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  • this kid is locked in his head cuz of oxy...cnat move on that stuff (:

  • It's what these guys sing about and how they deliver it that makes them a great band.

  • Aaron Lewis is one of the best vocalist if not THE best. He is awesome...and for some reason..he always looks HIGH as fuck lol.

  • Yes...an UNCENSORED version. Thank you.

  • can't wait for october 12th (in Paris) !!!! >_<

  • This song is off the chain but good God people quit bitching about your little lives. My dads a motherfucker too but damn! I don't vent on a YouTube video lol

  • @MegaVamp88 sucks sorry

  • I gave up on my dad the day he walked out on me and my mom I take care of my self now cuz no one elts is

  • Theme song to my life

  • Music like this is a dying breed. Buy todays standards image comes before talent wetch is so incredibly fucking weak it is hard to put into words. Anyway staind is wecked

  • No matter what at some point in life everyone feels like this I'm 17 and I'm not going sometimes I do feel like this but this song just helps and really shows how I feel and all people who are saying all you whiny kids need to just stop and suck it up you have probably never felt like this so until you do you will NEVER understand

  • Good song

  • this songg makes me soo emotional ! i dont have the greatest father...he was never there for me when i needed a shoulder to cry on my mom was always there ! she understands why i have these dark feelings and why i scream at night crying out for my father ! im so glad i listened to this song

  • Just stop being soo fucking co-dependent and relying on mommy and daddy there not always gonna be there for you

  • Badass fucking song! Love it!!

  • as others have stated, not everyone that comments on this video is emo, some just had a bad childhood. so before passing judgement upon others, try judging yourself first. get to know people before calling them " faggots ".

  • Jesus Christ, all you stupid emo pussies need to grow up. Little bitches think you have it bad when your all a bunch of fucking faggots.

  • first of all emo people aint the only ones who comment I'm in the military and i can relate to this song so grow up a little....

  • Ily

  • @tonyhilderbrand i agree, but please don't make those people kill themselfs. that's all ;)

  • I see a lot of emo douchebags listen to this song and complain about there shitty parents all u guys go kill yourselfs ur a bunch of fucking whiners!!!! No sympathy for u faggots :))

  • i fucking love how my mom thinks everything is my god damn fault and it's my fault for her not sleeping and my little brother acting out. when she's the one who's telling me if i moved out she wouldn't care if she talked to me again. greatest part is i'm pregnant and she fucking yells at me and puts a whole bunch of uneeded stress on me and my daughter.

  • I took my ignorant douche bag of a father to the ground the other day. Great feeling. Peice of shit.

  • I have a bitch for a mom and a asshole for a dad and it sucks I can't wate till they die.

  • I know how u feel

  • anyone here ever fight with their old man?

    i remember getting in my dads face when i was younger, about 16...

    he grabbed me by the throat lifted me up, i couldn't breath. my head starting getting dizzy...

    3 months ago i decided to forsake our religion, i became something darker, the likes of which he had never seen. anywho, just thought i'd share a story from my life. thumbs up if you can relate. if not, well. you had a better father than i did.

  • lmao, i remember getting into it with my old man.

    he hasn't tried anything since.

    this song just reminded me of the incident

  • one of there best songs ever made by staind. relate in many ways..

    wish they would go back to their old ways..

  • huh, reminds me of my dad.... only alot nicer

  • @thedarkestsoul666 know how you feel....

  • Good song its ashame parents cant just talk to their own children, its sad,very good song.

  • This song is seriously such a release for me. My parents couldn't possibly understand what this song stirs inside me, every word is one of truth that I hang on. Amazing song.

  • Love the song btw!!!!!

  • Hey mom and dad, this is directed towards u. Can u hear my screams from my room, when my fingernails dig into my skin? Or do u ignore them? And let me make my decisions for once! And I'm fucked up cuz u r, but u don't wanna admit it like me! So yah, fuck u both! Fuck the world! x|

  • happp fathers day

  • I love this song

  • Notice how the people who don't like this song can't understand what it's about and why people listen to it people just don't understand

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  • just what I was looking for!

  • my opinion...I think its weird how teens complain that they don't get enough attention, but the reason is (at least for the teens I know) that their parents are busy with work to put clothes on their backs and a roof over their heads. Some teens complain because they don't have the things they want (ipod,new shoes) and others complain because their parents work too much and don't give them attention. It can't be both.

    Now if the parents are insulting the kids,they're not good parents.

  • Aye

  • Aye.

  • Aye

  • Say aye if you're black like me and love rock!!!!

  • great quality! thank you for uploading!

  • i so wanna hug that poor fucking kid. someone needs to hug him.

  • 1111 now!

  • Wow... I have never seen the video to this song before. This video, its just wow. I cant tell you how many times i have experienced the exact same scene as depicted in this video. wow, that's just powerful.

  • Gezzz....this is like me now.........my dad is like holdinh me back and I never talk to him or anything and I hide all my anger inside of me and bring out a fake smile around everyone

  • Love my Son... Everything my dad did wrong when I was a kid is like a token a kept in my pocket...I cash them in everytime I do better than he did...

  • Exactly how I felt when I was younger.. Still follows me, too..

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  • @sasukeAT Instead of singing, maybe you should just try talking to them.

    I know, Its a crazy concept but it just might work!

    BREAK THE CYCLE!

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  • @sasukeAT

    he meant stop whining... i can't tell if you're serious or just a troll. hey it's a great song though! 

  • @ddezie88 I don't troll, I don't feel that need to acquire attention like people who do that do, if my posts are viewed as whining then there's no point in them being there, they weren't meant to be whining, just to share my feelings with all the other people sharing their feelings and experiences on this song...

  • WHY ISN'T THIS VIDEO ON ITUNES

  • I wouldn't listen to these kids either if they were that damn mopy.

    The kids in the video need to stop whining!

  • @suffocate123 Go to hell this video describes how some people really feel and how hard it is to break out of oppression.

  • @wesleyk200024157 I'm sorry I don't have any sympathy for the "waah waahh nobody understands me" bullshit. Get over yourself and learn to deal with your problems like the rest of us. You are not special or a unique snowflake.

  • @suffocate123

    im sorry i cant understand your cold way of thinking...maybe you survived shit like these and now you think you are the greatest or something?everyone is different...

    should i lough now despite the fact that everything sux...and i dont talk about "emo" shit...

  • @suffocate123 every day i come home from school and i look at my parents and say hi and the most i get back from them is a confused blink almost as if they were wondering why i was talking to them. This has been going on since i was old enough to speak. I'm 16 now and they haven't changed a bit. It's not about kids' parents or others not understanding, it's about the parents that can just stare at you and not care the next day if you weren't there.

  • some of us dont know how to and music frees the emotional responses and feelings that we could have never said and music solves our problems

  • brilliant video. however i always laugh when i see the teen singing in the cafe and making it all awkward lool

  • @neeharavi he's singing along with the song & his parents don't hear him, but the rest of the kids somehow get a vib & start in on their parents, it's a pretty awesome video

  • just amazing quality, props bro :D oi and its not censored, awesomsauce

  • I sit here locked inside my head, remembering everything you've said, this silence gets us nowhere, gets us nowhere way too fast.

    This song reminds me of when I was in foster care, and the foster family that I was living with treated me like shit and I grew up troubled and fucked up. But here I am 24 years old, and I vow...If I ever have kids....I'll NEVER treat them that way.....EVER!

  • im the same way and im 23 but my dad just like that and my mom

  • The father looks like Kid Rock

  • @0010672 mabey I would but then again mabey it would'nt effect me much he's not really home at all now and I never miss him I actually like it better when hes not around

  • @FullmetalAlchemist78 I was in that exact situation. My father died 2 months ago. I don't miss him. He left my mother and was gone for 15 years of my life, and when he did move back in, he was out with his friends most of the time. he was an asshole, the only sad thing was that none of his sons missed him when he died. And get this, he left all his money to his favorite child on the side. So with my mom and my bros. in school, we have to sell the only thing he left for us, our house.

  • @InternetLawman I'm sorry your father did that to you I bet he realizes what a piece of shit he was and now theres nothing he can do to fix it

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  • Shit, if only i could get my dad to listen to this song

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  • we've all felt this way with our parents. we always will even when we are adults. i love this song. thumbs up all the way.

  • i just got chills at 0:00 - 3:40

  • I cant wait to be 18 or 19 to get out of this house! this son says why.

  • Having grown up with an asshole for a father, this song brings back memories. Having a child myself now, it reminds me to be open and "really listen" to what he has to say.

  • @CptChaos2010 my dad is an asshole and everyone keeps trying to tell me that I should be glad that I have a father and they dont get that I hate him and could care less if he was dead

  • good song, but kind of cheesy

  • I like how they don't scream like linkin park.

    not saying likin park was a bad band though

  • I relate to this amazingly... much. :[ Amazing song <3 I love Staind and this album. Especially this song!

  • very goodsong and i can relate oh so fucking much ima do a cover of this song soon if u guys want to hear it tell me

  • @thetoxicscream  sure

  • i love this song and lately ive been coming out of my shell more and more and im 18 now but i still feel this way about my parents, within a few weeks i might do a cover to this song so if you want to see it let me know =)

  • love this song. some of yall need a psychiatrist tho.

  • @zachariahelston amen brother

  • I feel this song so close to me...Staind are so good to write down in words what people feel!

  • Is it wrong for parents to raise a child halfheartedly? I mean, they still clothe us and make sacrifices, so should we accept their sacrifices as their way of showing love? Should we care that they don't really know us and call us names knowing of their sacrifices? I mean, they don't have to stay with us and keep us.

  • @InternetLawman

    Actually, they do. Unless they want to be charged with child neglect.

    Oh yeah! As long as a feed you, and cloth you.. Can I make you my slave, and beat the shit out of you(Verbally or Physically) when I have a bad day??? REALLY! Well come on over! I'd *love* to abuse you!

  • You sound obsessed. Just because you didn't get to talk to a pretty girl you're homicidal? That's ridiculous.

  • I kinda agree. look, dude, seriously, you have major problems. get help. the missed opportunity is obviously a mask for something deeper and darker.

  • Hey, guys, we kinda need to move on. I mean, I kinda feel your pain. I had this massive crush on a beautiful woman for 3 years and before I finally had the chance to talk to her at my Junior year my parents divorced and I was forced to relocate. Now, 2 years later, I'm back in my hometown and she is gone. It tears me up everytime. Just looking at her pictures on Facebook make me very homicidal. I fucking hate my life. Her name was Claire. But I'm still alive and I'm still breathing.

  • YEAH THE UNCENSORED VERSION!!!

  • Sometimes actually most of the time, Kids deem their parents unfair, but their parents are actually building a structure for their kids, it's mostly females, and their parents are ruling justly, like don't be a whore, don't smoke cigarettes, don't do drugs and so forth, what I'm saying is that kids are generally stupid, I'm not saying I approve of strict parenting, kids need room, but kids are just as wrong as their parents in some cases.

  • Tho I do respect the point u are intending to make, I personally dont feel as tho this song is spewing the emotions of a child who feels their parents to be strict, but more so that of a child who feels overlooked, shunned, & emotionally disregarded by their parents. The development of a child's mental & emotional state is indeed a process, but in no way should they be deemed as "generally stupid". IMO, that idea alone is much of what continues to disconnect parent/child relationships. It's sad.

  • It all depends. Yes sometimes this is true where what is done is training for life frome good parents. In many cases including my own this song and video is the truth. How many softball practices and games for my step dad did I have to9 go to board to tears or how often did my parents buy nice jackets for thier bowling club but could not bither to have my eyes checked and until 10th grade did I get them checked y the school despite my real dad the whole time sending money for child support

  • Cont...or threw away my dads letters and i thought he just hated me. The one time he showed up from a thousand miles away my parents let him visit for about 30 minutes before making him leave so they could do thier thier bowling league while we stayed at home unable to see my dad.

    Of course when al was for them, out of all the races I ran in cross country and track which is about 20-25 a year between the two-my mom came to my last track meet.

  • Be the same to my kids but be involved, teaching, mentoring, grounding, teaching discipline, values and principles for life besides making sure they get the best education whether sending to a private school and making sure they learn, i.e. checking homework. Every generation devolves more-yes there are great parents out there but becoming less with every generation.

  • I mostly agree with your point, I have a similar situation, I live with my dad and see my mom for one day every year. I may only be fourteen, and my insight may not mean much, but my father raised me by himself from 19 to his 33 right now. He is one of those great parents. I feel lucky to have him because like you said, the great parents are becoming less common as time rolls on. I have a sister Ive never met, she got put up for adoption, and a brother ive never seen, I can only hope that they

  • cont- are as lucky as I am to have a dad or parent that really is one of those good caretakers. Like you did, I run cross country and track, also golf, and i havent seen dad come to one, but I still like to think that he woul like to come. He has always been there for me and given me advice, making me keep up my school work. I never went to any private school but im almost in an advanced english/writing class, and I strive to be a writer. Dad is with me all the way, even reading my stupid

  • stories that I come up with. =] He gave me a guitar and I learned to play, and 'Zoe Jane' by staind was the first song I learned because it ment so much to me. But I have a stepmom. She is a different story. She's lived with me for ten years now, and every day I literealy get 8 words from her. When I speak she acts as if I have no clue what I ever talk about, and Im not worthy of her time. If Im ever happy, its as if she thinks of it as her duty to whip me back into pessimistic states.

  • @NotoriousMKC

    dude the song is talking about about parents who dont give a damn what their kids say and try to control them or fuck them up

  • yea money has nothing to do with listening to your kids im a parent and a someones son and i know what it feel's like to not be listened to

  • ...this is a really good song reminds me of when im at home and have to listen to my mom....oh well as soon as i can ill leave

  • its funny rich kids and emo just need to stfu ok well mostly rich kids need to shut the fuck up u dont ever have to worry about ur mommy n daddy they get u everything that u want in life cause they r tired of ur bitching emo kids who the hell knows whats wrong with u u distant ur self from ur parents. we are the avg joes who some of our parents just dont care about us staind didnt write this song for neither of these 2 groups of kids

  • u can be rich and your parents don't love you, just cause they throw money at their kids doesn't mean they love them same for emo boy/girls they're just dis-functional we all are but thank god we have music like this too drown our sorrows in.

  • @Thegreatjoker13 holy shit man think you hit the nail right on the head!

  • Love it, great artist with awesome meaningful lyrics.

  • awesome song

  • Wow the part around 2:20 gives me the shivers.

  • lol me too!

  • what? the fat chick? lol :D

  • That was good...:)

    No, I meant the music.;)

  • Explains it perfectly how I felt when I was that age...now I see it in my own daughters...so much damage done so early at the hands of their dad...scary as hell.

    To all parents who never "got" it when your kids were this age, LISTEN and BE THERE. I tell my own kids that I've felt just that way. They don't get it now but they will. Sometimes I still feel locked inside my head.

    Album title couldn't have been more appropriate, "Break the cycle". I intend on doing just that.

  • wow...im not a parent yet but i felt thet same way to as a teen...good luck to you.

  • @whitediamonds72 Just from seeing you, as a parent, writing this, gives me hope that my parents can get it into theyre head, Worse thing about it is that most of them don't realise they're doing it, Staind are such an inspiration to me, in my work and in my life x

  • @whitediamonds72 Just don't keep treating them like shit all the time and tell them you love them and actually listen to them when they try to tell you about their problems. As a matter of fact, ask them if they're anything wrong. It's more important to care unconditionally rather than to only care when asked.

  • @whitediamonds72 fuck up

  • @whitediamonds72 Good Luck with that. Just the fact of you say that, it's a start. We shouldn't forget our past,to not make the same old mistakes that we've been through. (:

  • @whitediamonds72 Finally someone with something meaningful to post on a Staind video. You really do get the big picture, man. I wish only the best for you and your daughters.

  • @ChimChimandChimaira Thank you very much!

  • ha that guy with the walkman was so me in grade skool just put on my headphones and zone out the bad

  • this song suits me my parent never listen to me they treat me like an alley dog and when im yelling at them they just think its the radio and no their not old

  • mine are the same way.:(

  • heh welcome to my world brotha

    we should make vids talking about randome things and sending them to each other : )

  • ok.:)

  • Totally...I love this song...even when i cry...

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  • i can make a great backup singer

  • ;) nice

  • the main character in this vid is my 3rd cousin! completely true!

  • im sorry, but i have to say thats complete bs

  • My buddy jeff sang this song and won a contest, rock the fuck on staind

  • im fucked up...big time

  • This shit is so hot

  • I get to see these guys sometime this week. Fuckin psyched.

  • :[] awesome! i love staind's drummer! he has cool beats and i like his fills :D whats his name?

  • Jon Wysocki, He is awesome!

  • this is my shit! well every song is staind i wanna say thank you 2 you guys aaron lewis saved my life you make me think in a way i never would of. there is a song 4 every mood im in and im thankful 4 you guys 2 give every1 around the world 4 your music thank you oh yea please come 2 georgia to do a concert 4 my birthday that would be the best b day ever! and also put in there that you guys are the king of rock the rock band ever!

  • One of my favorite bands back in the days, still remember this song from "break the cycle" album, amazing vocals... I do love this song.

  • WOW!

    This one isn't censored, nice job.

    Uncensored music videos are a rarity nowadays. I turn on the music channel, listened to Disturbed down with the sickness, and it edits out around 87% of the lyrics XD

  • The censored rap ones are funny. :P

  • wow i didnt know that was possible lol

  • where do you get these videos

  • pissed and this is going to help me beat so god damn asses. Damn, my brother is in jail coz his x old lady got his ass for some god damn bull shit. Oh who gives a fuck if i say god damn so much. I'm going to kill some mother fuckers to night.

  • u should, would make u look cool.

  • not really coz right now i'm wanted for messing up their cars so if it was gone it was ours and my car system could go in it so i'm keeping on the down low but i still drive but they haven't came over to my house coz my dog will kill them.He hates cops or what they ware i really don't know what it is about them he just hate them and anyone he doesn't know or he smells the fear from them.

  • lol 3:17

  • whats so fucking funny.

  • ? Calm down man.

    I didn't do anything to you.. you just need to chill out.

    And I said that because of the look on his face at that time..

  • my bad i'm just pissed the hell off.

  • Why's that?

  • long stroy short my soon to be ex sister in law being and fucking bitch.

  • I see. Well hopefully things get better, just take it easy for a while. Listen to loud music. Haha

  • its to late, the law has been her already coz this computer/home surroundsound system i have made over the years. but i will keep listening to my loud ass music untill nexted thrusday when it should be over with.

  • Ah that sucks.

    But I guess nothing you can do about it.

    That's life. haha

  • that is SHIT..... how many rappers makes call em " ghettos slums" or so, and at the end they are all just a bunch of speudo-zootribes.... no soul or nothing jus " BITCH, MONEY and CAR" and should not forget the " BLING BLING", plus, every band, even if the are emo scum, or wutever, just playing one instrument worth em to be called a " band". at least they took the time to learn a chord and play it on a guitar!

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  • one of my favorite bands

    There lyrics are like something I've wanted to express but never knew how to. ITs amazing how much I can relate to them.

  • Emo girls like you make me hate society, so sucks :)

  • i hate dam preppy girls they all think there better than emo girl me

    and they talk crap

  • if you say your "emo"

    your not

    and go ahead and respond

    fuck you faggot

    idgaf

    if yyou were this hardcore emo chick

    you wouldnt listen to staind

  • The silence is what kills me....

  • awesome music

  • Fucking Right!

    I'm sick of listening Rap and HH.