You are gorgeous girl...luv your voice too...I could sit across from you and listen to you talk all night...a few glasses of wine or a few crown and diets and I'd be yours.
I want to hug you right now <3. I wish I had a trans friend irl. I'm not trans, but I would be supportive! btw, are you FTM or MTF? haha I feel stupid cause I can't tell...
You are one of the most interesting people that I've seen on You Tube. I missed your witchcraft videos. From what you've shared, you have a pretty remarkable life. Have you ever considered doing a book or a screenplay either directly on your experiences or a fiction piece based on them? Also you look so incredible dressed up, it's a pleasure to watch you. Are you a performance artist? You certainly have the persona for it. You have interesting opinions and conversation. Good subscription!
@markostner I'm a bit of a daily-life performance artist, but everyone is to a certain extent. I am, however, a director, actor and author, so hopefully I'll be able to publish some of the things that go on in my head. Thanks for the sub! :)
it's only accepted in thailand, don't do this in usa and europe, may be in brazil it's accepted too, but I will have the shame if someone discover that I love do that !
@Nvidia9700MGT Can you show me, in writing, where it is being said that the population of the USA and Europe-- in its entirety-- do not agree with transgendered individuals? That was an extremely far fetched statement if I've ever heard one.
Though, I do give you props if you were intending to sound like an ignorant douche-canoe.
lol Drunk people call me... I stop taking the video seriously at that point. No offense to the trans, it just made me laugh. XD Life is always obstacle, guy. Those who live their lives not experience hardships are the ones who can't say they ever lived to begin with. You can either let your hardships break you or you can let them make you. That is what truly set us apart as people. Its never my life was harder than yours, that is only a fool's excuse for letting his hardships break him.
Thank you I am a little older and very insecure still. my partner my les or genderqueer Gf are starting a family and my old self keeps rearing its ugly heád no matter dedicated I am to living my life as my true self. Thanks for the insperation. I really like you® style and self assurance.
@MrAppleby56 You have videos of you "fucking your cat" on your channel! What a scummy person you are! My Lord how can you judge anyone... you sick bastard
You seem very intelligent to me. Tranz ppl. are Smarter than the average person. That's pretty good! We get 2 puberties. get to be virgins twice. I love getting boobs at 46! Taking estrogen is Fucking awesome. I know who my real friends are! It's not all bad....but most of it is, I agree
All human souls are androgynous. To say "I am this" or "I am that" is to deny the totality of one's Self. All males contain some of the divine feminine principle within them, just as women do the divine masculine. The problem is that the people who control our society have promoted overly simplistic views of what men and women are supposed to be. People think they are transgender because they feel things that they're not "supposed to", but that is only because those models are too simple!
@planetery I agree that the gender binary is too narrow. HOWEVER. There are some people who truly feel that they can identify with the term "boy" or "girl", or feel that they should be in the body of the opposite sex. I am neither of these people. And it's not your job to invalidate my identity, especially if you know very little about the actual term.
@TheMetallicSharpie Ah, but you are making the ASSumption that i DON'T know! In fact, I DO know what it's like to identify with the opposite gender, but on my journey of awareness & understanding, I grew PAST it. It's like the Buddhist idea of Maya- that the physical world is full of illusions designed to trap your spiritual progress. Well all this gender duality BS is straight-up Maya. It's an illusion, nothing more. People don't need to mutilate their bodies for a mental issue..
@TheMetallicSharpie (continued) I'm posting to hopefully save people the pain & loss ALL the post-op trans folk i know have when they realize that it didn't solve a single one of their issues, that they STILL felt weird & out of place.. Namoli Brennett herself said that flat-out to me once.
As far as "invalidating someone's identity", that's crap- I'm invalidating false reality constructs, and the whole point is that this is NOT "who people are" it's something that they feel at this time..
you guys need to CALM YOUR TITS he likes his life and nothings gonna fuck change it aight? he has one life, let him live it the way he wants to... stop harrassing you cunt sucking trolls
@CxRax You have some serious issues, but it's not my job to fix them or validate you. You can either treat me like a human being or get the fuck off my channel.
@TheMetallicSharpie Why hate on people who try to remind you of reality? The REALITY is that transgenderism doesn't CHALLENGE traditional gender roles, it REINFORCES them by hewing to an artificially narrow gender binary model. Instead of mutilating your body to fit society's idea of what a man or woman is, why not EXPAND that outdated gender model? EVERY post-op TS I know says it was a mistake- that they feel EXACTLY the same now as they did before. Change your MIND, not your genitals..
@planetery Please, before becoming passionate on a topic, learn more about it. "Transgender" is an umbrella term for an entire spectrum of gender identities. There is no such thing as "transgenderism". You don't need to feel that you are in the wrong body to identify as transgender, or any of it's subcategories. People who do feel that they are in the wrong body are diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder, and go through HRT and surgery, as it's the only known solution.
@TheMetallicSharpie you're playing semantics. You're also too young to realize that these words have changed meaning repeatedly over time. But to say "There is no such thing as "transgenderism"" is stupid, and actually proves YOU don't know what you're talking about. Google the word and see what comes up. Go read the Wiki page.
Anyway, you just want to trash me so you can try to ignore what I've said & therefore not have to deal with the issues I raised..
@planetery Sorry, I'm still right here. The Wikipedia page for "transgenderism" directs you to the correct terminology. Did you actually try that or were you just bullshitting and hoping it would work? Perhaps I'm young, but I'm old enough to know that MY personal experience with gender may not be everyone else's. You seem to forget that you're not the only person with an identification. Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean other people have. I know a good couple of surgically (cont.)-
@TheMetallicSharpie First off, I told you to Google it first, and there are SEVERAL transgenderism group & page links. I just assumed Wiki would have it, but there's a LOT of things they don't list, so the redirect is meaningless. There was also a HIT on Wiki- en. wikipedia. org/wiki/ Transgenderism_(social_movement)
I didn't make any mistakes, because I evolved past it before ever trying to transition. But EVERYONE I know who DID calls it a mistake.
@planetery "You are making the ASSumption". Also, I know and understand how to use Google, which I did. Don't assume (see? no emphasis?) that I haven't bothered doing my research.
@TheMetallicSharpie Yeah, ASSumption. Haven't you ever heard the phrase "When you assume you make an "ass" out of "u" and "me""? It's a very common colloquialism in the United States and has been for decades. Referencing a colloquialism is NOT calling you an ass. The phrase itself means exactly what it says- WHEN YOU ASSUME, etc etc. If you don't make assumptions, you don;t look like an ass. Regardless, I did not "call (you) an ass." And if you Googled, why didn't you see the many results?
@planetery ...post-op trans people who are extremely happy with their decisions. I'll be the first one to tell you that the gender binary is wrong, but gender =/= biological sex. I love my body, and I'm lucky to be able to say that, but some people don't. There's a difference between making your personal perspective known and claiming that your experience is the "right" one. I never trashed you, you're the one who called me an ass. Don't take logical disagreements as an attack.
@TheMetallicSharpie How long have those people been transitioned for (and are they complete)? Besides, people can be happy in MANY different unhealthy conditions.
All I'm talking about is loving yourself- mind, soul, and (original) body. Gender dysphoria to the extent that people want to have radical surgery is a psychological disorder just like anorexia or anything else that causes people to see themselves with a skewed perspective. The only difference is that they don't try to cure it.
@planetery Eating disorders are mainly caused by societal pressure to "look like everyone should". People who are transsexual aren't intending to look like the ideal human, they're intending to be their ideal selves. Many transsexuals still act in a way that blends the gender lines- they're simply in the body they feel they should be. I'm not transsexual, so I can't describe the experience, but the people I know have been transitioned for as long as 15 yrs to 5 months. Each liked their results.
@TheMetallicSharpie "Eating disorders are mainly caused by societal pressure to "look like everyone should".
EXACTLY. And trans feelings are caused by societal pressures to think & behave in a certain predetermined gender-based format. Without the pressure to act a certain way, there's no prob. Are you REALLY not getting this? Some other cultures that don't HAVE trans folk because their gender models are realistic to start with, thus there is no need for dualistic thinking or internal schisms.
@TheMetallicSharpie Have you ever meditated before? Or maybe done yoga? Do you have any interest whatsoever in personal evolution (mental, emotional, spiritual, consciousness, etc)? If NOT, no wonder you're not getting it. If SO, then I'm telling you what lies further down the path.
Believe it or not, this IS actually fairly rare (in America these days, at least) & important information. But of course, our society values self-centered hedonism more than ultimate understanding, sooo...
@planetery Unless you're referring to the movement for trans* rights (which is categorized for the most part under the LGBT rights movement), "transgenderism" isn't a word.
: of, relating to, or being a person (as a transsexual or transvestite) who identifies with or expresses a gender identity that differs from the one which corresponds to the person's sex at birth
— trans·gen·der·ism noun
Yes, son, it IS a word. Anyway, stop arguing semantics when there is Real information that can be exchanged..
@planetery You've ruined your own argument. If words evolve, are we expected to use outdated definitions of them? Both that definition of "transgender" and it's vague reference to "transgenderism" are wrong, according to modern gender theory. I'm not arguing semantics, I'm arguing that you need to know which words mean what before you apply them to other people. I AM transgender. I am NOT transsexual.
@TheMetallicSharpie LOL AGAIN with the semantics argument! Why do you keep splitting hairs over this? It's IRRELEVANT to the topic I'm trying to impart!
Besides, Merriam-Webster says I'm right.. But some 17 year old kid knows better than the international arbiters of language meaning. Riiiiiiight. but that's "the thing" these days- come up with new words for the same shit and act like there's a difference..
@planetery Oh really! I have never meet one who thought it was a mistake! I wonder who you are and why your here on this page? Queer, closeted, abused as a kid?? I don't know>>> Nothing better to do? If I wasn't tranz I would anywhere else.
@pozzimystic Funny how you have to automatically insult any view which differs from your own- who's REALLY discriminating here?
I USED TO BE TRANS- then I grew out of it (just like most "trans" kids grow out of it eventually). Even Chris Crocker is a boy now.
And i'm here because the social controllers are pushing trans consciousness on gullible kids & now they are performing reassignments on MINORS- that's tantamount to child abuse. Maybe YOU don't CARE about child abuse, though..
I think that the world is full of bitter because they live appearing things that they aren't and i believe that they could be happy if they live as they really want to live... i mean they need to put away that mask
lol @ queers. can you get pussy? or are you just obsessed with dick? fucking homo's like you make me want to punch a pillow in the face. you are a disgrace to all men.
- in the begging God created the Remington rifle to kill all the dinosaurs and homosexuals <3
no don't go south in mississippi they get pissed if you can read quickly- im not fucking kidding....not to say everyone but smalltown mississippi- scary shit yo
I wish I could have more self confidence in myself. It hurts you know. It really fucking hurts finding out who "cared" for you. I'm trying my hardest, I know I can't give up, but there are times when I just want to break down and give up this shitty life in this shitty world.
Tremendous respect for you dude. I'm of an older generation, and I didn't have a fraction of your courage and poise when I was your age. you are a truly evolved person. good luck !
What matters is beauty. Especially beauty of the soul. I don't know about your soul cause it's the first video of yours that I'm watchng but you are definitely beautiful and handsome altogether!!
I hate living in the south. There's even natural segregation in our schools, even in the better places. Blacks hang with blacks/whites hang with whites. It's terrible and conservative and oh I just can't wait to move up north. -_-
if a transsexual ever tells you this is the easiest life thats bullshit... cusz every tranny can agree the scene is very hardd. the genderqueers too ... im a legit transsexual. andd i lovve how you include us trans girls cusz alot of genderqeers and gay guys DON'T include us when were from the same community and are BOTH a subculture/minority.
@kuntyfacedbitch I totally understand. There's a lot of separation in the LGBT community and I think it's so catty and so stupid. We're all basically in the same boat, just different names, we should all support each other and fight for each other. Even trans guys/trans girls ignore each other. It's horrible.
That was a really sweet video! You have a good perspective on things, and it was fun to hear your thoughts. I recently figured out that I was genderqueer and I've been watching more vlogs by similarly-identified people lately, but I was wondering - what does the asterisk added at the end of trans to make "trans*" mean? No clear definitions come up when I Google it, but I've seen the term used more and more lately and I'd like to know what it means exactly.
@beatingthebinary Happy you liked the video. :) The asterisk is meant to include people who aren't just transsexual. While many people in the trans* community realize that transgender is pretty inclusive, sometimes you've gotta specify. Usually, transman refers to a transsexual man, so to cut down on lettering, we use trans*.
So I'm wondering why there needs to be a gender neutral bathroom? Don't take this the wrong way but if you're trans aren't you already female and therefore can use the female bathroom? And then the other way around for ftm transgenders? Would the gender neutral bathroom be for transexuals or would they just be for people who felt like neither gender? If so, do you think some ftm transgenders or mtf transgenders would be weirded out by going to a bathroom with people of different genitalia?
@spilledinsanity I'm not female, or a girl, and I don't plan to be. I am a male-bodied genderqueer. So neither the male or female restroom is appropriate. And while many transsexual individuals use the bathroom that corresponds to their personal identification, many trans people, whether transsexual or not, are open minded and wouldn't mind using a bathroom with people of another biological or identified sex.
@spilledinsanity trans is a spectrum, so a lot of people don't feel like they're quite male or female. They might feel more feminine or masculine, but not necessarily like a complete girl or guy. It isn't just a topic for trans people, but for everyone who doesn't fit how a stereotypical male or female should look like. I'm not trans, but i happen to be a girl who looks a lot like a boy. So when i walk into the girls bathroom, i hold my breath hoping that there won't be a problem.
Sorry for my stupid question , but what that's means '' trans'' ? You just like/love to put the jewelry on you and make up , or you like boys ? i don't understand .. It's just for gay or..? I don't know and i want to understand :) Thank's
@0chaton Your English is fine! Trans is short for transgender, which includes people who are transsexual and feel they were born in the wrong body, or genderqueer people like me who just don't feel like a man or a woman. I'm fine with my body, but I'm not fine with the labels put on it.
@TheMetallicSharpie A word of caution: While many transsexual people do consider themselves transgender, there are also some TS people who object to being called TG. I've seen a bit of arguing about this in comments sections for articles on trans* issues. (I'm not TS myself. I usually think of myself as non-binary/genderqueer/genderfluid. Haven't quite decided on a single label.)
That said, I love this video and I think you are a lovely person. =)
I understand being offended/put off by the term since in your heart/soul you are a woman/girl not some place half way between, but then there are a lot of people who actually are "somewhere in between" and they have their own natures and their own allure as well.
I know the difference and recognize it, but as different at they are from each other, they are both potentially beautiful. As much as 2 different people can be equally beautiful and yet beautiful by different personal qualities.
Geeeeeeezzz... One could MELT into those eyes of yours!!!
Didn't say you "looked like a lesbian"...but then hey, I like GIRLY girls... I don't dig "razor-heads" [as I call them] nor "tomboys" or any of that....
I like cute cuddly adorable girls. And well, both I and my GF are 'open to' TS "shemales" kinda...[not to put too much into that...]
@vossua I mean, I'm not even bothered. I do look like a lesbian sometimes. I like butch/femme girls. Actually, I like most types of girls.
Sidenote, a lot of trans women are offended by the term "shemale". They are women first, trans second. They're just as real women as the butch or femme girls.
You look SO ADORABLE! You look like a cross of some of my favorite lesbian ["Yuri"] anime characters from Strawberry Panic and K-ON and others all mixed up into one!
I could SO see you doing modeling!
Like I don't know if those are your real eyes or contacts, but they are like SO BIG its ADORABLE!!! [HUGEMONGOUS HUGZ]
"The more people are really genuine, the better things are."
So true! One of the best things I've experienced about being bigender isn't just that I can personally inspire others going through similar hardships, but that being open and helping others to be the same is, slowly but surely, breaking boundaries. Yes, there are still dangers, but the more that trans/genderqueer people are open and free and charismatic, the more people realize that people like us can be good people, too. ^_^
I'm not a gay or trans or anything, but you really inspire me to just be my crazy, freaky self. And I am rarely inspired. I love the way that you seem to embrace who you are, and I think your a great role model for young people regardless of their gender, straight, trans whatever. I think your so brave to put yourself out here on youtube and just be like fuck it, thats very admirable.
I so know what you're feeling! When I came out to my brother (who's a religious nut haha) He was in total disbelief. But in time, I've gotten him to feel very comfortable with the idea of me being Trans and have opened him up to my world to better his understanding of the LGBT community. It's such a great feeling to share it with others (especially those who would otherwise have nothing to do with us) and see their reactions.
You are gorgeous girl...luv your voice too...I could sit across from you and listen to you talk all night...a few glasses of wine or a few crown and diets and I'd be yours.
usrodeo5 1 day ago
O.O i love you <3
lilandaly 1 day ago
a sweater vest, really!
tha3Amegos 1 day ago
You're interesting , cool!
Alfontanas 4 days ago
sexy lips ;)
amanekuran999 6 days ago
so r u a girl or a boy? sry im really confused!
bintuae1 1 week ago
Your haircut is so cute! :D
mahoumashi 1 week ago
O.o your smile is sooooo damn pretty! OMG CAN I HUG YOU AND MAKE YOU LAUGH? Just to see you smile and or laugh?
TeamSupremexO 1 week ago
i wanna play with your hair..
intuneist 1 week ago
I want to hug you right now <3. I wish I had a trans friend irl. I'm not trans, but I would be supportive! btw, are you FTM or MTF? haha I feel stupid cause I can't tell...
lovelierlex 1 week ago
You're adorable. :)
benawisphoenix 1 week ago
being trans afeks me varly badly but im happy for you you have cool parents then i do im so happy for you lol
memnoch478 2 weeks ago
YAY! POKÉMON EMO!!!!!!!
thiago1246 2 weeks ago
@thiago1246 Yay, an idiot.
TalesoftheAbyssftw 2 weeks ago
@TalesoftheAbyssftw (POKÈMON EMO) = The best emos. >:(
thiago1246 1 week ago
Saw the thumbnail in suggestion bar and had to watch because you are too freakin cute. It's great you have your shit together, I wish I did...
FlashAshful 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from TheMetallicSharpie
I like your collar, it's a nice collar.
EdietheKitty 2 weeks ago
Like, you must (oh my God, pardon the expression) have so much shit together that you are now completely pooped. Way to go, babe!
pantyflash 2 weeks ago
can u say oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
georgepressblog 2 weeks ago
You're so pretty! Er handsome... er idk! But im attracted to you.. haha
tokyoluv97 2 weeks ago
How'd I get on here????? NO I DON'T ACCEPT YOUR LIFESTYLE AND NEVER WILL THATS WHY YOU DON'T GET WHAT YOU WANT. END OF STORY!
clittle10301 2 weeks ago
@clittle10301 Bitch alert....
tokyoluv97 2 weeks ago
You are one of the most interesting people that I've seen on You Tube. I missed your witchcraft videos. From what you've shared, you have a pretty remarkable life. Have you ever considered doing a book or a screenplay either directly on your experiences or a fiction piece based on them? Also you look so incredible dressed up, it's a pleasure to watch you. Are you a performance artist? You certainly have the persona for it. You have interesting opinions and conversation. Good subscription!
markostner 3 weeks ago 5
@markostner I'm a bit of a daily-life performance artist, but everyone is to a certain extent. I am, however, a director, actor and author, so hopefully I'll be able to publish some of the things that go on in my head. Thanks for the sub! :)
TheMetallicSharpie 3 weeks ago
it's only accepted in thailand, don't do this in usa and europe, may be in brazil it's accepted too, but I will have the shame if someone discover that I love do that !
Nvidia9700MGT 3 weeks ago
@Nvidia9700MGT I live in the US and this is how I look. :)
TheMetallicSharpie 3 weeks ago 9
@TheMetallicSharpie ok
Nvidia9700MGT 3 weeks ago
@Nvidia9700MGT You just made yourself look like a dumbass!!!!
MainMacnifficent 3 days ago
@MainMacnifficent xD
Nvidia9700MGT 3 days ago
@Nvidia9700MGT Why are you sending me this I just insulted you?
MainMacnifficent 3 days ago
@MainMacnifficent because you are retard
Nvidia9700MGT 3 days ago
@Nvidia9700MGT Ask yourself, was that an intelligent response?
MainMacnifficent 2 days ago
@MainMacnifficent fuck off man
Nvidia9700MGT 2 days ago
@Nvidia9700MGT Can you show me, in writing, where it is being said that the population of the USA and Europe-- in its entirety-- do not agree with transgendered individuals? That was an extremely far fetched statement if I've ever heard one.
Though, I do give you props if you were intending to sound like an ignorant douche-canoe.
OfWebsAndChocolates 23 hours ago
@OfWebsAndChocolates okay thank you for your rage and for your insults, have a nice day
Nvidia9700MGT 22 hours ago
i think everyone is intiteled to who they want to be.... i dont see why everyone is being an asshole..
PrettyLilRaveGyrl13 3 weeks ago
I really like that there are 184 likes and only 8 dislikes!!
sabakunomisa 3 weeks ago
well it seems that u are Edward scissorhands
hugec4 3 weeks ago
not experiencing*
sets us*
Typos out the ass bro! lol
Nice style you got going on there by the way.
ZombEnasin 3 weeks ago
always an*
ZombEnasin 3 weeks ago
lol Drunk people call me... I stop taking the video seriously at that point. No offense to the trans, it just made me laugh. XD Life is always obstacle, guy. Those who live their lives not experience hardships are the ones who can't say they ever lived to begin with. You can either let your hardships break you or you can let them make you. That is what truly set us apart as people. Its never my life was harder than yours, that is only a fool's excuse for letting his hardships break him.
ZombEnasin 3 weeks ago
You're absolutely GORGEOUS.
brassnuckleband 3 weeks ago
Oh my GOD, I love your style. Can, I like, marry you? :P
king1091 4 weeks ago
your Hot
AlexXBrenton 4 weeks ago
I love your voice. :3
AzerrEatsApplesauce 4 weeks ago 17
Thank you I am a little older and very insecure still. my partner my les or genderqueer Gf are starting a family and my old self keeps rearing its ugly heád no matter dedicated I am to living my life as my true self. Thanks for the insperation. I really like you® style and self assurance.
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masterplese 1 month ago
Just found you, and my god you're one of my favorite people on here! <3
SandPaperCookies 1 month ago
you're so pretty you kinda look like Anne Hathaway!
bytesize0801 1 month ago
you prob get this all the time but your sooo pretty ^0^
subakunoarien 1 month ago
You are pretty and I wish you well. Go girl!!!!
HClaypole 1 month ago in playlist new crossdessers 5
awesome outfit
YuriaTheWitch 1 month ago
Kawaii ^o^
SemoxZombieCore 1 month ago
@DarkSydeGeoff The very best thing about being Tranz>>> I don't have to be you! Thank God
pozzimystic 1 month ago
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This is all well and good but it doesn't change the fact that you will never be a real woman. Ever.
MrAppleby56 1 month ago
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@MrAppleby56 This is all well and good but it doesn't change the fact that you will always be a real Asshole. forever!
pozzimystic 1 month ago
@MrAppleby56 You have videos of you "fucking your cat" on your channel! What a scummy person you are! My Lord how can you judge anyone... you sick bastard
pozzimystic 1 month ago
@pozzimystic google Mr. Plinkett, prepare to fail, and then click search.
MrAppleby56 1 month ago
@MrAppleby56 That's all well and good, but it doesn't change the fact that you're always going to be a closed-minded asshole. Forever.
Sephpwnsyoutonoend 3 weeks ago
OMG! You are soooooooooooo cute.. xoxo
nishcuteable 1 month ago
Alice from twilight its you?
kbrod90210 1 month ago
You seem very intelligent to me. Tranz ppl. are Smarter than the average person. That's pretty good! We get 2 puberties. get to be virgins twice. I love getting boobs at 46! Taking estrogen is Fucking awesome. I know who my real friends are! It's not all bad....but most of it is, I agree
pozzimystic 1 month ago
u are so damn cute !
NishaMaataify 1 month ago
ur adorable!
MrPeterd92 1 month ago
from wich part of japan are u from!?
xXxYashirukunxXx 1 month ago
You're really beautiful.
ThePsychedelicLemon 1 month ago
leave the guy alone, is he hurting you? No
oh if you claim to be a str8 boy and your watching theses videos,
you are probably not as str8 as you think you are.. :)
TheMode121 1 month ago
You are so adorable ! Love your hair and makeup too. Keep making videos....love ryour channel. Hugs Bobbi
bobbindrag1 1 month ago
All human souls are androgynous. To say "I am this" or "I am that" is to deny the totality of one's Self. All males contain some of the divine feminine principle within them, just as women do the divine masculine. The problem is that the people who control our society have promoted overly simplistic views of what men and women are supposed to be. People think they are transgender because they feel things that they're not "supposed to", but that is only because those models are too simple!
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery I agree that the gender binary is too narrow. HOWEVER. There are some people who truly feel that they can identify with the term "boy" or "girl", or feel that they should be in the body of the opposite sex. I am neither of these people. And it's not your job to invalidate my identity, especially if you know very little about the actual term.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie Ah, but you are making the ASSumption that i DON'T know! In fact, I DO know what it's like to identify with the opposite gender, but on my journey of awareness & understanding, I grew PAST it. It's like the Buddhist idea of Maya- that the physical world is full of illusions designed to trap your spiritual progress. Well all this gender duality BS is straight-up Maya. It's an illusion, nothing more. People don't need to mutilate their bodies for a mental issue..
planetery 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie (continued) I'm posting to hopefully save people the pain & loss ALL the post-op trans folk i know have when they realize that it didn't solve a single one of their issues, that they STILL felt weird & out of place.. Namoli Brennett herself said that flat-out to me once.
As far as "invalidating someone's identity", that's crap- I'm invalidating false reality constructs, and the whole point is that this is NOT "who people are" it's something that they feel at this time..
planetery 1 month ago
ur relly cute ^.^
BulletToMyBMTH 1 month ago
ur relly cute ^^
BulletToMyBMTH 1 month ago
i like you better with dark hair
gaduie 1 month ago
you guys need to CALM YOUR TITS he likes his life and nothings gonna fuck change it aight? he has one life, let him live it the way he wants to... stop harrassing you cunt sucking trolls
fasunfru4evr 1 month ago 4
I think you need to keep looking for yourself..
markj15062 1 month ago
@CxRax There's only one difference between me and you, babe. I'm actually genuinely happy with my life. I hope that one day you can say the same.
TheMetallicSharpie 2 months ago 11
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pozzimystic 1 month ago
@CxRax You have some serious issues, but it's not my job to fix them or validate you. You can either treat me like a human being or get the fuck off my channel.
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@TheMetallicSharpie Why hate on people who try to remind you of reality? The REALITY is that transgenderism doesn't CHALLENGE traditional gender roles, it REINFORCES them by hewing to an artificially narrow gender binary model. Instead of mutilating your body to fit society's idea of what a man or woman is, why not EXPAND that outdated gender model? EVERY post-op TS I know says it was a mistake- that they feel EXACTLY the same now as they did before. Change your MIND, not your genitals..
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery Please, before becoming passionate on a topic, learn more about it. "Transgender" is an umbrella term for an entire spectrum of gender identities. There is no such thing as "transgenderism". You don't need to feel that you are in the wrong body to identify as transgender, or any of it's subcategories. People who do feel that they are in the wrong body are diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder, and go through HRT and surgery, as it's the only known solution.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie you're playing semantics. You're also too young to realize that these words have changed meaning repeatedly over time. But to say "There is no such thing as "transgenderism"" is stupid, and actually proves YOU don't know what you're talking about. Google the word and see what comes up. Go read the Wiki page.
Anyway, you just want to trash me so you can try to ignore what I've said & therefore not have to deal with the issues I raised..
You're cute, BTW. See? Not a hater.
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery Sorry, I'm still right here. The Wikipedia page for "transgenderism" directs you to the correct terminology. Did you actually try that or were you just bullshitting and hoping it would work? Perhaps I'm young, but I'm old enough to know that MY personal experience with gender may not be everyone else's. You seem to forget that you're not the only person with an identification. Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean other people have. I know a good couple of surgically (cont.)-
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie First off, I told you to Google it first, and there are SEVERAL transgenderism group & page links. I just assumed Wiki would have it, but there's a LOT of things they don't list, so the redirect is meaningless. There was also a HIT on Wiki- en. wikipedia. org/wiki/ Transgenderism_(social_movement)
I didn't make any mistakes, because I evolved past it before ever trying to transition. But EVERYONE I know who DID calls it a mistake.
And i don't think I called you an ass..
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery "You are making the ASSumption". Also, I know and understand how to use Google, which I did. Don't assume (see? no emphasis?) that I haven't bothered doing my research.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie Yeah, ASSumption. Haven't you ever heard the phrase "When you assume you make an "ass" out of "u" and "me""? It's a very common colloquialism in the United States and has been for decades. Referencing a colloquialism is NOT calling you an ass. The phrase itself means exactly what it says- WHEN YOU ASSUME, etc etc. If you don't make assumptions, you don;t look like an ass. Regardless, I did not "call (you) an ass." And if you Googled, why didn't you see the many results?
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery ...post-op trans people who are extremely happy with their decisions. I'll be the first one to tell you that the gender binary is wrong, but gender =/= biological sex. I love my body, and I'm lucky to be able to say that, but some people don't. There's a difference between making your personal perspective known and claiming that your experience is the "right" one. I never trashed you, you're the one who called me an ass. Don't take logical disagreements as an attack.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie How long have those people been transitioned for (and are they complete)? Besides, people can be happy in MANY different unhealthy conditions.
All I'm talking about is loving yourself- mind, soul, and (original) body. Gender dysphoria to the extent that people want to have radical surgery is a psychological disorder just like anorexia or anything else that causes people to see themselves with a skewed perspective. The only difference is that they don't try to cure it.
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery Eating disorders are mainly caused by societal pressure to "look like everyone should". People who are transsexual aren't intending to look like the ideal human, they're intending to be their ideal selves. Many transsexuals still act in a way that blends the gender lines- they're simply in the body they feel they should be. I'm not transsexual, so I can't describe the experience, but the people I know have been transitioned for as long as 15 yrs to 5 months. Each liked their results.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie "Eating disorders are mainly caused by societal pressure to "look like everyone should".
EXACTLY. And trans feelings are caused by societal pressures to think & behave in a certain predetermined gender-based format. Without the pressure to act a certain way, there's no prob. Are you REALLY not getting this? Some other cultures that don't HAVE trans folk because their gender models are realistic to start with, thus there is no need for dualistic thinking or internal schisms.
planetery 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie Have you ever meditated before? Or maybe done yoga? Do you have any interest whatsoever in personal evolution (mental, emotional, spiritual, consciousness, etc)? If NOT, no wonder you're not getting it. If SO, then I'm telling you what lies further down the path.
Believe it or not, this IS actually fairly rare (in America these days, at least) & important information. But of course, our society values self-centered hedonism more than ultimate understanding, sooo...
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery Unless you're referring to the movement for trans* rights (which is categorized for the most part under the LGBT rights movement), "transgenderism" isn't a word.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie From the Merriam-Webster Dictionary:
trans·gen·der adj \-ˈjen-dər\
Definition of TRANSGENDER
: of, relating to, or being a person (as a transsexual or transvestite) who identifies with or expresses a gender identity that differs from the one which corresponds to the person's sex at birth
— trans·gen·der·ism noun
Yes, son, it IS a word. Anyway, stop arguing semantics when there is Real information that can be exchanged..
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery You've ruined your own argument. If words evolve, are we expected to use outdated definitions of them? Both that definition of "transgender" and it's vague reference to "transgenderism" are wrong, according to modern gender theory. I'm not arguing semantics, I'm arguing that you need to know which words mean what before you apply them to other people. I AM transgender. I am NOT transsexual.
TheMetallicSharpie 1 month ago
@TheMetallicSharpie LOL AGAIN with the semantics argument! Why do you keep splitting hairs over this? It's IRRELEVANT to the topic I'm trying to impart!
Besides, Merriam-Webster says I'm right.. But some 17 year old kid knows better than the international arbiters of language meaning. Riiiiiiight. but that's "the thing" these days- come up with new words for the same shit and act like there's a difference..
planetery 1 month ago
@planetery Oh really! I have never meet one who thought it was a mistake! I wonder who you are and why your here on this page? Queer, closeted, abused as a kid?? I don't know>>> Nothing better to do? If I wasn't tranz I would anywhere else.
pozzimystic 1 month ago
@pozzimystic Funny how you have to automatically insult any view which differs from your own- who's REALLY discriminating here?
I USED TO BE TRANS- then I grew out of it (just like most "trans" kids grow out of it eventually). Even Chris Crocker is a boy now.
And i'm here because the social controllers are pushing trans consciousness on gullible kids & now they are performing reassignments on MINORS- that's tantamount to child abuse. Maybe YOU don't CARE about child abuse, though..
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TheIsisfive 3 weeks ago
I love your hair, I so wish mine looked like that. Its just all short and sucky for me lol
Undeadbeauty666 2 months ago
LOL I HAVE THAT SAME PANIC POSTER
Hissora 2 months ago
Just seeing the first two minutes of your video, I already feel like I know you. Thanks for posting videos, and You are inspireing me! :D
Fynntheamazingfish 2 months ago
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fatalytis 2 months ago
Love your hair
lalalalalalalalalajt 2 months ago
I'm so happy that there are people like you in this world :)
Arisedearest 2 months ago in playlist new crossdessers 5
I think that the world is full of bitter because they live appearing things that they aren't and i believe that they could be happy if they live as they really want to live... i mean they need to put away that mask
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why are androgeny boys the hotttest ones?
19772987391 2 months ago 2
Well, you should be who you are, and that's positive.
hulka99 2 months ago
You're an absolutely beautiful person. Thankyou for this video.
mrsethcorbin 2 months ago
I have to say its incredibly strange to hear your voice. Still, very refreshing to see for someone exploring this topic.
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vivalabaker 2 months ago
@vivalabaker Only a good queer knows their Mean Girls quotes. Good job outing yourself. Obvious troll is obvious <3
TheMetallicSharpie 2 months ago 60
@vivalabaker you're a fucking idiot
WalkingDead6six6 2 months ago
@vivalabaker spend less time hating and learn to spell hunny!
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no don't go south in mississippi they get pissed if you can read quickly- im not fucking kidding....not to say everyone but smalltown mississippi- scary shit yo
missXmarie0990 2 months ago
TRANSQUISITE!
shatros 2 months ago
"where gender identity and sexuality are concerned, i've got that shit together" ahahahahahaha
jizztastic 2 months ago
Thanks for this. Also: you are so cute. :)
souldelay 3 months ago
I wish I could have more self confidence in myself. It hurts you know. It really fucking hurts finding out who "cared" for you. I'm trying my hardest, I know I can't give up, but there are times when I just want to break down and give up this shitty life in this shitty world.
TediBearMassacre 3 months ago
Tremendous respect for you dude. I'm of an older generation, and I didn't have a fraction of your courage and poise when I was your age. you are a truly evolved person. good luck !
zengalileo 3 months ago
I love your hair ♥ *^_^*
mebrithiel 3 months ago
honestly before you started talking i thought you were just another girl :) live how you want :) oh and i like your lipstick colour :3
MissTynchhx 3 months ago
subbed thank u hun loved the vid kisses
kaylee932 3 months ago
the only thing i have against trans* is that THAT THEY'RE PRETTIER THEN ME xD AH!
freazeezy 3 months ago
What matters is beauty. Especially beauty of the soul. I don't know about your soul cause it's the first video of yours that I'm watchng but you are definitely beautiful and handsome altogether!!
Anagnostakou 4 months ago
your lips are beautiful! hehe
MallyBoo55 4 months ago
I hate living in the south. There's even natural segregation in our schools, even in the better places. Blacks hang with blacks/whites hang with whites. It's terrible and conservative and oh I just can't wait to move up north. -_-
TheSnowyice 5 months ago
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TheRealSmacker 5 months ago
I love your hair. o.o
TheHaloMasterCAP 5 months ago
if a transsexual ever tells you this is the easiest life thats bullshit... cusz every tranny can agree the scene is very hardd. the genderqueers too ... im a legit transsexual. andd i lovve how you include us trans girls cusz alot of genderqeers and gay guys DON'T include us when were from the same community and are BOTH a subculture/minority.
kuntyfacedbitch 6 months ago 10
@kuntyfacedbitch I totally understand. There's a lot of separation in the LGBT community and I think it's so catty and so stupid. We're all basically in the same boat, just different names, we should all support each other and fight for each other. Even trans guys/trans girls ignore each other. It's horrible.
TheMetallicSharpie 5 months ago 27
@TheMetallicSharpie I totally agree
whatsfordisert 1 month ago
i love how out-spoken you are. i defiantly want to be more like you.
PASSWORDISJOEY 6 months ago
hey! thanks for making these vids, i've been watching all the gay community vids and no one ever talks about being trans (or not too much)
eskimoplanecrash 8 months ago
Arrrrghghghhh I love your hair. I need to grow out my side-shave, stat!
krassieee 8 months ago 10
@krassieee :3 Thanks! And doooon't, I think undercuts are adorable. :D
TheMetallicSharpie 8 months ago 7
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raesevolelf 9 months ago
That was a really sweet video! You have a good perspective on things, and it was fun to hear your thoughts. I recently figured out that I was genderqueer and I've been watching more vlogs by similarly-identified people lately, but I was wondering - what does the asterisk added at the end of trans to make "trans*" mean? No clear definitions come up when I Google it, but I've seen the term used more and more lately and I'd like to know what it means exactly.
beatingthebinary 9 months ago
@beatingthebinary Happy you liked the video. :) The asterisk is meant to include people who aren't just transsexual. While many people in the trans* community realize that transgender is pretty inclusive, sometimes you've gotta specify. Usually, transman refers to a transsexual man, so to cut down on lettering, we use trans*.
TheMetallicSharpie 9 months ago
@TheMetallicSharpie Cool, that was what I was pretty much guessing it meant, but it's nice to finally have some more clarity on the point. Thanks!
beatingthebinary 9 months ago
@beatingthebinary Yup! I guessed the same thing but looked it up just to be sure.
TheMetallicSharpie 9 months ago
So I'm wondering why there needs to be a gender neutral bathroom? Don't take this the wrong way but if you're trans aren't you already female and therefore can use the female bathroom? And then the other way around for ftm transgenders? Would the gender neutral bathroom be for transexuals or would they just be for people who felt like neither gender? If so, do you think some ftm transgenders or mtf transgenders would be weirded out by going to a bathroom with people of different genitalia?
spilledinsanity 9 months ago
@spilledinsanity I'm not female, or a girl, and I don't plan to be. I am a male-bodied genderqueer. So neither the male or female restroom is appropriate. And while many transsexual individuals use the bathroom that corresponds to their personal identification, many trans people, whether transsexual or not, are open minded and wouldn't mind using a bathroom with people of another biological or identified sex.
TheMetallicSharpie 9 months ago 7
@spilledinsanity trans is a spectrum, so a lot of people don't feel like they're quite male or female. They might feel more feminine or masculine, but not necessarily like a complete girl or guy. It isn't just a topic for trans people, but for everyone who doesn't fit how a stereotypical male or female should look like. I'm not trans, but i happen to be a girl who looks a lot like a boy. So when i walk into the girls bathroom, i hold my breath hoping that there won't be a problem.
Mattly2 9 months ago
Anyway...You are sooooooooo beautiful :)
0chaton 9 months ago
Hello :)
Sorry for my stupid question , but what that's means '' trans'' ? You just like/love to put the jewelry on you and make up , or you like boys ? i don't understand .. It's just for gay or..? I don't know and i want to understand :) Thank's
( my english is bad so don't pay intention :p )
0chaton 9 months ago
@0chaton Your English is fine! Trans is short for transgender, which includes people who are transsexual and feel they were born in the wrong body, or genderqueer people like me who just don't feel like a man or a woman. I'm fine with my body, but I'm not fine with the labels put on it.
TheMetallicSharpie 9 months ago
@TheMetallicSharpie A word of caution: While many transsexual people do consider themselves transgender, there are also some TS people who object to being called TG. I've seen a bit of arguing about this in comments sections for articles on trans* issues. (I'm not TS myself. I usually think of myself as non-binary/genderqueer/genderfluid. Haven't quite decided on a single label.)
That said, I love this video and I think you are a lovely person. =)
NiccolaVonMask 8 months ago
you're hot :) and i love your look.
MiniKitty 9 months ago
...your hot. :)
MiniKitty 9 months ago
I understand being offended/put off by the term since in your heart/soul you are a woman/girl not some place half way between, but then there are a lot of people who actually are "somewhere in between" and they have their own natures and their own allure as well.
I know the difference and recognize it, but as different at they are from each other, they are both potentially beautiful. As much as 2 different people can be equally beautiful and yet beautiful by different personal qualities.
vossua 9 months ago
Geeeeeeezzz... One could MELT into those eyes of yours!!!
Didn't say you "looked like a lesbian"...but then hey, I like GIRLY girls... I don't dig "razor-heads" [as I call them] nor "tomboys" or any of that....
I like cute cuddly adorable girls. And well, both I and my GF are 'open to' TS "shemales" kinda...[not to put too much into that...]
vossua 9 months ago
@vossua I mean, I'm not even bothered. I do look like a lesbian sometimes. I like butch/femme girls. Actually, I like most types of girls.
Sidenote, a lot of trans women are offended by the term "shemale". They are women first, trans second. They're just as real women as the butch or femme girls.
TheMetallicSharpie 9 months ago
You look SO ADORABLE! You look like a cross of some of my favorite lesbian ["Yuri"] anime characters from Strawberry Panic and K-ON and others all mixed up into one!
I could SO see you doing modeling!
Like I don't know if those are your real eyes or contacts, but they are like SO BIG its ADORABLE!!! [HUGEMONGOUS HUGZ]
vossua 9 months ago
@vossua xDD Thanks! Good to know I look like a lesbian. :) And those are my real eyes. *hug!*
TheMetallicSharpie 9 months ago
ur cute <3
ALIFOUAD71 10 months ago
"The more people are really genuine, the better things are."
So true! One of the best things I've experienced about being bigender isn't just that I can personally inspire others going through similar hardships, but that being open and helping others to be the same is, slowly but surely, breaking boundaries. Yes, there are still dangers, but the more that trans/genderqueer people are open and free and charismatic, the more people realize that people like us can be good people, too. ^_^
Miyamashi 10 months ago
I'm not a gay or trans or anything, but you really inspire me to just be my crazy, freaky self. And I am rarely inspired. I love the way that you seem to embrace who you are, and I think your a great role model for young people regardless of their gender, straight, trans whatever. I think your so brave to put yourself out here on youtube and just be like fuck it, thats very admirable.
ClaireLovesWicca 11 months ago
i think your such a cutie love to date ya love your videos
ashleebabe 11 months ago
I so know what you're feeling! When I came out to my brother (who's a religious nut haha) He was in total disbelief. But in time, I've gotten him to feel very comfortable with the idea of me being Trans and have opened him up to my world to better his understanding of the LGBT community. It's such a great feeling to share it with others (especially those who would otherwise have nothing to do with us) and see their reactions.
ArmaDega 11 months ago
you look cuuuuute :3
kashbear 11 months ago
@jkfitpro Thanks so much. :3
TheMetallicSharpie 11 months ago