One of the neglected aspects to this is that if you're a semi-normal guy who's vaguely attractive and has a job, you get a load of messages on this site as well from desperate women. It's not like it's a one way street, though I'm sure women still get more overall.
There's always going to be someone worse off than you are so if anyone gets genuinely flattered by people sending them messages on a site like Ok Cupid then they need a bit of perspective.
This chick is EXACTLY why fellas you're wasting your time trying to get chicks online. These girls nitpick EVERYTHING and the irony is that they themselves are nowhere near perfect.
Maybe about two years ago I realized that OKCupid and sites like it are basically like the elephant graveyard in the Lion King..its where all the scraps are left to rot. Chicks with 3 kids (at 20 yrs old), the overweight, the marginally attractive, and the emotionally damaged.
well it's obvious why this girl is single...well besides the fact that you have to grow out of goth when you are lik 25...please, it's pathetic, even to other former goths.
She mumbles like my 80 year old granny. She dresses so goth If she was running down the street, id be like, "which funeral are you late for" She wants a guy in an iron maiden tshirt that doesent say whatsup? eh bruce dikinson himself hasent met that guy yet. If they ever invent goth e-harmony she might have better luck screening out the infidels. till then i reccomend she go to alot of tool and marylyn manson tribute band gigs.
I can't really hear you that well...from what I can hear it's pretty good stuff! Thanks so much for posting but speak up...your really helping us out with good info :)
there are so many angry guys that dont get laid posting insults to this girl. As a guy who has had a healthy sex life I am guaranteeing you clueless chumps that if you pay attention, she is actually giving you valuble information that can help your game with girls and you have an opportunity to stop pretending you know everything, and learn something that can help you stand out from the other guys.
(Continued from below) Furthermore, if we are being honest here, yes, it is about physical attraction and you guys know it, too. If a woman isn't attracted to a man immediately, nothing is probably going to come of it. So, when a woman does not respond to you, she isn't being a so called bitch. She is not wasting her time, or yours. In fact, she is doing you a favor. Just to add one more fact, when a man can't spell correctly, it's a major turn off.
@ewanfraser I agree. I do not believe she deserves to be called derogatory names because of her honesty. I disagree with the majority of the comments on here about women using OKCUPID in order to boost their ego. I have signed up a couple of times with that website during the past couple of years. I received perverted messages and emails with only phone numbers. Shouldn't there be some type of an introduction? Hello?! Why would a woman call a man when she doesn't even know his name? Ridiculous.
OK I had to stop after 3 minutes because the audio of this video is worse than the grammar of the messages you receive. *DELETE*
You do bring some interesting points, but what is a guy supposed to say? Apparently "I like music, bla bla" is boring, but half of the -women's- profiles sound just like that. Ironic, isn't it. I'd love to see the day when women have to struggle to write a remotely-interesting message to get a guy's attention for a change. So much for the gender equality movement heh?
@eggiex1 Thank you! I actually take time to READ girls profiles. I always keep the messages short & sweet. I don't really do any of the mistakes on the video, I have a good profile and I'm handsome, yet I NEVER get any replies. I agree gender equality is dead. If dating was more feminist, dating would be more equal, but many girls (and guys) don't like this, because they'd loose their special privileges.
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I found this video to be very informative. It is a perspective that I dont see as a man on a dating site. Now I know the context in which my messages to women are seen. She wasn't mean at all. She seems like quite a sweet lass. Thank you Kalodalmon
It's a truth we gotta accept that dating websites are usually like a buyer's market for women because there are so many men outnumbering them...which is why women feel so in control of the "market". That's part of the reason they can manage being so picky.
The funny thing is that this girl is like a 6 lmao all that attention makes you believe you're extremely attractive but you're really not you need a tan you look like the girl from beatle juice too and it's easy to compare yourself to all the fat and ugly chicks where i'm from you're barely average looking I don't care if my grammar isn't perfect in this comment so don't even use that against me because i know i just wasted my time writing this right now just wanted to give a reality check bye
You are just like the typical Americunt that Tom Leykis talked about time in and time out during his tenure on LA FM radio: picky, stuck up, frigid, manipulative, attention seeking BITCH. American women SUCK. Foreign women blow your skanky ass out of the water.
@kalodaimon Girls like you are a dime a dozen. The kind of guy you want likes to play games, pick up women, treat women like crap, sleep around, etc. They do everything they can to impress and win you over because they're not mature enough to just have an actual conversation with a girl and get to know them like a person. This video shows me you're not a grown mature woman and you're not ready for something real, which is typical for a girl your age.
@GeneralHoohah And what pisses me off is dating sites and services are FULL of immature girls like you who clutter up search results with "women" who want a "relationship", but aren't ready for one. And its not just girls your age. Half of them are females in their mid to late 30's and beyond who don't have a clue and haven't grown the fuck up yet. They don't want something real, they'd rather waste everyone's times convincing them self they want something real. Its pathetic and annoying.
@kalodaimon Like most women on this site, you're incredibly picky, anti-social, and unrealistic. By establishing that you have a lot in common with someone in a first message, that opens the doors for an a long list of conversations. You have to get over your self and get to know some of these guys or you're going to be lonely for a long time and probably end up with douche bags who don't respect you. Wake up and look for something real, not someone flashy who's going to sweep you off your feet.
You're complaining about spending your day "answering messages" on OKCupid???
I should be so lucky.
That's the trouble with you women- you have all the choice, and have the luxury of just sitting back while the proposals pour in. You don't have to lift a DAMN finger.
To add salt to the wound, you're just average-looking, while I'm actually GOOD-LOOKING, but I STILL have to work like a pig to attract attention on that site to no avail.
@ejdf870 you said it yourself, women just use it just as an ego boost. You're not the only one who has used this site and been disgusted by how women act on it. It's definitely not you but the bitches on there who act just like this twit in the video.
And therein lies the main weakness of all of these dating sites- girls are given this virtual lineup of hundreds, thousands of men, and rather than trying a guy out via an actual DATE, like they used to, they think 'maybe I can do better'- which is fine, but you really need to set your standards at Earthly levels. What the hell do you girls EXPECT guys to say with an opening line to a girl they DON'T KNOW? Why is the pressure all on US? How fascinating are YOU to judge US?
@sonbuhitsunei Absolutely. The arrogance of these bitches is positively sickening. That's what happens when you play a game that is inherently rigged against men- like "dating sites".
I guess I, too, would rarely answer a message on OkCupid if I had HUNDREDS of dogs spilling compliments to me and competing for my affection.
@ejdf870 Why I'm torn between understanding where they are coming from, and utter disgust. I get messages from tons of girls who I have no attraction to (I mean, I am not that shallow, but these girls are just disgustingly fat), and I still have the decency to at least say Hi unless it's one like the latest message I received which simply read 'Hey sexy', from a very obese girl. That one I ignored. But generally, I respond even if not interested. No excuse for the arrogance of some of them!
All I can say is, beware the arrogance that can creep up on you when you are perceived as attractive. Beauty fades- all women look the same in 50 years, and what you're left with is what counts. Yes, you have the advantage of being a female, which automatically places you as a target for countless males. That's how nature works. BUT, if you pass over perfectly good guys because they can't WOW you with one opening paragraph is a sure recipe for dying alone.
ur so bug eye and just average looking and youre so stuck up plus you look like a very boring person, no offense lmfao I almost feel sorry for you ALMOST
I get responses, but nothing ever comes of it. I met one girl and we hung out and out of no where her boyfriend shows up and then it was really awkward, I was just sitting there like uh is he in on this did she just get busted. Anyway your hot where do you live, I'm needing a girlfriend and I have more things to say other than I like music and cats and dogs lol. Kick me a message if your still single.
You might seem physically attractive. However, in the fairness of being objective, basing off of this video alone you have a very timid and unappealing personality in which one can hardly inspire any intelligible conversation to be pursued. Regardless, I agree with the other commenters who have noticed that you constantly complaining about simple perceptions you have of others while deflecting any possible flaws that you might have is very shallow and quite hypocritical, rather a bitch complex.
Yeah this proves why OKCupid is shit. (or maybe any dating site really.) short sited, shallow bitches like you get dates simply because you are a woman.
Can you please talk more clearly. For an "intelligent" lady you do not seem to be articulate. It's funny how online dating gives the feeling of power to those who don't deserve it.
kalodaimon, you are completely uninteresting, unattractive & just plain annoying. How old are you? Seventeen? I couldn't take more than a minute of your dribble & then I noticed that you have like a doz en other videos off to the right side of the screen.
this is basically what all online dating services are for, dudes. don't be fooled. they're just so average-looking (and usually not very bright or interesting either) girls can lather up in attention they have no intention of reciprocating.
I don't know how to break this to you kalodaimon, but you don't seem more interesting than they did. The trick in conversation with strangers is to remain friendly, just start throwing words out there and see how they respond.
Lots of people are interesting IRL, but won't seem that way when they can't see the other person's facial expressions while speaking to them. Facial expressions play a role in conversation till you know a person better. Till then, be patient, meet people, THEN decide.
@campos8904 I do believe that posting videos on the internet and expecting people to watch them is the sign of a large ego, whereas pretending that everyone else around you has low self esteem is a sign of someone with low self esteem. Really, I got sick of people complaining and thought this would be a nice explanation for all of the guys who wonder why no one answers them. It's just efficient.
@kalodaimon the only reason you posted this video was because you got a whole bunch of messages from guys. if you never would have gotten any or just a couple then this video would not exist right now.
Putting anything anywhere and expecting people to look at it or watch it is indeed the purest form of a person with a large ego. We call them Attention Whores.
@campos8904 Honestly, I think women join OkCupid, not to meet men, but to get validation from them so they can feed their ego and feel good about themselves. It's a therapy site, rather than a dating site.
@ejdf870 agreed, most women will absolutely not reply to anything on there. I used it for awhile and found this to be the case. It will make you very cynical of people after awhile and I suggest to guys they don't use it.
See, I don't know. Dumb, ignorant or uninteresting as they may seem, guys are still people. So I think they at least merit a, 'sorry, I'm not interested' message, just so they know. It just takes a few seconds to respond and I mean, I'd rather someone just tell me right off the bat.
i agree with insomnia100, some girls just like to feel attracted to and they feed on it and also have personal issues with insecurity so they need guys always messaging them, showing interested and for them to treat the guys like a bag of dirt..i hate girls like this, you may be hot but your a worthless piece of shit from hell..
@insomnia100 Amen. 98% of the women on there even when your polite and witty don't even respond. It's a horrible site if your a good guy looking to find a decent girl.
Here is a message to you in this video stop being a stuck up american women like you act like. Get a life ! Alot of us men have woken up we do not need you and your money hungry ways.By the way to all, those dating sites suck and so do the people who use them.
I couldn't make out a lot of what you were saying in this video. maybe you need to project your voice a little more and enunciate better, or maybe your mic just sucks, I don't know.
i assume that you associate horrible grammer with stupidity while most of the time that may be true but i have horrible grammer but i also have an IQ of 187 i see no need for proper grammer because you can still understand what i am typeing after all what is considered proper grammer is just someones opinion but on a side note i can tell you are not the most intellegent person ive ever seen
you mumble terribly. i don't mean to give you unsolicited advice and it could be just something you do while you tape a youtube video, but it would be of tremendous value to you if you enunciated your words and didn't mumble. the hair flicks are annoying too.
All that scowling, frowning and shit. No way I'd put up with that shit if you were my girl. I'd kick your ass to the curb quicker that you could say "I'm sorry".
You say you have no time to respond to any of the messages, yet you make a video about those messages. Yes you are being mean, theres a reason why everyone is on there!
@Bitemeartzombie Hehe. It is harder to make time to answer messages from people I have no interest in admittedly. Given that it's normal for women to ignore most of their messages like I do, I think it's an issue with the messages and people sending them.
@kalodaimon It's true they do ignore most of their messages. No mater how well written or interesting. Not responding to drab messages (or vulgar ones) is one thing, just flat out ignoring so many people is just damn rude. Luckily not all woman are rude. My girlfriend (who I met on there) isn't one of the rude ones.
I have to agree with this. I had just created a profile and only had time to upload ONE PHOTO before I had to to go work. I came home later on to more than 20 messages from random guys saying how interesting I was.
My match scores were 0%, 0%, 0% because I had answered NO QUESTIONS, done NO TESTS, and had NOTHING on my profile... and yes these people found me interesting?
Clearly all they were interested in was getting in my pants.
I ALMOST feel as if I'm "cutting in" on a conversation between you and g01148 but I'll proceed nevertheless. I find you fascinating and borderline hypnotic. Is that strange? And if so, would you consider me a freak? And if so, is a freak a bad thing to you? I consider it a compliment actually, as I would NOT want to be like everyone else even if I COULD.
Hehe, I have plenty of room for conversations with everyone, though I could see that. Based on previous commentary, no. That depends on the degree to which that extends. That depends on the type of freak. As long as you don't develop any intentions of stalking me and turning me into a skinsuit or something, I wouldn't worry about it.
You're very amusing in addition to being hypnotic(NOT "cute").No,I like the character of "Hannibal the Cannibal" but I dont act like him(Or those other serial killers from "Red Dragon"{And "Manhunter"}, and "Silence of the Lambs" who WISHED that they could be as cool as Hannibal). I guess that the reason that I thought of the whole Freak designation was that I watched "The Dark Knight" earlier and I remember Joker describing himself and Batman that way, and I thought,"It's better to be a freak".
Andrea, do You have *hypnotic* look!? Connect with Youtube leaderships and compel them to change color of backfield, say them: peoples cant normally work in company of such inhuman environment. Really.
Looks like new page of history of Your YT life: relationships: Andrea (Kalodaimon (still) and viewers. How to get to Colossus head without *special trainings*. He-he. Colossus And Kolkhoz. Колосс и Колхоз.
I do not remember from the history of previous videos that You - for two consecutive video - talked about the *complexity of *distinguished* spectators*. Perhaps, you remember?
The rest about: *collective farm* (which meaning Your viewers) and *giant bronze statue of Greek ancient Solar God Helios* (which means You). I am comparing these two structures. Everything reports not in viewers benefit.
He-he-he. Peoples jumping around You, like monkeys around Darwin. They dont now for what, they only now its *fashionable*: who jump high enough can get into book Jumpy, Jumpy *Andrea, Andrea Im here, look at me!* You look They A-ha-ha Yea Old, classic story, with dust on it surface.
Hahah this a defenit lol! And they wonder why they cant get girls easily in person. The dating game is bassicaly the same weather it is doing it in person or online. Thats a mistake most make.
Yes that is true but what I was trying to say was that people are the same no matter were you meet them. Online and in person both have the same feelings, interests, likes and dislikes. So trying a different approach online is most likely going to give you the same outcome as in person.
Sorry I wasnt so specific last comment btu I hope you get what I am trying to say now.
Yes, that's quite true, although I think it may be slightly more challenging to quickly get out an good idea of your personality soon enough in real situations to make them work.
I think so; I just choose to take a different interpretation.
Well if thats the case then sending a "Whats up" (as you mentioned) as a message is no excuse cause at least online you have all the time to write and edit a message.
The point is that if you send short, uniteresting and boring messages to try and get someones attention it is not going to work.
Hehe, indeed. Of course, it might help that I was previously aware of your existence in a way that didn't make me want to run away screaming in horror, which is quite an accomplishment really.
Indeed it is, especially as it's full of people who write messages about nothing and sometimes even lack a full sentence and/or a correctly spelled word. Of course, I only answer about 1% of VF messages due to the ever so high quality of people there, so OkCupid must be slightly better than that.
Haha. Well, then, you are accomplished in that I actually enjoy and desire conversation with you, when a lot of the time with most people I kinda have to tell myself not to judge or look down on them just because I am CLEARLY smarter than them... and more humble. :-P
I have no proof to support his, but those with very little to say I assume have sent a carbon copy of said bland message to every other girl they have come across on said site looking for a quick fix to getting laid.
Oh good, we clearly have a lot in common then with that. ...I meant, except that I don't have that problem at all, especially because I'm clearly even more humble than you are and therefore have managed to convince myself that that doesn't happen to me, because it doesn't when you don't talk to most people.
That seems likely in most cases. On the other hand, I think most of my terrible messages are custom made just for me, which might be possible on account of their brevity.
Look at their actions and the stuff they upload, not what they say. Is it their own material? Is it interesting to you? I like people who upload their own stuff and are not propped up by someone else who records their videos for them, does their lighting and sound and edits them. It makes me feel like those people are being exploited somehow...
I take it you're referring to youtube profiles? I briefly mention it at the beginning, but it may not have come through clearly that I'm referring to OkCupid, which is a dating website.
Ignoring that, that's an interesting take on youtube videos. I've never watched any that I noticed weren't one person recording, or perhaps two collaborating. I would think of them more like actors, although I see your point.
Yeah, that's the distinction between those who are openly or secretly collaborating. I guess I thought maybe OkCupid had video profiles. I don't know. I haven't checked. I'm not a good source of advice about that sort of thing. Have you thought about getting paid to promote them?
You get a lot of messages. probably more after all your subscribers hunt you down on OKCupid.
Do you find it strange that you have to reply to someone that is clearly interested in you? And, do you just get those types of messages? Or are there types that just want to talk out of nothing more than wanting to talk?
Except the profanity and bad sentence stricture, the guy talking about your guitar would give you something to talk about.
Two statements and three questions; I'm doing well. Ha.
No, they aren't the talkative type, I think. It's happened, which I always find interesting.
Not particularly, as I generally assume they aren't, unless it's obvious, which I realize is ridiculous. I tend to get an influx of interesting people with odd questions, as well.
No, nearly everything he said was profanity. 'Twas horrific, wanting to make me gouge his eyes out. I was more intelligent at age 5.
See, you know your okcupid message is bad is when it's outdone by a youtube comment.
They might be less likely to talk to you on such a site if they haven't done so here.
Hehe, it is ridiculous. Ah, so it's not all bad, and your profile does raise questions that would allow for odd questioning. More questions; do the people messaging you take any heed of the match percentage? Does it mean anything? I'm only a 94% to myself...
Oh my, he sounds like the Genghis type. Such a comparison is a complement, you know.
That's only because I'm not tying to nervously introduce myself.
That's true. I've found that people are more likely to talk to me outside of youtube. I think it's understandable, as I would probably be the same with most people I watch.
I would ask about the odd questioning, but I suspect you'll get around it yourself in due time. I think they do, although I find the friend percentage to be a better indication. 'Tis because that's your maximum.
Hehe, I think he lacked the attractiveness for that, more of a stupid loser.
Indeed, although with me, all but one person I talk to has come from me talking to them on youtube first.
With so many messages a week, a barrage of odd questions might take up too much time. I've found the friend and match percentages to be about equal; but in everyone I've seen, it has been a worryingly low match in either. Ah, I see.
That could just mean he had was bald. And yet he still thought he had a chance.
Hmm yes, but most of those aren't interesting enough to answer, which wouldn't be the case with you. It seems to vary significantly for me, between a thirty or so percent difference to almost nothing. What would you consider worryingly low?
Hehe, I was referring to his mental abilities, but yes, he did have sort hair and terrible fashion sense.
Nothing, about the date my youtube account was created, was the time I got the internet.
I might have to go through your profile with a notepad open, typing questions that come to mind, hehe. Hmm, that must be due to the amount of questions you've answered. I'd say about <80% on either friend or match is worrying low for me. Is that realistic?
Yikes, a significant fail, if ever I heard of one.
By typing all day, everyday; yes. Talking is a different matter.
It might be that, but it may also be that I've encountered significantly more people. Oh my, that actually is realisitc. Hehe, I wasn't expecting that. I wouldn't require the friend bit to be so high, as it's generally lower in my experience, which makes no sense really.
Hehe, indeed.
You might try to include some talking then. You might find similar success. I think so.
Paint, read, school and play computer games. And no social contact of any kind.
A picture will do that. I wonder what will happen if I put an Orc picture up. Hm, that might just attract some freaky girls. Yay, for once I'm realistic. Indeed, I wonder if there's a place where the site says how the percentages are calculated, in detail.
Everyone I talk to happens to be overseas, this counts out talking.
Someone would mark it on flagmod, and it would be promptly removed. Thus, you would have to put a real picture up. Considering how much you believe you look like an orc-troll-hunchback, that should work equally well, if not better. I believe there is. Good luck finding it.
This is what video is for. Talking doesn't require reality.
Yes, I got all excited after posting that comment, I went to do it; only to see a long list of what not to upload. Not even a painting of me. Ah yes, but then people might be attracted to me, and I can't have that, no matter how hideous I am. No worries, I shall prevail.
I can't see that happening. But even if I do make a video, you won't be happy until I wear make-up too. I see your game, mhmm. Anyways, if I'm just talking to myself, I can't see what benefit recording it would provide.
You clearly can't be as hideous as you wish to be then, otherwise you wouldn't be worried.
Of course not, but that doesn't mean I can't try to convince you. No, I wouldn't try for make-up in addition to the video on account of how much success the video would be an indication of. It provides the benefits of review and sharing, of course.
There is probably a person you could ask about that. Heh. Even if I'm not hideous, which I am, it wouldn't hurt to wish for it all the more.
I'm more likely to wear make-up than make a video; and the make-up is unlikely. Anyways, I already made two videos, mhmm. Methinks you would after a certain amount of videos. Review; I can see benefit. Sharing; not so much. I still rank text as my preferred method of communication.
You mean yourself, of course? It also means there's nothing stopping you from posting pictures, as long as they clearly highlight such ugliness.
That doesn't mean you shan't one day end up doing both. You weren't in those videos, thus they clearly don't count. I disagree, as there likely wouldn't be many videos. Sharing, not so much? Hmm, perhaps you're correct, and I should stop making youtube videos. Mhhmmm. Hehe. As do I, but that doesn't make the others worthless.
Nope, another actual human. Once I finish my journal, you may realise who it is. There'd be no mystery in that, I like to let imaginations fill in the gaps, 'tis more fun that way.
Make-up when alone and bored, perhaps, yes. I could delude myself it's a form of art. I got confused and held it the wrong way around, sorry. Indeed. I can share via text, is what I meant. Oh no-no-no, you mustn't stop making videos, I'm clearly being hypocritical. Hehe. If you're good at both, do both. I'm not.
With that hint, I suspect I already do. Perhaps, considering how brillantly ugly you've made yourself out to be, I shall likely be disappointed to find out that you aren't at all deformed.
I think you could manage to be good at both. You certainly wouldn't know, considering you haven't tried. I suspect I could persuade you, if I really wanted, but it would be rather cruel, so I shan't. I'll try anyways. Videos without picture? Then we can hear your amusing accent and believe you to be hideous.
Yes, that was certainly very cryptic of me. I could argue that a guy wouldn't notice such things; I didn't notice tunic man was wearing a horrible wig, for example.
Make-up would be good after a bit of getting used to working in a mirror. I suspect if you did, I would become inflexible, even to your will. Hmmnno. I don't think I have an amusing accent, if one at all, that might be something answered by another too. Worry not, you're not the first to fail at seeing me upon request.
Yes, but you would be likely to notice your own face being deformed or not, as others would have pointed out your orc/troll face to you very often.
Or getting used to putting pointy objects by your eyes. Yes, that seems likely, although it wouldn't be worth the necessary persuasion, so you you haven't anything to worry about. It's more a matter of being able to think of a way than wanting it done. Oh no, that would be failing at hearing, not seeing, and 'twas a test, not a legitimate try.
I doubt schoolboys are that reserved. Mhhmm, you delude yourself about your fellow Englishmen, I am quite certain.
I think you should be familiar enough with my successful methods of persuasion to realize it lacked the characteristics of legitimacy. Believe what you wish, however. Hehe.
I think schoolboys know they'll be savaged if they dare insult a beastly looking man like me and are therefore reserved out of fear. I'm idealist about my fellow Englishman.
I figured it was a shortened attempt, given the text limit. Hmmmyyes... I defeated you, I did.
Hehe, I'm really much more patient than that, and I rather like pretending that you look like an orc troll. Perhaps in the event that I ever might see you, you could apply some appropriate facial prosthetics so an not to disappoint.
And you clearly will have an accent to me, unless you're secretly America, which you aren't.
A commendable amount of patience. Hmmm, it's meant you scare you and others away. Your make-up skills extend to prosthetics? Very nice and you can help me in my striving for disfigured perfection. In the instance that I'm not already disfigured, of course.
My accent isn't very pronounced. Unless I want it to be, speak rapidly or raise my voice (rare).
Why is it intended to scare everyone away? Surely you couldn't expect me to be scared away by such disfigurement. Oh no, my make-up skills don't extend that far just yet, and I was expecting you to apply to prosthetics prior to me ever seeing you in order to maintain your image.
I can't imagine you would ever allow it to sound Americanized still, which would make it pronounced enough to me.
I naturally do, and I like to scare people away, to avoid talking. I really do expect it would scare you away, I would hope so at least. I don't think I need prosthetics and would draw your attention away with a man-skirt.
No, never an American accent, how awful. It probably would be noticeable to you then, if you noticed London accents very obviously when here.
To avoid talking is slightly unreasonable, although I can't having agreed with you in the past about that. Why would you hope so? How peculiar. You probably couldn't manage that even with a manskirt, but that doesn't mean you can't try.
Precisely. Of course I noticed them very obviously. Hehe.
Yes, I must be like a younger you, prior to being social. I prefer to be thought of as hideous when talking to girls, it means they only care about what I have to say and nothing more. You shall be distracted by excessive clothing, plus my coat will have a deep hood for concealing myself in. Hehe.
It's hard to work out what I sound like. Methinks my voice is deeper than it sounds in my head. Going to many types of schools means I've neutralised any obvious regional London accent too. Methinks.
Yes, sixteen year old me would have agreed with you on nearly everything. 'Tis mildly scary. Hm, that implies that you're pretty. I still prefer to be thought of as hideous when talking to males, but it tends to fail. Hardly, I have a habit of looking people in the eyes, though I would surely notice the clothing. Hmph, I think the use of such a hood might induce ridiculous forms of protest in reflex.
It probably is. I always get surprised when hearing males over the phone for that reason.
Then a sixteen year old you was most wise. I was thinking more of a nineteen-twenty year old you. Oh no, that was not my intention; I joke about things, but they are based in reality, therefore I really am hideous. Yeah, that will always fail miserably. I think of you as a cat, if that makes you feel any better. Eye contact? Ha. I'm rather expert at avoiding eye contact, hehe. To which you'll hear giggling from deep within the good.
Me becoming social occurred at 18. 19 year old me was quite insane in a different way. But yes, I rather like 16 year old me. It would be nice to still be that naive, I think. I probably wouldn't think so, hehe, recalling that I like deformed creatures. You should be trying to convince me that you're pretty to achieve your goal. I expected so. I don't count you as a normal male, as you wouldn't be creepy regardless. The hood would probably induce a subconscious pouting reflex at its unfairness.
Yes, but I'm human, so that's different, in a bad 'ew' kind of way. Oh? Oooh, I have amazing abs... yeah, I can't put much effort into saying something I don't believe. I'll go too far down the deformed route to make you react the way you should. I would be mildly offended if you did class me as a normal male. Haha, you pout? I probably wouldn't see it, due to the hood. Or if I did, my training to take interesting photo's as second nature would kick in.
More like three months...perhaps. It was combination of suddenly talking to people, living in a dorm that allowed me to then shut out the world entirely, ending my first relationship, and being crazy in a being suicidal in a crazy hippie way.
Haha, are you now implying that you're fat? I doubt it. As you should be in that case. Oh, you surely would see it if you weren't blind. I'm naturally quite disgustingly cute, but I usually hide it well. This is why I'm offended when people call me cute.
Oh dear, how terrible. This would be an "aww hugs" moment with most other girls. Hehe.
Me? Fat? haha. I think not. I weigh about the same as you + a handbag. Indeed I am. I can easily see how., but what's wrong with being cute? Less people wanting to hug you because of it.
You don't like being called cute, you sometimes wear make-up to be less attractive. For someone so naturally gifted, you must see how odd it is. Odd to me at least, because you're going in the wrong direction.
Hm yes, it does sound quite terrible, but I rather enjoyed it in a way, as I rather like emotion, and I would consider that time a to be some of my favorite.
Precisely, which suggests that your abs really can't be that bad. Haha.
How? Being cute is just...um...incompatible with my intimidating and baby sacrificing image that I keep outside of youtube.
How is it going in the wrong direction? I do see that it's odd in a way, but I'm surprised more people don't agree in other ways.
I can relate to it being very interested in how the brain acts during such times. But I wouldn't have thought enjoyment was a factor.
Indeed, I don't have amazing abs that can be seen from space though.
You look it. And your Slaughter video was that way too. I think that just makes you even more... yes.
Take you and I as a scale. You're = 10 : I = 0. Now, people normally wish to move up towards 10. It's rare that someone wants to move down the scale when already at the top, no?
Being a like a crazy hippie who wants to become one with the spirit of the universe by dying and running around enjoying the souls of trees while freezing for hours on end is a rather blissful experience, even if induced by negative circumstances.
Those abs would be creepy.
Oh failure, maybe no one else has noticed...
Normally people have no interests aside from attractiveness. Uglier people tend to have superior personalities and morals, example you, so it isn't really moving down but up.
Haha, Yes. I'm cornered and therefore must agree that it was a complement. You must now also agree that I am indeed hideous.
It surely needs a stretch every now and then. Is that even possible? I suppose that being online, people can say it and not worry about you taking a swing at them.
I'll agree because it's meaningless coming from me and forces you to take the compliment. Hehe.
Yes, it's quite possible when you prevent anyone from knowing what your face looks like starting at the point when people tend to find each other attractive. Also, prior to that I was apparently intelligent enough to scare people away in that age group. Hehe.
It's the only type of complement I'll gladly take. 'Tis a strange feeling being praised for a perceived negative.
Only if you went to Abbarth standards of make-up coverage would you be able to hide the fact. I don't think raccoon-level would have been enough. I'm clearly wrong, however.
I always found the younger intelligent kids highly amusing. I thought of them as wise dwarves. It's now even more amusing thinking of you like that, hehehe.
No, it was quite easy to hide. I kept my hair in front of my face to a large degree, as well. No one really knew what it looked like that well, and I still get comments on it from people who've only recently seen me again. Raccoon level is enough to hide from most people.
Hehe, an amusing image. Children in that age group who are less intelligent rather are afraid of the wise dwarves.
Ah, The Ring look, I can see how that could also be scary. I'm rather impressed at the levels in which you manage to hide. I might be biased, as I like excessive make-up on people. (not me)
Hehe, it does seem unnatural for them to express knowledge bigger than their body.
Hehe, indeed. I had some aspirations to specifically dress up like the girl from the Ring after I saw it. I put quite a bit of effort into it then. You likely are, and you haven't seen my raccoon look.
Agreed. I can't think of any complement I'd take well, other than one directed at my attire. But that's fine as it's not me the person is complementing.
Hehe, most excellent. You could do it all the better now, given your excessively long hair. I've seen enough of your make-up variations to be able to guess what it looked like and it's still fine. Do you ever miss it?
Why wouldn't you take them well? Yes, attire hardly counts.
I do, but I've come close to recreating it in kind lately, though not on youtube I think. It was more like black eyeshadow covering my eyes and their underneath entirely with some a large amount of liquid eyeliner that wasn't even noticeable to make the actual eyelids ever blacker.
Being praised would elevate me, I find that concept uncomfortable and at odds with me enjoying being humble. Indeed, it's also telling that the person complementing has nothing to say about the person wearing the attire. Although that praise is acceptable.
Nostalgia is always nice. Oh my, that sounds wonderful. I had thoughts that it also extended to almost over the bridge of your nose too.
Why should that be so uncomfortable? You might get used to it eventually. An interesting take. I think they sometimes choose to compliment attire, as it's a more acceptable and less awkward type of compliment.
Hehe, not I think not...well, a bit but not the entire thing.
Hahaha. Indeed, that was amusingly removed from reality enough to be funny, though creepy on second consideration. It also reminded me of an amusing comic image that I've always rather liked.
That is something I'm unsure about. I don't like the idea of being good at something, perhaps, as it lead to having to be compared. I don't think so, I'm so seldom praised meaning that I shan't become used to it. Oh yes, I haven't considered that.
Well then, that's far more conservative than I thought. Mhmmm.
Hehe, I hoped you wouldn't take it too literally. I think I might be blacklisted from adopting. Hmm, that has something to do with children and BDSM? What kind of comics do you read?
YOU LOOK LIKE ONE OF THOSE GIRLS THAT CLAIM THEY ARE "FRIENDLY", BUT DON'T ANSWER A SINGLE FUCKING MESSAGE!
MRFAMAS17 1 week ago
One of the neglected aspects to this is that if you're a semi-normal guy who's vaguely attractive and has a job, you get a load of messages on this site as well from desperate women. It's not like it's a one way street, though I'm sure women still get more overall.
There's always going to be someone worse off than you are so if anyone gets genuinely flattered by people sending them messages on a site like Ok Cupid then they need a bit of perspective.
bandmedal 2 weeks ago
This chick is EXACTLY why fellas you're wasting your time trying to get chicks online. These girls nitpick EVERYTHING and the irony is that they themselves are nowhere near perfect.
Maybe about two years ago I realized that OKCupid and sites like it are basically like the elephant graveyard in the Lion King..its where all the scraps are left to rot. Chicks with 3 kids (at 20 yrs old), the overweight, the marginally attractive, and the emotionally damaged.
ShivaTheAuspicious 3 weeks ago
and the TRUTH!!!!! at 3:05 lolz..
persianboy153 1 month ago
well it's obvious why this girl is single...well besides the fact that you have to grow out of goth when you are lik 25...please, it's pathetic, even to other former goths.
GreenLightMe 1 month ago
She mumbles like my 80 year old granny. She dresses so goth If she was running down the street, id be like, "which funeral are you late for" She wants a guy in an iron maiden tshirt that doesent say whatsup? eh bruce dikinson himself hasent met that guy yet. If they ever invent goth e-harmony she might have better luck screening out the infidels. till then i reccomend she go to alot of tool and marylyn manson tribute band gigs.
SummernlightningUSA 1 month ago
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SummernlightningUSA 1 month ago
I can't really hear you that well...from what I can hear it's pretty good stuff! Thanks so much for posting but speak up...your really helping us out with good info :)
hellnbk 1 month ago
there are so many angry guys that dont get laid posting insults to this girl. As a guy who has had a healthy sex life I am guaranteeing you clueless chumps that if you pay attention, she is actually giving you valuble information that can help your game with girls and you have an opportunity to stop pretending you know everything, and learn something that can help you stand out from the other guys.
SummernlightningUSA 1 month ago
@SummernlightningUSA I can barely believe that someone actually posted an intelligent comment on this video.
kalodaimon 1 month ago
@kalodaimon thanks. it was nice having you spend the night but I have to get ready for work. I left your cab fare on the dresser.
SummernlightningUSA 1 month ago
@SummernlightningUSA Your a good man...they are just boys! Thanks for actually haveing a brain!!
hellnbk 1 month ago
I would like this video a lot more if you took the time to quickly reply "I'm not interested, but have a good day!"
That's what I do, and I think it's kinder.
EmeraldSky33 1 month ago
(Continued from below) Furthermore, if we are being honest here, yes, it is about physical attraction and you guys know it, too. If a woman isn't attracted to a man immediately, nothing is probably going to come of it. So, when a woman does not respond to you, she isn't being a so called bitch. She is not wasting her time, or yours. In fact, she is doing you a favor. Just to add one more fact, when a man can't spell correctly, it's a major turn off.
TheRedWineGal 1 month ago 2
@ewanfraser I agree. I do not believe she deserves to be called derogatory names because of her honesty. I disagree with the majority of the comments on here about women using OKCUPID in order to boost their ego. I have signed up a couple of times with that website during the past couple of years. I received perverted messages and emails with only phone numbers. Shouldn't there be some type of an introduction? Hello?! Why would a woman call a man when she doesn't even know his name? Ridiculous.
TheRedWineGal 1 month ago
OK I had to stop after 3 minutes because the audio of this video is worse than the grammar of the messages you receive. *DELETE*
You do bring some interesting points, but what is a guy supposed to say? Apparently "I like music, bla bla" is boring, but half of the -women's- profiles sound just like that. Ironic, isn't it. I'd love to see the day when women have to struggle to write a remotely-interesting message to get a guy's attention for a change. So much for the gender equality movement heh?
eggiex1 2 months ago
@eggiex1 Thank you! I actually take time to READ girls profiles. I always keep the messages short & sweet. I don't really do any of the mistakes on the video, I have a good profile and I'm handsome, yet I NEVER get any replies. I agree gender equality is dead. If dating was more feminist, dating would be more equal, but many girls (and guys) don't like this, because they'd loose their special privileges.
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MrTLand11 3 months ago
I found this video to be very informative. It is a perspective that I dont see as a man on a dating site. Now I know the context in which my messages to women are seen. She wasn't mean at all. She seems like quite a sweet lass. Thank you Kalodalmon
ewanfraser 4 months ago
What an insecure bitch.
CelticKraut 4 months ago
It's a truth we gotta accept that dating websites are usually like a buyer's market for women because there are so many men outnumbering them...which is why women feel so in control of the "market". That's part of the reason they can manage being so picky.
ccricers 4 months ago
If it were not for people like me you'd either be speaking German or a lampshade somewhere.
MaxamillianArturo 6 months ago
The funny thing is that this girl is like a 6 lmao all that attention makes you believe you're extremely attractive but you're really not you need a tan you look like the girl from beatle juice too and it's easy to compare yourself to all the fat and ugly chicks where i'm from you're barely average looking I don't care if my grammar isn't perfect in this comment so don't even use that against me because i know i just wasted my time writing this right now just wanted to give a reality check bye
themyth117 6 months ago
You are just like the typical Americunt that Tom Leykis talked about time in and time out during his tenure on LA FM radio: picky, stuck up, frigid, manipulative, attention seeking BITCH. American women SUCK. Foreign women blow your skanky ass out of the water.
jcris785 7 months ago
@kalodaimon Girls like you are a dime a dozen. The kind of guy you want likes to play games, pick up women, treat women like crap, sleep around, etc. They do everything they can to impress and win you over because they're not mature enough to just have an actual conversation with a girl and get to know them like a person. This video shows me you're not a grown mature woman and you're not ready for something real, which is typical for a girl your age.
GeneralHoohah 7 months ago 3
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GeneralHoohah 7 months ago
@GeneralHoohah And what pisses me off is dating sites and services are FULL of immature girls like you who clutter up search results with "women" who want a "relationship", but aren't ready for one. And its not just girls your age. Half of them are females in their mid to late 30's and beyond who don't have a clue and haven't grown the fuck up yet. They don't want something real, they'd rather waste everyone's times convincing them self they want something real. Its pathetic and annoying.
GeneralHoohah 7 months ago
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GeneralHoohah 7 months ago
@kalodaimon Like most women on this site, you're incredibly picky, anti-social, and unrealistic. By establishing that you have a lot in common with someone in a first message, that opens the doors for an a long list of conversations. You have to get over your self and get to know some of these guys or you're going to be lonely for a long time and probably end up with douche bags who don't respect you. Wake up and look for something real, not someone flashy who's going to sweep you off your feet.
GeneralHoohah 7 months ago 4
Your voice sounds horrid, what the hell have you been smoking.
Beurself777 7 months ago
what's up ?
ir0n2541 8 months ago
typical bitch on this website who just uses it as an ego boost without the intention of anything else. What a pathetic loser.
paintedship 8 months ago
You're complaining about spending your day "answering messages" on OKCupid???
I should be so lucky.
That's the trouble with you women- you have all the choice, and have the luxury of just sitting back while the proposals pour in. You don't have to lift a DAMN finger.
To add salt to the wound, you're just average-looking, while I'm actually GOOD-LOOKING, but I STILL have to work like a pig to attract attention on that site to no avail.
ejdf870 9 months ago 9
@ejdf870 took the words right out of my mouth
ichibakudan 9 months ago
Anyone who thinks it's going to be easier to get a woman on OKCupid than it is in real life is in for some SERIOUS disappointment.
I'm a good-looking guy who frequently turns heads, but after 3 weeks on OkCupid I have not gotten ONE SINGLE note of interest from ANYONE.
Just WHO are these super-human men that are actually getting courted by women on this site- who???
By the way, women are EVERY BIT as visual as men- don't let them lie to you.
ejdf870 9 months ago 3
@ejdf870 you said it yourself, women just use it just as an ego boost. You're not the only one who has used this site and been disgusted by how women act on it. It's definitely not you but the bitches on there who act just like this twit in the video.
paintedship 8 months ago
And therein lies the main weakness of all of these dating sites- girls are given this virtual lineup of hundreds, thousands of men, and rather than trying a guy out via an actual DATE, like they used to, they think 'maybe I can do better'- which is fine, but you really need to set your standards at Earthly levels. What the hell do you girls EXPECT guys to say with an opening line to a girl they DON'T KNOW? Why is the pressure all on US? How fascinating are YOU to judge US?
sonbuhitsunei 10 months ago 4
@sonbuhitsunei Absolutely. The arrogance of these bitches is positively sickening. That's what happens when you play a game that is inherently rigged against men- like "dating sites".
I guess I, too, would rarely answer a message on OkCupid if I had HUNDREDS of dogs spilling compliments to me and competing for my affection.
ejdf870 9 months ago
@ejdf870 Why I'm torn between understanding where they are coming from, and utter disgust. I get messages from tons of girls who I have no attraction to (I mean, I am not that shallow, but these girls are just disgustingly fat), and I still have the decency to at least say Hi unless it's one like the latest message I received which simply read 'Hey sexy', from a very obese girl. That one I ignored. But generally, I respond even if not interested. No excuse for the arrogance of some of them!
sonbuhitsunei 8 months ago
All I can say is, beware the arrogance that can creep up on you when you are perceived as attractive. Beauty fades- all women look the same in 50 years, and what you're left with is what counts. Yes, you have the advantage of being a female, which automatically places you as a target for countless males. That's how nature works. BUT, if you pass over perfectly good guys because they can't WOW you with one opening paragraph is a sure recipe for dying alone.
sonbuhitsunei 10 months ago 3
i would meet you, we would fuck, but that's about it
yodaddyxx 11 months ago
i have problems with women like her.they keep saying "i thought you loved me you basterd! i didnt know you had a wife??? dont leave me!!!"
mrtogomaster 11 months ago
Wow, you sounds like my third grade grammar teacher. I'll totally pay you to mark my message red with what I'm doing wrong!
btakita 1 year ago
ur so bug eye and just average looking and youre so stuck up plus you look like a very boring person, no offense lmfao I almost feel sorry for you ALMOST
razorsedge022 1 year ago
Way to go grammar warrior!
JaySherminFilmCritic 1 year ago
I get responses, but nothing ever comes of it. I met one girl and we hung out and out of no where her boyfriend shows up and then it was really awkward, I was just sitting there like uh is he in on this did she just get busted. Anyway your hot where do you live, I'm needing a girlfriend and I have more things to say other than I like music and cats and dogs lol. Kick me a message if your still single.
parsleysprigs 1 year ago
You might seem physically attractive. However, in the fairness of being objective, basing off of this video alone you have a very timid and unappealing personality in which one can hardly inspire any intelligible conversation to be pursued. Regardless, I agree with the other commenters who have noticed that you constantly complaining about simple perceptions you have of others while deflecting any possible flaws that you might have is very shallow and quite hypocritical, rather a bitch complex.
crimsonsamuraiftw 1 year ago
Look no further baby, prince charming exists!
voivodian09 1 year ago
Yeah this proves why OKCupid is shit. (or maybe any dating site really.) short sited, shallow bitches like you get dates simply because you are a woman.
orchote 1 year ago 2
Can you please talk more clearly. For an "intelligent" lady you do not seem to be articulate. It's funny how online dating gives the feeling of power to those who don't deserve it.
shaq4lyfe 1 year ago
kalodaimon, you are completely uninteresting, unattractive & just plain annoying. How old are you? Seventeen? I couldn't take more than a minute of your dribble & then I noticed that you have like a doz en other videos off to the right side of the screen.
WTF?!
bobhuber 1 year ago 4
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you are a stuck up bitch that fails at life
WilhiAces31 1 year ago
this is basically what all online dating services are for, dudes. don't be fooled. they're just so average-looking (and usually not very bright or interesting either) girls can lather up in attention they have no intention of reciprocating.
terrasweet 1 year ago 2
I don't know how to break this to you kalodaimon, but you don't seem more interesting than they did. The trick in conversation with strangers is to remain friendly, just start throwing words out there and see how they respond.
Lots of people are interesting IRL, but won't seem that way when they can't see the other person's facial expressions while speaking to them. Facial expressions play a role in conversation till you know a person better. Till then, be patient, meet people, THEN decide.
StinkyCheese9999 1 year ago 2
Wow, what an mega insecure cunt.
CelticKraut 1 year ago 4
obviously you just want attention from people. it's ok thats what people do when they have very low self esteem
campos8904 1 year ago 15
@campos8904 I do believe that posting videos on the internet and expecting people to watch them is the sign of a large ego, whereas pretending that everyone else around you has low self esteem is a sign of someone with low self esteem. Really, I got sick of people complaining and thought this would be a nice explanation for all of the guys who wonder why no one answers them. It's just efficient.
kalodaimon 1 year ago
@kalodaimon the only reason you posted this video was because you got a whole bunch of messages from guys. if you never would have gotten any or just a couple then this video would not exist right now.
campos8904 1 year ago
Putting anything anywhere and expecting people to look at it or watch it is indeed the purest form of a person with a large ego. We call them Attention Whores.
fraidykat 6 months ago
@campos8904 Honestly, I think women join OkCupid, not to meet men, but to get validation from them so they can feed their ego and feel good about themselves. It's a therapy site, rather than a dating site.
ejdf870 9 months ago
@ejdf870 haha dude you are right on the money
campos8904 9 months ago
@ejdf870 agreed, most women will absolutely not reply to anything on there. I used it for awhile and found this to be the case. It will make you very cynical of people after awhile and I suggest to guys they don't use it.
paintedship 8 months ago
Ha! FAG
thepope11111 1 year ago
See, I don't know. Dumb, ignorant or uninteresting as they may seem, guys are still people. So I think they at least merit a, 'sorry, I'm not interested' message, just so they know. It just takes a few seconds to respond and I mean, I'd rather someone just tell me right off the bat.
sosupercilious 1 year ago 3
you dont have a very pleasant personality, your like most girls on there, just like the attention from the inboxes and getting to reject guys
insomnia100 1 year ago 36
i agree with insomnia100, some girls just like to feel attracted to and they feed on it and also have personal issues with insecurity so they need guys always messaging them, showing interested and for them to treat the guys like a bag of dirt..i hate girls like this, you may be hot but your a worthless piece of shit from hell..
Echoverbic 1 year ago 2
@insomnia100 Amen. 98% of the women on there even when your polite and witty don't even respond. It's a horrible site if your a good guy looking to find a decent girl.
Online dating sucks ass.
HandyMan101 5 months ago 3
Preach it Girl!
"not cute" hilarious.
What's up with the sound quality on this video? It's like choppier than a bad cell phone connection.
upcycle 1 year ago
Here is a message to you in this video stop being a stuck up american women like you act like. Get a life ! Alot of us men have woken up we do not need you and your money hungry ways.By the way to all, those dating sites suck and so do the people who use them.
1CBRDUDE 1 year ago
I couldn't make out a lot of what you were saying in this video. maybe you need to project your voice a little more and enunciate better, or maybe your mic just sucks, I don't know.
farout81 1 year ago
you dont respond to my messages because you are a FAT CUNT!!!
CaptainNensho 1 year ago
i assume that you associate horrible grammer with stupidity while most of the time that may be true but i have horrible grammer but i also have an IQ of 187 i see no need for proper grammer because you can still understand what i am typeing after all what is considered proper grammer is just someones opinion but on a side note i can tell you are not the most intellegent person ive ever seen
MegaGuitarboss 1 year ago
why do people call you cute? :-(
koontzsama 1 year ago
you mumble terribly. i don't mean to give you unsolicited advice and it could be just something you do while you tape a youtube video, but it would be of tremendous value to you if you enunciated your words and didn't mumble. the hair flicks are annoying too.
ahomersimpson 1 year ago
Im going to create a female profile today to get a better prospective. I think it will be interesting , to see the game from the other side. LOL
happygocarts 1 year ago
Must be nice having so many options.
nman2008 1 year ago
All that scowling, frowning and shit. No way I'd put up with that shit if you were my girl. I'd kick your ass to the curb quicker that you could say "I'm sorry".
coolshit28 1 year ago
You say you have no time to respond to any of the messages, yet you make a video about those messages. Yes you are being mean, theres a reason why everyone is on there!
Bitemeartzombie 1 year ago 12
@Bitemeartzombie Hehe. It is harder to make time to answer messages from people I have no interest in admittedly. Given that it's normal for women to ignore most of their messages like I do, I think it's an issue with the messages and people sending them.
kalodaimon 1 year ago
@kalodaimon It's true they do ignore most of their messages. No mater how well written or interesting. Not responding to drab messages (or vulgar ones) is one thing, just flat out ignoring so many people is just damn rude. Luckily not all woman are rude. My girlfriend (who I met on there) isn't one of the rude ones.
jotunobsidianeyes 1 year ago
@kalodaimon
I have to agree with this. I had just created a profile and only had time to upload ONE PHOTO before I had to to go work. I came home later on to more than 20 messages from random guys saying how interesting I was.
My match scores were 0%, 0%, 0% because I had answered NO QUESTIONS, done NO TESTS, and had NOTHING on my profile... and yes these people found me interesting?
Clearly all they were interested in was getting in my pants.
Most of the messages were complete BS.
TheDaedalEVE 1 year ago
my god so many criteria.... gee whiz.. do you even actually go out or just sit there and read stupid emails all day?
panaeleous 2 years ago
2:57 ... Hahaha, I do the same thing on there
carcinogencrush93 2 years ago
i got agrophobia, im there lmao. bit nervous but my balls are burning, so is my heart.
Manicpanicanticant 2 years ago
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thank you for the advice!
palaver87 2 years ago
Kamelot, friggin awesome.
LeBellmont 3 years ago
I ALMOST feel as if I'm "cutting in" on a conversation between you and g01148 but I'll proceed nevertheless. I find you fascinating and borderline hypnotic. Is that strange? And if so, would you consider me a freak? And if so, is a freak a bad thing to you? I consider it a compliment actually, as I would NOT want to be like everyone else even if I COULD.
Pallindrom27 3 years ago
Hehe, I have plenty of room for conversations with everyone, though I could see that. Based on previous commentary, no. That depends on the degree to which that extends. That depends on the type of freak. As long as you don't develop any intentions of stalking me and turning me into a skinsuit or something, I wouldn't worry about it.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
You're very amusing in addition to being hypnotic(NOT "cute").No,I like the character of "Hannibal the Cannibal" but I dont act like him(Or those other serial killers from "Red Dragon"{And "Manhunter"}, and "Silence of the Lambs" who WISHED that they could be as cool as Hannibal). I guess that the reason that I thought of the whole Freak designation was that I watched "The Dark Knight" earlier and I remember Joker describing himself and Batman that way, and I thought,"It's better to be a freak".
Pallindrom27 3 years ago
@kalodaimon Damn there goes my skinsuit idea,
parsleysprigs 11 months ago
This white background
Andrea, do You have *hypnotic* look!? Connect with Youtube leaderships and compel them to change color of backfield, say them: peoples cant normally work in company of such inhuman environment. Really.
ilmarinenTheAtheon 3 years ago
Haha, I'm surprised they don't allow the changing of the white background, but I'll surely change mine when the get around to allowing it.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Looks like new page of history of Your YT life: relationships: Andrea (Kalodaimon (still) and viewers. How to get to Colossus head without *special trainings*. He-he. Colossus And Kolkhoz. Колосс и Колхоз.
ilmarinenTheAtheon 3 years ago
Why a new page?
I didn't understand the rest at all.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
I do not remember from the history of previous videos that You - for two consecutive video - talked about the *complexity of *distinguished* spectators*. Perhaps, you remember?
The rest about: *collective farm* (which meaning Your viewers) and *giant bronze statue of Greek ancient Solar God Helios* (which means You). I am comparing these two structures. Everything reports not in viewers benefit.
ilmarinenTheAtheon 3 years ago
Hallo. Sorry for interfere.
He-he-he. Peoples jumping around You, like monkeys around Darwin. They dont now for what, they only now its *fashionable*: who jump high enough can get into book Jumpy, Jumpy *Andrea, Andrea Im here, look at me!* You look They A-ha-ha Yea Old, classic story, with dust on it surface.
ilmarinenTheAtheon 3 years ago
What interference?
Hehehe at the analogy.
I'm hardly fashionable to like, I think.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Perhaps I should pretend to be ugly more often. I rather like doing that.
That's an indication that they probably can't speak to me at my level then, and suggests that there isn't much area for conversation.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Hahah this a defenit lol! And they wonder why they cant get girls easily in person. The dating game is bassicaly the same weather it is doing it in person or online. Thats a mistake most make.
spacepope87 3 years ago
I think it actually may be slightly easier online, as you at least have the chance of a profile to redeem you if something didn't quite go well.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Yes that is true but what I was trying to say was that people are the same no matter were you meet them. Online and in person both have the same feelings, interests, likes and dislikes. So trying a different approach online is most likely going to give you the same outcome as in person.
Sorry I wasnt so specific last comment btu I hope you get what I am trying to say now.
spacepope87 3 years ago
Yes, that's quite true, although I think it may be slightly more challenging to quickly get out an good idea of your personality soon enough in real situations to make them work.
I think so; I just choose to take a different interpretation.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Well if thats the case then sending a "Whats up" (as you mentioned) as a message is no excuse cause at least online you have all the time to write and edit a message.
The point is that if you send short, uniteresting and boring messages to try and get someones attention it is not going to work.
I hope we can agree on that! XD
spacepope87 3 years ago
Haha, indeed. You win on that one.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
That deserves a thumbs up!
Keep up the good work. Always interesting topics.
You have a good one.
spacepope87 3 years ago
Thanks.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
So I guess then I win at messages. :-P Apparently I have great powers since it seems you are rather picky.
okcupid, which I think you are talking about and sounds like a dating site, is probably a whole other monster, though.
5thWatcher 3 years ago
Hehe, indeed. Of course, it might help that I was previously aware of your existence in a way that didn't make me want to run away screaming in horror, which is quite an accomplishment really.
Indeed it is, especially as it's full of people who write messages about nothing and sometimes even lack a full sentence and/or a correctly spelled word. Of course, I only answer about 1% of VF messages due to the ever so high quality of people there, so OkCupid must be slightly better than that.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Haha. Well, then, you are accomplished in that I actually enjoy and desire conversation with you, when a lot of the time with most people I kinda have to tell myself not to judge or look down on them just because I am CLEARLY smarter than them... and more humble. :-P
I have no proof to support his, but those with very little to say I assume have sent a carbon copy of said bland message to every other girl they have come across on said site looking for a quick fix to getting laid.
5thWatcher 3 years ago
Oh good, we clearly have a lot in common then with that. ...I meant, except that I don't have that problem at all, especially because I'm clearly even more humble than you are and therefore have managed to convince myself that that doesn't happen to me, because it doesn't when you don't talk to most people.
That seems likely in most cases. On the other hand, I think most of my terrible messages are custom made just for me, which might be possible on account of their brevity.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Look at their actions and the stuff they upload, not what they say. Is it their own material? Is it interesting to you? I like people who upload their own stuff and are not propped up by someone else who records their videos for them, does their lighting and sound and edits them. It makes me feel like those people are being exploited somehow...
themanyone 3 years ago
I take it you're referring to youtube profiles? I briefly mention it at the beginning, but it may not have come through clearly that I'm referring to OkCupid, which is a dating website.
Ignoring that, that's an interesting take on youtube videos. I've never watched any that I noticed weren't one person recording, or perhaps two collaborating. I would think of them more like actors, although I see your point.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Yeah, that's the distinction between those who are openly or secretly collaborating. I guess I thought maybe OkCupid had video profiles. I don't know. I haven't checked. I'm not a good source of advice about that sort of thing. Have you thought about getting paid to promote them?
themanyone 3 years ago
Hmmm yes, I probably could have explained the site better now that I think about it.
I'm somewhat against the idea of getting paid for anything related to my videos, as I feel it would be somewhat rude to the people who watch me.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
You get a lot of messages. probably more after all your subscribers hunt you down on OKCupid.
Do you find it strange that you have to reply to someone that is clearly interested in you? And, do you just get those types of messages? Or are there types that just want to talk out of nothing more than wanting to talk?
Except the profanity and bad sentence stricture, the guy talking about your guitar would give you something to talk about.
Two statements and three questions; I'm doing well. Ha.
g01148 3 years ago
No, they aren't the talkative type, I think. It's happened, which I always find interesting.
Not particularly, as I generally assume they aren't, unless it's obvious, which I realize is ridiculous. I tend to get an influx of interesting people with odd questions, as well.
No, nearly everything he said was profanity. 'Twas horrific, wanting to make me gouge his eyes out. I was more intelligent at age 5.
See, you know your okcupid message is bad is when it's outdone by a youtube comment.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
They might be less likely to talk to you on such a site if they haven't done so here.
Hehe, it is ridiculous. Ah, so it's not all bad, and your profile does raise questions that would allow for odd questioning. More questions; do the people messaging you take any heed of the match percentage? Does it mean anything? I'm only a 94% to myself...
Oh my, he sounds like the Genghis type. Such a comparison is a complement, you know.
That's only because I'm not tying to nervously introduce myself.
g01148 3 years ago
That's true. I've found that people are more likely to talk to me outside of youtube. I think it's understandable, as I would probably be the same with most people I watch.
I would ask about the odd questioning, but I suspect you'll get around it yourself in due time. I think they do, although I find the friend percentage to be a better indication. 'Tis because that's your maximum.
Hehe, I think he lacked the attractiveness for that, more of a stupid loser.
You seem to manage that fine.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Indeed, although with me, all but one person I talk to has come from me talking to them on youtube first.
With so many messages a week, a barrage of odd questions might take up too much time. I've found the friend and match percentages to be about equal; but in everyone I've seen, it has been a worryingly low match in either. Ah, I see.
That could just mean he had was bald. And yet he still thought he had a chance.
It has gotten easier over a time.
g01148 3 years ago
What did you do before youtube?
Hmm yes, but most of those aren't interesting enough to answer, which wouldn't be the case with you. It seems to vary significantly for me, between a thirty or so percent difference to almost nothing. What would you consider worryingly low?
Hehe, I was referring to his mental abilities, but yes, he did have sort hair and terrible fashion sense.
See, it can be done then.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Nothing, about the date my youtube account was created, was the time I got the internet.
I might have to go through your profile with a notepad open, typing questions that come to mind, hehe. Hmm, that must be due to the amount of questions you've answered. I'd say about <80% on either friend or match is worrying low for me. Is that realistic?
Yikes, a significant fail, if ever I heard of one.
By typing all day, everyday; yes. Talking is a different matter.
g01148 3 years ago
So what did you do with your time before then?
It might be that, but it may also be that I've encountered significantly more people. Oh my, that actually is realisitc. Hehe, I wasn't expecting that. I wouldn't require the friend bit to be so high, as it's generally lower in my experience, which makes no sense really.
Hehe, indeed.
You might try to include some talking then. You might find similar success. I think so.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Paint, read, school and play computer games. And no social contact of any kind.
A picture will do that. I wonder what will happen if I put an Orc picture up. Hm, that might just attract some freaky girls. Yay, for once I'm realistic. Indeed, I wonder if there's a place where the site says how the percentages are calculated, in detail.
Everyone I talk to happens to be overseas, this counts out talking.
g01148 3 years ago
Someone would mark it on flagmod, and it would be promptly removed. Thus, you would have to put a real picture up. Considering how much you believe you look like an orc-troll-hunchback, that should work equally well, if not better. I believe there is. Good luck finding it.
This is what video is for. Talking doesn't require reality.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Yes, I got all excited after posting that comment, I went to do it; only to see a long list of what not to upload. Not even a painting of me. Ah yes, but then people might be attracted to me, and I can't have that, no matter how hideous I am. No worries, I shall prevail.
I can't see that happening. But even if I do make a video, you won't be happy until I wear make-up too. I see your game, mhmm. Anyways, if I'm just talking to myself, I can't see what benefit recording it would provide.
g01148 3 years ago
You clearly can't be as hideous as you wish to be then, otherwise you wouldn't be worried.
Of course not, but that doesn't mean I can't try to convince you. No, I wouldn't try for make-up in addition to the video on account of how much success the video would be an indication of. It provides the benefits of review and sharing, of course.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
There is probably a person you could ask about that. Heh. Even if I'm not hideous, which I am, it wouldn't hurt to wish for it all the more.
I'm more likely to wear make-up than make a video; and the make-up is unlikely. Anyways, I already made two videos, mhmm. Methinks you would after a certain amount of videos. Review; I can see benefit. Sharing; not so much. I still rank text as my preferred method of communication.
g01148 3 years ago
You mean yourself, of course? It also means there's nothing stopping you from posting pictures, as long as they clearly highlight such ugliness.
That doesn't mean you shan't one day end up doing both. You weren't in those videos, thus they clearly don't count. I disagree, as there likely wouldn't be many videos. Sharing, not so much? Hmm, perhaps you're correct, and I should stop making youtube videos. Mhhmmm. Hehe. As do I, but that doesn't make the others worthless.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Nope, another actual human. Once I finish my journal, you may realise who it is. There'd be no mystery in that, I like to let imaginations fill in the gaps, 'tis more fun that way.
Make-up when alone and bored, perhaps, yes. I could delude myself it's a form of art. I got confused and held it the wrong way around, sorry. Indeed. I can share via text, is what I meant. Oh no-no-no, you mustn't stop making videos, I'm clearly being hypocritical. Hehe. If you're good at both, do both. I'm not.
g01148 3 years ago
With that hint, I suspect I already do. Perhaps, considering how brillantly ugly you've made yourself out to be, I shall likely be disappointed to find out that you aren't at all deformed.
I think you could manage to be good at both. You certainly wouldn't know, considering you haven't tried. I suspect I could persuade you, if I really wanted, but it would be rather cruel, so I shan't. I'll try anyways. Videos without picture? Then we can hear your amusing accent and believe you to be hideous.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Yes, that was certainly very cryptic of me. I could argue that a guy wouldn't notice such things; I didn't notice tunic man was wearing a horrible wig, for example.
Make-up would be good after a bit of getting used to working in a mirror. I suspect if you did, I would become inflexible, even to your will. Hmmnno. I don't think I have an amusing accent, if one at all, that might be something answered by another too. Worry not, you're not the first to fail at seeing me upon request.
g01148 3 years ago
Yes, but you would be likely to notice your own face being deformed or not, as others would have pointed out your orc/troll face to you very often.
Or getting used to putting pointy objects by your eyes. Yes, that seems likely, although it wouldn't be worth the necessary persuasion, so you you haven't anything to worry about. It's more a matter of being able to think of a way than wanting it done. Oh no, that would be failing at hearing, not seeing, and 'twas a test, not a legitimate try.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Your forget the English reserve, we don't point at things. We don't even complain.
Hehe, I wouldn't like that much. I'm sure it wasn't a legitimate try, mhmm.
g01148 3 years ago
I doubt schoolboys are that reserved. Mhhmm, you delude yourself about your fellow Englishmen, I am quite certain.
I think you should be familiar enough with my successful methods of persuasion to realize it lacked the characteristics of legitimacy. Believe what you wish, however. Hehe.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
I think schoolboys know they'll be savaged if they dare insult a beastly looking man like me and are therefore reserved out of fear. I'm idealist about my fellow Englishman.
I figured it was a shortened attempt, given the text limit. Hmmmyyes... I defeated you, I did.
g01148 3 years ago
Hehe, I'm really much more patient than that, and I rather like pretending that you look like an orc troll. Perhaps in the event that I ever might see you, you could apply some appropriate facial prosthetics so an not to disappoint.
And you clearly will have an accent to me, unless you're secretly America, which you aren't.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
A commendable amount of patience. Hmmm, it's meant you scare you and others away. Your make-up skills extend to prosthetics? Very nice and you can help me in my striving for disfigured perfection. In the instance that I'm not already disfigured, of course.
My accent isn't very pronounced. Unless I want it to be, speak rapidly or raise my voice (rare).
g01148 3 years ago
Why is it intended to scare everyone away? Surely you couldn't expect me to be scared away by such disfigurement. Oh no, my make-up skills don't extend that far just yet, and I was expecting you to apply to prosthetics prior to me ever seeing you in order to maintain your image.
I can't imagine you would ever allow it to sound Americanized still, which would make it pronounced enough to me.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
I naturally do, and I like to scare people away, to avoid talking. I really do expect it would scare you away, I would hope so at least. I don't think I need prosthetics and would draw your attention away with a man-skirt.
No, never an American accent, how awful. It probably would be noticeable to you then, if you noticed London accents very obviously when here.
g01148 3 years ago
To avoid talking is slightly unreasonable, although I can't having agreed with you in the past about that. Why would you hope so? How peculiar. You probably couldn't manage that even with a manskirt, but that doesn't mean you can't try.
Precisely. Of course I noticed them very obviously. Hehe.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Yes, I must be like a younger you, prior to being social. I prefer to be thought of as hideous when talking to girls, it means they only care about what I have to say and nothing more. You shall be distracted by excessive clothing, plus my coat will have a deep hood for concealing myself in. Hehe.
It's hard to work out what I sound like. Methinks my voice is deeper than it sounds in my head. Going to many types of schools means I've neutralised any obvious regional London accent too. Methinks.
g01148 3 years ago
Yes, sixteen year old me would have agreed with you on nearly everything. 'Tis mildly scary. Hm, that implies that you're pretty. I still prefer to be thought of as hideous when talking to males, but it tends to fail. Hardly, I have a habit of looking people in the eyes, though I would surely notice the clothing. Hmph, I think the use of such a hood might induce ridiculous forms of protest in reflex.
It probably is. I always get surprised when hearing males over the phone for that reason.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Then a sixteen year old you was most wise. I was thinking more of a nineteen-twenty year old you. Oh no, that was not my intention; I joke about things, but they are based in reality, therefore I really am hideous. Yeah, that will always fail miserably. I think of you as a cat, if that makes you feel any better. Eye contact? Ha. I'm rather expert at avoiding eye contact, hehe. To which you'll hear giggling from deep within the good.
Indeed, I've heard answer phone messages I've left. Scary.
g01148 3 years ago
Me becoming social occurred at 18. 19 year old me was quite insane in a different way. But yes, I rather like 16 year old me. It would be nice to still be that naive, I think. I probably wouldn't think so, hehe, recalling that I like deformed creatures. You should be trying to convince me that you're pretty to achieve your goal. I expected so. I don't count you as a normal male, as you wouldn't be creepy regardless. The hood would probably induce a subconscious pouting reflex at its unfairness.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Could the year of being social = insanity.
Yes, but I'm human, so that's different, in a bad 'ew' kind of way. Oh? Oooh, I have amazing abs... yeah, I can't put much effort into saying something I don't believe. I'll go too far down the deformed route to make you react the way you should. I would be mildly offended if you did class me as a normal male. Haha, you pout? I probably wouldn't see it, due to the hood. Or if I did, my training to take interesting photo's as second nature would kick in.
g01148 3 years ago
More like three months...perhaps. It was combination of suddenly talking to people, living in a dorm that allowed me to then shut out the world entirely, ending my first relationship, and being crazy in a being suicidal in a crazy hippie way.
Haha, are you now implying that you're fat? I doubt it. As you should be in that case. Oh, you surely would see it if you weren't blind. I'm naturally quite disgustingly cute, but I usually hide it well. This is why I'm offended when people call me cute.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Oh dear, how terrible. This would be an "aww hugs" moment with most other girls. Hehe.
Me? Fat? haha. I think not. I weigh about the same as you + a handbag. Indeed I am. I can easily see how., but what's wrong with being cute? Less people wanting to hug you because of it.
You don't like being called cute, you sometimes wear make-up to be less attractive. For someone so naturally gifted, you must see how odd it is. Odd to me at least, because you're going in the wrong direction.
g01148 3 years ago
Hm yes, it does sound quite terrible, but I rather enjoyed it in a way, as I rather like emotion, and I would consider that time a to be some of my favorite.
Precisely, which suggests that your abs really can't be that bad. Haha.
How? Being cute is just...um...incompatible with my intimidating and baby sacrificing image that I keep outside of youtube.
How is it going in the wrong direction? I do see that it's odd in a way, but I'm surprised more people don't agree in other ways.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
I can relate to it being very interested in how the brain acts during such times. But I wouldn't have thought enjoyment was a factor.
Indeed, I don't have amazing abs that can be seen from space though.
You look it. And your Slaughter video was that way too. I think that just makes you even more... yes.
Take you and I as a scale. You're = 10 : I = 0. Now, people normally wish to move up towards 10. It's rare that someone wants to move down the scale when already at the top, no?
g01148 3 years ago
Being a like a crazy hippie who wants to become one with the spirit of the universe by dying and running around enjoying the souls of trees while freezing for hours on end is a rather blissful experience, even if induced by negative circumstances.
Those abs would be creepy.
Oh failure, maybe no one else has noticed...
Normally people have no interests aside from attractiveness. Uglier people tend to have superior personalities and morals, example you, so it isn't really moving down but up.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
I like how my statement either forces you to agree to a compliment or admit to not being ugly. Hehe.
Letting my ego reign free a bit, I exempt myself a bit from this scale out of naivety that anyone found me attractive for a very long time.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Haha, Yes. I'm cornered and therefore must agree that it was a complement. You must now also agree that I am indeed hideous.
It surely needs a stretch every now and then. Is that even possible? I suppose that being online, people can say it and not worry about you taking a swing at them.
g01148 3 years ago
I'll agree because it's meaningless coming from me and forces you to take the compliment. Hehe.
Yes, it's quite possible when you prevent anyone from knowing what your face looks like starting at the point when people tend to find each other attractive. Also, prior to that I was apparently intelligent enough to scare people away in that age group. Hehe.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
It's the only type of complement I'll gladly take. 'Tis a strange feeling being praised for a perceived negative.
Only if you went to Abbarth standards of make-up coverage would you be able to hide the fact. I don't think raccoon-level would have been enough. I'm clearly wrong, however.
I always found the younger intelligent kids highly amusing. I thought of them as wise dwarves. It's now even more amusing thinking of you like that, hehehe.
g01148 3 years ago
It makes sense though, doesn't it?
No, it was quite easy to hide. I kept my hair in front of my face to a large degree, as well. No one really knew what it looked like that well, and I still get comments on it from people who've only recently seen me again. Raccoon level is enough to hide from most people.
Hehe, an amusing image. Children in that age group who are less intelligent rather are afraid of the wise dwarves.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Slightly. But it still feels counter-intuitive.
Ah, The Ring look, I can see how that could also be scary. I'm rather impressed at the levels in which you manage to hide. I might be biased, as I like excessive make-up on people. (not me)
Hehe, it does seem unnatural for them to express knowledge bigger than their body.
g01148 3 years ago
You would think that of any compliment, I expect.
Hehe, indeed. I had some aspirations to specifically dress up like the girl from the Ring after I saw it. I put quite a bit of effort into it then. You likely are, and you haven't seen my raccoon look.
Hehe, indeed it would.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Agreed. I can't think of any complement I'd take well, other than one directed at my attire. But that's fine as it's not me the person is complementing.
Hehe, most excellent. You could do it all the better now, given your excessively long hair. I've seen enough of your make-up variations to be able to guess what it looked like and it's still fine. Do you ever miss it?
Mhmm. They seem to be a rarity, unfortunately.
g01148 3 years ago
Why wouldn't you take them well? Yes, attire hardly counts.
I do, but I've come close to recreating it in kind lately, though not on youtube I think. It was more like black eyeshadow covering my eyes and their underneath entirely with some a large amount of liquid eyeliner that wasn't even noticeable to make the actual eyelids ever blacker.
Sadly, yes.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
Being praised would elevate me, I find that concept uncomfortable and at odds with me enjoying being humble. Indeed, it's also telling that the person complementing has nothing to say about the person wearing the attire. Although that praise is acceptable.
Nostalgia is always nice. Oh my, that sounds wonderful. I had thoughts that it also extended to almost over the bridge of your nose too.
They're all into BDSM now, apparently.
g01148 3 years ago
Why should that be so uncomfortable? You might get used to it eventually. An interesting take. I think they sometimes choose to compliment attire, as it's a more acceptable and less awkward type of compliment.
Hehe, not I think not...well, a bit but not the entire thing.
Hahaha. Indeed, that was amusingly removed from reality enough to be funny, though creepy on second consideration. It also reminded me of an amusing comic image that I've always rather liked.
kalodaimon 3 years ago
That is something I'm unsure about. I don't like the idea of being good at something, perhaps, as it lead to having to be compared. I don't think so, I'm so seldom praised meaning that I shan't become used to it. Oh yes, I haven't considered that.
Well then, that's far more conservative than I thought. Mhmmm.
Hehe, I hoped you wouldn't take it too literally. I think I might be blacklisted from adopting. Hmm, that has something to do with children and BDSM? What kind of comics do you read?
g01148 3 years ago