxiety 5 months ago
@Chad19Gambit oh and I am trying to promote my site but I am sincere at the same time, there's nothing wrong with that. I think I've built a very useful, inspiring, large-sized, and helpful website! :)
NoSocialAnxiety 5 months ago
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kr88881 5 months ago
are you the author of socially positive .com? if so its amazing cos you seem so bright for your i asume young age? thanks for your dedication im so thankful . Jon 29 from UK
jonsdlr 5 months ago
im taking a positive psych class this year in college...hope it helps..apparently happiness comes from being really nice to everyone.....like a flaming homosexual
DesertSmeagle 5 months ago
can I kiss you?
handsome0028 5 months ago
damn she's hot
Wowurgaylol 5 months ago
@Wowurgaylol thank you and so is everyone! ;)
NoSocialAnxiety 5 months ago
you are inspiring. thanks.
clearskymind 5 months ago
I recently started working on these problems. I hope I someday soon have the courage to say openly I have SAD. You are an attractive, valiant, and inspiring individual and I wish you only the best life has to offer.
TheTunesofMusic 5 months ago
Emily, you are the utmost example of a person with a life. Aside from the fact that you are well spoken and your reflections in the video, the sheer fact that you decided to fight your social anxiety shows you are an intelligent person who wants to be able to take advantage of, or not take advantage of, the same opportunities in life as anyone else. I grew up in an often hostile environment which caused low self confidence and extreme anxiety, social and otherwise. I recently started working on
TheTunesofMusic 5 months ago
I <3 your videos. i just might make 1 of my own
kusaekusae 5 months ago
You are very smart.
MrTransam1987 6 months ago
You appear adorable and cute. You should focus on your positive qualities (as normal people don't have your qualities). Very polite, empathetic, sensitive, warm hearted, etc.
oliver2855 6 months ago
You appear adorable and cute. You should focus on your positive qualities (as normal people don't have your qualities).
oliver2855 6 months ago
I cant believe it... you just basically explained half my life <.<
PhantasyStardumb 6 months ago
she is sooo reading this (o.O)!'
HolaMexty 6 months ago
what you do for a living?
klickkzam 6 months ago
Great, just another fake idiot, faking a condition that many have to endure on a daily basis in this world.
yingdiskette 6 months ago
@yingdiskette Check out all her work, dumbass. Emily is for real!
crieiessacontaagora 6 months ago
@crieiessacontaagora That is precisely what I am talking about, her "work" as a fake. Go fix your fucked up Brazil next time, dumbass.
yingdiskette 6 months ago
@yingdiskette You obviously want to fight, don't you? Why do you need to be like this? Emily helped many people in different countries all over the world ("fucked up" included ;) ), just check the comments here and on her page. Really, you are so baseless that I won't bother to reply to you anymore. Greetings from the most promising country for the next years!
crieiessacontaagora 6 months ago
@crieiessacontaagora Im not the one spouting in YT on her behalf, so the one looking for a "fight" is undoubtedly you.
Brazil the what in a couple of years? Hahaha, are you insane? I ought to know, I have visited there many times.
yingdiskette 6 months ago
Anybody else sort of happy that they found out what the disorder was? I was always wondering why it was so hard to socially talk to somebody. I just found out today that Social Anxiety disorder was my problem... Thanks Emily
Pivotman1 6 months ago
Just want to say that I think you're beautiful, and I'm sorry that you have social anxiety and I hope that all who struggle with anxiety, or any mental disorders for that fact are blessed :)
alksoei12 6 months ago
have good day hugs
MrBrandonhawk 6 months ago
have good day
MrBrandonhawk 6 months ago
Thank you I have Social Anxiety and this helped me so much! You are so brave to put up these videos!
AFaULTLinE11 7 months ago
yessss!a new video!!thanks Emily!
missmarafiota 7 months ago
Some people think about all these things and figure them out for themselves. Others post it on the internet to help others. Both are normal.
CAlex6977 7 months ago
Hey I want to say thank you for making these videos. I don't have social anxiety, but I know how it feels to be shy and left out and not look forward to school. It really helps to know I'm not alone. Thanks again. I will definitely subscribe!
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Rezaulpiash 7 months ago
2 years of highschool I did online schooling. If it is available for you (a highschooler that might read this comment) I really recommend it. the school I went to is called IQ academy
MouthOfTheUnknown 7 months ago
I am so grateful not to still be in high school.
Dilaltastic 7 months ago
you look great emily, good to see you back! :)
angelsnk28 7 months ago
thanks for doing these.
xxIronyManxx 7 months ago 17
What about getting jobs im 20 and have only worked for my parents how embaressing
eLLriDe420 7 months ago
@eLLriDe420 i wish i could work for my parents :/ but my mum is a houseuwive...and my dad works at an organisation
ktcsca 7 months ago
anxiety does suck, you can't stop it. even if you try
Holycrapperoni2416 7 months ago 2
Love you, Emily.
omgbygollywow 7 months ago
Emily is beautiful. thumbs up
thank you for sharing your stories
tylernautica 7 months ago 48
naww I wanna hug you!
Jendor3000 7 months ago
Im new to your channel I can't help but notice from your old uploads to your new uploads you look really different. Are you the same person?
ernesdee2o916 7 months ago
@ernesdee2o916 She is. In some of them she has make up on her eyes which alters her appearence slightly. I've seen some really old ones were she looks more like this.
dannysquirrel 7 months ago