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  • I agree with everything you said :) and whats with all the haters commenting, she is just stating her own opinion.

  • also, which person is perfect in life?

  • ha! guys will be guys, learn social skills you dope, can't you get on with people?

  • I just found you randomly! And I've been watching all your videos!

    You are so absolutely gorgeous! And you're one of my top 5 favorite gurus<3

  • Just sorta ran into this video and holy eyebrows batman! lol :)

  • PS:

    Males probably won't see you for 'you' just a sex object probably.

    Females (the shallow ones) will just want to know where you get your hair and nails done.

    And 'potential phedophiles' may hunt you down in one way or another.

    You've got balls (so to speak) I'll give you that.

    Look up 'class of 99' if you haven't seen it already, you might learn something.

  • I can appriciate what your trying to

    Do (don't let anyone tell you otherwise) but from my perspective you need a little more life experience on this huge planet we call 'earth'. Before you start dishing out advice.

    But hey what do I know ? Lol .....

    All I know is your gonna look back on this video in 10-20 years and think - "I really didn't know that much!" lol.

  • MARRY ME

  • I just saw your video and I was shocked that you said it doesn't matter your age to have sex. You know young people are watching this and they know think it's ok to have sex at any age why? because you said so that's not right you need to correct that.

  • i feel like i have a connection to u by just watching ur videos even tho i dont know u in real life... probably because i find so many things in common... my parents also got divorced when i was around 13-14 ... im also not a popular girl cuz i tend to talk less and i dont go to party at night... i mostly just study and spend time with my bf and we've been together for almost 3 yrs

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  • You gave really good advice(: my parents divorced when i was 4 so i didnt understand why i wouldnt see my dad around alot but then my mom explained to me and i used to feel like he didnt love me thats why he left but as life went by i looked at it as a positive thing and now im happy&so r my parents i guess it was meant to be. but congrats to yoo &your boyfriend!!!((:

  • Can i just ask how old are yuh? not to be rude or anything :/ <3

  • goood answers!

  • u r really gorgeous looking girl i have ever seen..... i have a question to u ... please answer it...my girlfriend and me broke up 2 months back ... i was loving her soo much but she cheated me... i am looking forward to have a new true relationship ,, can i get some tips from u please....

  • my dad met my mom when she was 15 and my dad was like 16 or 17 and they started dating,never broken up and are now married and been married for 15 years. and my brother is 16 and his irlfriend is 15 and they have been together for 3 years lol im proud of my family

  • What do you do when you were dating a dude and he breaks up with you but he still acts like he likes you, texts you and you still like him verry much! But you dont wanna flirt cus he broke up with you :L So idk what to do...

  • when is ur birthday?and ur bfs?

  • Are you engaged i see a ringgggg :):):):):):):)

  • I'm 14 and I really like my boyfriend but we went out for 2 weeks and broke up got back together for 3 weeks and broke up about a week ago he told me at school he loved me and he wanted me back infront of all his guy friend I told him ok but I don't know if we will just brake up again I don't want to go through that what do I do?

  • I really really liked this video and how you were very real and didn't hold back. Your answers were very good:)

  • you're so pweetyyy!

  • omg Kayleigh!!!! did i found you bf tag video???

  • drunken thoughts are sober words ;P

  • You are a very beautiful girl..I really admire and respect u as a person...

  • It's rare to find such a beautiful girl on the outside and inside. Your classiness is wonderful. It's nice to know there are girls like you still in this slutty world.

  • Who are you dating?

  • @gaBehcuoDsuoitneterP my boyfriend of 4 years

  • My parents got divorced when I was around 12, and now I feel like I don't ever want to be married, because I don't want to have to go through that. Did you ever feel that way?

  • I know this is random but I think you'd look amazing with short hair like Shannyn Sossamon

  • could you do another life video on being the "new" girl in school. cause im going to be a new girl in a big highschool and i just kinda want some advice. haha

  • Omg i know.... well my bf wants to get married young but sometimes he can be a bit immature, i.e. he gets mad at the dumbest things. But besides that hes really sweet and hes a great man.

  • how old r u ????

  • This was really sweet and down to earth of you. <3

  • how do you convince your parents to let you date and be with the guy you've been secretly dating for a year without any break-ups, and you both know this relationship is real and serious,and both 16 years old?

  • @Inac83 I second this.

  • how long have yu && yur bff ben 2getha

  • i always have flirty guy friends that say all these cute things we talk a bunch and etc. but we never take it to the next step cuz we dont feel that way about e/o. how do i get the guy to feel that way about me?

  • I need a girlfriend like you. Pretty, mature and kind. It's sexier than being hot.

  • I heard you say that your parents were divorced, did you have any brothers and sisters that were around your age at that time???

  • @mlruther2727 yes :) and thats what kept me going !

  • when you said you were saving yourself that made me smile :)

    your the few youtubers who actually believe in saving yourself!

  • i became best friends with this guy and i had no attraction to him at all and when i got to meet his friends and hang out with them too i began to like his best friend i could tell that he liked me too but im alittle shy when it comes to stuff like that. then my best friend asked me out and i turned him down and stopped hanging out with them and they both stopped talking to me. now that its summer i cant stop thinking of that guy i liked though any advice???:/

  • i love how you are being so real in this vedio

  • im your new boyfriend

  • You are so down to earth, :)

    

  • Hi what program do you use to edit your video???

  • i want to know what your bf looks like lol!!!

  • @jonasbrotherfanatic check out my facebook page the main link is on my main channel page :D

  • i'm gonna be a grammar freak and let you know that detrimental doesn't mean what you thought it did when you said it lol. it means damaging; i think you meant essential or necessary. but i'm gonna stop being a dork now haha.. i think this is a good idea and this is the first time where i've watched this and thought that you actually seemed like yourself. i think you'll really be able to help people cause you give good advice. cool idea sista! :D

  • @BrookeClarisse lol you know me using words in the wrong way all the time hehe ! but thanks :) ive been trying ! I hope i will be able to help ppl 2

  • @ForeverYours0727 i know, most people probably won't even notice, but i just thought it was funny cause i could see you thinking about what word you were trying to say and you just ended up with the wrong one haha. but yeah people love you on here, they'll definitely love this idea :)

  • @BrookeClarisse lol i know when i do these videos nothing is planned at all i just like start talking !

  • Oh sweet! I'll be 20 on july 15th.

  • @Ellyb1bubby I'll be 16 on july 15th:D

  • How old are you if you dont mind me asking :)

  • @Ellyb1bubby im 20 !

  • you are very sweet great answers

  • @paula19762007 thank you :)

  • or find the other who could accept and love your flaws

  • @blehsensation true

  • hi! :) so umm i get jelous alot and i hate it and my boyfriend always tells me that he doesnt want anyone else but i just cant help and feel jelous when he looks at other girls

  • So I just started going out with this guy but idk when I should kiss him because ive inly had few boyfriends before should I do it when we hug goodbye one day or something idk please help

  • @RawrrrImaDinosaur1 you should let him make the first move like that :) and when he does, show him you are ready and go in for the kiss !

  • a gay i lov Is gonna have hiis B-day tomorrow !! what can i give him !!

    but we are just friiends !!

  • Ok well...first off hi lol and now my question.I live with my boyfriend he's my second longest relationship we've been together 1yr now I'm his first real relationship everyone else before me was like just flings/booty-call type girls. He says that he thinks I'm beautiful and pretty but not hot. That the word to him means someone you want to sleep with (i.e. slutty) not someone you want a relationship with. Am I crazy or is that weird I've never heard that explanation and it frustrates me.

  • @gigglebox2188 dont be frustrated by that ! that is a wonderful thing for a guy to say. That means he really appreciates you and truly respects you in and out. He loves you and thinks you are beautiful. I can completely understand how the word hot could be used to lower your beauty to him. That is such a great compliment to you ! :) you should be so happy !

  • I am a really shy person what do u think I can do to become more confidence and I don't have any firends to talk to. So what do you think I can do?

  • I need help with this one guy who confuses the hell out of me. He's told me he liked me but I've only known him for two years while his on and off gf/best friend has known him forever and I think he can be a sweet guy he's just confused because he can't choose between us, what do you thinks going on in his head and what do I do?

  • Pleaase Please Please Please do a video about self confidence ,inner beauty..and how to be comfortable with who you are , love your self and be a positive person.Thank youuuu.I love your videos..Great Idea

  • @thePrettyPrettygirl cool :) that might be my next topic !

  • i have a question for your next video

    do u believe in love at first sight?

  • when was your first boyfriend?

  • @Horseluvrgal0707 matt is my only real first boyfriend lol all others (like 8 maybe ?) were just like flings for two weeks and we never did anything except MAYBE kiss and go on dates i HATED till i broke up with them lol

  • Why do you have to be with someone who is flawless? There is ALWAYS going to be something you don't like about a person. Every person in my life, whether it is my boyfriend or best friend, there is something about them I don't like. Trying to find someone who is flawless isn't a good goal, because you will be alone forever.

  • @toxiclullaby64 lol well i found someone who is flawless. Not ONE thing i hate or dislike about him. I love everything. Not everyone is perfect, i understand that. Im not saying that matt is perfect (well actually he is lol !) I just LOVE everything about him-- even things he hates about himself i love it. So i think girls should try to find guys like that too :)

  • Hi, I like 1 guy but he has girlfriend, but the problem is that he is always fighting with her and other thing is like he is paying attention on 1 of my ex Bff she knew that he likes me, and after we fight she start talking with him just for make him break up with me, and the friendship that we started has ended just for her comments, he ignore me and he dosen't greet me like weeks before, and the problem is that maybe they both like !! when i see them talking i am very jealous ! what i can do ?

  • oh and i like this new guy but i dont know him should i tell him i like him or no?

  • i was going out with this guy but he thought i was cheating so we broke up then we got back together but he keep flirting with girls but now were not together but he still flirts in FONT of me shoukd i not be jealous?

  • what do you think are the steps you need take in a relationship and how fast you should take theme. I am in high school and its kind of strange moving to fast or to slow with all the pressure.What do you think!!!!!

  • Cute hello kitty!

  • So I like this guy and he might like me but I'm getting mixed signals. One day we can't stop talking the next we just sneak glances and never talk at all. should I keep likeinf h or move on?

  • these videos are such a good idea....i live with my boyfriend and i have since i turned 18....so i love hearing about relationships and advice for them to better my own!!!....i lovee your hair here!!

  • @sexaygrl721 cool ! and thankyou ^_^

  • hi :) so im 18 and i have a bf and we r about to make 6 months bt i feel like he doesnt open up to me so i dont feel comfortable openning up to him what should i do? i told him about it bt he says he is not used to openning up period

  • hi! ok, so i've really liked this guy at my school ever since sophomore year and now we're seniors. I've always given him signals like smiling at him and sometimes I can tell he seems to like me back. I'm obviously not going to go to him and ask him if he likes me or not because I'll just make a fool out of myself because I'll turn pink the moment I see him, I can barely look at him and keep eye contact.

  • sorry, have to use this too because its too long..

    He doesn't look like he'll come ask me either because, well, i guess you can say he's kind of a dork. lol but in a good way. but schools out in like a month and i just want to know what to do.. I've asked a lot of people but they've never help me out at all. one more thing, prom's like this sat. and i just found out he's going but doesn't have a date.

  • what should i do so that he'll come ask me to dance? i need help lol..

  • @hyorin92 girl.. you gotta go ASK HIM yourself. Sometimes boys are so COMPLETELY clueless n have no clue u like them or that u even exist sometimes. So make yourself exist ! Go up to him and introduce yourself-- you will NOT make a fool of yourself. trust me. Otherwise, if you do nothing, you will end up going to prom alone too. You will never know what he would have said to you.

  • @hyorin92 He might really like you and you two could go together ! There is nothing to lose--- go do it ! get ur confidence up ! guys like confidence :) he will completely notice you and think about u more than any other girl if you go up to him. (it worked with my bf )

  • Hi, I am really concerned. My friend has just broke up with her boyfriend and they were together for 6 months. I really like him and he likes me too. Should I go for it or give him up for my friend? If she was my friend wouldnt she let me date him and not try to make me give it up? I mean SHE is the one that ended the relationship. Im so cofuzzed.  But this guy is also my best friend and I feel like I really have a conection.

  • I really want her to break up with him but she always refuse to listen. She says she loves him and she can't just leave him cause he's the love of her life, btw he used to be so sweet and nice when she was skinny but not anymore (after the weight thingy) how can I convince her that he's not good enough and worth the time?

  • @miamormeama yeah alot of guys are concerned with looks. it happens. i would recommend the same thing you are-- to tell her subtly that she needs to find someone who loves her no matter what

  • My best friend Sarah used to be skinny, now she's over weight. Her bf loved her so much but when she gained the weight he started to make bad comments and jokes about her body, I remember once we went to the beach and he said to her ''Why did you wear that pikini? It shows so much and what the hell your boobs are so huge that they are covering all your stomach!'' He said that infront of his friends and us too..He's treating her like shit but she says she loves him & he's the love of her life :/

  • I feel like guys only care about sex...Im a freshman and in the beggining of the year I had sex with some guy at a party that said I was "pretty" and I fell for him cause Ive always hated myself and thought all guys hated me. Now he ignores me and is dating this girl I hate and I had a pregnacy scare too. It seems like they always look at me and laugh on purpose to make me feel bad. I cried one time in front of the whole cafeteria and they laughed....

  • hii(:

    so im 15 and i haven't had a real boyfriend. i know its not expected in high school, and i know im still young, but i see a lot of the girls at my school with their boyfriends and i just wish that i could have somebody by my side, too. so i was wondering, how do you talk to guys and start a relationship with them?

  • aww youre so sweet and cute!

  • yeah I know huh? but i'm so scared to get my heartbroken again hmmm it sucks.. thanks so so much for replying.

  • awesome video, you give great advice thankx;)

    btw loving te hello kitty blanket

  • ok so I really liked this guy and my best friends boyfriend was friends with him so he talked to him and I got the guys number and we strted textin eachother like everyday. after a week he asked me to hang out and we did. I was so excited but there was one problem, we had nothing to talk about. we were just sitting there the whole time and luckily my other friends were there and gave us stuff to talk about. What should I do next time we hang out and have nothing to talk about? Please hellpppppp

  • my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years a few months now. its been such a struggle becuase believe it or not, people dont like to see me happy. every since i was diagnosed with alopecia, people have always tried to mess with my happiness. people always tell my boyfriend that he should leave me because im sick. and sometimes we end up aruging because i let it get to me. i dont know what to do. i honestly have zero friends. my bf is the only friend i have. i feel so lonely

  • Question 1 can be true but iv been with my Boyfriend 2 years so when i was 13, and im now 15.. but he loves long term, and hes just like me. Not being horrible though i know what your meaning..

  • @LishBABES if you listen closely i said "most guys" are the way i described-- not all

  • cute video(:, you give good advice!,X

  • You will never know if a guy is gonna be with you for the rest of ur life no matter how good he is. I have my 1st bf when I am 18. I am shy and quite quiet but a lot of guys confessed to me but I just wanted to concentrate on studying. I am not ashamed or anything cause teenage love is (most of the time) not gonna last for long and I just want sth serious. Still I am an Asian and I am quite old-fashioned so I want to keep my virgin till I get marriage.

    So enjoy ur single life, young girls!

  • im kinda shy .. and i have a guy in my school that i'm really interested on. but , i dont know him :c

    when i walk on a place where he is, we look at each other. but i dont know if he just look for look , you know ..

    can you help me , please ?

    btw : i really enjoy your videos and this is an amazing idea (: love you <3

  • @lovemeorshotme hey ! i am not going to answer this in the video but thought i should tell u what i thought real quick- if you are unsure if he is looking at you just to look or if he is looking at you because he likes you THEN GO FIND OUT for yourself girl ! Be confident and brave. Go up to him and introduce yourself or start off asking for his name and say that you have seen him around-- maybe he could walk you to your next class and get to know eachother.

  • @lovemeorshotme the only reason me and matt started dating is BECAUSE I ASKED HIM FOR HIS NUMBER !!! lol he wasnt making the move so i made it first :) trust me it works !

  • what is formspring?

  • thanks for doing this video, and helping girls out, and sharing your values and morals!! <3

    xoxox

  • @adelat084 answer it on my comment box on my page.

  • @adelat084 send it in my comment box on my page & once i read it i'll save it on my computer then erase it on my comment box.

  • I've been dating this guy for almost 6 - 7 months. we broke up once for about a month. I'm a freshman he's a junior. I lost my virginity to him and he really means alot to me, I'm the only person he's ever said I love you to and for me the same. he always talks about our future and being together for a long time, I kinda want to know if he's bullcraping me, I just need as much advice as I can get <3

  • i am sorry to ask you this,

    if you get offended or something..

    but when did you lose your virginity ?

    i mean what age?

    i have decided not to lose it till i get married! :)

    i am too conservative in that way :P

  • @Lubbcookie 18

  • @Lubbcookie --I want to congratulate you for wanting till marriage to give up the precious gift of virginity. I am 25 and a virgin. I have chosen 2feel loved just by the way a man looks at me, and treats me. I do not want 2feel loved ONLY when we have sex. I want him to do unexplainable things to make me feel loved-I want to feel completely in love just with simple things-and for him to feel i am his princess because of the way i smile and speak to him--etc

  • @adelat084 o yes :) i really don't want to lose it before :( i mean i feel pure :P i have been with my guy for 1 and a half year.. and we are going steady :) he's damn sweet, he does everythingff or me ,and he's so funny :P!! i hate it when girls sleep before their marraige :( i mean my opinion, but it's their LIFE! but i find it weird. it's against my morals ! :) and i am happy that even you have been following that ! :)
  • yay I love watching your vids!! hope you get partner soon :)

  • @xrleex me too !

  • ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half and i love him like crazy but for awhile now he has not done any of the cute romantic things he did at the beginning of the relationship he says that he loves me sooo much but he never shows it and sometimes it feels like the words just arent enough. i would really like your opinion on this..... thanks love all your vids tryed to cute my bangs lol i messed up a lil haha lol but they were cute thanks

  • @cheerwiz2294 o no ! hope they look okay !

  • Well i have a question see i'm gay and i know your a girl but id still like your opinion one of my ex boyfriends wants to get back together with me and he is very persistent because he wants to prove to me that he has changed and i honestly do believe him because he has been acting different but in a good way but im scared if i date him again he might fall back into his own ways what do you think i should do? btw i LOVE your video's :)

  • @MHarvard01 thanks for much ! and thanks for ur question ^_^

  • @MHarvard01 oh and for some advice-- i would say if he is promising you that he is a changed man than i would take his word for it. There is no harm in trying out the relationship again-- you can always break up if its not working out ^_^

  • no se mucho ingles... pero quiero contestar algo, es verdad q los hombres solo queremos sexo y tratamos a las mujeres como objetos, pero si no fuese asi, las mujeres serian todas lesbianas... si les gusta eso, sino no tendrian de que quejarse con sus amigas.... si un hombre fuese comprensivo y todo eso, seria el amigo y no el novio... asi que vamos!!! saquemonos las caretas!!!

  • I'm so glad I found my boyfriend. I know what you mean about guys though. I'm lucky with mine too. And I've been told so much that I'm too young to be "in love," but I'm almost 16, and I feel like I've found him. I've been with my boy for more than 2 years. I don't know how long it will last, but I'm hoping it will. He is just the person I want to be with.

  • @GMRowed OMG I GET TOLD THAT ALL THE TIME. it annoys the hELL out of me. I just tell people that i found my soulmate early. Its rare but hey it happens ! Congrats on your relationship-- i hope all stays well ^_^

  • @ForeverYours0727 Ugh, I know. It can get so irritating. And thank you =] Good luck to you too. =D

  • do you think that its okay if the girl is 2 years older than the boy ? and they both are fine with it, but still I am not sure. well he is the nicest person I've ever known in my life

  • aww i like this video!

    Thanks for having these types =]

    looking forward to future ones!

  • Hey I really need help... How do I get over a big looser and jerk whom is also a womanizer plus my baby daddy uggghh sorry but i need advice

    THANKS

  • @loveme4everish hey ! i would say go find a different man that will take your mind off of the loser guy and make sure this one treats you right, because every woman deserves it !

  • Question of the month : Since facebook and twitter are so popular now, is it acceptable if a guy asks you to be his girlfriend through texting, emails, facebook and so on instead of asking you face-to-face?

    my situation is somewhat like this. my friends are telling me like this is how relationship are established now but my parents tell me that it's pretty disrespectful and if he won't do this if he were really a man just wanted to know your opinion! thanks!

    love you btw, you are so pretty!

  • hey what lipstick r u wearing in this video ?

  • @sweetncutehonesty maybelline born with it

  • Hi so me n my best guy friend recently dated n i broke up with him,he was the most amazing bf ever,when we were bff he was realy good 2 me,i guess i broke up with him b/c it was the fact that im actually dating my bff and tht scared me,after da breakup things changed, i feel like i lost my best friend :( ive always thought of him as more than a friend and i miss him he was a gentlemen and the sweetest guy ive ever known and i want a 2nd chance with him shld i tell him? :) thanks ure so sweet!

  • @XxX7cutiepie7XxX aw dont be scared to think that its ur bff-- go ask him out again and say it was a mistake- you thought too much into the relationship and now you are ready to fully commit.

  • my best guy friend HATES my best friend and he always says mean things about her which i dont really like but sometimes can be true and i hate admitting it... i honestly dont know what to do :S it just makes me so confused and leaves me feeling dishonest about everything ):

  • Whats your advice on long distance relationships? how do u make it last? also, would you ever go out with someone that u truly love but your parents dont want you to be with them? Who do you pick, your family or your boyfriend?!

    Please help me!

  • @kookiesncreamx great question ! i will for sure be answering this one ! thanks ^_^

  • please continue to do these i love you :D

  • can you tell us how he proposed i would love to know u really seem to love him and etc ! :) and love u and ur videos :)

  • wow! you give out alot of good advices here..I complete agree everything u said.

    You should make more good videos. I like it <3

  • you are amazing! sooo beautiful both in and out<3

  • You're such a cutie! and you seem really genuine, and we have like the same opinion on everything haha. im 19 and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and the way you talk about your relationship is just like mine. i know exactly what you mean! haha

    keep it going girly! you are probably gonna help alot of younger girls out there :)

  • @jessika212121 hope so !!

  • Aw I love your advice! and I'm lucky also b/c I found someone who I've been with for 4 years and he's only into serious relationships =) <3

  • i havent had a b/f in a LONG time cause all these guys out there just ant one thing and i'm not that type of girl that will give it up like that. I need to feel comfortable with a guy and know he's gonna be there for me thru thick and thin. For all you girls out there that are young, please don't settle for the pretty face, that face can become ugly in some 10 years, please find a guy thats worth your time. You won't regret it.

  • Wow, that's a great idea! =)

  • How do you get older guys to like you?

  • hey, hope you had a good birthday. how old are you now? and can you make a vid with your boyfriend!!?

  • @neggs26 20, and already tried and was unsuccessful lol

  • @ForeverYours0727 even my birthday is around the corner! :)

    may 9th!

    and i am going to turn 20 too! :)

    hope you have good birthday :)

  • I've been dating my boyfriend for six months, and we've known each other for about two years (he's my brother's bestfriend!). The problem with us, is we both feed off of each other's insecurities because we are both very insecure about ourselves. We constantly fight about stupid things that have to do with those insecurities.. anywhere from jealousy, sex, etc. Do you have any advice on how to not be so insecure and just relax around the one you really love?

  • @AmandaSarp those kinds of things happen when you love your partner so much because you want them to be all yours and no one elses'. You just need to learn together to TRUST each other. It's all about communication and trust in a relationship. Once you can conquer those two things your relationship wont have those problems any more.

  • theres this guy that i kinda like right now but hes not the best,his 3 years older than and he smokes and does drugs but i know that he only does it because he has a hard life.but anway my mom would never let me date someone like that but im tired of her holding mwe back,and he says that he loves me but i never know if hes just tryin to get luckey becuase he has that repitasion and cheating.what should i do?

  • @101foreveryoung my boyfriend used to do drugs and party a lot because it let him hide from his past. he got through it and doesn't do those things anymore, he needed to get it out of his system. I don't know how old you are, but I'm 21 and so is my boyfriend, we've been through our ups and downs about his past, but the love is stronger than his past. Be CAUTIOUS, don't jump into things too fast, and always be honest with yourself if things aren't going the way you need.

  • Great job in answering these questions!! =)

  • you look JUST like jayde from The Hills.

  • so your a virgin or not ? and if not what age you lost it .. if you dont want to get personal its ok i understand but if you dont mind i wuld like to know jus to know a good age. i would love for someone to be honest and i understand if its personal