I love pickles too Buck and I noticed it seems like a lot of times your advice is simply telling people what they already know but don't want to accept. But that's a good thing because it sounds so less intimidating coming from you.
This has nothing to do with the video but i really need your help and I am sorry if i am a little late. My friend is thinking and says he's 100% going to kill himself on christmas. I have tried talking to him but nothing is working. He is 14 and i want to know how to prevent this. If anyone is reading this PLEASE help me. Thank you.
@purellbb59 Im so sorry that you have to go through this. I know its after christmas but Im hoping that he didnt do it. As a 13 year old how has thought about suicde I know that all it takes is one person to make you wanna do it and to make you change your mind. Just be there for him ask him why he wants to do it and PLEASE TELL SOMEBODY. Tell anyone. My friends told the princable and then they sent me to the doctor and I am alive because of them. Sorry if Im too late but please messge me back♥
Dear Buck, I feel like I'm an attentionwhore but I also feel I'm just being me... While among my friends I always jump around being too-happy and when I'm home, I tend to be all sad... What should I do?
Dear Buck~I'm an 11 year old girl in 7th grade. I'm very mature so don't take my age wrong. I'm obese but I'm healthy and active. I'm too afraid to make friends because I always end up gettin hurt. My family doesnt help with the social problem. My nickname is "Meg Griffen with Sarah Palin glasses." I'll give you a minute to laugh... My family is strangly creative with their fatass jokes. I'm anarchist and really dont care about what people think of me. But it's my own family. I just need advice.
For the last question: Creative types and people who enjoy such hobbies a lot, (even if they have lost interest over time) are sometimes inspired (suddenly have a great idea) and motivated (as in the want to do this comes back) to write/draw/sing/play music/compose/act/etc.. Either from dreams or real life events,positive and negative!
If you pay careful attention to details when you are both asleep and awake to to as much as you can, and remember the feelings as well, it will happen soon! :)
Although her passing was tragic. She may have gone to a better place in the best case scenario, but at the very least she is at peace now. Honor her memory somehow in your own way to cope.
I'm sure many are also missing her immensely as well still to this day! Discuss with those closest to you that you trust about this, if this does not help, try seeking a therapist you trust to confide in, they can help you in various ways, depending on their specialties and skill.
As for the first question: If she had sex for a couple of months and then thinks it's bad.. That has nothing to do with religion or whatever.. It's obvious that her boyfriend is just a douche
@alittleolder That may be a possibility. But it may also be possible that her needs (and her boyfriend possibly) aren't being met, and/or she may not have the same sex drive as her boyfriend.
If they are overall incompatible with each other, the relationship will cool over time without communication on this, if they want to make it work.
If he/she was an overall bad bf/gf, and/or either became abusive, then it may be time to split up *very* soon! (depending on the severity, and how often..):(
Buck im 100% sure i like women and never felt like i liked guys but recently i have thought im bi but idk if i really am bi and also if i am bi i live in pennslvannya one of the worst places to be gay lesbian or bi they all hate bis gays and lesbians i dont act or have a personlty that im bi sence your gay you should relate please put this in ask buck i really need help love you bitch (:
A straight guy was intimate with me awhile ago, ever since I haven't been able to trust self-proclaimed "straight" men. He was in a relationship with one of my best girlfriends, so I had to tell her eventually. Thankfully I salvaged that friendship, but the friendship with the guy completely fell out. It's left me pretty cynical. I'm stand-offish to men :/ and I get off on rejecting men cuz it feels nice to be wanted, but then to get to play safe and just say "no". Men can be horrible. :\
I am in 8th grade and having a hard time. I am not the most social person so at the beginning of school I had no one to hang out with but the other loners. At first I thought they were just like me but then I found out that they do drugs, drink and one of them is pregnant at 13. I tried to tell them that I don't want to hang out with them but ended up getting cornered by them threatening to hurt me badly if I leave or tell on them . I am so lost what should I do?
@SceneCow First off, just know that there is more to life than the 8th grade. You won't understand it now, but trust me. A lesson my mother always taught me was "Surround yourself with good people." And these kids don't seem like good people if they are threatening you! Try socializing with other people, I'm sure people would love to see you be yourself and shine! For example, look at Lady Gaga. She has so many fans because she is herself all the time! Now, don't be Gaga, but be yourself! <33
don't worry im a loner to, but I bet there's other people at your school you can hang out with. Your obviosly a pretty good person if you don't want to hang out with people doing drugs, just start talking to othere people, no one can hurt you if your with other people who care about you. Break away from them by becoming friends with other responsible people. good luck! *cyberhugs*
Hey Buck, Love your show just stumbled across it on youtube but your totally halarious!! I work as a psychic fulltime, and I find myself giving similar advice on a daily basis, you can really read people!! Thanks for being a sweetheart and making the world a better place one person at a time, I try to do the same, will subscribe and thumbs up good luck with the million subscribers if you haven't gotten it already you probably will soon!!
Like you, I've been writing my whole life but for a long time until recently, my passion for it had been going down. I agree with Buck that you should just put writing out of your mind for a while and occupy yourself with something else for a while. I also think that talking with friends that are also writers, and sometimes even helping them write is a great way to get inspired again. Good luck! :)
If you remember not being safe, and had unprotected sex (anal or oral, or had physical contact with both your genitals), get tested at private clinic/hospital that guarantees privacy.
Be responsible: If lucky, you'll be clean, or at least the disease you caught is curable! if you have an incurable disease, then tell those you had unsafe sex with!
In the future, don't have unprotected sex until you and your partner get a full-spectrum communicable(sexually or fluid transmitted) disease test.
If you were both drunk, then don't read into too much into it, as it might be just drunkenness/experimentation. If you were both merely buzzed, or sober, then your straight friend could possibly be attracted to you, and either may be closeted gay or bisexual.
In any case: Be sure to be safe with your partners, have condoms (and a small bottle of water based good product lube, just in case) ready when you go to bars, or on any outing even with friends, even if its just casual, just in case.)
i am currently 14 years old, but when i was 6 one of the guys that i knew tried to get me to have sex with him. i didnt know what was going on, and he told me that it would be fun. now that i look back at it, it's freaking me out. i havent told anyone before, because i am scared. i always thought that i was a virgin, but now looking back i'm not so sure anymore. what should i do?
I hope you can help me with this, you don't have to put this in a video but I'd appreciate if you like, sent me a PM or something, if you can't help me its okay though.
Ok so I'm worried about when school starts again this year. I'm very shy and can have trouble with making friends. I sometimes have trouble telling if someone likes me or dislikes me. The thing is I'm concerned that I may have no one to sit with during my lunch period. I'd love to have more friends but...
I just wanted to say that you actually can be straight and have sex with someone of the same gender.. If you just fool around with someone that just happends to be of the same gender as you, that doesn't immediately make you gay, so my point is, you can have sex with someone thats of the same gender as you, and still be straight! :) (or you could call it heteroflexible if you want to label it! :P ) And I know this from a very close source! :)
My parents don't listen to me they constantly hurt my feelings. they swear at me, they put my little brother before me (they'll stop me recording in MY room to let my brother watch TV), and they never focus on the good stuff I do only the bad. My stepdad once said to me that he never has to listen to me simply because he's older than me. What can I do to get them to treat me better?
Ever since I was young I have a had weight and eating problems. Some days I feel as though I cannot go a day without junk food or cola. My eating habits have gotten the best of me for years and I want to change it once and for all. Do you have any tips you recommened? Please keep in mind I cant go to a gym cause the closest one is too far. Not to mention everyone in my neighborhood are not the type to go out and play. So what can I do Buck?
Fellow homosexual talking here :D A guy I know feels me up quite a few times and I'm really attracted to him, but I dont know how to come out to him but at the same time not come out to the whole school.
@OneAndForAll JStew, I would take him aside and ask him how he feels about you. Don't beat about the bush, tell him straight out that you're gay and then tell him that you'd appreciate it if he could keep quiet about it =] Good luck!
@OneAndForAll If he happens to be a proven loyal, and trustworthy friend, by all means ask him in private on a date, or casual outing to get to know him better.
If your school is not already gay-friendly, and at worst doesn't have a no-tolerance policy for bullying, and/or teachers/staff won't take your side if bullied for being gay, there may be a risk of danger!
You should move to another friendly school, but try to get his #, before you leave.(Tell him later)
@OneAndForAll It sounds like you need to work on a little self-acceptance before coming out to anyone at school. For me, I had no issues coming out in high school... and I went to high school in Kansas! You should probably wait to tell him until you are ready for your orientation to be public information. And be careful to not misread him feeling you up. It could be a sexual/romantic thing, or it could just be him being himself. Some guys are touchy feely.
dear buck, i start school in a couple weeks and it's the first time im goign to be in high school. i just found out that my ex, who is a grade above me has been telling people that i have sent him nude video's of my self to him. i'm terrified that everyone will hear this and think i'm a slut. i don't have lots of friends and i'm worried the ones i have will hear and not like me. what do i do?? love robin
Dear Buck, I have the worst writers block ever and I cant get over it, I have just stopped writing for almost a month now, I cant think of anything to write regardless, Please Help! Thank you! Lots Of Love ~Alyssa
Dear buck, I moved to a new town almost a year ago now, and since the beginning people's opinions of me have been changing constantly. But since school ended, no one but 4 of my closest friends have been talking to me at all, and I'm going into highschool for the first time next year with only one friend my age going to that school. I would like a bit of advice for changing my image, and whether i should go in with a cocky or outgoing attitude to make my self more approachable. Thanks! -Conner
Dear Buck, How long should I cook a slice of cold BBQ chicken pizza in my toaster oven? I put it on an endless toast setting I guess but im a horrible cook and always take it out WAY too late. Im afraid the middle isnt warm yet. I wind up burning the bread and drying out the chicken and burnt BBQ sauce taste awful. I would appreciate your help! :)
I agree completely about getting things in writing. Alot of parents do that to kids... do it right back! Parents are liars! :)
hi my name is selena i have been watching since the begining. so my mom recently passed away from cancer, and i need advice on how to cope with death, it seems like i get sadder and sadder everyday. thank you buck
@MysticalNails just last year my grandma died.. and i get it becasue she was my best firend. honestly, it is hard. but you just need to be strong. trust me i know its not what you want to hear and you probably want it to all go away and to act like it never happened. but it will take a while to get used to it but everything will be okay
@MysticalNails death is natural, dont think of death as a bad thing, think of death as a thing that every person has to go through, just know that your mom always loved you. do you think your mom would be happy if your just crying and getting depressed over her, no! she wants you to move on! just accept your moms death and know that she always loves you
Treasure your good memories of her, and keep her close in your heart.
Try to also remember and learn from any bad memories you had during her life. (including her departure from the physical plane into the unknown.) All memories are mostly very important, you try to remember as much as you can!
@MysticalNails it gets better, i went thru the same thing when i was 11. You just have to accept it and move on. you know she wouldnt want you to be sad. hope this helps :-)
Ok so middle school starts in 2 weeks and I'm freaking out!! Last year there was a new girl who would totally bully me by pretending to b my friend, the blaming her problems on me. I've talked to her her parents my parents even our counsler but it doesn't stop! She's been threatening me through facebooo that if I show up at school she's going to ruin me at that school forever. Wat do I do?!
@mcclaychik first off nicely tell her to leave you alone. If she doesn't, completely ignore her. don't feed the bullies! they just want a reaction. save everything she sent you and email it straight to the principal. not the dean or the counselor or whoever, but the principal. if that doesn't stop it, get the cops involved. Hope I could help. Good luck. <3
I'm pretty sure I have an inferiority complex. Whenever I am around my sister i feel bad about myself. She is four years older, 20, she has a boyfriend is on the dean's list at her college, and is a track star. She comes home every couple of weeks and when she does I feel fat because she's so fit, I feel unattractive/unwanted because I don't have a boyfriend while she does, I feel lazy, dumb, and overall bad about myself. How can I get over this complex? I hate this feeling.
My brother and I never stop fighting, like screaming fighting. But my parents always say I'm over reacting (allow to inform you that he REALLY loves singing god bless america in a falcetto voice) how do I get him to leave me alone so I can stop screaming at him every ten seconds? He really stresses me out.
Dear Buck, My mum and dad divorced about 4 years ago because he cheated on her with another womanandgot ababy. I always used to be a daddy'sgirl but because Lynn(his fiance) is so rude I don't want to speak to him anymore.My dad lied to me about cheating he got engaged twoyears ago and he didn't even tell me, I overheard when I went to his parents' house and when I asked him why he hadn't told me he said it was because he knew I wouldn't like it. We now have to movebecauseofhim.Do I talk to him
My boyfriend of 2 and a half years has finished it.He said that it was getting boring,I was doing things to piss him off and that he doesnt love me anymore.The pain is unbearable!I still love him yet he doesnt feel the same way.He was my first love and I was actually naive enough that we would spend the rest of our lives together.I really dont know what to do.Ive asked with family and friends.Half of them say that he'll come back and the others has said to move on.What should I do?
@AngelOfMusix Move on. If he said he doesn't love you any more, he meant it, and if he does come back to you now, it'll be because he can't find someone better and he'll leave you again (or cheat) as soon as he does. Breakups are hard, it's OK to be hurt and upset. Focus on the relationships that ARE good, like with friends and family, and try not to put all your emotional eggs in one basket next time. Most of us have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find our prince.
We still text and Skype alot, and if we were in a relationship I think it would work if we put forth more of an effort to get together. Anyways, I'm head over heels for this guy but I'm still not totally sure he likes me. I've told him that I liked him recently and he didn't make it clear how he felt. It seems like he does have feelings for me but why doesn't he ask me out? I mean he's done it before. It's very confusing. Buck, what should I do?
Continued... We always have been good friends even after the relationship ended. But this summer we became very close again. We were both working on a play. (It was Seussical the Musical in case you were wondering.) During rehersal he held my hand, and I thought he liked me again. A couple weeks ago, at the cast party after the show he kissed me. So I was hoping he would ask me out and we would date again. But he hasn't. Will be continued. :)
My name is Jessica and I'm crushing on a guy. We've had a relationship in the past, and we really loved each other. We dated for 8 months and ended up breaking up because we weren't seeing each other all that much. He lived about 30 minutes away from me and we couldn't get over to see each other all that often. He is 2 years older than me, which isn't that much but when you're both teenagers it seems longer. This will be continued. :)
to Becka... that happened to me too... im a writer and the same thing happened to me... after about a month or so i got back to writhing.... so just take a break
My boyfriend of a little over 3 years cheated on me and had sex with my best friend a few times. neither one of them told me. I had to figure it out on my own. dispite all of this and all of the pain i've been through, I cannot seem to leave him. He is my first serious relationship so therefore i'll basically do anything to be with him. I know i need to leave him but i cannot seem to gain the confidence in myself to do so.
@KIMMEYx hey i just read your issue and you honestly need to leave them both alone andi i know you love him and stuff but mama you have to grow and love yourself more then them...they clearly dont care about your feelings and were trying to play you behind your back..leave them both alone and move on...I know you said first serious relationship but trust me it wont be your last. girl you need to bounce...
i am takin athletics this year and i took track volleyball basketball and tennis .
people like my mom and my brothers have been saying that its alot of work and its hard .do u think i am getting carried away with the sports i am doing ?should i let go of some of the sports?
My best friend is always in a fight with her parents about something and she thinks her parents like, hate her at all that jazz. We are 15 and she always comes to me for help and support but I'm TERRIBLE at it ( I'm a guy )!! But I can't help her because I give her advice that never helps or she thinks it's to blunt. What can I do? Please help.
P.S. Love the show even though i got into it like 3 weeks ago.
I'm in seventh grade, and I have three girls who are hitting on me. I'm gay. I don't know what to do, because at this age, I think it probably isn't the right time to come out yet. What do I do? I know that at my age and in my grade, there are a lot of homophobes. Please help!
@TheDocJayz Wait, that is all I can say. In middle school, people can be juvenile and judge, so labeling yourself is never the ideal situation while you are that young. Hope I could help. Just wait, that's it.
okay soo i was at a concert and a modeling agent came up to me and offered me like this open call and then i made it threw cuts and they said theyd email us if they were really interested and what happens if they dont email me? and if they do should i do it? cuz it could just go no where and nothing happens! plz help me with this dilema
Love WhatTheBuck! I unfortunately am a terrible student in school. For as long as I can remember I have had bad grades and it constantly gets in the way of my theater and other fun activities. How can I get out of my habits and get back on track? Please, please, please respond
My dad always tells me that I am fat and lazy and that I will get heart disease and die when I am 20 years old. Today I also caught my dad complaining to my mom about how I do not do more active things (i am an orchestra geek) and how I should be more like my sister who runs track and cross country and duz cycling. What should i do!
@VlogNating sweetie i know how you feel (i'm a band nerd, choir geek and on the heavier side) but i'd say that if you are comfortable in your own skin then disregard your dads comments. i've always been compared to my tiny sporty cousins but we are our own people with our own lives. Instead of being "active/skinny" being "healthy" is more important. Activeness is good but it doesnt have to be your life like it is your sisters, and maybe you need to talk to him about that or even your mom to help
My older brother's best friend and I became involved with each other around late February. We talked all the time and it was all in secret. He made me feel so great and I loved spending time with him. All of a sudden he told me he didn't want to talk to me anymore, when I talk to him about it he says he couldn't do it to my brother but he will always be attracted to me. He is moving on to other girls and it makes me feel really upset. I feel really sad all the time. Help!
I have this "gift" for feeling the pain somone has. I thinks its fine but sometimes its to much. Like today. If anyone on youtube asks to suscribe..i have to do it. And if i dont i get heavy hearted which is bad cuz my hearts not very strong. I just feel sadness. Its just something i do. Should i get rid of the gift or keep it?
@RubberPiggesAndGir trust me i have the same thing its not being oversensitive,just believe in what you think is right and dont forget it also helps to harden your heart at some things else you'd be a mess in the end
Eli, my girlfriend of three years is seventeen. She's starting a business for a language-learning centre. She has big plans for it, but she's starting it small as a tutoring service. She's very serious about this; and from what I can tell, the only thing that determines how well you do is how much you want it. Not your age.
Becca, I don't know what you write, but what I find helpful when I just can't do any more: listen to some Classical music. Read a book. watch a movie. It all helps.
Dear Buck, My bf is always working and broke a lot so he can't use his phone.Been over two months now since we saw each other but I got a text two weeks ago saying he isn't ignoring, he's just busy. His boss is an overworking him but he has no choice. I want to be caring, understanding gf,do I stand by him and hope the situation gets better; or find someone who has time for me? PS, this happened before,we got in contact again when he had a few days off. Love you Buck. Sophie (Liverpool, England)
My name is Reanna, My boyfriend always thinks im cheating on him when i hang out with my best guyfriend and his brother. i was friends with them before i met my BF. No matter how many times i say i dont he doesn't listen. what should i do??
@RockenRena well if he doesnt trust you what;s the use of keeping the relationship?,keep trying to make him trust you if he really doesnt listen youd have to let him go,since trust is the foundation of relationships
For the "get it in writing" one. I wanted something and my parents said if I followed this list of agreements for a month then I'd get it(I don't remember what I wanted) At the end of the month I went to my dad and he told me "I should have got it in writing" So when I tried to get it in writing he said "I am NOT going to sign a contract with my kid!" So be prepared.
I think that I take things too seriously. I am also known as "The Party-Pooper" and I have just become depressing to be around because I take things too seriously. People tell jokes about me just playing around, but I constantly take it to heart. How can I overcome this problem and do you ever have this problem because you seem like a pretty open man. I'm a very big fan and I have been watching for about two years :). Please pick my Q.
My mom started her company when she was about 23 or 24 and now shes in her fifteies and and makes a lot of money ( I meant I dont really know how much shes my mom haha) so ya I would go for it!
@flavourousgirl that's not the same. I write all the time and get writers block, which just means I need to let up for a day to a month. If you used to draw then grew out of it, it's a phase.
@mewichigo10 Actually I disagree with you. It can definitely be the same. I love to draw, and sometimes like writer's block, I feel as if I can't draw anymore. But, after a couple of days or even a month, I will once again feel passionate about drawing. It doesn't neccesarily mean her love for drawing was only a phase.
@briandaydreamer screw your mom! If you want to talk to your brother, she can't stop you. Go to a guidance counselor or something if she tries to, 'cause they can help.
Becca, I always love drawning. Since I was little I was drawning all the time. And now I don't do it anymore ... Sometimes I'm in a mood for it ... But I'm not that passionate anymore
If she is ever physically abusive, or ever threatens violence, or still harasses you emotionally:
1.Find close family/friends you trust, ask if you can stay with them for 3 days to a week.
2.Then contact, & consult an reliable/trustworthy attorney, and file for emancipation!
3.If you win the case, you will live on your own(or group home)& your parents will pay your expenses until you're an adult, & may also be ordered to pay for therapy sessions.
Waiting for marriage lady: If it doesn't work out with your boyfriend, try online dating sites, clubs/organizations you belong to, and/or even a reliable matchmaker and/or savvy friend to set you up on a date (Just make sure that you tell her what you're looking for in a man, and that waiting for marriage *must* be one of the mutual interests you have to share in common.)
Hey guys I'm the guy that asked this question and after taking the advise that i got from a lot of you and from Buck it all worked out we talked about after five days of no talking at all and he actually said he was really sorry about what happened and he hopes I forgive him(like i had anything to forgive) he wanted to just laugh about it and still be friends which i love bc he's my only straight(well not anymore lol) friend and i love him :)
@EmmaBruceTV hmm ik the feeling i dated this guy for a few months and it was a messy break up! i wound up dating him a 2 nd time and i dumped him. we still talk and i idk y but i still rly rly like him but its only when i talk to him! give it some time and if u still want to go for it! he might have been rly nervous when u were together thats why it might of been akward! much luck! =]
Becca, writer's block is one of the most normal things in our writer's world. If you force the matter, you will not be proud of what you create. Inspiration comes and goes, don't worry about it.
@2punk4breakfast Those "gay haters" from Westboro Baptist Church that protested the concert outside..the concert wasn't bad just the way that those people behaved was unacceptable
Dear Buck, I have very few friends at my school, literally only 3 and I'm scared that they are starting to hate me. They constantly insult me and members of my family 'as jokes' and whenever I say something they always put me down. It's been going on a while now. I really want to start over but everyone at my school hates me for some reason.They're the only friends I have but they are making me miserable What should I do?
@plasmavore hey i have the same prob! everyone at my school just dont like me. ppl insulted me and steped all over me finally i had enough of back stabers and stood up for myself. if it makes me a bitch then so be it! u find friends in unlikly places!if they cant be real friend then screw them. if they make u miserable then they arnt friends! stand up for urself and look at ppl u normaly dont notice! just look! i go to a VERY small school and ive found my friends! so can u! =] best wishes!!
@pumkinpie5 Thanks so much! I don't really want to completely stop being friends with them though, since they've only recently started making me upset, and it's not too common. Just it's been happening a lot recently. Thanks a lot anyway.
I wonder why some people don't like people jsut because they are 'unpopular', they should just give those people a chance. I think they think its 'cool' to hate the unpopulars. Just my thoughts :)
@Becca - I'm a wannabe professional writer too and I experience the same thing, Buck is absolutely right, take a break, do some reading for a change, it will help you be a better writer. Best of luck. -Sarah
Dear bucky i recently found out that i have a brother who is looking for me what should i do since my mom dosent want me to talk to him but i really want to talk to him cuz i think i have the right to talk to him since i never seen him and i think she dosent want me to talk to him cuz he is the result of an affair that my dad had when they were married
Please, if its possible commit to reading “At Least” one chapter a day.(if you don’t already) If you made that decision please email me at [achapteradaykeepsthedevilaway@gmail.com] just saying that you decided to read one chapter a day in the Bible.
My mom and I have been getting in alot of fights. And its only because when she is stressed out and mad she takes it out on me. It takes me to the point of where I'm crying hysterically. I have told her that I hate it when she screams at me for no reason but she just doesn't understand. And I have told one or two of my friends about it and their advice just doesn't help. Buck please help me.
@HannahChrissyBenson My mother, also when stressed takes out her frustrations on me, even when I am nice to her (and my father too, unfortunately, who has a nervous personality, and like myself, internalizes stress, instead of finding a healthy outlet.
I suggest when you notice any signs in her mood darkening, or any sign of stress, that you quickly excuse yourself, and go de-stress and have fun in the safest environment (A place that your mother has no access to) so that you can relax.
@HannahChrissyBenson My mother does the same sort of thing with me... I can't tell you what you should do for your situation, but this is what works for me: If I notice that she's in a bad mood or that she's starting to get into one, I stay out of her way. She just likes to yell when stressed, so everyone in our family has learned to avoid her when she gets like this. If I can't avoid it, I try to tune it out as best as I can and not react to it in any way since that only provokes her further.
the talk to him normaly thing does not work! i was the first guy at our school how come out of the closet and so many straight guy actually were interested. as i am a guy and when a hot looking nice and intelligent guy asked for a romantic night, i slept with some of them! (dont call me a slut just thing about if you would refuse a nice girl!)
normaly your fucked when you actually like them and they dont want to talk you. just say: I WONT TELL ANYBODY
I hate when gay guys have sex with "straight" boys then fall in love and get their heart broken. Soooo stupid!
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GabyMorpheus 11 months ago
Dear Boyfriend,
I do not wish to partake in sex with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Me.
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I love pickles too Buck and I noticed it seems like a lot of times your advice is simply telling people what they already know but don't want to accept. But that's a good thing because it sounds so less intimidating coming from you.
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sexykatie90 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
This has nothing to do with the video but i really need your help and I am sorry if i am a little late. My friend is thinking and says he's 100% going to kill himself on christmas. I have tried talking to him but nothing is working. He is 14 and i want to know how to prevent this. If anyone is reading this PLEASE help me. Thank you.
Your viewer,
Nameles
purellbb59 1 year ago
@purellbb59 Im so sorry that you have to go through this. I know its after christmas but Im hoping that he didnt do it. As a 13 year old how has thought about suicde I know that all it takes is one person to make you wanna do it and to make you change your mind. Just be there for him ask him why he wants to do it and PLEASE TELL SOMEBODY. Tell anyone. My friends told the princable and then they sent me to the doctor and I am alive because of them. Sorry if Im too late but please messge me back♥
MrsAnnieJonas16 1 year ago
thats stupid
kimaki662 1 year ago
Dear Buck, I feel like I'm an attentionwhore but I also feel I'm just being me... While among my friends I always jump around being too-happy and when I'm home, I tend to be all sad... What should I do?
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WynnonaXandra 1 year ago
"I LOVE PICKLES!" lol
krisandadamluvr 1 year ago
Dear Buck~I'm an 11 year old girl in 7th grade. I'm very mature so don't take my age wrong. I'm obese but I'm healthy and active. I'm too afraid to make friends because I always end up gettin hurt. My family doesnt help with the social problem. My nickname is "Meg Griffen with Sarah Palin glasses." I'll give you a minute to laugh... My family is strangly creative with their fatass jokes. I'm anarchist and really dont care about what people think of me. But it's my own family. I just need advice.
teebeartheunicorn 1 year ago 5
@teebeartheunicorn Wow, the hell you're school system is different than mine! x3 I'm 14 in 8th grade
Eressiz 1 year ago
@Eressiz i skipped a couple grades xDD
teebeartheunicorn 1 year ago
@teebeartheunicorn Hardcore xD
Eressiz 1 year ago
@Eressiz sorta. other than the fact that you have to tell an hour long story to everyone who asks how old you are xDDD
teebeartheunicorn 1 year ago
@teebeartheunicorn xD So do I but that's mainly cuz' I'm 153 centimeters short, have a voice brighter than all the GIRLS I know and I'm femenin x3
Eressiz 1 year ago
For the last question: Creative types and people who enjoy such hobbies a lot, (even if they have lost interest over time) are sometimes inspired (suddenly have a great idea) and motivated (as in the want to do this comes back) to write/draw/sing/play music/compose/act/etc.. Either from dreams or real life events,positive and negative!
If you pay careful attention to details when you are both asleep and awake to to as much as you can, and remember the feelings as well, it will happen soon! :)
nohophil 1 year ago
*Continued from before*
Although her passing was tragic. She may have gone to a better place in the best case scenario, but at the very least she is at peace now. Honor her memory somehow in your own way to cope.
I'm sure many are also missing her immensely as well still to this day! Discuss with those closest to you that you trust about this, if this does not help, try seeking a therapist you trust to confide in, they can help you in various ways, depending on their specialties and skill.
nohophil 1 year ago 2
As for the first question: If she had sex for a couple of months and then thinks it's bad.. That has nothing to do with religion or whatever.. It's obvious that her boyfriend is just a douche
alittleolder 1 year ago
@alittleolder That may be a possibility. But it may also be possible that her needs (and her boyfriend possibly) aren't being met, and/or she may not have the same sex drive as her boyfriend.
If they are overall incompatible with each other, the relationship will cool over time without communication on this, if they want to make it work.
If he/she was an overall bad bf/gf, and/or either became abusive, then it may be time to split up *very* soon! (depending on the severity, and how often..):(
nohophil 1 year ago
Why havent you made any new dear bucks? I miss them
skinsisthebest2 1 year ago 3
@cunfusedxd11 sorry if i got the name wroung im useing my ipod ok i have only one thing to say to say to you theripy
lifesgoodpeep 1 year ago
Buck im 100% sure i like women and never felt like i liked guys but recently i have thought im bi but idk if i really am bi and also if i am bi i live in pennslvannya one of the worst places to be gay lesbian or bi they all hate bis gays and lesbians i dont act or have a personlty that im bi sence your gay you should relate please put this in ask buck i really need help love you bitch (:
lifesgoodpeep 1 year ago
@lifesgoodpeep ugh thats so simple! if you like guys AND girls your bi, if you only like girls your straight! THERES NOTHING TO BE CONFUSED ABOUT
ALXVid101 1 year ago
A straight guy was intimate with me awhile ago, ever since I haven't been able to trust self-proclaimed "straight" men. He was in a relationship with one of my best girlfriends, so I had to tell her eventually. Thankfully I salvaged that friendship, but the friendship with the guy completely fell out. It's left me pretty cynical. I'm stand-offish to men :/ and I get off on rejecting men cuz it feels nice to be wanted, but then to get to play safe and just say "no". Men can be horrible. :\
ohBTW 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I am in 8th grade and having a hard time. I am not the most social person so at the beginning of school I had no one to hang out with but the other loners. At first I thought they were just like me but then I found out that they do drugs, drink and one of them is pregnant at 13. I tried to tell them that I don't want to hang out with them but ended up getting cornered by them threatening to hurt me badly if I leave or tell on them . I am so lost what should I do?
-Samantha
SceneCow 1 year ago 12
@SceneCow First off, just know that there is more to life than the 8th grade. You won't understand it now, but trust me. A lesson my mother always taught me was "Surround yourself with good people." And these kids don't seem like good people if they are threatening you! Try socializing with other people, I'm sure people would love to see you be yourself and shine! For example, look at Lady Gaga. She has so many fans because she is herself all the time! Now, don't be Gaga, but be yourself! <33
ohBTW 1 year ago
@SceneCow firsty,break up with them firmly. try to get some help from your parents ,it will work.
hiibaby12 1 year ago
@SceneCow
don't worry im a loner to, but I bet there's other people at your school you can hang out with. Your obviosly a pretty good person if you don't want to hang out with people doing drugs, just start talking to othere people, no one can hurt you if your with other people who care about you. Break away from them by becoming friends with other responsible people. good luck! *cyberhugs*
tempus091 4 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
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SceneCow 1 year ago
dont u mean pickles can put pickle in you or pickles can put u on a pickle haha
shinyaudi 1 year ago
Hey Buck, Love your show just stumbled across it on youtube but your totally halarious!! I work as a psychic fulltime, and I find myself giving similar advice on a daily basis, you can really read people!! Thanks for being a sweetheart and making the world a better place one person at a time, I try to do the same, will subscribe and thumbs up good luck with the million subscribers if you haven't gotten it already you probably will soon!!
amandasmith547 1 year ago
yawn
DrFawkutoob 1 year ago
take a xanax and chill out dog your lookin pretty twakked out
ats810 1 year ago
To Becca,
Like you, I've been writing my whole life but for a long time until recently, my passion for it had been going down. I agree with Buck that you should just put writing out of your mind for a while and occupy yourself with something else for a while. I also think that talking with friends that are also writers, and sometimes even helping them write is a great way to get inspired again. Good luck! :)
crazypuppypoker 1 year ago
ur gay
hardyboys171 1 year ago
@hardyboys171
Great deducing there, Sherlock.
crazypuppypoker 1 year ago
@crazypuppypoker im just asking gese sherlock u serious that sounded so retareded its not funny
hardyboys171 1 year ago
@crazypuppypoker 1 more fail 3 sub lol uve been on jewtube since 2007 i joined 5 months ago and i got 100 so stfu stupid fagit
hardyboys171 1 year ago
If you remember not being safe, and had unprotected sex (anal or oral, or had physical contact with both your genitals), get tested at private clinic/hospital that guarantees privacy.
Be responsible: If lucky, you'll be clean, or at least the disease you caught is curable! if you have an incurable disease, then tell those you had unsafe sex with!
In the future, don't have unprotected sex until you and your partner get a full-spectrum communicable(sexually or fluid transmitted) disease test.
nohophil 1 year ago 3
If you were both drunk, then don't read into too much into it, as it might be just drunkenness/experimentation. If you were both merely buzzed, or sober, then your straight friend could possibly be attracted to you, and either may be closeted gay or bisexual.
In any case: Be sure to be safe with your partners, have condoms (and a small bottle of water based good product lube, just in case) ready when you go to bars, or on any outing even with friends, even if its just casual, just in case.)
nohophil 1 year ago 3
clicked it just for the thumbnail :)
EdwardBites17 1 year ago
dear buck,
i am currently 14 years old, but when i was 6 one of the guys that i knew tried to get me to have sex with him. i didnt know what was going on, and he told me that it would be fun. now that i look back at it, it's freaking me out. i havent told anyone before, because i am scared. i always thought that i was a virgin, but now looking back i'm not so sure anymore. what should i do?
-karina
confusedx11 1 year ago 6
dear buck
i had sex with my best friends mom and am having a son what do i do
jonlybonly100 1 year ago 4
Dear Buck,
I hope you can help me with this, you don't have to put this in a video but I'd appreciate if you like, sent me a PM or something, if you can't help me its okay though.
Ok so I'm worried about when school starts again this year. I'm very shy and can have trouble with making friends. I sometimes have trouble telling if someone likes me or dislikes me. The thing is I'm concerned that I may have no one to sit with during my lunch period. I'd love to have more friends but...
FluffyPuff16 1 year ago 3
"you're in a pickle because of his pickle"
rofl! so funny.
P.S. I love how you randomly sign different things (like E-L-I)
Do you fluently sign?
eliz3luvs3u 1 year ago 5
Dear Buck
I just wanted to say that you actually can be straight and have sex with someone of the same gender.. If you just fool around with someone that just happends to be of the same gender as you, that doesn't immediately make you gay, so my point is, you can have sex with someone thats of the same gender as you, and still be straight! :) (or you could call it heteroflexible if you want to label it! :P ) And I know this from a very close source! :)
ps. Love your Videos
VictoriaLoveMusic 1 year ago
My parents don't listen to me they constantly hurt my feelings. they swear at me, they put my little brother before me (they'll stop me recording in MY room to let my brother watch TV), and they never focus on the good stuff I do only the bad. My stepdad once said to me that he never has to listen to me simply because he's older than me. What can I do to get them to treat me better?
- Scott
P.S. i couldnt get the moderator to work
Torpex5 1 year ago 4
Dear Buck,
Ever since I was young I have a had weight and eating problems. Some days I feel as though I cannot go a day without junk food or cola. My eating habits have gotten the best of me for years and I want to change it once and for all. Do you have any tips you recommened? Please keep in mind I cant go to a gym cause the closest one is too far. Not to mention everyone in my neighborhood are not the type to go out and play. So what can I do Buck?
With care,
Jorge
archounduser10 1 year ago
Pickles Can Put You in a Pickle!
BatteriesDead 1 year ago
Dear Buck
Fellow homosexual talking here :D A guy I know feels me up quite a few times and I'm really attracted to him, but I dont know how to come out to him but at the same time not come out to the whole school.
Love loads JStew :P
OneAndForAll 1 year ago 77
@OneAndForAll JStew, I would take him aside and ask him how he feels about you. Don't beat about the bush, tell him straight out that you're gay and then tell him that you'd appreciate it if he could keep quiet about it =] Good luck!
sweethomealabama150 1 year ago
@sweethomealabama150
If only I fell for nice boys lol, he is really cute but I've been outed before when I came out 2 years ago to this other guy (N)
But thanks for the advice babes :D
gay hug!
OneAndForAll 1 year ago
@OneAndForAll If he happens to be a proven loyal, and trustworthy friend, by all means ask him in private on a date, or casual outing to get to know him better.
If your school is not already gay-friendly, and at worst doesn't have a no-tolerance policy for bullying, and/or teachers/staff won't take your side if bullied for being gay, there may be a risk of danger!
You should move to another friendly school, but try to get his #, before you leave.(Tell him later)
Be safe, I hope it works out!
nohophil 1 year ago
@OneAndForAll I bet you love loads.
BeyondHiking 1 year ago
@OneAndForAll It sounds like you need to work on a little self-acceptance before coming out to anyone at school. For me, I had no issues coming out in high school... and I went to high school in Kansas! You should probably wait to tell him until you are ready for your orientation to be public information. And be careful to not misread him feeling you up. It could be a sexual/romantic thing, or it could just be him being himself. Some guys are touchy feely.
All the best!
ohBTW 1 year ago
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Usernameinvalid16 1 year ago
@Usernameinvalid16
Great way to spend your time, after all I doubt you would have any sort of sex life as you're commenting on youtube comments
OneAndForAll 1 year ago
@Usernameinvalid16 dude your an asshole
silvermoonlight29 1 year ago
@Usernameinvalid16 Whats wrong with you?
kolling1995 1 year ago
@kolling1995 What did Usernameinvalid1 say?
skinsisthebest2 1 year ago
@OneAndForAll OH NO I accidentally voted you down! I mean to vote up. SORRY! :P
maybeitsapandemic 11 months ago
dear buck, i start school in a couple weeks and it's the first time im goign to be in high school. i just found out that my ex, who is a grade above me has been telling people that i have sent him nude video's of my self to him. i'm terrified that everyone will hear this and think i'm a slut. i don't have lots of friends and i'm worried the ones i have will hear and not like me. what do i do?? love robin
theoriginaltacoshop 1 year ago 2
Dear Buck, I have the worst writers block ever and I cant get over it, I have just stopped writing for almost a month now, I cant think of anything to write regardless, Please Help! Thank you! Lots Of Love ~Alyssa
myownkindofperson 1 year ago
Dear Buck, i came out in video help
ceyg999 1 year ago
Dear buck, I moved to a new town almost a year ago now, and since the beginning people's opinions of me have been changing constantly. But since school ended, no one but 4 of my closest friends have been talking to me at all, and I'm going into highschool for the first time next year with only one friend my age going to that school. I would like a bit of advice for changing my image, and whether i should go in with a cocky or outgoing attitude to make my self more approachable. Thanks! -Conner
MisterMacky 1 year ago
Dear Buck, How long should I cook a slice of cold BBQ chicken pizza in my toaster oven? I put it on an endless toast setting I guess but im a horrible cook and always take it out WAY too late. Im afraid the middle isnt warm yet. I wind up burning the bread and drying out the chicken and burnt BBQ sauce taste awful. I would appreciate your help! :)
I agree completely about getting things in writing. Alot of parents do that to kids... do it right back! Parents are liars! :)
LOVE LOVE LOVE <3
peach0618 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
hi my name is selena i have been watching since the begining. so my mom recently passed away from cancer, and i need advice on how to cope with death, it seems like i get sadder and sadder everyday. thank you buck
-sel
MysticalNails 1 year ago 69
@MysticalNails just last year my grandma died.. and i get it becasue she was my best firend. honestly, it is hard. but you just need to be strong. trust me i know its not what you want to hear and you probably want it to all go away and to act like it never happened. but it will take a while to get used to it but everything will be okay
livie7123 1 year ago
@MysticalNails death is natural, dont think of death as a bad thing, think of death as a thing that every person has to go through, just know that your mom always loved you. do you think your mom would be happy if your just crying and getting depressed over her, no! she wants you to move on! just accept your moms death and know that she always loves you
ALXVid101 1 year ago
@MysticalNails:
Treasure your good memories of her, and keep her close in your heart.
Try to also remember and learn from any bad memories you had during her life. (including her departure from the physical plane into the unknown.) All memories are mostly very important, you try to remember as much as you can!
nohophil 1 year ago 2
@MysticalNails it gets better, i went thru the same thing when i was 11. You just have to accept it and move on. you know she wouldnt want you to be sad. hope this helps :-)
MissMuffinToYou 1 year ago
@mcclaychik if she threatening you by facebook save all the things she's saying and give it to the cops or your school
tomboy6603 1 year ago
in a pickle because of his pickle <3 <3
sugarbabii89 1 year ago 5
hahaha in a pickle cuz of his pickle LOVE IT XD
ThePenguinTeddybear 1 year ago
Hey Buckie!
Ok so middle school starts in 2 weeks and I'm freaking out!! Last year there was a new girl who would totally bully me by pretending to b my friend, the blaming her problems on me. I've talked to her her parents my parents even our counsler but it doesn't stop! She's been threatening me through facebooo that if I show up at school she's going to ruin me at that school forever. Wat do I do?!
Cyber hug!
Mcclay
mcclaychik 1 year ago
@mcclaychik first off nicely tell her to leave you alone. If she doesn't, completely ignore her. don't feed the bullies! they just want a reaction. save everything she sent you and email it straight to the principal. not the dean or the counselor or whoever, but the principal. if that doesn't stop it, get the cops involved. Hope I could help. Good luck. <3
likeits1841 1 year ago
haha buck "im in a pickle, i love pickles!" lol you make me laugh buck <3
LaurenLennox 1 year ago
hey buck, my bet guy friend is starting to wear cosmetics. he is 100% not gay. im afraid that he will get hurt. what should i do?
shelbyjstoll 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I'm pretty sure I have an inferiority complex. Whenever I am around my sister i feel bad about myself. She is four years older, 20, she has a boyfriend is on the dean's list at her college, and is a track star. She comes home every couple of weeks and when she does I feel fat because she's so fit, I feel unattractive/unwanted because I don't have a boyfriend while she does, I feel lazy, dumb, and overall bad about myself. How can I get over this complex? I hate this feeling.
FLAchuck12 1 year ago
whats that song in the end ??? i just totally totally love it !!!!
divyjain123456 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My brother and I never stop fighting, like screaming fighting. But my parents always say I'm over reacting (allow to inform you that he REALLY loves singing god bless america in a falcetto voice) how do I get him to leave me alone so I can stop screaming at him every ten seconds? He really stresses me out.
-Jamie
JameJame661 1 year ago
Dear Buck, My mum and dad divorced about 4 years ago because he cheated on her with another womanandgot ababy. I always used to be a daddy'sgirl but because Lynn(his fiance) is so rude I don't want to speak to him anymore.My dad lied to me about cheating he got engaged twoyears ago and he didn't even tell me, I overheard when I went to his parents' house and when I asked him why he hadn't told me he said it was because he knew I wouldn't like it. We now have to movebecauseofhim.Do I talk to him
coolcandices 1 year ago 4
im in a pickle. i love pickles(;
LegitLittleMonster 1 year ago
what the get a life buk
chacolateluvers4lyfe 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My boyfriend of 2 and a half years has finished it.He said that it was getting boring,I was doing things to piss him off and that he doesnt love me anymore.The pain is unbearable!I still love him yet he doesnt feel the same way.He was my first love and I was actually naive enough that we would spend the rest of our lives together.I really dont know what to do.Ive asked with family and friends.Half of them say that he'll come back and the others has said to move on.What should I do?
AngelOfMusix 1 year ago
@AngelOfMusix Move on. If he said he doesn't love you any more, he meant it, and if he does come back to you now, it'll be because he can't find someone better and he'll leave you again (or cheat) as soon as he does. Breakups are hard, it's OK to be hurt and upset. Focus on the relationships that ARE good, like with friends and family, and try not to put all your emotional eggs in one basket next time. Most of us have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find our prince.
PurrfectPeach 1 year ago
Becca, read the book Writing Down the Bones. It's a wonderful book and it's great for finding inspiration.
Nowheresfinest 1 year ago
We still text and Skype alot, and if we were in a relationship I think it would work if we put forth more of an effort to get together. Anyways, I'm head over heels for this guy but I'm still not totally sure he likes me. I've told him that I liked him recently and he didn't make it clear how he felt. It seems like he does have feelings for me but why doesn't he ask me out? I mean he's done it before. It's very confusing. Buck, what should I do?
Thanks, Jessica(:
P.S. Love the intro!
jessizzle1 1 year ago 3
Continued... We always have been good friends even after the relationship ended. But this summer we became very close again. We were both working on a play. (It was Seussical the Musical in case you were wondering.) During rehersal he held my hand, and I thought he liked me again. A couple weeks ago, at the cast party after the show he kissed me. So I was hoping he would ask me out and we would date again. But he hasn't. Will be continued. :)
jessizzle1 1 year ago 3
Dear Buck,
My name is Jessica and I'm crushing on a guy. We've had a relationship in the past, and we really loved each other. We dated for 8 months and ended up breaking up because we weren't seeing each other all that much. He lived about 30 minutes away from me and we couldn't get over to see each other all that often. He is 2 years older than me, which isn't that much but when you're both teenagers it seems longer. This will be continued. :)
jessizzle1 1 year ago
1660 like 13 dislike... oh buck
LoverrMyshades 1 year ago
I lost my passion for writing for almost two years, but it very suddenly returned. It's absolutely normal, and I wouldn't worry about it.
Sandra0Argentium 1 year ago
to Becka... that happened to me too... im a writer and the same thing happened to me... after about a month or so i got back to writhing.... so just take a break
Marika50 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My boyfriend of a little over 3 years cheated on me and had sex with my best friend a few times. neither one of them told me. I had to figure it out on my own. dispite all of this and all of the pain i've been through, I cannot seem to leave him. He is my first serious relationship so therefore i'll basically do anything to be with him. I know i need to leave him but i cannot seem to gain the confidence in myself to do so.
KIMMEYx 1 year ago
@KIMMEYx hey i just read your issue and you honestly need to leave them both alone andi i know you love him and stuff but mama you have to grow and love yourself more then them...they clearly dont care about your feelings and were trying to play you behind your back..leave them both alone and move on...I know you said first serious relationship but trust me it wont be your last. girl you need to bounce...
ctina1980 1 year ago
dear buck ,
i am takin athletics this year and i took track volleyball basketball and tennis .
people like my mom and my brothers have been saying that its alot of work and its hard .do u think i am getting carried away with the sports i am doing ?should i let go of some of the sports?
Lilnetty122 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My best friend is always in a fight with her parents about something and she thinks her parents like, hate her at all that jazz. We are 15 and she always comes to me for help and support but I'm TERRIBLE at it ( I'm a guy )!! But I can't help her because I give her advice that never helps or she thinks it's to blunt. What can I do? Please help.
P.S. Love the show even though i got into it like 3 weeks ago.
TheInterworld 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I'm in seventh grade, and I have three girls who are hitting on me. I'm gay. I don't know what to do, because at this age, I think it probably isn't the right time to come out yet. What do I do? I know that at my age and in my grade, there are a lot of homophobes. Please help!
--Jacob
TheDocJayz 1 year ago 5
@TheDocJayz Wait, that is all I can say. In middle school, people can be juvenile and judge, so labeling yourself is never the ideal situation while you are that young. Hope I could help. Just wait, that's it.
0ogabooha 1 year ago
@TheDocJayz I've had the same situation (continuing from last response), and I just said "it's not you, its me". XD, cheesiest card you can play.
0ogabooha 1 year ago
all this video has accomplished for me is making me want a pickle... :]
StevieRaeJohnson 1 year ago
Pickles *shakes head and laughs*
LIONASAUR 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
Are you gay or are all Americans like that?
CityRuler1 1 year ago
@CityRuler1 Not all gay people act like that.
devdoger62 1 year ago
@devdoger62 hes gay, but it shouldn't matter if u like his vids
CraftingWithFrannie 1 year ago
@CraftingWithFrannie What r u talking about. Im gay so its not like im holding it against him.
devdoger62 1 year ago
Hi
I'm in 7th grade and I feel like I don't belong anywhere!!!
I feel fat and like if I wasn't here anymore nobody would notice or care...
I have been trying every fad diet there is for nothing...
Please help me!!!
Love ya Buck!!
-Kait
PinkyPaws100 1 year ago
okay soo i was at a concert and a modeling agent came up to me and offered me like this open call and then i made it threw cuts and they said theyd email us if they were really interested and what happens if they dont email me? and if they do should i do it? cuz it could just go no where and nothing happens! plz help me with this dilema
shellbell3333 1 year ago
Dear Buck
Love WhatTheBuck! I unfortunately am a terrible student in school. For as long as I can remember I have had bad grades and it constantly gets in the way of my theater and other fun activities. How can I get out of my habits and get back on track? Please, please, please respond
deadlyted21 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My dad always tells me that I am fat and lazy and that I will get heart disease and die when I am 20 years old. Today I also caught my dad complaining to my mom about how I do not do more active things (i am an orchestra geek) and how I should be more like my sister who runs track and cross country and duz cycling. What should i do!
Mike
VlogNating 1 year ago
@VlogNating sweetie i know how you feel (i'm a band nerd, choir geek and on the heavier side) but i'd say that if you are comfortable in your own skin then disregard your dads comments. i've always been compared to my tiny sporty cousins but we are our own people with our own lives. Instead of being "active/skinny" being "healthy" is more important. Activeness is good but it doesnt have to be your life like it is your sisters, and maybe you need to talk to him about that or even your mom to help
XDjXDtheleftsideXD 1 year ago
PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!
My older brother's best friend and I became involved with each other around late February. We talked all the time and it was all in secret. He made me feel so great and I loved spending time with him. All of a sudden he told me he didn't want to talk to me anymore, when I talk to him about it he says he couldn't do it to my brother but he will always be attracted to me. He is moving on to other girls and it makes me feel really upset. I feel really sad all the time. Help!
mmhmm2121 1 year ago
Hi Buck!
I'm Sienna
I've been watching your for about 4 months now love you!
anyways onto the questions
I'm 13 and a half and I have a normal body.
I have a chest and I do wear a bra, but I still wear a training bra. I have bigger boobs than most of my friends and they wear regular cup bras.
How do I tell my mom that i want to wear cup/regular bras?
I am a little embarrassed so ya.
p.s. i want to tell her i wanna wear make up 2 b/c i am not so girly and she would be surprised
Thanks so much!
zyxwvut98765431 1 year ago
get it in writing is the best advise. my family did that, even with small little deals we kids would do.
knightsintodreams 1 year ago
good advice:)
RenatoandEric 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I have this "gift" for feeling the pain somone has. I thinks its fine but sometimes its to much. Like today. If anyone on youtube asks to suscribe..i have to do it. And if i dont i get heavy hearted which is bad cuz my hearts not very strong. I just feel sadness. Its just something i do. Should i get rid of the gift or keep it?
RubberPiggesAndGir 1 year ago
@RubberPiggesAndGir trust me i have the same thing its not being oversensitive,just believe in what you think is right and dont forget it also helps to harden your heart at some things else you'd be a mess in the end
AxleTrade 1 year ago
Eli, my girlfriend of three years is seventeen. She's starting a business for a language-learning centre. She has big plans for it, but she's starting it small as a tutoring service. She's very serious about this; and from what I can tell, the only thing that determines how well you do is how much you want it. Not your age.
Becca, I don't know what you write, but what I find helpful when I just can't do any more: listen to some Classical music. Read a book. watch a movie. It all helps.
HighKingTurgon 1 year ago
Dear Buck, My bf is always working and broke a lot so he can't use his phone.Been over two months now since we saw each other but I got a text two weeks ago saying he isn't ignoring, he's just busy. His boss is an overworking him but he has no choice. I want to be caring, understanding gf,do I stand by him and hope the situation gets better; or find someone who has time for me? PS, this happened before,we got in contact again when he had a few days off. Love you Buck. Sophie (Liverpool, England)
PleaseRunDownBella 1 year ago
YAYYY taylor swift poster again! question: why do you always make fun of taylor in your vids, but you have a poster of her?
yayamann 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Reanna, My boyfriend always thinks im cheating on him when i hang out with my best guyfriend and his brother. i was friends with them before i met my BF. No matter how many times i say i dont he doesn't listen. what should i do??
RockenRena 1 year ago
@RockenRena well if he doesnt trust you what;s the use of keeping the relationship?,keep trying to make him trust you if he really doesnt listen youd have to let him go,since trust is the foundation of relationships
AxleTrade 1 year ago
For the "get it in writing" one. I wanted something and my parents said if I followed this list of agreements for a month then I'd get it(I don't remember what I wanted) At the end of the month I went to my dad and he told me "I should have got it in writing" So when I tried to get it in writing he said "I am NOT going to sign a contract with my kid!" So be prepared.
dreamer92491 1 year ago
great job!
gaiabahamut 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I think that I take things too seriously. I am also known as "The Party-Pooper" and I have just become depressing to be around because I take things too seriously. People tell jokes about me just playing around, but I constantly take it to heart. How can I overcome this problem and do you ever have this problem because you seem like a pretty open man. I'm a very big fan and I have been watching for about two years :). Please pick my Q.
-Josh
JoshwaBAM 1 year ago 2
Dear Elizabeth,
My mom started her company when she was about 23 or 24 and now shes in her fifteies and and makes a lot of money ( I meant I dont really know how much shes my mom haha) so ya I would go for it!
iloveturtles3 1 year ago
@flavourousgirl that's not the same. I write all the time and get writers block, which just means I need to let up for a day to a month. If you used to draw then grew out of it, it's a phase.
mewichigo10 1 year ago
@mewichigo10 Actually I disagree with you. It can definitely be the same. I love to draw, and sometimes like writer's block, I feel as if I can't draw anymore. But, after a couple of days or even a month, I will once again feel passionate about drawing. It doesn't neccesarily mean her love for drawing was only a phase.
heartgirl50 1 year ago
@briandaydreamer screw your mom! If you want to talk to your brother, she can't stop you. Go to a guidance counselor or something if she tries to, 'cause they can help.
mewichigo10 1 year ago
Becca, I always love drawning. Since I was little I was drawning all the time. And now I don't do it anymore ... Sometimes I'm in a mood for it ... But I'm not that passionate anymore
FlavourousGirl 1 year ago
Eli (if I spelled that right).. Your never to young to do anything.. If you believe you can do it and work hard you can do anything..
imwatvhingyou2047 1 year ago
Hannah: If the situation is worse than this:
If she is ever physically abusive, or ever threatens violence, or still harasses you emotionally:
1.Find close family/friends you trust, ask if you can stay with them for 3 days to a week.
2.Then contact, & consult an reliable/trustworthy attorney, and file for emancipation!
3.If you win the case, you will live on your own(or group home)& your parents will pay your expenses until you're an adult, & may also be ordered to pay for therapy sessions.
nohophil 1 year ago
Waiting for marriage lady: If it doesn't work out with your boyfriend, try online dating sites, clubs/organizations you belong to, and/or even a reliable matchmaker and/or savvy friend to set you up on a date (Just make sure that you tell her what you're looking for in a man, and that waiting for marriage *must* be one of the mutual interests you have to share in common.)
Good luck to you. :D
nohophil 1 year ago 2
Hey guys I'm the guy that asked this question and after taking the advise that i got from a lot of you and from Buck it all worked out we talked about after five days of no talking at all and he actually said he was really sorry about what happened and he hopes I forgive him(like i had anything to forgive) he wanted to just laugh about it and still be friends which i love bc he's my only straight(well not anymore lol) friend and i love him :)
Jorgeventure 1 year ago
Ugh, why are all the sensative guys gay?! Well not all but you know what I mean...
Zelehandra 1 year ago
Pickles are just misunderstood!
bynidrix 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
i have a problem i hope you will reply to me or that someone in the comments will
Well, i went out with a guy and whenever we went out the atmosphere was awkawrd and i fell uncomfortable
But now that i have dumped him i want him back im not sure if i just want him back because i liked being in a relationship or because i miss him
Any advice would be great thanx :D love all of us socials
EmmaBruceTV 1 year ago
@EmmaBruceTV hmm ik the feeling i dated this guy for a few months and it was a messy break up! i wound up dating him a 2 nd time and i dumped him. we still talk and i idk y but i still rly rly like him but its only when i talk to him! give it some time and if u still want to go for it! he might have been rly nervous when u were together thats why it might of been akward! much luck! =]
pumkinpie5 1 year ago
Becca, writer's block is one of the most normal things in our writer's world. If you force the matter, you will not be proud of what you create. Inspiration comes and goes, don't worry about it.
avescharleston 1 year ago
@2punk4breakfast Those "gay haters" from Westboro Baptist Church that protested the concert outside..the concert wasn't bad just the way that those people behaved was unacceptable
RedLightRevolt 1 year ago
@HippoLesb do you Have an Aim I can Help u put A comment on my channel or sometype of contact info i. Can help u And do whatever you need
wtfuhater102 1 year ago
Plasmavore i Wa wondering do you have an aim i can help you
wtfuhater102 1 year ago
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@wtfuhater102 I don't. :/
You could PM me on Youtube though. :)
plasmavore 1 year ago
Dear Buck, I have very few friends at my school, literally only 3 and I'm scared that they are starting to hate me. They constantly insult me and members of my family 'as jokes' and whenever I say something they always put me down. It's been going on a while now. I really want to start over but everyone at my school hates me for some reason.They're the only friends I have but they are making me miserable What should I do?
Thanks, love the show by the way :)
plasmavore 1 year ago 19
@plasmavore hey i have the same prob! everyone at my school just dont like me. ppl insulted me and steped all over me finally i had enough of back stabers and stood up for myself. if it makes me a bitch then so be it! u find friends in unlikly places!if they cant be real friend then screw them. if they make u miserable then they arnt friends! stand up for urself and look at ppl u normaly dont notice! just look! i go to a VERY small school and ive found my friends! so can u! =] best wishes!!
pumkinpie5 1 year ago
@pumkinpie5 Thanks so much! I don't really want to completely stop being friends with them though, since they've only recently started making me upset, and it's not too common. Just it's been happening a lot recently. Thanks a lot anyway.
I wonder why some people don't like people jsut because they are 'unpopular', they should just give those people a chance. I think they think its 'cool' to hate the unpopulars. Just my thoughts :)
plasmavore 1 year ago
@plasmavore I had the same problem, they turned on me, I made new friend and there with me, just do what your gut tells you to do.
myownkindofperson 1 year ago
@Becca - I'm a wannabe professional writer too and I experience the same thing, Buck is absolutely right, take a break, do some reading for a change, it will help you be a better writer. Best of luck. -Sarah
Arelleth 1 year ago
Hey forum, I've got another problem, the theatre girl I wanna ask out. Erm, I'm not shure if she's single!! Guys plz help!!
TheThomas991 1 year ago
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Dear bucky i recently found out that i have a brother who is looking for me what should i do since my mom dosent want me to talk to him but i really want to talk to him cuz i think i have the right to talk to him since i never seen him and i think she dosent want me to talk to him cuz he is the result of an affair that my dad had when they were married
briandaydreamer 1 year ago
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theLORDbetheglory 1 year ago
0:17 awesome explanation!
kjkingsley 1 year ago
"I'm into pickle...I love pickle!" hahahahaha
vudang00 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
My mom and I have been getting in alot of fights. And its only because when she is stressed out and mad she takes it out on me. It takes me to the point of where I'm crying hysterically. I have told her that I hate it when she screams at me for no reason but she just doesn't understand. And I have told one or two of my friends about it and their advice just doesn't help. Buck please help me.
HannahChrissyBenson 1 year ago 103
@HannahChrissyBenson you need to email him with the email in the description
ThetigergoesRAWR101 1 year ago
@HannahChrissyBenson My mother, also when stressed takes out her frustrations on me, even when I am nice to her (and my father too, unfortunately, who has a nervous personality, and like myself, internalizes stress, instead of finding a healthy outlet.
I suggest when you notice any signs in her mood darkening, or any sign of stress, that you quickly excuse yourself, and go de-stress and have fun in the safest environment (A place that your mother has no access to) so that you can relax.
nohophil 1 year ago
@HannahChrissyBenson i had the same thing. my mom was abusive. i moved out
dave8594 1 year ago
@HannahChrissyBenson My mother does the same sort of thing with me... I can't tell you what you should do for your situation, but this is what works for me: If I notice that she's in a bad mood or that she's starting to get into one, I stay out of her way. She just likes to yell when stressed, so everyone in our family has learned to avoid her when she gets like this. If I can't avoid it, I try to tune it out as best as I can and not react to it in any way since that only provokes her further.
izorizo 1 year ago
@HannahChrissyBenson I can help.......
775gary 1 year ago
the talk to him normaly thing does not work! i was the first guy at our school how come out of the closet and so many straight guy actually were interested. as i am a guy and when a hot looking nice and intelligent guy asked for a romantic night, i slept with some of them! (dont call me a slut just thing about if you would refuse a nice girl!)
normaly your fucked when you actually like them and they dont want to talk you. just say: I WONT TELL ANYBODY
then you just wait what happens next.
blablasuperstar 1 year ago