@TheLizzieisawsome no way! its def not a bad thing! Ur a person who doesnt like to hurt others, n thats a wonderful trait to have n its silly for ur friends to get annoyed cuz id bet money ur not doin it to b annoyin. I will say that u should start lookin deeper into whether somethin really constitutes an apology or not. believe me i had that problem myself so i kno thas easier said than done but it'll help u feel alot better cuz u kno that u havent done somethin wrong every 5 seconds (which
im pretty sure u havent) plus ur friends will see the sorrys u DO need to say as more sincere cuz its not jus a word that u shot out outta habit but it's somethin sincere that u realized needed to b said. n that'll make ur friends AND u more happy n at peace
You aren't too clever are you? To your first point, the classic response is "wow, do ya think?" And to your second point, after making a remark about how limited your foul and disrespectful vocabulary is, do you really think anyone goes around doing what you suggest? Do you really think anyone says to themselves, "wow, I can wrong anyone in any way I like, because I can just say 'sorry' and everything will be fine." Newsflash: Not likely.
@Omanaji No, Hon. "I'm Sorry" means "I did something I regret and I will do my best never to do it again". That is the true translation of "I'm Sorry." It DOESN'T mean, "I'll just say a couple of words and I get to be stupid all over again!"
What is the hardest is when you have asked for forgiveness and he refuses to forgive you. He piles is back on you. "Remember 15 year ago when..."! Ummmm....I asked for forgiveness for that 15 years ago, too. What happened to that?
i say sorry so often...even when i'm in a club, and dancing, and a guy or girl even pushes/nudges me, i say sorry. Natural instinct for me...but then again that's the type of guy i am. Always apologising never really treated right. That the con to Mark's theory.
@totallydubbed: Try apologizing only when you've actually done something wrong, or "excuse me" in the place of "sorry"...two different meanings entirely. Mark's speeches are more toward relationships than tying to find one. Suited more to us that have grown too comfortable and need reminders. Bumping into strangers isn't the setting, but rather not doing laundry or moving my tools...ya know? Good luck though! They're out there, but maybe not under that same rock.
Who does this guy think he is to preach? Even though what he says is sometimes funny, sometimes wise...I don't like people using their humor to manipulate people, to make them stick to a religion! Come on, can succesful strand up comedians give advice as if the were priests?
I thinl it is a good think thing being a minister and having a sense of humor. I just don't like the power they get out of it. And the money..
@estcemafauteamoi The person only has such kind of "power" because you listen. And at the end, people would listen simply to anyone. If you don't enjoy that, simply dont listen to it... people have free will and they can decide by themselves if what they listen is good or not, so let the guy give whatever advice he wants, its an advice not an order!
what you wrote was a "splash" in my face, i dont realy know how to call it.. that is very true, thank tyou for reminding (many of who read it) congrats. i dont really know why i got so moved by that.. bows anyway
Yes, more people need to say they are sorry and stop making excuses. We lie about our intentions in order to avoid admitting wrongdoing. Say you're sorry! People need to hear it and being truthful with others brings you closer together. We need to be honest about our mistakes and admit to our shortcomings. We all have them, and admitting to them is a chance to grow as a person and grow closer together with the one you love.
My parents never say there sorry, well aside from my mother I only hear her say shes sorry at least once or three times a year. Dad on the other hand. Has never said he was sorry to me anyhow as long as ive been in his house for the last 17 years. It's frustrating because he's just one of those people that in there mind set, there always right and never wrong, just never wrong. I proved him wrong a few times.. and that was a bad idea. he got.. very mad, and could not accept that he was wrong.
Wow great video! And absolutely true. There is nothing wrong with being honestly sorry for those little and sometimes big foul ups that happen. And even better than feeling truly sorry is to say you are sorry to the person that you erred against. And still better yet is to accept an apology and forgive.
I appologize... but what do I do when the significant other doesn't accept any appologies? Never ever? As they are "only words"?
kenninast 7 months ago
This is the foundation to my mum's arguement...
Kostralia 7 months ago
Thumbs up if you are thinking abt someone whom u need to say sorry!
devyours11 7 months ago
all cool, nice content, but i hate the ad at the end.
peavelSD 9 months ago
you know im the type ofperson who says im sorry WAY too much...(my friends tell me its annoying) is isbad that i say im sorrytoo much???
TheLizzieisawsome 10 months ago 2
@TheLizzieisawsome no way! its def not a bad thing! Ur a person who doesnt like to hurt others, n thats a wonderful trait to have n its silly for ur friends to get annoyed cuz id bet money ur not doin it to b annoyin. I will say that u should start lookin deeper into whether somethin really constitutes an apology or not. believe me i had that problem myself so i kno thas easier said than done but it'll help u feel alot better cuz u kno that u havent done somethin wrong every 5 seconds (which
GodsMafiiaMan 9 months ago
im pretty sure u havent) plus ur friends will see the sorrys u DO need to say as more sincere cuz its not jus a word that u shot out outta habit but it's somethin sincere that u realized needed to b said. n that'll make ur friends AND u more happy n at peace
GodsMafiiaMan 9 months ago
you so smart , wish you are Muslim , u gotta read the holy Quran some tyms , u'll explore much ideas and learn more and more !!
bad2dboneTJ 10 months ago
i have never said sorry in my life, i make mistakes but i just dont like the meaning of that word and i dont think people deserve to hear it.
TheHiddenAnswer 11 months ago
@TheHiddenAnswer depends if u care about that person, if u care enough, then u will be afraid that they wont accept your apology.
good luck,
mjoraid 9 months ago
I say sorry a lot of times.
For me,
The hardest words are: "I love you"
And that, is a problem as well.
I say I like people.
I say I think about people all the time.
But when they ask: "So, you love me?"
My answer is "No. I didn't say I love you, I said I can't stop thinking about you"
justjongkees 11 months ago
I hate this guy just because of this video. And I'm not sorry at all.
MrWrof 1 year ago
"m sorry"...
maybe its better not to do something which makes u say "m sorry"
otherwise one can keep being an asshole knowing that "m sorry" will help?
Omanaji 1 year ago 2
@Omanaji
You aren't too clever are you? To your first point, the classic response is "wow, do ya think?" And to your second point, after making a remark about how limited your foul and disrespectful vocabulary is, do you really think anyone goes around doing what you suggest? Do you really think anyone says to themselves, "wow, I can wrong anyone in any way I like, because I can just say 'sorry' and everything will be fine." Newsflash: Not likely.
357MagnumBob 11 months ago
@357MagnumBob
didnt have sex for long? keep ur agression somewhere deep in ur ass :)
Omanaji 11 months ago
@Omanaji No, Hon. "I'm Sorry" means "I did something I regret and I will do my best never to do it again". That is the true translation of "I'm Sorry." It DOESN'T mean, "I'll just say a couple of words and I get to be stupid all over again!"
TheFaithfulsongbird 10 months ago
What is the hardest is when you have asked for forgiveness and he refuses to forgive you. He piles is back on you. "Remember 15 year ago when..."! Ummmm....I asked for forgiveness for that 15 years ago, too. What happened to that?
TheFaithfulsongbird 1 year ago
Come to LA,please.
artak03 1 year ago
i say sorry so often...even when i'm in a club, and dancing, and a guy or girl even pushes/nudges me, i say sorry. Natural instinct for me...but then again that's the type of guy i am. Always apologising never really treated right. That the con to Mark's theory.
totallydubbed 1 year ago
@totallydubbed: Try apologizing only when you've actually done something wrong, or "excuse me" in the place of "sorry"...two different meanings entirely. Mark's speeches are more toward relationships than tying to find one. Suited more to us that have grown too comfortable and need reminders. Bumping into strangers isn't the setting, but rather not doing laundry or moving my tools...ya know? Good luck though! They're out there, but maybe not under that same rock.
Chumly409 1 year ago
@Chumly409 thanks :)
totallydubbed 1 year ago
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greetings from egypt....100%right...it is painful that many hurts close people without even seeing that they r worng regardless saying sorry...
flashekom 1 year ago
greetings from egypt....100%right...it is painful that many hurts close people without even seeing that they r worng regardless saying sorry...
flashekom 1 year ago
IT'S NOT HARD TO SAY AM SORRY AS IT IS TO REALLY FEEL SORRY AND TO DECIDE NOT TO DO IT AGAIN
mira8pe 1 year ago
great guy! :)) Greetings from Poland! :)
MargueriteY2k 1 year ago
great guy! :))
MargueriteY2k 1 year ago
Who does this guy think he is to preach? Even though what he says is sometimes funny, sometimes wise...I don't like people using their humor to manipulate people, to make them stick to a religion! Come on, can succesful strand up comedians give advice as if the were priests?
I thinl it is a good think thing being a minister and having a sense of humor. I just don't like the power they get out of it. And the money..
estcemafauteamoi 1 year ago
@estcemafauteamoi The person only has such kind of "power" because you listen. And at the end, people would listen simply to anyone. If you don't enjoy that, simply dont listen to it... people have free will and they can decide by themselves if what they listen is good or not, so let the guy give whatever advice he wants, its an advice not an order!
williankc 1 year ago
@williankc
what you wrote was a "splash" in my face, i dont realy know how to call it.. that is very true, thank tyou for reminding (many of who read it) congrats. i dont really know why i got so moved by that.. bows anyway
MrMartamleko 11 months ago
Jerry M Watkins Hello. Everyone. 08/14/10 6:32 AM
I want all married people to read this and listion to this video on how can I have a better marrige.
Well for onething to have a better marrige is to say I am sorry. That's it just say I am sorry to earch other
Yes because we all have don wrong who hasen't if you never don something wrong stand up writ
watkins49ok 1 year ago
I just wondering, if I learned earlier, than possibly I would not must to learn say goodbye
ritatoth70 1 year ago
Yes, more people need to say they are sorry and stop making excuses. We lie about our intentions in order to avoid admitting wrongdoing. Say you're sorry! People need to hear it and being truthful with others brings you closer together. We need to be honest about our mistakes and admit to our shortcomings. We all have them, and admitting to them is a chance to grow as a person and grow closer together with the one you love.
azgirl777 1 year ago
Everybody needs a reset Button.
MultiShocker 1 year ago
I am so learning this precious lesson - thank you for this great video.
ceruleana1 1 year ago
My parents never say there sorry, well aside from my mother I only hear her say shes sorry at least once or three times a year. Dad on the other hand. Has never said he was sorry to me anyhow as long as ive been in his house for the last 17 years. It's frustrating because he's just one of those people that in there mind set, there always right and never wrong, just never wrong. I proved him wrong a few times.. and that was a bad idea. he got.. very mad, and could not accept that he was wrong.
wolfpain777 1 year ago
@wolfpain777 - I'd would guess that you've probably never said you were wrong to your father ever too ;-)
CarMoves 1 year ago
but if u say it too much will not fix the problem finally.....
christofer128 2 years ago
question is till reset button does its purpose?
ivanaklaric 2 years ago
Thanks for the input Mark.
I dont know what "god" has to do with this, but thanks for sharing.
henrikj43 2 years ago
he's a pastor and a religious man
eurokab 2 years ago
Forgiveness is the greatest gift from GOD. GOD BLESS YOU MARK GUNGOR. Thanks for telling the truth and making people laugh.
Americanjazzlady 2 years ago
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you dont have to say sorry
streaker669 2 years ago
Great!
Vkemme 2 years ago 12
This is the only way they can move on together. :)
NiqueJB 2 years ago 2
Wow great video! And absolutely true. There is nothing wrong with being honestly sorry for those little and sometimes big foul ups that happen. And even better than feeling truly sorry is to say you are sorry to the person that you erred against. And still better yet is to accept an apology and forgive.
Chevrobert 2 years ago 30