Well aren't you just a little smartypants. Being all grown up and giving out detailed comments. To bad I posted that comment over a year ago, so I could careless what you have to say your just fun to argue with, what to you so long.
for me as an Austrian it is very unfamiliar to see that the family takes a picture with the dead person. in Austria it even isn't common to have open coffins.
in my eyes losing my dad was d worst thing possible in my whole life he died 1999 everyday i think abt him even dream abt him i knw hes my guardian angel. my darling mum is still alive age 67 i live with her follow her cos am so scared of losing her i dread d day if anythin ever happened 2 her i dnt think i would be alive
@xXTROPHIESXx wot do u mean might ehhhh HE WILL C HIM AGAIN INFACT ALWAYS!!! guardian angels r all around n i bet this wonderful dad is 1 of d guardian angels
This is clearly a sensitively prepared video tribute to your father.It's so obvious you aren't just mourning his passing,you are also celebrating his existence.Back in Victorian times,a photo of a deceased loved 1 was the only 'proof' that person existed,& it was popular tribute.Why should we be any different today?And,as you say,not all of your father's loved ones could attend the funeral.There's nothing 'macabre' or dis-respectful about this at all.R.I.P your father!
@popazz1 -That's a really good way of explaining it, nicely done. Dead people shouldn't give the living, "the willies" b/c they are just that....... dead people.
@AnimalGuardian71 ,Thanks.My parents died within 15 months of each other when I was in my early 20s,back in the early 80s,& I learned pretty quickly that the dead aren't to be feared.And,those who DO have an 'issue' with these kinds of videos,just 1 question,Why do they watch them? Morbid curiosity? Probably.If people don't 'agree' with the video-ing of these 'private' moments,then they don't have to view them!
@popazz1 - I don't even want to think what it's like to lose your parents. :( I'm lucky mine are both still here for now, but of course inevitably that day will come. I guess you and I have different views on death than others. There's nothing creepy about it to me, and as a matter of fact, was a trauma nurse for years. So I was able to be with many, many people when they moved on. Holding their hands, reassuring them, etc. Quite peaceful really.
With you all the way on that! My work in residential nursing afforded me the absolute privilege of being with those who's time was ready to go forward,to wherever they were going.No-one's passing should go un-noticed.Mourn if you need to,it's a natural process,but celebrate as well.
I think it is a good thing to be able to do for your family. If people dont want to see it then dont click it. If this is what helps the family come to terms with a loss then why would any normal person have a problem with it?
I am sorry for your families loss and thank you for sharring it with us.
I my nan passed away in 08 fr parkinsons disease and also she had servere arthritus too she was a slient alaholic too yet she really badly fr the parkinsons yet I my nan and I had a private time before she passed to say gdbye to each other she couldn't talk yet she struggled all day in the home she was in to find the right spot on the tape for dannyboy she play the tape and dannyboy came on my heart broke and I knew my was too saying how much she loved me etc there isn't a day I don't miss her
Death is not the end, Its the the start of the new. A place far better than life as it is today. Be strong and live you're life ( Thats what he would have wanted no dout) Make him proud and stand proud
i wish i would have put my daughter viewing on youtube, because she didnt even look like she was dead. she just looked like she was sleeping. she was so peaceful & beautiful. she was laying on her side in the casket as she would have been in her own bed.. the funeral homes do a great job.. they helped me thur my daughter passing and the process.. i have a picture of my daughter after she died, and in the picture is a full angle figure.. its amazing.. to see her spirit angle..
@alaitain My Word so so sorry for your loss, I am a father of 2 beautiful boys, to see either of them in a coffin is not something I can or want to omprehend, may god bless you and your daughter XX
I think this video was done in good taste. You have a beautiful family - so sorry for the loss of your father. That was very thoughtful of you to do this so your family could experience the funeral since they couldn't be there. God bless you and your family!
Im so sorry hun for your loss, I would want someone to do the same for me when my father passes, because I know it will be difficult for me to be there, thank you for sharing such and intimate moment, Loss of life isnt something to be sad about but a beautiful moment to share with God....its only temporary.....just think of it this way.."Daddy I'll see you soon" Its never a goodbye...just a see ya later...God Bless...Dawn
There is never any words that can express the loss of a person who was a part in the miracle who made you everything you became to be. To me losing my dad was like he had left a whole that will never be able to be filled or any other man to take his place. I still feel lost. I took care of him up until the very end. God bless you.
Whats with people that say "Why put this on youtube" and all that? If you dont like it dont watch it, what a lovely video and im sorry for your loss x
bec, my mom and my sister and brother and most of my relatives cant make it on his funeral. this is the only way they can watch it. most of them dont have youtube account. since you can watch it in here without signing up, i guess its better this way. i also embed this video on my dad's site that i made. thanks.
I am sorry for ur loss, but I find it horrible to get pictures done beside a dead person and put it up on youtube, you can create a video and send it to ur relatives via email, or in a cd, or u can do a memorial video, but not with pictures of ur dead father in it, its horrible!!
@verosanzmc Blow it out your butt. Who installed you as the "Proper Way to Show Grief Sheriff?" I am a complete stranger to these people yet I was moved to tears by the level of love and respect that this family showed this man. When my wife died I would have loved for her unquenchable spirit to have been memorialized in this fashion. Instead, her children quibbled over who picked up her ashes and who got what jewelry. The loss of my wife, their Mother, became a secondary issue in my eyes.
@sugarkisses1202 I was wondering the same thing about filming and putting it on youtube. Thanks for explaining. You took beautiful photos, for the purpose they have.
@gotogta really?? have you ever thought that its a grieving process? perhaps it helped her to come to terms with her loss... And perhaps she wanted to share with therld how amazing her daddy was in her eyes...
I merely believe that everyone has a different way of dealing with the passing of a loved One, and there is absolutely nothing wrong, sharing this on you tube, the video is done very tasteful.
@gotogta My heart goes out to U and your family. But just kinda wondering what do you think your father would have thought about you posting this video? My father passed away Feb.2010 and my mom passed away in 1995 my whole family is gone. So I understand way to well the loss of a loved one. It hurts all the time, but the peace of course is knowing one day we will be with them again.
@MegaELECTRICEYE Do you not realize that the Federal Government has a very similar site for the military men and women who participated in WW II yet have passed on? It is a Memorial which will live on for all family and friends to "gather" around from time to time and reflect on the life and times of someone whom they respected and loved. I stumbled across this without really realizing what it was. I was moved by the passion and compassion which this family held for their Father. God Bless them.
Yeah but you weren't asking so that you could learn. You were being a self-righteous prick, voicing a nasty opinion in the "form" of a question. Which coincidentally, is why you probably don't learn much in life. Go ahead and argue with me, prove me right :)
@JurisArcane Again, no. I wanted to know why they would put it on YouTube, how was I to know they had family somewhere else. There's no tone in the comment either, the only reason you made a comment, is because i probably offended you in some way. Maybe the owner of this video didn't take it that way. Calling me a righteous prick is stupid when your the one making an argument over a simple comment. Thank you for your concern, and feel free to comment back. Cause I know you will. :)
@gotogta LoL@ "feel free to comment back". Do you know why people say that? 1.) They know the person is likely going to comment back, but somehow, because you predicted the inevitable, you're gonna look smart at the end of all this. 2.) You'd like to get out of the conversation by giving me the option of not replying, at the expense of letting you have the last word.
Here's a better question. Why would you, come and watch a video like this, then ask someone why they would upload it? :)
@gotogta Oh, and if you'd like a simple answer to your question, I'll give it to you. They uploaded it, because it's Youtube. There are literally billions of videos of any subject matter you can think of on this network. Does it really surprise you that someone uploaded a funeral? Is this just the most "puzzling" and"outlandish" thing you've ever seen? Oh my, yes. You're just that curious aren't you. And no you didn't offend me. I just don't like critics who play dumb when confronted.
Very heart touching....I am in Mortuary College myself, and have been in the business for two years....i admire and appreciate how you showed the celebration of life aspect of this visitation...May God bless and keep your family through this troubled time
my dad had cancer and there was rough times. The angels wanted to take him so many times. we wouldnt let them. im so deeply sorry for your loss. but they do say that god chooses his favourite angels.....XXX
Beautiful and touching...so sad for your' loss. My little sis passed right before my eyes April 26th. I know that it is neccessary to be in a hospital's care and yet all the tubes and wires and stuff is just so undignified somehow. It becomes more of that and less of soul and love and family. We never left her side, someone was always there...looks like your' Father was much loved as well..bless you and yours'.
I am so sorry hun. : [ When my mom passed away, it nearly killed me. It was six years ago she died, but it still sometimes feels like she died yesterday. May he Rest In Peace.
Wow :( how sad. I am so sorry!!!!! May the Lord be with you and your family. My grandam just passed away in May and I try not to cry but its so hard, so I can imagine how you feel with this being your father.
Well aren't you just a little smartypants. Being all grown up and giving out detailed comments. To bad I posted that comment over a year ago, so I could careless what you have to say your just fun to argue with, what to you so long.
gotogta 1 month ago
I like the open top casket, he looks peaceful and looks like hes smiling:)
emilylolcoates 2 months ago
Abby its called Angel Wings, by Marisa. Its on youtube actually :)
blsfreek 2 months ago
i love this song what the name of it ?
abbyrw 2 months ago
so sorry for your loss, but yes, you'll see him in heaven one day.
Staciegwen 2 months ago
for me as an Austrian it is very unfamiliar to see that the family takes a picture with the dead person. in Austria it even isn't common to have open coffins.
deei2 3 months ago
Beautiful family, tribute and man. Bless you.
robin56 3 months ago
whats this song called i love it
mariahoreo 3 months ago in playlist mariahoreo's favorites
how did he past away
TheThebeast1212 4 months ago
Jetzt ruht Er in Frieden.Ich wünsche der Familie alles Gute,vor allem Gesundheit.LG aus Deutschland.C
Carminaburana1000 4 months ago
I wish I knew my Father so I have someone to miss.
Lovingirl80 5 months ago 2
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Sorry for ur loss
Denisha1980 5 months ago
No more suffering..he's at peace watching over u...until that day
12wildchild321 7 months ago
Very sad, service looked peaceful and beautiful RIP
K80sharpshooter 7 months ago
sad :(
CrazyNative4 7 months ago
in my eyes losing my dad was d worst thing possible in my whole life he died 1999 everyday i think abt him even dream abt him i knw hes my guardian angel. my darling mum is still alive age 67 i live with her follow her cos am so scared of losing her i dread d day if anythin ever happened 2 her i dnt think i would be alive
sicilyf 8 months ago
I'm very sorry for your loss. You might have a chance to see him again.
xXTROPHIESXx 10 months ago
@xXTROPHIESXx wot do u mean might ehhhh HE WILL C HIM AGAIN INFACT ALWAYS!!! guardian angels r all around n i bet this wonderful dad is 1 of d guardian angels
sicilyf 8 months ago
My most sincere respects from Germany, as I lost my mum way to early I know how you feel..take care...I will keep you in my prayers
Ninnisworld2901 11 months ago
This is clearly a sensitively prepared video tribute to your father.It's so obvious you aren't just mourning his passing,you are also celebrating his existence.Back in Victorian times,a photo of a deceased loved 1 was the only 'proof' that person existed,& it was popular tribute.Why should we be any different today?And,as you say,not all of your father's loved ones could attend the funeral.There's nothing 'macabre' or dis-respectful about this at all.R.I.P your father!
popazz1 1 year ago
@popazz1 -That's a really good way of explaining it, nicely done. Dead people shouldn't give the living, "the willies" b/c they are just that....... dead people.
AnimalGuardian71 1 year ago
@AnimalGuardian71 ,Thanks.My parents died within 15 months of each other when I was in my early 20s,back in the early 80s,& I learned pretty quickly that the dead aren't to be feared.And,those who DO have an 'issue' with these kinds of videos,just 1 question,Why do they watch them? Morbid curiosity? Probably.If people don't 'agree' with the video-ing of these 'private' moments,then they don't have to view them!
popazz1 1 year ago
@popazz1 - I don't even want to think what it's like to lose your parents. :( I'm lucky mine are both still here for now, but of course inevitably that day will come. I guess you and I have different views on death than others. There's nothing creepy about it to me, and as a matter of fact, was a trauma nurse for years. So I was able to be with many, many people when they moved on. Holding their hands, reassuring them, etc. Quite peaceful really.
AnimalGuardian71 1 year ago
@AnimalGuardian71 ,
With you all the way on that! My work in residential nursing afforded me the absolute privilege of being with those who's time was ready to go forward,to wherever they were going.No-one's passing should go un-noticed.Mourn if you need to,it's a natural process,but celebrate as well.
popazz1 1 year ago
@popazz1 - Well put :)
AnimalGuardian71 1 year ago
@AnimalGuardian71 ,
Thanks,sweetie! : )
popazz1 1 year ago
I think it is a good thing to be able to do for your family. If people dont want to see it then dont click it. If this is what helps the family come to terms with a loss then why would any normal person have a problem with it?
I am sorry for your families loss and thank you for sharring it with us.
bullpuppies1 1 year ago
RIP
xanh01 1 year ago
THIS SONG IS BEAUTIFUL MAN!GOD BLESS U
chowchop1 1 year ago
My sincere condolences and hope your love and memories bring you comfort.
silentfades 1 year ago
I my nan passed away in 08 fr parkinsons disease and also she had servere arthritus too she was a slient alaholic too yet she really badly fr the parkinsons yet I my nan and I had a private time before she passed to say gdbye to each other she couldn't talk yet she struggled all day in the home she was in to find the right spot on the tape for dannyboy she play the tape and dannyboy came on my heart broke and I knew my was too saying how much she loved me etc there isn't a day I don't miss her
DanielR305 1 year ago
Death is not the end, Its the the start of the new. A place far better than life as it is today. Be strong and live you're life ( Thats what he would have wanted no dout) Make him proud and stand proud
MsDrummermike 1 year ago
i wish i would have put my daughter viewing on youtube, because she didnt even look like she was dead. she just looked like she was sleeping. she was so peaceful & beautiful. she was laying on her side in the casket as she would have been in her own bed.. the funeral homes do a great job.. they helped me thur my daughter passing and the process.. i have a picture of my daughter after she died, and in the picture is a full angle figure.. its amazing.. to see her spirit angle..
alaitain 1 year ago
@alaitain I am so sorry for your loss!She is now with Jesus!
Hans021220 1 year ago
@alaitain My Word so so sorry for your loss, I am a father of 2 beautiful boys, to see either of them in a coffin is not something I can or want to omprehend, may god bless you and your daughter XX
Darrell9029 1 year ago
So sorry for your loss. Remember theses words dear one... To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
sewhappy2sew 1 year ago
I'm very sorry for your loss. My grandmother died at 4:57 this morning.
thecessnacitation 1 year ago
Sorry for your loss i no how you feel
tanner101ish 1 year ago
sorry for your loss!
glenmann62 1 year ago
my mom passed away October of last year, and I still can't believe it. It takes time to recover, but you will slowly. I love the song by the way.
God bless.
WumWip 1 year ago
hey my father passed recently too...my heart goesout to u..i know exactly what u mean
starwars789 1 year ago
gOD BLESS YOU!
burgosmercedes 1 year ago
Man if i lost any of my family members theres no way in hell i can ever publish it on youtube...
TheeNameIsBrandon 1 year ago
What may I ask did he die of?
Lindawatcher 1 year ago
I think this video was done in good taste. You have a beautiful family - so sorry for the loss of your father. That was very thoughtful of you to do this so your family could experience the funeral since they couldn't be there. God bless you and your family!
EagleIntuition 1 year ago
Very sorry for your loss. My father passed in 1994 and I still miss him so much.
May God be with you always.
GhostofBrianJones 1 year ago
I'm sorry for your Dads passing. My heart goes out to your family. Take comfort knowing that death is not the end....just an interlude..
chivone21 1 year ago
just respect people for how the want to do this.
if people dont wanna watch,dont watch it,
sorry for your loss sugarkisses...
i lost my dad years ago too
chaza3000 1 year ago
God bless you and your family during your loss.....My heart goes out to you.
tenor175 1 year ago
very well done, very respectful. I am sorry for your loss
cactuschris2002 1 year ago
Im so sorry hun for your loss, I would want someone to do the same for me when my father passes, because I know it will be difficult for me to be there, thank you for sharing such and intimate moment, Loss of life isnt something to be sad about but a beautiful moment to share with God....its only temporary.....just think of it this way.."Daddy I'll see you soon" Its never a goodbye...just a see ya later...God Bless...Dawn
GoGirl311 1 year ago
There is never any words that can express the loss of a person who was a part in the miracle who made you everything you became to be. To me losing my dad was like he had left a whole that will never be able to be filled or any other man to take his place. I still feel lost. I took care of him up until the very end. God bless you.
blackielawless101 1 year ago
my dad died to
Disturbed123FTW 1 year ago
he look's so peaceful. god bless u.
BLAKPEARL69 1 year ago
Whats with people that say "Why put this on youtube" and all that? If you dont like it dont watch it, what a lovely video and im sorry for your loss x
2759200x 1 year ago
I'm sory for your loss
didisan976 1 year ago
I understand were your coming from, but y did u put it on youtube? Just wondering?
gotogta 1 year ago 2
bec, my mom and my sister and brother and most of my relatives cant make it on his funeral. this is the only way they can watch it. most of them dont have youtube account. since you can watch it in here without signing up, i guess its better this way. i also embed this video on my dad's site that i made. thanks.
sugarkisses1202 1 year ago 15
@sugarkisses1202 I am so sorry for your loss!
Hans021220 1 year ago
@sugarkisses1202
I am sorry for ur loss, but I find it horrible to get pictures done beside a dead person and put it up on youtube, you can create a video and send it to ur relatives via email, or in a cd, or u can do a memorial video, but not with pictures of ur dead father in it, its horrible!!
verosanzmc 4 months ago
@verosanzmc Blow it out your butt. Who installed you as the "Proper Way to Show Grief Sheriff?" I am a complete stranger to these people yet I was moved to tears by the level of love and respect that this family showed this man. When my wife died I would have loved for her unquenchable spirit to have been memorialized in this fashion. Instead, her children quibbled over who picked up her ashes and who got what jewelry. The loss of my wife, their Mother, became a secondary issue in my eyes.
1955thekeeper 4 months ago
@sugarkisses1202 I was wondering the same thing about filming and putting it on youtube. Thanks for explaining. You took beautiful photos, for the purpose they have.
kelaltieri 1 month ago
@gotogta really?? have you ever thought that its a grieving process? perhaps it helped her to come to terms with her loss... And perhaps she wanted to share with therld how amazing her daddy was in her eyes...
vivywivy 1 year ago
@gotogta
I merely believe that everyone has a different way of dealing with the passing of a loved One, and there is absolutely nothing wrong, sharing this on you tube, the video is done very tasteful.
Ninnisworld2901 11 months ago
@gotogta My heart goes out to U and your family. But just kinda wondering what do you think your father would have thought about you posting this video? My father passed away Feb.2010 and my mom passed away in 1995 my whole family is gone. So I understand way to well the loss of a loved one. It hurts all the time, but the peace of course is knowing one day we will be with them again.
MegaELECTRICEYE 5 months ago
@MegaELECTRICEYE idk, you asked the wrong person. :)
gotogta 5 months ago
@gotogta Oh so sorry
MegaELECTRICEYE 5 months ago
@MegaELECTRICEYE Do you not realize that the Federal Government has a very similar site for the military men and women who participated in WW II yet have passed on? It is a Memorial which will live on for all family and friends to "gather" around from time to time and reflect on the life and times of someone whom they respected and loved. I stumbled across this without really realizing what it was. I was moved by the passion and compassion which this family held for their Father. God Bless them.
1955thekeeper 4 months ago
@gotogta See, he did it so the rest of his family could say goodbye.
I bet you'll think before asking a question like that again won't you :)
JurisArcane 1 month ago
@JurisArcane No, because asking questions is how you LEARN THINGS. Made you should think before posting a comment.
gotogta 1 month ago
@gotogta
Yeah but you weren't asking so that you could learn. You were being a self-righteous prick, voicing a nasty opinion in the "form" of a question. Which coincidentally, is why you probably don't learn much in life. Go ahead and argue with me, prove me right :)
JurisArcane 1 month ago
@JurisArcane Again, no. I wanted to know why they would put it on YouTube, how was I to know they had family somewhere else. There's no tone in the comment either, the only reason you made a comment, is because i probably offended you in some way. Maybe the owner of this video didn't take it that way. Calling me a righteous prick is stupid when your the one making an argument over a simple comment. Thank you for your concern, and feel free to comment back. Cause I know you will. :)
gotogta 1 month ago
@gotogta LoL@ "feel free to comment back". Do you know why people say that? 1.) They know the person is likely going to comment back, but somehow, because you predicted the inevitable, you're gonna look smart at the end of all this. 2.) You'd like to get out of the conversation by giving me the option of not replying, at the expense of letting you have the last word.
Here's a better question. Why would you, come and watch a video like this, then ask someone why they would upload it? :)
JurisArcane 1 month ago
@gotogta Oh, and if you'd like a simple answer to your question, I'll give it to you. They uploaded it, because it's Youtube. There are literally billions of videos of any subject matter you can think of on this network. Does it really surprise you that someone uploaded a funeral? Is this just the most "puzzling" and"outlandish" thing you've ever seen? Oh my, yes. You're just that curious aren't you. And no you didn't offend me. I just don't like critics who play dumb when confronted.
JurisArcane 1 month ago
May God bless you and your family. remember the happy times and evevrthing he taught you God makes no mistakes
by looking at the family theres alot of love
your dad is in a better place no more pain
your heart holds lots of love for him there for he will always be with you
our prayers a with u
A TEXAS FAMILY
ansbedford 1 year ago
iam very sorry for your loss
MrPsychicman 1 year ago
may he be in peace and watch over you my child ...
flipmode00 2 years ago
I just lost my dad tuesday he died young 49 and im 14
HXRGuitar 2 years ago
@HXRGuitar I am so sorry i know the feeling too god bless you
claudis1975 2 years ago
r.i.p i am sorry
cubanpimp727 2 years ago
im so sorry for your loss...youll meet him once again :)
SteelRainAssault 2 years ago 10
Very heart touching....I am in Mortuary College myself, and have been in the business for two years....i admire and appreciate how you showed the celebration of life aspect of this visitation...May God bless and keep your family through this troubled time
JPMauldenMusic 2 years ago 2
Sorrry for your loss. May he rest peacefully
Godismagnificent 2 years ago 2
Hope time has healed your heart some. Bless you.
Crowrocker71 2 years ago
so sorry for your loss
sweatbandz 2 years ago
my dad had cancer and there was rough times. The angels wanted to take him so many times. we wouldnt let them. im so deeply sorry for your loss. but they do say that god chooses his favourite angels.....XXX
resahbos 2 years ago
Beautiful and touching...so sad for your' loss. My little sis passed right before my eyes April 26th. I know that it is neccessary to be in a hospital's care and yet all the tubes and wires and stuff is just so undignified somehow. It becomes more of that and less of soul and love and family. We never left her side, someone was always there...looks like your' Father was much loved as well..bless you and yours'.
minxy123able 2 years ago
very touching
wiccamelissa 2 years ago
he looks really peaceful just think he in better place were noting can hurt him so so sorry 4 ya loss x x
reedermj02 2 years ago
now ,, this is sad
MrPichiyou 2 years ago
I'm sooooo srry!!
sportsguy3209 2 years ago
I am so sorry hun. : [ When my mom passed away, it nearly killed me. It was six years ago she died, but it still sometimes feels like she died yesterday. May he Rest In Peace.
bloodytearz22 3 years ago 2
Wow :( how sad. I am so sorry!!!!! May the Lord be with you and your family. My grandam just passed away in May and I try not to cry but its so hard, so I can imagine how you feel with this being your father.
Jrman52 3 years ago